Casually Explained: The Fear of Missing Out

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  • @joeofcourse
    @joeofcourse Před 5 lety +45982

    So sick of this guy always bragging about having 3 friends.

  • @broadybroadhurst5950
    @broadybroadhurst5950 Před 4 lety +14819

    Wasn't gonna watch this video, but I didn't wanna miss out.

    • @trowwzers5057
      @trowwzers5057 Před 4 lety +29

      Broady Broadhurst but you missed out on pretty cool words. If you watched the video, it wasn’t very important

    • @brianmessemer2973
      @brianmessemer2973 Před 4 lety +18

      Meta comment 😂

    • @Someone-sq8im
      @Someone-sq8im Před 4 lety +1

      🤔

    • @DogeFrom2014
      @DogeFrom2014 Před 4 lety +2

      Lmao so meta, because it's true 🤣🤣

    • @KS-tl4hk
      @KS-tl4hk Před 3 lety

      Bastard you got me

  • @-Johake-
    @-Johake- Před 4 lety +6906

    “So, basically you’re able to stop cool things from happening by being there?” I felt that 😩

    • @mwdw9126
      @mwdw9126 Před 4 lety +19

      Me Too

    • @dawn7422
      @dawn7422 Před 4 lety +23

      YES it feel like that

    • @-Johake-
      @-Johake- Před 3 lety +21

      Michael Skinner Such confidence! Could you spare me some?

    • @-Johake-
      @-Johake- Před 3 lety

      Michael Skinner I felt that 😢

    • @jishnujetwani538
      @jishnujetwani538 Před 3 lety +13

      You’re the blitz

  • @betamax1828
    @betamax1828 Před 3 lety +3322

    The fear of missing out starts in highschool because everytime you were off for a day or out for a while youve missed 3 fights, half the faculty having a mental breakdown and a fire in the science lab

    • @RGC_animation
      @RGC_animation Před 2 lety +118

      That is actually true, the ONE time I was absent at school was the day one of my classmate found a praying mantis in the school yard (praying mantis are very rare to find).

    • @orangejuice8881
      @orangejuice8881 Před 2 lety +66

      Yeah it sucks, I was sick one day for school and they had a band play outside on the field .. Everyone kept talking about it and hyping it up after and I died inside

    • @rxs1e127
      @rxs1e127 Před 2 lety +5

      @@orangejuice8881 happening to me rn

    • @NotEvenOverThere
      @NotEvenOverThere Před 2 lety +33

      Bro a girl who got me suspended got jumped while I was suspended and I was so mad I missed it but I was elated at that divine justice in action

    • @sciencedude22
      @sciencedude22 Před rokem

      To be fair though, there were a lot of fires in the science lab.

  • @ensco7
    @ensco7 Před 4 lety +8625

    "Let's say you've been invited to a friend's birthday"-
    What are you talking about?

    • @beepboop2010
      @beepboop2010 Před 4 lety +15

      420 likes

    • @jeremymunoz2384
      @jeremymunoz2384 Před 4 lety +4

      True

    • @ensco7
      @ensco7 Před 4 lety +36

      @@beepboop2010 wtf I didn't get a single notification for this. Seems like I'm not alone with being alone (that makes perfect sense). Anyway, I missed to screenshot the 420 :'(

    • @cholimba
      @cholimba Před 4 lety +13

      Friend?._.

    • @aaronsmith1023
      @aaronsmith1023 Před 4 lety

      Right? Lol

  • @D.S.handle
    @D.S.handle Před 5 lety +14846

    I feel like our depressions are now synced.

    • @manictiger
      @manictiger Před 5 lety +266

      Careful. You're getting awfully close to getting sued by Apple. They're probably working on that as we speak.

    • @LordNextDoor
      @LordNextDoor Před 5 lety +40

      manictiger wtf 😂

    • @plushbabyyoda1787
      @plushbabyyoda1787 Před 4 lety +5

      Same

    • @renman7694
      @renman7694 Před 4 lety +3

      Lmfaooo

    • @ogi1337
      @ogi1337 Před 4 lety +8

      Just like our periods

  • @skypeservice2479
    @skypeservice2479 Před 4 lety +2579

    This just sounds like pessimism with extra steps

    • @EpicFoXD333
      @EpicFoXD333 Před 3 lety +6

      oh

    • @quillfeather8947
      @quillfeather8947 Před 3 lety +39

      Ooh la la, someone's getting laid in college

    • @thatman6916
      @thatman6916 Před 3 lety +5

      Vala di da🤷

    • @Dark-le3bn
      @Dark-le3bn Před 3 lety +17

      @@quillfeather8947 I feel missing out because I am not able to get the reference

    • @overgeared2014
      @overgeared2014 Před 3 lety +31

      @@Dark-le3bn Rick and Morty slavery reference

  • @NTeach10
    @NTeach10 Před 3 lety +1759

    I remember going into exams with my lowest expectation being death. By using this, I was usually content that I ended up with some sort of grade.

    • @hiloveabbey
      @hiloveabbey Před 3 lety +6

      dang yeah

    • @RGC_animation
      @RGC_animation Před 2 lety +6

      Lower your expectation even more, death isn't the end, your expectation is that you will die slowly and painfully as you watch your family and friends also die slowly and painfully.

    • @gamingwithyoty7725
      @gamingwithyoty7725 Před 2 lety +72

      Well when I'm going to an exam death isn't really a "low" expectation

    • @Asterx5
      @Asterx5 Před 2 lety +1

      @@gamingwithyoty7725 exactly especially if that exam was a power system protection

    • @lialy3071
      @lialy3071 Před rokem

      damn xD

  • @J-Kabar
    @J-Kabar Před 4 lety +3206

    "Do it or dont do it. You wilm regret both." - Lao Tzu

    • @LancesArmorStriking
      @LancesArmorStriking Před 4 lety +170

      I regret not doing much more than doing. By doing, I walk away with a lesson.

    • @fidgetyrock4420
      @fidgetyrock4420 Před 4 lety +102

      why even think about doing or dont doing? youll regret that also. You will also regret regretting thinking about doing or not doing, and you will also regret wasting time thinking about what you should do or not do.. and youll also regret not wasting time doing it.

    • @sebastianlee6695
      @sebastianlee6695 Před 4 lety +51

      @@fidgetyrock4420 Were you high making this post?

    • @buzda4249
      @buzda4249 Před 4 lety +63

      @@sebastianlee6695 high or not, man got a point

    • @user-hi2nd
      @user-hi2nd Před 4 lety +60

      @@sebastianlee6695 be high or dont be high. You will regret both

  • @beanmachine1248
    @beanmachine1248 Před 5 lety +4709

    Idk man 1 gig up and down sounds pretty good to me

    • @GLITCH_-.-
      @GLITCH_-.- Před 5 lety +38

      It's hard to get any better. I guess he ment 1 meb up/down, but that would be literally unusable.

    • @warriormes6012
      @warriormes6012 Před 5 lety +63

      I was just about to comment, doesn't 1 gig symmetrical EXCEED all possible expectations? :D

    • @orangepeelpls
      @orangepeelpls Před 5 lety +5

      @@GLITCH_-.- I'm not sure you got the joke in the video ;d

    • @GLITCH_-.-
      @GLITCH_-.- Před 5 lety +1

      @@orangepeelpls I guess no.

    • @CasuallyExplained
      @CasuallyExplained  Před 5 lety +552

      All these fools bragging about laying pipe each weekend when I'm out here laying fiber

  • @Link2edition
    @Link2edition Před 4 lety +3997

    Not gonna lie, finding out a boring regular party was actually a LAN party sounds amazing.

    • @hotcoldman777
      @hotcoldman777 Před 2 lety +109

      Well same, I had more fun at LAN-Parties that in other Parties, since its all about getting drunk and listening to shitty music, and meeting (mostly) annoying people there...

    • @cheekyweebugger3621
      @cheekyweebugger3621 Před 2 lety +169

      @@hotcoldman777 assert dominance and be the annoying drunk one. You get to have the time of your life and before you realise how much you’ve embarrassed yourself and ruined your reputation the hangover will kick in and you’ll have forgotten about all of last night. Works a charm for me every time

    • @itellyouforfree7238
      @itellyouforfree7238 Před 2 lety +43

      @@cheekyweebugger3621 It's for people like you that we are planning to build a colony on Mars. Get your suit ready, you'll receive a call soon

    • @BennaDryll
      @BennaDryll Před 2 lety +6

      @@cheekyweebugger3621 I’m 3months late but somewhat agree expect for me I talk to like two people outside of my immediate friend group and the next day the hang anxiety kicks in and i’m like “OMG I WAS SO EMBARRASSING LAST NIGHT” but in reality I had a completely normal convo with them.

    • @lisanneschop7317
      @lisanneschop7317 Před 2 lety +1

      I was going to make it 667 likes. Almost ruined this perfect number...

  • @harveywhyte9002
    @harveywhyte9002 Před 4 lety +770

    “reality is often disappointing”

    • @thatman6916
      @thatman6916 Před 3 lety +26

      Not often
      I repeat
      Not often, every fucking time😒

    • @docbrown2045
      @docbrown2045 Před rokem

      S'all good, man!

    • @inlimbo1714
      @inlimbo1714 Před rokem

      deep

    • @Mahlak_Mriuani_Anatman
      @Mahlak_Mriuani_Anatman Před rokem

      ​@@thatman6916 facts

    • @justalonesoul5825
      @justalonesoul5825 Před 11 měsíci +2

      @@thatman6916 Hey, how are you? I'm sincerely hoping that you gave life a chance to prove you wrong at some point in those last two years! It can look super grim sometimes, or even most of the time, but in this situation we need to remember that there's always a light at the end of the tunnel. Even if sometimes, it's just before going inside another tunnel right away! Also, if your life is always leading you inside tunnels, try stopping at some point, and see if there's not another set of tracks nearby! Cheers pal,

  • @evanseekins517
    @evanseekins517 Před 4 lety +9782

    His obsession with natalie dormer is both hilarious and well placed.

    • @jennam4448
      @jennam4448 Před 4 lety +208

      Especially with him saying his fav character on GoT would probably die anyway

    • @gh0stykins
      @gh0stykins Před 4 lety +134

      she's gorgeous. a fuckin goddess

    • @jlupus8804
      @jlupus8804 Před 4 lety +62

      She looks just as good as when she was on the Tudors.
      She is the kind of beauty I have to look away from because it just hurts too much to stare at the sun before the solar eclipse is complete.
      She's a golden diamond, is what I'm saying.

    • @yoooyoyooo
      @yoooyoyooo Před 3 lety +11

      @@jlupus8804 Her beauty is insufferable. :) Oe shorter version she is insufferable.

    • @Nocturnal808
      @Nocturnal808 Před 3 lety +21

      Too bad for him she’s mine

  • @wearethespirits3073
    @wearethespirits3073 Před 5 lety +1591

    you can hear him smiling when he does the little plug in for himself lmao

    • @lordstark359
      @lordstark359 Před 5 lety +3

      nigveen that’s okay

    • @Jo-ew7lw
      @Jo-ew7lw Před 5 lety +6

      sounded like he was crying

    • @Xpzilla
      @Xpzilla Před 5 lety +1

      aw yayy

    • @IamINERT
      @IamINERT Před 5 lety +4

      I don't think you can hear someone smiling

    • @Outta_sights
      @Outta_sights Před 5 lety +14

      *smiling noises intensifies*

  • @ethanharris9932
    @ethanharris9932 Před 4 lety +949

    Nothing is more depressing then playing games on your PC alone and then checking your friend snap story and seeing that they’re all together hanging out

  • @nii6961
    @nii6961 Před 3 lety +331

    "its highly unlikely that two of your three friends have the same birthday."
    My two best friends are 8 minutes older and 5 minutes younger than me.

  • @NikhilYadav-mj6wj
    @NikhilYadav-mj6wj Před 5 lety +5401

    Just leave social media. Trust me you won't miss anything.

    • @fidgetyrock4420
      @fidgetyrock4420 Před 5 lety +81

      Nobody likes me on social media, but I bang chicks and super social outside of it.. lmao

    • @ixaFerd
      @ixaFerd Před 5 lety +696

      @@fidgetyrock4420 r/ihavesex

    • @andrejs1227
      @andrejs1227 Před 5 lety +87

      You know that youtube is a social media website aswell?

    • @andrejs1227
      @andrejs1227 Před 5 lety +6

      @OMEGA LOL just google all social media websites.

    • @anishnehete
      @anishnehete Před 4 lety

      @Maycon Cruz ikr

  • @rubysauce
    @rubysauce Před 5 lety +11764

    You can tell he thinks he is so funny with that intro.
    And he's correct.

    • @bellakonrad5952
      @bellakonrad5952 Před 5 lety +482

      rubysauce you can hear him trying not to laugh

    • @jonswe5753
      @jonswe5753 Před 5 lety +15

      Agreed!

    • @Mauro0
      @Mauro0 Před 5 lety +148

      That intro was hilarious, watched it several times . He trying not to laugh was the best part of the video xD

    • @Awesomebaconman123
      @Awesomebaconman123 Před 5 lety +73

      We're all expecting a sponsor.
      Its fucking up our expectations and its great

    • @arindamhansda5493
      @arindamhansda5493 Před 5 lety

      I think its intentional.

  • @Thegamerfailer
    @Thegamerfailer Před rokem +149

    The thing with FOMO is it literally hits you directly in your anxiety centre and hits it very hard. This is most worst when you're an anxious and insecure person. My own experience I learned from was that I was very insecure about my friendships and was always doubting if people really liked me. My brain would find any little reason to think people don't like me (Not being invited to go get food or drinks, not being invited to play a game with your friends or them going into a different voice chat) and use all those small reasons to slam on my anxiety centre and until I basically had a panic attack if my friends were all going to meet up without me. This took A LONG time to deal with and the most important part was just being more confident in your friendships and yourself as a person that you're worth of having those friends. When I understood that I not only was less anxious and had less FOMO. I had the strength and confidence leave toxic friendships I had with people.

    • @Mordecrox
      @Mordecrox Před rokem +5

      Too bad that helps nothing if they actually hate you. Sure statistically unlikely but look where I am.
      Let me tell you, whatever physical injury I ever had does not get anywhere close to getting yourself hyped up and think positively then have some of those key facts develop in either the worst case scenario or finding you were a covert optimist and somehow things could get even worse (e.g. "I don't think they see me as a friend" vs "they just used you and tell it to your face").
      Make no mistake that's powerful advice but leaves you with absolutely no defense if your "unfounded" fears do come true

    • @thatman6916
      @thatman6916 Před 4 měsíci

      ​@@Mordecroxthats so true, it happened to me also it really damages your ability to even want to be atound people let alone open up and be friends, but what I've learn is that you have to have your own thing going on your own adventures if we manage to make this as a central theme of our lives than people can come and go and it doesn't concern us that much

  • @MilanNikolic96
    @MilanNikolic96 Před 4 lety +715

    Life has been so uneventful the last 5 years that I honestly cant remember how it feels to miss out. Guess I just dont care anymore idk

    • @DR61411
      @DR61411 Před 4 lety +98

      Same here. Very freeing though. It’s not like I don’t enjoy that stuff anymore, I do. But unlike 18 yo me I don’t constantly chase it and feel like a loser when I have nothing to do. I stay productive until I get a chance to have fun and then I’ll have more fun than younger me anyway bc I don’t give a shit if I’m the coolest guy there
      TLDR; being desperate and overthinking makes you miserable and won’t get you anywhere

    • @sorrychangedmyusername3594
      @sorrychangedmyusername3594 Před 4 lety +4

      mood

    • @randomuser5443
      @randomuser5443 Před 3 lety +6

      Do you want a hug bud? You sound like you need some one to give you warmth

    • @colly9888
      @colly9888 Před 3 lety +14

      love u bro lets kiss mwah mwah mwah kissy kissy uwu

    • @danverzhao9912
      @danverzhao9912 Před 3 lety +10

      I'm kinda the same, don't know if this is bad or not, feel like i'm loosing human emotions. lol

  • @LoanLeaf
    @LoanLeaf Před 4 lety +19540

    Who else gets afraid of missing out but also doesn’t want to actually do anything

  • @ushi4212
    @ushi4212 Před 5 lety +3938

    Bold of you to assume i have 3 friends

  • @libera7161
    @libera7161 Před 4 lety +163

    What I learned from this is that everything sounds cooler than it is, and in your imagination everything you miss out is so amazing but if you don't miss something out you realize how blatant it is.

  • @realworldhistory266
    @realworldhistory266 Před 4 lety +538

    I think it's normal to have no friends now

    • @dinkbros4723
      @dinkbros4723 Před 4 lety +50

      Kinda hard to have friends whem you can barely leave the house and when you so you have to wear a mask lol

    • @IAm-zo1bo
      @IAm-zo1bo Před 3 lety +2

      @epic redditor like us

    • @Fruitpunchyearsago
      @Fruitpunchyearsago Před 3 lety +20

      Its not normal never was never will be.

    • @blackbeast9268
      @blackbeast9268 Před 3 lety +5

      @epic redditor
      Your username is literally "epic redditor"
      Kinda ironic that you say that lol

    • @darion1728
      @darion1728 Před 3 lety +11

      Dude I have 3 friends, that means I'm above average now :D

  • @TobyFoxfan
    @TobyFoxfan Před 5 lety +4622

    Expect nothing and you'll never get disappointed.

  • @mankind0393
    @mankind0393 Před 5 lety +2010

    The man that makes glorified PowerPoint presentations renders his vids in 1080p 60fps. I lowkey love that.

    • @NewEraaG
      @NewEraaG Před 5 lety +3

      Whats rendering to 1080p 60fps?

    • @orca6620
      @orca6620 Před 5 lety +25

      1080p is probably one of the best video qualities and 60fps is a very smooth video quality..

    • @SezzesStuff
      @SezzesStuff Před 5 lety +26

      @@NewEraaG resolution: a 1080x1920 grid of pixels (dots of color), 1080 pixels tall and 1920 pixels wide
      framerate: 60 fps (frames per second), a frame being an image, so 60 images quickly shown every second to make it seem like the video contains moving things

    • @FiNiTe_weeb
      @FiNiTe_weeb Před 5 lety +6

      Bruh he should upscale to 4K60fps for that sweet extra bitrate!!
      Also LeMagic, rendering refers to actually making the video into a watchable mp4 or avi or other video file, from the editor that he uses, 1080p refers to 1920x1080 screen resolution (1920 pixels wide and 1080 pixels high), 60fps means there are 60 images (frames) per second being shown in the video.

    • @TheNathan031
      @TheNathan031 Před 5 lety +2

      Neeeeeeeeerrds!

  • @LuminousLead
    @LuminousLead Před 3 lety +29

    "So, in other words, you're able to stop cool things from happening by being there?"
    That friend is savage.

  • @rebeccasanchez3651
    @rebeccasanchez3651 Před 2 lety +96

    It could also be the same with nostalgia. I've heard a lot of my friends saying they wish they could back the 'good old times ''when they were 16, but was 16 actually a great time or is it just romantisized? Like, being a teenager is still very stressful with expectations, homework, and not being taken seriously. At least when your are an adult you don't have to ask for permission to do things and you can buy yourself your own things and don't have a curfew. There's good and bad thing everywhere, I guess its just perspective that determines your FOMO or regrets.

    • @rooknado
      @rooknado Před rokem +11

      for most people in this context, being 16 is the same things as being on the beach. while being an adult is the same as being in the ocean. there is not an immediate safety to return back to, and you have to pay attention to your actions the entire time to not fall under. when you are a teen, this feeling isn’t there, plus that is a wild time in a lot of peoples lives. therefore i’d say there are many more contributing factors.

    • @rebeccasanchez3651
      @rebeccasanchez3651 Před rokem +6

      @@rooknado true, but then again some teenagers are forced to grow up fast too. Some teenagera dont have homes or families or safety net so they are forced to act like adults without being treated like one :/

    • @vitortoniolo4880
      @vitortoniolo4880 Před rokem +1

      IF you have money when you are an adult, often you simply don't have time to do things you like. You have much more stuff to worry about than just homework, all that makes everything so stressful that i don't even want to do the shit i used to love when i was a teenager.

    • @rooknado
      @rooknado Před rokem

      @@rebeccasanchez3651 very good point it still applies

    • @justalonesoul5825
      @justalonesoul5825 Před 11 měsíci

      @@rebeccasanchez3651 Well, in general younger age is clearly a period with much less responsibilities, that's not romanticizing. While teenagehood is stressful for sure, it's really nothing compared to what adulthood can and will be for most people. I mean, just being a parent, which means you are responsible for more than just yourself, is obviously more stressful than being a teenager, when you're not even entirely responsible of just yourself yet.
      You are also right, adults have far more actual freedom - but dont forget that it comes at a much, MUCH steeper cost. Food doesnt get in the fridge by itself anymore, nor the roof over your head, if you get what I mean.

  • @MrPaceTv
    @MrPaceTv Před 5 lety +2880

    Friend:"Hey! What's your super power"
    Me:"I make things uncool by just being there."

    • @Sundara229
      @Sundara229 Před 5 lety +6

      LOL

    • @candydoggo8926
      @candydoggo8926 Před 5 lety +54

      dude- you could get paid to watch over people and make sure everything is normal. you could be a chaos regulator that presents crazy shit from happening. Any parent going out of town who wants to make sure their kids don't do anything crazy would instantly want you- "norma man" to just chill with them.

    • @PlaceboZypresse
      @PlaceboZypresse Před 5 lety +10

      Candy doggo and thats how you make money from being uninteresting. 💵

    • @EmmaAus
      @EmmaAus Před 5 lety +4

      Candy doggo: That reply made me laugh so much... Thanks for sharing & thinking outside the box 😊 We always need more outside-box-thinkers, & that was excellent...

    • @EVERYTHING-dc2od
      @EVERYTHING-dc2od Před 5 lety

      MrPaceTv why would he ask you that

  • @BlackOpsApesta
    @BlackOpsApesta Před 5 lety +5637

    >The party is actually a bunch of students playing Counter-Strike drunk
    That sounds dope tho

    • @andreasmartens4043
      @andreasmartens4043 Před 5 lety +178

      that sounds great, but the other dude is playing starcraft, maybe they got bored to fast and are now all playing different games to pass the time

    • @moonrockplays9640
      @moonrockplays9640 Před 5 lety +11

      Ayyy we play games drunk all the time 🍻💯

    • @ayylmao633
      @ayylmao633 Před 5 lety +80

      LAN party sounds so much better than awkwardly talking with no hobby

    • @bwebb90
      @bwebb90 Před 5 lety +8

      Fun when you're about 15 years old.

    • @tacomn
      @tacomn Před 5 lety +27

      Or when you are 37 and contemplating dropping your kids off at school and never coming back.@@bwebb90

  • @iBoolGuy
    @iBoolGuy Před 4 lety +44

    3:28 that is so deep... “the timeline will still be the same anyway”, so true on so many levels

    • @omegon3782
      @omegon3782 Před 3 lety

      wait im bouta go to college did i fuck up

    • @jr5993
      @jr5993 Před 5 měsíci

      ​@omegon3782 2 years later do you feel likebyou f****d up?

  • @StatusFX3
    @StatusFX3 Před 3 lety +57

    Hello. So, I wore your "Is she into you?" T-shirt on my first date (finally), and found it very helpful as a reference guide throughout the experience.
    Although it was kind of awkward having to take my VR goggles off every time I needed to see where we were at in the experience.
    Results were inconclusive, but will keep you posted when the next update gets released.

  • @EggsBenedicts
    @EggsBenedicts Před 5 lety +3872

    Moral of the story
    Just go and ruin everything, if you can’t have fun, they can’t have fun either

    • @skull_crusher3395
      @skull_crusher3395 Před 5 lety +62

      grandpa is that you?

    • @SnowEspeon
      @SnowEspeon Před 5 lety +50

      Don't get me wrong, this is a really funny comment, but this hits waaaay too close to home for me and I hate it

    • @Mr.Helper.
      @Mr.Helper. Před 5 lety +13

      sounds like my ex wife

    • @Extratyggis
      @Extratyggis Před 5 lety +18

      thats how loneliness works

    • @letsb3nameless665
      @letsb3nameless665 Před 5 lety

      i am the 1000th like

  • @firewall5189
    @firewall5189 Před 5 lety +1577

    "Computer science and engineering party" Woah there buster you actually expected *girls* at that party?

    • @zyaicob
      @zyaicob Před 5 lety +3

      Tis

    • @NidalRashid
      @NidalRashid Před 5 lety +176

      He didn't say "live action" girls.
      Anime parties ftw...

    • @naufalap
      @naufalap Před 5 lety +102

      Everyone brings their own waifu pillow and onahole

    • @fenrirgg
      @fenrirgg Před 5 lety +24

      There will be girls, girls that try vert hard to act like men to look tough, but still girls.

    • @obi-wankenobi9871
      @obi-wankenobi9871 Před 5 lety +60

      At least the engineers are some of the nicest and most genuine people you will meet on the campus.

  • @martinmendl1399
    @martinmendl1399 Před 3 lety +38

    I tell people that my extreme pessimism about literally everything that could ever happen is just a smart strategy of always expecting the worst, so that the worst thing that can happen to me is that I will be right. In reality I probably just need a psychologist.

    • @daytonharper6967
      @daytonharper6967 Před 3 lety +1

      u gotta hit the gym, big boost on attitude

    • @jr5993
      @jr5993 Před 5 měsíci +1

      ​@daytonharper6967 nope. I go to the gym all the time. Train martial arts a lot. It helps but it isn't a solution. I guess I wouldn't know how much it helps unless I stop, which I don't plan on doing.

  • @geicolizard8147
    @geicolizard8147 Před 4 lety +23

    I go by the rule that 90% of my worries won’t happen.

  • @tomatoanus
    @tomatoanus Před 5 lety +374

    i knew i had to watch this video or else id spend the rest of my life worrying about what i missed by not watching it

  • @TutorialsJunction
    @TutorialsJunction Před 5 lety +1503

    Damn !! At 4:45 that Thanos turning into dust is from my photoshop tutorial. I have seen that pic couple of times before over the internet and now here. Everytime i see it, it makes so happy !! it's a different kind of success, it's the meme success !!! i love it.

  • @Emily-fm7pt
    @Emily-fm7pt Před 3 lety +20

    "When a freshman in computer science says powerful connections, what he really means is 1 gig up and 1 gig down." 1:52
    I'm dead lol

  • @alexandersavage305
    @alexandersavage305 Před 2 lety +8

    I love this. Essentially, you shouldn’t feel bad about your benign past decisions despite what your head tells you, and you should be trying to find new exciting experiences, while understanding that it’s not always going to be mind blowing.

  • @davidgg8318
    @davidgg8318 Před 5 lety +1582

    This man just explained Stoicism for the average stick figure.

    • @eddieyago6589
      @eddieyago6589 Před 5 lety +33

      Seneca’s De Ira ~ if anybody would like to do further reading on this topic

    • @v4enthusiast541
      @v4enthusiast541 Před 5 lety +51

      M A R C U S A U R E L I U S

    • @melmonsmith9306
      @melmonsmith9306 Před 5 lety +8

      Please explain how what you just said makes sense

    • @davidgg8318
      @davidgg8318 Před 5 lety +57

      @@melmonsmith9306 having high expectations causes suffering. So if we lower our expectations we will be more pleased with life because we worry less and expect less.

    • @melmonsmith9306
      @melmonsmith9306 Před 5 lety +31

      @@davidgg8318 Ehhh, it's kind of a long shot from the definition of stoicism and only a small example from the many different appliances to the word. In that sense it's a little different to a baseball bat... For an example

  • @auslander2
    @auslander2 Před 4 lety +2695

    The only 3 friends thing had me shook. I was like that was funny and then I realized, I only actually have 3 friends

    • @soaphope3398
      @soaphope3398 Před 4 lety +156

      I was like damn this dude has more friends than I do

    • @Xx0ME0xX
      @Xx0ME0xX Před 4 lety +50

      @@soaphope3398 i got you beat, 2 meh friends and one super long distance

    • @Kasador
      @Kasador Před 4 lety +81

      At least you have friends.

    • @gh0stykins
      @gh0stykins Před 4 lety +3

      were you rEaLlY sHoOk

    • @Xx0ME0xX
      @Xx0ME0xX Před 4 lety +2

      @@gh0stykins i bet he was

  • @wesnohathas1993
    @wesnohathas1993 Před 3 lety +20

    The ability to stop cool things from happening by being there sounds like a great superpower to not have.

  • @redstarrising4576
    @redstarrising4576 Před 4 lety +9

    “Failure is a trickster with a keen sense of irony and cunning. It takes great delight in tripping one when success is almost within reach.”
    -Napoleon Hill

  • @YancyBeats
    @YancyBeats Před 4 lety +609

    "You're able to stop cool things by being there" LMAO what an insight

  • @Devin-wm2bv
    @Devin-wm2bv Před 5 lety +485

    This video has such a good sponsor.

  • @Shadow77999
    @Shadow77999 Před 3 lety +5

    A personal experience of mine, I never really had any friends since 13, and became a complete hermit since that age. A few years ago i made a wonderful group of online gaming friends. And having those wonderful moments with them made me feel alive in a way i completely forgot was even real, and they werent even IRL friends.
    So this made me question how much better IRL friends must be and gives me FOMO of all that ive been missing out on thanks to mental illnesses

  • @Ollimus
    @Ollimus Před 5 měsíci +1

    Thank you, you've helped since I've been going through what is probably a really petty crisis about not being able to go to this museum (which is already supremely far away) that has a limited time event ending in mid January.
    I definitely over hyped myself for something ultimately unrealistic.
    This is a genuine thank you, I already feel better.

  • @MoBDARKGHOST
    @MoBDARKGHOST Před 5 lety +829

    "'You miss 100 percent of the shots you don't take'- Wayne Gretzky"-Michael Scot

    • @11clocky
      @11clocky Před 4 lety +68

      But if you don't take them, how would you ever miss?
      *finger to forehead*

    • @jkerman5113
      @jkerman5113 Před 4 lety +25

      @@preacher3958 Yeah but if you define missing as not scoring, then the quote is kinda true. I like the quote because I never try to do anything and usually the worst that can happen is just a bit of awkwardness.

    • @poignion6040
      @poignion6040 Před 4 lety +1

      So, uh, Alexander Hamilton?

    • @cbchansey6866
      @cbchansey6866 Před 4 lety +3

      @Madison Blaine "you take one hundred percent of the shots that you don't miss"

    • @ivanpardo1752
      @ivanpardo1752 Před 4 lety +1

      -Bill Cosby

  • @MrTattooASMR
    @MrTattooASMR Před 5 lety +2371

    Well I never get invited so therefor I have no fear of missing out because I have no idea wth i'm missing...

    • @combativeThinker
      @combativeThinker Před 5 lety +26

      I say find things you want to do yourself and do them.
      Example: I don't do superficial relationships, so I have few friends. I don't get invited to do many things, seeing as how those friends are all back in my hometown or away at a college like me. Therefore, since I like science, reading, and history, I decided to start visiting local museums. It's awesome, you should give it a try.

    • @blainenshaidvids4672
      @blainenshaidvids4672 Před 5 lety

      STOP COMMENTING ON EVERYTHING I WATCH WTF

    • @CoveringFish
      @CoveringFish Před 5 lety +1

      Except social media exists

    • @Itspapacritz
      @Itspapacritz Před 5 lety +1

      Oh yes a fellow comrade and ASMR

    • @sanjaysrivatsan8820
      @sanjaysrivatsan8820 Před 5 lety +1

      Pretty normal stuff for a guy running an asmr CZcams channel

  • @milano7250
    @milano7250 Před 4 lety +83

    I remember when my dad went out to a meeting and then grabbed groceries, then he met Will Smith after he was pushing through a crowd thinking that it was just very busy and many people were out doing their thing when it turned out to be paparazzi and a bunch of by standers who noticed he was there. He even got a picture with him and I was really upset that I didn't get to see him but then again that's probably the closest I could say to meeting an actual celebrity

    • @user-vb8xe5pc4b
      @user-vb8xe5pc4b Před 3 lety +28

      dude, celebrities are normal humans, and Most of them not Even nice to spend time with.

    • @z01k1
      @z01k1 Před 2 lety +16

      celebs are overrated

    • @mattl1962
      @mattl1962 Před 7 měsíci

      Did he say “Keep my m***** f***** queue out my m***** f***** face!” ?

  • @Thehumansmilyface
    @Thehumansmilyface Před 7 měsíci

    The way this is narrated is so MY HUMOR TYPE 😂😂😂 I know it’s a serious video and I hopped on because I deal with SEVERE OCD fomo (like still stressed over that opportunity I missed in 1st grade) almost 20 years later but the humor just makes the video so much better 😂 and you don’t even seem to be trying to be funny you just naturally are 😂😂😂 this is lovely !

  • @DadYT
    @DadYT Před 5 lety +3265

    Imagine being afraid of missing out.
    This post was made by introvert gang.

    • @madasrabbits
      @madasrabbits Před 5 lety +101

      Dad of the Year instead what i fear most is when i actually get invited to something 3 times out of the year. “did i use that same excuse last year? i don’t feel like texting back.”

    • @j.a.3335
      @j.a.3335 Před 5 lety +2

      @justin rogers I think that's a bit low. I have been invited 5 times this year.

    • @Ultra289
      @Ultra289 Před 4 lety +13

      I sometimes imagine It
      Posted by ambiert gang

    • @scoutymcscoutface2957
      @scoutymcscoutface2957 Před 4 lety +13

      haha
      being introverted makes it worse

    • @abioseni7831
      @abioseni7831 Před 4 lety +3

      More like the introvert private club

  • @tfuse1
    @tfuse1 Před 5 lety +533

    opening joke alone warrants the like.

    • @RedPlaystationController
      @RedPlaystationController Před 5 lety

      Ugh *cringe*

    • @brandonmunoz5136
      @brandonmunoz5136 Před 5 lety +1

      T R U T H What’s ‘cringe’ is you throwing the word around, and with “ugh” to boot.

    • @RedPlaystationController
      @RedPlaystationController Před 5 lety

      Brandon Munoz - Ew you're even cringier

    • @RedPlaystationController
      @RedPlaystationController Před 5 lety

      Brandon Munoz - It actually is cringy because this kid likes a video because he's easily impressed by a lame joke. That's like being at a party and yelling "this is the best party ever" it just has that awkward vibe to it, so no, it's not being thrown around loosely here. All forms of having fun are cringe if you wanna get real here.

    • @brandonmunoz5136
      @brandonmunoz5136 Před 5 lety +1

      @@RedPlaystationController Oh , I get it now. You're just extremely lame and likely self-conscious. I see.

  • @reignwest7261
    @reignwest7261 Před 2 lety +5

    One of the sole reasons I don’t ever go on Instagram is because you can always see what people are doing at their BEST moments.

  • @gooo1762
    @gooo1762 Před rokem +1

    That’s actually true. Your videos are so so entertaining. Thanks a lot!

  • @trumpetperson11
    @trumpetperson11 Před 5 lety +609

    "It's unlikely that 2 of your 3 friends have their birthday on the same day"
    ✓ I'm in this post and I do not like it.

    • @sofakingraw4149
      @sofakingraw4149 Před 5 lety +6

      I share a bday with a homeboy

    • @MbSeen
      @MbSeen Před 5 lety

      Xx

    • @NightcorEDM
      @NightcorEDM Před 5 lety

      Clean tick

    • @ItsMonkeyNews
      @ItsMonkeyNews Před 5 lety +1

      @@sofakingraw4149 yourself doesn't count

    • @pumpkingamebox
      @pumpkingamebox Před 5 lety

      trumpetperson11 I have friends who are twins. And they haven’t been talking to each other for a few years. And they make desperate birthdays.
      Tough choices.

  • @marswrld2489
    @marswrld2489 Před 4 lety +1489

    Who else doesn’t have to worry about this because they have no friends 😎

    • @CRXCX
      @CRXCX Před 4 lety +46

      This is something to be proud of

    • @DodirAnelaIntuitivnoOtvaranje
      @DodirAnelaIntuitivnoOtvaranje Před 4 lety +9

      Ppl without this fear 😂 It can only exist when person is not sure in themself hence their choices, creating "grass is always greaner somewhere else (where I am not. When I get there it sucks, so it's, again, greaner elsewhere)". 5:40.
      Such ppl are always on the search but never finding, while in reality -they're realy missing out on things that actually Are good for them. Bcs they don't trust themselves. I met quite few of such ppl in my life. Also they're inevitably cheaters at some point, romanticly or otherwise. Still sad about your situation? 😉

    • @boi5409
      @boi5409 Před 4 lety +5

      OG Fight night Ha loser

    • @bigmoisture69
      @bigmoisture69 Před 4 lety +2

      LOL

    • @K2ELP
      @K2ELP Před 4 lety +7

      You miss out on having friends then D:

  • @ahareally
    @ahareally Před 4 lety

    I so needed this - brilliant!

  • @ryancole8892
    @ryancole8892 Před 2 měsíci +2

    The reality is that you only remember the times that something happened and you had the ability to go.

  • @anonymousSTYLIN
    @anonymousSTYLIN Před 5 lety +268

    Look at Mr. Humble brag here having friends.

  • @TheToneBender
    @TheToneBender Před 5 lety +332

    "2 of your 3 friends"
    Haha good one. Three friends. more like 1 that I pretty much only talk to over whatsapp.

    • @axelnils
      @axelnils Před 5 lety +9

      Ricky FeelsBadMan

    • @andagain9826
      @andagain9826 Před 5 lety +31

      Haha friends. I don't care. I have my cat. And when she ignores me I just look at other cats on Instagram.

    • @jdm132
      @jdm132 Před 5 lety +1

      Ricky whats app

    • @magmakojote1663
      @magmakojote1663 Před 5 lety

      Same. Lets be youtube friends

    • @facuufernandezz5070
      @facuufernandezz5070 Před 5 lety +1

      wanna talk someday man?

  • @squirrelonmapletree
    @squirrelonmapletree Před rokem +1

    Why is this surprisingly and strangely helpful?!?!

  • @LisaCupcake
    @LisaCupcake Před 3 lety

    Back when I was younger and still had a life, I always missed all the good stuff. I literally had the ability to stop cool things from happening just by being there. It's a gift.

  • @TristanWilliamsonMusic
    @TristanWilliamsonMusic Před 5 lety +212

    Bold of you to assume that I'd be invited to anything..

    • @elmocino
      @elmocino Před 4 lety +3

      Tristan Williamson my friends hung out without me on halloween

    • @Kaledrone
      @Kaledrone Před 4 lety +3

      @@elmocino It's because you'll eat all mah damn candy up.

  • @justinreyes8082
    @justinreyes8082 Před 5 lety +387

    Perfect timing. I wasn't able to go with my friends today....
    Cause they didn't invite me

  • @jemand8462
    @jemand8462 Před 3 lety +1

    5:05 I really like that he didn't hit the marker but went around

  • @itsjusttyler5315
    @itsjusttyler5315 Před 3 lety

    You’ve talked about so many topics that I have problems with and helped me fix them

  • @NutshellAnimations
    @NutshellAnimations Před 5 lety +104

    *you are literally the man that caused me to start animating!* I’ll he hitting 10ksubs tomorrow in 7 months and I wanted to like you know. THANK YOU SO MUCH ❤️❤️

    • @CasuallyExplained
      @CasuallyExplained  Před 5 lety +118

      nice, I haven't even started animating yet

    • @tupatontt
      @tupatontt Před 5 lety +7

      @@CasuallyExplained lol

    • @darcdarcdarcdarcdaerc
      @darcdarcdarcdarcdaerc Před 5 lety +2

      @@CasuallyExplained we all know you main King K Rool because of his annyoing projectiles

    • @WalidNaima
      @WalidNaima Před 5 lety +1

      @@CasuallyExplained Lol, comedy at its best

    • @17-.
      @17-. Před 5 lety +1

      "Slowly records dragging image across the screen with a mouse"

  • @kawi4nia599
    @kawi4nia599 Před 4 lety +99

    “One gig up one gig down” absolutely golden

  • @beans2874
    @beans2874 Před 4 lety +3

    3:07 this was the most specific relatable thing I heard in my entire life

  • @SuSpicious9748
    @SuSpicious9748 Před rokem +7

    It’s not so much the Fear of Missing out, and more of not getting invited to do anything and those “friends” not reaching out to do anything and eventually I’m stuck in a cycle of wake, work, eat, watch shit content, talk to no one, sleep, repeat until the friendship fades into nothingness.

  • @matthewhemmings2464
    @matthewhemmings2464 Před 4 lety +490

    Here’s my version to avoid the fear of missing out, I hope it can help some of you:
    1- set your resources. We all have 24hours in a day, a budget, and obligations.
    2- set your priorities. What is really important for you (this has to be personal and not influenced by others)? Your family/friends might be most important, your career, etc. Basically, what do YOU really want.
    3- set your needs. We all have to sleep (for me it’s 8 hours per day, like if your plan involves me sleeping less, I’m out. Yet it might be 4 hours for some people).
    4- Cross reverence the information from step 1, 2, 3 and establish what you can realistically accomplish. For example, this party looks cool, but I don’t like going to clubs and I don’t appreciate this crowd of people. So I prefer using my money to go to the movies.
    5- allow yourself time and budget for exceptional experiences. Like, I never tried a threesome with German exchange students, but maybe tonight is a good night to try.
    6- be content with your decisions, be happy for the present, and hope the future will not suck.
    On that, I wish you all a happy life.

    • @mrsicetruckkiller150
      @mrsicetruckkiller150 Před 4 lety +48

      Threesomes are probably the most overrated thing in the history of human kind. Also a great example of fomo. So if you pass on that don't let porn and fomo fool you, you won't miss much. Playing video games instead that night would keep money in your pocket and will bring you more fun. Cheers.

    • @matthewhemmings2464
      @matthewhemmings2464 Před 4 lety +9

      Mrs Ice truck killer 😂 It’s good to know, then again... it’s hard to know how awkward a threesome with language/cultural barriers will be until you’ve realized how awkward it is while being super awkward while trying not to look awkward in the awkward threesome, awkwardly wishing you would be home with your cats.

    • @davidfarah
      @davidfarah Před 3 lety +1

      That's 👌

    • @y0gokvlt
      @y0gokvlt Před rokem

      luls,german exchange student jajaja

    • @anwan5
      @anwan5 Před rokem +7

      @@mrsicetruckkiller150 how do you even get to that point, just curious

  • @hellbullet2254
    @hellbullet2254 Před 5 lety +170

    You're giving us an example based on the assumption that we have friends

    • @combativeThinker
      @combativeThinker Před 5 lety +7

      Damn, this is eighth comment I've seen along the lines of "assuming I actually have friends, lol."
      That's kinda sad. Is isolation and loneliness that big of a problem among today's youth...? Not like I'm any different.

    • @adamiscoolization
      @adamiscoolization Před 5 lety +13

      I mean, I literally have no friends, dropped out of high school because of it. Now I have no friends at home, which is the choice I made.

    • @laycebug3260
      @laycebug3260 Před 5 lety

      adamiscoolization Ew go away

    • @NewEraaG
      @NewEraaG Před 5 lety +1

      Bryan Merrill yup it is mate. Dont know where to make them at this point

    • @CallMeBeautifulRacoon
      @CallMeBeautifulRacoon Před 5 lety +6

      @@YhurHurt I literally cannot make a friend to save my life. I don't know how people do it. I'm not even that introverted. I'm quite bubbly, i just can't seem to solidify my acquaintances into friends. I guess that's just one of them things.

  • @somaiaabdou4965
    @somaiaabdou4965 Před 2 lety

    Dude that was hilarious and hella informative like THANK YOU SO MUCH

  • @tomyaish1862
    @tomyaish1862 Před 3 lety

    Subscribed at 2:58. It was classic pause-moment gold, I felt rewarded for pausing.

  • @perlyg
    @perlyg Před 5 lety +283

    5:47 this is so true
    because when i stay home for a week, my friends say "I" missed out and they tell me who came, what they saw, do, etc
    but when i'm there none of that stuff happens

    • @hollowhoagie6441
      @hollowhoagie6441 Před 4 lety +63

      I start to wonder if either
      A) I'm no fun and I'm a party pooper
      B) they (friends) make this shit up so you'll hang out with them
      C) a mix of both

    • @MisterDoloto
      @MisterDoloto Před 4 lety +12

      @@hollowhoagie6441 Can't tell

    • @ZeroTHLP
      @ZeroTHLP Před 4 lety +14

      In my experience, the biggest limiting factors are your ability to see opportunities and your courage to take them. Dont make special occasions reliant on outside forces.

    • @Kevin-hj4ql
      @Kevin-hj4ql Před 4 lety +53

      I feel like that's because when they describe what happens, they leave out all the other boring shit that also went on, and you get this false impression that the whole event was fun.

    • @sharifsircar
      @sharifsircar Před 4 lety

      @@ZeroTHLP ^Know your stuff. It's also easier said than done, guess it's something one figures out over time.

  • @dlsalim
    @dlsalim Před 5 lety +422

    "This video has been made possible by....."
    *_M E_*

  • @antroz321703
    @antroz321703 Před 3 lety

    This is honestly an amazing way to explain it.

  • @greateststam1
    @greateststam1 Před rokem +3

    This is a paradox in literally every decision we make. Do I take it easy and have fun because bad things are about to happen or do I work hard to prepare in case bad things happen? Do I train mind and body only to have my life end moments later? Do I work on improving myself and my environment in order to avoid "missing out" on feeling fulfilled with my time even if it means burning myself out? Every moment we choose something we are missing out on something else. Like yin and yang.

  • @Buklen
    @Buklen Před 5 lety +103

    @4:59 OMG he's using animation! Casually explained is getting hi tech! The future is now.

  • @franciscofeest6691
    @franciscofeest6691 Před 4 lety +878

    I had girlfriends, partied, and had hookups during my 20’s but its never enough. You always think you have missed out regardless. Atleast I do.

    • @beasthaven1571
      @beasthaven1571 Před 4 lety +19

      Y was it never enough

    • @franciscofeest6691
      @franciscofeest6691 Před 4 lety +312

      @@beasthaven1571 I think it comes from an emptiness that is located within you. That you cannot fill in with girlfriends, parties, and whatever the fuck. I'm 32 now and even though I'm single im becoming much more comfortable within my own skin. It was a hard road though and I had to force it. Discipline is freedom remember that. You know what you have to do in life to be better but it's hard. It's the hardest road to take.

    • @franciscofeest6691
      @franciscofeest6691 Před 4 lety +103

      @Hernando Malinche I am lonesome right now dude. When you are young you think things are going to be better but not necesarily.

    • @blueeyedblondhairedo5879
      @blueeyedblondhairedo5879 Před 4 lety +8

      @@franciscofeest6691 but u said u had gfs how can u be single like fuck didnthey already break up with u wow! (No offence or anything lol)

    • @a.a677
      @a.a677 Před 4 lety +9

      @Hernando Malinche lol incel

  • @SeraphimxSins
    @SeraphimxSins Před 4 lety

    "Lower your expectations." Mastered that.

  • @alitheburd
    @alitheburd Před 2 lety +1

    "Keep your expectations low boy, and you will never be disappointed."
    -Kratos

  • @fry7746
    @fry7746 Před 4 lety +195

    When you are scared of your friends beating the ender dragon without you.

    • @DoerakNL
      @DoerakNL Před 4 lety +6

      damn this was me when we started a server

    • @seancooper4058
      @seancooper4058 Před 4 lety +8

      My friends did do this... and the Wither...

    • @TrolololololololoMan
      @TrolololololololoMan Před 4 lety +7

      Top 10 suicide causes

    • @radicalgames480
      @radicalgames480 Před 3 lety

      FR

    • @cheekyweebugger3621
      @cheekyweebugger3621 Před 2 lety

      That happened to my friend and I felt so bad for him we started a whole new world and grinder all the way to beating the ender dragon with him. Teens are weird lmao

  • @fusrodahdaily9664
    @fusrodahdaily9664 Před 5 lety +257

    4:56 Wow, paint animations. You've really outdone yourself in this video.

    • @letmelive4sh0
      @letmelive4sh0 Před 5 lety +8

      oh gawd lawl he goes over the ticks on the line

    • @AbrahamMast
      @AbrahamMast Před 5 lety +2

      uuh aktually, thats a program called Pixelmator 🤓

    • @doctorsteen
      @doctorsteen Před 5 lety +10

      @@AbrahamMast it's photoshop

    • @fabianbijl3727
      @fabianbijl3727 Před 5 lety +1

      Next to his cursor there's a small black square with digits on them, they tell the vertical and horizontal position of the text. This black box is used in photoshop

  • @Daniel_Alves1993
    @Daniel_Alves1993 Před rokem +1

    That ending really stuck a nerve. It´s not only missing out, is thinking that nothing will happen if you go and everything will happen if you don´t.

  • @MrRayen123
    @MrRayen123 Před 3 lety +12

    I have a similar theory (and experience). My dance group and I went to Slovakia (we are from the Czech Republic) to a dance party. Once our friend and a member of the group wanted to go, but he couldn't (he had another event). And so we went without him. The party in Slovakia was quite OK, but it was not the best party I have ever experienced.
    After a while, we all met again, even with a friend who couldn't go. When he asked us: "How was the party in Slovakia?", everyone started that it was a terrible pity that he could not go and it was the party of the year.
    I looked at them a little surprised and confused, because this party without this friend wasn't nearly as good as the parties before. Everybody was drunk and nobody was dancing... so... nothing special.
    This made me think that every party you weren't at would be thrown at you as "the best ever", and the participants would tell you that "it's a terrible pity you couldn't come, you lost the best party in all of humanity!", when that's not really true.
    To be precise, after this event with that friend who cant come, I began to notice that all the members of my dance group say that about all the parties. So you practically never miss anything.

    • @mlgchicken3222
      @mlgchicken3222 Před rokem

      thanks for the testimony brudda.. appriciate it

  • @marinosath4099
    @marinosath4099 Před 5 lety +137

    Fear of missing out is actually a real thing and you can call it FOMO for short.
    No FOMO

    • @zenmasterorwhatever
      @zenmasterorwhatever Před 5 lety +25

      no, that's
      Fear
      Of
      Moldy
      Onions
      Either way it makes me cry.

    • @Zhadow45
      @Zhadow45 Před 5 lety +1

      @Antonio Medeiros Please don't associate that kind of vocabulary with investing. That nonsense is strictly with those crypto people. Don't say they're one and the same. Normal investment conversations never have that kind of dialogue literally ever. Crypto people just like throwing money at random gold pieces and hoping for the best while yelling silly words like "FUD" or "FOMO" every two seconds.

    • @juliab.75
      @juliab.75 Před 5 lety +1

      We The Animals hahaha

  • @itsnrv1817
    @itsnrv1817 Před 5 lety +338

    “game of thrones, my favorite character would probably die”...
    mood

    • @themk4982
      @themk4982 Před 5 lety

      RIP my favourite lower than average sized appendage.
      Wait...

    • @licentiousdreams
      @licentiousdreams Před 5 lety +1

      WILL*

    • @PsycheTrance65
      @PsycheTrance65 Před 5 lety +1

      whats funnier is as of season 6 hes not wrong either

    • @combativeThinker
      @combativeThinker Před 5 lety

      Game of Thrones is also a shining example of what's wrong with prime time television nowadays. It's a show for degenerates, full of pointless violence, sex, nudity, incest (yikes), profanity, and the list goes on. You literally have every reason not to watch it.

    • @itsnrv1817
      @itsnrv1817 Před 5 lety

      Bryan Merrill i mean i watch it because i wanna see who how it ends but ya i guess you got a point

  • @michaelleue7594
    @michaelleue7594 Před 2 lety +1

    Every single thing you'll ever do, right down to your manner of death, is either cool or not depending on if you want it to be. The attitude you decide to have about your experiences matters enormously more than the actual experience does.

  • @jlat96
    @jlat96 Před 3 lety +2

    “It’s just me and the AI”
    You sir are a clever man

  • @dylancostello1103
    @dylancostello1103 Před 4 lety +144

    But for real tho, relating to what he was talking about at the end, things that might sound exciting when I weren’t there, often would’ve been boring or unenjoyable if u were there

    • @ensco7
      @ensco7 Před 3 lety +17

      It might be that negative people drag people down so it's less fun, but another thing I've noticed is that people love to exaggerate. Even when you were there, people will tell stories to others that weren't there and they will make it sound much better than it actually was, probably to impress the other people.
      I don't like that behaviour at all, I only like the truth. Which is that life has no point unless you find something that makes you happy.

  • @Pumpkinss
    @Pumpkinss Před 5 lety +25

    Casually Explained: "This video was my possible by me"
    *Nord VPN did not like that*

  • @kamikze6622
    @kamikze6622 Před 3 lety +2

    These videos never fail to make me laugh n cry at the same time

  • @wait_whatt
    @wait_whatt Před 2 lety +2

    I am low energy introvert and have a constant battle between fear of missing out and fear of burning out. Ever since I've graduated and started working full time I meet with friends once a month and it feels absolutely amazing. That way I don't feel tired of communication and every meeting feels like something new and refreshing

  • @sandag202
    @sandag202 Před 5 lety +347

    Can't miss out when there's nothing to miss
    I'm lonely send help

    • @KaruCorp-
      @KaruCorp- Před 5 lety +15

      I sent it, but I got the wrong address, they had a great time thou....

    • @Trentjans
      @Trentjans Před 5 lety +6

      I beat my wife but then I realized it was my dog, but by the time I realized I had already messed up and I knew that there was n going back I had made a grave mistake and it was a matter of time before I met my demise. I took the last moments of my life to realize just how pathetic I really was, but just thinking about my life choices doesn't change them. My shadow is the only one that walks beside me, he is the only one by my side, do I regret my life decisions? The sad answer to that question is yes, but there is still hope for you. There is a world before you, do what you want with it. Make changes, do everything like it is the last thing you will ever do. Socialize, do things for others that you know nobody would do for you. And eventually, that will change. Others will support you, others will be there for you. Do your labour and your hands shall be rewarded. And don't beat your dog.

    • @simiuciacia
      @simiuciacia Před 5 lety

      @@Trentjans based doomer, gonna make it

    • @TrashPanda5150
      @TrashPanda5150 Před 5 lety

      *sendinghelp.exe has stopped working*

    • @rockrolla7992
      @rockrolla7992 Před 5 lety

      Wubba lubba dub duub!

  • @AndyHunkele
    @AndyHunkele Před 5 lety +179

    I have a Degree in CS with a specialization in Artificial Intelligence. 3:12 really hit me hard as its all true.

    • @7-11thuniverse
      @7-11thuniverse Před 4 lety +2

      @winter ride heh, i'm not in college but have done a few courses- very relatable

    • @pbj4184
      @pbj4184 Před 3 lety +1

      @winter ride Besides, CS is goddamn cool!

    • @user-rf4vc7mt4d
      @user-rf4vc7mt4d Před 3 lety +2

      idk man, entry salary is like 60k if you're decent. After I graduate Imma keep living the sad life for a few years while saving and investing most of my salary so I can get into the real estate business in the meanwhile. Hopefully, I can retire by 25-26 with enough passive rental income

    • @sebastianjost
      @sebastianjost Před 3 lety +1

      @@user-rf4vc7mt4d good luck

  • @DemonicVelocity
    @DemonicVelocity Před 4 lety +1

    It's been a while since I really laughed about a video.
    Damn, this feels good.

  • @ifthat91
    @ifthat91 Před 3 lety

    I always feel like I am missing out, but then I compare what I can be doing to the best case scenario and discover my current advantages outway any opportunities I might have missed.