Chelsea...he doesnt want you - Love is Blind Season 4 Ep 11 | Review/Recap
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- Singles try to find a match and fall in love -- without ever seeing each other face-to-face, as emotional connection attempts to conquer physical attraction.
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I can’t believe Chelsea doesn’t see that Kwame isn’t all in with her.. she had more of a connection with his sister 😂
It comes off as desperate. I think her biological clock is ticking and she wants kids because as she said freezing her eggs is too expensive, so she's willing to overlook the obvious big, red flags waving all over the place that Kwame is not that into her. I feel bad for her. She's by far the prettiest girl there, aside from Bliss who is also pretty and a good catch. Chelsea could do better.
She sees it. She’s gaslighting him and using manipulation really. ‘Welcome to marriage’ my ass.
@vaskylark Chelsea is definitely a catch. I feel bad that she’s refusing to take off her rose colored glasses when it comes to Kwame. She’s still young and can find someone else who’s ready for her smh 🤦♀️ I would’ve run the way he kept dodging her questions about being ready and saying yes to her 🏃♀️
@@SoulSpa6835 How is she gaslighting him? All he has to do is break it off. But nah, he wants that 'made it to the end' clout. At least Chelsea came looking for the thing the show offered (marriage). Is she 'in love with the idea of love'...for sure. Is she delusional, absolutely. But I don't see where she is dishonest with her wants and desires. All he has to do is be honest with either himself or her or both...he is not all in. And we can all see it!
What flags she is in love with the idea of marriage ...and in love with that man.For Chelsea Kwame is educated, played soccer ⚽️, very smart and works for a software company $$$. She knows he can easily blend with her lifestyle. All l know is our white sisters snatch up guys that suit a certain profile and decide to deal with their crap separately.He must be financially stable
Chelsea is in love with the idea of being married not the person she is getting married to.
AMEN to this yess!!!
Yesssss she is being so delusional 😭😭😭
The recent episodes that dropped was so cringe, between them shopping (her fishing for compliments) and the underwear photoshoot, I'm like Chelsea stoooooop!!
I think she’s ignoring the bad things about him because she really wants things to work maybe because she’s lonely? She’s also approaching 32 at this point and wants kids before 35.
Even Ray Charles can see it🥴
Brett’s dad was so adorable and lovely. You could really see where Brett got his character and resilience from.
I want a hug from him! He seems so lovable
I liked his brother too.
His brother was sweet too.
I loved his Daddy so much! He seems so sweet and genuine.
I agree! His family strike me as the type to just be sitting on the porch just chatting with some coffee
There's a big difference between the way Brett and Kwame talk about their fiance's in their confessionals. Kwame always has an issue with Chelsea. Brett always talks about how much he loves Tiffany. Chelsea always talks about being the happiest girl in the world with him and Kwame never says anything remotely similar. I know she must be pissed watching this show.
Because Brett is actually in Love. Kwame doesn't want to marry her and definitely doesn't want to move out of Seattle
@@AliFamilyEnt you mean move out of Portland to Seattle - even tho he applied for this knowing it was in Seattle
He applied because it was open to people in Portland
You are so right!! Every excuse Kwame is making doesn’t make sense. He signed up for this show without his mothers approval, so he’s full of crap.
💯
Right, he frequently dates white women so at some point he was going to marry one. He actually seems to be quite astranged from his family so he might as well gone head and marry her. If it’s not Chelsea it will be another white woman. Just not understanding why he’s not owning it
Bliss does have that valley girl vocal fry voice 🤣 and Brett's dad and brother had me cheesing through their entire segment 😊
Bliss is sweet but her voice...not so much! 😂
irritating to say the least.
Leave her alone plz 😢
This whole show I’ve been thinking she sounds like Kim K lol
@@foxesamu more like kourtney lol
It’s crazy because I love Chelsea so much now. Because I know that she wants kwame, I want him to say yes to save her from embarrassment but I just wish she said no. She deserves so much better and she can definitely get that especially now that the world saw her heart
Chelsea loves that man stinky underwear, crusty feet, everything. If only he loved her half as much.
Sorry, but from this man's point of view, she lacks empathy and any interest in understanding K's point of view. Whenever he brings up legitimate concerns, she stonewalls or gaslights him. It's as if she's saying, "Uh, huh, sure honey, but get with the program" (pats him on the head) which is being with me and following my lead." I can tell from your comments that you are utterly clueless about a man's point of view. Most of us don't want to follow women or join their team or hunker down on their coattails. Maybe a few men do, but they have to be a tiny minority. It's in most men's natures to lead, to aggressively pursue their careers. I know you and many people will reject this idea. My suggestion is at least make an attempt to empathize with men - to understand where many of them are coming from. Chelsea is barely even pretending to do that. Which is why K will probably reject her at the altar. God help him if he doesn't because their marriage would have zero chance of working if she doesn't learn some empathy and be willing to make some compromises.
I loved that purse that Kwame's sister gave Chelsea. It was beautiful.
It was!
And so meaningful 🥹
I would pay good money to see the alternate version of this show. If Micah accepted Kwame’s proposal. How would her friends accept him ? 🤔 would he move to Arizona ? Hmmm we’ll never know
Kwame would’ve moved to the moon for that girl 😂 he just doesn’t want to do all of that because he’s not that into Chelsea.
They would get married & move to LA together 🤣🤣
@@eh1126 exactly.
That's my thoughts too. However her friend would not approve of Kwamee! Lol
Her and her friends give off the "we date black guys" vibe but they would never marry him. I think Kwame likes that Micah makes him chase her while Chelsea is chasing him.
I don't ever comment on videos but I feel like it's safe for me to do so here: When I see Chelsea and Kwame I'm reminded of a recent ex and some of the red flags. The fact that Kwame didn't introduce Chelsea to ANY of his friends or family speaks volumes, something I wasn't aware of back when I was seeing my ex. My ex would make the excuse that friends and girlfriends should be kept separate and not mesh, asked how would I feel if he was hanging out with one of my girl friends, I shrugged and said that'd be fine bc I trusted him and my closest girls. I didn't know at the time that that's a red flag, and since we broke up he quickly got with someone else and very easily and proudly displays her on his social media, something he refused to do with me. It's crazy seeing things I wasn't thinking about back then being brought up in the relationships on this show. A definite eye opener. I wish Chelsea could see it, but I think sometimes we force ourselves to see things how we desperately want it to be, and not how it actually is. They should call this show Love is Blind-sided lol
Exactly this! He is doing his best to keep Chelsea away from his friends and family.
@@scififantasygirl yep, That is because he thinks they will not wrk out in the long run
Your man dont bring you around his ppl is not a red flag. If a man was ashamed of you he would only pull up after dark. Not want to be seen with you in public. In Kwame situation he didnt have good intentions from the jump he just showed up to get laid bc he was lonely and running out of lotion and Kleenex. You can tell when Chelsea brought up having kids and he acted like he wanted to jump out of his own skin coming up with all kinds of excuses. Hes just there for a good time not a long time.
@@unlucky7s561 Not running out of Kleenex 😅😅
you were probably dating a narcissist. look up narcissistic personality disorder
Shelby is straight up jealous because Micah is getting married. It’s to obvious
And she only tells the truth about it when she's been drinking. When she was sober at the bridal shop, she said Paul was great.
Or she's in love with Micah. She is so emotionally reactive over her and kept eyeing her up in the wedding dress 😂
@@joanna0988 Exactly! I think Shelby has unrequited feelings.
@@joanna0988 this was my first reaction too!!
This thing with Bliss is....
I think she's adorable, but I do feel the same way about her voice. These are the types of things that men everywhere have issues with. Dont say you forgive me, but then at every opportunity you bring up my offense. She cant say "I believe he's my person", and then every chance she gets, brings up his prior engagement. If he's YOUR person, the road he took to get to you was just the road he took. He was only engaged to the girl for 15 seconds. And once he realized that who she was and who she portrayed herself to be was not the same, he let it go. The guy who makes a commitment and sticks with it. Duh. He didn't stick with that one, because it was a farce. And although we all at home knew Irinia was fraudulent, he's just a dumb guy. (No offense). But he sought out the girl he knew was the right choice. AND SHE OBLIGED. If she thinks he needs to keep paying for choosing someone else initially, then keep that same energy with yourself for saying YES. You had a choice as well. Let it go so you both can be happy because honestly, I think you two are adorable together. ANDDDD, I'd really like for you to shove that in your dads face until he pukes.
Keep the same energy for yourself for saying yess…chiiiiiiile uffff ❤️🔥🔥🔥🔥
I agree with all of the above. The only thing that really helps and what I continue reminding myself about...Zach wasn't seeing Irinia and her ignorance. All that he was able to receive was the person that she presented behind that wall in the pods. Bliss and us as the audience had a front row seat to the BS so we saw and heard it all. We have to give him credit for cutting those ties when the veil came completely off for who Irinia truly was rather than staying and trying to "make it work".
I adore Brett’s dad!!!! I could listen to him talk all day
I'm tired of people acting like Zack can't be trusted for breaking off the engagement with Irina. If you find out the person you THOUGHT you proposed to was putting on an act the whole time, you are valid in breaking the commitment.
No one said he can’t be trusted because of that.
He should have left Irina and went straight to therapy. I understand why he chose her, it was based on his insecurities. That’s a problem. He’s got a lot of work to do with his issues from his upbringing.
I think he’s wrong for turning around and proposing. I would’ve been all on board for them just dating.
But Zack KNEW Irina was vicious he said it himself. It’s not like he chose someone similar in personality to Bliss he chose a younger “vicious” immature person over a more mature wifey type. I honestly think he heard “25 and Russian” and knew he was gonna choose Irina. 🤷🏾♀️ It does speak to his character and I too would have a hard time getting over it - especially since it’s only been a few weeks
Yes Zach does disregard Bliss’ feelings !! Omg i hope she says no. Maybe date and take it slow. But she deserves better!
Kwame has the upper hand due to having older siblings that have been married before. The sister knew exactly how to swoop in and support him and it sounds like he isn’t too much of a support system for them though. He’s lucky to have them. They said all the right things to make up for the parents not being there
Yes, I noticed that the sister says that he doesn't check in with them as often. However, both of his siblings are lovely people. I liked them more than Kwame if I'm honest.
Kwame is gonna say No! He was finding every excuse in the book to create an issue. I’m sorry for Chelsea! Smh
Every excuse!!!
I think that he will use his mother as the final excuse. That's why he slipped in that line about her being his best friend.
He's going to say yes, he wants this influencer fame 😩😩
@@joanna0988 he can get it without her...at least he'll probably think so.
@@Angel-gp6tx I think he sees more potential as a couple. It's been reported that Lauren and Cameron are worth about $6m.
I think Kwame will say yes because he's clearly here for the publicity ride. He's got that amazing salesman fortitude and he's gunna take it all the way to the bank. The first year of marriage will be hard indeed but that's as long as he needs to rake in that interview money. I feel bad for Chelsea because she seemed way more sensible before they met....now she's clearly in love/d*ckmatised and it's skewing her judgement. Poor girl 😢
To me, Chelsea is clingy & suffocating, she has almost an unhealthy obsession with this man who’s just lukewarm about her. Both nice people, but I’m not sure they’re right together. With that said, he def does NOT belong with Micah …she would chew him up & spit him out fairly quickly. Run up the credit cards, too. And then probably flirt with his best friend. Just sayin 🤷🏻♀️.
Zack is DEFINITELY bothered by his mom being a stripper because he NEVER shuts up about it like 😭😭😭 we know!!
I feel like no one even asks what your deceased parent did for a living anyways lol. Just say she was a homemaker . I would because I’m sure I would be bothered by it.
He says it bothers him. No surprise there. It isn't an issue that he brings it up, better than hide plus it seems like people have had an issue with it.
It's traumatic
Exactly what I said re Kwame! Dude coming up with all sorts of external factors and making it seem like it’s unfair to everyone except Chelsea, when he knew in advance the circumstances such as his mom’s beliefs and location of show. That’s why Chelsea asked whether he’d say yes regardless of his mom’s approval… she at least recognized game, but she’s still delusional.
His mom knows he is not serious abt Chelsea so she wants nothing to do with the mess. We all know the calls with his mom were staged.
I said before I need me a Brett. But at this point judging by his warm wholesome family, I’m A ok with a Brett…or his brother or any other brothers he may have. 💯
How did Brett come out so thin? I need to see baby photos.
YES! Zach absolutely disregards her feelings sometimes.
Every single time and for whatever reason people ignore it
He wants her to forget he proposed to someone else. It’s actually quite selfish not to give her that opportunity to heal . But at the same time she needs to get over it or leave him . It’s hindering the relationship
I’m wondering if Zach ever actually said he was sorry? I don’t remember him saying that so maybe she still feels like she doesn’t have closure about it. He said he made the wrong choice, it was a mistake, it was awful, but did he say he was genuinely deep down sorry like a big apology? I think he’s sort of assuming she will just get it that he made a mistake and is sorry. But maybe she just needs to hear those words to let it go.
On his IG he said that watching the show back he hated how logical and cold he is and that he's working on being a more emotionally supportive man.
@@joanna0988 that’s good he’s reflecting on it!
I really think Kwame will say yes because of the pressure from his sister and with Chelsea saying yes. He knows he can at least gain a social media presence from this. If he does say yes, I don’t think it will be because he really wants to marry her.
I think that he will say no and blame it on his mom not accepting it. Then, we will see him on the next season of Perfect Match, Love Island, or some other Netflix show.
I felt that too, though I won't be surprised if he says no, but if he says yes I still don't think he's all in and would only be saying yes to continue dating and figuring things out.
@@UpliftedNow omg right? I tough the same, he is using LIB as the first step only.
and if he says NO…he can be cast on perfect match.
@@UpliftedNow That man is not hot enough for love island 😂💀
Micah and Paul have no substance. I can't take them serious. Listening to them, I haven't gained anything.
Yesss they're just so superficial together. Just nothing really going on there that I see
I honestly don’t know if Bliss will ever be over the fact that she’s the second option (somewhat rightfully so), and especially due to the way Zach always responds with “but you know I choose you in the end” or “you know I know you’re the right choice”, which to me brushes it off as if she still can not fully trust his decisions. Idk hut great review Tammy can’t wait to get into it for these weddings lol
My prediction bliss and Zack marry and Brett and Tiffany nobody else makes ot
I don't think Tiffany will say yes.
Have you seen the preview?
He’s going to keep reminding her and she’s not going to not mention it. It’s like cheating…when they say they’re working past it but keep bringing it up for every situation.
I’m sure that’s clickbait
@@TammyTalks I hope so, I'm scared now
I definitely fear kwame would constantly resent having to basically fit into Chelsea’s life/ make all the compromises and uproot his life, but again as we’ve mentioned before why are you on a show in Seattle if you wanna stay in Portland?
Right I don’t see it working out. If a man loves you he will move mountains and make a way to be with you. Even Paul has decided to compromise and move because he loves Micah.
Don’t do it Kwame. She will change as soon as you say I do! You will be miserable. She will try to run everything and be very controlling!
@@joycewilliams1755 Change how? She's already acting crazy 😅
Shelby’s advice to Micah is unreliable, because she’s always drinking when she gives it.
Always!
And Micah is always lit when she’s listening to it lol
@@Msladyrae92 yes!!!😂😂😂
Yes.
Shes in love with Micah. Or does she think micah should be with a wealthy man because she keeps saying Micah deserves the world. what does that mean...material possessions? She's definitely a hater. I don't like the word because it's used loosely and idiots apply it to people for just having an opinion. But in this case, Shelby is definitely hating on micah's happiness n thinks Paul owes her something.
Tiffany is losing it. I think that her concern us that she's not worthy of Brett. She was crying about him seeing things in her that she doesn't see in herself and that's hard for her. She keeps mentioning finances - which makes me think that there's something off with hers. She's 36 and has a roommate but it sounds like she has a decent enough job to be able to have her own place. Something weird is going on. Because this is LIB, it's not like she is planning ghis entire wedding by herself from scratch. In the pods, she seemed so together and it seems like sunce they came back from the resort, she's been so anxious and all over the place. Then in the preview, we see Brett saying, It shouldn't be like this, and Tiffany sitting on the bed crying her eyes out. This could just be Production editing things to try and fool us but it definitely seems like something is wrong.
Yeah I'm a lil nervous of their situation too. She may be feeling overwhelmed from the reality of it all, & she mentioned how she is back at work & no matter what she has been doing there it has been impossible to catch up. I feel for her because as a woman, it's hard handling a full-time, high-stress job & then all of your other obligations on top of it. She's trying to maintain work, her appearance, impress him, think about everyone regarding the wedding, & no I'm sure she is not planning it all the way one normally would, but maybe there is more than meets the eye when it comes to that. She is a lovely person, she's just a bit stressed out which I think is perfectly understandable. Also keep in mind they're just regular degular people who've been having their whole lives filmed for national TV & there's still uncertainty even if they both think they're solid! I get why she is stressed
I wish they showed more real convos instead of just them saying “I love you, your the one” maybe we would understand why she’s stressed cause at this point I’m just yelling TIFFANY DONT FUMBLE THE BAG. Brett is a dream man.
Right ngl I started skipping their parts bc it became tiffany always being anxious about something. There's def something going on w finances. Brett probably makes more which is usually an ok dynamic but here idk it seems like tiffany is just stressing about doing her part when she just needs to relax & be.
Tiffany is a red flag but people are pretending not to see it because "black love"
How is she a red flag?
The conversation that Zach had with his fiancé’s parents at the table was just heartbreaking. It was so uncomfortable to watch him talk about law to her father, who was barely listening and everyone just walked away in the middle of him talking. I felt terrible for him and for his fiancé.
Zach's convo about how laws are made for the public makes more sense than all ball games put together. The law is the order of this life. Bliss' dad was so wrong on that one.
He randomly started talking about it, oh was awkward and out of place. Which is why everyone reacted the way they did.
I think he knew that her dad didn't like the fact that he wasn't into sports or his beloved golf and fishing, so he was trying to show where his own strengths were. He is awkward and struggles socially, but her dad came in no even willing to give him a chance or get to know this man. I don't like Bliss' dad at all. He could easily have handled things differently.
It seems to me, that Zack doesn’t seem to have the ability to know what’s appropriate to talk about at the right time. It seems to me that brevity was important at that moment. Bliss’s dad was immediately bored. Zack strikes me as someone on the Aspergers syndrome spectrum.
Right, he was clearly nervous but it was very rude for everyone to treat him like that. We gotta have empathy. It’s very stressful to meet the family
4:26 this part! I would want someone who wants to marry me. I wouldn't want someone who's just doing it because they made the commitment so now they have to see it through.
Chelsea doesn't care who she marries as long as she's living her fantasy
11:21 I think Micah just likes having someone around. They both must have been single for a while prior to this
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Thanks!!! Glad you enjoyed!
i just found your page and i’m obsessed with your hot takes!! you do a great job and say all the things i am thinking when watching this season lol you’re on point
You had me laughing hysterically about Kwame’s missing tooth being on display to much in that episode ! Great video you are awesome!
Kwame is gonna give a bartise speech.
Kwame didn't shed not one tear at the altar , barley smiled, nor did he tell her she's beautiful, no compliments... he said and did nothing chii
Brett's dad is perfect!
Chelsea is a future Karen.
Jackie is selfish and a waste of time.
I love Tiffany and Brett ❣️
Chelsea would be a ride or die for Kwame but also would smother him to death
I agree minus Chelsea being a Karen. I think people are judging her behavior harshly when she's with a man who is giving her mixed signals and telling his first choice he misses her whenever they see each other.
Chelsea isn't a Karen, she is more committed to the idea of marriage with Kwame despite of every red flag that she has received from him. And she passive aggressive with her approach with him.
kwame’s demeanor whenever he talks about or to chelsea bothers me so much and i dont think he’s gonna say yes. He talks about her as if shes a nuisance who just wont stop bugging him!
Thank you !!!! That woman makes his skin crawl 97% of the time
Girl! It killed me that they left us waiting a whole week to find out Kwame's answer! I was fully convinced he was going to say no, until I heard those vows he said (and honestly, I think he had memorised cos it sounded like he was reciting, but I'm not mad about it). Those new episodes on April 14th can't come fast enough! Love your commentary, thanks for doing these vids ❤
It's simple. Chelsea envisions she's in her own reality show. She's already written the script and Kwame better stick to it.
Kwame is what playing in your face with a straight face looks like.
I’m binge watching all your videos! My fav CZcams but the Chelsea red flags comment got me 😂 she has her own bullet proof vest on.
There’s no way Chelsea is only 30… that woman look like she’s been through a few generations chile
Girl I don’t even watch this show, just recaps and only subscribed to one other CZcamsr who does this. Yours was so good I had to subscribe !
Ahh snaps, thanks! ☺️
YOU ARE SO FUNNY - I AGREE WITH EVERYTHING YOU SAID! Great video 👍🏾
I see that 10K Coming your way! Great breakdown as usual!!!
So close!
@@TammyTalks Well deserved! you're the only person I come to for the Married At First Sight and Love is Blind recaps. I always feel like i'm listening to a family member or friend i've known for a while when you talk.
@@AliFamilyEnt awwww thank you!
Omg this channel is everything I needed right now 🤣
Chelsea's desperation knows no bounds... Smh...
😬😬😬so true she’s a bit cringe
It’s so difficult and sad to watch!!
She’s a kind person who really wanted a relationship and went all in. Wtf is wrong with what she did ? She seems like a really great person who fell for a p.o.s so weird to see ppl attack her when she didn’t do anything wrong
@@ichiban6004 I think its more that because she's a great person it's annoying for people to see her fawning over someone who doesn't treat her the same way back and isn't as invested in her as she is in him. It comes across as desperation at this point when viewers have seen kwame go on about micah and lack interest in Chelsea repeatedly despite her attempts to do everything to shower him in love and affection. In a normal relationship this would be cute and it's a shame for her that she won't see what the rest of us do and break it off with Kwame, because she is better than that and no one deserves second place.
Ok … all the RED FLAGS are definitely there for Chelsea I agree with you and I’ve always maintained that Kwame don’t wanna marry that girl but the only thing that gives me pause is that he allowed his bro and sis to be apart of the wedding and his sis made some type of comment about “ there’s no turning back, you didn’t get me way out here to turn back “
So I wonder how heavy he’s allowing that to weigh on his decision … but even if he say yes it’s temporarily lol 😂
I had to subscribe! Twas the intro for me! ♥️💯⚡️🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
you are cracking me up....side tooth missin...his brother did get all the looks DAMNNNN
I was so glad when you said that about Bliss' voice being annoying.....thought I was the only one. Enjoyed your breakdown. :) Chelsea seems to not be able to pick up on all the red flags.
Great review!
Loved your reviews as always. The red flags 🚩🚩🚩are poppin 😆 😂 🤣. Desperation not a good look. Brett's fam are so huggable and lovely as is Zachs fam. Glad he has fam they made it seem like he was completely alone in da world. 💜 Marshall could've pulled the plug on that relationship but he's too nice. Josh tryin to get an invite to da finale cookout. 🧐 He's got it! That reunion gonna be 🔥 ya just know! 💯✅️ Divorce affects kids in different ways so we need to be mindful of that.🙏🏾 We're not in their homes nor in their minds. Micah and Paul doing the most considering they aren't getting married. 🤔 Why did it feel like production was reaching for content on Tiff n Brett? Leave that golden couple alone‼️⚠️
Subbing ready for the live show! ☕️🐸
Chelsea reminds me of that Get Out chick .
I don’t trust her she is so desperate to be married you can tell she doesn’t love herself or find comfort being alone. If K says yes she will lock him down with a baby so quick and try to mold him into her ideal marriage .. he is already over it. He doesn’t want her to get to know his people, shopping together, be her trophy boy or co-parent the dog . I’m she surprised him on the honeymoon but not enough to keep his eyes on her or be satisfied with just 5seconds of fame.
I agree what you said about Zack
I want to like him and it seems like he wants to do the right thing and be a better person, but it’s as if he’s not really willing to do the things to make it happen.
I also peep game on how he’s kind of disregarding bliss’s feelings about how he made her feel.
@Mindful Check In she’s definitely not desperate, but yea she probably shouldn’t marry him if she can’t get over it
Kwame has found his way out, he doesn’t have his mother’s approval, so he going to say NO!!!
Easy excuse to use
@@TammyTalks exactly!
@@TammyTalks do you think he’s gaslighting her when he says he loves her, she’s so wonderful, calls her babe, etc?
He gonna whip out that card so he doesn't have to feel like the bad guy, like back in the day when we didn't want to go outside with the neighborhood friends for whatever reason & we'd be like, "my mom said I'm not allowed"
@@daisylavenderlove yes!!! That made me laugh!! 😂😂😂😂
Kwame’s sister Barbara is the EPITOME OF A SIBLING! She even brought a cultural gift for chelsea!! I want to say I’ve seen it but I kinda haven’t like this where the roles are BM/WW. 🥰 I’d trade in all 3 of my sisters for her!
Edit: it truly is giving Raven & SK’s wedding vibes. Especially how the mom came to Raven before the wedding. So we’ll see how Barbara does after.😖
When Chelsea was wearing her wedding dress and said I can just picture myself walking down the aisle to my husband in this dress, I noticed she hesitated when she said husband and the look in her eyes told me she new this wasn’t it for her but she is ignoring everything and going through with it anyway… which is sad.
The sub count going up every video has me just 🥹🥹 Early congrats on 10K 🎉🍾
Hey girl!
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Yay I came early!! I love your commentaries ❤
Chelsea is definitely in denial. I feel bad that Kwame's sweet sister was put through this mess just for him to end up saying no 😭
Those red flags that are bouncing back to her are largely initiated by her. She wants K to join her team and compromise his entire life for her and cannot comprehend why K (or any other man) would have reservations about that. She's a nice lady, but her attitude "It's my way or the highway" is the source of all their problems and problems for any future relationship she might have. K struggles to compromise and let her have her way but has to suppress a lot of quite reasonable questions/reservations to do so.
Bliss should be very concerned about Zack's explanation
Absolutely!
I’m starting to get what everyone was saying about Zak. I don’t think he’s an asshole but pretty navel gazey for an adult and seems to like to talk about himself at every opportunity - even during a convo with his fiancés family about why SHE is special
Constantly trying to proof himself
The missing side tooth 😂 I am cracking up!!
You made great points about Zach's internalized shame over his mom. If a boyfriend of mine told me his mom was a stripper, I would be like, "Ok, pass the potatoes please." Here's what I want to know, though - why was Zach's mom and stripper AND poor as hell?
I suspect that there is probably a lot more to his growing up years that he isn't talking about. It may be that many in today's times are fine with it, but if at the time when he was younger, people treated him and his mom badly, he would have some trauma associated with that. Also, he went to law school and became a lawyer, but that group of people can have a lot of the types that grew up with money and the reality is, people with wealth do judge those who didn't. They often feel that if they don't have similar backgrounds, they choose not to be in relationships with different people. Zach seems like he's spent a lot of time on the outside looking in, even after he's become successful. That can definitely add to his insecurities about his mother being a stripper and how that fact as always affected his life.
Prolly drugs
It depends on where she was geographically. She could have been at a topless bar in a small town. Then she def wouldn’t be making much. There’s a misconception and glamorization of stripping these days. Unless you’re in a major city … it’s not going to be super lucrative
@@Msladyrae92 then why do it?
I just realized that we didn't meet Tiffany's parents....
Nope. We only saw her mom at the wedding dress fitting
The way you read, Kwame, and his missing side tooth 😂
Lmao
I think the issue Zack has was in his past relationships, he grew up in extreme poverty, and someone online saw court records of stuff from when he was a minor with issues with his family. So he overcame that, but was still judged as "white trash" to families of his other partners. So it appears that Bliss comes from a somewhat wealthy family, her dad owns his own business, and seems to enjoy activities that come with wealth, fishing, golfing, etc. He seemed to be very judgemental towards Zack. Even claiming that he wasn't a successful lawyer. He was alot.
Court records? Related to foster care? Zack is my favourite I love him and Bliss together
@L’esprit de l’escalier golf is a sport that cost money, and over 100k is considered upper middle class, it is in most places wealthy.
Golfing and fishing are not reserved for the wealthy
@@TammyTalks yes, I know they are not reserved for the wealthy. They do tend to be hobbies held by people who are considered "wealthy" or upper middle class because they have the means to support the habit, a boat to fish and club membership, etc. It doesn't mean that average people don't do it as well. Someone like Zack born as he said extremely poor, it would seem out of his reach.
@@chasingthesun90 Wow you nailed Bliss's dad there 😅 I think Zach was right to be scared because Bliss described her dad in the pods perfectly. He doesn't like anyone and he's hard to please. I was pissed that he was so judgmental while sitting next to his 2nd wife and Bliss almost in tears when she mentioned her parents divorce. Bliss's mom is amazing and I cried when she spoke to Zach about being his mom too. My mother in law is very cold and in 17 years I've never felt comfortable calling her mom.
Great review. Kwame is nervous AF. I hope he says no because this isn't gonna work. Side note. If I have to see that Tic Tok ad of the lady with cups changing colors when she claps her hands one more time I'm gonna lose it.
Marshall is available 😂. The first time I saw Jackie and Marshall out the pods, I zeroed in on Jackies eyes and felt like Marshalls older sister for a milli- second, said to my phone:."Run Marshall run." Micah don't be stunnin😂..you tell it sis. And Zach...and Zach. Much luck to Bliss.Brett fione and cool as he wanna be. Kwame and Chelsea I don't care about. Shelby is odd. Micah didn't pick Kwame becuz he's black. Kwames sister I'd hang out with. Yes the side tooth I saw(kwame) the brother I was astonished... and rewinded the wedding scene a couple of times. I didn't expect that.
I wish I had Brett’s brother’s fro!!!! Love it!!!
Just thick and luscious
@@TammyTalksreminds me of Angela Davis!!
Loved the fro and beard combo
The picture you showed of Micah makes her frown lines look like she’s been a smoker for 15 plus year. She gives me the vibes that she’ll age like Britney Spears.
😂😂😂
I’m probably one of the few people who think she’s actually pretty
@@Sweetbunniez I have a feeling she would look better with her natural hair color and sans lip fillers
She shouldn't have those Marionette lines at age 26. I'm white too but at 34 I still don't have those. I suspect she doesn't protect her skin at all from sun and drinks regularly.
@@Sweetbunniez I think she’s gorgeous. Tit was just that picture with the angle and lighting. If she will age well will depend on all the preventative care she does now.
I definitely thought that Micah told Shelby she wasn't going to say yes
Chelsea's Glass Half full concept has turned into delusion.
I completely forgot bliss and Zack had that moment about the wedding song. Then he picked Irina. Foolishnes
I just don't get Paul and Michah they confuse me. But I really like Paul, if I ever cross over to the other side I want a Paul or a Camron.🤣 I have my feelings about Brett and the vibes he gave off but there is something inspiring about him and I love to see it and I love seeing him on screen.
I personally think it's money. I think when he said he was an ex soccer player, that's when she knew she wanted to be with him.
Chelsea is trying to talk her fairly tale life into existence. And she's fuller of herself than a trashcan after Thanksgiving. IT'S EXHAUSTING 😑
She is afraid of being alone. That’s a real phobia for many people Chelsea’s main problem is that, or she feels like this is her last chance. Another reason could be that she is tired of being disappointed so she is working to make things work.
....I agree 100%, even after they said, "I do" & supposedly together an entire year, 🤔🧐🎯
For me that argument that kwame started when chelsea said do I look ok or sound ok, was just not called for and to me he was just trying to find an excuse so when he say no at the altar doesn’t look like bad guy. He should be honest with her that he is attracted to someone else.
BIG RED FLAG when you are engage and you say you are attracted to someone else !!!!
Bliss’s mum seems so kind hearted but her dad is so miserable
Kwame's side tooth comment took me out!!!! 😂💀
I don’t understand people that are missing side teeth 🦷
I'm Bliss... I mean.. second
🗣️😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
He’s going to say no. I think one person in each couple will say no,
@@iloveme567 Even Tiffany and Brett??
I think Tiffany will say no
HA 😂😂😂😂
Kwame lives out of state and has no friends where they are currently filming. I would think its hard for those ppl to be around for casual meet and greets in such a short time frame when they'd want to make the wedding. Chelsea mentioned meeting his sister and brother via facetime before they met in person.
But poor Chelsea... she is so blinded to a fault. She is only concerned on how she feels, that she doesnt notice how he feels.
Kwame doesn't deserve Chelsea. End of. Chelsea should have seen the red flags.
Kwame 's brother sort of resembles Morris Chestnut to me.
Kwame has no good side lol.
Chelsea saying “ I picked you “ creeped me tf out.
Paul is the most attractive guy ever on LiB, he is goofy nerdy, eco friendly and he is super handsome yet he is not cocky at all
Yeah I ❤ Paul!
Agree with you about Bliss’ voice. Why do so many women today talk that way?
Shelby always has that link just like the movie the best man…lol
I think kwame siblings came from Ghana based off her saying they cane alll the way there
No they didn't. They just live in another state.
Run Kwame! RUNNNN! This girl is a bulldozer and you'll never have a voice in this relationship unless y'all go to therapy. And you never want to go into a relationship with this many red flags. Chelsea is in love with the idea of getting married. I'm not sure she's really ready to be married. Because marriage is ultimately about compromise and she doesn't seem like she's ready to compromise on her part.
Yeah 1000% she’s just into the idea of getting married! She doesn’t take any of kwames reservations seriously and I don’t even think she really sees him as his own person tbh. She’s projected this fantasy on him and can’t even see the real him anymore like yikes
Nothing to do with the show but I wanted to say that I grew up in Wisconsin and now live in Nashville! Haha how weird?!
I feel like the honeymoon phase is over for zac now he doesn’t seem as in love anymore…I pray for Bliss I’m getting the vibe that she’s feeling a soulmate connection with zac
Why do you think that?
@@Adaobieistyping he seems very dry now and the conversation in the pool raised my eyebrows when he said he would commit because he made a decision that he would not because he wants to….he keeps saying “you know I love you” I dunno seems weird to me…I can feel the love oozing from Bliss for him but not the other way around…I feel like because he messed up before choosing wrong he’s going through with it because it would look really bad if he broke up with her after chasing her…I feel like he’s not even complimenting her….he describes her really good to others but I don’t see him affirming her with the same words he’s using to describe her……also I saw a video that Zac has a child…do we know if that’s true?
I've been saying this for the past couple of episodes. Her dad sees through th bs, and so do I.
@@sshias278 They film them 16 hours a day and show us 45min episodes. I think they're a boring couple but they're solid and the show is just creating drama.
@@joanna0988 well I hope that’s what it is for Bliss’ sake
Micah is not feeling paul. She’s not acting excited about the possibility of getting married to him.
Paul. But I see how you can make that mistake. But Paul is the other nerdy guy with curly hair who has a job as an activist. But he’s slightly less nerdy than Zack.
@@WonderfulWorldofAwesomeness thank you for the correction. I’m getting the names all mixed up! Lol