Light And Dark | Interview Trauma Of 14y/d Son’s Murder, Led Father To using CARLITO
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I think the man is tormented enough without repeating the same questions over and over.
I think the way the interviewer is questioning him is abit too personal and he should learn how to ask the questions properly
i have to agree, I rate the interview but retrumatsing some for youtube views is NOT the one
It’s a very sensitive subject your dealing with here. Loosing your Son or close family member is something you could never understand until it happens to you. Take time and think about your questions!
Yes I agree
Bro you need to make your interview questions more relatable ,
Carlito needs therapy and support. The devils gripped him. Hope this brother finds peace.
This guy tryin to interview man needs to learn some skills n actually showing some emotion to people
“God give, god take it” felt that
Real shit
This guy comes across hard but broken 😞 my ❤️goes out to him
If you take the time to listen to addicts instead of judging them you will find many have tragic stories of abuse and loss which has led them to do what they do
@Smoke Piffington 95 percent of them ? SHow me the paper that prove it please . COz we don't throw numbers like that , so show me a studys.
Of course they have tragic stories!!!! It’s the heart and intention that counts. Only the willpower gets people out!
That's the nature of addiction
My Colombian brother my heart breaks for you . May your child rest in peace 🙏🏻 🇨🇴👑
I know the interviewer is trying to encourage him to turn around his life, but he should try to avoid arguing with him as this will make the guy resist and potentially shut down altogether.
Well said!
He is just doing an interview and trying to prompt a response from the person to show how drugs can affect people and give an insight to what people on drugs feel and what they think of their addiction and why they do it.
@@mysteryman9641 damn your actually everywhere.I thought u just stuck to drill wtf
@@Unknown-jl7tt I don't even comment on much drill anyway but people that watch drill think no other videos exist.
@@mysteryman9641 I agree with your last point.but dont lie now.your literally known for commenting on drill vids
May Allah make it easy for you Amigo. There’s light in the end. This world is temporary.
If you say so prove it.
@@andyparsley3744 Everything scientific the Quran had said 1400 years ago, has been proven correct many centuries later due to technological advances. Those things that can’t be proven, like heaven and hell, I still believe in because of the Qurans track record of being proven right.
@@n.a7690 what are expecting to see in heaven? What are all the dead doing all day looking down on others? You live you die. Your talking about a book plagiarised from the bible and Torah both also nonsense, didn't angel Gabriel resite book to an illiterate goat hurder named Muhammad and didn't someone split the moon on a winged horse haven't seen that in any science books.
@@andyparsley3744 Clearly not well versed on Islamic scripture or theology.
@@andyparsley3744 each to their own. I hope you’re not disappointed with what you get the day your soul leaves your body.
I love his accent. It’s like a mixture of London slang/patois/Columbian
Thought the same thing. Would be a sick audio book voice or narrator
Mixture of London slang/ Jamaican
@@mop2mop thatd b great job for this man
Kinda mediterannian too
The interviewer is chatting to him like his childhood bredrin. He needs to do media skills my man kept talking about his son when it was clearly affecting man
Life its too short some. People rare for kids become 17 15 13 14 and die from car accident and yat there family keep going even thaugh they hurt, life das not stop there, u will be united with ure family depands if you stay good, but for know life its short so live it,
@@tamimtimimi2347 what are u talking about? the guy just said his son was murder
“God give, god take” Carlito 2021❤️
Be strong brother and be the man your boy knows you can be big C
This guy would look good in a movie. Hope he turns his life around, got so much potential
Well done for putting this out. Sorry for your loss 🙏🏾
Poor man. Tragic. I am so sorry for your loss. Lovely man who is lost in grief
7:10 “ I know your son died yeah ... “ bro r u serious why r u repeating his pain ?
So untactful, I cringed. Smh
No empathy
To be honest the interview is just gassed up talking to these lot in a way he’s mocking it asking how they they feel then telling them how they should live their lives like he’s been through the same
Yeah its not good, but we all make mistakes........easy for us to be critical.....
He sounds so cold. He shouldn’t do interviews tbh
So sorry for his pain. A loss of a child is like a nightmare you can never stop seeing.....shhhh is deep. Someone give him a hug for me💔💔💔
Blessings and light on your journey ✊🏾🙏🏾🤲🏾🤎
This is raw 😢
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I’m so sorry for your loss. I can’t imagine anything worse than losing a child. He is with God rest assured. I was addicted to crack for two years and how I quit was to move away from the scene. I know your son would want you to be better. I hope you may find the strength enough to get clean. God bless you man.
Big up yourself, i did the same and relocated you did well to only be on it for 2 years but you did the best thing and got away from it 🙏
Any loss is sad but God and heaven do not exist when your gone it's the same as before you were born.....
Fair play to you for getting away from those kind of drugs. Usually once your on it that's you done. I have a lot of respect for people who put the effort in to know they have an addiction and beat it. I hope you have a good life now and wish you all the best...✌
I'm 21 years clean and sober also from east London so sad to see and hear this there's no morals today I'm from the old school ok I done what I done but I knew where to draw the line even when I was on L&D its mad today my man is right what he is saying about the young ones but it's like the pide piper money is the route of all eveil unless u earn it the right way...my life of crime was drink and drug related now it feels good to earn a pound note the right way good luck to all in these videos 🙏🏻
I feel his pain man. Nothing worse than seeing your kid go before you. He looks like them type of crackheads that are on job though. £100 and he’ll body man.
You can't be multilingual and an idiot. I hope this guy reaches his full potential and finds peace soon.
He’s very quick, good sense of humour, knows about Carlito’s way and has a good grasp of pop culture etc
Speaking truth, youngers need to learn this gang gang life ...streets will always win
Really hit home my son just turned 15 so I can't imagine the pain this guy is going through .. dont give up brother stay strong 🙏 do your son proud
I'm sorry Carlito for your awful loss. Nothing but best wishes.peace ♥️
💔💔💔 RIP to the young boy , inshallah this brother is guided the straight path ❤️proper heartbreaking stuff
This interviews needs to learn some skills man asked a addict “is it hard to be a addict” Bro wat
The question is simple, but can trigger thoughts to which he may reveal something beneficial.
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This is pure pain. Looks like he needed to let that out. So Sad, big up Carlito thanks for sharing..I hope you can get thru this rough time & start to enjoy life again. R.I.P to your little man
Carlito... If you ever read this, I'm here for you my guy.
Interviewer needs more empathy
Lmao who are you to be randomly judging traumatized people like that, 😂 conduct your interview w challenging questions but stay neutral w/o those silly quotes.
4:25
Word 🤦🏿♂️
Aside from his addiction and trauma.. this guy has a smart mindset. Mans rlly spitting nothing but facts but just because of his situation people will judge him and label him as a “crackhead”!
People don't understand what pain does to people but all people do is mock
🙏😥
Yup! Everyone needs to have compassion.. As no one knows what's round the corner! No one can judge... We're all fucking non perfect idiots... Every single one of us!
You need to watch soft white under belly for interview tips
Love that Chanel
Thanks for response ..these uploads are really awesome thanks I'm 7 mths off heroin and benzo ..sending love and light and respect on giving these ppl a platform to tell there story's ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Real talk, All this gang ish till you're in a cell on your ones! Books and Facts over Hoods and Straps!
Cringe.
Books n facts over hoods n straps
Cringe
@@dannycrow1096 man waited a month to say it again 😂👏🏽
Cringe
Firstly I would like to big up light and dark,keep up early good work in getting the stories of drug addiction out there to help prevent drug use.secondly I would like to say I'm a new subscriber and would like to send a big condolences to carlito I'm so sorry for your lost I hope you find the strength to get off crack at the moment his fresh in the scene but trust me talking from experience of that drug the problems just gets worst the pain just gets worst. wishing him all the best
Seems like a decent guy dealing with grief - good luck to him
This is my favourite interview so far. It's deep.
My brother your son Gone to heaven to pave the way for you...
He watches over his dad, and prays for affliction to be moved from his pops way..
He is a source for big blessings to come your way..
Separation kills, BUT hope of reunite is a sweet feeling, stay blessed my bro, abd you will meet him soon..... But not yet.. Not yet..
Fairytales are strong with religions.
@@oldskoolstu
Fairiy tales are for the irreligious, the religious Belive with belief...
Gotta be hard to lift yourself out of the dark thoughts after losing a kid. All the best to this guy.
I pray for calito my brother to get the happiness he deserves life 🙏🏾👊🏾🙏🏾
the streets are like a casino you take chances while tryna short cut for a small fortune but the casino always wins as do the streets..
this is as raw interview as they come.
feel for this guy,.
a massive part him went and you can bloody tell.
my advice to him would be your not 40 yet give life another chance and get off that slippery road you have been on because it only goes one way.
This guy should be in the new top boy season.
So much pain its hard to watch. God bless this man
Your channel name Light and dark made me think about whites and gear straight away then i noticed the videos are all of addicts. I'm from walsall and I've been stuck on the gear and white for 12 years now but been messin about with it since 2004. I wish i never went near drugs at all. Ruined my life. New subscriber here anyway guys. Keep it up.
I just relapsed on the darks after 8 years clean. My trigger was the loss of my baby. I live in Cannock nr to walsall! Its an hard area to be in if you want to get better, but with will power and prayer you will get through it. God bless you 🙏❤ xx
@@linzianna dear me here's me thinking nobody will see me talkin about gear and then someone from Cannock pops up!!! Lol. I've become an undercover user in recent years as people think I got clean but it was truthfully only for a few months. I live in the centre of town and all I got to do is go near my window and I see people waitin to score. Sorry to hear about the loss of your baby. Here's to hoping we sort ourselves out ay it!
@@theamateuranimator3163 I’m from walsall 🙌🏼 EDIT: & guess where I am tonight (yeah Cannock by one stop shop @ my mates what’s the chances of that ay 🤣😊)
Respect for this, what a story. Sorry for the loss of your son Carlitos 🙏🏻
Man Like Carlito. Mad respect for you opening up on here bro. I hope you realise that your life is just as important as your sons. I hope you live a good life for yourself and for your son 🙏🏾💯
man this is heartbreaking
I feel dis guys pain.. Very sad. God bless u & hope u find peace.. 🙏🏾👊🏽😔
This made me cry so much ,I have my son and truly couldn't live without him I feel his pain is unspeakable loss and to make it worse his son was murdered. And still had the wisdom to say and belive that "God gives and takes".
What was so shocking to me is the lack of empathy shown by the man doing the interview his cold line of questioning was at best reckless and showed that it was about him and not the pain of the victim in front of him. This man needs
therapy and love.
Respect the awareness and interviews but do feel the approach in conversation needs to be brushed up a bit, show some compassion towards some stories..
He's right about hypocritical society ... people smile to ur face then stab u in the back, fake people everywhere in life. Good luck and god bless Carlito.
He’s a real one
This is so sad hope he gets the help he needs 🙏🏽
His pain ☹️
Hope he finds peace!
I feel his pain. This is heartbreaking💔
My bro...nothing but prayers and wisdom for u carlito....keep Ur head up and putburbtrustbin the lord my brother
So much respect for this man I won't stop spreading this word, I'm 41 taught myself to mc in 2 years as coping, and it's constantly coming out on the beats, homless for 8 years. I have no respect for gangs guns or shit chart music that glorify it, always another way to survive ❤️
You can feel the pain when he talks about the death of his son.
The streets and jail gave me a opioid addiction so I know why this guy needed to escape reality. I really hope he finds peace in his heart and body and gets himself sorted and most of all happy.
I feel for this brother may god bless him and rip to his lil boy
I saw Carlito 2 weeks ago walking with his friend, I recognised him from this upload and was in two minds to acknowledge him, it was his experience that made me want to acknowledge him, I said are you Carlito- knowing full well that Al Pacino is Carlito, Carlito had his sunglasses on and he peered over the rim to look at me, I told him a few words, he was a warm guy, he works the street and was doing so when I saw him but he took the time to acknowledge and he was bless
Carlito does not look 38 at all, more like 30, he looks well, and does not look like he's on the crack [I checked his eyes] when he said in this upload, God gives - God takes- that was the first time I had heard that set of words and this affected me during the first time watching his story..
Fantastic channel I moved from hackney when I was 7 n I have no doubt if I’d of stayed there I coulda walked down a similar path to a lot of the guys you’ve done videos on keep up the good work
Pushing this man to talk about something so painful is not how an interview is conducted. He offered that information freely. He told you key facts and you repeated those facts back to him as if you didn't listen the first time. Respect his struggle.
Damn 38 with a crisp hairline, mandem just be having good genetics like that n not doing anything with it
Yeah he could be a millionaire with a hairline like that.
@@FLIZEX hahaha
Lol most billionaires and CEO’s have shocking hairlines not sure where you came up with the idea of good hairline = money
Feel bad for this guy man :(
Bless this guy, you can see he is still is much in pain talking about his son. If any yute is watching this, take heed on what he said about the gangs an jail.. Rest in peace to his son an I hope this guy can find some sort of peace mentally an with his drug use...🙏🏾👊🏾❤🖤💚
This is sad man came for a better life for himself and his kids and this happened to his son 😢🙏
the pain in this man! I feel for him.
I hope he finds some peace and gets the support he needs. Kinda nice too
Now this man is in a situation but is giving knowledge to stop kids making the mistakes that causes them👊🏽
Nothing in this world can ever take away the pain of loosing your own child and no one in this world can make you feel better.. your whole life turns upside down for the rest of your life, nothing is the same again.. you blame your self you hold your self respect... living with regret is a painful but slow way of dying.
Sending you strength and hope Carlito! 💪🏻🙏🏼
So sorry for your loss boss 😔
God heal this man please i see that pain in his eyes
I want to see more from this dude.He got some natural charisma man.
This is hard to watch. I hope he can find peace
To say I feel he’s pain is an understatement, it’s like how do you argue with him he’s right in everything he’s saying and people deal with pain differently I couldn’t imagine having to go through what he’s been through, how do you tell someone who feels they have nothing to live for to live with their pain it’s a mad one I really do hope he gets the help he needs and can make he’s son proud 💛
I'm sorry for that man's loss I can't begin to imagine I've four boys and a girl myself
A lot of love to Carlito. That's a f**ked up story. So sorry for his loss. You never know who you might become when you lose the people you love.
It's guys like this and his story that society really needs to listen to. I think this guy could command a lot of respect and tell some hard truths to kids that might fall victim of gang life. Max respect and deep sorrow for your loss. Stay strong!
God bless you bro see him all the time never knew your story im sorry for your loss that is a fathers nightmare i pray you find peace bro 🙏🏿🖤
I hope he finds peace and love within himself. Sometimes we need to take ourselves away from not only surroundings but could be associates and make a fresh start for you. Go where you can be present don't over think and understand you are your peace nobody can give it to you. I 🙏🏽 he makes up his mind to want to stop.
You got to face up to it straight for the cure Brother the only way
This man speaks real
I hope he can heal from his trauma
You lot are doing really good with these topics
Keep grinding .... hope ur subscribers go over 100k 🙌🏽
I'm from a different generation. Growing up in London, while we had many of the same problems, I never saw olders grooming youngers for crime. It was the opposite. Many a time, olders told me "don't do this, don't go here, don't be like me". All about money now with no code. The breakdown of a society..
My heart goes out to him, how do you recover from losing your world ❤️🙏🏽❤️🙏🏽
This guy is a good person with a very good heart and a friend of mine we have laughed and cried together but most of all I know how addiction feels,sometimes as addicts we are all judged as the same But after all we are only humans that have lost our way most of all tho Carlito I pray that 1day when your ready you make the biggest Comeback luv ya loads boi stay safe me old mate 💙💙👍XX
Please show these videos in schools. Keep up the good work King 👑
the pain in this mans eyes is too much to watch i wish him strenggth which aint easy with the yayo demon
Heart breaking to lose yr son at that age. Theres no shame on these ones. Jus greed. You cant buy life. And these kids are dying for others greed. Karma.s coming no worries.
pain everywhere man. powerful
So sad heart goes out to him
rahhh this touched me still
How did he spent 5 years in jail for a robbery when his son died 3 years ago? He said he only started using after his son died
Mabe he was in jail before he died?. He said he started smoking when he died not doing crime init
Sorry for your loss brother may God be with you
I couldn’t imagine the pain
Respect brother I understand were your coming from