Caroline Myss - Nothing on the outside can command you.

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  • čas přidán 19. 06. 2024
  • You want to get to a place where you are strong enough in yourself so that you realize nothing on the outside can command you.
    Please enjoy this session from my live workshop "Anatomy of the Soul" presented in Vancouver in 2023. If you'd like to see the rest of this workshop - you can click here to learn more: bit.ly/4cple2M
    In this workshop we explore the seven levels of power that make up the design of the human soul. Each level of your soul is like an inner power system that you rely upon to navigate your external life. And each level resonates with soul qualities and grace that become animated within us as a consequence of the choices that we make throughout each moment of our life. Each level of your inner nature is a field of consciousness unto itself. The subjects we will discuss include:
    * A rich description of your seven levels of power
    * Merging the teachings of the chakras, the seven mansions of Teresa, the Tree of Life, and the major seven graces.
    * The power of choice and the wonder of words
    * What “co-creation” means and how you participate in creating your reality
    * Mystical consciousness: your true highest potential
    * What is a human being capable of understanding? What is our intuitive potential?
    * A new model for health and healing
    Each of these topics could be a workshop unto itself, as the teachings are so rich. This is an era of dynamic change as well as chaos, but truly it is a privilege to be alive at a time when we are discovering so much about the power of our own nature. This is truly a new era of human consciousness and beyond that, sacred consciousness.
    Love,
    Caroline
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    About Caroline Myss:
    Caroline Myss is a five-time New York Times bestselling author and internationally renowned speaker in the fields of human consciousness, spirituality and mysticism, health, energy medicine, and the science of medical intuition. Caroline established her own educational institute in 2003, CMED (Caroline Myss Education), which offers a diverse array of programs devoted to personal development and draws students from all over the world. In addition to her written work, Caroline maintains a rigorous international workshop and lecture schedule and has produced more than eighty audio/visual products on subjects that include healing, spirituality, personal development, and the study of archetypes.
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Komentáře • 170

  • @CarolineMyssSpiritualDirection

    If you'd like to see the rest of this workshop (Anatomy of the Soul) - you can click here to learn more: bit.ly/4cple2M

    • @CaitFinnegan-Grenier
      @CaitFinnegan-Grenier Před 7 dny

      Thank you, Caroline, for pointing out the lesson of the Cosmos. I experience it in my soul through music: COSMOS HALLELUJAH!
      czcams.com/video/fmNaropsCFg/video.htmlsi=yZap7WfCvTqrNVBX

    • @sisterinnepa7026
      @sisterinnepa7026 Před 7 dny +1

      @@CaitFinnegan-GrenierThank you! I love that song. It touched my soul!

    • @CaitFinnegan-Grenier
      @CaitFinnegan-Grenier Před 7 dny +1

      @sisterinnepa7026 Leonard Cohen gave the world a beautifully prayerful melody that so many have used. I'm grateful Caroline reminded me the prayer I put to it, and I thank God it touched you. 😊

    • @giffty
      @giffty Před 6 dny

      How can I purchase this specific talk? The link shows a different workshop

    • @giffty
      @giffty Před 6 dny

      I want this exact talk with the striped shirt. Which online course set is this in?

  • @firesidechatswithkristy677
    @firesidechatswithkristy677 Před 8 dny +110

    I've only watched the first four minutes and I had to comment: if every person understood her intro that would absolutely set people free. So powerful 👏

  • @rubywilliams9466
    @rubywilliams9466 Před 8 dny +72

    I always love her straightforwardness. She cuts the chase and treat us like ADULTS. She does not beat around the bush. Thank you Caroline. We need this.👏🏽

  • @maureenharrison1261
    @maureenharrison1261 Před 6 dny +26

    To live in the power of our soul rather than the power of our ego.
    There it is. ❣️❣️

  • @debbieelkington1643
    @debbieelkington1643 Před 7 dny +25

    She’s on a roll today! Have to keep pausing to digest these truths- thank you Caroline 🙏🏼

  • @giuseppacomodi3180
    @giuseppacomodi3180 Před 2 dny +1

    I do believe in the presence of Angels...thank you so much for your words of Truth and Wisdom.

  • @TalkingTruewithJulieHoyle

    “I deeply believe in the companionship of angels and saints.” Such a beautiful statement. That has been my experience since early childhood. Their presence is tangible. Thank you for saying this Caroline. Much appreciated. 💜🙏

    • @frv6610
      @frv6610 Před 5 dny

      How do they help?

    • @TalkingTruewithJulieHoyle
      @TalkingTruewithJulieHoyle Před 5 dny

      @@frv6610 They guide and direct my life. I have written and spoken about these experiences at length. Since childhood I have had angelic visitations, out of body experiences and powerful psychic phenomenon happening around me. Having tangible evidence of continuum and receiving this pragmatic guidance makes a huge difference. I rarely struggle with knowing what to do in difficult situations. I ask and the answer is given. 🙏

  • @southafricangirl1698

    Love you Caroline, your are such an asset to humanity, you contribute in such a meaningful way, bless you

  • @jacquelinerwin6650
    @jacquelinerwin6650 Před 7 dny +13

    Caroline, I remember exactly where I was mid 1990s when I HEARD you say that we've been relating to one another via our woundedness. That I super capital AYE had been . The truth of that Absolutely catapolted me! I stopped i mean seriously STOPPED telling those stories! I was forever changed. Today I have an instinctual knowing that you again have something very important for me to hear absorb learn know. I'm going to be quiet and LISTEN. Thank you

  • @womenempowered7801
    @womenempowered7801 Před 6 dny +6

    I’ve been saying this for 2 decades and getting so much backlash from my ex , my brothers, friends… every thought of “I don’t want those people here” goes into the collective Mind and this is why we see war! Thank you for recording you saying this!! I’ve been praying about why I cannot alter from this knowing although it has created more separation from family and communities so much so… I walk alone because now I refuse to contribute and have dedicated my own personal life to become the
    Master of my thoughts and feelings . It is the most radical choice to make as destruction of old beliefs… will follow

  • @suetremblay3332
    @suetremblay3332 Před dnem +1

    In the first 2 minutes…Absolutely beautiful!

  • @suedonn7996
    @suedonn7996 Před 8 dny +17

    Wow, Caroline, you were filled with so much spirit you looked as if tears would fall any minute. Thank you for this important reminder. You've been one of my teachers for many, many years!

  • @user-gr5bm8bp6m
    @user-gr5bm8bp6m Před 3 dny +1

    Thank you so much for this knowledge sister... peace and blessings to you and all those you love...

  • @justbeegreen
    @justbeegreen Před 2 dny +1

    We’re already whole - we just need to remember that. ❤

  • @colleenetana6294
    @colleenetana6294 Před 7 dny +24

    I, too, can no longer sit and listen to any sob stories or chronic complainers and chronic victim stories from people who are unwilling to do what it takes or what is necessary to change their lives. True compassion is not colluding with the ego. After my own spiritual awakening, I just don't see life the same way I used to or the way so many still do. I've been doing this work since 2012 and continue to within myself. I prefer to spend more time alone most of the time. I don't have time for small talk, or mundane conversations.

    • @erinsmith5809
      @erinsmith5809 Před 7 dny +6

      Oh thank God. I thought it was just me. I'm like that too. 😮

    • @Haydjay
      @Haydjay Před 7 dny +1

      May I ask what is so good about that ?

    • @Haydjay
      @Haydjay Před 7 dny +2

      I guess what I'm wanting to know is why you would consider it's a good thing to not want to be around people why would we be put on this Earth with so many people here with us, if we're all just supposed to be alone and ignore communicating with other people

    • @positivehighvibesx
      @positivehighvibesx Před 6 dny +5

      @@Haydjay To know anything we must first know ourselves. Know thyself! But also in order to heal others, we must first start with ourselves. Once your in this journey you will no longer go back to being who you once were. It's as if the ego gets shattered and to go back would be like being blind and asleep. That's why it's called awakening, mass ascension! This is why many things including connections, fall away as we are no longer who we once were. It's also a process of loving oneself and knowing that we are worthy and deserving of love. You will no longer tolerate what no longer calibrates to who you are this includes everything that we give our time energy attention to. You learn to be more mindful of what it is that you take in not only through the senses but also the need to grow and evolve more spiritually, holds more significance above everything else. Because you now are aware that everything else is false and what is real is not what is in the physical but that of spirit. CM is speaking on the Law of 1, as humans we have been deceived to believe we are separate from one another and is why there is so much conflict and why there are wars taking place atm. She is saying how all this conflict and division has created these wars. Remember energy is in everything including our thoughts, meaning all this negativity will go somewhere and even in the bible it says that in the end of times, every nation will be at war with one another! CM is also speaking on the law of detachment. We have to learn not to be dependent on anything outside of ourselves. If we strive to be approved by anything other than ourselves than that thing such as money, love, relationship, food, clothes will have power over us and therefore we have given our power away to such things that they now have power and control over us. Hope that was helpful!

    • @erinsmith5809
      @erinsmith5809 Před 5 dny

      @Haydjay I'm not saying it's good or bad it just is
      It's also nice to know other people think the same way. Nothing more, nothing less it just is.

  • @jenbell2857
    @jenbell2857 Před 3 dny +1

    Incredible woman, been following her for years!

  • @shirleybrown8093
    @shirleybrown8093 Před dnem +1

    You are amazing … I thank God that I found you 🫶🏽

  • @AbsolutelyNOW
    @AbsolutelyNOW Před 3 dny +1

    woww I love you Caroline Myss, you are such an angel

  • @rosiediaz9661
    @rosiediaz9661 Před 7 dny +10

    It's always a retreat to be with you and your teachings/shareings.

  • @mariben80able
    @mariben80able Před 8 dny +9

    I still cant believe when i met this woman.... She gaves me a Big hug while i was talking to her.... ❤❤❤

    • @carolynclitheroe3588
      @carolynclitheroe3588 Před 7 dny +2

      That’s amazing especially as she always says she’s not a hugging person! :)

    • @mariben80able
      @mariben80able Před 7 dny +2

      ​@@carolynclitheroe3588 i know... I wqs telling her what a. Honor to be just standing in front of her... I kept talking... She jumped and gave me the biggest hug..... A big defining moment in my life.. 😊😊

    • @carolynclitheroe3588
      @carolynclitheroe3588 Před 7 dny +1

      @@mariben80able what a wonderful thing xxx

  • @janabel2372
    @janabel2372 Před 2 dny +1

    Awesome and thank you.

  • @frances3089
    @frances3089 Před 8 dny +14

    I am so grateful for your divine messages. You have taught me a lot, there are no words to fully express my gratitude for Divine manifestation through you.

  • @ellenwalker7892
    @ellenwalker7892 Před 7 dny +12

    Divine timing this dropped today for me. I saw the title and thought “perfect”!!🙏✨💕

  • @arunagreen8119
    @arunagreen8119 Před dnem +1

    Crickey so true - I'm so ready for this!

  • @georgiamorrow8233
    @georgiamorrow8233 Před 4 dny +2

    Caroline…I’ve known you for decades but you have never known me…however you do. You speak to me as though we are best friends, every time I would sit in one of your lectures or popped in a CD you are with me pulling me from the trenches.Yup you have been one of my best friends for decades and yet we have never spoken a word to one another. You my dear friend have gotten me out of so many tough situations and I just want you to know that you are more beautiful today than ever before and that your wisdom still radiates through your words! Thank you for being one of my best friends! I wouldn’t be here today without you, A face in the audience….

  • @barnahardwick5722
    @barnahardwick5722 Před 2 dny

    Your words are magic.....lifechanging......growth....... progress.....expansion

  • @piamorgaine901
    @piamorgaine901 Před 7 dny +7

    Thank you, Caroline, for making your teachings so available. As always, your teachings move me straight into the sacred stillness of my soul and it is there they come alive. 💙🙏💙

  • @KREN12623
    @KREN12623 Před 4 dny +1

    Thank 🌹 YOU 🌹 Amen GLORY TO GOD AMEN HALLELUJA

  • @chrissycane5576
    @chrissycane5576 Před 7 dny +4

    I saw Caroline in New York at a time when I really needed to hear this woman speak..and once again I have the same feeling..Thankyou

  • @onceagaindc
    @onceagaindc Před 3 dny

    This woman cured my depression

  • @gothope5915
    @gothope5915 Před 5 dny +1

    "God is law and we need to live in empowerment". Amen. We are designed to become the image of God, and He will empower us to be all He created us to be.

  • @user-qw5xm9qf2d
    @user-qw5xm9qf2d Před 8 dny +6

    Dear Caroline, greetings from beautiful greece, for two years i was trying to find the truth meaning of the word humbal😮( ταπεινός). I got the answer in a greek Byzantium's dictionary=the individual that has no Envy. OR jealousy.This meaning stroke me, i don't have to be jealous of your house, or car or bank account, I am god, i can create
    anything I want in. Kairos (also greek word)time. Thak you so much for your teachings.

  • @mosesaguirre2392
    @mosesaguirre2392 Před 4 dny +1

    The attraction to the call of God is intrinsic! It continues from past life times!

  • @unnielisabethrbeck1105
    @unnielisabethrbeck1105 Před 5 dny +1

    God bless you, you are great💜💜💜 Love you, and have read your books from 1993. I am greatful 💝

  • @sophiaInthestars111
    @sophiaInthestars111 Před 8 dny +5

    her life’s work. no words. Thank u Caroline.

  • @terrieanndiehl58
    @terrieanndiehl58 Před 8 dny +3

    "I live by this belief bc it's more real than the chairs you're sitting in"
    My TRUTH life experience too.
    Thank you you Angel in human female form!!!!!

  • @Starleneschwark
    @Starleneschwark Před 8 dny +4

    I deeply appreciate you and ALL the knowledge you gift this world.🙏❤️🌻🌹

  • @stadinm1
    @stadinm1 Před 8 dny +5

    You help me stay sane Ms Myss ❤

  • @user-wx6ip5zm7m
    @user-wx6ip5zm7m Před 5 dny +1

    I am beyond grateful for you and the light that you bring to this world.

  • @amandathwaits7063
    @amandathwaits7063 Před 7 dny +3

    This teaching ! As I actually do what you are saying ie hold my light away in order to protect and defend
    Thank you for your beautiful open heart - I hear ❤

  • @myusernameisnotfound
    @myusernameisnotfound Před 8 dny +3

    Thank you for sharing this valuable most powerful teaching with us I am truly grateful and in awe of your insights. You are, to me the Queen of Swords the way you deliver the information clearly without unnecessary fluff. Every word lands where it needs to. “Get over yourself” lectures please 🙏 😊🦋

  • @sharonhendrix7496
    @sharonhendrix7496 Před 4 dny +1

    Brilliant.🙏🏽

  • @esraaalkhalaf750
    @esraaalkhalaf750 Před 7 dny +4

    Caroline you always the best teacher for me

  • @hailey0675
    @hailey0675 Před 7 dny +4

    Brilliant, thank you very much for sharing your insights and your truth Caroline!

  • @tessyong7596
    @tessyong7596 Před 5 dny

    Aloha Caroline Myss,
    I am grateful for your generosity of sharing your knowledge and wisdom. And being Real.
    Tess Kim, MA, LPCC

  • @craftygirlmaria566
    @craftygirlmaria566 Před 8 dny +5

    Wow, you speak such truth!

  • @mosesaguirre2392
    @mosesaguirre2392 Před 4 dny +1

    It is truly humbling to enter into your priceless identity. Not to be confused with the ego!

  • @seedfromatree
    @seedfromatree Před 6 dny +1

    Thank you! I read your book Anatomy of the Spirit years ago on the beginning of this body minds journey. It opened the gates! We are one ☝🏽

  • @Suzanne.574
    @Suzanne.574 Před 7 dny +3

    So incredible, heartfelt thank you Caroline❤️

  • @user-wx6ip5zm7m
    @user-wx6ip5zm7m Před 5 dny +1

    Today you are my light in my ego darkness. I cannot express how much you have touched my heart. Ty🙏🙏

  • @Clucehilton
    @Clucehilton Před 7 dny +2

    39 minutes in and 🤯 - she's a gift

  • @meerunagpal7003
    @meerunagpal7003 Před 7 dny +2

    🌸🙏🙏🙏🌸💖 Thank you so very much 🙏 Deep gratitude from my soul space ☀️

  • @alicetac
    @alicetac Před 7 dny +3

    "We are ALL an ingredient that is essential to the whole." 💝💖💓

    • @mosesaguirre2392
      @mosesaguirre2392 Před 4 dny +1

      Even further is that you are priceless because God would be incomplete without you.

    • @alicetac
      @alicetac Před 4 dny

      @@mosesaguirre2392 so beautifully said.

  • @Michaelpersico695
    @Michaelpersico695 Před 8 dny +3

    “All is because I Am. I contain all nothing contains me”.
    Nissargadata Maharaj, I Am That

  • @pamelarosie6689
    @pamelarosie6689 Před 7 dny +2

    I love you Caroline ❤️😊 God Bless you

  • @mimskeiser734
    @mimskeiser734 Před 7 dny +2

    Love- Love Caroline! ❤

  • @krishely5955
    @krishely5955 Před 7 dny +2

    Thank you Caroline so very much 🙏💜

  • @magsrichards76
    @magsrichards76 Před 8 dny +2

    Excellent Caroline! Love, Margaret

  • @rhondamarsala2177
    @rhondamarsala2177 Před 7 dny +1

    All change or all go. Wow!! Truth. Thank you.❤

  • @mannie2075
    @mannie2075 Před 6 dny +2

    So very very grateful for this amazing times we are doing together right now!!🙏❤️💯
    Such a BIGGIE this beautiful video and message is!
    Totally resonate with me anyway 🤗🥰🎂🌸🙏❤️🦋🇸🇪🌏👌♊️🧚‍♀️💕🎉♥️💜🎂💯🤗☀️🙏❤️🙏❤️
    Thank you so very very much dear Caroline 🤗🙏❤️

  • @minahernandez814
    @minahernandez814 Před 7 dny +1

    Love this! Totally get this! I am with ya’ll! We’re all One!

  • @sandirojnic9280
    @sandirojnic9280 Před 7 dny +4

    The word "discover" if you look, is right word because it means removing the cover from something that is allready here

  • @CG-ee1cz
    @CG-ee1cz Před 8 dny +2

    I began reading your book "Why People Don't Heal And How They Can" I'm enjoying it so much because I've notice the excuses and intentions of people's woundology. 😮‍💨Relieved to find this book. I had to come to CZcams in hopes more of your work and explanations are available and here I am .🎉 Thank you, I subcribed to your channel.

  • @samellis-fw5jl
    @samellis-fw5jl Před 8 dny +14

    Carolyn, will you please pray for me?

  • @amcgee0668
    @amcgee0668 Před 4 dny +1

    🌬Appreciation🦋

  • @divinehearts39
    @divinehearts39 Před 8 dny +1

    Thank you so much. This is knowing that I knew I needed to remember.❤

  • @nenajukes
    @nenajukes Před 7 dny +2

    ❤Grace

  • @parisconstantinou8299

    thank you !!!

  • @60nygal
    @60nygal Před 5 dny

    3am I'm wide awake listening to this powerfully amazing video !!!!!!
    Thank you Caroline .I've heard bits and pieces of this for awhile now
    .but it never fell.imto place like right now !!!!!
    Bless you ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
    I will listen over & over .
    I SEE my errors ...I innerstand more than ever
    You are such a gifted teacher .I'm grateful for you
    I love your teachings ....❤❤❤❤❤

  • @mosesaguirre2392
    @mosesaguirre2392 Před 4 dny

    Your free gives you the capacity for good or for evil!

  • @ruthsmith3198
    @ruthsmith3198 Před 5 dny

    Thank you🎉

  • @anitadai6143
    @anitadai6143 Před 7 dny +2

    This is so great!

  • @iamthefiremanjj
    @iamthefiremanjj Před 4 dny +1

    What are brilliant way to describe becoming a whole BEING. Its not about me its WE

  • @samellis-fw5jl
    @samellis-fw5jl Před 8 dny +7

    i am still afraid of the outside - mainly because I am responsible of caring for my husband and he relies on the VA for funding. I dont care about anything outside regarding myself but I feel dependent on the help we receive to care for him. They threaten give and take funding, dictate medical care ect.
    I feel like Oliver in the soup line " Please sir, can I have some more"

    • @jenniferh.7219
      @jenniferh.7219 Před 5 dny +1

      This is exactly what I feel the same quote came to me in regard to a relationship with someone else. Like I literally have to beg, "Please sir, can I have some water?" I am trying to revisit my perspective bc I don't need to continually put myself in this position only to receive a few drops

  • @parisconstantinou8299

    keep on the great work Caroline!!!

  • @alexandrap8718
    @alexandrap8718 Před 5 dny

    🥰 I absolutely loved this . Thank you for sharing!

  • @JamesDean-O
    @JamesDean-O Před 4 dny

    58:44 the whole talk was awesome but the last minute was certainly the icing on the cake.

  • @suetremblay3332
    @suetremblay3332 Před dnem

    May I one day be sitting in on a teaching with you!🌸🙏

  • @luisianabk7240
    @luisianabk7240 Před 5 dny

    💝… THANK YOU

  • @emailforyoutubeTv
    @emailforyoutubeTv Před 7 dny +1

    Thank for the upload. Saludos desde León Guanajuato México.

  • @earthempresstv
    @earthempresstv Před 4 dny

    this is 🔥

  • @helenwhitewolf
    @helenwhitewolf Před 7 dny +1

    Yes Caroline. Ditto.

  • @Sage_1230
    @Sage_1230 Před 6 dny

    I miss attending Caroline’s workshops.

  • @macavelli8905
    @macavelli8905 Před 5 dny

    Interesting perspective and conversation. Very good video..

  • @uarmy
    @uarmy Před 8 dny +2

    You are telling us what the rest of the world is waiting for America to come to see.

    • @ellengarcia4041
      @ellengarcia4041 Před 7 dny

      What about the REST OTW???

    • @uarmy
      @uarmy Před 7 dny +1

      @@ellengarcia4041 Humility is about seeing ourselves as the least evolved.

    • @uarmy
      @uarmy Před 7 dny

      @@ellengarcia4041 perhaps the rest of the world knows the danger of unbridled ego whereas America only wants to spoil it rotten.

  • @SEBOZETC
    @SEBOZETC Před 4 dny

    Great

  • @user-xj4qj7hs2o
    @user-xj4qj7hs2o Před 7 dny +1

    I would love to see Caroline Myss in a long conversation with Robert E. Grant…

  • @juliaszabados148
    @juliaszabados148 Před 7 dny +1

    ❤❤❤

  • @vickivanyo7222
    @vickivanyo7222 Před 2 dny

    Yes

  • @louigibeuuk9118
    @louigibeuuk9118 Před 7 dny +1

    ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @rebeccawhitney3539
    @rebeccawhitney3539 Před 3 dny

    The ego took over because the soul was lost and not in charge when we incarnated; you can't deny it but you can manage it through sacred neutrality ie Alchemy.

  • @colton_936
    @colton_936 Před 8 dny

    15:40 amazing

  • @sharond3772
    @sharond3772 Před 5 dny

    ❤❤❤❤

  • @maureendrennan9328
    @maureendrennan9328 Před 8 dny

    My soul is so sad❤

  • @lynnethrelfall2625
    @lynnethrelfall2625 Před 7 dny +1

  • @uarmy
    @uarmy Před 8 dny +1

    I'm under the impression that war is the consequence of our disconnection to the seasons and the cycles. The wish that things would never change.

    • @mosesaguirre2392
      @mosesaguirre2392 Před 4 dny

      That is the old energy. Change is inevitable.

    • @uarmy
      @uarmy Před 4 dny

      @@mosesaguirre2392 In with the new, out with the old, spring forward, fall back. Smells like teen spirit.

  • @jla8070
    @jla8070 Před 7 dny +1

    A wake up call- no can rattling

  • @claudelebel49
    @claudelebel49 Před 6 dny +1

    We are addicted to separation which is untruth.

  • @naturelover1284
    @naturelover1284 Před 6 dny +2

    Every time I come up to a beautiful area someone in a fancy car is very angry I'm not going faster past it and beeps at me if I pull over to let them pass by to get to their nice house missing all the beauty along the way what is with wealthy people do you use us to get their wealth push us out of the way and don't let us even have a moment of joy

  • @lesleyM84
    @lesleyM84 Před 6 dny +2

    best to not even care to ask if someone “loves” you, especially as Carolyn tells us about the inherent attached huge power the possible responses to that question are imbued with… giving over that kind of power to raise or eviscerate our spirit, seems extraordinarily ill advised to me..🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️🥴.. how someone feels about me, is way too unreliable😃😃