What does my blind husband SEE? (goggles challenge)

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  • čas přidán 21. 08. 2024

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  • @donutgobbla5314
    @donutgobbla5314 Před rokem +2917

    I see alot of comments saying idk what I would do if this was my life. the thing is, when it happens to you, you don't have a choice but to adapt. Paul is resilient, and his positivity is simply inspiring and something we should all strive to do.

    • @vn1445
      @vn1445 Před 11 měsíci +25

      You always have a choice cause you can just give up instead. But some people CHOOSE to fight

    • @dragonflies6793
      @dragonflies6793 Před 10 měsíci +36

      Exactly! I honestly wonder if that's why so many of us disabled folk, at least in my limited experience, are the most cheerful and optimistic people around. Disability is the unthinkable to a lot of people, and for many of us who have become disabled over time, it used to be for us. And it's our lives, and we survive it and work with it every day. If we can take on this challenge, we can take on anything.

    • @waffles3629
      @waffles3629 Před 9 měsíci +30

      At least the "IDK what I would do" comments are better than the ones that say it would be the end of their life and they don't know why anyone continues to live like that. I've gotten those more than a few times and it sucks.

    • @oofiedoofie
      @oofiedoofie Před 9 měsíci +7

      ​@@waffles3629good lord that's extreme

    • @SurprisedPikacheesecake
      @SurprisedPikacheesecake Před 9 měsíci +18

      Thank yoooouuuu this is so much more respectful than "I could never!" Or "I'd give up!" Like the hell you would and what are they trying to say about a disabled person's life? To me it's just rude and ableism-coded

  • @dizzy_dino9052
    @dizzy_dino9052 Před rokem +8541

    Y'all are officially one of the top 5 most wholesome couples I have ever seen.

    • @rawdaaljawhary4174
      @rawdaaljawhary4174 Před rokem +17

      Agreed 🙌🏽!

    • @Soleylou
      @Soleylou Před rokem +71

      1000% Any homophobes out there should see this & then try & argue that ‘it’s wrong!’ Xx

    • @judescinnamon
      @judescinnamon Před rokem +13

      beautiful couple

    • @ChrisAndCats
      @ChrisAndCats Před rokem +22

      Dont forget Mr. Maple 🙂

    • @Riley-1078
      @Riley-1078 Před rokem +42

      ​@@Soleylou "BuT tHe BiBlE"
      Was written millennia ago. Things change in that much time. I don't know for certain because I can't really be bothered to remember bible verses but something in there has to be unable to apply in modern day.

  • @Snow.bee.
    @Snow.bee. Před rokem +15912

    It’s so crazy how Paul is so happy and optimistic all the time- if this happened to me idk what I’d do

    • @gymblondie
      @gymblondie Před rokem +124

      This. 💕 Humans are adaptable creatures but there are things that I’m not sure I’d adapt to. I love Paul and his AH-MAZING attitude 💕

    • @Rainbow_kidd
      @Rainbow_kidd Před rokem +134

      That's just what you see in the videos. He's probably generally a positive person, but I think people should still remember that he's a human being and dealing with a serious condition. I'm sure he has his moments.

    • @gymblondie
      @gymblondie Před rokem +31

      @@Rainbow_kidd well of course. But Matthew just doing it for a second shows all that Paul has to do throughout his day and it’s a lot. I know he doesn’t have a choice but to adapt, but it genuinely seems like he makes the best out of a shitty situation.

    • @DembaiVT
      @DembaiVT Před rokem +52

      Cope. It seems odd until disability hits you up. And then...you cope. And once you let go of the idea that you could actually know what your future REALLY was going to be, (i wanted to be healthy into extreme old age and then unalive jn my sleep with no disability ever) you move forward with what you have. You have to. It's natural.

    • @karlpatrickprias8185
      @karlpatrickprias8185 Před rokem +1

      It so bad that you just laugh it out and stay open mind

  • @liampatterson2946
    @liampatterson2946 Před rokem +24662

    Paul is truly unbreakable I would have given up two seconds into my life

    • @cleo1827
      @cleo1827 Před rokem +331

      Nah you’re stronger than you think m8.

    • @annipsy2185
      @annipsy2185 Před rokem +70

      Im a mess without being blind😢

    • @ultimately-sabrina
      @ultimately-sabrina Před rokem +55

      I agree he is an amazing person with such a great attitude. His laugh is so contagious too!

    • @nomasan
      @nomasan Před rokem +54

      @@annipsy2185 You wouldn't be less of a mess, but you also wouldn't be more of a mess..
      The universe finds a way to keep the mess in balance

    • @Babuhboobah
      @Babuhboobah Před rokem +136

      I know you mean well and he is very strong, but you basically just said his life is so bad that you would k!ll yourself if you experienced it. I think it’s important to remember that disabled people don’t have super strength, they quite literally have no other option. Paul has a wonderful life, support system, he found love and is treated so well, he makes good money doing things he enjoys, has wonderful friends and a beautiful home. He has soooooo much more than so many people, I don’t think he would trade his life for the world ❤

  • @phillisob
    @phillisob Před rokem +2759

    I'm grateful on a daily basis that the algorithm brought you to me, because you are such an incredibly beautiful couple. Paul, you're so strong and inspiring dealing with retinitis pigmentosa with a smile and a cheerful attitude. Matthew, your support is also inspiring and so heartwarming. It's easy to see why you love Paul (and his adorable Simba-look-alike other half, Mr. Maple!), but the fact that you always seem to support Paul how he needs it depending on the situation is amazing. The tricks at restaurants; mimicking his precise blindness to step into his shoes; sitting on the floor together after getting bad news; they are all simply beautiful. Thanks to all three of you!

    • @Soleylou
      @Soleylou Před rokem +6

      Me too xx

    • @kayciestraub
      @kayciestraub Před rokem +5

      Me three

    • @Boofyre
      @Boofyre Před rokem +4

      What they said!!! ❤

    • @indianajonesprincessleia
      @indianajonesprincessleia Před 5 měsíci +3

      Yup, yup, and yup😅 I now watch a few of their vids and shorts everyday (I have a LOT of catching up to do, just discovered them about a month ago).

    • @phillisob
      @phillisob Před 5 měsíci +3

      @indianajonesprincessleia They're all precious. I love that Matthew gets Paul laughing; it would be easy to sit and feel sorry for himself. And I also love when Paul gets bad news and Matthew sits and assures him that they will always figure things out, and that he will not be a burden. I have tons of health issues and I stay single by choice because I don't want a partner to feel like my caregiver. It's inspiring to see these two.

  • @sweariefaerie9621
    @sweariefaerie9621 Před rokem +481

    I'm never marrying anyone unless our relationship is like this. Thank you both for letting us see how you love each other. Yours is a beautiful example to follow.❤

  • @jinieviko2101
    @jinieviko2101 Před rokem +2688

    This is so lovely and healthy, the way he try to understand more how his husband live his life with the lack of vision is just so touching!
    A truly beautiful couple.😊❤

    • @Soleylou
      @Soleylou Před rokem +10

      They are total couple goals aren’t they 🥰

    • @marionettehone
      @marionettehone Před rokem +18

      and any time something isn't clicking, he can get out the goggles and get a slightly better idea of his husband's perspective (literally!)

    • @sharonb3324
      @sharonb3324 Před rokem +2

      10000000% agree. Couldn’t have said it any better

  • @lucid_dreams420
    @lucid_dreams420 Před rokem +247

    They look like the happiest models in the world. ❤

    • @Soleylou
      @Soleylou Před rokem +26

      Lol, they really do! They are both far too attractive! 🥰

    • @crazyhound999
      @crazyhound999 Před rokem +15

      Right! Could they both be any more handsome!

  • @JuliaSoe03
    @JuliaSoe03 Před rokem +307

    Oh, it is lovely that you try to see the world like him! Such an amazing video with amazing people

  • @partysuvius
    @partysuvius Před rokem +209

    If only you could do this with contacts to further expand the experiment and make it _just so much more frustrating_

  • @cordajean648
    @cordajean648 Před rokem +91

    I envy Paul's courage and resilience; That he has not been limited by loss of vision, to do everything he wanted in life, is very inspiring; Many of us impose so many limitations on ourselves on a day-to-day basis that in the end life eventually fizzles out like smoke. Hugs ❤

  • @JoanieBC
    @JoanieBC Před rokem +63

    This is just lovely. Understanding the challenges your husband faces makes all the difference.

  • @lauraeva9362
    @lauraeva9362 Před rokem +20

    The two of you are precious beyond words

  • @sambarnard3339
    @sambarnard3339 Před rokem +36

    An important simulation for sure & he's so sweet to do this to understand what you deal with every day. Also your sense of humour just shines through, which is also great. 💜💜

  • @tiannag4493
    @tiannag4493 Před rokem +22

    Aww. Blind people, y'all are amazing. I think it's so sweet that your husband is always tryna do things to see how it is to be blind so he knows what u go through and he really cares. So sweet.

    • @aquariusmedia9307
      @aquariusmedia9307 Před rokem +3

      Husband actually

    • @dianejordan9826
      @dianejordan9826 Před rokem +3

      They are married. But yes, they seem like a loving couple ❤

    • @Soleylou
      @Soleylou Před rokem +2

      It shows real love doesn’t it 🥰

    • @tiannag4493
      @tiannag4493 Před rokem +2

      Omg duh I knew they were married idk why I said bf. Sorry. But yes it is just so sweet 😍

  • @bethsmith3090
    @bethsmith3090 Před rokem +38

    Not to mention he remembers where everything in the home is.

  • @Undercoverneird
    @Undercoverneird Před rokem +23

    Matthew,Paul & Maple are constant reminders of what real love is.

  • @storytelling-by-Rey
    @storytelling-by-Rey Před rokem +89

    Thank you Matthew, for loving Paul so much.

  • @danadavis6097
    @danadavis6097 Před rokem +9

    Paul is amazing. His wonderful attitude makes me so happy. I'm totally blind in one eye. For 5 years now. It's taken a long time for me to adjust. I don't know what I'd do if I couldn't see at all. I know how blessed I am to have my one eye to see. God bless you guys. Your so loving and joyful. 🤗❤️

  • @mommamia794
    @mommamia794 Před rokem +45

    True commitment towards each other. Such great chemistry between the two. Relationship goals.

  • @SimpleX3927
    @SimpleX3927 Před rokem +153

    Aww your relationship is so sweet and understanding. I wish i have someone like Matthew in my life one day. I have the same condition and although it's scary your videos make me feel like it will be okay 💖

  • @MagikRasputina
    @MagikRasputina Před 11 měsíci +6

    I legit thought Paul had tossed that hair dryer in the drawer to simulate Matthew's goofy pranks. 😂
    How can one couple be so consistently wonderful and lovely?

  • @marianhutchison596
    @marianhutchison596 Před rokem +2

    Matthew, you are so compassionate. To do that, to see somewhat how Paul does, it just amazing. Well done.

  • @christinashouse3488
    @christinashouse3488 Před 9 měsíci +2

    Love how Matthew tried this, but even more just not being scared by your disability and sticking by your sude and just loving you... You two are just always happy. I know you probably wouldn't post other wise, but its do uplifting to see you both happy, laughing and just navigating through life together ❤❤❤

  • @ronjavogel4920
    @ronjavogel4920 Před rokem +52

    One point Paul has had it a littlebit easier.
    It was not from one day to an other. He learnd to miss his eyes by time....
    Hard enough i know. Also to know that He will be totaly blind one day.

  • @lauraborabeee
    @lauraborabeee Před rokem +31

    He should go a whole day like that!

    • @KimPlantsArt
      @KimPlantsArt Před rokem +3

      Ngl my dumbass was like Paul or Matthew?

    • @Soleylou
      @Soleylou Před rokem +1

      He might have but it might have been something they just did got each other. I imagine there would be some very emotional parts to the day. Xx

  • @corriew6849
    @corriew6849 Před rokem +5

    I wish SO BADLY that I could have the people in my life see "through my eyes" for even an hour. There's just no way to simulate my vision loss. You two are amazing!

    • @ak5659
      @ak5659 Před rokem

      My eyes don't work together and 99% of the world refuses to even consider that this might make some life activities more complicated or energy consuming.

    • @beethecacti
      @beethecacti Před 10 měsíci

      ​@@ak5659do u have amblyopia too? I have basically no depth perception, which is why i use my cane, but i always feel so awkward when people stare at me when im reading. My mother used to take my phone off of me when i was out because using it 'made me look like i wasnt blind' 😅

  • @greeneyeyedtiger
    @greeneyeyedtiger Před 9 měsíci +1

    This is actually so sweet of Matthew to see what Paul goes through day to day

  • @ozzy8066
    @ozzy8066 Před 11 měsíci +4

    I'm convinced this is the happiest couple ever

  • @dakotastorlie8753
    @dakotastorlie8753 Před rokem +16

    Kudos for surviving a say your husband MY LIUFE lol that's funny😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁

  • @ItsMeNanaD71
    @ItsMeNanaD71 Před 11 měsíci +2

    Awe that’s actually so sweet to better understand Paul. Y’all are amazing.

  • @jesssayin5986
    @jesssayin5986 Před 10 měsíci +1

    What a beautiful exercise, experiencing the world the way your spouse does. This couple is so joyous and loving, I am so happy y'all have each other.

  • @cassandrawilson1981
    @cassandrawilson1981 Před 11 měsíci +4

    As a fellow musician I absolutely adore and admire how you two are.. I couldn't imagine having your life determination by such a thing as blandness. I just discovered your page a few days ago and I absolutely weep for you because you are so upbeat about everything! I love you!!

  • @erekins
    @erekins Před rokem +6

    This may sound weird but I love how they both laugh the exact same way

  • @selenaseibt306
    @selenaseibt306 Před 6 měsíci +1

    Matthew, that was so heart-warming of you to try to better understand Paul’s perspective.

  • @jenniferhawrysh5701
    @jenniferhawrysh5701 Před 7 měsíci

    Fantastic, you two truly are amazing and spreading awareness! More videos like this please! Loving all the joy you spread!

  • @bwingbwinggwiyomi
    @bwingbwinggwiyomi Před rokem +9

    That's such a great way to simulate Paul's specific blindness ❤️ I felt your mental exhaustion from here 😂😭

  • @One_With_The_Force
    @One_With_The_Force Před rokem +12

    As an artist and movie freak and nature lover, I can’t imagine what it would be like without my vision… I could never, but Paul just pushes through and I have so much respect. Ive never seen something so inspiring as this, him never giving up though it’s hard. Thank you so much for inspiring me!❤

  • @BICHOTA111
    @BICHOTA111 Před 9 měsíci +1

    It's so nice to have someone try their best to understand any disability

  • @GiGiTheChosen
    @GiGiTheChosen Před 8 měsíci +1

    I have Sjogrens Syndrome from Rheumatoid Arthritis and the medication can continue to cause vision loss. I couldn't imagine going through what you experience in a day. You manage so well and have a beautiful person in your life. Bless you both❤

  • @karencramer6491
    @karencramer6491 Před rokem +4

    The laughter and strength in your relationship brings happiness to me every day. Never lose the laughter when times get tough.

  • @boriquaelrey7129
    @boriquaelrey7129 Před rokem +3

    For Paul to be as strong as he is to be unapologetic about his sight and for his husband to experience it with him to have the empathy to share his experiences are priceless. Love you both ❤❤❤

  • @MoodyGirl247
    @MoodyGirl247 Před 11 měsíci +2

    I absolutely adore you two! Your love for each other is palpable! ❤❤❤

  • @carmenhoma1782
    @carmenhoma1782 Před 8 měsíci

    Paul is such an amazing person. He can laugh & that laugh brings such joy. I’m so glad you two found each other.

  • @neurodivergentpixi6736
    @neurodivergentpixi6736 Před rokem +8

    Ladies and gentlemen, and everyone in between, this is how you teach empathy 💜.

  • @NerveUnderscore
    @NerveUnderscore Před 11 měsíci +4

    As a grown adults who is afraid of the dark, I don't know what I'd do if my eyes went black.
    You two are amazing

  • @Xestra37490
    @Xestra37490 Před rokem +1

    I love the fact you try to experience what he’s going through.

  • @mellie4174
    @mellie4174 Před rokem

    Humans are sooooo adaptable. It's amazing. Not diminishing the work it takes to get there. But it is still really amazing!

  • @love000000001
    @love000000001 Před rokem +6

    Yall are so funny and adorable. I love that you got to experience this, its a great way to walk in someone elses shoes.

  • @KyoFox
    @KyoFox Před 11 měsíci +3

    I am severely legally blind and also in a non traditional relationship and just wanted to say you guys are like my favorite couple ever

  • @epicgamerninja1096
    @epicgamerninja1096 Před 7 měsíci +1

    Omg, you both inspire many, kudos to both of you.
    Also great to see Matt's laugh is just as bubbly and enjoyable like Paul's.

  • @kristiedarling4888
    @kristiedarling4888 Před 9 měsíci

    This is love ❤️. Matthew just trying to understand how Paul sees is what being married is all about. I absolutely LOVE these two. No matter what they do, they just make you happy.

  • @luluthelemon9172
    @luluthelemon9172 Před rokem +16

    I wanna try on the goggles.

  • @stephenstephen1505
    @stephenstephen1505 Před rokem +4

    Brilliant. We should all do this to understand a person with a disability's daily experience

  • @user-tz2cv5ur7q
    @user-tz2cv5ur7q Před 4 měsíci

    Love Matthew simulating what his husband Paul sees 👀 to get the feel and more understanding of what Paul has to go through each day with his blindness ❤❤❤❤ so much ❤❤❤

  • @natashamiller4860
    @natashamiller4860 Před rokem +1

    I have lost my vision three times and currently have about 50% of my visual field. I appreciate your videos educating the public about blindness/visual impairment.

  • @_aeris
    @_aeris Před rokem +6

    And the fact that there's still people saying he's not blind-

  • @fluffyfroog5630
    @fluffyfroog5630 Před 11 měsíci +3

    Y’all think all these comments about how you’d just give up if you were in his situation are NOT the compliment you think they are. Instead just say that he’s amazing for adapting to the world around him.

  • @tinamarler6970
    @tinamarler6970 Před 10 měsíci

    Paul seems so full of joy. Lots of people would be bitter and are with less reason. 💜😊

  • @beckyjackson7755
    @beckyjackson7755 Před 3 měsíci

    Great idea! Helps you understand what Paul is dealing with. Very loving gesture!!

  • @amandacollins7507
    @amandacollins7507 Před rokem +6

    I just found your channel recently and I absolutely love your content! You lighten and brighten my day so much

  • @ULikeMyP
    @ULikeMyP Před rokem +12

    How did he film him and the area so accurately?

    • @jashairobbs3330
      @jashairobbs3330 Před rokem +1

      because he still has some vision

    • @MatthewandPaulOfficial
      @MatthewandPaulOfficial  Před rokem +13

      Paul has lost 90% of his vision to the rare eye disease Rentinitis Pigmentosa. Blindness is a spectrum. Most people in the blind community can still see something, but it varies widely.

    • @garykidson
      @garykidson Před rokem +1

      My Dad has RP, and has dealt with its struggles all my life. He still gets on with daily life, cooking, cleaning loves doing woodwork and has been an absolute inspiration to me on how to overcome difficulties

  • @AGMundy
    @AGMundy Před rokem

    Matthew is so kind and thoughtful but without being patronising.

  • @kiniasibka
    @kiniasibka Před rokem +10

    how he recorded so good if he doesn't see anything thats my question

    • @MatthewandPaulOfficial
      @MatthewandPaulOfficial  Před rokem +19

      Paul has lost 90% of his vision to the rare eye disease Rentinitis Pigmentosa. Blindness is a spectrum. Most people in the blind community can still see something, but it varies widely.

    • @normalman1035
      @normalman1035 Před rokem +7

      AKA he can still see a little bit, but not much. which is why they went through the trouble of painting goggles and wearing glasses instead of just putting on a blindfold.

  • @Jessica18010
    @Jessica18010 Před rokem +5

    Aw

  • @DiscoMood
    @DiscoMood Před 11 měsíci +1

    These two bring me so much joy. Two perfect human beings. ❤️ ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @Miausan14
    @Miausan14 Před 8 měsíci

    The way he said :"almost done!" was breath-taking. I love literally watching them fall in love repeatedly every day

  • @LottieJ-fq6es
    @LottieJ-fq6es Před 5 měsíci

    Imagine being blind and having such a handsome husband. It's almost ironic.
    You guys are beautiful. Don't you ever change.

  • @mariaTsounakis1521
    @mariaTsounakis1521 Před 11 měsíci

    When I went to OT school we had to do that to experience disabilities for a whole day on campus. It really teaches you empathy and understanding for those that have challenges. Love you two!❤

  • @phoenixfire124
    @phoenixfire124 Před 6 měsíci

    That was so cool. Really sweet of Matthew... and really inspiring that Paul goes theough so much and still seems ao positive.

  • @phoenixgate007
    @phoenixgate007 Před rokem +1

    It is mentally exhausting to be disabled most days. Matthew, thank you for showing empathy and trying on Paul’s eyes. I think we should have high school curriculum designed to teach kids empathy for others across a variety of abilities and differences so that we have better communities out here.
    Paul, you’re always a rock star ❤

  • @jasminkogler6243
    @jasminkogler6243 Před 9 měsíci

    So beautiful to see that you try to understand him even better.. snd you got amazing cups!! ❤

  • @user-qv9hb4kp9f
    @user-qv9hb4kp9f Před rokem +1

    This is love…♥️… you fellas are inspiring…

  • @lashakelly1
    @lashakelly1 Před rokem +1

    Awww this has to be so heartbreaking knowing in a sense what he’s experiencing! My God. Bless both of you

  • @Incrementium
    @Incrementium Před 10 měsíci

    I love these guys content, it's so wholesome and I love the stuff to help understand his partners perspective.

  • @mmminno
    @mmminno Před 8 měsíci +1

    You should sell these goggles as merch. It could be for spreading awareness and understanding.

  • @jillz613
    @jillz613 Před 10 měsíci

    Im glad he is already so understanding with your struggles, even before using the goggles. I wish other disabilities /ability differences had effective simulations like this to convey to people/ loved ones our life experiences and struggles... that way theres more understanding and patience .

  • @PluckyDuckling
    @PluckyDuckling Před 9 měsíci

    This was such a great experiment though! It's such an empathetic way to gain a deeper understanding of Pauls struggles.

  • @emily.letsendbslintheuk554
    @emily.letsendbslintheuk554 Před 5 měsíci

    This is so sweet of Matthew, trying to understand what Paul goes through for just a tiny fraction 💖 I love Pauls attitude and how he smiles and laughs so much although i know that he probably does have down moments (we all would if we had to do what Paul does every day all day). Both Paul and Matthew are great and also are def couple goals (and lets not forget how great Mr Maple is too) 💖💖💖

  • @rosaliaaaaaa
    @rosaliaaaaaa Před 10 měsíci +1

    I always wondered how blind people believe every steps. I won't even dare move around in my house. It takes alot to believe in surroundings and ppl around you. I'm glad that you're in a safe surrounding.

  • @amberforte94
    @amberforte94 Před 9 měsíci

    This is beautiful. It means a lot that you truly wanted to empathize. Love it! ❤

  • @texasstar4281
    @texasstar4281 Před 7 měsíci

    I think this is amazing that you have done this. The love you have each other is heartwarming ❤

  • @canigetahoooyyyaaaaa7319
    @canigetahoooyyyaaaaa7319 Před 10 měsíci +1

    I wish I could find someone like either one of you 😔 I have a lot of chronic pain. And I’m so scared because I can’t just say it to someone, everytime I do they back away. I’m still going through treatments and stuff. But it feels like I’m never going to be as happy as you two :/ sometimes your videos bring me so much joy and hope. But other times it just makes me sad. I’m super happy for you two. Some of your videos make me cry. You’re so gentle and sweet to each other.

    • @drobo7
      @drobo7 Před 9 měsíci

      You will and can find the real deal. I was in your shoes, very poorly and told I’d never have children, I thought for sure I could never find someone. I’ve nearly lost my life several times because of my Illnesses. I was 20 when my love came into my life, and 23 years later, and 2 daughters later!!! We’re as happy as ever, I’d be lost without him. There are good people out there, stay strong sweetheart xxxx

  • @piakragh7676
    @piakragh7676 Před rokem +1

    I also immediately reacted when he said: kudos to you for surviving an entire day like that..!!! 😂
    Thank you for sharing this.
    I think there are many of us who don't really understand what it can be like to live with such a severe visual impairment, almost completely blind.
    Your videos are both funny but also educational.
    I look forward to seeing if any new videos have arrived when I'm on the internet.
    I admire your strong friendship and love for each other. I will be glad to see and hear you.
    I wish you all the best 🌹
    Warm greetings
    //Pia from Sweden

  • @kusumathygarajan360
    @kusumathygarajan360 Před 3 měsíci

    Paul you give me strength..u make me look at the world in the entire new perspective..I know it's very hard to go through with blindness but I see u always with a smile that puts a smile at my face..hats off to you paul...u have such patience and perseverance and strength 😊 love from india❤

  • @lisastenzel5713
    @lisastenzel5713 Před 11 měsíci

    I think Matthew is brave as hell. Putting these one, really experience what Paul is going through. He knows his kitchen..imagine this outside!!
    I would have broken into tears immediately I think. Just a very very precious thing to loose...hearing must be even worse. But THE worst must be to loose haptic, touch. If you can't feel the touch of a loved one..
    Why did that got me so bad rn?

  • @peggyknecht5551
    @peggyknecht5551 Před 10 měsíci

    This is so sweet of Matthew to do this. Now, he knows a little bit of what Paul experiences every day.

  • @amandasfam1839
    @amandasfam1839 Před 11 měsíci

    He truly is a trooper. I love u guys together. U both are def made for one another. Love u for being u and reminding us life doesnt have to end just because u have a task each day. Thanks for sharing 💜🩷❌⭕

  • @nattylite9220
    @nattylite9220 Před 9 měsíci

    Awhh love seeing Matthew in the spotlight!! You guys are so precious

  • @kgill147
    @kgill147 Před rokem

    Aw, you guys are sweet.
    Every couple should strive to be as supportive and understanding as you two, with the same amount of humor. ❤

  • @COCOandKAY
    @COCOandKAY Před 9 měsíci

    When you both laugh and smile it's so contagious! 😊

  • @molf9a
    @molf9a Před 8 měsíci +1

    This is actually so wholesome

  • @sagesufferswell
    @sagesufferswell Před rokem +1

    This is the kind of partner every disabled person deserves. Sadly most of us never receive true love.

  • @Momof2girlz
    @Momof2girlz Před 11 měsíci

    I am so sorry this is happening to you Paul. I pray a treatment is found my sweet man. You are such a strong person to find and keep your smile. And I am sure Matthew helps you on days that your smile is harder to find. Sending you boys love and hugs.

  • @runsoncaffeine
    @runsoncaffeine Před rokem +1

    “Kudos to you for surviving an entire day like that” as if being blind was some sort of dare Paul is involved in.💀

  • @healingpoisonbreak9984
    @healingpoisonbreak9984 Před rokem +1

    I feel like this is how a healthy relationship looks like. Everytime I get to watch your videos it really brightens my day.❤ I wish you guys the best.

  • @JustMe_OhWell
    @JustMe_OhWell Před 11 měsíci +1

    OMG that's so sweet. Not many people care enough to actually see what it's like for the other person. That's real true love! 🥰🥰

  • @hollydennison159
    @hollydennison159 Před rokem

    Wooooooooooow!!! What you go through daily is Remarkable!!!! You are Ah-Mazing!!!!

  • @Random-----Ryn
    @Random-----Ryn Před 8 měsíci

    Blind people are magical and no one can convince me otherwise

  • @joycedominguez8997
    @joycedominguez8997 Před rokem

    Paul is one of the most optimistic person that I've come across on CZcams. And to be blind and be so happy is refreshing to see. Matthew is also a happy person. Love this channel. Thank you two for spreading the joy. 💜