Working MOM OR Stay at Home MOM? How my mom brought up 2 Kids while Working? | The Mummy Logic #2

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  • čas přidán 23. 07. 2024
  • Hello everyone!
    The Mummy Logic is an unfiltered and non-judgemental space for all families to hear and share their life stories through the viewpoint of ‪@sarahsarosh‬ and her Mummy - Sylvia D’costa! 👩‍👧
    Growing up, we all feel like our mother's logic doesn't make any sense - only to realise that their stories were all unheard of and how can you expect logic without reason?
    so the Mummy Logic is going to allow that free space for all moms to bond with their children and feel comfortable accepting their mistakes, telling their stories and creating a safe, non judgemental community 💛
    Disclaimer: All our view points are OURS alone and not influenced by any third person. We do not intend to hurt any feelings or sentiments via our content so Please keep the comments respectful even when opinionated! 💛
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    💛Chapters:
    00:00 - Introduction
    01:09 - Weekly Update
    5:40 - Full-time working mom life experience
    7:21 - How was it to balance between work and being a mother?
    8:30 - Impact of work on motherhood?
    11:08 - Balancing hyperactive child and work demands
    15:52 - Childcare during absence of mother
    18:53 - Child Planning -Before V/S Now
    21:48 - Identity loss after becoming a parent?
    28:12- What to do maintain a self identity
    32:06 - Emptynest Syndrome
    35:17- Children's view on working V/S stay-at-home moms
    37:54 - Education of a Girl Child
    38:55 - Western marriage cultures : partners supporting each other
    42:29 - Conclusion
    Thank you for watching!💛
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    💛 Lots of love -
    See you next Friday!🎙️

Komentáře • 244

  • @Rishraaaa
    @Rishraaaa Před 11 měsíci +65

    Hi Sarah, loved this episode... I am also 23 year old, my mother is a housewife. I can totally relate to the part where your mother said that some children feel their mother is useless and do not respect her because she chose to stay at home taking care of the children as I have encountered some people with same mindset. I just had my mother listen to this episode and I translated every sentence (the jokes were hard to translate though😂) she loved it and asked to show other episodes... much much love to everyone, the whole team and you ❤
    Anyways addicted to your content and keep the energy high.
    Love you

    • @themummylogic
      @themummylogic  Před 11 měsíci +7

      We are so glad to hear that! Your feedback is essential to us!🩵 thankyou and love to your mother✨

  • @JenishaCreates
    @JenishaCreates Před 11 měsíci +20

    Just done with the first one and jumped to this ! I always felt your mom as a very strong and vocal lady. After hearing her story about being so patient, I thought a lot of things from her perspective as well and the fact that there will be flaws in a relationship . I love the way she puts her ideas into words . Indeed she is a great teacher ! Loving the podcast ❤

  • @fagungada5185
    @fagungada5185 Před 11 měsíci +4

    This whole thing is so relatable. So raw so true.
    My perception of your mom from your vlogs and now after 2 podcasts has changed totally. Love how shes so naive and up-front of her life choices with no regrets of past.
    Keep up the good work👍

  • @aquagal5640
    @aquagal5640 Před 11 měsíci +1

    Love every bit of this podcast, your mom is simply amazing, her journey , her thoughts behind every aspect of life is amazing and I wish every one should watch this podcast.
    I am working mom since last 2 years but before that i took almost a break for 4-5 year, and had major postpartum depression...now after 7-8 years I am being able to get back to my old self ..still a long way to go.

  • @farhanaafreen9877
    @farhanaafreen9877 Před 11 měsíci +5

    Aunty’s words and wisdom are so on point. In awe of her completely. I believe men and women both have a responsibility to bring something to the table - sharing the load should be normalised for everything be it household chores, taking care of kids or earning. More power to you and your mom ❤

  • @navigupta8997
    @navigupta8997 Před 11 měsíci +1

    I am just overwhelmed with the whole conversation... hopefully it will give hope to many women to find themselves again....wish you all the blessings...❤ Two strong women rocked together

  • @rukhsanahussain2109
    @rukhsanahussain2109 Před 11 měsíci +1

    Hi Sarah feels good to see you talking to your mom so comfortably . Not All girls can do that you are blessed with a mother who is first your friend and then a mother
    Sylvia feels good to see a woman with that power and confidence to put herself before everything at this age of life
    May God bless you and your family

  • @sayantanichakravorty5047
    @sayantanichakravorty5047 Před 11 měsíci +23

    All mothers are working mothers. Raising children especially little ones is a full time job IMO

  • @aanshikapuri5263
    @aanshikapuri5263 Před 11 měsíci +2

    Such a beautiful, organic and free flowing conversation. 'Bhaari Relate' happening! Love to you & aunty ❤️

  • @lovinadsilva5516
    @lovinadsilva5516 Před 11 měsíci +5

    This podcast is so motivating , entertaining , relevant in today's times. Love you both sar and aunty ❤

  • @rss2009
    @rss2009 Před 11 měsíci +1

    Hats off to your mom . I am crying while seeing this video ....I am a mum of 2 under 5 ...and I am messed up with work , family and my emotions ....Hats off to you Aunty 😊

  • @archi3661
    @archi3661 Před 11 měsíci +9

    Hey! I've been enjoying these podcasts, please make a podcast on how strict your childhood was in terms of the clothes you wear due to certain religious restrictions and how you and your mom actually dealt with it, and how difficult it was for aunty to be in a totally different atmosphere (there must be problems she would have faced as she married into a different community) I would love listening to her experiences

  • @rishita_vlog
    @rishita_vlog Před 11 měsíci +2

    Sarah and mom looks best together 🫶🏻😍 you both are killing it.🤌🏻❤️

  • @Beingmomsana
    @Beingmomsana Před 11 měsíci

    You know Sarah I luv your main channel and see so much of what I wished to be back in days.. I am currently 39 and a mom of a 7 yrs old boy. I have worked on corporates for 12 yrs before I become a mother n decided to leave my job. The way your mom explained about self identity.. I loved it.. rarely people understand that and support a mother.. thankfully my hubby supported.. I was literally about to hit major depression coz I wasn't getting any mee time and wasn't able to identity myself as SAHM. After working for all your adult life ,staying at home isn't easy. Thankfully I decided to get into content creation. I took it very very slow .. grew slowly but continued creating content since last 7 yrs.. in no race to become big but just to have something that I can call it my own. This keeps me so much sane.. I don't have mom guilt and still be happy in life. I hope all women, new moms learn from this podcast how important it is to be a Happy Mom .. only then you will raise a happy child and happy family. Thank u both for this Podcast.. I am definitely sharing it on my mommy community ❤ lots of hugs to u both ❤❤

  • @utkalikasahani9914
    @utkalikasahani9914 Před 11 měsíci +1

    Loved the episode and I 💯 agree with auntie that every women who can should work on something whatever is at their disposal which actually a) builds confidence b) gives u an identity c) enables you to take ur own decision.. Thanks for the amazing content

  • @chetnathakur7277
    @chetnathakur7277 Před 10 měsíci

    Aunty is super amazing woman ...my mom is so much like her ...she never ever loose her identity..and that's what inspires me❤️

  • @aryanaik12
    @aryanaik12 Před 11 měsíci +7

    It's always good hearing you in general. Most of the time it's like listening to a motivational speech but I'm not complaining. I absolutely your energy and all love and strength to aunty for coming out of her comfort and speaking up. Lot lot lot love for you, your family and team. Ok bye video download hogaya, I'll watch and go to study tomorrow is last paper ❤

  • @amrutabhave1293
    @amrutabhave1293 Před 11 měsíci +1

    Aunty is so intelligent and thoughts are just free flowing.....Loved the conversation 😍😍❤️❤️

  • @Gwen714
    @Gwen714 Před 11 měsíci +1

    I feel like even my mom was a working mom and wasn’t always available for school meetings…but since we are now working I totally understand her.😊

  • @himaniahire2693
    @himaniahire2693 Před 11 měsíci +4

    Aunty's mindset and way of thinking was always way ahead of their time.

  • @rum9984
    @rum9984 Před 11 měsíci +4

    This is so relevant to me at this moment ❤❤ thank you

  • @bananipanda7654
    @bananipanda7654 Před 11 měsíci

    It is so inspiring..Being a working mom i just felt that..i had to join back after ML due to financial issues when my baby was just 6 months old & dependent on me totally..My baby is now 9 months..i feel so motivated now

  • @harinaarora2943
    @harinaarora2943 Před 11 měsíci +1

    You both never leaves a chance to bring smile to our faces, i feel so close to you both with each episode🙌💕💕💕💕. Aunt is so so intelligent, Respect👏👏👏

  • @pallavinaik9238
    @pallavinaik9238 Před 11 měsíci

    Loved this podcast. It was so inspirational and beautifully put.Lots of love to Aunty and you Sarah Di❤🥰

  • @neelotutorialsection544
    @neelotutorialsection544 Před 11 měsíci +1

    It's a productive podcast ..... with healthy relationship with mom nd daughter ❤

  • @vanshikagoyal1307
    @vanshikagoyal1307 Před 11 měsíci +1

    yaayyy soo excited to watch thiss♥️♥️

  • @ilma_hashmi
    @ilma_hashmi Před 11 měsíci

    Hii Sarah and Aunty, so sooo much love to you both for coming up with this podcast. ♥️ I’m a 27 year old mother to a nine months old boy. This is the best time for me to have come across such an informative conversation, there’s so much to take from Aunty’s experience ✨ Please continue doing this ♥️

  • @Raimashakhawoat200027
    @Raimashakhawoat200027 Před 11 měsíci +1

    Literary the fast growing channel ever!
    Loving the sarah sarosh vibe!

  • @vasvipai
    @vasvipai Před 11 měsíci +2

    OMG you guys are killing it ❤❤❤

  • @sakshibisht465
    @sakshibisht465 Před 11 měsíci +1

    I’m soon going to be a mom and thinking of leaving my work (I’m also a teacher just like Sylvia Ma’am), I feel so tensed sometimes but she’s right I need to look for an alternative and not completely stop working! I love these videos! Only two videos but so influential!
    Don’t make it more than once a week thing cz I don’t want to get bored of this ever! That longing for more should stay 😅 ( that’s selfish of me but it is what it is 😅)

  • @priyankarajak2497
    @priyankarajak2497 Před 11 měsíci +1

    Hiii Sarah this was such a great episode ❤️

  • @Bhanupriya362
    @Bhanupriya362 Před 11 měsíci +1

    Hey Sarah you are amazing so is your mother.........I love your content and so happy for this channel also❤

  • @mrinalinikumawat5825
    @mrinalinikumawat5825 Před 11 měsíci

    Ohh wow ❤ it was soo smooth episode....i related with my mom as she is a working mom and how she used to manage her shifts to take care of us 🥺
    Thanks Sarah for bringing this topic 😍😍

  • @vrindalulla6664
    @vrindalulla6664 Před 11 měsíci

    Awasome conversation loved it working is the best thing because only this can keep u occupied and away from negative approaches .Being busy is the best thing .ever..❤

  • @ak2230
    @ak2230 Před 11 měsíci +1

    Was waitingggg. Love❤

  • @maryamshaikh8203
    @maryamshaikh8203 Před 11 měsíci

    Wow loved the episode..how maam said about stay home mom too that they too need to be respected and loved..woman should have their choice respected no matter what❤❤❤

  • @AnshuGupta-tf7uh
    @AnshuGupta-tf7uh Před 11 měsíci +5

    Sara what is your Papa's reaction after these 2 podcasts? I Was also a working/house mom as per my situations that time was too difficult but satisfactory. I like and feel so good that now generation is doing so well.

  • @sheetaldash1994
    @sheetaldash1994 Před 11 měsíci

    The Mummylogic is going to reach great heights..... Can sense it really.. a strong gut feeling❤❤❤❤

  • @ZainabFaisal-sr6cg
    @ZainabFaisal-sr6cg Před 11 měsíci +2

    Wow love the episode and your mom is so sweet you both are looking so gorgeous ❤❤all the best to aunty and you 😊#Sarahsquad #themummylogic

  • @greenleaf8217
    @greenleaf8217 Před 11 měsíci

    I love your mother, so real, so honest.

  • @neelamrai6557
    @neelamrai6557 Před 11 měsíci

    Aunti is savage and very very honest throughout the conversation, loved the unfiltered talk ❤

  • @blessiejohn77
    @blessiejohn77 Před 11 měsíci +2

    Maa got so much confidence from this episode 🥰
    Abhi vo sirf sarah ki maa nahi he sabki maa he ❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @ananyamaheshwari9166
    @ananyamaheshwari9166 Před 11 měsíci

    Insightful,well produced! Good going

  • @apurvasingh590
    @apurvasingh590 Před 11 měsíci +1

    Hehhe finally after a long wait the new episode here ❤ love u both and ur bond 🤌🏻💗 #sarahsquad

  • @sonidhruva3980
    @sonidhruva3980 Před 11 měsíci

    I love you and your mom as you both are ❤ your mom is very very very strong😊 you know what I love her❤

  • @jyotss2009
    @jyotss2009 Před 11 měsíci +1

    Sylvia, you speak so well. So natural in front of the camera. Lots of love!

  • @sinu8712
    @sinu8712 Před 11 měsíci +1

    Love the podcast.. I knw people will say it's not good it's not proper bt in my eyes there is the best conversation ive heard...there is so much depths & deep meanings in this conversation.....i love how ur mom spoke & i feel so happy that this project heppend....i can relate so many things ...i love her voice is so nice & poised.....Sarah & ur mom (Sylvia mam) much love to u ❤ keep growing & glowing women's.. . (Ps.congratulation on 1L subscriber)#sarahsquad

  • @neelotutorialsection544
    @neelotutorialsection544 Před 11 měsíci +2

    Me too working mom ....nd Masha Allah raised my two sons along with my work and responsibilities.....me too faced loads of ups and downs coz it's not all all an easy task ..... specially raising up boys... Masha Allah ...Allah gave me strength now they too are well known humam being ....Allhamdollila ❤

  • @wilmarodrigues5452
    @wilmarodrigues5452 Před 11 měsíci +1

    Love the episode so real n life based experience ❤

  • @alexfernandes7348
    @alexfernandes7348 Před 11 měsíci +1

    Finally 2nd episode ❤Aunty looks more relaxed 😎❤

  • @smritydwivedi352
    @smritydwivedi352 Před 11 měsíci

    Awesome vlog and really your mom is so impressive like what she said how she managed everything having two kids and job as well that's really motivating for us 👍 👍 mom and you both are looking perfect 👌 👌 lots of love ❤️ ❤️ god bless you both 🙏 🙏

  • @monalishasarkar5753
    @monalishasarkar5753 Před 11 měsíci +4

    Aunty saying "UNDERSTOOD" after every explanation clearly depicts her teacher attitude 😂 so cute ❤❤❤

  • @Simrankanaujia813
    @Simrankanaujia813 Před 11 měsíci

    Its my routine to watch your podcast since last Friday❤❤

  • @afifaakhtarvlogs605
    @afifaakhtarvlogs605 Před 11 měsíci

    It's awsome.. Soo much learning.. M from ur firts channel. Been following u before ur 1M..

  • @karnambhavna9436
    @karnambhavna9436 Před 11 měsíci

    Love !! Love !! Love aunty.... listening to aunty is soooo soothing...❤

  • @dave2716
    @dave2716 Před 11 měsíci

    Loved this podcast so so much❤❤❤❤

  • @SushumnaDixit
    @SushumnaDixit Před 11 měsíci

    Best wishes for your new channel dear😘

  • @samidhatalaha2055
    @samidhatalaha2055 Před 11 měsíci +54

    The thing we understand here in this podcast is, a father can change, listen, work and act accordingly when HIS DAUGHTER demands it . That is love of a dad ❤❤❤

  • @kirtibisht113
    @kirtibisht113 Před 11 měsíci

    Wow! Relatable conversation...

  • @rekhakadam8058
    @rekhakadam8058 Před 11 měsíci

    Hi Silvia n Sarah i love watching ur vlogs n I'm enjoying ur podcast, i keep waiting for this, I just wonder if it can b atleast 2 times a week.
    Love u both keep it up❤

  • @gurleenkhehra2734
    @gurleenkhehra2734 Před 11 měsíci

    Listening to both of you is therapeutic 🥹😭🫶
    Lots and lots of love💕

  • @DikshitaDas78
    @DikshitaDas78 Před 11 měsíci +1

    Amazing podcast🎉❤

  • @swagataroy8225
    @swagataroy8225 Před 11 měsíci

    Thanks a lot Aunty... How beautifully you described this.. being a working mom (teacher) and having a nuclear family (husband, 1 year baby and I) it's so difficult.. from the hustle to struggle and to harassment... It's so difficult... I can relate so much... It's obviously because of money to maintain the lifestyle and go on with my passion which makes me happy. I do feel guilty of not being able to give the baby the time she needs...

  • @soniyabanerjee933
    @soniyabanerjee933 Před 11 měsíci +2

    Friday night set❤ much love to u n aunty...

  • @abhibodh7858
    @abhibodh7858 Před 11 měsíci

    I so so so can relate to what auntie said about woman have to do it all n so inspiring she is ...n correct we have to have our identity ,i am mom n after two year i have started workhng on myself n clearing all negative thoughts ..

  • @paromitaroy3080
    @paromitaroy3080 Před 11 měsíci

    Great podcast i usually hate podcast but ur podcast is like wow i wait for u vlog nd ur podcast love the two episodes nd aunty wow she is mind-blowing the way she answer nd the way she keep her view on every question is mind-blowing all the best for ur upcoming future and lots of love to u nd ur family ❤️

  • @CHOWKIMANELIVE
    @CHOWKIMANELIVE Před 11 měsíci +2

    Oh my God this episode is epic...... I could relate to lot of points, anf got to know how mom's think, sooooo inspiring....... Thnx alot for speaking on dis leggit topic...... This definitely changed my perception, im 24 this was very much needed at this point of life..... Being a guy i think im gonna respect each n every single woman than i did...... This was wholesome may God bless you ya#sarahsqaud❤️#themummylogic LOADS OF LOVE FROM MANGALORE❤️❤️❤️🤍

  • @Shinepanda1125
    @Shinepanda1125 Před 11 měsíci

    Oh god eagerly waiting for this podcast ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @anjum...8826
    @anjum...8826 Před 11 měsíci

    A chill episode Sarah and aunty❤❤❤❤
    #sarahsquad

  • @devyanikajaria772
    @devyanikajaria772 Před 11 měsíci

    Hi maam
    I can resonate so much with your mom. Even I was a teacher before marriage. Teaching was my identity.

  • @bhavikapatel1818
    @bhavikapatel1818 Před 11 měsíci

    So related reamamber my mother when we're growing up. Really women should financial independent and working what ever field , really like how you talk❤

  • @Fehmida_Sayeed1
    @Fehmida_Sayeed1 Před 11 měsíci

    Mummy's Logic Always Magic ❤

  • @mahimasharma4580
    @mahimasharma4580 Před 11 měsíci

    Pta hi nai Chala Kab end ho gya. So much to learn and connect with. Aunty said it right it's very important to hold onto your identity no matter what.

  • @maccieeeeeeee
    @maccieeeeeeee Před 11 měsíci

    Aunty's super cute! this was wholesome 🥹💌

  • @PoojaSharma-29
    @PoojaSharma-29 Před 11 měsíci +1

    I’m a teacher and my daughter’s name is Sarah n I hope I can see her bloom the way ur mom did 🧿💙lots of gud wishes for you n ur mom

    • @themummylogic
      @themummylogic  Před 11 měsíci +1

      That’s so lovely! Thankyou for sharing🩵

  • @dhanishakunwar2082
    @dhanishakunwar2082 Před 11 měsíci

    Love the postcard di ......😊 Its really very fun to hear it😊

  • @nsid6694
    @nsid6694 Před 10 měsíci

    So natural keep shining 👍👍

  • @ShraddhaSays
    @ShraddhaSays Před 11 měsíci

    She is very similar to my mummy. Aunty is the only reason i listen to this. You are doing real great aunty if you are reading this. ❤

  • @aqsamehar473
    @aqsamehar473 Před 11 měsíci

    Love you both now and always ❤........so much to learn from both of you 🎉Insha Allah aapke jaldi he 1M ho jaenge iss channel pr bhi

  • @urnakundu3157
    @urnakundu3157 Před 11 měsíci

    Aunty held the conversation very well.

  • @amrutabhave1293
    @amrutabhave1293 Před 11 měsíci

    Loved the Episode ❤️❤️😍😍

  • @smartcatcoco3900
    @smartcatcoco3900 Před 11 měsíci

    Whatever aunty was saying can relate with my mother.❤ Vert nice podcast

  • @deepikamahajan98
    @deepikamahajan98 Před 11 měsíci

    Loved the podcast ❤❤❤

  • @mrudulamorigeri8984
    @mrudulamorigeri8984 Před 11 měsíci

    It’s an off day for me as it’s Independence day, but just to listen to your 2nd episode- I went out for a walk early in the morning 😁😁♥️♥️

  • @ellenjacintathangkhiew2088
    @ellenjacintathangkhiew2088 Před 11 měsíci

    The best podcast💕💕

  • @saakshimanjrekar
    @saakshimanjrekar Před 11 měsíci

    Every week friday ka intezar hota he ever since Sarah has started her podcast channel❤

  • @sobiyahsayyed7360
    @sobiyahsayyed7360 Před 11 měsíci +1

    Aunty is putting out true INDIAN MOM thgs which each and every mother feels and not able to say ! I made my dad sit and watch this ! He asked my mum : esa hota hai tumko esa feel hota hai ! She is like haa ! And me 🤭😂 smiling in side.....
    Honestly very much happy and wait for each and every episode 😅🤗 loads of love and success to u @sarahsarosh🎉

  • @shabnamkhan3864
    @shabnamkhan3864 Před 11 měsíci

    Loved the episode ❤ and aunty's smile mashallah mashallah 😍

  • @mehakmehrishi7454
    @mehakmehrishi7454 Před 11 měsíci

    Loved the podcast!# OGSARAHSQUAD

  • @mymemoir4661
    @mymemoir4661 Před 11 měsíci +2

    I am so fond of aunty ❤

  • @bionachettiar7949
    @bionachettiar7949 Před 11 měsíci

    Lovely conversation ❤

  • @shuklabajpaisenray184
    @shuklabajpaisenray184 Před 11 měsíci

    I am also working women. I totally relate this. Aunty u rocks. Really u explain things so well that we can relate so nicely with that. 🎂🥰🎂🥰

  • @prgsngh17
    @prgsngh17 Před 11 měsíci

    Amazing duo❤❤

  • @bijalkhakhkhar9484
    @bijalkhakhkhar9484 Před 11 měsíci +2

    Please do a podcast on what all restrictions your father imposed on you and how did you and your mother mend him to your current situation? Many girls face the same problem, so many people would love to watch that podcast

  • @jyotiraj8959
    @jyotiraj8959 Před 11 měsíci

    Wow just loved it ❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @vineethadsouza6110
    @vineethadsouza6110 Před 11 měsíci

    Just juusssttt love ur moms vocabulary.......❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @samairasalim1873
    @samairasalim1873 Před 11 měsíci +1

    Well im from the "GENZ" generation and im telling u i just cant get over the episode
    #love the podcasts ❤❤❤❤

  • @anishasoreng9719
    @anishasoreng9719 Před 11 měsíci

    I totally loved the episode as i also can relate to it because in my childhood my mother is also working and i totally relate with sarah di😌 but yes later on I understand my mother and i truly respected her 😊and I loved how aunty talks lot's of love to u both❤💕🫶

  • @pariahuja9538
    @pariahuja9538 Před 11 měsíci

    Because of mummy logic I ‘m more obsessed with your mom then you …huge respect to your mom❤️

  • @itz.me.7204
    @itz.me.7204 Před 11 měsíci

    Another great episode. 🎉