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  • čas přidán 19. 08. 2024

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  • @ma.graciagianan-recuenco4095

    Some truthful people tend to be nervous as they are afraid they might be mistaken to be lying. Professional liars dont exhibit nervousness as they are already used to be lying all their life.

    • @bruah4364
      @bruah4364 Před 3 lety +6

      exactly which makes it so much more confusing and complicated

    • @williamduke8331
      @williamduke8331 Před 3 lety +10

      "Some truthful people tend to be nervous as they are afraid they might be mistaken to be lying. "
      People can be uncomfortable with the truth so they might appear nervous or anxious even when telling the truth. It's actually kind of weird because a lot of people are very comfortable with lying and give no telltale signs that they're lying at all. They lie like it's the most natural thing in the world and you would only ever know that they're lying because you just happen to have knowledge that some or all of what they're saying is untrue. If they're really bad liars they'l contradict themselves at every turn.
      Body language is bogus when it comes to determining if somebody is telling the truth or not. People can be nervous or anxious for any number of reasons.

    • @williamduke8331
      @williamduke8331 Před 3 lety

      Are they laughing at me because of what I wrote above? Yeah, well, there are 444 equally laughworthy responses to this video at the time of this writing. No one is laughing at those other people though because those other people aren't the victim of some piece of shit's crime.
      You're fucked buddy! I don't need luck but you're going to need a fucking miracle.

    • @Alex-gp1fz
      @Alex-gp1fz Před 3 lety +1

      I know right. I was just thinking how fucking nervous I would act if they were asking me if I killed someone.

    • @just4interest996
      @just4interest996 Před 2 lety

      @@williamduke8331 You need to establish a baseline for example some people are naturally figitty and nervous because they are introverts and they don’t like confrontations. Once you know how they are when they’re calm and answering obvious questions you can start getting into the nitty gritty. Like a polygraph, they always ask what their names are, their birthdays, etc.

  • @zodiac3042
    @zodiac3042 Před 5 lety +451

    Thos doesnt work on narcissist and psyhopaths. They dont feel guilt. Instead they make other feel guilty for accusing them. Or making them feel guilty.

    • @brianswanton1901
      @brianswanton1901 Před 5 lety +33

      Not entirely true. You just need to find the trigger to their involvement of a situation. For people like that ego is a huge liability.

    • @judityrezendes7244
      @judityrezendes7244 Před 5 lety +3

      Liamii I mean, why wouldn’t they believe you, that’s not something difficult to believe. If you want to really test your skills, try convincing them you live next to a famous singer, that would truly be impressive

    • @originallalthanpuiihmar5362
      @originallalthanpuiihmar5362 Před 5 lety +3

      Now i'm feeling that to my maid who is a thief

    • @ladykeia2708
      @ladykeia2708 Před 5 lety +1

      #Boom THEY ARE THE WORST

    • @otxoawolf9054
      @otxoawolf9054 Před 4 lety +6

      Actually they are scared of getting caught and thats how you get them.

  • @seyfun1452
    @seyfun1452 Před 5 lety +56

    1. Don't fill on the void or silence, wait 2 beats. If you tell the truth, you don't want to fill it.
    2. Invade personal space, scoot the chair closer or step closer. Lean forward with the torso.
    3. People will speak more if you nod 3 times in a row.
    4. Make them tell the story backwords, from the middle or from someone else's perspective. Because liars rehearse so it'll be difficult for them.

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    • @juliacheng9273
      @juliacheng9273 Před rokem

      How about the other side not fill on the silence either?

  • @anuncolonizedmind6296
    @anuncolonizedmind6296 Před 5 lety +177

    I can feel when someone is lying to me, there energy feels a certain why to me. Even if it is someone is on tv

    • @liamii5603
      @liamii5603 Před 5 lety +2

      Spirtual Gangsta can you get psychopath and sociopath and pervert narcissistic. Because they don't feel guilty, remorse and stufd

    • @matesoul970
      @matesoul970 Před 4 lety

      Spirtual Gangsta I need people like you 😢

    • @franky1pro1
      @franky1pro1 Před 4 lety +5

      Another narcissist sociopath that thinks has supernatural powers. Hilarious!!

    • @nehenzo1
      @nehenzo1 Před 4 lety +1

      franky1pro1 another fucking virgin

    • @TrangLe-dp8jf
      @TrangLe-dp8jf Před 3 lety

      What do you mean? Who’s lying?

  • @vernaharris4700
    @vernaharris4700 Před 2 lety +8

    I really like that she uses research to prove her points.

  • @dpinkd
    @dpinkd Před 5 lety +9

    my psychology class taught us that anyone can get nervous when they're accused. It also taught us that things like micro expressions and other body language notions aren't exact indicators. Although that some guilty people do get nervous because they're guilty, nervousness isn't a 100% accurate and fool proof method to detect guilty people. We learn different methods to get answers like re-calling events backwards and such forth. Since brains process information automatically sort of like computers, lying becomes difficult because it's not a natural response but rather a forced response. Our conscious self can manipulate people by lying but deep inside the brain knows somethings off so you need to learn to exploit that weakness by maintaining a calm and fluid dialogue, that's how you'll get the brain to slip and tell you the correct information that really occured. Example: I was cooking a delicious meal and my sister arrived home. I know she likes to pick at the food on the stove so as i left for a second i had a feeling that she had grabbed food because there was a bit missing. I didn't accuse but asked her if she grabbed some food and she denied doing so but i kept the conversation calm to keep her off guard and calmly told her it was really hot right? And her brain automatically said yes! A second later lmao she said darn it! You got me.. and i laughed because as much as she wanted to she could not lie to her own brain...

  • @hays76
    @hays76 Před 7 lety +21

    The nod (I thought) was more like a sign that she was reassuring herself in her own mind that she said the right thing, weather it was true or not.

    • @hays76
      @hays76 Před 7 lety +1

      Also, I know Vanessa here only had so much time on the show, but I feel she could have been a bit more thorough in describing the psychology behind the examples that were given, and with possible alternatives to signs shown by different people in different situations. We got enough people (as is) who think they're psychologists, then people watch this kind of stuff and think they can read people like a book.
      Still good content.

    • @hays76
      @hays76 Před 7 lety

      Experience is the best teacher when you're dealing with liars. I've dealt with liars my whole life, all the way from nervous liars, who may just be trying to keep their convo short and sweet (which btw, if you ask me, all lies are the same - dirty), to the extreme pathological liars, who lie out of habit, or just want people to think their cool or whatever (theyd be a hell of a lot cooler if they were honest). There are many many many signs that are shown by liars, and many times they understand that people are onto them, or may catch onto them, to they throw out mixed signals (which you should be able to catch if you're paying attereall.ne nymore

  • @user-ok7gr2lw2j
    @user-ok7gr2lw2j Před 8 lety +59

    1:30 that girl didn't blink for long. This indicates that she is lying. And also in some point when she heard next question, her eyebrows get straighten and together and it indicates fear!

  • @GodricThe
    @GodricThe Před 8 lety +8

    she smiled, raised corner of of lips. she did it and is proud of it.

    • @dundee7631
      @dundee7631 Před 4 lety

      That makes me fucking angry dude

  • @GV-wv8uf
    @GV-wv8uf Před 7 lety +161

    I've got mad anxiety and I'm always paranoid that I do things that make me look like I'm lying even though I'm not which makes me more nervous which makes me more fidgety and so on..

    • @ashleycastillo6037
      @ashleycastillo6037 Před 5 lety +10

      Same here and ppl think I'm always lying. I hate it and it sucks. I'm working on fixing that.

    • @Lesbiana31
      @Lesbiana31 Před 5 lety +11

      @@ashleycastillo6037 liar lol

    • @godisgreat10000
      @godisgreat10000 Před 5 lety +6

      Ashley Castillo I thought I was the only one 😂
      But I feel like lying nervousness and anxious nervousness look different

    • @Anglisc1682
      @Anglisc1682 Před 5 lety

      @@godisgreat10000 you're right, they do look different

    • @kobiesboxing4956
      @kobiesboxing4956 Před 5 lety

      G V This is why I don't trust lie detectors. Because lie detectors measure your nervousness, and not your truth or lies.

  • @LioMurdest
    @LioMurdest Před 8 lety +71

    She also had a little smile before answering the first question.

    • @ThePheonise
      @ThePheonise Před 7 lety +16

      Correct, but it's not a smile, it's contempt

    • @Johny40Se7en
      @Johny40Se7en Před 7 lety +6

      That's a smirk of contempt

    • @Galantski
      @Galantski Před 6 lety +2

      _dupers delight_ is the common term.

  • @Koz1ov3
    @Koz1ov3 Před 4 lety +8

    I Love my wife and after confessing my sin 💓 up to God I can definitely feel my peace inside 😌 and I will never lie is a promise I done to my self ...

  • @nanmiki7472
    @nanmiki7472 Před 7 lety +128

    This is really good for liars in training

    • @caronescustomcoatings5433
      @caronescustomcoatings5433 Před 4 lety +4

      You sir are a complete asshole

    • @AF-uc2bd
      @AF-uc2bd Před 4 lety +1

      Subconscious mind does not respond to training also, it can improve a bit

    • @scooterlovya
      @scooterlovya Před 4 lety

      Bahahaa

    • @Koz1ov3
      @Koz1ov3 Před 4 lety +2

      Omg 😡 Stop them little lies cant you comprehend the damage you're doing to your self 😔 🤧

  • @Samhain606
    @Samhain606 Před 4 lety +14

    Being on the autism spectrum, I would be screwed if I got interviewed about something in which I was innocent. I display all of those red flags only because of awkwardness in social situations, especially one on one.

    • @laurabeigh283
      @laurabeigh283 Před 2 lety

      Oh thank you! My boyfriend is also on the spectrum and I was wondering about this.

    • @jharrison5086
      @jharrison5086 Před 2 lety

      You are already telling people to expect that you will be awkward which gives you more range to lie. Narcissists who have been caught before use this in their bag of tricks to get away with their lies.

  • @anyajohnson7965
    @anyajohnson7965 Před 4 lety +1

    Key is showing you’re on their side, won’t change how u see them, and aren’t going to add any negative thing to their lives.
    Worked on sever narcissist

  • @marez3692
    @marez3692 Před 8 lety +6

    ughh omg why am i only jus discovering this chick now? she's amazing

  • @edithali1263
    @edithali1263 Před 5 lety +59

    I wish the guy would stop interrupting her 😩

    • @grayisgood
      @grayisgood Před 4 lety +1

      He's probably on tv because he likes attention.

  • @mauledomen
    @mauledomen Před 7 lety +99

    6:50 "How can anyone in your family trust you?" Vanessa says she has a very honest relationship yet swipes her hands across and shakes her head lol

    • @devin5068
      @devin5068 Před 7 lety +38

      lol shes taught us too well

    • @Saad.civil.numberone
      @Saad.civil.numberone Před 7 lety +5

      Eduardo Castillo she is nervous

    • @learnsomethingeveryday9164
      @learnsomethingeveryday9164 Před 7 lety +12

      i was going to comment that lol and also she put her hand in a way saying to stop that... and she changed her baseline to an emotional baseline increased the volume and saw that squeezing leg movement she was nervous and she looks away from him showing she don't want to talk about that and after that she swallows indicating intense nervousness and slips the word suspect. nervous baseline or emotional baseline??? i think 1st emotional and then changed to nervous. what do you guys think??

    • @jesuslovesyou534
      @jesuslovesyou534 Před 6 lety +3

      Eduardo Castillo Vanessas hand grstures are CORRECT.........u are twisting its meaning confussing it with something else.......she did those gestures to express how there is no room left for doubt in her sentence.....its an absolute.....a complete true.

    • @Fonch117
      @Fonch117 Před 6 lety +2

      She's obviously exonerating herself from the accusation. lol What? Did you expect her to nod her head and give a thumbs up after they implied her relationship with her family is one of dishonesty? C'mon people logic. If you took a course on body language and couldn't even make that inference you'd surely fail.

  • @ticks4ticks4
    @ticks4ticks4 Před 9 lety +23

    What about: mild Tourette's Syndrome? panic disorder/generalized anxiety disorder?
    tics? Being EXTREMELY NERVOUS-more than the general population--in general, and exacerbated when interviewed/confronted/interrogated?

    • @pamrowbottom8391
      @pamrowbottom8391 Před 6 lety +1

      ticks4ticks4 I have Arnold Chiari Malformation and during conversation I cough I swallow a lot I drink water I pick at my fingers all the time no matter what and I shake a little bit while talking about anything and my face gets red some no matter what and I honest to God feel like nothing is wrong besides my brain takes over my cognitive functions like speech motor control and breathing and heart rate stress causes it to be worse and it could potentially kill me
      I'm going to end up on the stand in immigration court for my family and that's stressful I just want to live my life with my family not worried about losing my family I love what I've created and it's not fair I thought America laws were supposed to ensure the pursuit of happiness
      Don't ever deal with Karyn Zarlenga in the USCIS department she makes her decisions based on false information from the wrong side and doesn't care that a decision could potentially kill a US citizen based off of the words of spiteful exes and forgets to be humble and have humility it's like I'll take your money but my answers no either which way
      Tim Ryan and Matthew Vadas is doing what they can to help me out and attorney Richard Herman is doing what he can I'll be damned I'm going to let my family get torn apart from each other because feelings don't matter bull I say
      And I'll add criminal justice shouldn't even be involved because no one has broken any federal crime OK OK OK if love is a crime well then that's all we're guilty of we've even passed 4 FBI background checks world wide now why is the threat of deportation even on the table
      We just want to move on
      Keep moving forward
      Sick and tired of jealousy towards each other just be happy for others then others will catch on
      But I guess bullying is just easier for some ask your bullies are you OK what's wrong why do you think it's OK to take things out on others that didn't give you permission to act like that towards anyone
      I don't know I think this ex needs to take responsibility for their actions and this USCIS department needs to just look at what's infont of them and see we love our family and move on to someone else who has federal criminal charges and deserves this stress not people who do what's right for everyone around them
      Yep...............
      Guess that ex is needing to confess their mistakes and lies

    • @lazylank
      @lazylank Před 6 lety +1

      Those are some of the reasons Vanessa said she needs to baseline someone first, before giving a definite answer.
      A lot of people will vary with their normal no pressure situations, but what is important is how a person's behaviours CHANGES when under pressure or lying.

    • @jasonvanner3976
      @jasonvanner3976 Před 6 lety

      Pam Rowbottom what did you call that anxiety problem you have? I have been dealing with something very similar since I got out of high school 20 years ago. I had a lot of friends in high school and was considered one of the "popular" kids. After I graduated and started working I had an experience when my boss was just talking to me normally where I got very nervous and my face turned red. I couldn't think straight anymore and all I could think about was what the other person was thinking about me. "How red is my face?", "I am starting to sweat.", "I need to get out of here!". I just have these panic attacks and I avoid social situations because all I can think about is, "What if I have an attack?". It has really caused problems for me my whole adult life and I now take medication for it. I was just curious what the disorder was called and finding ways to deal with it without taking medication. Thank you

    • @ticks4ticks4
      @ticks4ticks4 Před 5 lety +2

      Or; say: "Asperger Syndrome/ autistic spectrum disorders" / perhaps with tics/ Tourette's Syndrome" ?

  • @rileyewing2345
    @rileyewing2345 Před 9 lety +44

    There was also the microexpression of contempt after she heard the first question. It's funny she never picked up on that.

    • @ScarletFierce
      @ScarletFierce Před 9 lety +3

      Riley Ewing she looked afraid but i'm not sure

    • @MarcillaSmith
      @MarcillaSmith Před 8 lety +13

      +Riley Ewing Totes! There's what I would call a tiny smirk. I confess that it left me very prejudiced after I saw that one microexpression that she was thinking "I got this beat"

  • @brianswanton1901
    @brianswanton1901 Před 5 lety +6

    During the Amanda interview I think you were bang on the nail when you said she was coached. She had a micro smile when the question was asked indicating that she was pleased that she was prepared to answer the question and she expected it. She, I believe knows, more than she was letting on. There is tension around the eyes, pulling her eyebrows together indicating fear or concern and mouth indicating stress ( which would be expected giving the nature of the questions) Swallowing is a fear mechanism as well. I think she was worried she would give too much away. There is also what appears to be sadness or guilt in her face in the end of the clip. The base line would definitely be necessary to establish the a more accurate read however even the best liars cannot always control the limbic responses.

  • @brittany1484
    @brittany1484 Před 6 lety +5

    Considering that I have anxiety, interrogating me at all would make me nervous even though I haven't done anything wrong.

  • @mischa3691
    @mischa3691 Před 8 lety +5

    Love this! Very helpful in dealing with people. Thank you.

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    @garretttooke510 Před 4 lety +1

    I'm taking notes

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    @yoyosa Před 4 lety +1

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  • @hironakae
    @hironakae Před 8 lety +1

    2:22 "AHhh, you're good!" LOL this guy

  • @stacyflack7620
    @stacyflack7620 Před 5 lety +10

    This all sounds good but doesn't apply to psychopathic Narcissist people. Never a confession , never an apology. If asked hard questions an explosion of anger and how bad I was. In her mind of have never caught her finally of cheating of I hadn't been spying on her. Lol 😂. That's the way they think no BS.

  • @abdisamadabdi7408
    @abdisamadabdi7408 Před 4 lety +27

    Is no one going to talk about why they’re in a kitchen😂

    • @thelmaigbo8184
      @thelmaigbo8184 Před 4 lety +2

      Because somethings in life are still held sacred! Gossip must always take place in the kitchen. Period.

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  • @lisajustvisiting9953
    @lisajustvisiting9953 Před 3 lety +1

    I'm being accused of lying at the minute. I hate it and even though I've done nothing wrong I have to have a polygraph test which Im not even sure how accurate they are. It's killing me, I've an appointment to begin counselling because it's caused depression. I just hope the polygraph test actually works. I feel like I've been living in some weird hellish dimension where nobody believes me

  • @chrischavez7956
    @chrischavez7956 Před 3 lety +1

    Wow I need her in my corner right now. Until I learn this , I just found a new passion.

  • @zodiac3042
    @zodiac3042 Před 5 lety +3

    What if someone is too good at lying, acting. Knowing how to counter all this things or aware how to lie without being caught.

  • @Jones30able
    @Jones30able Před 2 lety

    Hi Vanessa really captivating, the sequence of your body language led me understand your involvement.

  • @YouMakeMeBean01
    @YouMakeMeBean01 Před 5 lety +1

    GREAT SEGMENT, Vanessa!!!!

  • @paolarf
    @paolarf Před 6 lety +6

    I disagree that someone is lying if they hesitate to tell you something in reverse order. Simply ask them to say the alphabet backwords and many people will hesitate. So while most of what you say seems logical, I would highly disagree with that assumption you made. Firstly, a person may be nervous because they are being interrogated. In the legal field, it is enough to have a person of authority interrogating you or being in a courtroom giving testimony to cause nervousness and it does not necessarily mean you are a liar. This is also why lie-detector tests are highly unreliable in the Canadian legal system.

  • @oreoemsa304
    @oreoemsa304 Před 4 lety +7

    I’m in a situation where I found out my boyfriend have lied about something. Or maybe has.
    If he lied, I think it’s because I overreact when he tells the truth.
    And I have to talk to him calmly about it. I just want to know if he lied, or if he just didn’t know the truth

    • @eeedeee7206
      @eeedeee7206 Před 4 lety +2

      I'm in a similar spot, but I think my BF has his own problems too.

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    @faith4today Před 5 lety +3

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  • @cyprianokodi3084
    @cyprianokodi3084 Před 3 lety +1

    Good one

  • @ithiliel
    @ithiliel Před 2 lety

    I can see the fear and nervousness in her eyes as well. They don't seem comfortable and getting more teary

  • @celtpro
    @celtpro Před 9 lety +19

    Some people can be so cruel when they see something they disagree with. Whether you believe what Vanessa Van Edwards is stating is true or false. Some people need to learn some Psychology about human behavior. There are some very good people who could lie their way out of a wet paper bag, and there are some people that are the opposite.
    I could be guilty of something yet, be very good at lying about it, or I my not and give myself away very easily. You have 2 ears and 1 mouth. Listen before you speak, it takes nothing too be an effective listener and even less to speak before your brain realises what some one has said.

  • @marcusminty3243
    @marcusminty3243 Před 10 lety +3

    Thank you great video

  • @septemberdawnluketz
    @septemberdawnluketz Před 6 lety +4

    When I'm in a threatening situation by my perpetrator, and I know they are coming towards me, my reaction is already fear mode... My assailant is creating the fear.

  • @rachelchenoweth5748
    @rachelchenoweth5748 Před 3 lety

    Amazing
    I use some of these currently ... Love it

  • @emperork5402
    @emperork5402 Před 2 lety

    Thank you for helping me with my absolutely legal endeavors

  • @ashdaniels4753
    @ashdaniels4753 Před 7 lety +5

    How about that (seemingly) half smile/smirk at 0.41 when she answers the first question? (put speed on 0.25 to see it clearer) Can we get a followup video once you've established a baseline? Would be so cool to see someone analysed like that. Thanks for your videos!

    • @JjoshD
      @JjoshD Před 7 lety +3

      Ash Daniels I noticed that too. someone correct me if I'm wrong but I believe it's called a micro-expression. perhaps she heard the question and got excited knowing she was about to tell a lie (or not, she could be innocent).

    • @ashdaniels4753
      @ashdaniels4753 Před 7 lety

      Yeah Josh! Without the baseline it could mean so so many things. Really look forward to learning more about the subject xD

  • @woodboardwood6345
    @woodboardwood6345 Před 5 lety +1

    What if it's over the phone? You can't see anyone's facial features and movements?

  • @longslonz4982
    @longslonz4982 Před 4 lety +3

    A moment of silence for her son

  • @patrickgermond2750
    @patrickgermond2750 Před 5 lety

    Her eyes are dialated too. Real nervous. And the nod are two indicators in the first five seconds. There was a micro movement on the nose that was anger. The eye brows looked forced even to cover the anger and pull the face out of it. It was a mixture of anger and insult at the question. It looked like surprise, but she was purposefully using them to stick her answer. Like the expert said, it may have been part of a coached response.

  • @ImagineCedric
    @ImagineCedric Před 9 lety +25

    Swallowing is a natural human reflex action. If seriously damaging allegations are made to any individual it is natural for them to feel nervious and swallow before answering. In some countries (India) nodding can mean both "yes" or "No". Her response should Not be misinterpreted. Do we live in a society where people are guilty until proven innocent?

    • @colleencreighton8928
      @colleencreighton8928 Před 6 lety +2

      Cedric Peters I hear what you're saying, although its very similar to scratching or itching your face...That too, is a normal function, however it's been proven that somethimg about not telling the truth, makes us, for some reason, touch/scratch a place on our face.
      I agree w/you about the swallowing Cedric, but I really do think that not telling the truth, somehow triggers us {For Whatever Reason?} to swallow. Again, clearly it's jus my opinion, but no matter what someone tries to tell me, I do believe these triggers to be true, no matter how 'Natural' they are. It's all very interesting to me. That being said, I'm having a hell of a time trying to find help on DETECTING A LIAR WHEN YOU CAN ONLY HEAR THEIR VOICE👄💭BECAUSE THEY CHOOSE TO SIT BEHIND A DARK COMP. SCREEN 💻.
      By chance, would you have any suggestions? I'd greatly appreciate any help.
      Thank you✌
      Colleen*

    • @lazylank
      @lazylank Před 6 lety +3

      Bruh.... this isn't India.

  • @GB-fk7eq
    @GB-fk7eq Před 6 lety

    Truthfully i am seriously crushing on Vanessa Van Edwards. That is as gorgeous an interrogator as one could hope for.

  • @galacticpotata8192
    @galacticpotata8192 Před 6 lety

    You just made me learn how to be a better liar

  • @youtubesuckss7058
    @youtubesuckss7058 Před 5 lety

    Vanessa you're so smart

  • @maryvanblargan1109
    @maryvanblargan1109 Před 5 lety +2

    Could you do one on how to catch a divorced parent secretly dating? I'm going through it and I need advice on how to get through

  • @Fitbody_bysarah
    @Fitbody_bysarah Před 5 lety

    She say she DID IT! Geezzz!!!

  • @_quixote
    @_quixote Před 3 lety +1

    Everytime I tell the truth people think I'm lying by because of my nervousness and I stutter.

  • @amaramorrighan8357
    @amaramorrighan8357 Před 6 lety

    I said the exact same thing, about all of what this women is saying at this time.

  • @kobiesboxing4956
    @kobiesboxing4956 Před 5 lety

    Being under the watchful eye of Vanessa would have to be nerve wrecking.

  • @silversunastrology
    @silversunastrology Před 6 lety +1

    This is good stuff!
    I am interested.

  • @thomasnugent7602
    @thomasnugent7602 Před 5 lety

    Very good. Thank you very much

  • @rusticb2850
    @rusticb2850 Před 5 lety

    Big thumbs up. You rock!!

  • @nochill9475
    @nochill9475 Před 6 lety

    I'm not a liar because I don't care! But when I want to lie, these are good tips to watch out for. You see the problem with humans is our intelligence, now I know a person will look out for these, i'll be extra vigilant.

  • @rebeccaczarnek3742
    @rebeccaczarnek3742 Před 9 lety +2

    I'm having a problem with something that was stolen from me. Good advice but it doesn't always work.

  • @lifeisawesome8855
    @lifeisawesome8855 Před 5 lety

    Ur doing it great man...thumbs up

  • @MalawianCamera
    @MalawianCamera Před 4 lety

    Yes

  • @iamziano
    @iamziano Před 5 lety +1

    So addicted with your videos! :) I wonder what you studied in college? Was it Communication or Psychology? Veryyy cooool!

  • @jesuslovesyou534
    @jesuslovesyou534 Před 6 lety +1

    Vanessas hand grstures are CORRECT.........u are twisting its meaning confussing it with something else.......she did those gestures to express how there is no room left for doubt in her sentence.....its an absolute.....a complete true.

  • @sshyam1547
    @sshyam1547 Před 8 lety +2

    Good to know

  • @exellentedecorations9454

    I love the conversation

  • @Daniel-cp8kt
    @Daniel-cp8kt Před 5 lety

    If I am lying its like paradise when someone is silent for a while. For me personally the more dragged out the better unless I have to use the bathroom or something. Because the longer I am there in that moment I have not been caught and I am not in punishment.

  • @SheeshMaster64
    @SheeshMaster64 Před 9 lety +3

    when i searched how to make people confess, i meant love like in japan XD

  • @awesomeswu6500
    @awesomeswu6500 Před 5 lety

    helpful...thank you so much

  • @niva-orruvio1312
    @niva-orruvio1312 Před 6 lety

    Thank you

  • @MarkBH70
    @MarkBH70 Před 8 lety +1

    Amazing!

  • @badara242
    @badara242 Před 7 lety

    Very educative

  • @super1337bf3ordie
    @super1337bf3ordie Před 5 lety

    we know amadanda was telling the truth watched a whole docco about it i think shes being truthfull she isnt trying to convinve you to much

  • @ivley9798
    @ivley9798 Před 3 lety +1

    *me watching this as a teen like: o_o
    but like i really felt that pause

  • @elk9414
    @elk9414 Před 6 lety +1

    What's really funny is reading body language of both broadcasters and politicians whether it's an election year or not.

  • @taymann1980
    @taymann1980 Před 3 lety

    top level info lol.

  • @jupiter22177
    @jupiter22177 Před 6 lety

    Your techniques for charisma definitely work as i am falling deeper and deeper in love with you the more videos i watch of you Vanessa.

  • @marwasaid9138
    @marwasaid9138 Před 8 lety +1

    your videos, Venessa are superb and I learned a lot from them ...thank you.

    • @jessicalissette513
      @jessicalissette513 Před 8 lety

      Agreed. She really does give brilliant advice. I really notice this a lot more among people I know and people I meet. It truly is fascinating.

  • @justabean508
    @justabean508 Před 4 lety +1

    I'm just here to learn how to get my friend to tell me his secret

  • @abduljabbarmohammed4188

    that sumps it up

  • @chevyblueangel
    @chevyblueangel Před 6 lety

    the yes nod was after she answered, not before

  • @DynamiteKid1224
    @DynamiteKid1224 Před 4 lety

    Earned a sub.+like! Thank you!

  • @lifegivesuslemons421
    @lifegivesuslemons421 Před 6 lety +3

    I would hate to be in any relationship with someone who thinks your a liar . Good luck finding a happy relationship

  • @sharimontoliu9768
    @sharimontoliu9768 Před 3 lety

    gee wiz of course one would be nervous anyone would

  • @southernmissy75
    @southernmissy75 Před 6 lety

    I always raise my eyebrows when I'm
    Telling it like it is.. so idk 😐 bout that' but hell idk how to tell if someone's lying or not so there ya go.. have a good one everyone 🍸

  • @benjaminisnoice8941
    @benjaminisnoice8941 Před 4 lety +1

    Someone I consider a close friend confessed to me-
    I'm not sure whether I have feelings for them or not. And if I turn them down will it ruin my friendship?

  • @XXallycat101XX
    @XXallycat101XX Před 5 lety +1

    I want to know how to get a narcissist to confess??

  • @arnavgupta9169
    @arnavgupta9169 Před 3 lety

    Nice window!😂

  • @kamhaibeard7424
    @kamhaibeard7424 Před 5 lety

    This video just taught me how to lie

  • @rixpix2957
    @rixpix2957 Před 6 lety

    Dead on accurate!

  • @patrickruiz3139
    @patrickruiz3139 Před 5 lety

    She wanted to smile to the first question

  • @perfectlearner2617
    @perfectlearner2617 Před 6 lety +1

    Someone stole my new android mobile bought just yesterday and an old one.I suspect on the person but I don't know what to do.I am so upset.

  • @RochelleEskue
    @RochelleEskue Před 6 lety

    Minimalizing = Good Cop. , Exaggerating = Bad Cop

  • @monsterxzero
    @monsterxzero Před 4 lety

    How to make friend tell you truth that he stole something from you you saw him and he just ran away like a bullet.. Then kept it safely.. Then you asked him what DID YOU STEAL? and he says NOTHING.. And i have two guys who saw him running.. I was with him in my room but he took it so fast i couldn't catch him AT the moment and he escaped

  • @anthony-zl5vp
    @anthony-zl5vp Před 3 lety +1

    I made my girl tell the truth, probly all of them, by pretending i already knew everything. I actualy controled the situation confidently, or being agresive maybe, which i dont often do. Once she told me something contradicted my presumptions based on my little investigations, i yeled BS, literaly, and walked away, gave her time to think she was already caught, then moments later, she asked for another chance to talk and told me everything. Further investigation proved that she realy told me all truth.
    I guess i was just lucky. Or it was a destiny. Or whatever. Or i was just better at lying. Thank goodness she did not prepare by watching these lying techniques im curently learning on yt these days

  • @michaelcaits157
    @michaelcaits157 Před 5 lety

    How did you miss the beginning of her smile? Look again at the first second after she was asked “Did you kill..?” because at the very instant Sawyer finished mentioning the victim’s name - the left side of Knox’s mouth curled into a smile: just for the briefest - not even a second - but her eyes remained fixed throughout. It is symptomatic (though not conclusive) of Narcissistic Personality to involuntarily smile at someone else’s bad news, especially death or terminal illness. It is also generally understood that those with psychopathic or sociopathic personalities will become excited at the mention of their intended or actual victim - especially if they took mementos or other evidence of their homicide to relive the experience or have the ability to internally revisit their victim’s traumatic death or injury. This too is known to induce a form of internalised euphoria which can, under the right provocation, leak out into the outside world - no matter how much the accused tries to hide it. The question here is - did she stifle a smile?
    and why?
    *please note this opinion is based on being able from childhood to pick up on micro movements of face and body and is the sum total of personal knowledge- not Professional analysis.******

  • @namaskarmindia9052
    @namaskarmindia9052 Před 7 lety

    u r genius....😃

  • @catherinetighe7813
    @catherinetighe7813 Před 6 lety +1

    Smirking, swallowing, very little body movement - who does that remind one of?