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Hi Vanessa, I bought your book "Captivate: The Science of Succeeding with People" immediately after seeing this video which came out of nowhere in youtube suggestions. It came in the right time when I needed this most. By the way, the linkedin link in description is not working. You may want to correct it. And, this comment section is awesome, so many funny and interesting responses.

Im #7, but a variation of trying to be silent, failing, and producing squeeks

This can be renamed to "how to trap a person" 😅

I have a psychopath / yandere laugh. Yep.

I don't think she needs to start a conversation. Straight to business, she's highly attractive. 😂 or touch, or 😘

This is not fun at all

Women can lie and give no signs trust me

IF YOU SMELLLLLLL WHAT THE ROCK IS COOKING?????!!!!!!

Hi Dr. Cokley, Hi Vanessa! Thank you for recording all the info we need to conquer the impostor syndrome. I am a nearly bilingual English as a Foreign Language Teacher. I face this issue every day when communicating with my executive students, especially when correcting advanced-level students. The tips you mention in this video are powerful and I will implement positive self-talk in my daily life.

forgot the eaeaeaeaeaea laugh

Same as you, breathe in, breathe out, left, right, left, right. Same as you, Mom met Dad, nine months later, me. Same as you. :) Enjoy your day.

Nah, introverts should just man up and always try to do this. If there's one thing they should know is that not everyone is a PoS.

Thanks

Absolute drivel. This is psychological drivel, just be yourself.

Have to call my teacher in 15 mins iam nervous as hell literally shivering

I think of what to say before I say it and it comes out all messed up lol

I hate asking and getting asked this question

My laugh switches a lot sometimes i got that witch cackle

What do you think? Are phrases like these truely interchangable between men and women? If a man were to say these things would it have the same effect as a woman? Curious what your response is.

Interesting...vanilla is my least favorite! I knew it would be the chosen one. But then again, i dont wear deod hahaha solo life. I know youR answer to this but is it better to fit what others want, to have more friends...or to be confident being solo, not giving much of a fook and only having a few friends who like who you are without trying so hard? That said, learning to communicate well can't hurt.

Money is like confidence. It's hard to keep and easy lose.😂

This is a great point. Thanks for sharing.

7:00 The relax ur glutes had me dying (sorry)

I have 2 preform infront of 400 people 2morrow 💀💀😭😭💀💀😭😭😭😭💀😭💀💀😭

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Learn more about how to give a captivating presentation! www.scienceofpeople.com/how-to-give-captivating-presentations/

I am a pivot learner.

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I don't want more power than I can take responsibility for. Too many people take up more power than they can take responsibility for and causing damage to society.

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I have given many, many presentations in my professional career. While I agree with all of those points, a much bigger sin is how people use PowerPoint. Most people have far, far, far too much text on their slides. What you want to do is change and eliminate the vast majority of words from your presentations and use almost all images in your presentation. Plus, you want to use animation and sequencing so that you only present the slides as you are saying or introducing the concept. It allows you to tell a story through images. Yes, it will take longer to create. Yes, your presentations will become very large. Who cares? The idea is to make an impression - and you do it through images and storytelling. I learned this concept from a colleague in my marketing department. I then changed how I delivered presentations. My very next presentation, a fellow colleague told me that my presentation was the best he had ever seen - and he had been at the company for over 20 years. PP can be an aid or an albatross. Most people don’t know how to use it.

Those are very good ideas. Essentially, don’t retreat into yourself, lean into your message, your presence, etc

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Yes!!! Preach!!!

Great video! I loved the insights on the top 3 presentation mistakes and the tips on how to improve. Making the first line powerful is such a key point, and I totally agree that eye contact is crucial for engaging with the audience. The advice on avoiding question inflection is really helpful too. Thanks for sharing!

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. I understand that I need to get out of my comfort zone.And try new things and try to feel uncomfortable in good ways to be able to build self confidence. What are some other ways of building self worth, confidence, and esteem?

I don’t know, next question please 😊

I always say “I’ve never been better!” I don’t think it is funny: it is intended to start a conversation.

I laughed watching this video.

This is golden advice

You’re cute. Who’s got the time to write down the names of people in their life on post its 😂😂😂