Chemo round 1 and what happened after

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  • čas přidán 26. 08. 2023
  • We finished chemo round 1! Here's what has been going on...
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Komentáře • 904

  • @haraldhagen7674
    @haraldhagen7674 Před 11 měsíci +271

    'I can diarrhoea and do a crossword, but I will CRY when I vomit' is so spiritually relateable. Both when I was doing chemo and every other day of my life generally.
    Keep on, keep strong, Grace!

    • @ElpSmith
      @ElpSmith Před 11 měsíci

      I also found that incredibly relatable. We’re here and we’re awesome

    • @Orblinkluv
      @Orblinkluv Před 10 měsíci

      Fr I cry when I throw up too 😭 at first it's a physical reaction but then I cry harder cuz it makes me emotional 🥺

  • @zacr4664
    @zacr4664 Před 11 měsíci +873

    I don't care how much content we get from you, I am jut happy when ever we get it. I like when you put something out because I know you actually want to put it out. You got this.

  • @ariellaabrahams
    @ariellaabrahams Před 11 měsíci +726

    You got this. I've survived cancer twice. My son survived stage 4 colon cancer. My mother has survived 3 rounds of cancer (2 different types) I know it's scary. Do lots of positive affirmations. The gratitude practice is a brilliant idea. We love you and we're praying for you.

    • @itsgrace
      @itsgrace  Před 11 měsíci +267

      Wow what a group of survivors! Amazing!

    • @CS.AtheistChannel.VoteBidenAOC
      @CS.AtheistChannel.VoteBidenAOC Před 11 měsíci +20

      Add Grace to that list.

    • @leserotonine3242
      @leserotonine3242 Před 11 měsíci +3

      Wow that sounds terrible but amazing at the same time! What a family of fighters!

    • @jessicastacey9058
      @jessicastacey9058 Před 11 měsíci

      I have a TikTok 😂

    • @jessicastacey9058
      @jessicastacey9058 Před 11 měsíci +1

      My favourite content from you has always been just been an outpouring of your thoughts and stream of consciousness, 14 yrs of f’king genius. I can’t imagine what you are going through but we all love you and are here anytime you want us to be ♥️

  • @noakessimon
    @noakessimon Před 11 měsíci +544

    Still making me laugh even in these circumstances, what a true comedy hero. If we're being grateful for things this week, I think we're all grateful for you.

  • @yougotmeinstitches
    @yougotmeinstitches Před 11 měsíci +188

    Keep the no filter. I always think videos like these are helpful. You’ve got this Grace!

    • @ashleymaude979
      @ashleymaude979 Před 11 měsíci +2

      yesterday, for funsies i watched the hey usa alaska episode. so much fun. grace is perfect, just the way she is

    • @nickthomas8485
      @nickthomas8485 Před 11 měsíci +1

      I’m a nurse and friends will be sharing their disgusting stories and suddenly get self conscious and I’m like “no wait you’re fine I’m not grossed out anyway what color was the liquid sh*t??”

  • @tujulia936
    @tujulia936 Před 11 měsíci +130

    i'm going through chemo for breast cancer right now too and i literally sleep for 4 days straight after infusion. usually start to feel more myself around day 5, but days 1-4 i can barely keep my eyes open! hang in there, grace. we got this!

  • @alyseandrews1066
    @alyseandrews1066 Před 11 měsíci +200

    The hair part can be emotional, but the wig experiments can be really fun. And you said it, temporary! You're gonna knock it out of the park! The chemo-brain can get frustrating too, but again, temporary! Thank you for sharing your experience and helping others feel seen and understood in their own journeys. ❤

  • @honeybunbadger
    @honeybunbadger Před 11 měsíci +89

    New person! New person! New person!...A person who just finished her first week of chemo (!!!) and still is a little jazzed for more of life's challenges. Grace, you're such a damn inspiration.

  • @eholbrook2158
    @eholbrook2158 Před 11 měsíci +77

    I’m the CZcams cactus that doesn’t die and I’m always here for any content! When you said “y’all don’t care about my skin” or whatever I said out loud to no one, Hey! I care!! Bc we really do care, Grace! Tell us anything and everything you want to - we are here to support you however we can ❤

  • @makeyla4
    @makeyla4 Před 11 měsíci +116

    I can relate to this so much. At the end of 2022, I was diagnosed with ovarian cancer. And the 10 months after were the worst of my life. It was the longest, scariest time of my life. There were so many times where I wasn’t sure if I was going to make it to my next birthday. There were so many things that I had to accept. The hair loss was the hardest for me because I could see my sickness in the mirror. Shaving my head was traumatic and very difficult. My chemo rounds were week long hospital visits with a lot of nausea, headaches and sadness. I almost lost hope so many times.
    BUT. Even though I was going to some horrible things, I fought incredibly hard to keep my positive attitude. I knew that dwelling too long on my negative thoughts wouldn’t help me much. It wouldn’t change what I had to deal with. I did my best to keep a smile on my face when I could. I appreciated the little things in life. My nurses always told me that I was such a patient and positive patient when it came to everything I was going through. That made me happy because even though I was feeling like crap, I wasn’t taking it out on other people. Some things were harder to accept. Staying in my house for days/weeks on end was hard. And not seeing my family for months at a time was also very hard. It was a lonely time because no one knew how I was feeling and what I was dealing with. I joined a couple of fb groups, and those helped a little. They at least made me see that I wasn’t the only person in the world dealing with it since that’s what it felt like.
    I’m have since been able to return to work part time. I have slowly build back to the person I once was. It is a little bit tough since I can be a stubborn person. But I’m getting there.
    I apologize for the longest post ever. But Grace, you got this. You are going to kick cancer and you’ll get back to the person you once were soon. Though you’re going to be a much stronger person at the end of this. You already seem to be, but you will see life in such a different light and you’ll appreciate things soo much more. I wish you all the best and strength in this journey.❤

    • @itsgrace
      @itsgrace  Před 11 měsíci +41

      thank you for sharing your story! And a million congratulations for fighting the hard fight and making it through. You should be so proud!!

    • @0n3c3nt
      @0n3c3nt Před 11 měsíci +2

      ❤❤❤❤ sending you love 💗

    • @karenrudolph879
      @karenrudolph879 Před 11 měsíci +2

      When I was diagnosed with Stage 3c grade 2 cervical/uterine cancer I was "ok" until I was told I would lose my hair. BUT once I lost it, it was one of the most freeing experiences of my life. I embraced the baldness. Lots of caps and hats and even going "commando". Didn't do wigs, it just wasn't me. You do what makes you feel ok during this God awful journey.

  • @RockyE33
    @RockyE33 Před 11 měsíci +84

    I’ve been watching your content for over 10 years now, and you have always been my favorite creator on this website. Very recently, after joining me on a cross-country journey to move me to California, my mom has been diagnosed with Stage 4 Uterine Cancer. It has been so hard being away from her when I feel like she needs me most, but by you sharing your experiences and journey, in a way it feels like I’m learning and able to help her. I can’t thank you enough for being such a huge part of my life growing up, and I’m so happy we get to be there for you and listen to your experiences as you go through this. You’ve got so many people sending you good energy and support, and I just know that you’ll push through all these hardships and get to the other side of this thing stronger than ever before! Fuck Cancer ✊🏽

  • @jlkrsy2011
    @jlkrsy2011 Před 11 měsíci +19

    Chaotic no filter Grace is my new fave. You're doing absolutely amazing, you've got this. ❤️

  • @brandons1847
    @brandons1847 Před 11 měsíci +34

    My dad just started chemo for his lymphoma. I’ve found it really hard to connect with him and talk about it. Thank you for letting us in and sharing your journey. ❤

    • @Aelffwynn
      @Aelffwynn Před 11 měsíci +1

      A lot of people just want you to hang out like everything is normal. If they're not ready to open up, that's the best thing you can do for them. I wish you and your family all the best.

  • @auroranicole9276
    @auroranicole9276 Před 11 měsíci +65

    My mom had triple positive breast cancer at stage 3, it was looking pretty serious but she's a serious badass and has now been in remission for years! Things suck right now, but it will get better, never hesitate to reach out to loved ones for support ❤

  • @thoughtslikestars
    @thoughtslikestars Před 11 měsíci +21

    Mashed potatoes were my aunt’s favorite post chemo food! “Chemo brain” is also a thing with forgetfulness.
    She also cold capped & cut her hair a little shorter than yours, she kept some of her hair and lost some. She wore a lot of hats, but did not shave the rest. As a whole she’s glad she did it and the grow back process was less drastic with her keeping her hair. But I know the cold capping process was a lot to keep up with!

  • @sabsupsub
    @sabsupsub Před 11 měsíci +8

    my dad recently got diagnosed with blood cancer specifically myeloma and it’s scary and one of the most difficult experiences but watching your journey with chemo has really helped me to understand what cancer patients go through and how i as a caregiver can support my loved one in their own journey!! many love and hugs to you Grace from all the way in Singapore! you’ve got this!!!

  • @ejcastro9518
    @ejcastro9518 Před 11 měsíci +14

    I've always loved your stream of consciousness videos because they are genuinely you and honest. I 'm glad you are doing well so far& staying as positive as you can. Thank you for sharing your experiences with us. Sending positive energy your way. Take care, Grace. 💕💕💕

  • @lesliemiller4896
    @lesliemiller4896 Před 11 měsíci +4

    I’m 27 and going through a lot of similar things while we are trying to basically figure out which gastro related auto immune disease I have. Hairs falling out, teeth falling out, puking daily, shitting my pants, endless and expensive appointments and procedures. Waiting on multiple biopsy results. It feels like hell like 75% of my days. Seeing your updates and your mindset that you show us is really encouraging for me and I’m sure I speak for everyone when I say that we all think you’re phenomenal and want to keep hearing more as you feel up to it 🥰 I’ve kept up with you and mamrie and Hannah and hank and John for SO long, and to hear the goods and the bads and the gross and the weirds helps me so so much. We love you 🥰

  • @jaybehkay2438
    @jaybehkay2438 Před 11 měsíci +4

    3:22 grace still listening to, supporting and casually mentioning Troyes new music is so cute!! Very 2014 vibes and I love it

  • @DaynnnsDIY
    @DaynnnsDIY Před 11 měsíci +11

    Hi Grace! Thank you for posting about your experience. I was also diagnosed with Triple + breast cancer at just 29 years old in July and have my second round of chemo this week. Feels like we’re going on this journey together. I’ve had the same experience so far with all of the same side effects. It was a brutal first round. I’ve started losing my hair this week. I’ll probably shave my head soon. 😢 We’ll rock the bald heads together. Wishing you the best - we’ll fight through this! ❤

  • @melinoe867
    @melinoe867 Před 11 měsíci +44

    A family member of mine found out she has colon cancer and is about to start chemo so I sent her your channel so she can watch it. Thank you for recording this journey. I've been watching you since the beginning so just wanted to send all the good vibes and well wishes possible

  • @annathesubtlerebel
    @annathesubtlerebel Před 11 měsíci +3

    Stream of consciousness chemo vlogs! We love it. No filter is needed. Thank you for sharing and being vulnerable. AND FUNNY! You’re always a delight. But there is no pressure to create content. Do what is good for your soul! Sending you so many positive thoughts and vibes!

  • @marissaeller8445
    @marissaeller8445 Před 11 měsíci +7

    love you Grace ❤️ thanks for sharing this with us. hope you’re as okay as can be at the moment

  • @beverlym5465
    @beverlym5465 Před 11 měsíci +12

    First time for me I wore wigs, different styles and hair color. It was fine, but they were sooo hot! Second time I wore headscarves. I asked my coworkers if that would make them uncomfortable; next day they all wore a headscarf and at The end of the work day, they each gave me the scarf they were wearing. The support and solidarity was touching. Cancer treatment is a lonely fight, even though you are not alone. As far as the amnesia stuff, I was given meds that produced short term amnesia so I wouldn’t remember how bad it was on me. Cry if you want to, feel every emotion as it comes, don’t ask yourself “why me?” Just face it head on in that fabulous Grace Helbig way, you’ll find out how strong you really are. Remember, this is a temporary rock in your road, it will end, ut in the meantime, kick the hell outta that nasty cancer and show it who’s boss. I love you, Grace, take care and stay strong.

    • @itsgrace
      @itsgrace  Před 11 měsíci +3

      thank you for this!

  • @FlorPortas
    @FlorPortas Před 11 měsíci +47

    I will watch everything you make through this, bc youre so brave and strong and I sincerely hope this goes as smoothly as possible

  • @ohboilien
    @ohboilien Před 11 měsíci +4

    Thank you for unexpectedly helping me get through cancer family trauma, you’re amazing! We’re always here to support you!

  • @andrewbagwell5225
    @andrewbagwell5225 Před 11 měsíci +1

    You are so brave, I’m in awe! Sharing this journey online and still being your hilarious and relatable self is amazing. I hope that you are doing these videos because you feel enjoyment out of it though and not because you feel obligated to. We are all here for you in anyway you need us to be! ❤️

  • @jsparkezzle12
    @jsparkezzle12 Před 11 měsíci +2

    you have always gotten me through so many hard days in the past. I pray you get past all of this and thank you for sharing this scary ass experience with such a great attitude with us.

  • @writerwinslow
    @writerwinslow Před 11 měsíci +5

    "I can get diarrhea and do a crossword," is actually my new catchphrase. Love you Grace, these wonderful, thoughtful and helpful videos have been so welcome, and your humor is the best

  • @jayhuang3962
    @jayhuang3962 Před 11 měsíci +7

    Right on brand content - self aware, funny and reflective! Rooting for you💪🏻

  • @LakerZombie
    @LakerZombie Před 11 měsíci +2

    What you're doing with these update vlogs is truly helping people. Not just people going through chemo, but also those of us like me who are in are in the dark about all of this kind of stuff. Keep fighting and being awesome and honestly thank you for sharing your story. 🙏

  • @fatsajak
    @fatsajak Před 11 měsíci

    honestly, I love how much you're sharing, as long as you're comfortable sharing it. there's a great deal of unknown around chemo and cancer if you've never experienced it and it's so insightful. you've got this, grace. sending you all the love. ❤

  • @lisastefani169
    @lisastefani169 Před 11 měsíci +7

    Great update, knowing you can laugh despite the side effects. Docs had told my mom her positive attitude was a definite factor in her breast cancer survival journey. She lived to age 85, when other health problems appeared. 💗

  • @snikers4eto
    @snikers4eto Před 11 měsíci +8

    you taking the time to update us on your personal battle against cancer AND make us laugh in the process just proves you are the coolest of all time. the shirt is also proof of this

  • @kaceyreynolds3985
    @kaceyreynolds3985 Před 11 měsíci +1

    This is so helpful! I often get patients at my job who have gone thru chemo and I’m glad to know what they actually go through! You’re doing great Grace!

  • @user-ti8sv8gt4e
    @user-ti8sv8gt4e Před 11 měsíci +2

    I had non-hodgkin lymphoma when I was 20 years old. In hindsight it was a time of great changes. What really helped me was realizing that being afraid of dying meant that I was still living. I became very accepting of my current state. When I was happy I was happy, when I was sad I was sad. And when I was afraid I realized that I was just afraid. It all meant that I was still living, so I enjoyed even the bad parts. The thing is, we only die for like a second and then we're dead. All the time leading up to that second is still us, experiencing life and I wasn't going to miss that life by not experiencing it. Hope that makes sense and helps someone out there

  • @rach1045
    @rach1045 Před 11 měsíci +52

    Grace you know we are overjoyed with whatever content you want to create, spaghetti content is still content none the less… We are all here to listen to your stream of consciousness and updates on your health.. wishing you all the best xx

  • @lifeyouknow
    @lifeyouknow Před 11 měsíci +4

    I love and appreciate these updates both because of the relatable nature of the content and also because there seems to be some catharsis in the making of it for you. This particular video hit those points extra hard with me because I had a stroke last week and am still in the hospital trying to sort out my recovery process. I need to get a sign printed with "This shit sucks, but it’s also manageable, and it’s temporary. And some of it is so shitty that it’s hilarious." That's something to tell everyone who keeps asking what I need when they come to visit. I'll end this comment before I get too snarky or too emotional (impossible to predict) and because it's taken forever to type this. But thank you and fuck cancer.

    • @itsgrace
      @itsgrace  Před 11 měsíci

      🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @mikeymad
    @mikeymad Před 11 měsíci +1

    You are a rock star. It is so good to see and hear from you, and I am happy to still see you still doing This Might Get Weird as well. I am grateful for your sharing, this disease hit several people in my family, that kept it pretty private. You are giving me a glimpse into some of what they experienced. Thank you for that.. 💝

  • @kaitlynnb8785
    @kaitlynnb8785 Před 11 měsíci +1

    I’ve watched you for a decade Grace, anything you post is exciting to watch! The light and warmth you spread through your content is so beautiful, YOU are beautiful and I hope this journey is as smooth as it can be for you🩷 You’re an inspiration to so many others with illnesses. You’re a star ⭐️

  • @themacfly
    @themacfly Před 11 měsíci +12

    Grace, still bringing the comedy genius even during the weird times. You got this 💪

  • @barbas5588
    @barbas5588 Před 11 měsíci +10

    Take those moments when you can Grace. They're yours and one more thing you can take back. You're handling the punches as they come. You're doing amazing. Keep communicating when you can I you feel you can. We're still here for support when you need us when you're ready.

  • @user-rs2id4lf3w
    @user-rs2id4lf3w Před 11 měsíci +1

    Thanks for being you! I wish you a speedy and full treatment and recovery! Sending all the love❤

  • @MeghanO
    @MeghanO Před 11 měsíci +2

    Your reflective and introspective approach to all of this in your very Grace way is incredibly inspiring. Obviously this is a scary and unpredictable diagnosis/treatment but the mindset you're able to approach this all with, with your brand of humor and realism, is amazing to see. I'm grateful for you Grace, thank you for sharing this experience with us.

  • @Amyuncharted2.0
    @Amyuncharted2.0 Před 11 měsíci +3

    It’s honestly so nice to see you talk yourself through this whole process and I appreciate that you are taking us along for the days you can handle it! Also unrelated side note: that little brown notebook you had to take notes in…those are literally my fav notebooks in the whole world! Lol perfect size and weight! Take care Grace! Sending you all the good vibes on the rest of this journey ❤

    • @itsgrace
      @itsgrace  Před 11 měsíci +2

      I love them too I have a whole stack of them!

  • @ivyarianrhod
    @ivyarianrhod Před 11 měsíci +5

    What I've been up to: re-adjusting my anxiety meds the last few weeks (under a doc's guidance, of course), and my anxiety's been creeping back up on me. FUN! I'm too anxious today to leave the house and get stuff done like I was supposed to, causing me more anxiety because now I'm letting people down, and being a disappointment. Yay!

  • @mgr828
    @mgr828 Před 11 měsíci +1

    You continue to be an inspiration to me! Praying for you during this battle to beat cancer and I enjoy these update videos. My birthday is tomorrow so that’s what I’ve been up to. Nothing big, going with out with the fam. Some lil friend calls or get togethers. Then normal work & grad school

  • @laurenchalmers405
    @laurenchalmers405 Před 11 měsíci +2

    Girl, I'm loving your updates, keep em coming when you feel like it 😊 I really appreciate you, and your leaning into the opportunity to grow as a person through this challenge, I actually really resonated with that, and what a great way to think about it! Enjoy the luxuriating in the fluffy robe, we'll be here to catch up next time x

  • @san-yup
    @san-yup Před 11 měsíci +3

    I really appreciate your videos. The day after you posted your pre chemo video, my mom told me she has breast cancer. I'm grateful for your videos because I'm trying not to research as I tend to go down rabbit holes, but getting an insight to your journey knowing my mom will soon being going through it is helpful, so thank you. Wishing you all the best!

    • @auntiee_m
      @auntiee_m Před 4 měsíci

      That's exactly why I'm here too, my mom is currently doing her first round

    • @san-yup
      @san-yup Před 4 měsíci

      It's crazy it's already been a little over 7 months. My mom did about 3 months of chemo, (two different types) every other week. Similar to Grace, my mom got sick which was a scary 3 weeks. She lost a ton of weight during that time, but she got through it. She's now 2 months post mastectomy. She's getting stronger every day, but still struggling with neuropathy. She doesn't have to do radiation, just take a pill for 5 years, which is great. Now we just live in hope that it never comes back, which is kind of unnerving, but I try not to think about it.
      Sorry if this was an overshare, I just wanted to give another perspective similar to yours. Every treatment and way it affects a person is different, but if you have any questions you can always ask me. Sending well wishes to you and your mom.♥@@auntiee_m

  • @liammurphy6705
    @liammurphy6705 Před 11 měsíci +6

    Stay strong Grace your doing amazing and will get better 💪

  • @Onipax
    @Onipax Před 11 měsíci +2

    I appreciate you doing these videos a lot, Grace. You got this!

  • @katiegee7551
    @katiegee7551 Před 11 měsíci +1

    Just finished watching your video in my classroom, and looked up to see your “Electra Woman and Dyna Girl” poster on my wall. I use you as an example to inspire my students that they can be their own superheroes. Now, as usual, you’re continuing to inspire others. Thank you for all you do while you’re going through this fight. You are so loved and appreciated. You’ve got this, Grace! ❤

  • @saori8328
    @saori8328 Před 11 měsíci +2

    Got me kinda craving for cottage cheese!
    Definitely appreciate you posting here on CZcams since I'm too stubborn to get TikTok. 😅
    Thanks for all the content. I hope making it continues to help you even more than it helps us. You've got this!

  • @boohemian_ghost
    @boohemian_ghost Před 10 měsíci +4

    Got diagnosed with stage 3 breast cancer and am just starting my journey…I’m only 26. Thank you for sharing all of this and helping our community ♥️

  • @lcollishaw
    @lcollishaw Před 11 měsíci +1

    Sending you love! We’re all grateful for you, Grace!

  • @TheOzzyLover
    @TheOzzyLover Před 11 měsíci +1

    Grace! I just want you to know how loved you are and your willingness to share this journey is going to help so many and probably save lives! That’s HUGE! But you aren’t obligated to do anything but be you❤ We are here for you!!!

  • @crystalnavarette5886
    @crystalnavarette5886 Před 11 měsíci +5

    I started my chemotherapy poison journey on August 1st for ovarian cancer. It's nice to see others experience with this bs headache of a unique sucky time.

  • @TravelwithAustin
    @TravelwithAustin Před 11 měsíci +23

    You're so strong grace 💪

  • @taylormaimcd
    @taylormaimcd Před 11 měsíci +1

    Ive just gone through my first flare up of FND and my life became all about health so im feeling this big time. Especially the waiting. Your aura of nostalgic bigger sister was just what i needed. Im glad you seem to have adopted such a healthy mindset. Happy to still be seeing you. Love you grace.

  • @DaxIsAName
    @DaxIsAName Před 11 měsíci +3

    If the content strategy is mouth sores, then you're knocking it outta the park so far!

  • @anamakesthings
    @anamakesthings Před 11 měsíci +2

    good job Grace!!! I'm going into surgery to have my ovarian tumor removed in a couple of weeks and we'll know after they go in whether or not I'll need rounds of chemo as well. This is suuuper helpful in the sense that I was feeling a bit crazy for secretly geeking out on the new things I learn and the new way in which I've been challenging myself :)

    • @ivyarianrhod
      @ivyarianrhod Před 11 měsíci

      Jessica Brock just finished chemo after getting ovarian tumors removed, then an ovary removed. Here's her channel: www.youtube.com/@jessicabrock.

  • @addeydominguez2566
    @addeydominguez2566 Před 11 měsíci +1

    Oh, how I’ve missed you Grace! Watching this felt like I had my old friend back, when I was watching your videos you made in your tiny New York apartment. It’s evident that your resilience and good nature is letting this experience bring out the best in you, and I’m so appreciative of you for sharing it with me and all of us! It’s evident you feel a sense of purpose with these videos, and it makes you shine. In my little sometimes sad and lonely world, it’s so lovely to laugh with you! (As I was audibly laughing along with you throughout this entire one) it feels like being with a best friend ❤ honored to be with you on this journey

  • @kengelina
    @kengelina Před 11 měsíci

    Your attitude throughout this time has been amazing to see. And I have to say, I really connect with these direct, sitting in front of the camera, vlog style life updates from you. Thank you so much for sharing this journey with us - I’m sure it’s not easy to.

  • @InnerBluePerson
    @InnerBluePerson Před 11 měsíci +3

    This is how I found out you got breast cancer, Grace, goes to show I need to update myself on people more 😐. I’m glad you’re getting treatment and moving through this with a sense of humor as is helpful in situations especially medical things like this. I hope for a full recovery and that you make it through this smoothly and… gracefully 😂… 😅.. I’ll see myself out, really though, I hope you’re managing well, and that you make it through this strongly, we love you and want you to be well. Much Love and Blessings.

  • @Chris.317
    @Chris.317 Před 11 měsíci +2

    Love you Grace ! Bec from Eamon and Bec had a very thorough documentation of her breast cancer on their channel ! I hope you can find solace in their videos

  • @spaceymacey6529
    @spaceymacey6529 Před 11 měsíci

    I really love hearing about your journey. My dad was diagnosed recently so just hearing about other people's experiences with chemo is really really helpful. I know it's a different journey for everyone but the more I know, the more I can help and/or prepare myself. So thank you!

  • @thegreekfromchicago9812
    @thegreekfromchicago9812 Před 11 měsíci +1

    You GOT THIS❤❤ so proud of you and anyone else going through chemo or any illness- you are strong!!!

  • @reirae08
    @reirae08 Před 11 měsíci +3

    “I can diarrhea and do a crossword.” 😂 Grace you’re the best. I’d love to see your version of Bo Burnham’s White Girl Instagram

  • @kaylinsmith6921
    @kaylinsmith6921 Před 11 měsíci +4

    Oh, Grace. I don't have cancer, but I have a *lot* of autoimmune stuff happening, and the side effects do overlap a bit. As a fellow cry puker, I feel you. One of the big things happening right now for me is that my hair is falling out at an alarming pace. Put my hair up in a ponytail the other day, and I'm like, "Oh, so I'm basically bald. Cool." It's a lot, what your body gives up because it decides it's expendable. I think of you often, and I really hope that things go well for you.

  • @samtaters6770
    @samtaters6770 Před 11 měsíci +1

    What I've been doing/up to lately, since you so lovingly shared your side: Cat snuggles, mental health craft projects, and Target trips. You'll never guess, I'm 38.
    I'm a cancer survivor and my experience was so isolating and lonely. I appreciate all you are doing to share your experience to hopefully help others. And I hope in that process, it helps you, too! Sending you so much love! You've got this!

  • @oliviahaskell5488
    @oliviahaskell5488 Před 11 měsíci +2

    so glad to see you taking this on with so much positivity. If you want to hear what I've been up to lately, I adopted a cat a week ago and he has absolutely stolen my heart!

  • @RockOutBritty
    @RockOutBritty Před 11 měsíci +7

    Not gonna lie, this is your most honest and best content. I adore it. I love that you aren't shitting rainbows about it while keeping a really good attitude about it and putting your unique Helbig twist on it with humor and darkness at the same time. After watching you since my early 20's (I'm 37 now) I sort of grew up into adulthood with you, I really started to apply your embracing of the suck while also turning into something hilarious while not ignoring or nullifying my feelings. People have often told me that because I face both sides of things I bring comfort to them. I learn that from you and watching you do it about this particular rock in the path is very comforting to me. I don't know if that made sense. But I'm okay with it if it didn't I feel like you understand me. Do what content feels right for you but I absolutely have loved watching you start this journey and see your perspective.

  • @nothanks4367
    @nothanks4367 Před 11 měsíci +4

    i had a dr appt and it was the first time i left my house in a while and i felt stronger or something and completely had a movie moment in my car belting ani difranco. it was such a huge small moment

  • @sabrinaferrer3303
    @sabrinaferrer3303 Před 11 měsíci

    Love you!! Keep up the good work. Praying for your speedy recovery. You've got this!!!

  • @Shirleybirl13
    @Shirleybirl13 Před 11 měsíci +1

    Hey Grace, thank you. I have a couple of friends going through the cancer at the moment and they aren't using their words very much so it's super hard to find out how they are doing. While everyone's journey through cancer is different, watching your videos is helping me get a better understanding of what my friends may be thinking and going through and that makes me feel less panicked. On a side note, I'm rooting for you kiddo. Thank you for sharing your journey and all of your thoughts. Even the bits about explosive diarrhoea. ❤ sending you cancer arsekicking vibes from Aotearoa New Zealand

  • @alineaturner4616
    @alineaturner4616 Před 11 měsíci +3

    Grace please don't feel bad about the amount of content/where it goes. We really appreciate the updates, but please put your energy into you!

  • @missduni
    @missduni Před 11 měsíci +6

    My mom has been through cancer 5x and I'll be through it too eventually, just genetics. I scheduled my obgyn and intend to get a mammogram. You might not know it, but being so open reminds us all to take it seriously and I thank you for that.

  • @andreayg0
    @andreayg0 Před 11 měsíci +1

    Hi Grace! I’m so glad you’re doing okay ❤ I am starting my masters degree this week and it’s super anxiety-inducing. Listening to you and your positive vibe-y updates and old videos is helping a lot so thank you. That’s my update 🥰

  • @brittnicolew3292
    @brittnicolew3292 Před 11 měsíci

    I wish my dad would be open to watching these. He just finished his second round of chemo & is feeling very down about having to miss the one day he was going to try & work this week because he felt too sick. Sending all the good vibes to you & know that not only are these updates helping those diagnosed, but also the families of those going thru it too! ❤❤❤

  • @buraakcimci
    @buraakcimci Před 11 měsíci +3

    You’ve been with me for the past 10 years even at the shittiest of times, i’ll be here with you throughout this journey no matter what happens. You got this, Grace. Your positivity has gotten me through some tough times and i know it will do the same for you ❤

  • @DustSeeker163
    @DustSeeker163 Před 11 měsíci +3

    You’re literally amazing! Also tell us how we can help!!
    My dad went through this a while ago and it freaking sucks, BUT you said it it’s temporary and you’ll be just fine in a couple of months!
    Do you want some book recommendations? Do you want terrible music? Just hit us up!!
    Stay comfy! You’re awesome ❤ and you’re loved!

    • @itsgrace
      @itsgrace  Před 11 měsíci +1

      thank you! all forms of content recommendations are always welcome!

  • @MeltedToblerone
    @MeltedToblerone Před 11 měsíci +1

    i understand your secret excitement

  • @Gaberjk
    @Gaberjk Před 11 měsíci +2

    Thank you for the update, Grace! I know we've all been thinking about you lately, and have been sending you healing vibes. So glad to hear that you're feeling better and have moved through the rougher days after your first round of chemo. Always appreciate the "no filter" approach, we're here for the real deal, diarrhea, nose bleeds, and all. Despite seeming one sided, we really do all care about you and are happy to hear whatever you're willing to share

  • @josephsnyder6401
    @josephsnyder6401 Před 11 měsíci +20

    I grew up with Grace back when CZcams was a place of hilarity and not drama. And I hope she is okay.

  • @MaktubIsaSheep
    @MaktubIsaSheep Před 11 měsíci +2

    Yes, I DID want to know about all the side effects. Also I don't feel like I have to pee when I walk into my favorite store but I DEFINITELY have to fart. No matter the time of day or what I ate. So yeah, I really really relate

  • @tahirdickson
    @tahirdickson Před 11 měsíci

    You are SUCH an inspiration! The way you're able to keep a positive and open mind about what you're going through and the experience to come, while also maintaining that funny Grace we love, is astounding!

  • @HarleenDhami
    @HarleenDhami Před 11 měsíci

    I just want to hold and hug you, Grace 💕🥰 I’ve been watching your content for the last decade and this was yet another reminder of why I began watching your videos - for a lighthearted, raw and unfiltered spin on some of life’s toughest challenges. Sending love and healing your way!

  • @meghanjane9479
    @meghanjane9479 Před 11 měsíci +5

    My mom survived breast cancer ❤️ I'm trying to keep on top of it and notice any lumps but I'm only 28. You've helped me realize that cancer really doesn’t care about age. Sending prayers and love your way, Grace!

  • @anthraxpurdy2395
    @anthraxpurdy2395 Před 11 měsíci +3

    My cousin son Ivan is going through chemo too. He had to get a nose tube so he can get his meds in. Cause he is stubborn

  • @blackswanfromLondon
    @blackswanfromLondon Před 11 měsíci +1

    I've watched you since I was in my teens - you an Goose (and Mamrie and Hanna) gave me so much happiness and a little time to escape in a very difficult time.
    Was shocked by your diagnosis, but we are all here for you!
    It's not rare, sadly - that sickness sucks a*s.
    Sending you all the strenght and hope we can give you something back from the positive vibes you gabe us when we felt down. ❤

  • @AeileonNOTW
    @AeileonNOTW Před 11 měsíci +1

    This video is very reminiscent of videos you made when I fist discovered you over 10 years ago but more vulnerable and it’s very comforting and helpful to have that feeling, especially now with how much garbage has happened collectively and individually in recent years.

  • @Krispi-Kat
    @Krispi-Kat Před 11 měsíci +9

    A. I love your stream of consciousness vids. B. You got this! You're so strong and hey, if you lose the hair, you'll still be beautiful and one of the coolest humans I've ever had the pleasure of watching on CZcams.

  • @RonaldQuezada
    @RonaldQuezada Před 11 měsíci +22

    One day: Let's do the Chubby Bunny challenge, next day: let's do Chemotherapy 😢

    • @itsgrace
      @itsgrace  Před 11 měsíci +28

      we're covering a spectrum of content over here

  • @grammargirl300700
    @grammargirl300700 Před 11 měsíci +1

    Your attitude is amazing Grace, wishing you so much strength 💗

  • @BillysFingers
    @BillysFingers Před 11 měsíci +1

    You were the first youtuber i ever subscribed to. Years later you feel more like family now. My partner had breast cancer and got through the chemo and i know you will too Grace. Appreciate you and following your journey on here.

  • @EdwardSanchezProductions
    @EdwardSanchezProductions Před 11 měsíci +4

    Grace you are so beautiful and inspiring

  • @ashleyarvay
    @ashleyarvay Před 11 měsíci +3

    I watched this in a Macdonalds parking lot, while eating Macdonalds, as a pregame before I go into an all natural fancy grocery store .. because if Grace Helbig has taught me anything in the last decade .. it’s about BALANCE! … surely this decision will result in some significant bathroom time later .. if it isn’t the consequences of my own actions!

    • @itsgrace
      @itsgrace  Před 11 měsíci +2

      this is a beautiful visual thank you!

  • @Random_Viewer978
    @Random_Viewer978 Před 11 měsíci +1

    Right there with you on the traumatic vomiting. It’s so bad! I hope it stays far away from you.
    Thank you for sharing your journey. Sending you all the healing vibes ❤❤❤

  • @rachelkmartinez617
    @rachelkmartinez617 Před 9 měsíci

    I love you Grace!! I am thinking about you. In some of the unhappiest times of my life you’ve made me smile and so I will def always be here supporting you.

  • @jeremywalker2586
    @jeremywalker2586 Před 11 měsíci +3

    Do your best to gain weight. I've followed you forever. Stay positive! You are loved ❤