Q&A II Answering questions

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  • čas přidán 12. 09. 2024
  • Thought I would answer some of the questions I get ask most of the time. Thank you all for subscribing to my channel! Means so much!
    Read my full story here: www.cocoscarav...
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Komentáře • 112

  • @arianna720
    @arianna720 Před rokem +146

    I’m so happy I found your channel
    I’m 30 and my husband was 33. I lost him 2 weeks ago. He courageously fought cancer for a few month. We have 4 kids and I agree with you. I find strength through them. 😔💛

    • @user-er6kv5ty4v
      @user-er6kv5ty4v Před rokem +13

      Sorry for your loss, stay strong ....i know life will newer be the same again but it will get better with time...take all the time you need to grieve & share your pain. People often do not know how to help, what to say, so stay silent....go & ask for help& Support, you will find it. Bless you

    • @kat4256
      @kat4256 Před rokem +5

      Prayers to you and your family❤🙏

    • @GodlovesMe77733
      @GodlovesMe77733 Před rokem +5

      Prayers for you ❤

    • @kerri759
      @kerri759 Před rokem +6

      Iam so sorry for the loss of your husband. It is so heartbreaking. To be left a widow with 4 kids is no easy task mentally or physically. Gain strength from the beautiful memories, your kids and the hope for a brighter future. I am sure your husband would want you to keep going on every level. God bless you and your family.

    • @arianna720
      @arianna720 Před rokem +4

      Thank you all 💛

  • @MariaGonzalez-nz4jy
    @MariaGonzalez-nz4jy Před rokem +18

    So glad I found your channel. I lost my husband to cancer 11 years ago. When I saw one of your videos, it instantly reminded me of everything I went through. We have 3 kids and they are the main reason I kept going each day. ❤😢

  • @YuveshanthDharmalingam
    @YuveshanthDharmalingam Před rokem +23

    I can relate to this so much. I was 9 when I lost my dad to cancer and now I'm 23. My mom raised me and my sisters as a single mom. Really hope the best for you and the boys.

  • @hiddenmask3826
    @hiddenmask3826 Před rokem +11

    Always remember you are BRAVER than you believe, STRONGER than you seem, SMARTER than you think and LOVED more than you know.

  • @ArabianConjure
    @ArabianConjure Před rokem +41

    Sending you so much love. I lost so many people to cancer including my mom but losing a soul mate that has to be on another level. You’re so strong. God willing you will find love again. I know Justin is so proud of you.

  • @Its-Erica
    @Its-Erica Před rokem +41

    Thank you for sharing. I’m going through some major health issues right now with not a very good outlook. My husband and I have had the talk about him finding someone after I’m gone….he says he just can’t and that he just wants to raise our two kids and focus on them. I don’t want him to be alone. It’s so hard to go through all this. I commend you for being so open about your journey.

    • @impregnable_
      @impregnable_ Před rokem +7

      Hope you dont have to think about finding someone for your husband....and may God heal all your health issues.

    • @fatimaabdulkadirkhalif2997
      @fatimaabdulkadirkhalif2997 Před rokem +5

      Sister you will recover, may Allah heal all your pain and give long life with happiness and healthy🤲♥️

    • @amieeledoux8064
      @amieeledoux8064 Před rokem +2

      Praying for you and for your healing!

    • @AndriaBobbles
      @AndriaBobbles Před rokem +1

      💛💛 sending love to you and your family xx

    • @ThatsBoujee
      @ThatsBoujee Před rokem +1

      💔 I pray for healing in whatever it is! Even though I lost my hubby I know God is still a healer and miracle worker! 💕🙏🏾

  • @kerri759
    @kerri759 Před rokem +8

    I am so impressed with your strength. I can only imagine how hard it has been. I am a 7 year 1 month pancreatic cancer survivor. I have experienced through social media, the care givers perspective. I think it is just as hard if not harder for the caregiver. I am so sorry for all you have been through but you will be so much stronger and you have two little boys, the last gift from your husband and it is a lifetime gift. I just subscribed to your channel. I found it in the shorts. It was the Father’s Day video. I had wondered what happened to your husband as far as why you were a widow. Cancer always hits home with me.

  • @tonyli9257
    @tonyli9257 Před rokem +15

    Notes from a new subscriber.. I stumbled upon your youtube shorts and could not be more inspired. You are an amazing woman, partner, and mom to two beautiful boys. Keeping the faith along with you… 🙏

  • @debsplusthree3
    @debsplusthree3 Před rokem +10

    Your so sweet, calm & understanding, I love it! You will find happiness and love again, all in God’s timing🙏🏽 and your doing a great job as a single mother, you gotta give it to yourself mama, it’s not an easy job! I’m 27 & got 3, I’m also doing it alone, but wouldn’t change it for nothing! I’m so happy I came across your channel, I’ve literally been binge watching your videos, I’m sorry you’ve gone through so much, but the fact that you’ve turned your pain into strength really gives me hope.. Love from London❤️🇬🇧

  • @myahill4040
    @myahill4040 Před 18 dny +1

    This brought me to tears and gave me full body chills. Life can be so cruel

  • @robinbeck8422
    @robinbeck8422 Před rokem +6

    I'm a new subscriber! I saw your short video of My Story. Thank you for the Q&A, looking forward to your channel.

    • @CocosCaravan
      @CocosCaravan  Před rokem +2

      Oh thank you so so much for subscribing! Means so much!

  • @katekurtz1640
    @katekurtz1640 Před rokem +99

    What do you tell your kids about their dad or as they get older what do you plan to tell them? You don’t have to answer just if you were to do another Q&A if you wanted to answer my question this is something I was wondering about. I wish the best for you and your boys ❤️

    • @CocosCaravan
      @CocosCaravan  Před rokem +67

      Oh this is a good one! Going to add this to my Part 2!

    • @agijuni2694
      @agijuni2694 Před rokem +14

      Strong Mom
      I am also a single mom
      Love from Bali, Indonesia

  • @namedia9881
    @namedia9881 Před rokem +32

    You’re doing great as a single parent! Keep going 💪🏼 it will get easier as the boys get older.

    • @CocosCaravan
      @CocosCaravan  Před rokem +9

      Thank you so much for this sweet comment! Means a lot!

    • @adityath1806
      @adityath1806 Před rokem +1

      @@CocosCaravan yup my friend ' dad passed away on duty when he was 1-2 years old
      He and his mom somehow managed this difficult time
      And now things have been a lot better for them now
      Just stay strong and raise your kids strong ☺️☺️☺️

  • @debbiehill254
    @debbiehill254 Před rokem +1

    Stumbled upon one of the shorts on here from this precious lady. Watched them all and must say most real kind person on CZcams. Great mom. 🙏❤

  • @thesweetlife6344
    @thesweetlife6344 Před rokem +5

    I am so sorry for your loss. You are a wonderful mother with a bright future ahead.

  • @chrissymammabear4554
    @chrissymammabear4554 Před rokem +5

    I’m so glad to hear you say that your open to love van. I remember after my husband passed. Then my mom 6 months later. My only sibling before that plus my 4 miscarriages. I remember going through that exact moment one night. What’s my path? Am I going to be single, do I want to love another does another want to love me, will my family and kids understand etc etc. I’m so thankful I went in that grief journey question!

  • @OttoByOgraffey
    @OttoByOgraffey Před rokem +8

    Damn. You're stronger than me. I'm so upset, and incredibly pissed off. I saw the short of the wedding, cancer twice, the birth and dad holding the baby. Life sucks. I'm so upset by this. It's just not fair. I'm sorry.

  • @sulemaflores177
    @sulemaflores177 Před rokem +16

    You have gained a new subscriber! Your boys are the cutest! You're doing an amazing job mommaa!! Need a clothes haul from your boys!! Their outfits are on sooo cute !!

    • @CocosCaravan
      @CocosCaravan  Před rokem +1

      Thank you so much for following along! Means so much!

  • @AmericanAkitaClub
    @AmericanAkitaClub Před rokem +1

    Thank you for putting your personal life on the internet. Your a strong beautiful woman who has going thru alot and I'm just so grateful that your very opened to it and how others feel too. Your a beautiful mom! Remember your not always alone

  • @ayeshakaleem8711
    @ayeshakaleem8711 Před rokem +8

    You are a pure soul. Such a sweet, honest and kind person. I didn't even read yout blog about dating, but I was really praying that you find love again. Someone who could be an amazing partner and a wonderful father. I prayed this for you so much and I will continue praying. I know it will come true soon:)

    • @CocosCaravan
      @CocosCaravan  Před rokem +1

      This is such a sweet comment, thank you!

  • @kristalnunley7205
    @kristalnunley7205 Před rokem +6

    You are amazing! Keep on keeping on! 🙏🏻💪🏻

  • @foodfornot
    @foodfornot Před rokem +5

    Oh my god, I never even thought about the fact that your boys get to have a full sibling in spite of the circumstances... that's amazing 💖

  • @briannamelissa94
    @briannamelissa94 Před rokem +5

    you are beyond beautiful and so strong! God bless you and keep you!! Your boys too♥️♥️ Praying for you guys

  • @nehatawale7140
    @nehatawale7140 Před rokem +4

    Love from India🤗
    I recently came across your channel and what I can say is you are very very strong lady with very bright future♥️

  • @linak7155
    @linak7155 Před rokem +3

    'We're not meant to be alone' I agree with that statement although I have met a few people who say they enjoy being single. Most of the time I meet those who have grown bitter due to failed relationships. When there's been betrayal many grow wary n distrust ensues. I can understand the sentiment. I believe marriage is a wonderful institution conceived by God. I enjoy being married. The idea of going through life alone never appealed to me. In a previous short, I saw ur Dad filling the role ur boys need. That's wonderful! Please remain open to a serious relationship. ❤️

  • @yoyuk6228
    @yoyuk6228 Před rokem +4

    You are such an amazing person you got this Sending lots of love from Japan❤

  • @erwinwinarno
    @erwinwinarno Před rokem +4

    I'm so sorry for your lost, keep strong! Regards from Bali.

  • @jalisaalanaye1662
    @jalisaalanaye1662 Před rokem +2

    Ugh you’re so sweet, im sure you hear this everyday but I’m genuinely sorry for the loss of such a beautiful life in your life. I’m sure it’s such a blessing to have 2 boys that are his. although I can’t imagine how difficult it must be to go through life without him and as a single parent in general I think you’re doing fantastic. I haven’t had a partner die but we all go through struggles in our lives and I’ve definitely had my own and I really appreciate you sharing your story, it’s always nice to hear someone be so open about what they’re dealing with. It helps me and so many others not feel so alone. Sending you soooo much love and strength from New Jersey ! ❤💕

  • @Tildaria
    @Tildaria Před rokem +2

    Team single mom. I share a lot of your beautiful thoughts. Sending much love and light to you and your boys!❤️🌞

  • @martinn._.r
    @martinn._.r Před rokem +2

    Sending so much love for you. Thank you for sharing us and i hope you and your kids are always doing well, healthy and happy. Greetings from your new subscriber ❤️

  • @joekelly7088
    @joekelly7088 Před rokem +2

    So sorry for what happened to you and your family 🙏 🇮🇪

  • @eddiedahlgren7491
    @eddiedahlgren7491 Před 4 měsíci

    Sp sorry for your family's loss. 🙏 Your children are a blessing along with the time you had with your husband.... God will provide and you will always be enough

  • @The_LoRaX_loves_TREES

    You’re so wonderful. I wish you all the best. You seem to have lots of caring people around you to help you during this difficult time. You will come out so much more wonderful. Keep going. Your husband loves you and the boys so soo much. He will always be with you. Xoxo

  • @Vera-dg3hf
    @Vera-dg3hf Před rokem +1

    1. How do you tell your twins apart? ears
    2. What did you fo when you found out you were having twins? she was shocked; video linked below for reaction
    3 Whats the hardest part about being a single parent? being a single parent
    4. Would you more kids someday? probably no
    5 What do you for work? social media and online blog; turned into a business; makes money off of it
    6. What is the meaning of her name? cat named coco; bff named her after her cat pet.
    7. what has helped you the most dealing with grief? her kids; therapy; social media; meeting other widows
    8. Are you open to love/dating? wrote a blog on it; she's open to love; feels lonely; loves to have another relationship again.

  • @humbleorgins4125
    @humbleorgins4125 Před rokem +1

    Hi from a fellow widow. Mama of 7, trying to figure this out. Love to you ❤

  • @icidive3890
    @icidive3890 Před rokem +5

    Im new and i was very much hoping your scriber number would rise, if anyone should be reeping youtube benefits its someone like you. Your doing an amazing job with your boys, hope the best for you 3!

    • @CocosCaravan
      @CocosCaravan  Před rokem +4

      Omg this just made my day! Thank you!

    • @icidive3890
      @icidive3890 Před rokem

      @@CocosCaravan oh my goodness girl I dont think Ive ever seen numbers climb sooo fast! God is soooo good, your awesome lady keep it up!

  • @ShaGemDropper
    @ShaGemDropper Před rokem +1

    I wish I had used social media to bring awareness and grieve the loss of my stillborn daughter and my son passed away from SIDS when he was almost 3 months old. Rip

  • @michelleneal6860
    @michelleneal6860 Před rokem

    So glad to have found your channel! My husband has been fighting prostate cancer for going on 3 years. I never got to have children.

  • @ashikap1010
    @ashikap1010 Před rokem

    God bless you and your kids 🙂.
    Your guardian angel will be there protecting you from above ❤

  • @inokap4054
    @inokap4054 Před rokem +1

    Sending all my love to you and your boys. may God help you with whatever you want to do

  • @Garato-l1u
    @Garato-l1u Před rokem +2

    As a man I just have to say u are the real man than most of us ..
    God bless and hope u have a beautiful life ahead

  • @angelitobaby7233
    @angelitobaby7233 Před rokem

    I hope you find love again ❤ I love your calm presence. You just have wonderful energy.

  • @stacyfrazierbauer8811
    @stacyfrazierbauer8811 Před 2 měsíci

    Awe honey I know it stinks because you are always gonna compare everyone to the love of your life. It may feel like nobody is good enough. You are so beautiful and I don’t know you but just know it’s going to be different. Not better not worse just different and that’s okay. I really wish you love and happiness ❤

  • @hafsaahmad6847
    @hafsaahmad6847 Před rokem

    Hope u will find someone who is sincere and will truly love u and ur boys..❤❤

  • @michellejapina9331
    @michellejapina9331 Před rokem

    I admire you and salute you❤bieng single mom is not easy.

  • @BettyXJames_13
    @BettyXJames_13 Před 28 dny

    I’m tearing up ❤😢

  • @ornellaap5029
    @ornellaap5029 Před 7 měsíci

    Dear lady you realy have a great dad wish you well with your family love from uk

  • @lisboay8086
    @lisboay8086 Před rokem +2

    sending love to you and yours RIP to your lovely husband

  • @Atulsyoutube
    @Atulsyoutube Před rokem

    I cried when I saw ur videos...huge respect for you... ❤

  • @joemarducay4640
    @joemarducay4640 Před rokem

    Love from the Philippines. You're strength is admirable

  • @linak7155
    @linak7155 Před rokem +1

    Your boys are so darn handsome! I wonder if they can yet appreciate their likeness. Put in the time n effort in training them while they're young 🌱 character building traits and virtues go a long way in making them men who will be good to others n themselves. 🌳🌳

  • @nursek9066
    @nursek9066 Před rokem +3

    I am so sorry for your and your boys loss! My partners name is Justin as well and I cried so much when i saw your story! I couldn't imagine being a mum on my own! I don't know how you do it! I lost my mum to cancer when i was 24, 10 years ago (my mum was only 47). Its so hard when you lose a loved one! I still cry and its been 10 years! I send my heart to you and your boys ❤ your a great mum and an inspiration!

  • @sherly4289
    @sherly4289 Před rokem

    I admire your courage, beauty and braveness amidst the death of your Husband. Stay strong and be happy❤

  • @KM-uj7od
    @KM-uj7od Před rokem +1

    I find the dating question insensitive, If you've loss someone there is no timeline for healing and getting back into the dating scene. The grass aint that green over there anyways. You do you awesome lady. Loads of strength & love to you & your boys xox!

  • @kamronwashington6749
    @kamronwashington6749 Před 4 měsíci

    I’m so sorry for your loss😞 God always stay with this family and protect families from ever experiencing it, In Jesus name 🫶🏽

  • @shaguftahussain9303
    @shaguftahussain9303 Před rokem

    I hope u get ur true love again 💓 n be happy forever with ur kids

  • @melissayoung7467
    @melissayoung7467 Před 2 měsíci

    New subscribers sorry for your loss

  • @Usetimechannel
    @Usetimechannel Před rokem

    Best thing after saw you story
    That could offer there a meaning to ur suffering much much rewarding from the who you we all belong to

  • @Usetimechannel
    @Usetimechannel Před rokem

    May you be bless peace and mercy and success in both the worlds

  • @Kddon09
    @Kddon09 Před rokem +2

    We’re you a teacher once?

  • @ChattingWithAngela
    @ChattingWithAngela Před rokem

    You are enough ❤

  • @arpi2949
    @arpi2949 Před rokem

    You are so powerful❤️

  • @glaiza4308
    @glaiza4308 Před rokem

    New subscriber here from Philippines 🥰

  • @joetaylor2038
    @joetaylor2038 Před rokem

    Best wishes and God bless you

  • @lili-pe4js
    @lili-pe4js Před rokem

    You're amazing

  • @nabilakhan7195
    @nabilakhan7195 Před rokem

    strongest queen

  • @saikumarchowdada6309
    @saikumarchowdada6309 Před rokem

    u r the best

  • @kunjikuttan16
    @kunjikuttan16 Před rokem +1

    New subscriber

  • @prestosarheanneclaire1104
    @prestosarheanneclaire1104 Před 4 měsíci

    Died at 29 😢

  • @adityamishra8310
    @adityamishra8310 Před rokem

    ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @coriannevlogs8231
    @coriannevlogs8231 Před rokem

    I would love to here your views on religion/god!

  • @Usetimechannel
    @Usetimechannel Před rokem

    Read

  • @djoyjenpaoowen5643
    @djoyjenpaoowen5643 Před rokem

    How to dm you?

  • @delilah6853
    @delilah6853 Před rokem

    Hey i am a writer... And i want to write your story so bad😭😭... U r my new role model...
    If i am writing another novel, it will be your story😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

  • @user-xo2vi5eu7v
    @user-xo2vi5eu7v Před rokem +4

    I just realize i am actually part of lgbtq and i am muslim i think love is not meant for me😂 am 19 and just hope and wishing that am not gonna pass 30 astaghfirullah, but i cant see any other way,,, its just really hard sorry😂, i wishing the best for you, you are strong🙏😇😁❤.

    • @fatimaabdulkadirkhalif2997
      @fatimaabdulkadirkhalif2997 Před rokem +2

      Why are you laughing, she didn't tell something funny.
      Muslim and lgbt that looks impossible but what's your point of telling that🤔

    • @user-xo2vi5eu7v
      @user-xo2vi5eu7v Před rokem

      @@fatimaabdulkadirkhalif2997 delete youre comment it making me anxious, go somewhere else...

  • @Usetimechannel
    @Usetimechannel Před rokem +2

    Read quran translation in english

  • @loulout9554
    @loulout9554 Před 7 měsíci

    Why did you not say ... we're going to your dad's gravesite today .... instead of Justin's?

  • @drbushra2271
    @drbushra2271 Před rokem +2

    May Allah guide u.... plz Read d Quran with meaning .....ur life changes.... Allah is greatest n merciful

  • @hi-cblanco7913
    @hi-cblanco7913 Před rokem +2

    You dont have a real job? What if social media fad does not last?

    • @Rozh141
      @Rozh141 Před rokem +1

      If she go out not anyone home her kids grow up then she is work

    • @hi-cblanco7913
      @hi-cblanco7913 Před rokem +1

      @@Rozh141 what?dont understand you at all