Mufti Menk & Ali Dawah Halal Dating

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  • čas přidán 19. 01. 2016
  • Salam alaikum brothers & sisters. I had a 4 Part series Q&A with Mufti Menk about Haram relationships, Parents rejecting proposal & Forced marriages, How to make haram relationship halal, Halal dating, how to protect yourself from zina. This is part 3 & Part 4 will be out soon if you havent seen Part 1 & 2 do check them out on my channel.
    May Allah swt Mercy & Blessings be upon you all.
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Komentáře • 563

  • @SimmSumm
    @SimmSumm Před 7 lety +711

    This is great advice for every. I'm not a Muslim woman, but this really opened my eyes

    • @ubhamohammed3294
      @ubhamohammed3294 Před 4 lety +10

      Oh that's great

    • @tasneem161989
      @tasneem161989 Před 4 lety +38

      It is not advice it is what our islam teach us inshaallah after reading Quran and hadith u will find true path inshaallah

    • @headmistressggpspathanwala7050
      @headmistressggpspathanwala7050 Před 4 lety +11

      Sister(I am also a sister) Jasmine is my favorite flower. And you are Jasmine MashaAllah.

    • @AC-mp7cx
      @AC-mp7cx Před 3 lety +3

      If u have any questions about islam, ask me

    • @abtofik103
      @abtofik103 Před 3 lety +4

      We are living rent free on Christians head

  • @k4Lb123
    @k4Lb123 Před 8 lety +598

    Mashala I love listening to Mufti Menk he makes the deen so easy. This is a wonderful video and I hope every muslim listens to this and opens up there minds wallahi. In my culture if any dad goes out with there daughter to meet up with a guy intending to marry they will be the talk of the town and looked down upon! So sad :(

    • @helloitsshazea
      @helloitsshazea Před 8 lety +31

      I agree Mufti Menk brings a sense of serenity into the mind and he's so peaceful when he talks masha'Allah. Same, if I was to meet someone under the supervision of my dad people would go mad

    • @mafiakitty9778
      @mafiakitty9778 Před 8 lety +1

      +helloitsshazea saaaaame 😭 ;((

    • @noorhassan4361
      @noorhassan4361 Před 7 lety

      lol

    • @bossyman123boss5
      @bossyman123boss5 Před 7 lety

      GMQ Marble Ltd

    • @humairahiya6964
      @humairahiya6964 Před 6 lety +3

      He is one of my favourite speaker.

  • @memm5758
    @memm5758 Před 8 lety +592

    arab parents won't accept halal dating they only agree on the tea scene😂😂

  • @SisterMinnie
    @SisterMinnie Před 8 lety +160

    6:10 NUDES
    I'm dead xD!

  • @najmlion7129
    @najmlion7129 Před 7 lety +129

    LOL mufti menk scared you XD "SAY AMEEN BROTHER!!!"

  • @Rrollfox
    @Rrollfox Před 8 lety +161

    deen + akhla' = perfect. I used to have different criteria...
    that's the idea behind a full proper hijab. it forces men not to compare women by the size of their chest but rather by the size of their intellect. imagine a world where the smartest, kindest and knowledgeable girls gets all the attention. isn't it better than what going on ?

    • @aroundworldnews
      @aroundworldnews Před 5 lety +7

      Yeah thats correct

    • @Trilliman707
      @Trilliman707 Před 4 lety +1

      But what if her bottom so big that it sticks out of her dress while her entire body is covered wearing hijab and everything behind was still sticking way out even wearing a lose dress

    • @The_one_who_believes
      @The_one_who_believes Před rokem +3

      @@Trilliman707 mans going in to some funny business

    • @sara-jl9rc
      @sara-jl9rc Před rokem

      ​@@Trilliman707what the heck brother don't imagine such situations and lower your gaze if it happens

  • @fatemehmirahmadi3223
    @fatemehmirahmadi3223 Před 6 lety +173

    I dont know why some parents think a girl must not like anybody & has to wait for love but she must not look & move for it! This is really impossible not to have any feeling towards boys unless she is not 100% straight woman.

  • @misbahailia3345
    @misbahailia3345 Před 2 lety +46

    3:42 😂 Jazak'Allah, for talking about this.
    I think if more Muslims knew we're allowed to Halal meet, they wouldn't Haram date. Allah forgive us all, Ameen.
    May Allah grant us knowledge, and our parents understanding Ameen. 🙏

  • @livingforlife7208
    @livingforlife7208 Před 6 lety +296

    My Pakistani Parents will never understand this, Ugh 😫

    • @nazmulslater8398
      @nazmulslater8398 Před 4 lety +25

      Get an Imaam or someone they respect to talk to them

    • @srtwizzy8535
      @srtwizzy8535 Před 4 lety +1

      @@nazmulslater8398 for me its worse

    • @Ash-fh9bb
      @Ash-fh9bb Před 3 lety +13

      living for life ikr! i'm from pakistan and i can understand your pain akhi. may we grow up to be different in this regard than our parents. AMEEN

    • @misbahailia3345
      @misbahailia3345 Před 2 lety +1

      I'm from Pakistan too. If they don't understand even after the Imam's spoken to them, then Islam gives you the right to have the Imam in your Halal date (meet), instead of your parents.
      Even secretly, and Allah knows best.

    • @IchigoIchigo3
      @IchigoIchigo3 Před 2 lety

      @@misbahailia3345 can you offer an ayat or an hadeeth for this?

  • @louieloveslondon11
    @louieloveslondon11 Před 6 lety +160

    I like how his head is covered 👏🏾 modesty

  • @sitarakhan3634
    @sitarakhan3634 Před 5 lety +81

    "tea business", "now cappuccino" ....lol
    "Don't let anyone control your mind and heart" - this is powerful....will always remember it.

  • @procalla9107
    @procalla9107 Před 8 lety +78

    mufti menk is an absolute legend end of

  • @muktarajibola4634
    @muktarajibola4634 Před 8 lety +76

    Nah when he said "dad I've met 3000 men in my life. The man I want to marry you don't want me to meet him. Toooo jokkkkesssssssss😭

  • @maromusulmane
    @maromusulmane Před 8 lety +188

    the problem is how can i talk in front of my parent ? ...i don't share anything with them...(...the only things that we talk about is "...did you eat? ...did you go to school? ...it's time to go to sleep..." ) + i'm too shy - -' Allaaah

    • @tasfiyatarbiya3194
      @tasfiyatarbiya3194 Před 8 lety +14

      I'm interested to see someone answer this.

    • @tasfiyatarbiya3194
      @tasfiyatarbiya3194 Před 8 lety +6

      I'm interested to see someone answer this.

    • @tasfiyatarbiya3194
      @tasfiyatarbiya3194 Před 8 lety +6

      I'm interested to see someone answer this

    • @tasfiyatarbiya3194
      @tasfiyatarbiya3194 Před 8 lety +6

      I'm interested to see someone answer this

    • @jamaicangirl2542
      @jamaicangirl2542 Před 8 lety +28

      I also had this problem too where I didn't talk much to my parents. But I think the first step to been more opening with them is to build a relationship where you by little talk to parents about how their day was and how yours were and then grow with that where the next day you can talk them about maybe what your teacher and someone said to u today and then this will help build a relationship where can talk about anything. But this takes time and the first step changes everything. I myself did not have a good relationship with my father and now we talk about everything and anything.N forget to Make duas . This was what I did, so maybe you can try it too

  • @noorejannat7811
    @noorejannat7811 Před 6 lety +49

    The tea business is 1970s , at the moment its cappacino ! Hahaha , his way of teaching is pretty impressive Mashaa Allah !

  • @rm7250
    @rm7250 Před 4 lety +48

    I hope I get married to a righteous man I am single in sha Allah i hope Allah swt gives this to me

  • @lora6925123669
    @lora6925123669 Před 8 lety +4

    Am obsessed with this series mashallah jazakm allah khair

  • @abdouliebah3704
    @abdouliebah3704 Před rokem +5

    Wow I think this is the best marriage advice I have ever listen to. may Allah bless you all. Ameen

  • @MikeTorenoCIA
    @MikeTorenoCIA Před 2 lety +15

    6:14 "don't do something un-Islamic so that you wont be hurt" yoo that's actually got a lot of meaning behind it if you think of it, us muslims are not allowed to consume any stupid drugs, I have been offered weed once and honestly, if I wasent for who I am I would have more than likely said yes, by that i mean, me being a muslim lad, by that I mean as a child my mum getting the religion in me. MashaAllah, what a meaningful line.

  • @jokerantor2273
    @jokerantor2273 Před 4 lety +1

    Really! From the first video based on this conversation I wanted your conversation to last forever!!

  • @rubinanaz311
    @rubinanaz311 Před 8 lety +4

    Mashallah
    Mufti menk's videos r very educational and it's always nice to watch them

  • @inayahh.xo1
    @inayahh.xo1 Před 3 lety +2

    This is so helpful Jazakallah Khair Ali and Mufti Menk :)

  • @UndercoverHijabi
    @UndercoverHijabi Před 8 lety +9

    Love watching these Mufti Menk & Ali Dawah question times! Amazing video again Akhi🙌🏽

  • @mmalik2023
    @mmalik2023 Před 8 lety +5

    AMAZINGGGGG LOVED ITTT MASHA'ALLAH😭😭😭😭😭😭

  • @noorejannat7811
    @noorejannat7811 Před 6 lety +17

    "Heart & Mind are the most powerful organs , do not allow any one to control them but Allah is the controller"

  • @umarfaruque8610
    @umarfaruque8610 Před 5 lety +2

    Subhanallah! #MuftiMenk is so much practical

  • @balecade2498
    @balecade2498 Před 8 lety +1

    da suspense is killing. ..JazakaAllah u kheyran brothers

  • @aaronojeda8788
    @aaronojeda8788 Před rokem +1

    I’ve always wanted to see Ali dawah and mufti menk to make a CZcams video together. Mashallah 👍

  • @Ablo0419
    @Ablo0419 Před 6 lety +3

    Alhamdulillah you have answered so many of my questions as a single man!😀

  • @masoodkharooti453
    @masoodkharooti453 Před 3 lety +1

    I love both of you brothers, you're doing a great job.

  • @sharmin7387
    @sharmin7387 Před 2 lety +4

    His explanation will never disappoint us!!

  • @BilalBrown
    @BilalBrown Před 8 lety +16

    Good advice from Mufti Menk.

  • @DarkWarrior012
    @DarkWarrior012 Před 8 lety +1

    Ma Sha Allah for these vids bro, looking foward to more vids of u and mufti !

  • @SA01218
    @SA01218 Před 8 lety +1

    ‎ما شاء الله‬ Another great video!

  • @sajedabegum5443
    @sajedabegum5443 Před 6 lety +1

    This is the best talk ever......... Every1 must know this....

  • @hafsanoor5549
    @hafsanoor5549 Před 8 lety

    Masha Allah, i liked how the sheikh said, say Amen yaqay

  • @hafizkhurram4456
    @hafizkhurram4456 Před 6 lety +1

    Masha Allah. very beautiful speech .

  • @Kurse97
    @Kurse97 Před 8 lety +70

    I love Mufti Menk ❤️❤️

  • @mohamedalghazali6367
    @mohamedalghazali6367 Před 3 lety +7

    Inshallah I get married in the name of Allah

  • @assalazouaidia3663
    @assalazouaidia3663 Před 8 lety

    Alhamdoulilah I'm loving that thank you so much you will get hasanat from us insha Allah.
    I'm always wetting the oder parts.

  • @afrozabegum9068
    @afrozabegum9068 Před 4 lety

    You made me happy.Satisfied with your answers.

  • @ThemDessertz
    @ThemDessertz Před 3 lety +7

    May Allah swt bless u Mufti Menk, u are educating everyone, the problem is culture gets in the way of religion. May all the parents be educated in this Ameen

  • @suleimanyakubujauro7118
    @suleimanyakubujauro7118 Před 5 lety +2

    Ma shaa Allah, tnx for educating us

  • @Ishwahhhh
    @Ishwahhhh Před 8 lety +256

    his face when he said nudes looooool

  • @laylalayla7656
    @laylalayla7656 Před 4 lety

    Very beneficial May Allah bless you both Ameen 🤝

  • @zealgurl5412
    @zealgurl5412 Před 8 lety

    Masha Allah powerful lecture ......u should definitely make sme mre videos wit mufti menk Insha Allah
    Da questns asked wer really good coz der aren't many clear answers out der
    JAZAKALLAHU KHAIR
    May Allah grant us all Jannathul firdous
    May Allah bless u fr ds awesome vids

  • @Zz-vp3rb
    @Zz-vp3rb Před 8 lety +4

    This is a really good topic discussion, not only for the younger people to watch but also gives parents an insight on how to help their children with this

  • @sokhnawallofall4901
    @sokhnawallofall4901 Před 2 lety +2

    This video is so important ❤🙏

  • @salmanwaheed8475
    @salmanwaheed8475 Před 7 lety

    Masha Allah brother mufti menk love you so much for the sake of Allah if all the mufti were like you

  • @edking44
    @edking44 Před 2 lety +3

    This male is a blessing!!!

  • @afz1659
    @afz1659 Před 4 lety

    Very helpful interview especially for our Asian community n thx u bro Ali

  • @pearleunjoo5439
    @pearleunjoo5439 Před 11 měsíci +1

    I never realised Islam was SO beautiful. It's sad that a lot of narcissistic parents make it hard for us. 😞

  • @leylaabdi4497
    @leylaabdi4497 Před 8 lety

    may ALLAH GUIDE US SHUKRAN 2our brother alidawha nd our sheikh mufti may ALLAH u grant u all jannah

  • @eshanazib9479
    @eshanazib9479 Před 3 lety +1

    I saw this a lot of time...but i didn’t know that it was u brother.... Mashallah brother....😇😇

  • @khalidSki7
    @khalidSki7 Před 7 lety +1

    These 2 are my favor brothers to listen to on CZcams 💯💯💯

  • @bjornbuckley
    @bjornbuckley Před 2 lety +6

    Halal “dating” in theory sounds like a way more functional form of courtship but it looks completely impossible to do in America.
    It’s really on the nose because it starts with the very assumption that you’re looking at someone as a potential spouse and the family is immediately involved. The couple can’t get physically intimate before marriage, which is so disconnected with the west I can barely fathom doing it.

  • @Smurk1100
    @Smurk1100 Před 5 lety

    My two role models other than rasullah (saw) in one video mashallah

  • @ViolaPressley
    @ViolaPressley Před 5 lety +2

    I grew up close to my mother and father. Any person that did not treat them right or would behave as if they wanted to pull me away from them, I would not be with. It's a good sign if you find someone who you sees treats their parents well and shows them the utmost respect. If they don't treat their own parents good, then how do you think they will treat you.

  • @kamka6451
    @kamka6451 Před 7 lety +1

    Ali you are a good job!!! We love you keep it up

  • @E_jXCIII
    @E_jXCIII Před 2 lety

    😭 say amen ya akhiiii!!! I love menk so much

  • @purehijama8752
    @purehijama8752 Před 4 lety +2

    Why our parents are not behaving Islamically like he is Subhanallah.. May Allah safeguard Muft Menk and his beloved ones Allahumma Amin

  • @hussenikijuu3480
    @hussenikijuu3480 Před 4 lety +2

    May Allah grant you Janna you do teach me and others a lot.I love you for the sake of Allah(sw)

  • @miqsirajuddin5378
    @miqsirajuddin5378 Před 4 lety +3

    Good luck finding parents like you mentioned.

  • @yuusufzainab7221
    @yuusufzainab7221 Před 3 lety +14

    I watched this Q&A from the beginning cause I want to learn and see how older people think of relationships. Wallahi in Nigeria lemme specify the yoruba parent have it in the culture to meet the spouse along the line. I can't walk up to my mum and say I like a guy because she pretty much say it as an insult when I do something wrong. And it is so hard on the youth here because the parents have your own life planned for you. They want to tell you when you start everything including when you start liking someone. May Allah guide us all we are so helpless against them wallahi because when you talk they make it look like you are being extreme with your islam and you just get confused and make many wrong decision at the end of the day

  • @ubaidatu_adam2683
    @ubaidatu_adam2683 Před rokem +1

    So educative walahi

  • @not.djkhalid6860
    @not.djkhalid6860 Před 4 lety +2

    The cliff hangers really on point.

  • @tayyabakhan7590
    @tayyabakhan7590 Před 2 lety

    I respect mufti menk sir he is not orthodox or suppressing women feeling ❤

  • @akextendo7860
    @akextendo7860 Před 3 lety

    Just have good intentions. And Pray to Allah S.W.T to make it easy for you.

  • @adamahawa.j4652
    @adamahawa.j4652 Před 3 lety

    Great questions and answers

  • @deemaspat1261
    @deemaspat1261 Před 3 lety +1

    Mashallah.. Beautiful ❤️❤️

  • @iboabrahim9087
    @iboabrahim9087 Před 4 lety

    ما شاء الله والله جزاك الله الشيخ نعم ما شاء الله نور وايمان ادعوا لي بالخير ان شاء الله وجزاكم الله خيرا

  • @AssimAli95
    @AssimAli95 Před 8 lety +43

    Nooooo, toooo shooort lol, on a serious not Mufti Menk is so helpful to the youth even parents

  • @hyper9ova788
    @hyper9ova788 Před 8 lety +15

    haha mufti menk brings a good sense of humour making it riveting to listen to him

  • @kaizokousaiyan6738
    @kaizokousaiyan6738 Před 6 lety +16

    I loved and listened to the whole video thoroughly but I laughed hard when he said "nuuuuudez"

  • @mdjaffar7681
    @mdjaffar7681 Před 3 lety

    Mashallaha great advice

  • @micselaneouswickedwitch3526

    I have just come across this today so it may be too late to get an answer , Why was the unseen person so rude because of time keeping ? He must be quite important as the poor young man with Mufti Ismail Menk looked really scared and uncomfortable even though there was " a vote " Well done young man , the work you are doing with other young people is admirable , this comment comes to you from an old Anglo / Irish grandma who became a revert over three years ago but although I am old I shall still subscribe because l have so much to learn . Your parents must be very proud of you .

    • @wochdit616
      @wochdit616 Před 6 lety +1

      micselaneous wickedwitch theres always an issue with time keeping lol when it comes to lectures like these, dunno why, Alhamdulillah you're a Muslim by the way

  • @drgains6575
    @drgains6575 Před 8 lety +1

    mashaAllah. make more q and a's with him.

  • @KhondokarMahfuzurRahman11

    6:55 sec most important tropic, MashaAllah 😊

  • @mohamedlahlali9479
    @mohamedlahlali9479 Před 8 lety +1

    salam Alikoum akhi jazakAllah for this video. its really great to discuss about those dating issues.

  • @BAW47
    @BAW47 Před 3 lety +3

    I am not Muslim, but, such good advice

  • @umamahmerroun2827
    @umamahmerroun2827 Před 8 lety +1

    May Allah bless you all.

  • @shaymaheartshishaanhome7423

    Ma shaa Allah tabarak Allah allahumma barik 👍👍👍

  • @sadeqa7250
    @sadeqa7250 Před 8 lety

    yay!! was so excited for this

  • @Fahrenheit-ou5xb
    @Fahrenheit-ou5xb Před 4 lety +23

    Mufti menk is a inspiration, mashallah💯💙
    He uses comedy to spead positivity; what an humble person.

  • @sosa6785
    @sosa6785 Před 5 lety +1

    Yo what this guy is saying is pure facts I’m Christian but the things he says is right most Christians aren’t doing that when they meet someone they will sin and you know have sex and do all sorts
    of sexual sin and God doesn’t like that he loves when people meet meet again continue on there journey and if you really love her or him marry them and not cheat or any of that sin God bless everyone love all who love the almighty 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽 and especially my Muslim brothers love listen to my brother Mufti Menk.

  • @Abdul-kp9nb
    @Abdul-kp9nb Před 3 lety +1

    Subhan'Allah 💯.

  • @DragoMusivini
    @DragoMusivini Před 6 lety +1

    I am insanely jealous I would love to meet this brother inshallah.

  • @duelmasterblaze4106
    @duelmasterblaze4106 Před 8 lety

    You both should do a meet and greet. Or live Q and A

  • @princesszeldaprincess447
    @princesszeldaprincess447 Před 6 lety +3

    My family and I are all Muslim and My sister dated her boyfriend before she married and those dates were not supervised by anyone then on the third date my sister brought him home and then she introduced him to us as her boyfriend and she said that the only approval that she cared about was my approval because she said that she doesn't care for our dads approval but only mine so she saw how I got along with him and how our mom got along with him and how. Our brother got along with him and how our grandpa got along with him then and only then did she continue to see him and down the road my dad started approving of him once he saw how happy my sister was a few years go by and she gets married to him and no it wasn't an arranged marriage it was a love marriage and to this day they are still together

  • @Maebae27
    @Maebae27 Před 8 lety +9

    I was watching snapchat just waiting for this to be uploaded haha

  • @marufahabiola9007
    @marufahabiola9007 Před 4 lety

    BarakaAllahu fii..

  • @Andrew_Tate_Personal
    @Andrew_Tate_Personal Před 4 lety

    ‘Salam, alhumdullah Yes, MarshAllah of course sister my intentions are marriage inshAllah’.
    (Too weeks later)
    PUMPED & DUMPED was the outcome. Another sad tale in the Muslim dating scene.
    *Girl crying wondering why she’s been blocked?*
    *Guy boasts to his friends how smooth his game is*
    The cycle continues ...
    May Allah guide us and protect us from such things

  • @hayaat9236
    @hayaat9236 Před 3 lety +3

    Alhamdulillaah my parents are very close to us they talk to us as if we’re same age as them

  • @mmalik2023
    @mmalik2023 Před 8 lety +50

    Swear this was too good😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

  • @nasreensarah
    @nasreensarah Před 8 měsíci

    allahumma barik 👏🏽🤲🏽❤

  • @nimramohamederol
    @nimramohamederol Před 2 lety +2

    It's interesting I can't relate to any of this and yet sadly it happens in so many families. My family didn't even ask once his ethnicity and race etc. All they wanted to know if the person I chose is a good person for me or not. Or maybe being Turkish went in his favor for me as a Pakistani haha.

  • @abdishire5482
    @abdishire5482 Před 8 lety +7

    Somali parents know this best but they will want to see her before all this can start.

  • @sunyahmed5309
    @sunyahmed5309 Před 4 lety

    Mashallah brother you made me smile you are beautiful bro❤❤❤🤲

  • @user-qg2dy1gx8t
    @user-qg2dy1gx8t Před 5 měsíci

    I'm Christian and I agree with this form of dating

  • @RiyasOfficial
    @RiyasOfficial Před 6 lety +1

    Dheen & Ahlaq that's what we had to check ☑