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Pro tip, don't request a wedding speech from the person both Bride and Groom betrayed.
You might not like it.
Congrats! Focus on your life together after the wedding. Weddings are fun. Just don't let it consume you. Sounds like you're on the right track. I put a box of candy on each table and people loved it. (Just my wedding tip.)
You would think that weighing the pros and cons of giving the man a mic. whom both of you betrayed, would be a no-brainer.
They might not like it (understandably I guess), but damn me if I didn't enjoyed the story.
Yeah, they were goofy as hell for that one.
The ex and cousin were so selfish asking him to make a speech, and it backfired on them as it should 🥂
If anyone thinks he ruined their wedding... Look, his cousin intentionally made him best man. Either to give him a slap in the face because he's really insecure, or because he felt like it's been so long and it's not a big deal anymore. Clearly that couple needed a wakeup call and a wedding ruined
Agreed 💯
No, not at all. They were more mature, had moved on, whilst he childishly hung unto his feelings of hurt and did nothing to overcome them. Pathetic, very very poor. Full of hatred, resentment, selfishness. Very unpleasant personality. Not able to feel love.
@@anadubar4819 of course they could move on and "be mature" they cheated! Op was still grieving the loss of his relationship that lasted two years. His cousin had known he was dating her the whole time so what are the chances they hooked up in the first year? If they really cared they wouldn't have tried to invite him at all. No one has to stay in contact with their family especially if their family hurt them and OP explicitly said they went no contact, the cousin would have known this and asked him anyway.
Yes 🙌 💯
@@anadubar4819 You sound like the people who enable cheating spouses
That cousin story- here’s my take on it:
The cousin and the ex still felt guilty about how things went down and wanted to get OP’s forgiveness and blessing.
Some people probably think that they wanted to rub their happiness in OP’s face- but they could’ve done that just by sending the wedding invitation or asking him to be there directly. There’s no need to strong-arm him into being the best-man, or even to go so far as to refuse to have anyone else.
They wanted to force forgiveness so they wouldn’t be weighed down by guilt. But the thing is, you aren’t entitled to someone else’s forgiveness after you hurt them. They were selfish, delusional, and caught up in a sunset fairytale ending.
I think it could be forced forgiveness, too. But there are some people who like to twist the blade when they stab someone in the back. And what could be more hurtful than giving the person whose relationship you ruined front-row seats to you and their ex's wedding.
Love that you pointed this out
...Huh. That actually made the most sense, when you put it that way. I just thought the couple were horrible people with selective memories...
From what I understand, the guy didn't allow them to apologize and maybe they somehow wanted to it right or hoped he had moved on
I didn't think about that way. But on the other hand, I feel sorry for the OP, if he is still that bitter after 3 years, he may still have some feeling for the woman and it's just sad he can't move on and find happines with someone else.
I was helping cater a wedding. At the reception the bride and groom were formally introduced. Members from each side, mostly grandparents, aunts, uncles, etc. lined up for a welcome to the family type greeting.
Then a guy, about the age of the couple stepped forward. He gave the bride a nice handshake then turned to the groom and kissed him. The room was silent. He raised his hands and shouted a loud thank you. Then the bride and groom broke out laughing.
Apparently the guy was her first husband, and with her getting married he no longer owed alimony.
Best wedding story ever!! 🤣🤣🤣
Ahh beautiful 😅🤣😂
That’s so funny and cool! 🤣
That's too funny 🤣🤣🤣
That's hilarious. And kudos to the wife and her ex-husband for having what seems to be a healthy friendship after their divorce (or at least I'm assuming it was if he was invited to the wedding XD).
There was an update to that first story that was really sad. the OP was dealing with suicidal ideation (either he had made plans or attempts i cant remember) and secluding himself for months after the big stunt at the wedding. so it didnt really make him feel better at all, if anything it just reopened old wounds. his family actually came through in the end to get him help and even the shitty cousin helped with that, so i think he at least finally realized what he did to OP...even if it was 3 + years too late. A lot of people in the comments were telling him in the first post that this seemed more like a cry for help than anything and he shouldnt have done it when he admitted he had been struggling with his mental health since finding his ex and cousin together. I honestly agree. it seems like one of those 'fuck yeah justice boner' stories, but reading a lot of his comments and what he was going through, it's just sad and he needed help, not revenge.
He needed BOTH
Wow - thanks for posting that. I'm glad OP was finally able to get help. I'm also glad his family finally came around.
Yeah. While I'm sure it felt good for a minute, I had a feeling that probably was not going to be a replacement for therapy, as much as we all wish it were.
That’s what I was thinking the whole time, now he had to live with the betrayal and also with all the torment he got from family and relatives - and he never mentioned getting help . I really wish people would realise mental hygiene is not any different than dental hygiene or getting your regular bloodwork done. Brain is an organ too. And soul needs healing as much as a broken bone would
Oh he needed both, if he didn't do that on the wedding his family wouldn't have known his pain and help him out, I bet he would of just kept e everything to himself like the past 3 years he was suffering alone
I will NEVER understand how some families stand behind a cheater. That's just further betrayal. If they had any sense, they'd cast out the ex girlfriend. Good for the first guy and ruining the wedding. 🎉
learned in my life that cheater defend other cheater. Just because you don´t know or suspect, even your family members could be cheaters and therefore justify other peoples behaviors.
Me neither. Probably because of images. If I had to guess.
Seriously! That's what I'm wondering. Wtf is wrong with people!
I can only speak from experience that my ex-husband's family certainly sided with him.
If your family does something like tht to you, maybe they're not a real family to you. Time to cut out more than just the ex methinx.
The cousin and ex cheating bit.....if I was him I would have started off with lovely little anecdotes about growing up with cousin and how close they were, and do some sweet anecdotes about ex, really carry everyone down memory lane.
Mislead EVERYONE into thinking its gonna be a super sweet speech then switch gears "he has my really good cousin and she was my really good girlfriend.....so I had thought until I came home and found them together in the home that ex and I shared" then really start ripping into them. Take the crowd on the emotional rollercoaster the bride and groom out you on.
See now that's sadistic and I'm here for it!
My ex husband's ex sent me a LONG email about a month before our wedding. Turns out he was extremely abusive to her and she wanted to warn me. I wish I had listened...
EDIT: Thanks you guys 🥰 I'm doing much better now. I'm divorced, healing, and I've met a man who treats me like a princess. Y'all are wonderful ❤️
Damned. . .
Oh no...I'm sorry....for both of you 🥺
Dang I hope you're doing better ❤️
Unfortunately when you love someone you are quite blind...
Hope you are doing better
Yup, had the same problem, really wish I had listened...I hear the chick that replaced me is more than a little controlled
“Maturity is overrated. Be petty instead.”
Can we get this on a t-shirt please?? 😂
10/10 would buy!
Yes!
I was looking for this comment!!
I'm imagining all the shirts spreading around the world!
Maturity isn’t really overrated, it’s just in increasingly short supply.
Its always weird when people pretend they did nothing wrong like the cheaters in story one like wtf so they told others they met after you'd broken up so somehow that made them belive this would be ok. No inviting a victim of cheating/messy ex to speak at your wedding is dumb.
It is amazing what people convince themselves.
And very cruel.
Honestly, it's like they wanted it to happen, I mean it's possible they both knew he was a person to speak his mind and thought either they would get a friend back or he would make a scene and most people would take their side but that is a stretch lol 😬
Everyone is the star in the movie of their own life. It is all about the perspective. The bride and groom could be coming from the perspective that they met because of their cousin when she was in a failing relationship with him. He seems to be the only person who thought of marriage with her and only after she left the relationship. They extended the olive branch and he carved it into a spear. He looks pathetic.
@@randyrobinson3951 they did not simply "meet" through him, they had an affair. Maybe they had discussed marriage previously and their plans together for the future? If she was unhappy with him, why didn't she be upfront instead of cheating. Making someone you both betrayed a best man at your wedding to "thank him for bringing you together " isn't an olive branch it's manipulation
The first story confused me. Why on earth would you ask the person you haven't seen in a long time for a serious reason to be the best man. What were they expecting?
I bet they were feeling guilty about fucking (literally) behind his back, and they thought making him the best man would fix everything they did to him...
AND, if he didn't want to be best man, then his cousin just wouldn't have a best man? He had no other siblings, cousins or friends? That seems odd.
They probably thought that if they made a grand gesture all would be forgiven, like in movies etc.
Because he’s an awful person so he has no friends that’s the only reason that he’d ask op to be his best man
Felt made up. Maybe not the part about the cousin and the gf getting caught fucking, but the wedding shenanigans sounds more like what op wished he did.
I'm getting married next year and I'm honestly shocked with how some of these women act! Also, Charlotte out here always teaching me new ways to NOT be a bridezilla!
Congrats babes! 🥰 May all be well from now to your nuptials
Congrats on both!!! No one likes a bridezilla! I hope you have a great wedding day and a great life with your significant other.
Congratulations! Maybe you can learn how to weed crazy people out to avoid anything bad for your wedding as well!
Congrats to you and your significant other! hope the wedding goes smoothly for you both!
Congrats hun!
The cousin thing... they were asking for it if they thought making him the best man was going to put things behind them. All the others... well, the entitled pettiness is strong with those b*tches... I can honestly say that my husband's ex was awesome at our wedding, she was my makeup artist and we had a really great time together, I wasn't expecting the perfect wedding, I just wanted the best time of my life with friends and family and that's exactly what we got.
Some exes make even better friends than when the couple was together, if people can move past that and even better become friends with the new partner, I love that for everyone. Unfortunately I didn't invite any of my exes because they weren't people I wanted to keep in my life in any capacity, but that's ok, I think if you can have an amicable relationship with ex partners, then that's an exception and not the rule, but a lovely exception.
@@amylynnsgraphics it's definitely possible, but one party being a cheater kind of kills any potential for friendship.
It probably also helped that your husband didn't cheat on his ex with you lol
@@FunSizeSpamberguesa hahaha definitely! Some things are just unforgivable, abuse - verbal or mental or both, and cheating there's no coming back from
@Carly Mart she got over him long before I came along, and they broke up because they wanted different things and were grown up and adult about it
Too funny. My future MIL came up to me before the ceremony to explain that I did not need to go through with the wedding and we could just have a party and enjoy the food. She was so against the wedding that she told the minister he may not be needed. Cutting to the reception...i mentioned to the guests that my now MIL was starving, she wanted to skip the ceremony and just eat...so make a wide hole and let her eat first 😅 I had the caterer make her a HUGE plate and gave her a center seat. Kudos to her for holding that nasty look for over 3 hours.
Bravo ! That was awesome !😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
Ok, I've been married for nineteen years, so maybe dating rules are different, but how exactly does a woman prevent a man from visiting his nephew without her escorting him? I recall my mother telling me that anyone trying to keep you away from your friends or family was a red flag potential abuser.
unfortunately a lot of people still act like abuse doesn't happen to men, especially when committed by a woman, so boys and men aren't really told about red flags like many women are, just told never hit a woman and that's it really, where really no matter who you are everyone should be told not to hit first at anyone and to treat others with respect, and what red flag warnings are.
I was thinking that it may not be abuse but manipulation and/or fear of being alone on his part. Some people stay with toxic partners out of a weird sense of loyalty if they have been together for a long time. In a way he knows who/how she is becuase it was mentioned in the post that he has told her off multiple times for her nastiness.
As for not visiting his nephew... he may no really want to do it, personally nothing and no one would keep me from my family no matter how much the yelled/complained that I didn't include them in the visit (and in this case I wouldn't include the nasty). Also, unless they work at the same place at the same time or she has the brother monitored in some way, they don't spend 24/7 together even IF they LIVED together. If he really wanted to see them he could schedule a visit when she won't be around and she would never know.
This is totally abuse. I feel like this woman is with the groom brother, purely to be messy with her ex-friend. I hope the groom's brother wakes up soon.
Sounds like cousin wanted to fix their relationship by giving op something "big and unvaluable", which is being bestman. Like, look! You're still special to me, only you can fit this role, forgive me and pretend nothing happened so I can feel no guilt anymore
I agree. His weird way of trying to makes amends, but really only to soothe his own conscience. If he were really sorry he would have spoken face to face with him and ended the relationship.
The day before my parents married, my father's ex- called my mother to tell her, in detail, what she and my father had done. My mother listened quietly then replied, "That may be true, but he's mine now." They were married for 46 years...until my father died.
That’s what should happen.
I like a good, Oooh, that's where he learned that from, thanks so much, that is still one of my favorites!
Or: Thanks for teaching him your old tricks, he's learned a lot since then.
Queen shit
I think your mother dropped this 👑
"Maturity is overrated . Be petty instead" - Charlotte 😁 . Rather than keeping quiet and then speaking at their wedding , in the first case the OP should have informed everyone in the family what a douche the cousin was and kicked him and his family out of his life .
I have to say, I kind of the way the 'bad first man' handled it. They trashed his emotional life they caused him harm and damage by being at the very best thoughtless very worst cruel human beings and if you can't even see that you did that.... You deserve that wedding speech.
Hard thing, when the family doesn't care. Been there you know. But still, agree with you
@@kestendavis8753 they didn't trash his emotional life, they hurt him, yes, but then he should have sought out help to process this pain, and move past it, instead of him letting this pain eat away at him for three years. That is the tragedy in this story.
Well hindsight is 20/20 and I'm sure he wasn't ever expecting to have to deal with them ever again. The phone call out of the blue to ask him to be the best man at the wedding of his cheating ex gf and ahole cousin drove him over the edge. Years of keeping quiet about it, then these 2 ripped old wounds open and the anger came pouring out.
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Honestly, that best man speech was a lot more tame than I was expecting and better than they deserved.
That best man's speech was..... Chef's kiss! 🤌
The first one tho. The audacity of them to invite someone whose life they ruined and not expect him to act out. They kinda called that on themselves.
The last one- she’s in love with her boyfriends brother and didn’t realize he would fall for the wife like that, that’s where that animosity is coming from or there’s a past between them that the wife doesn’t know about. I would dig into it, if not then she’s obsessed and I would keep my kid away from her even if that means the uncle can’t spend as much time with his nephew, if she hates me that much then I’m pretty sure she would be capable of harming my child too, she’s weird in a bad way.
Agreed. The moment she was talking about OP behind her back I knew she was in love with her boyfriend's brother! It's just a shame that the brother doesn't realize that his girlfriend is in love with his brother. The brother should have realized that when his girlfriend dressed "sexy", I mean skanky to his brother's wedding.
Some people don’t understand the concept of exes, it means the relationship is over, finished, done and no more.
I’ve told the story before about another wedding reception that was going on in the same hotel as my step brothers. Whilst his wedding was on he nipped into the other room to see the other wedding for a minute. The groom was giving his speech which was: "I’d like to thank everyone for coming, I’d just like everyone to know my best man and bride have been having an affair for the last year. I’m off on my honeymoon now… alone."
I just wanna let you know, my brothers name is Mark Harris 🤗✨
@@Maddluv4eric Thanks, I once left a comment for another Mark Harris on here and there was one at my uni the same time I was there. It must be a popular name.
Oh wow. That poor groom.
Hopefully that groom was going to a beach filled with loyal and gorgeous women who would happily spoil him! That sucks though and it's awful to find that kinda thing out on the day of the wedding. Not only did you waste all that money, but then you have to let both families know information that most of us would like to keep somewhat private for at least a little while so we can get our emotions figured out. At least the Bride's family also saw how awful of a person she was that day and she can't deny it in a situation like that.
@@kiraeckard7625 I think he knew before the wedding and planned to humiliate them in front of family and friends.
From someone who has had my fiance cheat with my best friend, the best man speech is completely accurate. I give him a solid nod on the mic drop moment.
That cousin situation I give kudos. Not the a--hole. I mean, what the hell is wrong with these people??? Like all those who cheat, the cousin and ex seem unable to see the pain they cause others. Hasn't happened to me, but I have seen the damage it does to others, and it was BRUTUAL for my loved ones that were cheated on.
Family: You ruined the wedding!!
OP: Yeah that was my goal
My mind is blown by how everyone is treating this like cheating is no big deal and OP should just get over it. There is probably a good reason why the cousin has no friends to ask instead
@@livw2180 Agreed, excellent point.
. . . They are all three aholes, making it hell for everyone present who had nothing to do with that shit is a total a hole move
@@livw2180 Good point! He's screaming his pain to them, telling them the truth of what the two of them did to OP and they still acted like he was the bad guy, that's disgusting
Bullshit. They DID see the pain, which is exactly why they reached out to him so often.
He in contrast is a total, brutal, resentful, revengeful narcissist who thinks the universe has to revolve around his ego.
Good for the girl that she didn't stay with this psychopath. He probably would have punished her whenever she did something wrong.
Moral of the first story: don’t cheat with your cousin’s girlfriend, and if you are gonna do it, don’t get mad when your cousin doesn’t want a relationship with you, and especially don’t get mad when they ruin your wedding after you have the audacity to ask them to be your best man or maid of honor.
I hope OP went full no contact with all the family members that were on the ex and cousin’s side.
Agreed, I don't understand why these cheaters can't end their relationships first before they go and Fuck some other person, then their innocent spouse who loved them suffers because of their selfishness wtf
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for the first story: WHAT DID THEY EXPECT?
Seriously the audacity to invite OP to their wedding? And the relatives are the true A-holes for blaming OP. Don't blame him, blame karma instead because that's how it works
A former friend that had called me a "liar and an asshole to my face" (And told another friend that I had screamed to his partner when I actually felt too intimidated by her to even think to do that) used other friends to let me know I was still invited to his wedding and actually demanded to come to my house to talk to me... Joke's on him I just said no... We had literally stopped talking for months already and I had asumed I was uninvited from the wedding (I mean if I stopped being friends with someone I wouldn't want them in my wedding right?)... I actually toyed with the idea of accepting the invitation and attend wearing an outrageous goth outfit with lots of spikes... but nah... my mental health is more important than them... I just moved on...
PS. They also tried to get into my house when my dad died saying they wanted to "support me despite our disagreements" but it all felt like a cheap excuse to get inside my head again... So I just thanked them and said I wasn't taking visits from anyone...
You know the first stories family is screwed up when the victim's mother calls and complains at you for calling out the people who cheated on you. Your child was cheated on by these people and then they got married, but it's totally your child's fault not the cheater. I don't blame OP for going low contact, honestly I would have gotten no contact and blocked all their numbers. And then never talk to them ever again, cuz these people sound toxic and not worth a damn thing.
They had the absolute Christ on a Bike's audacity to ask him to be THE BEST MAN?! 🤯
That speech just needed an "and after all that he had the GALL to ask me to be the best man".
Cousin doesn't have any self awareness, does he? What person with any notion of self would think "you know who would be the perfect best man? The cousin whose girlfriend I am now marrying after an affair with me.
Christ on a bike, I love it 🤣
You would think he asked him to rub it in. The douche had no brothers, other male relatives or friends to ask?
One of my husband's exes was so angry that they weren't invited, we made a no exes rule. That jerkwad harassed my husband through mutual friends, and direct phone calls and messages. Even had the audacity to try proposing to him, a week before our wedding. This crazy ex kept getting a new number every time the number they called from was blocked. Only gave up AFTER I was pregnant with our second child. The other crazy ex was messaging me trying to convince me he was cheating on me, this is the same one that after they broke up tried to take him to court like it was a divorce. They had only dated a few weeks...
Aaaaaaaannnddd...that's why she's an "ex". Those kind of people are scary.
That first one: when people were calling him after telling him he ruined the wedding. He should have been like "bahahahaha that was the plan" !!! 😂😂😂
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Speech was beautiful, brought a tear to my eye. :P If a wedding speech ruins the whole wedding then there is clearly other issues.
I feel so bad for the first guy... even with his revenge he still feels down.. what they did to him was so hurtful. I hope he finds true happiness with a faithful woman.
The first one: Hell, we are with you brother!
Story 1: I think the reason the cousin who betrayed op asked him to be the best man is because there was probably some suspicion as to how the ex-girlfriend and the cousin got together. So making him the best man was a way to show everything was cool. This seems to happen a lot because this isn't the first story I've heard where a family member who had an affair with another family members partner (now ex) invites them to the wedding to show the rest of the guest that everything is "all good".
Story 2: Dang, it seems like anyone who originally introduces someone to their future spouse ends up having a falling out. This has happened to two of my friends.
Last story sounds like she felt she chose the wrong brother and was angry she could not switch. So she took it out on the wife to get her out of way? 😅🤔 though it seems to be backfiring 😂
Story 1: Why is it that every time someone cheats or wrongs a person or former spouse, they think it's "okay" to invite them to the wedding. This is a serious question. Did the cousin and ex really think that this was going to be okay?
Update to the first story -
Q: Have you spoken with your ex at all since the wedding?
A: Only when I've been to my cousin's house to visit with my mum, which is infrequent. I don't speak to either of them much, my mum just insists I visit him since he's paying for my therapy. I think she's trying to somehow repair our relationships but once I'm well enough to not need therapy anymore I'm going to go no contact with all of them and move to a different city.
Q: (continued from the previous question) if you do speak to your ex and/or cousin, what do they say?
A: anything that isn't related to the wedding or fucking each other in my bed. They do everything in their power to avoid talking about anything even tangentially related to those things.
If I ever get married, I'm going to make a conscious effort to never, ever utter the words "my special day."
S1. The OP must’ve felt even worse since family members weren’t being considerate towards his heartbroken feelings.
Such a betrayal. I hope he’s doing better now.
Why would they be, it's been 3 years. OP is clearly a sad bitter person blaming others for his failing existence. Everyone has had stuff happen to them, it's called life, you either get back up or you stay down and whine about it.
@@silentsaturn7604 Tell me, do you speak out of experience, or are you just flapping your mouth?
@@silentsaturn7604 How is it you can call another " ... a sad bitter person ... ", and yet be unable to recognise how you severely lack compassion? Yes - many people have survived trauma, which - I believe - makes us MORE compassionate towards others, not less! It seems as if you've completely disassociated from your feelings and are emotionally vacant. Perhaps you need to talk with someone yourself. Self-righteousness is never a good look. Basically, you're saying "Look at me! I've done this - I'm so good! Why can't you?" That only serves to show your own lack of awareness & self-knowledge.
She’ll end up cheating on his cousin, or he’ll cheat on her. Their relationship was built on cheating. Anyone who will cheat with a family members seriously SO doesn’t have respect for anyone. You lose them the way you get them. Cheaters cheat.
We'd really like that to happen to those who cheat on us, don't we? But the guy who ruined my life is happily married now and to the same girl whom he cheated on me with sorry to burst the bubble.
After listening to the first story, i still can't digest the fact that his cousin ask him to be the best man. I guess he either doing it on purpose and it backfired or he just thinks that "oh he may have been moved on" just because they haven't got in touch after that messy affair. Sometimes cheaters think that other people are moving on as easy as them because they are not the one who is being cheated on. If that was me, i will probably buy a fake ring and throw it at the bride for a bit of extra drama
People have amazing amnesia when it comes to their own wrongdoing. I'd compare first story to when someone confronts their bully in adult life and the bully can hardly remember anything.
I feel really sorry for the guy who was still carrying so much anger three years after he was betrayed. I fully agree he had a right to be so angry at being betrayed, but still being that angry after so many years is probably doing more damage to him than his speech at the wedding ever did to the cheating bridal couple. He even says he is not sure if he feels better having made the speech. I really hope he gets counseling to help process the anger before it eats him up.
100% agree. Mental health is not a thing to take lightly.
Anger doesn't always eat you up or cause you to need therapy. Forty years ago, I was with a man that I loved very much. We were together for 4 years and were talking about marriage. Then I found out that he was cheating. I was devastated and very angry. Eventually I moved on, got married, had kids, etc. and have a very nice life. But every time I think about him or hear about him, I get angry again about what he did to me. (My husband understands) The cheater died about 5 years ago and I was actually glad to hear that news.
6:59: as always with a Charlotte video I almost spewed my tea on my computer screen from laughter. "WhyNotKnotWhy's" idea made my day. SO HILARIOUS!🤣
That first story, what an utter legend!
The first one....omg...strong of him to even go through the darn wedding
Wedding shenanigans!!!
First story: I aspire to that level of pettiness. If i was him, on the way out iwould have knocked over the wedding cake!
Nah; that he could have been legit sued for damages over. Some wedding cakes are monstrously expensive, enough to push malicious destruction of property up to a felony-level crime just by the cost of the damages. But this? Do you really think these two @$$clowns would want to tell this story to a lawyer, much less a judge~? They both know damn well that any judge worth their robes would tell them to GTFO of their courtroom, and work on becoming less sh*tty human beings.
That poor guy (the first one) all the feels for what he went through. Under the circumstances, anything you do to help you get through it (short of violence) is pretty justified.
To be fair.
I think its fair to ruin the wedding when the cheating parties, and in this case family members invite him to it.
I have zero respect for cheaters. Lying in general is something I detest.
And cheating is among the worst form of lying, because not only is there the lies and secrets, its also playing with someones entire life for no reason what so ever.
No one ever have a reason for cheating, since you can just break up. its really that simple.
So people that cheat are awful people, liars and horrible. And it actions cause effect.
Supposed to be clocking back in but they can wait until AFTER this video 🤣
You know, I usually wouldn't agree with ruining anyones wedding for majority of reasons. (They'd have better done something real bad) But the first one just sounded like they were asking for it lmao.
You cheat on your lover and your cousin can't keep it in his pants enough to not say no to the cheater and then they invite him to the wedding expecting it all to be fine? Lol no.
That first speech was the best, best man speech EVER!!! If I was there I would have stood up, clapped loudly and asked if he was hungry and I could take him to dinner.
My fiancés friends with benefits “woman” told me that he would “always love her and never me”. Some times I think it’s true but I have to remember that he chose to have children with me and not her as well as ask me to marry him.
This is where a top wedding planner would come in handy. Some heavy sauce item would accidentally be spilled on her prompting her to be removed from the wedding to “clean her up” 😁🤣
Can you trap someone you’re married to? I don’t think you can. You have them at that point. 🤷🏻♀️
I love it when people expect the other person to be over stuff because they are, especially when the happy person caused the other person to be unhappy. I once dated a guy who happened to be dating another guy at the same time as he was dating me (gay dudes). I was stupid enough to stick around for his bullshit, but getting angrier as time wore on. So he chose the other guy who I guess he wasn't screwing around so much, therefore he didn't have any reason to be as mad as me.
He tells me while he's lying in a hospital bed that he doesn't want to be with me. 4 days later he messages me acting as if nothing happened. A few months after that, he messages me to tell me he's in a great relationship for the past few months and one day I'll find someone. It had only been 2 months since we broke up.
That guy ended up leaving him after a few years and I've been happily partnered 17 years. I would say I'm hurt by what he did, but I more mad at how dumb I was for even dating him past 2 weeks and I'm thankful that he did break up with me. He saved me probably at least a few months of bullshit.
The crazy thing is, he still tries to message me every so often, but he must be in a relationship right now because it's been over a year. So, I'm expecting a message any day now.
This is nothing. I keep trying to get Charlotte's attention with my wedding 😂😂 my husbands pregnant girlfriend turned up and announced her pregnancy at my wedding. It was a whole thing. My father got arrested. My brother had a tooth knocked out and the bar man had a glass smashed over him. I threw the cake at her and my new husband. I went back to the hotel to find them IN MY BRIDAL SUITE. So much more happened but its so much 🤷♀️
Shelley J, firstly, I am so sorry! Secondly, in Charlotte's words, we're here for it. If you care to share, that is.
I hope your happy now. Hopefully you'll find someone else who is worthy of you.
The fact that the cousin in the first story has no one else to be the best man just screams that he has f-cked over everyone else in his life.
I think we need to call out cheaters more publicly anyway tbh. i'm definitely not mad at him LOL!!! petty? yes. mature? no but frankly i don't care.
That wedding speech was SOOOOO satisfying.
I agree, maturity is overrated therefore I am growing old disgracefully and loving EVERY minute😈😂🤣
Maturity is not always needed
"Growing old disgracefully" LOL
For the first post, I was expecting Charlotte to scream "THE AUDACITY!" and having a Petty mug sip sip lol. It's aight, I just imagined it all ^_^. Still... the AUDACITY of that cousin >.>.
Wow, the first one was fierce. Really weird of them to invite him tho.
The whole thing for the first story is so sad. In one if the updates there was a point where OP thought/planned of ending himself after the wedding during those months leading up to it. The final update was he was going to therapy paid for by cousin and 2 other family members.
Maturity isn’t overrated at all. I find it gives me complete peace of mind because I know I reacted in the best possible way and it’s ALL the other person. It also minimises the depth of the issue.
I'm being a little stubborn in learning that at the moment, so reading it so eloquently stated helps. Thank you for the inspiration!
@@AuditClerk you’re very welcome. I promise it’ll be better for you once you implement that in your life ❤️
The overall fracking audacity of the cousin to asking the cousin to be the best man tho. Like that’s so rude in the first place - agreed. Them not talking for what? Years. Was a message that you’re not in “best man” territory
That's not rude, that's nice. They wanted peace, not war. They wanted to reconcile with him. They had tried so often to reach out to him, to apologize, everything. But he preferred to steep in his feelings of resentment and revenge. Very very narcissistic.
@@anadubar4819 are you like somebody from that story ??? Or someone in a similar situation? Because it's really weird that you are going and replying to and every comment made about them.🙂
@@anadubar4819 You throw that word "narcissist" around every...single...time...you...waste...people's...time!!!!! Do you even know what a narcissist is? It's self entitlement, an attention seeker, a perfectionist, controlling, irresponsible, lack of boundaries, lack of empathy, arrogance, preoccupied with wealth and status, etc. It's how they are, not because two douche bags went behind his back and he wanted some revenge; it didn't even make feel better. You are so far off the mark. I'd look in the mirror because I think YOU fit many of these traits; which is, for you, called "projection".
@@youlocalityfujo7856 interesting ….👀 lol
Pro tip: if the person you’re “in love with” is a complete turd bucket to other people and you can see that they’re doing it, it’s really just a matter of time before they do it to you. RUN.
This 👏🏽is 👏🏽true! 👏🏽 This 👏🏽is 👏🏽 true! 👏🏽 I wish I had listened then ... but I KNOW I'll listen now!
I absolutely LOVE the cousin/Best Man speech!!! 🎤 drop!!!
My favorite response to “Be the bigger person”? Emotionally mature people have a sense of humor as well… And it’s not your fault if someone volunteers to be the punchline for your next joke/prank. How they react will tell you just how big a person THEY are, win-win… 😂
Watching ur old videos when u was single and talking about future relationships and i think u should do a reaction video rewatching some with ur bf and see how he reacts to ur single antics lol brideziller in the making lol 😂👀😄
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Absolutely LOVED the first story. I wish I would have guts enough to be able to do something like this b/c something like this HAS HAPPENED to me. lol Guess I'll live vicariously through Kings/Queens like that one. 👑👑
Edited to change love to live lol
I absolutely LOVE dude that made the amazing speech!!
Miss Charlotte’s reactions reminded me A) this is a reaction channel and B) she is the absolute bestest! So funny, petty, and wholesome.
I love the wedding videos we need more of these
Also ily Charlotte thanks for always making me laugh on my lunch break 🫶
Highlight of my day Queen Charlotte!👑
I’m so here for that first one! I clapped at the end of that speech just like you did. What can I say? I’m petty too
The cousin one is BRILLIANT. BRAVO to this guy. Bold to make him the best man and he delivered, imo.
First story, the cousin clearly was getting flack from the family for marrying his cousin's ex, that's most likely was his angle for inviting him to be the best man, it was a way of showing for the family that it was all in good terms and that OP had no issues, therefore they couldn't have any issues either. The wedding was ruined because OP proved the opposite.
Thank you, Charlotte for always uploading just in time for my lunch break. 😁
not wedding related, but i recently had an altercation with one of my neighbors, who so happens to also be the maintenance of my apartment. her daughter misunderstood something i had said and she had an attitude and wouldn't be an adult about hearing me out. well....that was a month ago....last week i decided i was going to apologize, even though i did nothing wrong. she again didn't want to be an adult about it, but one of my other neighbors told me later that she was surprised and proud that i was the "bigger person" in this instance. and i was nice only because i live in HUD apartments and can barely afford my small amount of rent. i can't afford anywhere else and i knew that if i left things like they were, she would have harassed me and did everything she could to force me to leave, or convince the landlady to evict me. i am very petty, when i have to be, but this time i had to be the bigger person because if i lose my apartment, that means my kids can no longer live with/visit me.
If I had been at this Wedding, I would have said: Well, He really is not good at public speaking.
I want to meet this guy. I just love his attitude.
The second story could be a chargeable offence under revenge porn laws. She used social media, not very smart.
As satisfying as it was to hear the best man's revenge story... I don't believe it was a healthy thing for him to do. To be holding onto this for 3 years, then successful muck up the wedding, could not have felt good. Maybe leading up to it,the adrenaline and all..but I suspect this fellow will need help in coping.
Love it💓💓 and you, keep bringing it!!
That speech needs to be published for other people to use in similar situations. It’s perfect!
The mean friend who was dating the brother-in-law is probably in love with OP's husband. Why else would she get so nasty after her friend started dating him?
Hey Charlotte! Have a great day! 🤗
The first one feels more like a cry for help. His cousin shouldn't of both betrayed him and then tried to force a forgiveness on this poor guy.
The way he explains that he was wavering and not sure if he did the right thing seems to indicate that he was more wanting people to 'hear him'. I'm betting he has felt isolated and depressed for a long time. I don't know if doing this would of helped or opened wounds, for him.
I hope he goes to counseling 🥺
The first story brought he so much joy. The pettiness in me makes me grin from ear to ear
These videos just really prove to me that my fiancé and I are making the right decision to go get married without having to deal with a bunch of people. 😂
At my cousins wedding, a?questionable guests who the whole family was on the fence about even inviting, showed up at the reception in a completely sheer dress, nothing underneath, dragged the groom to the dance floor before the bride and groom dance, pulled a garter from her thigh and wrapped it around the groom's head. She went from man to man all evening and made so many scenes. My cousin, who I swear lives in a Disney environment in her mind, just kept laughing and saying "oh it's just her way of having fun." My date for the wedding sensed my mother's upset and suggested we leave right after the meal, and he took me and mom to her favorite ice cream place for a raspberry sundae. The groom was upset, his very high class, church-going family was upset, but my cousin just laughed. There were many questions if my cousin was on meds or something that kept her so up when everything was going down.
Well if the "guest" was trying to bring the bride down, the bride was going to ignore that and have a good time anyway. Probably "annoyed" the guest to no end.
sug, in public, a class act does Not show how much they want to have a come-to-Maury cat fight with a piece of trailer trash that rolls in.
in My esteem, your cousin is, indeed, a class act. she may have shredded some throw pillows and screamed to make a bansidhe jealous when she was alone, but she'd be damned if she'd let the trash have what was Her day.
For the marriage thing, I was sure the guy, being the best man would have said "yes" after the question " if there is someone against this marriage, speak now or shut forever" (or something like that)
This is why my husband and I, who had both been married before, got married with just our immediate family members! I have had the experience of a princess wedding and I didn’t feel a need to do any of that over! We were in our early 30’s and frankly our family members were way more important to us. So glad we did, and we got a to avoid all of the drama!! Much love from Oklahoma 💗💗💗
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