Bright Eyes - It's Cool, We Can Still Be Friends

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  • čas přidán 27. 12. 2014
  • Apologies in advance for the shitty quality of the image but I couldn't find any better and bigger size. I noticed that the internet lacked of a decent version of this song and I decided to upload it, so you all could be sad and misserable. Don't thank me. Needless to say, I do not own any rights of this, I'm just promoting music.
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Komentáře • 212

  • @Julia-qu1tt
    @Julia-qu1tt Před rokem +152

    I have such vivid memories of being 16 and piss drunk on my parent's whiskey, sobbing and screaming this song alone in my bedroom.

    • @a.evelyn5498
      @a.evelyn5498 Před rokem +12

      Me too. I’m 29 now & it hurts man. I miss that kind of torment when I still felt capable of loving people. Lol

    • @rbpeak6737
      @rbpeak6737 Před rokem +6

      Me too man I thought I was hot shit because I could play 4 chords on guitar

    • @hannahsackin2146
      @hannahsackin2146 Před rokem +5

      me too, but vodka. i scream cried to this song when i was heartbroken for the first time. the memories are so vivid and unavoidable. they haunt me.

    • @angelxspell
      @angelxspell Před 8 měsíci +1

      you so real for that. i am still getting piss drunk, sobbing, and screaming this song alone in my bedroom tbh.

    • @mahaliacampbell8768
      @mahaliacampbell8768 Před 7 měsíci +1

      came here to say this verbatim

  • @LilyBrownlivingforEGG
    @LilyBrownlivingforEGG Před rokem +265

    When the hard seltzer starts tasting like this song I know it’s time to go to bed

  • @hen0sis
    @hen0sis Před 10 měsíci +54

    after 10 years its time to listen to this one again

  • @jayleencrier5541
    @jayleencrier5541 Před 11 měsíci +62

    Went from "First day of my life" to "It's cool we can still be friends"..... It's for the best

    • @pksegrin
      @pksegrin Před měsícem

      My brother, I went from "First Day of My Life" to "Persona Non Grata" 12 years ago and I'm still not the same

    • @focampo5672
      @focampo5672 Před měsícem +1

      ⁠@@pksegrinwanna talk about it

    • @pksegrin
      @pksegrin Před měsícem

      @@focampo5672 well, I'm 12 years removed from the events. ...that doesn't explain the warm feelings of dopamine I get thinking about the good times 🤔

  • @emilydeibert24
    @emilydeibert24 Před 5 měsíci +15

    Oh my goodness.. Listening to this 20 (ish) years later and it still hits the same. So grateful for this band my whole life.

  • @brycekopp1012
    @brycekopp1012 Před 4 měsíci +10

    I mean this in the most positive way possible, but I’d be so happy if I never had to come back to this song ever again.

  • @cowsnot
    @cowsnot Před 8 lety +132

    Love this song just hate this feeling. It's so well explained

  • @julietasuarez6530
    @julietasuarez6530 Před 3 lety +46

    Asked for the saddest songs they could remember on my timeline. One friend sent me here, jeez, we got a winner.

    • @mop_dadoor8024
      @mop_dadoor8024 Před 3 lety +2

      Gagging order by radiohead is probably one of the saddest songs i know

  • @samuelsoteloavila
    @samuelsoteloavila Před rokem +20

    This made me go from Bright Eyes to Teary Eyes to Sobbing Eyes

  • @amber3189
    @amber3189 Před rokem +65

    After 8 years, this song still burns just as much

    • @lilyfernandez7120
      @lilyfernandez7120 Před rokem

      It hurts so bad

    • @rbpeak6737
      @rbpeak6737 Před rokem

      i wasn’t prepared, I forgot how hard that last line hits me.
      “Pass out, forget your face, by the time I wake up”

    • @PeterBacon
      @PeterBacon Před 10 měsíci

      Yes

  • @z1ngzong
    @z1ngzong Před 5 měsíci +7

    I feel so young reading these comments, everyone has such vivid memories of this song and im hearing it for the first time...i guess I'll come back in 20 years with memories to share :)

    • @terrythegnome2408
      @terrythegnome2408 Před 4 měsíci +3

      it doesn't get easier but life gets better around it.

  • @coolbeans1717
    @coolbeans1717 Před rokem +36

    Long day today. This song came into my head. Came here, Read the Comments, and now don't feel so alone. Haven't spoken to anyone here or anything just knowing im not the only human hurting helps

    • @worstdayever
      @worstdayever Před rokem +1

      me too buddy. thanks for existing right here as well.

    • @dzzydstruction2
      @dzzydstruction2 Před rokem

      Same here mate. Keep your head up!

    • @mattkornfeld2967
      @mattkornfeld2967 Před 11 měsíci +2

      I am going to read this comment on my radio show. It’s perfectly said.

    • @pandaberserk3390
      @pandaberserk3390 Před 11 měsíci

      its nice to know we arent alone in this feeling is what i found in this music.

  • @sonotthatcool
    @sonotthatcool Před rokem +42

    Listened to this in high school after break ups, now in my 30s while getting divorced. 😔

    • @sebass408
      @sebass408 Před 10 měsíci +3

      Hope your doing alright bro. Day at a time .. 😢 shit isn’t easy.. three years later …… and I still wear my heart on the sleeve for the family I had to walk away from …..

    • @sonotthatcool
      @sonotthatcool Před 10 měsíci

      it's been a few months but i'm doing okay. i set some boundaries with my ex and it's been better since he's not messaging me every day anymore. @@sebass408

    • @lilyfernandez7120
      @lilyfernandez7120 Před 5 měsíci

      Me too its so heartbreaking

  • @m1jime
    @m1jime Před rokem +45

    The first song I ever heard from Bright Eyes. Got it from my brother. Even though I’ve never been in a relationship, I love everything about this song

    • @jonathangentry1273
      @jonathangentry1273 Před rokem +3

      Come back once you have been and it's ended, you're gonna love and hate this song at the same time.

    • @sabrinaxraquel
      @sabrinaxraquel Před 6 měsíci

      Same. Not the brother part but... First bright eyes song i heard. If only i knew.... I'm so grateful this day for being introduced to bright eyes and Conor. I have other favorite music but.... Nothing compares. Bright eyes is my one true love.

  • @focampo5672
    @focampo5672 Před měsícem +1

    Yeah this still brings up the feelings. This really made the pain bubble to my chest when i was 17. About 6 years ago go for me

  • @Mrstevenstrange13
    @Mrstevenstrange13 Před rokem +9

    I Hate how bittersweet heartache can be. Letting things go can be difficult and my perspective can be so stubborn, Why does the feeling of laying in it feels so pure and addicting? Oh to be alive and feeling!

  • @user-nv8iv9ww1w
    @user-nv8iv9ww1w Před 10 měsíci +9

    This song physically hurts...
    Still listened to it on repeat for 4 hours straight🤷‍♀️

  • @alylimez
    @alylimez Před rokem +24

    I have been having the most unfortunate luck with love. This song brings me comfort letting me know I am not alone.

    • @devinhinnant8217
      @devinhinnant8217 Před 11 měsíci

      You may feel alone, but know that you never are. It's okay to feel alone, but remember us....standing here invisibly with you.

    • @pixieofpeace3398
      @pixieofpeace3398 Před 9 měsíci

      love is everywhere:-)

  • @jameshernandez6587
    @jameshernandez6587 Před rokem +16

    lyrics
    Yeah, you still kiss me, but it's just on the cheek
    Yeah, you still kiss me, but it's just on the cheek
    Yeah, you still kiss me sometimes, but it's just on the cheek
    You pull away so easily
    And I still call you, but I get your machine
    And I still call you, but I get your machine
    And if I'm lucky I guess, I get your roommate answering
    But you're at the bar, or at Gene's
    And we go to dinner, but you won't hold my hand
    We sit at the same table, but we don't play with our feet
    Yeah, we still go to dinner sometimes, but we don't sneak a kiss
    When the waitress turns around
    And we still watch movies, but we don't share the couch
    And we still rent movies, but we don't share the couch
    Yeah, we still watch movies sometimes, but you don't lay in my lap
    The plot is slow, take a nap
    And you even stay over, but now we stay in our clothes
    Yeah, you'll even sleep over, but now we stay in our clothes
    Yeah, you even sleep over sometimes, but we stay in our clothes
    I'm only there so that you're not alone
    And you say that I hurt you, in a voice like a prayer
    Yeah, you say that I've hurt you, and your voice is like a prayer
    Yeah, well maybe I hurt you sometimes, but let's contrast and compare
    Lift up your shirt, the wound isn't there
    I guess that your truth, is just the ghost of your lies
    I guess your kind of truth, is just the ghost of your lies
    Yeah, your kind of truth, darling, is just the ghost of your lies
    I see through them all the time
    So I'm pouring some whiskey, I'm gonna get drunk
    Yeah, I'm pouring myself some whiskey, I'm going to get really fucking drunk
    I'm pouring some whiskey right now, I'm going to get so, so drunk
    That I pass out, forget your face, by the time I wake up

  • @alannahood4107
    @alannahood4107 Před 3 lety +48

    i want to give everyone in this comment section a hug

  • @markmunzer4090
    @markmunzer4090 Před rokem +16

    How does this song still make my heart do the butterfly thing? I miss you Ashley, hope you're happy

  • @MikeHawk728
    @MikeHawk728 Před 20 dny +1

    Well I never thought the lyrics would apply to my life, but here I am. Cheers.

  • @yahstino
    @yahstino Před 16 dny +1

    Andddd 3 years later back again. I dont think i feel anything anymore

  • @dearrratboy
    @dearrratboy Před měsícem +1

    In an effort to find Cassadaga many, many years ago, I accidentally downloaded this track via Limewire. I was so confused, as I was new to this artist and genre, and thought it was this extremely special, raw, real piece of music I'd found. To this day, I believe it to be so. I could never find it again for the longest time, but I always remembered it. Thank you for uploading this, as it keeps existing in this strange sort of limbo of music mind as I remember my youth.

  • @nicknickson3650
    @nicknickson3650 Před 19 dny +1

    Renting movies and answering machines; dang this song is old. Still, beautiful.

  • @slug_girl9104
    @slug_girl9104 Před měsícem +1

    every time this song ends I just gotta stop and sit in silence for awhile

  • @gerbycat
    @gerbycat Před rokem +21

    I will listen to this on repeat until it stops hurting

    • @riven311
      @riven311 Před rokem +8

      Rest of your life is a really long time mate.

    • @gerbycat
      @gerbycat Před rokem +5

      @@riven311 it still hurts

    • @pandaberserk3390
      @pandaberserk3390 Před 11 měsíci +2

      when it doesn't stop play at the bottom of everything

    • @gerbycat
      @gerbycat Před 11 měsíci +1

      update: still hurts

    • @HorkPorkler
      @HorkPorkler Před 3 měsíci +1

      When it does go away, it will come back forever, on and off.

  • @michelleallen6552
    @michelleallen6552 Před 4 měsíci +1

    This song hits just as hard now as it did the first time I heard it almost 20 years ago 💔

  • @shortiedex
    @shortiedex Před 5 měsíci +4

    Brings me back to being 19

  • @officialgloomybaby
    @officialgloomybaby Před rokem +10

    never heard a song hurt so bad

  • @dduuddeechil
    @dduuddeechil Před rokem +12

    Ah shit, here we go again

  • @tobeamongstanimals
    @tobeamongstanimals Před 11 dny +1

    Teenage favorite of mine. Nehalem does a beautiful cover, do recommend.

  • @TheMachinesWon
    @TheMachinesWon Před rokem +7

    Why are we all so emo?…that’s right, it’s bright eyes’ fault ❤

  • @slarbiter
    @slarbiter Před 4 lety +16

    Awesome she found a date to bring to my family gatherings

  • @brookelanziner
    @brookelanziner Před 7 lety +8

    I love this song!!! thank you for posting it :)

  • @HjalmarFerner
    @HjalmarFerner Před rokem +19

    Well shit, back here again.

    • @helfyah
      @helfyah Před rokem +2

      Hi, let’s be the more positive, productive and caring as we can (:
      Have a nice day!

    • @sspetrou102
      @sspetrou102 Před rokem +1

      I’m here on my birthday

  • @riversmapes6736
    @riversmapes6736 Před 6 lety +85

    This is literally what is happening to me right now. My boyfriend of over a year just broke up with me and we are remaining friends. I still come over and we watch movies but we still cuddle and hug and it’s so confusing and because he says he only wants to be my friend. I know it isn’t healthy for me but I can’t stop seeing him 💔

    • @emmared624
      @emmared624 Před 5 lety +11

      Rivers Mapes i hope it’s better now

    • @lauralaurent4063
      @lauralaurent4063 Před 4 lety +7

      Hopefully you told him to kick rocks. I’ve been there and I know it’s hard but you deserve so much better than that.

    • @auto144p6
      @auto144p6 Před 3 lety +8

      dont hate yourself for it. relationships are weird and difficult and effort. you learn as you get more. youll share great times and memories with someone again. dont worry. you got this.

    • @thatONEmachine
      @thatONEmachine Před 2 lety +9

      I know this is 4 years old but it's happening to me now. "I'm only there so you're not alone". Hope all is better for you now

    • @codeknox4632
      @codeknox4632 Před rokem +1

      🤦🏾‍♂️

  • @Xanthopathy
    @Xanthopathy Před rokem +7

    another upload of this got deleted for no reason, thanks bro

    • @Xanthopathy
      @Xanthopathy Před rokem

      such a good song to play with the guitar

  • @peterzotti6430
    @peterzotti6430 Před 3 měsíci

    This song always hurts the same... Since 2008 when we stopped loving and I stopped living...

  • @nicknova703
    @nicknova703 Před 2 měsíci +1

    I just want all the lonely hearts here to get responsibly shit faced one good time, and the next morning wash it off, strap your shoes on and go try again, we all have to keep trying our best

  • @user-kq9fd8qg6y
    @user-kq9fd8qg6y Před 7 lety +40

    This describes everything right now. Will this ever change?

    • @cody8356
      @cody8356 Před 7 lety +12

      Zailyn T. Everything changes with time, you'll forget about this whether you want to or not.

    • @trin1464
      @trin1464 Před 7 lety +4

      did it??

    • @jacobmorales323
      @jacobmorales323 Před 6 lety +6

      Zailyn Todasco hey bud how are you now?

    • @Adam-up2cc
      @Adam-up2cc Před 6 lety +1

      I hope so

    • @user-eg5wl2nv3q
      @user-eg5wl2nv3q Před 5 lety +2

      Well? Has it?

  • @sspetrou102
    @sspetrou102 Před rokem +2

    I can’t find the comment, but when you’re here again F. I’m here with you.

  • @TheCerealluvr
    @TheCerealluvr Před 6 lety +10

    This is what my life would be like with a partner, if I had a love life. Depressing.

  • @v.bright7123
    @v.bright7123 Před rokem +1

    Virtual living my best life because by listening to music/ artists' works like this song I get to avoid the firsthand experience irl. Unfortunately irl one sided love of the one I deem most special, he never called me but will like my social media comments to his post just like he does others.

  • @mattcaselles
    @mattcaselles Před 3 lety +19

    I felt this way about my ex, now she's trying to take our kid away from me and I can't stand the sight of her. Oh how time changes things.

    • @dayarodriguez8271
      @dayarodriguez8271 Před 2 lety +4

      i hope everything worked out for you in the end

    • @mattcaselles
      @mattcaselles Před 2 lety +17

      @@dayarodriguez8271 Thank you very much. I won in court and got primary placement, the mom moved the 1200 miles away. Now I get everyday with our daughter. I have the best life ever.

    • @dayarodriguez8271
      @dayarodriguez8271 Před 2 lety +4

      @@mattcaselles thats amazing, im happy to hear that ❤

    • @mattcaselles
      @mattcaselles Před 2 lety +2

      @@dayarodriguez8271 thank you very much :)

  • @samonthewest
    @samonthewest Před 4 měsíci +2

    If you came here to listen to this, I’m sorry 🫂

  • @justanotherdump-ft5rf
    @justanotherdump-ft5rf Před měsícem +2

    Why cant i find this in spotifyyyyyy

  • @ihaveacreeplingdepression5708

    powerful sir !

  • @LittleFabrizio
    @LittleFabrizio Před 9 měsíci +1

    I remember being here when i wasn’t loved.

  • @SinistarsHunger
    @SinistarsHunger Před 2 měsíci

    I know I'm not the only person who has listened to this one ten times in a row after a bad breakup/divorce

  • @yrantiquebrand
    @yrantiquebrand Před 2 měsíci

    here we go again.

  • @pixieofpeace3398
    @pixieofpeace3398 Před 9 měsíci +3

    im going to frow up

  • @user-rg7hk6hf7p
    @user-rg7hk6hf7p Před 5 měsíci

    This is why I had a messed up childhood

  • @nerysanchez1180
    @nerysanchez1180 Před rokem +5

    2005... I still remember you Robin....b#$@*

    • @fobo3361
      @fobo3361 Před rokem

      What'd Robin do to ya? If you dont mind me asking

    • @nerysanchez1180
      @nerysanchez1180 Před rokem +1

      @@fobo3361 she did enough -_-

    • @fobo3361
      @fobo3361 Před rokem

      @@nerysanchez1180 damn i feel you bro😔

  • @chowmei6332
    @chowmei6332 Před rokem +4

    i’m so drunk and sad rn

  • @ILikeEggsMmmk
    @ILikeEggsMmmk Před rokem +2

    Checking on the folks in the comments. We okay? Big hugs

  • @laureng3889
    @laureng3889 Před rokem +10

    I hate that this describes my marriage. I WANT A DIVORCE

    • @ammescarex3590
      @ammescarex3590 Před rokem

      Sending love sissy

    • @darklordofkickingass
      @darklordofkickingass Před rokem

      Hope you get whatever makes you happy, and if it's divorce, go for it!

    • @user-rg7hk6hf7p
      @user-rg7hk6hf7p Před 5 měsíci

      I am just seeing this 10 months later, and I hope you are in a better place

  • @Holeeschiite
    @Holeeschiite Před 7 lety +32

    It sounds like he's about to cry ;o;

    • @caifabe8050
      @caifabe8050 Před 4 lety +9

      He is in the last verse. You can tell.

    • @autinlee3964
      @autinlee3964 Před 4 lety +5

      @amanda cggang kinda the point

  • @dominicmagallanes285
    @dominicmagallanes285 Před rokem +1

    The bitter sweet of a toxic relationship when both parties are at fault lol ohhh! ...Connor, who hurt you?

  • @ahsatan8997
    @ahsatan8997 Před rokem +1

    This is to you Mitch, the ex that got away and moved in with an invalid girl when you told me you’d never live with a girl. Glad we’re still friends. Yup.

  • @karabartley
    @karabartley Před 5 měsíci

    And I still call you, but I get your machine.

  • @matthewhill5895
    @matthewhill5895 Před 4 měsíci +1

    Miss you Alyssa.

  • @olly9685
    @olly9685 Před 3 měsíci

    so many times I've been on the conor oberst side of this song. for the first time I'm now on the side of the girl he's singing to, and it still hurts just as bad

  • @MrPhantasmagorio
    @MrPhantasmagorio Před rokem +1

    yeah, I can't be friends

  • @white-star-line
    @white-star-line Před 6 lety +15

    Lift up your shirt.

  • @dangerfield6855
    @dangerfield6855 Před 7 měsíci

    So I'm drinking some trulys! Gonna get real f'n drunk!

  • @taborgreat
    @taborgreat Před rokem

    😞

  • @alexisflores7066
    @alexisflores7066 Před 8 lety +11

    does anyone know any songs like this one...??

  • @TheHarrisontemple
    @TheHarrisontemple Před 2 lety +10

    My girlfriend sent me the song once I never spoke to her again.

  • @jolearhae1508
    @jolearhae1508 Před 2 měsíci +1

    fking owww

  • @alcidesarnaud
    @alcidesarnaud Před 4 měsíci

    odio tener que entrar a youtube a escuchar esta canción porque no está ni spotify ni en tidal

  • @audreys4404
    @audreys4404 Před 3 lety +3

    :(

  • @nicks_wild_life
    @nicks_wild_life Před rokem +3

    It was all my fault.

  • @HorkPorkler
    @HorkPorkler Před 3 měsíci +1

    4:51

  • @DrJbaggins
    @DrJbaggins Před měsícem

    This video’s link is the last message I sent to my ex.

  • @onean6949
    @onean6949 Před 3 lety +9

    I'm in love with my best friend, but now i know that feeling will never be shared. It's all I ever wanted. I hope I'm dead tomorrow. I don't know what to do. I love her so much and it hurts.

    • @onean6949
      @onean6949 Před 3 lety +3

      why the fuck couldn't i have been the guy she loves

    • @aidenchu4995
      @aidenchu4995 Před 2 lety +2

      You’ll be okay bud

    • @mattcaselles
      @mattcaselles Před 2 lety +6

      Chances are youll feel this way about several people throughout your lifetime. Time passes and feelings change

    • @Anthony-uy5bj
      @Anthony-uy5bj Před rokem

      i hope you’re still alive

    • @devinhinnant8217
      @devinhinnant8217 Před 11 měsíci

      Please let us know if you've moved on

  • @hillarywhite7476
    @hillarywhite7476 Před 4 měsíci

    Uhh depressed

  • @medapbh
    @medapbh Před rokem +2

    Pois é..

  • @skellvarnsen23
    @skellvarnsen23 Před rokem

    never

  • @skellingtonmeteoryballoon

    c’mon now. just promoting music or subliminal promoting our sadness and misery ?
    lol
    don’t answer this.

  • @LelaHeplerthecat
    @LelaHeplerthecat Před 4 měsíci

    fuck this

  • @DisconnectedAutomaton
    @DisconnectedAutomaton Před rokem +1

    Not as good as original upload

  • @ZEROSTRATUS
    @ZEROSTRATUS Před 2 lety +2

    madre mía que horrible voz... :S