Insightful Exchange S1E13 - Why a Man Leave a Woman he dated for years & marry someone he just met?

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  • čas přidán 12. 06. 2024
  • #abusiverelationships #relationships #independent
    Mr Elijah Masubelele and Mr Lemon in discussion on Why men leave a woman they have dated for years just to marry someone they just met a few months ago.
    Production: Studios: Busang Studios
    Host: Elijah Masubelele
    Host: Lemon Phiri
    Videographer: Refiloe Molepo
    Editing: Refiloe Molepo
    Assistant: Thabo Makau
    Producer: DJ Busang
    Recorded at Busang Studios - +27733161331
    #Busangstudios, #relationships #independent women #providers #newnormal #maritallifeproblems #marriage #family #self-help #counseling #genderbasedviolence #abusiverelationships #abusivewoman

Komentáře • 32

  • @boniswalekhuleni9267
    @boniswalekhuleni9267 Před 5 dny +3

    This was very interesting and insightful. Had to subscribe because the English was Englishing on this podcast jerrr lol

  • @lindiwemnisi922
    @lindiwemnisi922 Před 5 dny +2

    Thank you so much , this is deep and all women must lesson to this 🙏

  • @DimakatsoG
    @DimakatsoG Před 10 dny +10

    Yes, research shows that a man knows whether you are the one for him within six months of meeting him. If he is all silent about taking the relationship to the next level, you should start being weary of his presence in your life. So ladies, wise up and stop bearing children for men eho kept you for more than six months without him mentioning what he intends to do with you at least. He will leave you with those children and it is not nice at all. You remain with pain. Wise up. This thing cannot continue like this, it is traumatizing innocent children who then experience absent father syndrome where they know he is somewhere giving his all to another family that he loves more. Truth does hurt sometimes. The world is upside down due to wrong relationships and wrong child bearing. Have children intentionally with someone you love not someone you despise in someway.

    • @ntokotoPM
      @ntokotoPM Před 9 dny

      ❤️

    • @LemonTheApostle
      @LemonTheApostle Před 4 dny +2

      You spoke mouthful, yet it is not always that easy to move out of a relationship. The mind and the heart will most of the time contradict each other; most people suppress the mind when it brings reality of the relationship that will not work and then the heart will rake over by letting you remain with the man that is not going to give you any furture because one will claim to be in love.
      But sometimes, other man can hide it so well that you will never notice that he is not going to marry you. But we know that sometimes a man might have known that he will marry you but be blinded by another woman.

    • @DrElijahMasubelele
      @DrElijahMasubelele Před 11 hodinami

      Well said.

  • @ephraimchingarande2068
    @ephraimchingarande2068 Před 9 dny +1

    Loads of wisdom shared here, thank you Pastor Lemon Phiri

  • @rosettamphou380
    @rosettamphou380 Před 3 dny +1

    Thank you gentlemen, you confirmed so much for me in my story and my thoughts 🙏🏾

  • @Lizzie_Nghitu
    @Lizzie_Nghitu Před 8 dny +1

    Wow! This is well explained, love from Namibia🇳🇦

  • @PanaNorBobo
    @PanaNorBobo Před 8 dny +4

    I'm so regretful because it took me 17 yearswaiting for marriage, with 3 kids later.......only left this year when there was another woman in the picture permanently. I am shattered, thank you gentlemen for at least making me see how foolish I have been 💔

    • @soflamonama8887
      @soflamonama8887 Před 4 dny +2

      You were not foolish, you had good intentions, unfortunately it's his loss. Take it as a lesson, you are not a fool. God will heal your heart. Stay strong.

    • @DrElijahMasubelele
      @DrElijahMasubelele Před 10 hodinami

      You haven't been foolish. You wanted to build with someone who was not ready for you. You will find someone who appreciates you. Take the lessons from the 17 years when going into the next one. All the best.

  • @nompiloangelmakamo5414
    @nompiloangelmakamo5414 Před 6 dny +1

    Had to subscribe 🎉

  • @amosmagubeza7260
    @amosmagubeza7260 Před 12 dny +1

    I love the comversation

  • @Roseofnomansland201
    @Roseofnomansland201 Před 8 dny +1

    THE best analysis and explanation of a man's reasoning process. Thank you.

  • @annegachanja3468
    @annegachanja3468 Před 10 dny +1

    insightful.

  • @bafana308
    @bafana308 Před 7 dny +2

    As a man, I can tell you that some women don't have the wife mentality. they will make a good girlfriend but not a good wife. A wife material type of a woman will let you know that they are serious a looking for marriage from day one. If you are a player you will stay away from such a woman because you will not get much, and if you fall for her you will know that only marriage will keep her.

    • @DrElijahMasubelele
      @DrElijahMasubelele Před 10 hodinami

      Good assessment, as long as we string a non-wife material along.

  • @elsenmalingue1544
    @elsenmalingue1544 Před 12 dny +2

    What if this situation happened to a married couple what should this woman do to be out of such a situation.

  • @user-jh8pc7iu8h
    @user-jh8pc7iu8h Před 6 dny +1

    powerfull Topic indeed.

  • @josh_dat-guy4891
    @josh_dat-guy4891 Před dnem

    Am guilty🤞. Bn dating someone for 5 years now, its a long time right. I saw a lot of potential in her bt not everything was right for us...like we weren't that connected n boom, met someone lately...from the first conversation l felt she was the one...we can talk for hrs n never get tired, have bn ticking all the boxes with double ticks...l know she is the one🤞🤞🤞

    • @DrElijahMasubelele
      @DrElijahMasubelele Před 11 hodinami +1

      Good for you. Also, remember that all new relationships can be the ones until we get to know the person and start to doubt if they are the one. However, please be good to her. Love is beautiful.

    • @josh_dat-guy4891
      @josh_dat-guy4891 Před 8 hodinami

      @@DrElijahMasubelele thank you so much for the wise words🤝🤝🤝

  • @mziwonkexola3707
    @mziwonkexola3707 Před 9 dny +1

    Zyakhala ke manje