3 Things Men Can't Resist in a Woman
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- čas přidán 1. 01. 2010
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Practice these 3 simple little tips and you'll be surprised at the attention you start to get.
1. A Woman Who Smiles (more powerful than you might realize)
A woman who smiles makes it easier for a man to approach her by conveying an attitude of confidence, warmth and playfulness. Since many women are fearful of giving men the wrong impression, they frequently guard their smiles. If the only knew that smiling is one of the things men can't resist. While this approach is safer, it inadvertently sends the wrong message that she is someone who is overly cautious because she has been hurt. In addition, smiling is a sign of acceptance. Men often need some signal that it is safe to approach a woman before they're willing to risk introducing themselves (unless they are intoxicated).
2. A Woman Who Listens (instead of dominating the conversation)
Women are generally perceived as rarely really listening to men, at least not beyond a few minutes. Most of the time, a few minutes is all men really need. But since most men hate to be rejected, it is easier for them to keep conversations superficial. Men expect most women to want to talk, rather than be willing to listen. If they happen to meet a woman who listens with her eyes (looks at him while he's talking) as well as her ears, they are intrigued. If she continues to listen and not take over the conversation, she's the kind of woman that men can't resist and want to spend more time getting to know her better. If fact, this is one of the best things you can do on a first date.
3. A Woman Who Dresses Feminine (men are really visual)
Everyone knows that men are visual. However, women often forget just how helpless men are to what they see. The right visual stimulation can hypnotize any man. Unfortunately, women hear this and often become fearful. They mistakenly believe that men only notice perfect women. Forget perfect! In spite of what you read about in magazines, men don't expect a woman to be perfect. If you really want to be noticed by men, think colors, dresses which highlight your curves. Don't dress to impress your girlfriends, but rather dress like you understand what guys like. Men basically like any woman who has that adorable quality that men can't resist. It isn't that men don't find women attractive in pants or when they are dressed comfortably -- they just don't notice them as easily. It doesn't catch their eye like sparkly earrings, pretty colors or flowing dresses and long hair does. Conversely, a powerfully dressed woman (think lots of red) makes most men think of sex, or not notice her at all. She may have a soft side, but if men can't see it, they often don't know it exists. The more feminine (softer) a woman dresses, the more men she will attract.
Speaking as a man, I can say there is a lot of truth to this. However, there is too much emphasis on externals. I married my wife, whose smile is the sweetest and most charming of any girl, whose curves are the best I have ever seen, not for those things but because she is a virtuous woman whose inner goodness shines as a very bright light to illuminate my life.
I'm a guy and everything said here is spot on! I love how the author makes it sound as if meeting a woman that smiles or listens is the most difficult thing on earth. You know, sometimes it is!
smile is the most powerful weapon on earth :D
so so true. My husband is a lucky man because I love dressing feminine, smiling and listening. He lets me know he appreciates these things in many ways. I would add that a woman needs to be happy without a man first. When both partners care about staying aligned with source and happy, there is true magic!
I am a Woman and I agree with you, totally! When a Woman "smiles" at a Man, that takes a huge burden off of him and feels more "at-ease" to talk to you! When a Woman "listens" to a Man, he becomes more interested in her! When a Woman dresses "feminine", a Man will take notice! My Husband loves when I get dressed-up or put on a dress and heels--and, it makes me feel better too, and knowing that I am the apple of his eye :)
Most, if not all men I have dated have been so talkative to the point where I can't get a word in edge wise! Bizarre...listening was my only option haha!
Eyes!! don't forget eyes :)
I like a man that acts like a godly leader, a good provider, a peaceful person.
This is so true! Relationships are about talking and communication, respect, but most of all feeling comfortable with the other person. The physicality fades after the first few months. Men leave women they do not have a connection with and women do the same.
I agree with zilch re men talk more than women. Always. And they expect eye contact while they do it; but have you seen how their gaze wanders when a woman is talking? even one they supposedly value? some equity would be nice.
I think my biggest issue is not smiling and men get intimated and think I am mean.
When a man approaches me, and gives me eye contact, I give him a smile. I try not to glare, stare or look blank. This guy is on point with his suggestions. So, smile, dress feminine, and listen.....even if he's wrong...lol
#1 and #2 are very important. smiles will totally get guys to start talking to you and listening will definitely get him to keep talking. girls and guys engage in conversations differently. when a girl talks to another girl they feel free to interrupt and chime in whenever. conversations flow quickly. when men talk to each other they give each person time to "have the floor" and don't interrupt. girls aren't used to this so it can be hard to just be quiet and listen sometimes.
Totally agree with this video. It's on point and it's true I go out all the time and when a man looks at me and I don't smile and just look at him they don't come talk to me but as soon as I smile, I guess it does put them at ease and feel more comfortable to approach you. I always dress feminine, I don't listen so maybe I should start
What was said in the video is true. Ladies sit up, watch and learn..........you''ll never regret
i'm not trying to be bitchy, or say all men think this way. i just want people to know, because i've always been ignored by men, because they look at me and think i'm not pretty, without getting to know me. i can't wear dresses or skinnies like other girls, i don't have that kind of figure. but i do know that i'm always willing to offer a smile, and listen when someone wants to talk.
No wonder im alone. All I wear is black jeans with black shirts and I have short hair.
I agree on the first one. On the second one, I think a balance is best between listening and talking. But on the third one, I think this video generalizes a bit too much. I've known guys who specifically find androgynous or even entirely un-feminine women more attractive, and androgynous people report higher levels of happiness overall. I think the sexes and differing people in general can learn from each other.
Sounds great!!! Good to know thank you so much for sharing this!
holy fuck finally some1 that speaks some sense