Why are people in denial that antonyms cannot be synonyms? Why do people think that effort can be the antonym of fail when effort is already the acronym of fail? Why do we lie to ourselves and play stupid when the truth is we don't succeed because we effort, we only succeed when we achieve our purpose. Something effort is done with the intent of achieving, but is typically unsuccessful and is uncertain to succeed. The opposite of fail means succeed. Effort never meant succeed.
I have seen this first hand and could not believe it. My daughter's boyfriend told both my husband and I in front of her that he was not ready for a serious relationship because he wanted to focus on school. When I mentioned it to her later on she denied him saying that. How is that possible? We were at the dinner table talking about the future when he said that. She completely denied it.
@@astro4168 It’s more than that. Were she to accept reality, it would require her to take an action (dumping the bf) that she doesn’t want to take. She has a choice. Face a painful reality, or believe a comforting lie.
Alright then, live the truth that you don't do the antonym of fail because you effort when effort is the acronym of fail and effort's true definition means attempt. Attempt never said you succeed. You don't do the opposite of fail until the effort you do actually makes you SUCCEED.
How does this apply in mass psychosis? How will the minority overcome the psychological trauma conflicted by those who have lost their touch of sense making?
@@ZephyrinSkies Massive damage done, can still be corrected. Not everywhere, but we have to make a start. Step 1. Say NO to WEF policies 2. Legislate autonomy, freedom and going back to normal.
I deal with a person I believe to have denialism. He rejects reality and makes the world the way he want's it to be. When you talk to him, if what you are saying doesn't fit in with his made up world he will 1) Ignore what is being said; or 2) Change and manipulate what's being said so it fits in with his made up world; and if he can't do either and is forced to confront something he will 3) Argue with you about things he knows something about. He also exhibits extreme pessimism. I believe they do this to cope with the reality that they can't read and write and they have had to watch all his family and friends careers far exceed his. Does this sound like Denialism?, How do I handle it?
It’s a good thing my entire life has been perfect then, so I’ve never had to use denial, honestly I’ve literally never had any problems and my life is just the sweetest dream I could ask for. Sucks to be people with issues
This is a very clear, simple (somewhat bouncy??) concise and accurate video. I feel like I could write a book about this! Can you please do a video about book reads on this subject? Thank You for this video!!!! Gunna be watching and listening to this till I can swallow it whole!
Hey, guys, does this sound like denial? I inadvertently offended and condescended my boss, but I didn't mean to, and I don't think I owe her an apology. Heck, I actually don't think I did anything wrong. For context, my college's disability services was hosting a program to educate and prepare high schoolers in Special Ed, who were considering enrolling here. We caterers were serving the food, and every time I saw my boss talking to a high schooler, I would immediately go over there and either a. provide whatever excuse to get her somewhere else, or b, offer my help to the kid. My boss eventually concluded that I was deliberately trying to keep her away from the Special Ed students, and she insisted I tell her what was going on. I reluctantly admitted I was trying to prevent her from potentially saying anything offensive to the learning-disabled kids. How I wasn't sure she would be 100% respectful; that I worried she might question them if they make any honest mistakes (well, honest to disabled learners, not the general population), even if unintentionally. When she expressed her offense at such a judgmental, faithless perspective, I basically said, "I'm sorry, I wasn't trying to hurt your feelings. I was just trying to keep their feelings from getting hurt, just to be on the safe side. I mean, having a learning disability is tough, especially when others don't understand it and make the disabled feel less. They get condescended very easily, and I didn't want them to feel that way." And I know from experience, especially regarding my boss. She once sternly questioned me for putting black linens on the tables for the wedding reception instead of white, the correct color (but in my defense, we usually do black linens for any event, and I don't even generally set the reception linens). Oh, and she was upset I had signed up for a one-person shift. One of our student leader's responsibilities is organizing who works which shifts on the schedule, and my boss scolded him for not noticing I had signed up to go solo. When she asked him if she thought I could do the shift, I answered for him with a firm "yes," because I felt belittled by her. She said she didn't think so, was all "I've told you not to sign up for shifts by yourself, I've been very clear about that, I don't know how much clearer I can get for you to listen" (something like, that, so I'm not perfectly quoting her), and she told me I need someone there to give me instructions and guide me. So _of course_ I didn't want those poor kids to speak with her; if she could say what she said to me, what the heII is she gonna say to teens in Special Ed? I was just trying to protect their pride; it's a tradition for people to undermine it through ridicule or underestimation. My boss needs to learn how far she went, so I think the feeling of being belittled and labeled was good for her (even though it wasn't my intention, of course). I don't think I have anything be sorry for. She merely pushed me to the point it got to, so it's _her_ fault. So my question is, am I in the traditional state of denial where I'm doing more wrong than right?
Problem with that. You are in denial that effort can fail. Effort means attempt and attempt doesn't mean work when attempt is the acronym of fail and work is the antonym of fail. Just say attempt correctly. Attempt can fail. Work means succeed. You should know this by now.
Haha reminds me of my mom. I just told her she’s in denial being all happy go lucky and putting on a face to distract that her husband is a basket case anger volcano throwing tantrums for needs not met.
Thank you very much this is insightful and I am in denial of love for the past 17 years to accept love as a virgin at 42 years yes I am blind and a fool to reality. I am sorry to the people and myself I feel trapped I need help. Hopefully love to a good women.
I was gonna ask "so all of this describes me but I don't know what I'm in denial about. I feel like I'm being very reasonable" but I think I viewed what denial is incorrectly. Denial is being bombarded with a problem and not fixing it so you developed these symptoms to coup, not seeing the problem at all is delusion maybe. Face and act on the problem constructively and effectively.
Good job bro keep it up , am intrested in denial on more vast point of view for example could a hall society be in denial situation of somthing ? If any one have some scientefic articles about this it would so great
I came here to learn how to be in more denial not to get out lol. When you are dealing with narcissists denial is what you want, because opposite of denial is confession and these people are very glad to see you confess, so you become blamed one and they just remain blameless lying victims. Oh well..
🤔i use to be in denial about my sexuality, in time i turned to God and im quite confident i will be healed from sexual immoral ventures. This next one is tricky. I am in denial about my physical appearance. I carry myself well and and is in good shape and gaining muscle, and clean cut when tbings get crazy, and tall. When i look in the mirror i do not see a bad looking guy, even handsome when i get my style in order, but yet, i am rejected and looked over by women 🤔. Confusing because I do not know the truth, maybe it is my personality? Maybe it is my looks? I am saying this out of confusion. Nobody has the balls to tell me lol. It would need to be an unbiased person. or maybe there is no truth.
re: 10,00 the church pls look at ur own denial of the paradigm. which is? It's like the goldilocks idea of the universe -- how everythng is ''just right'' so that ''life had a chance to flourish'' duuuuuuuuuuuuuh no. it is just that on its way to entropy the universe inevitably passes through this split second of goldilocks stability, lookimng like forever to our wee eye. Nothing was set up by anything nor anybody, it's just a moment. Similarly, the entire point of the catholic church is pedophilia and the surrounding paraphernalia is a constructed goldilocks of apparent stability. It is not that pedophilia just came out of those ''just right'' conditions, as you describe ---- 'scuse the repetition (all three bears went down on abuse charges btw). If you weren't in denial regards that fish/water paradigm you would see what is going on.
Amazing!!! Sending this off to my Social Worker, trying to label me as mentally unstable for denial of incompetence. I have been through so many books and the more I dig in, I am able to piece the originality of the problem with society into one. Thank you so much!!!
I wanted to like this but its just wrong in that you’re not organized well. Its presented as if these are categories of denial but consequences are throw in. Also, positivity doesn’t always indicate denial and neither does incongruence. Keep reading and trying. I know you can improve. Also, have a focused intention. 🫶
The Shining would've been a completely different movie if the Torrances weren't in a constant state of denial. What do you guys think?
Why are people in denial that antonyms cannot be synonyms? Why do people think that effort can be the antonym of fail when effort is already the acronym of fail? Why do we lie to ourselves and play stupid when the truth is we don't succeed because we effort, we only succeed when we achieve our purpose. Something effort is done with the intent of achieving, but is typically unsuccessful and is uncertain to succeed. The opposite of fail means succeed. Effort never meant succeed.
I read this book when I was an adolescent and I did not pick up on any of this. This video makes me want to go and buy the book!
Hey man are you a psychologist? If so can I book an appointment with you
I have seen this first hand and could not believe it. My daughter's boyfriend told both my husband and I in front of her that he was not ready for a serious relationship because he wanted to focus on school. When I mentioned it to her later on she denied him saying that. How is that possible? We were at the dinner table talking about the future when he said that. She completely denied it.
That was too painful for her, she felt unloved.
@@astro4168
It’s more than that. Were she to accept reality, it would require her to take an action (dumping the bf) that she doesn’t want to take.
She has a choice. Face a painful reality, or believe a comforting lie.
If you choose denial, you choose illness... truth heals... when you choose truth, it means that you are not in denial...
Alright then, live the truth that you don't do the antonym of fail because you effort when effort is the acronym of fail and effort's true definition means attempt. Attempt never said you succeed. You don't do the opposite of fail until the effort you do actually makes you SUCCEED.
@@colder8741 Success doesn't happen by chance, success happens by choice...
How does this apply in mass psychosis? How will the minority overcome the psychological trauma conflicted by those who have lost their touch of sense making?
I wonder about that for so many people I know. Massive damage has been inflicted on the world, I don't know how things will look after all this.
@@ZephyrinSkies Massive damage done, can still be corrected. Not everywhere, but we have to make a start. Step 1. Say NO to WEF policies 2. Legislate autonomy, freedom and going back to normal.
That is a good question
Asking the right pandemic questions!!!
Over 99% of humans are in denial...😰😰
ppl really live in denial. Like nigga get therapy
Agreed
@@endcgm9277 Most people believe that the physical world is all there is... that's denial ..!
You're a good honest person. Honesty I see in you above all else.
I'm dealing with somebody in denial. Your video is a great help.
I deal with a person I believe to have denialism. He rejects reality and makes the world the way he want's it to be. When you talk to him, if what you are saying doesn't fit in with his made up world he will 1) Ignore what is being said; or 2) Change and manipulate what's being said so it fits in with his made up world; and if he can't do either and is forced to confront something he will 3) Argue with you about things he knows something about. He also exhibits extreme pessimism. I believe they do this to cope with the reality that they can't read and write and they have had to watch all his family and friends careers far exceed his. Does this sound like Denialism?, How do I handle it?
sounds like narcissism
It’s a good thing my entire life has been perfect then, so I’ve never had to use denial, honestly I’ve literally never had any problems and my life is just the sweetest dream I could ask for. Sucks to be people with issues
This is so spot on, brother. OMG 😲
Mind blown.
It's like you know me.
I need help.
This is a very clear, simple (somewhat bouncy??) concise and accurate video. I feel like I could write a book about this! Can you please do a video about book reads on this subject? Thank You for this video!!!! Gunna be watching and listening to this till I can swallow it whole!
It's disgusting when you see someone deny truth so much it actually DAMAGES you on a biological level!
We are spiritual beings, not biological...
@@buddhaneosiddhananda8499 lmao
Hey, guys, does this sound like denial? I inadvertently offended and condescended my boss, but I didn't mean to, and I don't think I owe her an apology. Heck, I actually don't think I did anything wrong.
For context, my college's disability services was hosting a program to educate and prepare high schoolers in Special Ed, who were considering enrolling here. We caterers were serving the food, and every time I saw my boss talking to a high schooler, I would immediately go over there and either a. provide whatever excuse to get her somewhere else, or b, offer my help to the kid. My boss eventually concluded that I was deliberately trying to keep her away from the Special Ed students, and she insisted I tell her what was going on. I reluctantly admitted I was trying to prevent her from potentially saying anything offensive to the learning-disabled kids. How I wasn't sure she would be 100% respectful; that I worried she might question them if they make any honest mistakes (well, honest to disabled learners, not the general population), even if unintentionally. When she expressed her offense at such a judgmental, faithless perspective, I basically said, "I'm sorry, I wasn't trying to hurt your feelings. I was just trying to keep their feelings from getting hurt, just to be on the safe side. I mean, having a learning disability is tough, especially when others don't understand it and make the disabled feel less. They get condescended very easily, and I didn't want them to feel that way." And I know from experience, especially regarding my boss. She once sternly questioned me for putting black linens on the tables for the wedding reception instead of white, the correct color (but in my defense, we usually do black linens for any event, and I don't even generally set the reception linens). Oh, and she was upset I had signed up for a one-person shift. One of our student leader's responsibilities is organizing who works which shifts on the schedule, and my boss scolded him for not noticing I had signed up to go solo. When she asked him if she thought I could do the shift, I answered for him with a firm "yes," because I felt belittled by her. She said she didn't think so, was all "I've told you not to sign up for shifts by yourself, I've been very clear about that, I don't know how much clearer I can get for you to listen" (something like, that, so I'm not perfectly quoting her), and she told me I need someone there to give me instructions and guide me.
So _of course_ I didn't want those poor kids to speak with her; if she could say what she said to me, what the heII is she gonna say to teens in Special Ed? I was just trying to protect their pride; it's a tradition for people to undermine it through ridicule or underestimation. My boss needs to learn how far she went, so I think the feeling of being belittled and labeled was good for her (even though it wasn't my intention, of course). I don't think I have anything be sorry for. She merely pushed me to the point it got to, so it's _her_ fault. So my question is, am I in the traditional state of denial where I'm doing more wrong than right?
Very nice presentation. Insightful, concise, coherent in plain language that any layman can understand. Good work.
Problem with that. You are in denial that effort can fail. Effort means attempt and attempt doesn't mean work when attempt is the acronym of fail and work is the antonym of fail. Just say attempt correctly. Attempt can fail. Work means succeed. You should know this by now.
"Life doesn't happen TO you, it happens FOR you..." Jim Carrey
This is PERFECT, thank you!
Haha reminds me of my mom. I just told her she’s in denial being all happy go lucky and putting on a face to distract that her husband is a basket case anger volcano throwing tantrums for needs not met.
To fix denial, you must first want to.
Thank you very much this is insightful and I am in denial of love for the past 17 years to accept love as a virgin at 42 years yes I am blind and a fool to reality. I am sorry to the people and myself I feel trapped I need help. Hopefully love to a good women.
I was gonna ask "so all of this describes me but I don't know what I'm in denial about. I feel like I'm being very reasonable" but I think I viewed what denial is incorrectly. Denial is being bombarded with a problem and not fixing it so you developed these symptoms to coup, not seeing the problem at all is delusion maybe. Face and act on the problem constructively and effectively.
Can you please for their elaborate on why you made that comment about Chinese and Koreans at the beginningof the video? Thanks!
Good job bro keep it up , am intrested in denial on more vast point of view for example could a hall society be in denial situation of somthing ? If any one have some scientefic articles about this it would so great
Denial means suffering, goodness isn't denial... truth is good...
I'm totally in denial about denial 🙃 😆
I came here to learn how to be in more denial not to get out lol. When you are dealing with narcissists denial is what you want, because opposite of denial is confession and these people are very glad to see you confess, so you become blamed one and they just remain blameless lying victims. Oh well..
no denial keeps u around the narcissist. Tell urself the truth abt who they are and leave em in the past.
They wanna see you humble down while they can never do it themselves.
Doing bad deeds will make you suffer...
"Does it hurt when you do that? Don't do that..." The Love Guru (movie)
This video is hard carrying my y10 english essay on denial in guardians of the galaxy. XD
Spoted incongruent sign of denial at minute 9:30
So Kanye isn’t bipolar he’s just in denial ?
Oh ya
Denial to enter Love
🤔i use to be in denial about my sexuality, in time i turned to God and im quite confident i will be healed from sexual immoral ventures. This next one is tricky. I am in denial about my physical appearance. I carry myself well and and is in good shape and gaining muscle, and clean cut when tbings get crazy, and tall. When i look in the mirror i do not see a bad looking guy, even handsome when i get my style in order, but yet, i am rejected and looked over by women 🤔. Confusing because I do not know the truth, maybe it is my personality? Maybe it is my looks? I am saying this out of confusion. Nobody has the balls to tell me lol. It would need to be an unbiased person. or maybe there is no truth.
I’m sorry, but if you believe in imaginary beings, you’re in denial.
re: 10,00 the church
pls look at ur own denial of the paradigm.
which is?
It's like the goldilocks idea of the universe -- how everythng is ''just right'' so that ''life had a chance to flourish'' duuuuuuuuuuuuuh
no. it is just that on its way to entropy the universe inevitably passes through this split second of goldilocks stability, lookimng like forever to our wee eye. Nothing was set up by anything nor anybody, it's just a moment.
Similarly, the entire point of the catholic church is pedophilia and the surrounding paraphernalia is a constructed goldilocks of apparent stability. It is not that pedophilia just came out of those ''just right'' conditions, as you describe ---- 'scuse the repetition (all three bears went down on abuse charges btw).
If you weren't in denial regards that fish/water paradigm you would see what is going on.
Fame and fortune... won't stop us suffering... we need to give, if we want to receive...🤪🤪
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I haven't watch The Shinning yet so I couldn't watch this video 'till the end. F u c k
I am in denial about denial 😆
Amazing!!! Sending this off to my Social Worker, trying to label me as mentally unstable for denial of incompetence.
I have been through so many books and the more I dig in, I am able to piece the originality of the problem with society into one.
Thank you so much!!!
I wanted to like this but its just wrong in that you’re not organized well. Its presented as if these are categories of denial but consequences are throw in. Also, positivity doesn’t always indicate denial and neither does incongruence. Keep reading and trying. I know you can improve. Also, have a focused intention. 🫶