Crazy Sister wants to STEAL MY BOYFRIEND from me and MARRY HIM - Reddit Podcast
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0:00 My Crazy Sister is OBSSESSED with my Boyfriend, and wants him to be her husband. (u/ThrowRAsister90)
9:42 I am experiencing some challenges with my 40-year-old Boyfriend, and I honestly don’t know what to do. (u/Some-Girl281)
13:44 My boyfriend is demanding that I make some huge changes in my life, and it’s a lot to take in, leaving me with very little options on what to do. (u/obedient_nihilism)
18:01 My girlfriend has been emotionally cheating on me with one of her coworkers, and I am utterly heartbroken. (u/Noahwar97)
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Can we not just all appreciate in the first story how loyal the Op's boyfriend is
he is what we men should and i mean SHOULD strive to be
Kudos to him.
Fr
@@izuku3111yeah
Lol
The first story. The op needs to show all of messages to her parents and make the sister go to therapy to help her sort out her feelings of being abandoned by her ex-boyfriend and also with her jealous feelings towards others that have it better than her.
Therapy?
Nah mental asylum or mental hospital is the best scenario!
@@Kumo5980 Chill
@@Goldenjking kk but in all seriousness yeah therapy and help is needed for her😅
@@Kumo5980 yeah just maybe not a mental hospital
Wait, but how about a restraining order?
S1: OP’s boyfriend needs to get a restraining order against sister. That will make it clear to entire family what she’s doing and who’s to blame.
Story 1:
There is no actual way your sister is this entitled. The audacity for her to flirt with your boyfriend, and even lock you out of your OWN HOUSE is honestly astonishing. You need to book her into therapy
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Forget therapy, she needs psychiatric help and to lose custody because her behavior is dangerous.
@@LunaP1facts
Have her arrested. She can complain to family from there
Guessing the sister was the favorite child growing up and got used to being able to just take OP’s stuff and walk all over them
For the third story: get out. Get out of there right now! I have an aunt whose husband has demanded the exact same things of her before she married him and now she is trapped with 3 kids, financially on hard times cuz he can’t hold a job and he REFUSES to let her get one, and her mental state is not in a good place! The blessing that finally happened was he drank and smoked hard enough and often that he now has medical conditions preventing him from basically moving and she’s looking to get out. I’m telling you you need to get out of that relationship like yesterday!
I know it’s a year later but I’ve been with my hubs for 26yrs and we had the same issues. But I told him I wouldn’t stand for it. Even left him till he got therapy. So it doesn’t mean you necessarily have to run!
All I can say is, if that guy was mowing MY lawn, I'd fire him in a heartbeat.
Yea
Any idea what the name of that game is?
Same
I thought I was the only one who noticed.. whoever was playing that game, is either a boomer, or must be absolute shit at ALL games cause how TF do you suck so bad at mowing virtual grass?! 😂
@@TheJoeman654321I believe the name of the game running in the background is Lawn Mowing Simulator.
First story, I'm sure the sister was lying about how good her relationship was with the ex just to feel superior lol
My guess.... sister started to show her true colors when OP fi ally got into a stable relationship and the ex bailed as fast as he could.
Story #2: the op should really give herself more time to think this through, if you are able to see red flags this early in the relationship, it's better to let go than to end up suffering because of it. She's younger than him, so there's also the fact that she can set her boundaries by telling him what is she willing to tolerate.
We not talking about the 20 year diff
@@MaxedOutDog09 ikr
The first red flag should be the age difference
People talking like they aren’t 2 grown ass adults who can decide what they want to do 💀
@@blank_zro8025bro the dudes gonna start decomposing by the time the woman hits menopause 💀
If anyone and I mean ANYONE besides your doctor tries to control your medication, fucking leave. That's is not only abusive, but highly unsafe, now ADHD is definitely on the less risky end, but that's incredibly manipulative.
Control, yes. But if there are side effects, especially emotional ones, it's the people who see you day to day who'll be most likely to notice. Then you talk to the doctor about adjustments. I remember when we were dating and my future wife went on birth control. She became hypersensitive to every comment and argued over everything. We got her off them and went with other methods.
That doesn't sound like the case here since he just wants to cut off medications entirely all of a sudden (sounds like he got hooked on some religious or conspiracy theory hook, tbh)
On the first story, op you need to have your boyfriend and you print all that stuff out, cause you can have evidence in case something happens, you need to print out several copies wanted to show your parents what she's doing. Cause you both need to put your foot down hard. stop this crap before it keeps going.
I can relate to the first story. My 1st cousin tried making my bf and I godparents . She started calling him God daddy and was only getting pictures with him and her daughter. My cousin didn't even come around for years. Out of no where she wants to stay with us and tried buttering us up saying that we'd be good parents. I know she was only talking about my bf though. Not the whole story but we cut her off after a couple months of her trying to cling on to us.
Story 1: OP's BF really should've just told the sister that he's only OP's daddy until he becomes a father then screenshot everything and sent it to OP's parents.
Story 2: I don't get why ppl get into relationships before transcending the previous ones. OP really should talk to him about this.
Story 3: meds for you are your decision and yours alone. How did you even get back together after the first break up???? He clearly wants you to be as mentally weak as possible to be controling you.
Story 4: at least try having a conversation with her abt it. If you can't at the first attempt then assert dominance and tell her smthn like "if we can't talk about this then we're through" she'll show her true colors then.
OP’s daddy 🤨🤨🤨
Story 3: As an autistic parent of 2 kids I have to warn you. Be ABSOLUTELY sure you want kids, and make arrangements with the husband (and other family) how he's going to support you with the kids. Autism with work usually works fine, but autism + household can make you go mad and overstimulated all the time. There's going to be noise, sleep deprivation and people needing your attention 24/7 for 10+ years without break if you're the stay at home parent.
And forget having kids + doing study the same time.
Oh, and, well both my kids inherited my autism, one with adhd on top. Be ready for that possibility too
I know my brother has autism too and he never cleans his room it's either me or my mother who clean his room
Autism isn't inherited. It just occurs at random. Even with no history of it in your family tree.
@@Makorze
Absolutely it can be. Both of my daughters, myself and my mother all are "normal passing" autistic. Considering the mothering I received and that I was allowed to provide, I guarantee you that Our parenting styles, skills, attitudes, aptitudes, etc are about 270' apart so there is no nurture (or lack of) component.
With the extremes if differences in our four surroundings during eliminates environment. So tell me what is left huh?
Nature - Genetics
@@Gems-of-Hope-Rocks Actually no. Alot of what causes the changes in Autism have less to do with your genes and more with how the connections in the brain develop.
The thing with Autism us that it rarely happens by itself.
For example you can have someone with a genetic disorder AND autism but people will assume the Autism IS the genetic disorder.
Btw. Doctors arent quite sure WHY autism occurs. Some have speculated it might possibly be caused by mothers contracting illnesses during pregnancy, its this theory lead to some people to start screeching that vaccines cause Autism which is not the case.
Story 3: as someone who is trying to figure out my meds for ADHD and didn’t have it when I really needed it for school, NEVER trust someone who is telling you to get off your meds for them. They can never really understand how the meds help stabilize you. On top of being admitted to a psych ward prior to having these meds situation is a major sign that getting rid of the meds is a bad idea. He is trying to gaslight OP into believing she is an addict for a med that actually helps her, that’s like saying someone is addicted to their insulin or heart meds and needs to stop it
To me the whole wanting her off birth control seems a lot like he's trying to trick her into getting pregnant and then leave her because “she got pregnant on purpose when we both agreed to wait" to make him leaving her seem like her fault
Story 1: I think i know why OP sister got dumped.
OP should really consider going NC with the crazy sister
1st Story: Crazy isn't the word i would use in this story. It's batshit crazy. It's time to cut her off and let her see the error of her ways. Which to be fair won't happen for a long, long time. She doesn't understand or care about your Boundaries and feelings. I do feel for the kid because her mother is batshit insane but there isn't much OP can do but Hope for the best and block her out of her life. She is most likely going to put herself in a situation where she is gonna lose your niece unless she gets some help. It's sad to see but not uncommon in life.
Oh man the gameplay in the background is just painful to watch.
Ikr
Fr
Ikr
What game is it even
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In the first story, the boyfriend should have replied to the sister's texts saying "Uhm I have a Girlfriend"
Story 1 - I'd contact CPS, see if they can force the sister into getting therapy before she does something unhinged and dangerous in an attempt to get OP's boyfriend. Like, I'm worried for the kid there
whoever was mowing that lawn need to be FIRED IMMEDIATELY 😭💀
Story1: Stop being a pushover. Your sister wants your boyfriend and gonna use your niece against you. So stop helping and avoid them.
Story stop medication: Run lady. Runnnn. You gonna end up as a demanding Karen in certain shop and manage to offend the police then get into asylum. Just because you didn't get your medication.
First story, the boyfriend is a keeper, knowing how loyal he is to you
Story 3: as someone with adhd and autism I can say that someone telling you to get off your meds should be a deal breaker on top of the other stuff, I have been on medication over half my life and there was about 4 years where the terrible doctor I had at the time took me off my medication and I had to go without it and it was hard and I know for a fact I'm better off on my medication and if a doctor prescribed it to you then you should take it, I'm on a anti phychotic that is regularly used for adhd and autism so the chances are it's the same one and I would 100% advise her to dump the boyfriend just for telling her to get off meds that are so important and thats before you get into the other massive red flags, I hope she is OK and makes the right decision
I think you need to get your parents involved now! Show them the text messages, and ecplain to them her daughter calling your boyfriend Daddy! She is cray, cray!
Every time I see a notification from this channel i get so excited! 🤠
Same
Same
Story #3: The boyfriend's trying to make her 100% reliant on him for everything, and he's a TOTAL control freak! I mean correct me if I'm wrong. But isn't having more money a good thing? Or is it just that he makes less money than her, and his fragile little ego can't handle it?
This sounds like the start of a possessive and abusive relationship. Without the medication, you would be mentally unstable, so you wouldn't see the signs. When you move in and quit your job, you'll be cut off from people because you'll be hime all day cleaning and studying. With the birth control situation, he'll try to get you pregnant as quickly as he can, and when the child is born, the abuse will start. Due to you being mentally unwell with a child and no job, you will have to stay with him.
3rd story: LEAVE HIM.
This isn't love and he ain't the only man that exists in humanity. You can find a better partner, and you'll be a lot happier for it.
for the story with the sister that was comparing herself with the op when the niece calls op's husband daddy she should've said "if you want to call your uncle daddy you have to call me mommy since uncle and auntie are together" and that her mother is a little crazy in her head and wants to steal uncle away from auntie like i feel like if you have a good relationship with your niece then she will probably listen
First story: 1, the boyfriend is great and very transparent with op. Her sister though....Just downright bad. OP's sister is trying to take OP's boyfriend, it's sad to see and disgusting she is trying, lets be honest OP's sister is just rock bottom.
third story is a massive red flag for me, he wants op depending on him at all times, plus adhd and parenthood can be a very nasty couple, especially WITHOUT medications, it could possibly make your life hell
especially since all these conditions are things he either told her to do or broke up with him
yeah no dump his ass
Anyone else just as disturbed by the first story AND the weird af video game showing someone mowing a yard in a truly bizarre way.
Story 2: This woman seems to know a lot about how she feels and what she wants, and since she does, she should definitely sit down and communicate these things t him.They can come to a solution that fits their relationship.
Yuck. A sister wants another sister's leftovers... GROSS 🤢
I understand sharing with your siblings but sexual partners isn't one of them. Not even close to the realm of "sibling rivalry" either.
Just NASTY.
She just wants him because he’s her sisters. The moment she had him she’d lose interest.
Sounds like the relationship never really survived past the honeymoon phase and they never broke up. It's possible that's all she's really interested it. She likes the tingles, not the day to day stuff.
story4: like i dont get it just dump her like in every story the people tell there partners are cheating on them ig they should realise there is only one solution for cheaters every cheater belongs to the streets
First story our sister is one day going to treat her daughter like this the daughter is going to have no choice but to call her aunt to come pick her up because she was locked out of her own home
I really love these stories and it makes my heart pump when I hear these things and I like that. I love the feeling when hearing this
First story cut contact immediately and tell your niece your going away because her mom is being mean to you and you and her uncle don't feel safe around her mom
Story No.3 the girl needs to run lightning ⚡ fast away from that psycho dude.
The first story, you should get a restraining order
It’s probably time for OP’s sister to visit the psych ward at the hospital for how nuts she’s gone and OP and her boyfriend take on the niece for a bit till mom is mentally stable to take care of her child and no longer obsessed with OP’s boyfriend
All of these OPs need to dump these problematic relationships.
Mold takes 24-48 hour's to form
Story #3: The op should break up with the boyfriend and find someone else who will love as the way they are because should not change who you are for someone you truly love
And bc of the huge age diffrence
@@Space_Cat82 They're both consenting adults, bruh. I'm younger than the OP and prefer men older than I am. XD
@@XsaviXander yeah fair enough
Story 1: OP’s parents need to know how creepy and sick the sister is. The way they’re acting is beyond messed up. Sister needs help for her delusion, obsession and jealousy over her own sister.
If I was the one locked out of the house in the first story I would have kicked in the door
So what could have happened to the BF in a week. Did he travel anywhere? Speak to people new? Suddenly being against medication doesn't come out of the blue. Almost sounds like he joined a cult or something.
Either that or he’s been hiding his true self to emotionally trap her.
My issue the grass cutting simulator my OCD is gping off bad haha 😂😂😂😂
Story 3: OP please leave this guy. It sounds like he wants to isolate you and then control every aspect of your life. As much as you may love him, his love may not be the same. Get out and find someone who will respect, accept and love you for who you are not what he wants you to be.
Third story: This man is a monster and wants to trap OP. He wants a dependant and submissive, probably maid, than a girlfriend or wife. OP needs to run as fast as she can and as far as she can.
Story #1,
The sister got herself knocked up by a dipstick and now she’s trying to get her sister’s bf.
He needs to get a harassment order against her, as well as block her from his phone and all social media
*Story 1:* The OP needs to learn how to stand up for herself. She locked her out ? Call the police, its her private property, there is no negotiation here. She is being rude and inappropriate? Tell their parents. Once the OP establishes she is not her emotional punching bag, then they can have a serious conversation. Because without respect, this is going nowhere productive.
Woah woah wtf 26 year old dating a 40 year old that's a red flag 🚩what the hell
Boy that dude mowing the yard sure can't do a very good job
Ah, you, too? That was driving me nuts as well. 🙂
😅 hit every one of my nerves watching him mow 😂
Best advice I can probably give you it to probably cut contacts and move someplace because this is uncomfortable for your needs and probably not a good healthy environment because this sounds a bit toxic if your sister is trying to move in and turn him into a daddy and her husband with he is not and try to push you out
in the 3rd story, I feel like he's trying to feel powerful but you dont want that. If he breaks up or dies, you're gonna be on the street or in a mental hospital. Thats very bad
sue the sister for harassment in the first story 🤦♂🤦♂🤦♂always do that when u have crazy sister karens that ur parents might support
Do absolutely nothing don't associate with your sister have nothing to do with her block her number don't let her in your home don't let her around her boyfriend sometimes it's best to just sever ties
This is not the first story concerning this this type of behavior, but WOW, this sister is insane.
That third one just seems like he became super-religious overnight.
Edit :
S4, Arthur seems like a good guy, you could probably tell him what the girlfriend has been doing for a year if you ever feel petty.
Story 3: that bf is certified insane! Meds like those are part of a management plan. Often bringing the problem down to a level where the patient can cope better with the problem. Going off them is extremely dangerous for op’s continued mental health. They could relapse or, worse, lose any progress they’ve made. Also it’s obvious op wants to be a better version of themselves, and that bf doesn’t. This is a RED FLAG! Bad bf alert! Never settle for someone who isn’t supportive of your mental health. 😊
Sometimes emotional cheaters can be more hurtful! Get her out of your life now before things get worse!
I've come to the conclusion, "I don't know what to do." really mean "I know what I SHOULD do, but don't have the guts to do it."
First story The Opie just needs to show the text messages not only to her parents but also to the police and get at least a file started on her sister just in case she's decides to escalate for the third story it's definitely red flags and she should talk to her psychiatrist about what her boyfriend is telling her to do because it can seem that he just wants her to be it fully dependent on him and that way she is trapped with him and psychiatrists are trained how to read in between the lines pretty much when it comes to this kind of behavior and can help you with it and if that doesn't help then you need to tell your boyfriend that you are not okay with it and that you are not doing this and if you break stuff with you it shows the kind of person he is if he doesn't then just ask him to at least talk to psychiatrist and maybe get help understanding like why he's wanting to do this why he wants you to quit using your medications why he wants you to quit your job why he wants you to stop taking birth control and at least get an understanding like why he's doing this and maybe get some help if it escalates I'm just saying this in my opinion I did but know someone that wasn't intoxic relationship and he tried to control everything she did and she ended up breaking up with him and he went crazy on her I don't know more details than that but she went through a pretty rough patch with her boyfriend until after she broke up
FYI it’s op, not opie
Opie sound like a person who uses opium or something lol
Get a restraining order on your sister.
That woman doesn’t deserve that child
Story 3: This guy is just a massive control freak.
This game is ✨satisfying✨
Story 3 : He’s asking you to get off birth control but isn’t ready for a child. He is definitely trying to baby trap you, he’s previously asked you to stop working bc “he’ll take care of everything”. He knows that if you get off birth control, you’ll get pregnant and you’ll have to stop working for some time. Leaving you stuck at home and dependent on him financially which will make you depend on him even more. *RUN FOR YOUR LIFE*
Another storyyyyyyyg
2. Story. Is nobody gonna question that she's with someone 20 years older than her? He was 20 when she was born. Like wtf. As a 17 yr old I find this shit weird
Bro the mowing game is pissing me of on how slow he’s going 💀💀💀
Story 3 is him trying to trap OP. I've been in the same situation, and it did not end well. Guy ended up biting my face.
If your BF goes for your sister, then you dodged a bullet and cheating would have eventually happened.
Block your sister regardless.
Story 3. He's trying to trap you get away from him now
The guy cutting the grass makes my OCD crazy
I have a Kubota z turn, and this is driving me nuts. I could have mowed an acre by now.
#2: the op should really give herself more time to think this through, if you are able to see red flags this early in the relationship, it's better to let go than to end up suffering because of it. She's younger than him, so there's also the fact that she can set her boundaries by telling him what is she willing to tolerate...
Story 2's dynamic reminds me of Jake and Amy from Brooklyn nine-nine
He has to take a shot to go to church? Me too bro, me too. I haven't been in a church in probably 13 years. My family went to my half brother's kids babtism or what ever...i just slept in the entry room lol
Bro was doing his mewing streak🤫
The third story sounds like he is trying to trap her in the relationship
Tell the fam to block her
No Mister for Evil Sister...
Feel sorry for the OP's Niece...
Another 1oftheseweirdbackRounds
Hold on! There really is a video game that basically consists of mowing the lawn? Does that mean there are people who fantasize about mowing the lawn so much that they play a video game about it?
Yup. It's called Lawn Mower Simulator 😅😅
What's with these 20 something year old women dating these almost old ass guys? I get it every adult needs love too, but why would you date someone who's old enough to be your dad?
Story 3:
Op needs to put her foot down and tell the bf she's not going to do either of those and she's not some doll he can play with only if she agrees with those conditions and if he really loved her he would stay no matter it's an AH move to ask someone to not get better second is good if he actually means to take care of her through out but a absolute no to third
Am i the only person who would actually fight their sibling or siblings if they ever pulled anything similar to story 1 during a romantic relationship?
I slug here in the nose the OP has told her many times to stop and she is so entitled she just does not car
Is there seriously a game where you cut the grass 😂
Story 3: as some who has autism and ADHD, I can say with certainty that meds help me be focused and mentally stable.
OH MY GOD the guy who tried to tell that girl to quit her adhd meds IS SICKENING LIKE WTF!? UH NO BI### YOU CAN LIVE ALONE!
Quitting my ADHD meds was the best thing I have ever done! But everyone is different.
Story #3 cut the line, boi's fucked and wants to drag you down with him.
Bro the first story
Got me wanting coffee bro no contact her ass and first snappin point was when she rubbed her love life in your face when u just got out of a abusive relationship
What game is that im the background it looks. Sooooo satisfying
*/sobs* the gameplay is ahhhh
Man, I'm glad I'm not the only one. That person's inability to go in a straight line and mow a yard like a normal human being is infuriating :D :D
Story 3 🙃🙃🙃
2nd story....red flags galore. Run. He will not be a good long term partner.