Oh No, It's a Girl - Mufti Menk - A MUST WATCH

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  • čas přidán 21. 01. 2016
  • Be grateful when you are blessed with a healthy child, male or female. Never be upset when you really wanted a boy but had a girl. She may bring much happiness & blessings into the home. Those who become sad when informed of the gender of the child are forgetting that others do not have children at all. Such ingratitude is unacceptable from a believer. The Almighty is The Decider & none has a say in His Decree! We pray the Almighty bless those with no offspring by creating for them that miracle!

Komentáře • 156

  • @ummali5118
    @ummali5118 Před 7 lety +137

    alhamdulillah I am blessed with 5 girls mashallha

    • @hannahlunat8888
      @hannahlunat8888 Před 4 lety +1

      Mashallah 💜

    • @rimabegum3366
      @rimabegum3366 Před 3 lety

      Mashallah

    • @ItsMe-lu9gg
      @ItsMe-lu9gg Před 3 lety

      Masha allah

    • @aishathhanaan7789
      @aishathhanaan7789 Před 3 lety +2

      I'm proud to be a daughter.
      But there is one thing that I always made me sad..one of my aunt got 4 boys..she have 4 boys..and she keeps saying that she is so glade not to have a daughter like us.she is safe form being humiliated or getting embarrassed of having a daughter who is pregnant wethout getting married or giving a bad name to there family. They dont realy care abt us girl.. they only take boys as more special. Seems like girl r useless .she sayed that she is glade to. Not her a girl..think positive abt girl think bad abt the girls.

    • @bobtheagent9087
      @bobtheagent9087 Před 2 lety

      I know a person who had 6 or 7 girls then the 7th or 8th one was a boy lol.

  • @sadiyaparveen1902
    @sadiyaparveen1902 Před 2 lety +10

    I am blessed with second daughter recently....both pregnancies ....i had lot of stress in my head becoz my in laws wanted son....but i gave birth to two daughter.....whole hospitl room was sad becoz all my on laws side crying....i also strted crying....nobody was happy....in ther sadness..somewhere i also strted crying....now i feel vry guilty about my self that being a mother how can i cry....when Allah swt has blessed me with two beautifull daughters!

    • @samreenfatima8698
      @samreenfatima8698 Před 2 lety +2

      😣😣i can undersatand . people create so much sadness around us that we as mother after bearing so much pain and carying them for nine months also feel sad sometimes. dont blame yourself its ok

  • @muzamilhassan3889
    @muzamilhassan3889 Před 3 lety +25

    Am a father of 4 girls and waiting 5th one after two weeks may Allah bless them

  • @Famolicious08
    @Famolicious08 Před 8 lety +109

    Wish we had more speakers like him.. he is truly amazing.

  • @ruzaikaarshad
    @ruzaikaarshad Před 7 lety +54

    Wallahi there r women who turn their faces away when they r told her daughter in law just gave birth to a female child whereas they r full of praise n happy when the same daughter in law gives birth to a male child. Subahanallah how foolish are they. May Allah protect all the women to be God fearing when it comes to children.

  • @lameeztoefy2264
    @lameeztoefy2264 Před 8 lety +141

    Giving birth to my 3rd daughter in 10days time Inshallah, what a beautiful video to come across. Mashallah

  • @dajiyayousuf6967
    @dajiyayousuf6967 Před 7 lety +62

    Oh God i love the way he reads the Qur'an

  • @saktar1978
    @saktar1978 Před 6 lety +26

    I have two beautiful princess and me and my husband are very happy for it.

  • @15areehamushtaq59
    @15areehamushtaq59 Před 5 lety +14

    We need more men like him.May Allah bless him and give him a long life.

  • @aydataha6564
    @aydataha6564 Před 7 lety +51

    I just love Mufti Menk. He is the only Sheikh that speaks to my heart for some reason. May Allah grant you paradise and may he give me hidaya cause I'm lost.

    • @Baitullmaqdis
      @Baitullmaqdis Před 7 lety +1

      get back your salah ... get back close to Allah .... recite back your zikir .... remember that Allah speaks through mufti and into your heart ...Allah knows best ...and may u find your direction back to the path of Allah ... Amin ya Raab

    • @aydataha6564
      @aydataha6564 Před 7 lety

      By'tl Solomon اللهم امين. شكرا جزيلا

  • @funwithgame1676
    @funwithgame1676 Před 4 lety +6

    I have only three sons not a daughter plz pray Allah to bless me with a baby girl

  • @ayeshaashi5539
    @ayeshaashi5539 Před 8 lety +75

    MashaaAllah
    Daughters are not Tention
    They are equal to 10 Sons

    • @baller3026
      @baller3026 Před 8 lety

      Yup

    • @rizwansyed9364
      @rizwansyed9364 Před 8 lety +4

      +Ayesha Ashi Prophet muhammed p.bu.h said the believer who had three daughters and he take care of them in good maner educate them and then engage them in marriage he will be my neighbour in jannah Abdullah ibn abbas may Allah be pleased with him he says i ask prophet s.a.w about two. so Prophet s.a.w says he will so be with me in jannah Abdullah ibn abbas may Allah be pleased with him says if we ask Prophet s.a.w he will say same about him.

    • @baller3026
      @baller3026 Před 8 lety

      Salim Al-Jabry jazakallah

    • @Er.a.basitsurme
      @Er.a.basitsurme Před 5 lety

      I don't think so that daughters equal to 10 sons.
      Although the witness of 2 women is considered equal to witness to 1 men..

    • @ifraniazi9214
      @ifraniazi9214 Před 3 lety

      @@Er.a.basitsurme women and men are different in the sense 2 women witnesses is equal to one man that doesn't mean a woman is worth half of a man or isn't equal. If we worked by that logic a women has three times more right over a child than a man but does that mean a man is worth a third of a woman, of course not. Men and women are given different rights and rules in different situations because Alla SWT knows what's best for a man and a woman but in the end they are both equal in the eyes of Allah SWT

  • @overcometvchannel
    @overcometvchannel Před 8 lety +74

    Muslims men need to hear this especially.

    • @sunnyrose6601
      @sunnyrose6601 Před 7 lety +14

      overcometv sis who cares what men thinks. I am a mother of three beautiful girls. Alhamdulillah and I am great full that Allah blessed me with three amazing beautiful girls.

    • @suhairawsaj3638
      @suhairawsaj3638 Před 6 lety +1

      overcometv I love your channel ♥

    • @JamesBond-ts2tq
      @JamesBond-ts2tq Před 6 lety

      +Sunny Rose let us all look forward to the day of judgement ameen

    • @sakeenaanwar2847
      @sakeenaanwar2847 Před 2 lety

      Well Men know the value and worth of Women and those who act like this aren't men but losers.

  • @simallreh7606
    @simallreh7606 Před 7 lety +25

    I'm giving birth to a girl and I consider it to be a blessing not a hinderence x

  • @sumayoabdi643
    @sumayoabdi643 Před 4 lety +8

    If I have a child in the future n it’s a girl I would be soo exciting cause girls bring so much blessings to the world. They have a gd soft heart.

  • @fizz1652
    @fizz1652 Před 7 lety +30

    Im the 4th of 5 girls Alhamdullilah

    • @saimakhan2168
      @saimakhan2168 Před 6 lety +1

      your parents are very lucky

    • @fardosdualeh9581
      @fardosdualeh9581 Před 6 lety +1

      Your so lucky I am the only girl in my family 😔 it’s ok 👍🏽 at least I have a brother 😊

  • @imrannasser6198
    @imrannasser6198 Před 7 lety +5

    MashaAllah nice teaching.. May allah forgive us for disrespecting our mothers and sisters..

  • @rabiataj7279
    @rabiataj7279 Před 3 lety +4

    Mashallah i blessed with 3 girls and i am happy hate it when people say you got girls and not boys mentalaty of culter not religion i wont change my girls for anything

  • @fareedayounisfyounis8199
    @fareedayounisfyounis8199 Před 8 lety +11

    Heart touching topic May god bless mufti menk

  • @zenatjabarkheel3833
    @zenatjabarkheel3833 Před 2 lety +1

    Alhamdulillah i was blessed with a boy that Allah made it really difficult for me I went trough a lot with him he was really ill when born but god blessed with another child i tought it will be a boy because Allah took one from me but when the doctor said it's a girl Wallahe i was so happy and in love but when I told my husband he got a bit disappointed because he had bought lots of clothes for our son i told him Allah is really merciful he can bless us with a boy again and he was happy again but he wasn't unthankful i know

  • @moeasmat
    @moeasmat Před 8 lety +15

    May Allah bless us all Ameen

  • @aydataha6564
    @aydataha6564 Před 7 lety +29

    I'm sorry to say even after Islam, women are being treated like a commodity. traditions and culture sometimes outweigh religion. It is painful wallahi. when we women r looked upon as walking awra... a body without a soul, dreams, aspirations.

  • @Penn.obsessed
    @Penn.obsessed Před 6 lety +8

    I'm a 13 year old girl who has a sister and 2 brothers and my aunt had a son in 2014 and now she's pregnant again with a girl I kinda got upset cuz i love baby boys more than baby girls. Now I feel bad cuz when she told me it's a girl I was like "ugh baby boys are cuter" I can be such a brat sometimes😂

  • @sarfaraznizami5935
    @sarfaraznizami5935 Před 2 lety +6

    Male or female doesn't matter we should be happy of our Allah decision because Allah knows everything about us.. Although he also knows what's better for you

  • @zelhalabi1
    @zelhalabi1 Před 8 lety +16

    love mufti menk. one of my favourite.

  • @ammadriaz2767
    @ammadriaz2767 Před 8 lety +8

    God bless you

  • @umiy1971
    @umiy1971 Před 6 lety +4

    Ilove whatever ALLAH bless me with ALHAMDULLILLAH !

  • @samsungcafe9819
    @samsungcafe9819 Před 6 lety +2

    U r a very good speaker.... may Allah bless you. ....

  • @ceesah32
    @ceesah32 Před 8 lety +4

    Masha Allah. Incredible video.

    • @MrBossmedia
      @MrBossmedia Před 8 lety

      Salam Alaikum can you check out my channel and support

  • @ZaraKhan-hd4tc
    @ZaraKhan-hd4tc Před rokem +4

    But if a daughter is not treated in the right way... she never wanted to have a daughter... because she will always feel to be unfortunate to be a female...

  • @rm3105
    @rm3105 Před 4 lety +1

    JazakAllah khair

  • @faroukusop5122
    @faroukusop5122 Před 5 lety +3

    Having a daughter or a child is a gift from Allah SUBHANA HU WA TA'ALA. ALHAMDULILLAH AND MASHA ALLAH, I'M HAVING AN UNBORN LITTLE FEMALE DAUGHTER WITH MY WIFE.

  • @soumayyahjaunbocus9864
    @soumayyahjaunbocus9864 Před 8 lety +1

    alhamdoulillah for being blessed by both in pairs may Allah guide them to the right path n make them good Muslims to serve the seen if Islam

  • @bancesalamat5859
    @bancesalamat5859 Před 8 lety +2

    Jazakallahu khair

  • @TeachYahawashi
    @TeachYahawashi Před 6 lety +1

    Great Video

  • @anasvines3573
    @anasvines3573 Před 6 lety

    He z d best soothing to heart

  • @mohammedomer1637
    @mohammedomer1637 Před 8 lety +1

    Assalamualaikum, Alhamdulillah Ma shaa allah

  • @Famolicious08
    @Famolicious08 Před 8 lety +7

    Masha'allah

  • @yahuzaammani9252
    @yahuzaammani9252 Před 8 lety +1

    I really like this site,i mean Islam speaks. jazaakumullahu khairan jazaa

  • @cartec9600
    @cartec9600 Před 3 lety +1

    Allhamdulilah I have 2 daughters no one was really happy when my first daughter was born and then no one was happy for my second but I wil always be happy they are my special a angels but yes it hurts when your own family isn't happy or a fee people but yh we are blessed with daughter

  • @ZoyaKhan-ze9rb
    @ZoyaKhan-ze9rb Před 6 lety +1

    Maashaallah

  • @shabinashi4676
    @shabinashi4676 Před rokem +1

    I m also blessed with 3 girls…Ma sha allah

  • @doranaazreen7826
    @doranaazreen7826 Před 5 lety +3

    Mashallah

  • @samiramiran8978
    @samiramiran8978 Před 6 lety +3

    ALHAMDULLILAH

  • @user-gj7yx9zg4d
    @user-gj7yx9zg4d Před 8 lety

    سلام علیکم .جزاکم الله خیر.BROTHER.

  • @drsanahamidbhat5278
    @drsanahamidbhat5278 Před 2 lety +4

    I have twins baby girls
    Masha Allah

  • @SohailKhan-qd3sp
    @SohailKhan-qd3sp Před 8 lety +1

    Masha Allah

  • @sarfaraznizami5935
    @sarfaraznizami5935 Před 2 lety +1

    We should become happy of Almighty any decisions because Allah knows better than us.. We should not regret when Allah grant as male and female our Allah who gives us.. It Wii be better for us...

  • @munawarsultana75
    @munawarsultana75 Před 8 lety +1

    ماشاء الله

  • @begal8223
    @begal8223 Před 7 lety +1

    Takbīr
    Allahu akbar ( الله أكبر)

  • @tacirozdemir5775
    @tacirozdemir5775 Před 8 lety +6

    gotta love notifications ;)

  • @mrss9127
    @mrss9127 Před rokem

    Watching this after finding out im having a third daughter. Despite the constant prayers, tahajjud, sadaqah asking for 1 baby boy. It wasn’t to be. I feel crushed. Dear brothers and sisters, how do i get over this? 😢
    Thank you

    • @fatimadin1501
      @fatimadin1501 Před rokem

      So sorry to hear what you’re going through, my dearest sister. It’s okay to grieve for the baby boy you wanted, but once you have your baby girl, you will be happy and contented insha Allah. May Allah swt soothe your heart and grant you what's best.❤❤

  • @tobisamiatibrahim9133
    @tobisamiatibrahim9133 Před 7 lety +4

    Ma sha Allah.
    I am the only female daughter In my family

  • @deeay552
    @deeay552 Před 3 lety

    Subhanallah here I am asking Allah swt for me to have a daughter

  • @tasneemfarah7616
    @tasneemfarah7616 Před 4 lety +3

    Ye short girls life like curse I m suffer this situation😭

  • @MohammedBilal-co1wp
    @MohammedBilal-co1wp Před 2 lety

    Allhamdulla h

  • @sobo6291
    @sobo6291 Před 4 lety

    We need this with arabic subtitle!!!!

  • @mohamudhusein4000
    @mohamudhusein4000 Před 4 lety +1

    Allahu akbar😍😍

  • @zelhalabi1
    @zelhalabi1 Před 8 lety +1

    sura takwir not quwirat.... but i know it was on the tip of his tonge but quwirat was part of the verse so he just called it that.

  • @nt1905
    @nt1905 Před 2 lety

    Surah At - Takwir the Surah he said

  • @shapar5977
    @shapar5977 Před 8 lety +1

    Allah hu akber

  • @Birthdaycakesmom
    @Birthdaycakesmom Před 2 lety +3

    The world is so dangerous for women, even the act of giving birth can be a danger to a woman, so let’s be grateful for all the women that we have.

  • @lubnasayyed5388
    @lubnasayyed5388 Před 5 lety

    Aslkmwa Rahmatullah barkatahu

    • @lubnasayyed5388
      @lubnasayyed5388 Před 5 lety

      My direct question is to mufty.menk Allah don't have any gender either male or female then why you addressing Allah by he or him

  • @Queenamizzo
    @Queenamizzo Před 6 lety +1

    I have one older brother and 4 little sisters and 2 half little sisters

  • @kamran4856
    @kamran4856 Před 7 lety +2

    masha Allah

  • @nazmeenhussain6330
    @nazmeenhussain6330 Před 7 lety +2

    i hv some questions to ask from sheik mufti menk ..so is it possible?

  • @juthinadira8913
    @juthinadira8913 Před 6 lety +4

    You judge her by her dedication to Allah

  • @rosagivesback1962
    @rosagivesback1962 Před 8 lety +2

    Wow. Thanks be to Allah.

  • @Patchez1mom
    @Patchez1mom Před 6 lety

    i no nothing it sounds smart

  • @amadoukrubally2954
    @amadoukrubally2954 Před 8 lety +1

    Ya Allah gard me and help me to be like this people. my brother and sisters in Islam I need your helps , who will sponsor me to learn the quran know it so that I can also go to the village of Africa give dahwa. I want to sell my soul to Allah. Asalamuwalakum waramatula

    • @superone491
      @superone491 Před 8 lety

      Assalamu alaykum Amadou kruballi, One way you can learn the Quran is to download an app of Quran, there is more apps but if you know someone or you're near a mosque just ask them and they will guide you, insha Allaah!

    • @amadoukrubally2954
      @amadoukrubally2954 Před 8 lety

      +Super One insaAllah I try that for many time in Germany here

    • @superone491
      @superone491 Před 8 lety

      +amadou krubally, then i think you go to CZcams or internet and you can learn through it by typing the surahs! may Allaah make it easy for you, Ameen!

    • @st_us
      @st_us Před 8 lety

      +amadou krubally wo wohnst du ?

    • @amadoukrubally2954
      @amadoukrubally2954 Před 8 lety

      +stilkus Ich lebe in Friedrichshafen

  • @arahman4574
    @arahman4574 Před 7 lety +5

    Allah created everything on Earth

  • @Captaintoontown
    @Captaintoontown Před 5 lety +2

    Mufti Menk's preaching is progressive. But what about infertility treatments? Is it good or bad?

    • @xSunnyDaysx
      @xSunnyDaysx Před 5 lety

      Captaintoontown Mufti Menk is preaching what are beloved prophet, may peace and blessings be upon, preached. He’s not saying anything new. Everything he talks of comes from our religion. He’s merely reminding us. Unfortunately, people have gone astray and deem their culture better than their religion.
      When it comes to infertility treatments.
      As long as the husbands sperm and wives eggs are used on the wife. Then everything is allowed.
      But no surrogate, using other mens sperm or other women’s eggs... that’s not allowed.
      If it does not work. Even how hard it is, people should say alhamdulillah and move one with life (together or separate). And they can always bring in their homes an orphan if they want children really bad.

    • @faisalmohammed4641
      @faisalmohammed4641 Před 5 lety

      Qq aa..... Said the opinion of ulama.... There s nothing violating the sacredness of marriage contract in ART as he said..... There s no direct opinion from quran & sunnah..... But allah has given us fitra & ulama approves ART b/w husband & wife...... Allah knows best
      As for adoption...... Plz remember that they may be like ur child but like s not the same...... Remember u r still a non mahram & maintain the relationship accordingly...may be breastfeeding children of feeding age s permissible & would make u a mahram......hv to seek advice from those with greater knowledge.... & Allah forbids not letting the child knw abt their origin & claiming them as our own....... It's a crime to claim paternity while u knw it s not

  • @The_Perfectionists_Guy
    @The_Perfectionists_Guy Před 8 lety +2

    anyone can send me the full link to this video thxs

    • @MrBossmedia
      @MrBossmedia Před 8 lety

      Salam Alaikum can you check out my channel and subscribe?

  • @grobanite4ever85
    @grobanite4ever85 Před 6 lety +3

    In China they had a 1 child policy and if parents there had a girl they abandon them or abort the girl because boys carry on the family name. I agree with Mufti Menk because there are people our there get angry when there is a girl because they want boy to carry on the family name and that is wrong.

  • @mohmedmangulenje4172
    @mohmedmangulenje4172 Před 7 lety +2

    if you want to marry your phone funny 😂😂😂😂😅😅

  • @lintasikandri9902
    @lintasikandri9902 Před 5 lety +2

    M expecting my second daughter...n m feeling so hopeless this time

  • @hamidab7167
    @hamidab7167 Před 11 měsíci

    I was abused throughout every pregnancy and abused further when i gave birth to females 3 times....i was very happy with a healthy child but the father of my child would torture me for this and these people are meant to be muslim

  • @doctormombaby4319
    @doctormombaby4319 Před 4 lety +1

    why all Messengers Are male. Why not female. Why Muhammad (pbuh) said to not obey female. Why did He said if its possible, he would ask to sujood male.
    Why less inheritance for female. Why creating differences between male and female

    • @afreennabi7909
      @afreennabi7909 Před 4 lety +2

      Maybe you can ask a scholar of Islam these questions, they can give you more reliable answers

    • @shahstar2306
      @shahstar2306 Před 3 lety +1

      He didn't ever said not to obey females

    • @johndickson505
      @johndickson505 Před 4 měsíci

      I have the same question why every messenger was male

  • @boqoradabsalon2173
    @boqoradabsalon2173 Před 8 lety

    jazklh

  • @hamidah3342
    @hamidah3342 Před 8 lety +1

    is it wrong to pray for a female gender??

    • @AC-mp7cx
      @AC-mp7cx Před 7 lety +3

      No

    • @ZA-gm2jc
      @ZA-gm2jc Před 7 lety +6

      Not wrong at all.Daughter is a blessing of Allah swt

  • @mohmedmangulenje4172
    @mohmedmangulenje4172 Před 7 lety

    I'm the only girl shame

  • @TheEnviousdominous
    @TheEnviousdominous Před 8 lety

    Being judged isn't so bad though.

  • @daauudcolaad191
    @daauudcolaad191 Před 6 lety

    God bless you