HOW TO SURVIVE IN THE PHILIPPINES / Do You Have What It Takes?
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- How to survive in the Philippines depends on whether you can live like a local in the Philippines! Foreigners retiring in the Philippines need to consider retirement planning, so watch this before moving to the Philippines! The things you need to do before retiring here and enjoying Philippines travel might be more about your mindset than using a checklist, so listen to my tips to see if this country is the place for you.
You can retire cheap in the Philippines vs. USA or other western countries, but it's not always about money when it comes to surviving the Philippines! @TheFilipinaPea
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Pea I was enchanted with genie pea
I hope she grants me my 3 wishes 🇵🇭🇵🇷😁 I already them😁😂🇵🇷🇵🇭
Yes it was fun the first 3 months. Like you said. Then after 6 months I came home and it was also a shock. Like you said. I always enjoy visiting but I will not be there permanently.
P.S. Thank you again for the laughs and the video. It was actually very helpful. I still would probably like to visit the Philippines one day.:-).
Happy to help.😉👍 KFC without chicken? 🍗😟 hmmmm. 50 and rethinking. 😏
Sadly I will now never be able to visit the Philippines as the UK government which is taking its orders from the world economic forum green nazis which does not want us to fly & they also plan to enforce climate lock downs. I'm saddened I'll never get to see the Philippines or meet the beautiful people. Love the channel pea I've already subscribed.
My mom is a Filipina. My dad was born in America. My parents were happily married, for forty years, until my dad passed away. It was not always easy, for either one of them, but through patience, understanding, communication, appreciation, consideration, kindness, compassion, acceptance, trust, forgiveness, willingness, endurance, sacrifice, and love...they made their marriage work, and they made it an enjoyable and memorable one, as well.
Okay I'm missing seen a few things
I lived in the province in bulan, bicol
with 2 gorgeous filipina sisters and their whole family.
They looked after me very well.
I lived in the family nipa hut 5 minutes walk from the sea.
It was a beautiful location.
I loved every minute of it, learnt so much about Filipino culture and life.
The people were so warm and friendly.
They were like instant family.
My culture shocks were (provincial living)
👉 using a tabo instead of toilet paper.
👉 pumping water from a ground well.
👉 having about 5 showers everyday bcuz of the heat.
👉washing my pants in a bowl of soapy water
👉 eating rice with every single meal
👉 eating lizard soup
👉 picking sea snails from the sea rocks then making sea snail soup
👉 chickens walking around my feet daily
👉silent sex due to being in the family nipa hut
👉 army troops walking around on exercise carrying M16 assault riffles
👉freak rain storms
👉beautiful lightenening storms ⚡
👉watching fork lightening hit the sea with no thunder sound
👉Eating freshly caught seafood by locals/fresh off the boat
👉Internet signal comes and goes
👉costantly being smiled at by filipina girls
👉constant high fives with filipinos
👉randomly falling asleep due to heat
👉regular brown outs
👉lack of sleep due to all night barangay kareoke
👉lack of sleep due to late nocturnal wildlife making noises in bushes
👉lack of sleep due to being the only westerner in the barangay
Being constantly on edge thinking I may get kidnapped or robbed,
But I never did, the truth was I stayed with a real good family.
Who learnt from me as much as I learnt from them.
Things I missed from the west 👍
👉security of a proper accommodation as nipa huts have no security
👉Roast dinners as daily rice 3 or 4 times a day was too much for me
👉road traffic safety particularly for motor cycles
👉atm machines that don't crash bcuz of the heat
👉atm machines that are regularly stocked with cash
👉sidewalks with few tripping hazzards
Wow , she hit the nail on the head on this one. I was stationed at Subic Bay for 15 months in 1980-82 right out of Marine Corps boot camp. Had a great time as a 20 year old Marine. I had planned to retire in the Philippines just before covid hit, the decided to give Mexico a try, after all it’s close and still allowed travel during covid. Been in Mexico now for over a year, I do enjoy it, and it’s much cheaper than the USA , but not as cheap as the Philippines. Once the restrictions are lifted, I’ll make a month, or two long visit there to reevaluate my retirement choices. I’m a 60 year old retired Federal Agent and former Marine. Looking forward to visit my old stomping grounds. Above all, it’s the friendly people that make the Philippines a nice place to retire.
Something to consider is airfare. Philippines is an expensive flight. 4X the cost as flying to Mexico. You can also drive to Mexico and do a 6 month rotations.
I am definitely banking on a slow life in PI. As to opening a business or working, the only work I plan on doing is gardening, keeping the house clean, and maybe helping a neighbor with a project or two.
ALWAYS have a back-up plan, no matter where you are living or planning to retire to. ALWAYS save at least one year's salary (at a minimum) for "just in case" moments. ALWAYS live BELOW your means and save the rest for a rainy day (or nice vacation if you follow the one year salary rule). Follow those three simple steps and you will likely be okay no matter what hits you.
One nice thing about PI is you are so close to several other countries that you can explore while on vacation. I think Singapore is only a four hour flight from Manila and only costs about $300 round trip. Everyone needs to visit Singapore at least once IMHO. That goes for Japan, South Korea, Thailand, Australia, New Zealand, and India...all only a few hours away by air from Manila.
Okay...the Genie outfit is in definite competition with the Pocahontas and Pirate outfits!🤣 Great video, Miss Pea!
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I have lived here for 2 years, have visited many provinces, now I am in Bacolod.. I have a wonderful Filipina (50 years old)..I am 62, retired USA military, I have never been so happy in my life..her Familia is now my Familia
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Did you have any serious culture shock, or did you adapt quickly?
@@TheFilipinaPea
Thank you for reply..I first arrived 2 years ago after I tour europe for one year...first I go cebu..then I visit boho..leyte..davao..then bacolod..
My culture shock was: the very young Filipinas who want serious relationships with a foriegn.man.so fast, and for me to take care of all her Familia.. but, last year, here in bacolod, I meet a 50 year old Filipina, she was slow, respectful, honest and she wanted courtship...she and her Familia NEVER asked me for anything, I am 62...I have been with her here for 1 1/2 years..her Familia is now my Familia, they NEVER ask me for pesos or anything, I assist them many times: fix their homes, buy food for their pigs.. presents for family birthdays, (etc)..but all of this; is MY decision..now, they call me, "POPPA JOHN"..they are true and honest and so giving and so loving.. my "culture shock" ..the TRUE Filipinos are NOT "FAKE"..many Americans are FAKE..TRUE Filipinos teach me so much..honesty, family, hard work..and simple life...in usa I was always stressed, here with my filipina family, I enjoy a simple life.
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A truly happy and everlasting ending!
Fantastic for you.
@@johnwriter8234 Glad you are happy there and enjoying life. Signed, fellow US veteran
"Don't make a lot of long term plans until you've been here at least a year or two." @10:12 - In all of your videos, that's got to be the best advice that you've ever given to foreigners thinking about settling in the Philippines...
100%!
I fully agree witb this. People that come here only.for business or short term vacations only see a certain view. Business travels are mostly in Manila and supported by expense accounts. Then going to the nice places. Short term vacations kind of same. Living here is different and beautiful. But different. One can't always have party and Emperador sessions. You have to slow down and adapt.
Good advice even if you're just moving to a different part of your own country. You give up some things, you gain some others. Maybe, for example, you can't get a good slice of pizza in your new home city, but the ethnic food or the seafood is amazing. Roll with it.
Agree whole heartedly
"The Philippines will change you, but you can't change the Philippines"...quote of the video for me. It's very challenging not to want to change some things here. But it's like kicking a wall and expecting it to feel something. Acceptance, not necessarily agreement, is the path forward for the things that will drive foreigners crazy in the Philippines.
Very true, John! I was actually thinking of you when I wrote the part about it being possible to succeed as an entrepreneur here 😊
@@TheFilipinaPea Thank you for thinking of me with that my friend. Hope we see you again soon.
@Cam montreuil engines Haha, good way to put it.
@@wardcummins8736 Thanks Ward.
Stationed in the Philippines for 3 years and loved it. Back then (70"s) most places had no hot water and phones no a/c, only left because of the b/s we dealt with on the military side. Came back in the 80's twice for 6 months each time, one of those times I rented a house on the beach, no hot water no a/c no telephones (anywhere). Still loved it.
Very well explained. Note: expats can not change Philippines, but people like you can...
Thanks Asmir, and you’re right - slowly but surely, from the inside out 👍
I loved it.
@@TheFilipinaPea, as you might remember I am considering full time retirement in Cebu and I like your Condo video. I am a bit concerned about how China is heavily investing in the Philippines. Have you ever considered doing a Video about China’s growing influence in Southeast Asia? 🙏🏽❤️
@@wmjohns881 im also planning to retire there and i would love to see a video on that as well.
@@wmjohns881 That is what I am worried about, CHINA
That hit the spot, always keep something back for buying a ticket back home. I was one of the lucky ones and was a part time resident for 3 years in Baguio City. I have always called the Philippines home since being back in the states. Now that my daughter will be graduating from school I look so forward to making it my permanent retirement home. Hopefully I can slow down enough to make it work. Retired but always working. Pea, I can honestly say that you do tell it like it is, weather good or bad!!! I can only imagine how many people you have truly helped to make thoughtful life decisions. We thank you, and please keep up the good work. Your one smart class act!!!
Thanks Mike, and that’s really my mission as o see it - to help people make thoughtful decisions 👍❤️
I am retiring in about 8 years and your channel is part of my research on which country I will move to . Thanks for.the big picture.
Wow, you’re really planning ahead! Great idea 👍😊
Same here 😊. I hope 🤞
Same here, only fewer years. I'm aiming for 2023.
Same here.
I plan to move to Cebu city by the year 2030.
I was stationed in the Philippines for 10 years in the 70s & 80s. I love the Philippines and Filipinos/Filipinas but I know the country has changed a lot since then (some good/some bad). There are times I consider retiring in the Philippines but the inconsistent internet and healthcare is concerning. Plus China’s encroachment is also troubling. Taking more time to think about it.
These vids are my favorite part of my Tuesday mornings.
Every thing you said about "Life in the Philippines" is really just about life period. Life doesn't care about your plans and will throw you more than a curve or two from time to time. So roll with the punches, be flexible, and adjust as needed will serve you well regardless where you live.
FYI, it will serve you well in Mexico for sure! 😉
I plan to move here for several years before I actually did. I have never been homesick. During the seven years I've been here I was back to the United States once and I didn't like it and couldn't wait to get back here.
Did you dislike the US before you moved, or only disliked it after you returned?
@@TheFilipinaPea I wouldn't say I dislike the US before I left; I just wanted to try this. And when I return, I just felt as though it wasn't my place anymore. Obviously I could function perfectly; but I just didn't want to be there. Of course I didn't have any purpose; I wasn't working, I felt at a loose end.
thank you for sharing this Kevin. Have you explored PH in your 7yrs? or did you decide on a particular region / city?
@@wardcummins8736 You are quite accurate in the majority of cases. Although most will deny it.
@@TheFilipinaPea excellent question!..For me 6 to 8 months in Philippines and 4 to 6 in US is what I prefer..But---- If I had a place with better aircon control and mosquito screens it would be much easier. My biggest problem is my mortgage anchor around my neck at home. I am sure this is a "biggie" for a lot of us.
You hit it right on when mentioned “patience!” I believe that is the most important character trait that will help anyone adjust to the Philippines. Second goes to a sense of humor. If a person can humor any situation quietly in his mind, it will unwind the stress and bring harmony to oneself 😊.
Yes, humor is a good quality to have for an expat (just don’t expect any locals to understand it) 😂
The Philippines is more of a state of mind than a destination. My niece refers to the internet as "turtle net" because often times the server speeds are reminiscent of dial up days.
I settled really well with my Filipina wife and two daughters. Most of The Filipina Pea’s observations have not bothered me at all and I have been here since 2016 and whilst being from the UK I had spent the previous four years in Singapore so a significant cultural difference. My only gripe is the bureaucracy man it’s so difficult to get things done here. Bank accounts, ID’s passport renewals etc for those things you do need the patience of a saint.
ya, that and nearly everyone here tries to get pesos out of you. other than that..
Hi Stephen.
Do you still have ties to the UK ?
I have a Filipina girlfriend and have visited a couple of times.
Still trying to work it out as I have 4 kids here (in the UK) and she has 2 in the Philippines.
Are you retired ?.
Sorry for all the questions, just interested as you have already done it.
@@paulwoodhams3995 I don't envy you. Ive been with my filipina 30 years and we move there soon. 17 long visits since 1995.
Dito. I'm pretty sure even St Peter would F n Blind at the red tape
Agree with that. They have a have a way of making easy, hard and difficult..
Pea, you always bring reality to the equation. Which of course we all need more of. Thanks for another wonderful video!
I’ll always be real for ya, yup 👍😊
Your content is always awesome. As a foreigner who has planned for a year now to return to my future wife in negros Occidental I can honestly say that you and your wonderful information have probably made my transition from the USA to the Philippines a easier process! And I will continue to watch and learn from you Pea .
Thank you 😊
Thanks George - that’s very flattering! 👍
I have been here for 7 years & what you said is spot on. I am still adjusting after 7 years. Thanks for the video.
I have probably watched a couple hundred unconvincing videos about why I should live in the Philippines. I have often kicked the idea around of visiting. I don't seek fortune, paradise, or a better way of life as I have it right here in Florida. But honestly I can't give up what I have. Maybe I can do without the garbage disposer but that's about it. I guess I am too spoiled. What I don't have is a beautiful intelligent sweet woman like you to spoil. Sure I have girlfriends and acquaintances but nothing sincere. The one thing the Philippines have are kind and appreciative women that are more attentive to the little things in life. The most frustrating thing for me if I lived there is "You can't change the Philippines" nor should I try, however I think the only way for the country to advance is through change. I may visit someday when all the craziness of the pandemic is over. For now I will live it through your eyes as your vision is the most correct.
I really appreciate that response, Phillip, from someone who admits what many will not - sometimes you really don’t want to give up the excellent life you have, and I sure don’t blame you. We have the women, you have a type of paradise where you are, and the only way to put the two together can be very very risky …..
The really sad ones are those who move there and still waste time watching the videos. When I'm there, I watch everything other than Philippine YT vids. Though I'll probably still keep up with the Pea when I return.
If you can afford to live in Metro Manila, the best place to live for westerner, all the amenities are there or even better, if you want to travel to the provinces to experience what Pea said, just travel 3 to 4 fours from Manila you will experience them.
Barking dogs, Roosters that never sleep, and the worst thing is very loud Karaoke that makes my windows vibrate drive me mad.
Those things will never change. But you can by adjusting to it if you want to live in the Philippines.
That pales in comparison to an incompetent and corrupt government running PH. I was going to live there, but never ever want to go, visit or the like. Just getting my girl out and waiting on her visa to the USA.
@@2000ViperGTSsubscribe It used to be worse.
The JBLs in my house are louder than anything a Pinoy has got. Crank it up !
Every country/city/town/village has its own personality, just like people. Videos can tell part of the story, but not all of it. One must visit in person.
Just like every other town, city, village and location, anywhere in the world. The only perfect place it the one you make perfect for you and that can be anywhere.
Your points are well taken. Having visited the Philippines many times, for short visits, I honestly don’t know if I can make the necessary adjustments, and the laidback attitude that would keep me sane. Guess I’m sort of a type A personality. Even having a Filipina wife, it would be tough. At least I do realize that the grass is not always greener in the other side.
I was never happier than when I was living on Talikud Island with oil lamps in our big tree house, bahay kubo.
We are not worthy , Professor Pea !!!!😮 YOU ARE ALWAYS ON TARGET AND THE HIGHEST OF QUALITY FOR ANY PROFESSOR ❤️
Good stuff. My sister definitely suffers from that "the grass is always greener" phenomenon. Every time she travels somewhere, she goes on about how amazing and wonderful it is, and how it's so much better than where she lives. Despite all the moves she's made around the country, she's never content once she settles in. Somewhere else is always better.
Exactly! I guess it’s just human nature, but as long as you’re aware of it …..
Sounds like she has the wanderlust. I don't think there is a cure...
@@TheFilipinaPea 7000 islands. It will take a long time for David's sister to run out of places to try :)
I used to be that way with cars and motorcycles.
That's no problem. Just show her where the door is located and say bye.
Pea! First, you are brilliant and insightful. Thank you for the videos!
Now about me. I have been talking to someone every day since September and we have spoken hypothetically about our future. She is happy in her city, has a good career, and has no desire or need to leave the Philippines permanently and I'm okay with that. I however, am open to moving from the USA to there forever but I won't know for sure until I visit her a few times. She is extremely smart and insightful, like you, and she has warned me about a lot of the differences which you have spoken of as well but I keep telling her that I would be fine. I grew up in extreme poverty and worked my way out so not having unnecessary luxuries doesn't bother me at all. I'm used to it. I remain grateful for the little things in life. I'm not materialistic at all. I love being outside. I love hot weather. I enjoy and appreciate cultural differences of all kinds. And I am very easy going. I feel like I would adjust nicely there but I was still nervous of course. After seeing this video and many of your others, I feel better about my potential chances of assimilating and being happy there. Thank you for your videos! They make our hypothetical future much easier to plan for.
Well thanks for adding your input, FtGH 👍👍❤️
Love conquers all… having someone at home waiting for you and able to lean on would make it a lot more bearable. Thank you Pea
Thanks for the info. Beautiful dress, too!
I press thumb-up before I press "play." I'm already subscribed.
The "Genie" skit was your best so far. Love the magic at the end!
Thanks Kut 👍
When I wake up and there is no water or electric I am going to turn on my solar generator for power. To take a shower, no problem. I have a 500 gallon, elevated water tank :)
Exactly what I plan on doing, I have been planning for over a year since I have retired.
Ken, u in PI?
I like it Ken. Don't be a victim of circumstance.
I have two diesel generators for power. One for the house and one for the pig pen.
As a five year veteran in the legion I love the truth that you speak of. It is beautiful country with beautiful people, the fact that there is the odd power outage or average internet is the very reason why it appeals to me. Hard working, smiling lovely people that raise my spirits. Thank you pea.
The magic genie part was great. Hope you don’t have to quarantine coming back from Baghdad.
I think I have to, but Major Nelson is trying to sneak me across in his pocket 😂
@@TheFilipinaPea... Be sure to practice a li'l pocket pool during your journey, Jeanie. The major will enjoy it, I'm sure! 😉 (woodpecker humor) ahahaha
@@TheFilipinaPea i liked the genie thing i just want to know how you knew what i was thinking?
hahahahaha great videos keep up the good work.
@@TheFilipinaPea LoL good one !
Good one!
RIP Larry Hagman. Barbara is 90 now!
I've met an amazing girl recently in Davao and have been seriously thinking about moving there in about 2 months if the relationship lasts (which I'm pretty confident it will), thankfully I have some money saved and everything work-related can be done remotely so there is that. I've been dreaming of visiting the PH since I first watched FinnSnow about 3 years ago and the more I watched and researched the more I fell in love with this country, however, I really hope that all that is not just a fantasy now. The best way to find out is just to live there for a month or 2 I guess.
Oh... my girlfriend is also from Davao... please let me know about your experience after getting there.
No offense but Finn snow isn't the best to follow on info about life I. Phillipines...don't be big headed and jump in to something you can't come back from...
@@sithinm341 ahhhhhh, is your GF his GF!!?? hehehe, just kidding but crazier things happen. Anyone else have the same thought?
Davao a good city. I lived there. Got married in San Pedro church.
Pea, I have a suggestion on a future video for you that would be great information for your Filipino viewers as well as western men. As is is something that my wife had to adapt to and I had to understand. When a filipina, especially a Filipina from a poor family gets married to a foreigner, her social status especially in her family changes, and not always in a good way. For example, my wife is the middle child of 5 siblings, she was a single mother, and didn't finish high school, in her family, especially her extended family, she was on the low end of respect and her opinions didn't carry much weight. But when we got married, she suddenly became the leading voice in her family, to the point that her parents, siblings and other family members were afraid to challenge anything she said. She suddenly became head of the household, im sure at first it was a great feeling to be respected for the first time in her life, but the stress and weight of carrying the responsibility so suddenly is not easy.
YES, that’s often the case, and I noticed much the same thing when I started dating foreigners 👍
This is Chinese influenced to Filipino where a member of family is being measured by social class and for you being one of it's external factors, sudden change in giving face happen 😂. Like in our family, my oldest brother is rich so his view or opinion matter the most specially in business.
Pea, I was in the US Navy and was stationed in Subic two times for three years each time. Yep that's 6 years total. I have experienced all of the frustrations that you described and then some. I have also lived in the Great Civilization.. I am retiring in 6 months and plan to move back to the Philippines. Yes I know exactly what I am going back to. For me the beautiful life that you can live in the Philippines is well worth the inconvenience. The "come what may" is not just a saying, it is a way of life. Thanks for the great video.
The best way to adapt is to have a creative inventive mind to become as independent as possible.
Her insight is simplistically spot on and amazing. I'm happy I found this channel.
I’m glad you did too, Michael - thanks 👍❤️
First, I'm going to move to Florida.Since the grass looks pretty green from here.Then I will bounce back and forth to the Philippines,since the grass will look even greener.haha.I've been to the Philippines about 5 times for short vacations.I love it there.But I am the type of guy who doesn't need too much to be happy.I don't have many of the things you mentioned.like air condition, proper heating,(I have a wood stove) internet is not great.Oh yeah! no garbage deposal either,haha.I sometimes get black snakes and mice to visit my house.haha. I have fun catching them.As a matter of fact,I have 2 mice in a cage as we speak.I will let them go near the BJ"s wooded area, a few miles from here,so they don't come back.I spent a lot of time camping and fishing when I was younger.I think that helped me to appreciate what I have.I like the idea of just surviving off the land. So if you decide to live in the Philippines, leave the modern convenience's at home.And bring a good supply of patience.The end
Just be careful of the snakes in the Philippines, cobras 🐍 and the mice are as big as small cats and have wings, lol, bats 🦇
@@pjongray ...and the giant pythons here tend to eat people!!
"And bring a good supply of patience". VERY GOOD ADVICE!
I’m a person that is comfortable with change and transitions and even being by myself alone for long times. I expect to change and I will conform to the culture and the lifestyle, and really coming to make great connections and friendships hopefully finding a life partner to share the simpler life together. Love your content & I’m sure your having a great time while your producing for your channel.❤
"the trick is to repeat all the little things that makes you happy." This should be printed on the visa application...
this should be tattooed on every human child at birth in atleast 3 languages common to the area of birth.
Let’s start a petition 👍😂
@@TheFilipinaPea I wish officials (both in Philippines and Denmark) would be a more down to earth, just a bit, to allow statements like this on the application.
She basically just gives good advice and seems wise beyond her years. I’m using the VISA specialist she hosted a while ago. I will come over every third month for a few years. Meet people.
Hi Pea. I had to watch this one a few times to check myself on my preparedness. I lived there a year when I was in the military years ago. I grew up poor. I didn't have a bike. They were for rich kids. My clothes had holes in them. We did laundry by hand because the machines were for rich people. We cooked outdoors as if we were camping all the time. Our home was falling apart and we were always fixing something. We had to have a pump in our basement to pump out the water that continually leaked in through the ground. So I understand not having much. I have lived a good life and now I have spent the last seven years cutting back again to as simple as possible here. I desire a simple life. I seek joy, peace, and happiness. Yes, there are some amenities I want such as internet because my income relies on it. But I am perfectly content with a simple life and a simple woman that I am compatible with. I believe that the love and care of a good woman can outweigh all the negatives. Things never make us happy in life, though they can sometimes make us comfortable. But the relationships we have will carry us through. When I'm gone, I don't want people to talk about all the things I had or all the places I went or even how much money I did or didn't have. I want to be remembered for all the lives I touched and hopefully made better simply because I was there. There to lend a hand, or listen, or tell a joke, or share a meal. If I die with that as my legacy, I think the little inconveniences will have been insignificant. Here's to a new life in paradise. Keep up the good work, sweetie. We all appreciate the thoughtfulness and attention to detail you bring to your videos. You have become a professional at your craft and you should be proud of your accomplishments. Have a great day.
I love the end of this video. You hit the nail on the head. You need the right woman to make it work.
That phone conversation you had would melt away all my woes and make me realise I have everything in the world. Thanks, you really do tell it like it is. Don't ever change, you're amazing
I’ll never get tired of your honesty dear. You truly are doing a great service to people who are considering life there….
Thanks
wise words from someone so young, my advise before taking the big step have 3 - 6 month tasters this will give you an idea how Philippines works (or does not work) go with mind set Its not going to be like home, its different, some things are better somethings are not, somethings are frustrating, very frustrating, how i wish there was Direct Debit for bill paying, paying driving fines on line and not spendind a day in town halls we have learnt when going to restauant is always best to ask before looking at menu whats not available, go with open mind accept its going to be different you would not buy a car with out a test drive test drive the Philippines for me the positives out weigh the negatives
" we have learnt when going to restauant is always best to ask before looking at menu whats not available, " It's all part of the experience for newbies. :)
I were in Philippines 5 times before and i enjoyed very much. I felt very much at home in Philippines. As a native from Malaysia, a Malay, i found many common similarities in Tagalog and Malay like sakit , tulong, payong, pintu, bumbong, dinding, tangki and more words with same meaning. Respect , friendly , warmth and close family relationship appealed to me. So i don't have any culture shock in Philippines besides minor ones like drinking alcohol ( I don't drink) and i dont go to clubs and bars. My 2 previous relationship with filipina ladies failed but the 3rd time last to this day without problem. I enjoyed filipino evergreen singer like Rey Valera , Ariel Rivera , Renz Verano and more . I can sing their songs quite well. I love actors movies like FPJ, Rudy Fernandez, Robin Padilla and more. That's how i comprehend Tagalog. I guess i am Filipino at heart, a guy who embrace filipino culture and language. Career wise i am a fx copytrader who earns online. I can relocate to philippines wherever internet coverage is available. I don't intend to start a business in Philippines.
Interesting... But, you continue to live in Malaysia, while in a relationship with a filipina for how long now? I wonder if she is with you there, and if you plan to ever move to the Philippines.
All I have ever required is a roof over my head, a bed to sleep in, and food on the table. I have driven in the Philippines...there are no traffic "laws", just "suggestions". It's crazy. I already live without all the "luxuries" mentioned. Never had central air/heat, but I told my wife I insist on an air conditioner at least in the bedroom. Already on a Philippine diet because she does all the cooking same as she would back home.
I believe if my wife does the driving (and I keep my eyes closed,) I get my air conditioner, and I can get used to the 5am roosters, I will be ok.
But do you like the 24 hour roosters? That's the real question 🤣
I learn so much watching your videos. My lifestyle and attitude I'm finding out would be a good fit. I've always been a simple man enjoying the simple things in life
I greatly enjoy your wit. I always look forward to the small skit after the main video ends. I can tell the amount of thought and work you put into your videos. However, I most appreciate your rational mind. It is so rare nowadays.
You are deep. Do you know what I mean? Very thoughtful. You're empathic. You understand other people and their motivations. You'd make a good phycologist or perhaps a counselor or teacher. I like you.
Thanks Michael 👍😊
Thanks for the video, Pea. Every foreigner that is considering coming to the Philippines should subscribe and pay close attention to Pea's videos because in my opinion her videos have more valuble content than any other CZcams channel about living in the Philippines. I've been living in the Philippines for 6months or more every year since 2008, except for 2 yrs I lived in Thailand, so I can speak from experience:)
Great video! Was there 6 months and the Philippines did change me . I meet my soulmate had to back to US to sell my property then covid hit now stuck in US.
Got everything sold living with my son for now waiting for the Philippines to open.
I still rent an apartment on Siquijor where my fiancé lives and i support her monthly.
We video chat twice a day amd are praying the Philippines will open soon . We miss each other terribly. I can deal with everything that is different there
As long as I can come back home .
Love the Philippines and your channel like I said I can’t wait to return
Edwin and Helen
It has been so long since I was last there. Since June 15, 1991. I was there for about 7 months before then. The first month was difficult because of culture shock. So even finding a safe road to go jogging 🏃♀️ on or a bar that served the type of beer 🍺 I liked was frustrating.
It helped greatly I found a great friend who gave me a lot of good advice on where to go, what to find and places to stay away from. So when I had liberty and left the base, it was great to see her and go out with her.
A year after the volcano 🌋 went up I lost contact with her unfortunately. I remember she moved back home with her family. I can only hope she’s been fine all these years.
Soooo many people lost contact during that volcano, yes
@@wardcummins8736 Clark and Subic were both evacuated, my ship came from Guam to help pull things together. It was a major mess. The civilians really were hurt.
Wow, love the flower print dress! Been here 3 years and this is home. I am going back to the US shortly for a visit. Am not looking forward to it, as I said, this is home now.
I’ll be interested to see your impressions of the US when you go back 👍😊
@@wardcummins8736 what european countries have u visited?
@@wardcummins8736 I think your outlook and opinion is laughable and how long did you “live” in the Philippines?
@@hanksandoval3466 Attack on the US Capitol???? A few idiots broke some windows and another stole a lectern and other mischief occurred but for the most part people were walking through the Capitol building peacefully... staying within the ropes. Stop watching the least trusted name in news (CNN).
@@kristiangranstrom9158 most over rhe years
Magical as always Pea. I had a wonderful mentor advise me early in life to learn how to "repeat the little things that make you happy". So I can testify to the wisdom of that insightful advice. It also reminded me of something else my mentor shared. "Never make a decision based on fear." I've always interpreted that as meaning never let fear of failure prevent you making a decision or embracing change. A move to the Philippines will surely require adaptation to a new way of life with many compromises. Few major changes come free of compromise. To me, the question is not whether one can endure and even enjoy such change. It's all about the rewards that make this change worthwhile.
Pea, your advise would apply no matter where you live. Well said my little pea!
The same warnings and advice applies to Thailand. The attitude you need is Sabai Sabai. สบาย สบาย
A serious matter handled by an expert infotainer. Thank you Pea ❤
Thanks so much for that, DonQ 👍❤️
100% truth. 3 years in Cebu City revealed the importance of the qualities spoken of here. Be warned: Patience and adapting to your new life are the two main keys for happiness anywhere you go.
Miss p. Whether it would work out for me one way or the other would not matter. The adventure would be the crate part. Hopefully things would work out but if not it would be one hell of an experience
As always great advice from the Pilipino Pea. A must watch video for anyone considering visiting the Philippines.
I have lived in general Santos city for the last five years. The biggest quality any potential expat requires is patience. Life here is lived at a much slower pace. I often wake up to having no electricity and my home has never had hot water or air conditioning. Driving here takes skill but in reality it’s not much different from driving in rush hour traffic in London. Just watch out for the single motors with no lights at night. I find working here generally enjoyable. The average wage is only around 350 PHP each day but the work is easy and my work peers enjoy working with me. At first expats would find the choice of food available a little plane. You will not be enjoying things like deserts and custard, frozen pizzas and many types of dressings. 7-Eleven does offer a wide range of western style foods. Jollibee is great for when you first arrive there and crave fast food. My advice is to go to the eateries and try all kinds of different Filipino food. Eventually you do find things that are enjoyable and you soon forget about typical western meals. The biggest difference you will notice as soon as you get away from the airport is the amount of attention you receive from just about everyone. The days of going out without getting a second glance is totally over when in the Philippines. You will hear hey Joe shouted at you many times and see people trying to film you in secret. When you are walking just sneakily look at people as you walk past, trust me their attention will be on you. After a while you do become blind to it and once people know who you are they don’t tend to bother you as much. The Philippines is a beautiful country and the people are very kind and respectful. In truth not many people have tried to take advantage. But once they know you’re no pushover they will not waste their time on you.
That was the cutest outro yet !!! You’re adorable Pea !!! lol ❤️😃😃
Sweet Pea's video just gave me another gut punch. I spent 2 years in paradise and almost every day something would happen to test my mild mannered personality and the ugly dragon would come out of me screaming with fire. Things like a delivery promised to be delivered by lunch time only to be amazed that lunchtime might be 9 PM for that person. And now, having been back home for 6 months, I miss all the beauty that I missed while living in paradise. All because I wanted to see a change in the laid back culture of that beautiful country.... I can't wait to get back. I miss it and sweet Pea has given me many wakeup calls with her awesome approach to delivering her message.
The Philippines is like anywhere else, the only exception is that it is so much slower
Pea you are very good. I watched many of your videos and founf them very informative. I and an online relationship with my filipina girlfriend for a year than in 2010 we agreed to meet in Cebu Philippines on a w week holiday. She had resorts set up and paid for when i got there and had a wonderful visit meeting her family. At the end of a 2 week stay i bought her an engagement ring and she cried when i put it on her finger. I retired in 2011 and moved to the Philes in JUly. we have been married 11 years now and i am happy i made the right decision... thanks again for your vdeos
You’re the best, Pea! Thank you for ‘telling it like it is”!!!!! :)
Thanks so much Shark! I always will 👍😊
I doubt all of the people who returned to the west were dissatisfied with the Philippines. I know if I lived there, I would miss my family here in the US, that would eventually be the deciding factor in returning home. Good video, Pea. Loved the Genie outfit.
Thanks Bill! Yup, there would be many reasons to return 😊
Great advice and insight, I have been there many times and even own a nice house there for my visits, but I know I could never live there. I hope your viewers take the things you say seriously because the things you say are frequent all over the Philippines. The power is unreliable and expensive, the water is unreliable and undrinkable the traffic is impossible and the roads are mostly a disaster in all but the main cities and then they are so congested you can't drive on them. You got to get used to nothing but junk available in most places and hearing "Sorry Sir, out of stock". Even good restaurants seem to have trouble serving a good Western style meal. I could go on for ever and ever about the pitfalls there, and don't get me going on hospitals in any thing but a large city. People please believe Filipina Pea, she absolutely knows what she is talking about, and she just scratched the surface.
Thanks Bruce! And yes, I could only scratch the surface for fear of being lynched by my own countrymen 😂
Why (and, how) do you own a house in a country you despise so much? 🤔 And, merely out of curiosity, which is the utopian country you call home?
One day I will learn how to donate to this awesome channel! I visited the Phillipines for 30 days in 2019. Then covid hit and now I cannot return. But I am retired at 57 and moved from Cali to Vegas last summer and purchased a home. But I still intend on living part time in the PI when the border opens. I found the living accomidations adequate and comfortable. My prayers go out to the people thrre who are suffering 🙏🙏
Thank you so much for those sentiments, Aaron 👍❤️😊
Another thing about reverse-expattism: The West is changing rapidly right now. Depending how long you've been gone, it's not just your distorted expectations that might shock you on return.
Sadly, there are many who want to turn the US into a third-world country. They're making headway, too.
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@@TheFilipinaPea 😊
As I'm considering a move to the Philippines, I appreciate your candid comments.
I survive just wonderfully . I typically stay in the beaches of boracay or shangri la in Manila .. but I am rich
Anyone can be rich but you can't buy class
Hi!! I spent many years in the Philippines while in the Navy, I had a wonderful woman and have a son with her that I still communicate with. My wonderful woman, unfortunately< died shortly after the US left the Philippines. I am now in my 70's and intend to return to be near my son and his family. Here in the states, I have lived mostly "off grid" since I retired. I enjoy the simple life and just miss the warmth of being further south in the world (the water pipes were all frozen when I got up this morning). Look forward to getting back home!!!
after 55 years together. paradise is where-ever my WARAY princess leads.
Hey pea my beautiful friend, you are 100%correct as usual. I lived in the Philippines for almost a year and a half. From February 2016 until October of 2018. It's takes a lot of patience and I really didn't have a problem with anything there except for the dreaded out of stock answer. But when I get back to the Philippines, I will always roll with the punches. Thank you for sharing this awesome video my dear friend. Please stay safe and healthy, and God bless you and your family always.😊 😊 😊 ❤️ ❤️ ❤️
I’m so glad you could take it here, Darryl 👍❤️
You keep bringing it! I am going to work on my people skills as when I think about it, I can be inpatient at times. Not living in PI yet, but plan on retiring next year at the age of 56. House is built condo is all paid and I am ready to eat some balut again! Thank you PEA!
I think I need a personal Filipina pea guided tour before I make any decisions
Hahahahaha
You’ll have to wait till my clones define available 😂
We all do
Your clone filipina bean
Well I'd pay good money for that service. 👍
@@TheFilipinaPea just crossed your arms and genie them into existence. If you have ever seen the movie multiplicity then you will know why you should stay away from cloning, 😂
Wow that was a great eye opener. I have never been to the Philippines. But I have plans on coming over once the country opens up and staying for 3 to 6 months with the idea of moving over there, I am going to rethink my plains a little. The great thing about that video is it made me think about what I thinking about doing. Thank you
Once again on target, after living overseas for 5 consecutive years, I couldn't wait to get back to the U.S. only to find the some of the same issues that I previously overlooked.😳
I've lived and traveled in the Western Pacific (including a week in the Philippines) and she is 100% correct. Once you realize they aren't going to change on your account life will get a lot easier.
My girlfriend and I have spent time together in Australia, she is back in PH now until we can travel again but she has already said I would not like living there... I already get annoyed listening to roosters, dogs barking and kids yelling when we are video chatting... Might just be a holiday to Palawan, Siargao etc. and then back to Australia...
i wouldn’t like to be you
Just move to a condo, no chickens or dogs 8 floors up haha
@@looptimelapse I have no intention of living in the Philippines... Visit yes... Live... a BIG no...
You can avoid that by living in a condo building. Just make sure it doesn't buty up against a standard neighborhood.
Once again you are spot on explaining the frustration someone can experience in the PI
Thanks Larry 👍❤️
Us humans are creatures of habit. Only a few people are able to overcome and adapt to new surroundings. Those people have the patience of Job.
The best additional advice is to not have an attitude of superiority. There are so many wonderful things and ways of doing things there that I love. I enjoy learning and adapting to your culture and have a deep love and admiration for the country and people.
Being a super impatient driver, my plan (wherever I may land) is to live where I don't actually NEED a car, I'd be better off letting someone else drive while I attempt to ignore the situation. Love the new outro, they actually have the original I Dream of Jeannie on youtube, I had never seen it. She was quite the horny homewrecker in the pilot.
Hahahahaha
The Horny Homewrecker? Sounds more interesting than the Happy Homemaker 😂
That's smart. In many of my travels I've met plenty of expats who tell me they're better off not driving. At least not driving a car. Why? Because when an accident occurs in a developing nation it always seems to be the rich foreigner's fault. Bike cut you off and you had no chance to stop? Your fault. Car rear ends you? Your fault. It just seems like the headache mixed with the crazy driving isn't worth it.
Thank you Pea, I'm traveling to the Philippines for two weeks for a friend's engagement event, and I'm a little nervous. Your videos help me understand what to be aware of.
Perfect, David! That’s what I’m here for 👍❤️
Pea, that was funny! a feet away from the driveway, I'll see you in a few hours! Lol
I didn't expect you to blink away. Lol
Hahahahaha
Glad I surprised you, Daryl! 😂
You are a wonder of empathy and understanding and you have the rare ability to hold a mirror before us, the best feedback one can get and hopefully many expats to be will watch your video,s. Marami maraming salamat.
I'm definitely going to be dreaming of Jeannie tonight. :). Thanks for the realistic view of the philippines. I love the idea of visiting there long-term, but I don't think I could see myself living there long-term. I'm not a man who requires a lot of luxury or anything, but I do have basic needs that I don't know if they could be met there. Now Malaysia or Thailand would be nice, but I've only been to Malaysia so far. I think that no matter where you are, it's all about your attitude. I tend to be a man that embraces things that are different than myself and what I'm used to.
How about you? You're a Filipina who's actually had a taste of the West. Do you find reacclamation difficult? Would you prefer to live in the West?
I'm curious about those 'basic needs' you feel might be lacking for you in the Philippines...
@@woodpeckery foods stuff for sure. Maybe not a basic need but I miss it.
I'm looking forward to coming to the Philippines. I have no vision of living in a paradise,. But to adapt to the culture of the Philippines.. I have had the grass is greener experience in the west, the grass is as green as you make it where you are.
I was waiting for an innuendo about rubbing the magic lamp. BAD William!
And, so, did you rub yours? 🤣
I actually wrote that into the original script, but it seemed cliche, like everyone was expecting it 😂
The "Pretty Pea" has a naughty side to which spices things up just about right. She's an honest Pea who tells it like it is!!
*Let's hear it for the prude... Rah rah rah bahhh! 🤣🍺🍻
When I first got here I adopted the attitude into my very soul of "no worry...no hurry" and it has been the best.
I have visited back to the states several times to visit family in the 8-9 years i have been here. There is no way I could live back there any more...I usually go for a month..but after a short time of sometimes only a week?...I am ready to come back home here.
My usual schedule: open the Filipina Pea video, like it, then watch it.
And step 4: rewatch it 😂😂😂
Thank 👍
Me too😊
@@TheFilipinaPea Which brings up a question I had, do you get ad credit if we rewatch the videos?
I spent three years there in the Navy 1989-92. My motorcycle was there and I bought a Ford Courier from a transferring Navy buddy. My wife and I visit when we can. Tacloban is where we go! My wife learned to drive my truck there. I like the Chicken Joy at Jolli Bee, Get used to brown outs. Had those in Olongapo.
Well seriously mostly westerners can't deal the kind of living we have here cuz they used to live a comfortably and are spoiled not like us filipinos,,we are hardworking and survivors no matter what the situation is
If your culture adapted and improved instead of languishing in "thats just how we are", you wouldn't have to work so hard and so long. You wouldn't have TOTAL dependence on your relatives working elsewhere and sending money home. And you wouldn't be begging every foreigner for money...you'd have your own. But filipinos are quite child like in their world outlook...professionals at playing "victim". Yes, many Westerners are spoiled...but we still have to WORK SMART and EFFICIENTLY in order to prosper. Contrary to what my Filipinos think...money doesnt just fall into our laps. ☮
Ok..I have a confession. I skipped to the end before watching the first part...I don't know how it happened, but I'm sure glad I did!
How dare you! 😂😂😂
The question is: who can survive me
Hahahahaha
Sounds like a challenge 😂
@@TheFilipinaPea Gimme the time and place post-quarantine LOL
Loved the new closing.