the problem with temu & why you should NEVER shop there

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  • čas přidán 29. 08. 2023
  • I've been ON ONE about the influx of consumerism lately. One day I had no idea what TEMU was and the next they have been taking over with sponsored content & cheap wasteful products. Would love to hear your feedback in the comments or on I N S T A G R A M » @shelbizleee (bit.ly/3zNR0DT)
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  • @literaryfirearms
    @literaryfirearms Před 10 měsíci +736

    It's so wild that we live in a world where "don't buy shit you don't need" is a hot take.

    • @Shelbizleee
      @Shelbizleee  Před 10 měsíci +66

      agreed

    • @dklee.01
      @dklee.01 Před 8 měsíci +18

      but how will i make endless videos about all of the finger puppets i have?? how will i know if people are jealous of me?? i really needed that $4.00 pillow to tie my bedroom together 🥺/j

    • @thanhlong66710
      @thanhlong66710 Před 6 měsíci

      True

    • @pamelavanderzyl5636
      @pamelavanderzyl5636 Před 6 měsíci

      ​​​@@dklee.01No you don't, you need to buy food, clothes, gas for your car, rent, you make it sound so trivial when our whole way of life is at stake. Don't laugh, it is true! China is destroying our economy with their crap, you may be to young to understand that, but it doesn't make any less true.
      They want to control our country, and they will kill as many of us as they can to get it! Please look at some of what they are talking about on the news. If they're allowed to cover it. Some of our own representatives are working against us with China. They have given Biden and his son and others in our government millions to betray their own people and country! Don't help them by using companies from China.
      Do you still need that $4.00 pillow?
      Learn to sew, you could redo your entire room, It isn't hard.

    • @Littlepocketrocket81
      @Littlepocketrocket81 Před 3 měsíci

      Agreed 👍

  • @kelly55
    @kelly55 Před 10 měsíci +1094

    "Someone pays the price when you do things like this"
    List of reasons why these items are unreasonably cheap from the end of the video:
    - Not paying people
    - Sketchy shortcuts
    - Contaminating water
    - Extracting goods (especially from disadvantaged communities)
    - Breaking regulations
    - Stealing & copying

    • @nette101
      @nette101 Před 10 měsíci +11

      You don't think that happens here. Oh ,I forgot...
      Out of sight out of mind 🤣😂🤦🏽‍♀️

    • @Mczzin
      @Mczzin Před 10 měsíci +22

      That's so naive. The problem is not wether you buy it or not. These things are THAT cheap because of all the things you listed, yeah. But those things if not sold in Temu, they're going to be sold somewhere else like Target, Walgreens etc, but with a HUGE mark up. So, the final outsome would be: you still bought such item, but payed more for it and the producer will keep it's production practices and the intermediary will make a profit of it. Temu, or you buying from it, is not the problem, the problem is that the country were these things are produced allows its industries to operate under non-ethical practices and that's a much bigger problem to solve, thay will not be solved by you not buying from Temu.

    • @kelly55
      @kelly55 Před 9 měsíci +19

      @@Mczzin I guess you didn't really watch the video then, since I literally just typed out what Shelby listed. The video (and thus my comment) does not argue that not buying from Temu will solve anything. And when it comes to a situation where you really need a specific item from the same manufacturer which happens to be sold at Temu at a lower price there's probably none or very little difference in environmental cost.
      However, the main reason why shopping at Temu should be discouraged is that the majority of these items are things no one really needs (tiny plastic hands were an example in the video) or extremely low quality (an example was a copy of a designer wedding dress). So these are purchases that otherwise might've been prevented by those American retail prices, and thus artificially low prices increase demand and supply. But I'm willing to bet you already know that that's the case. People that try to defend this kind of overconsumption in any way are often wilfully ignorant I find.
      I probably typed this whole reaction for nothing, since someone responding to people trying to do better for the environment etc. claiming "naivety" is obviously commenting in bad faith. Ah whatever, might as well post it now anyway.

    • @Mczzin
      @Mczzin Před 9 měsíci +2

      @@kelly55 There's a big problem when you discourage the exchange of ideas (by saying that my comment is in bad faith or that I'm ignorant), when debate happens to be a crucial aspect of living in a society. Nevertheless, the video (and you) say that people should not buy in Temu because of consumerism and that they sell items no one really needs. However that's a very simplistic analysis. Temu sells more things than that, and again it's incorrect to say "Don't buy in Temu because of the environmenttttt 😭". In any case, the problem is superfluous shopping, and not buying items in Temu.

    • @kelly55
      @kelly55 Před 9 měsíci +16

      @@Mczzin You display exactly what I said though. You started your first comment with an accusation of naivety and now again try to establish some sort of superiority by calling the point simplistic and mocking the "caring about the environment" part of this whole discourse. All the while you know that "superfluous consumption" is the problem and are deliberately not acknowledging that the video and I have both already made that the main point from the very beginning. How is that not bad faith?

  • @PumpkinMozie
    @PumpkinMozie Před 10 měsíci +1087

    every time I think consumerism can't get any worse....it does. This is so gross.

    • @sebs9361
      @sebs9361 Před 10 měsíci +10

      ikr

    • @pinkfeet518
      @pinkfeet518 Před 10 měsíci +32

      i knew it was bad when my aunt said she ordered a wedding guest dress off of temu and complained it didn’t look as advertised, like duh

    • @klaytonalexandermatthews2047
      @klaytonalexandermatthews2047 Před 10 měsíci +10

      ​@@pinkfeet518she did what 👁️👄👁️ you can find WEDDING DRESSES?

    • @pinkfeet518
      @pinkfeet518 Před 10 měsíci

      @@klaytonalexandermatthews2047 no no a wedding guest dress! BUT i have seen wedding dresses being sold on shein and temu which is very alarming being that they steal actual bridal photos

    • @saturnthemirrorball
      @saturnthemirrorball Před 8 měsíci +6

      @@klaytonalexandermatthews2047 OP said wedding *guest* dress but I wouldn’t be surprised if there were wedding dresses on there, lol.

  • @PumpkinMozie
    @PumpkinMozie Před 10 měsíci +885

    I hate when people ask "why do you care?" Because the more valid question is "why DON'T you care??!" Like, do these people have zero empathy for real people suffering right now, not to mention all future generations?? How are so many people so selfish and for what? Plastic puppet hands? Like that's really worth other people's right to a healthy Earth? Makes me sick.

    • @sebs9361
      @sebs9361 Před 10 měsíci +65

      AND the animals, the rivers, forests, everything on earth is suffering but people act like they are blind, deaf and mute, literally the 3 emojis: 🙈🙉🙊

    • @anthropomorphicpeanut6160
      @anthropomorphicpeanut6160 Před 10 měsíci +51

      This!!! But apparently I'm an "extremist" because I never buy clothes and I try to make them myself if I need them 🙄

    • @thinkingbout
      @thinkingbout Před 10 měsíci +23

      ​@@anthropomorphicpeanut6160That you're doing your clothing yourself, is really amazing! I don't have the skills for that but hope to sew me some clothing myself in the future, too!

    • @larissabrglum3856
      @larissabrglum3856 Před 10 měsíci +13

      Yes!!! The selfish entitlement is astounding to me.

    • @anthropomorphicpeanut6160
      @anthropomorphicpeanut6160 Před 10 měsíci +11

      @@thinkingbout I'm just starting haha, I only do underwear and pajama pants for now

  • @gracesgoodvibes
    @gracesgoodvibes Před 10 měsíci +609

    my family members keep trying to tell me to shop on temu when i complain about not being able to afford certain things, and it's soo annoying. like no, i'd rather save up and support a company that's not trash

    • @audreysavard3248
      @audreysavard3248 Před 10 měsíci +34

      Same there. Last weekend was awfull, there were trying to make us buy knock-off things we are waiting to have enougth money to buy it.
      We had stop sharing our wishlist with them because they just buy cheap versions of it that we can't even use and is taking lot of room in our appartment. We don't even talk we had buy something because they will go buy a second cheap version of it and using the excuse they buy it by error. (No dad, you don't accidently buy a 32" pants when you are 36" or a headphone cask when you only use earplugs).

    • @BlazeeOnYt
      @BlazeeOnYt Před 9 měsíci

      It's not even trash I got headphones that have lasted a year so far best shi I got for 5 dollars. stop playing nigga

    • @bleechrcreechrr
      @bleechrcreechrr Před 8 měsíci +1

      ​@@XgoodbyeXdidn't know tencent was a big shareholder thanks for the info

    • @karlaruter3221
      @karlaruter3221 Před 8 měsíci

      Same here 😊

    • @kennethdrew9970
      @kennethdrew9970 Před 4 měsíci +1

      how do you judge, or know if a company is trash? Do you use an Iphone? made by same people that makes Temu products. How about a big screen tv, almost all made in China, by the same people. Should the US be required to have a label put on all products that are made with slave labor? If so, a lot of people would be very surprised. The US farmers kill chickens, ship them to China to have them butchered and packaged, then sent to US and sold cheaper than if they were butchered and packaged in the US. Do you eat chickens packaged in China (a tremendous percentage of US chickens are.).

  • @ChrisBrooks34
    @ChrisBrooks34 Před 10 měsíci +471

    Ever since shein I have been trained to think: if anything is too cheap, there's something hella suspect about this company. And Temu has been following around the internet like a stalker. They are creating trash and it will be piling up on this planet. Not to mention the amount of exploitation that has to be happening to had such dirt cheap prices.
    Edit: there was a Temu ad in the middle of this video because the universe has the darkest sense of humor

    • @kleom
      @kleom Před 9 měsíci +1

      lmao

    • @toxihex876
      @toxihex876 Před 9 měsíci +22

      I've shopped from AliExpress as a clueless teenager and genuinely didn't see the problem with it or even think if there is one. I knew it's a scam company but thought that the worst they do is sell a clothing item that's so cheaply made it's a 50/50 on whether it's gonna be like the picture or not. Now, years later, after several documentaries on the state and origin of pollution and an adult view over labor, it feels like I'm yelling into empty space when trying to convince other adults they should care about this. Everyone seems to think things will just work out because some smart person will come up with an idea that saves the planet, yet do nothing to create the environment which at the very least doesn't exploit smart people. Someone else will do it, right? And then "you and I can't do anything about it" followed by absolute disregard towards me explaining how talking about it and spreading the correct information will make a dent.

    • @hayleydavis7562
      @hayleydavis7562 Před 9 měsíci +6

      Even before she in it was wish that had me getting more aware of this crap.

    • @XgoodbyeX
      @XgoodbyeX Před 9 měsíci +7

      You can tell temu was bad from the mass advertising and giving you "discounts" for getting randoms to download it the main reason i hate temu is advertising because i should have never been shown ads for temu according to personalised ads but nah still to this day see temu ads

    • @pamelavanderzyl5636
      @pamelavanderzyl5636 Před 6 měsíci

      Don't forget Tick Tock. They want to get the younger generation hooked because the older people (most, but not all know what's going on, some don't care as long as they get rich! They are the worst!)China is at some point going to try to take over our country. Young people aren't the only ones the Chinese gov. are targeting, the greedy are way above the young people. At least the young people have good reason, "their young and mostly innocent.)The greedy have no excuse but greed! They are selling out their(our) country for money!
      Do some research, find out just how many acres the United States has allowed Chine to buy, and why is that land close to our service installation?

  • @KowaiZuzu
    @KowaiZuzu Před 10 měsíci +203

    My dad's always getting scammed because he just can't understand that things cost that much for a reason. A $200 bottle of liquor on sale for $20 on a website no one's ever heard of? Yeah that makes sense. A PS5 for $250 right after being released? What a great deal I'll get two.
    We try to discourage him but he just keeps falling for it. Luckily for him he has had luck getting refunded.

  • @MotherofaKaiDragon
    @MotherofaKaiDragon Před 10 měsíci +366

    We learned about supply and demand, did we not? If we stop demanding it (ie. don’t buy stuff) they’ll be forced to stop supplying it 💯

    • @karlaruter3221
      @karlaruter3221 Před 8 měsíci +1

      Great point!

    • @tracyschmidt7929
      @tracyschmidt7929 Před měsícem

      That’s why this video it’s important tho. To educate ppl on why they don’t need it when all the “influencers” are telling you that you do need it. And if not for that reason than for all the reasons she lists.

  • @larissabrglum3856
    @larissabrglum3856 Před 10 měsíci +138

    I'm not shocked that James Charles would promote a notoriously unethical company

    • @sabersky1134
      @sabersky1134 Před 9 měsíci +2

      Along with Laura Lee and Sam and Colby.

  • @Chelseabee55
    @Chelseabee55 Před 10 měsíci +83

    If James Charles loves temu prices so much, maybe he should sell his own items there for pennies

  • @kimwatson7463
    @kimwatson7463 Před 10 měsíci +87

    I am a 67 year old grandmother and I am so glad you are out there fighting for our earth! I don’t follow all of the trends but when I saw all the plastic crap that no one ever needs I get so mad! And not just plastic! I have a friend who needed to buy one dress for a wedding reception and ended up buying three so she would have a few choices for such a cheap price. What did she do? She either wore the remaining two around the house or threw them away. 😢😢😢

  • @IvaneL2187
    @IvaneL2187 Před 9 měsíci +58

    I am proud to say that I’ve NEVER shop from Temu or Shein, I never WILL

    • @kennethdrew9970
      @kennethdrew9970 Před 4 měsíci +1

      but I'll bet you shop for products made by the same people that make TEMU products, they just don't use the label.

  • @yaoibanana
    @yaoibanana Před 10 měsíci +111

    I used to shop every week in my 20's I discovered you and slowly changed my habits. I still shop a lot, but I wait weeks before I buy things to make sure I really want them and I avoid places and brands where I know I'll spend money. You literally helped me rewire my spending habits

    • @love2000amglam
      @love2000amglam Před 10 měsíci +7

      Shopping is terrible entertainment.

    • @naomiweaver2152
      @naomiweaver2152 Před 8 měsíci

      What do you need to buy to go shopping that often?! All I can think of is food! I personally hate shopping though so I'm lucky!

  • @rixiu7669
    @rixiu7669 Před 10 měsíci +212

    First time I saw them was in an advertisement of a popular CZcamsr my first thought was "Please, not another trash shop, that sell cheap stuff noone needs". And then of course it blew up and I am so done. Consumerism is cancer to our earth.

    • @TyneeBubbles
      @TyneeBubbles Před 10 měsíci +4

      Same. It's like they gave steroids to Wish, or something. I thought that beast was bad enough, turns out that was just the mini-boss >.

    • @klaytonalexandermatthews2047
      @klaytonalexandermatthews2047 Před 10 měsíci +7

      ​@@TyneeBubblesit's like someone tried to cut the head off of wish and Alibaba, but it was actually a hydra and multiple more heads popped out

    • @TyneeBubbles
      @TyneeBubbles Před 10 měsíci +4

      @klaytonalexandermatthews2047 Bahaha, exactly! 😅 Now we have an ever expanding monster out of control; time to take a leaf out of ol' Hercules' book, and bury it in a rock slide 😅

    • @Arimakesedits
      @Arimakesedits Před 15 dny +1

      ikr though..

  • @ronjaj.addams-ramstedt1023
    @ronjaj.addams-ramstedt1023 Před 10 měsíci +390

    Thank you for this video! I have been so irritated by Temu's CZcams ads alone, and reading the Snopes report on Temu gave me chills (not the good kind). Trash, product forgeries, no-show parcels, price dumping, and raking in as much user data as they can, wherever they can - yikes!

    • @larissabrglum3856
      @larissabrglum3856 Před 10 měsíci +25

      For the most part, algorithms seem to understand that I'm a person who cares about more sustainable and ethical products, but Temu is pushing its ads so hard that even I'm getting flooded with them.

    • @sebs9361
      @sebs9361 Před 10 měsíci +6

      fortunately i didn't receive one single ad from it, i think it's bc i live in another country? idk, but shein loves to chase me even though i never searched for it neither downloaded, i hate it so much but the only thing i can do is clicking to not recommend it anymore (already did many times lol)

    • @janiecapri9905
      @janiecapri9905 Před 10 měsíci +1

      I ordered three cops in the small and when they came they were extra large

    • @tiamarrow6366
      @tiamarrow6366 Před 9 měsíci +1

      It’s basically another Shein

    • @Saltinator
      @Saltinator Před 8 měsíci

      I use smart tube, it auto skips all ads whether theyre youtube inserted ads, or channel user inserted ads. They're all skipped so you can enjoy youtube videos without being bothered. Even video intros and outros are auto skipped.

  • @stephaniebateman2637
    @stephaniebateman2637 Před 10 měsíci +179

    This makes so much sense! I knew Temu was shady and just selling shit, but I didn’t know it’s at an actual loss to take over the market! This will just put pressure on other brands to compete at those prices, encouraging human rights violations in a race to the bottom. Thank you Shelby. You really help me articulate this stuff to the people in my life.

  • @JillianEve
    @JillianEve Před 10 měsíci +79

    I'm so dismayed at the amount of yarn coming from Temu at ridiculously low prices. Thank you for this informative rant. Everything here needed to be said. 100% someone somewhere is paying the true cost of these products and it's not worth 5 minutes of novelty fun.

  • @Stephinachan13
    @Stephinachan13 Před 10 měsíci +70

    So recently in Cloth Diaper community (at least in the groups I'm in) they have been pointing out that they (TEMP, Shein, etc) aren't compliant. So the cloth diapers they sell probably contain toxins, like lead...
    Cloth diapers can be really expensive so I can understand those on a budget thinking those cheap sites are a good option, but they could literally be poisoning their baby.

    • @ecofriendlyadventures5154
      @ecofriendlyadventures5154 Před 10 měsíci +12

      I'm so glad tha my MIL has been stocking up on reusable nappies for when my hubby and I have a baby, as she knows I want to be eco-friendly as much as possible. (She is as well, and knows they aren't cheap which is why she's buying them a couple at a time.)

    • @AmyKaylasVegas
      @AmyKaylasVegas Před 9 měsíci +9

      That lady, if she even used her Temu cup at her beach house, was probably drinking from straight lead instead of "stainless steel."

    • @shugarysubstances
      @shugarysubstances Před měsícem +1

      I don't understand why people don't just make their own. you have nine months to prepare for this baby; making a cloth diaper is not that hard. there's sssooooo much when it comes to children/babies and the disposable throwaway nature that drives me insaaaaane

  • @Shelbizleee
    @Shelbizleee  Před 10 měsíci +203

    Hiiiii! If you're getting ads for TEMU on CZcams I would like to recommend, once again, CZcams Premium. It changed my life. If it can fit into your budget please do it!

    • @AlicedeTerre
      @AlicedeTerre Před 10 měsíci +14

      CZcams premium has been a life changer. I got a family plan just to share with friends

    • @sleepycadaver9556
      @sleepycadaver9556 Před 10 měsíci +3

      same , the ads were so annoying @@AlicedeTerre

    • @elizafavg
      @elizafavg Před 10 měsíci +1

      I did get it a while back (when you added Madison to yours) and it’s 🤌🏽🤌🏽 thx for the tip and this AWESOME Video

    • @marinasanders8299
      @marinasanders8299 Před 10 měsíci

      ​@@arianasayad4828me too😂

    • @sanhay4197
      @sanhay4197 Před 10 měsíci +3

      Yeah just all Temu adds on the video and even if I block ones I see in all videos I just get more and mire even nothing should say to the algorithm I might have slightest interest in Temu...

  • @stepheff5605
    @stepheff5605 Před 10 měsíci +84

    Love this video! I literally cringe when friends talk about ordering from Temu. Sadly, I live in an area where sustainability, recycling, giving a shit about the planet doesn’t really exist. I know I do my best to help the planet but I feel and realize that it truly isn’t enough..

    • @latristessdurera8763
      @latristessdurera8763 Před 10 měsíci +1

      Yeah, my friend was talking about her purchases from Shein. I cringed and call her stuff cheap tat.

    • @raapyna8544
      @raapyna8544 Před 9 měsíci +3

      Could you like carefully bring up that you don't trust Temu/Shein?

    • @naomiweaver2152
      @naomiweaver2152 Před 8 měsíci +1

      Out of interest whereabouts roughly do you live? USA? I'm guessing it's probably worse over there than here in UK ❤

  • @phoenixfritzinger9185
    @phoenixfritzinger9185 Před 10 měsíci +92

    It’s like just Wish with a different coat of paint
    And I remember when Wish came around everyone was roasting them for being cheap crap
    But the reception to Temu has been so different

  • @katherinefellows3382
    @katherinefellows3382 Před 10 měsíci +210

    Ironically Temu had an advertisement before this video 🤦
    I keep trying to talk people out of using it. Same with Shein and Wish.

    • @elizabethmadagan8824
      @elizabethmadagan8824 Před 10 měsíci +11

      So did I, and then another one before scrolling to the comments. Its everywhere and I wish I could block it

    • @winterzealot
      @winterzealot Před 10 měsíci +20

      Yes, I swear 90% of my ads on CZcams are just Temu now! At least I know I'll never shop there so the ads have zero influence on me.

    • @BouncyBrown
      @BouncyBrown Před 10 měsíci +26

      🎶 shop like a billionaire 🎶 ...you mean with zero regard for the environment or humanity? no thanks!

    • @luciekrajcirikova8659
      @luciekrajcirikova8659 Před 9 měsíci +2

      Same, I also had it before this video 🙄

    • @CezzyHaag
      @CezzyHaag Před 9 měsíci

      Same here. 😂

  • @Rose-pk6ss
    @Rose-pk6ss Před 9 měsíci +33

    Only 7 minutes in and I can say that this is the first REAL video I have seen on Temu. The amount of research that went into this and the breaking down of the concepts is flawless. Keep the amazing work!

  • @CocoKitty19
    @CocoKitty19 Před 10 měsíci +77

    I've never bought anything from SheIn and I won't buy anything from Temu. This is the least I can do, the least we can all do. Even when thrifting, I avoid their items like the plague !

    • @jessicav2031
      @jessicav2031 Před 10 měsíci +7

      I'm genuinely surprised their items last long enough to make it to a thrift store. I guess maybe if they were bought and never used? And does anyone actually buy clothes made of the thinnest possible cheap fabric or plastic stuff with the quality of a free giveaway toy when they can actually see and touch it?

    • @larissabrglum3856
      @larissabrglum3856 Před 10 měsíci +3

      Same here, when I go thrifting, I'm not even interested in Shein items because I know they're of the lowest possible quality.

    • @Apes_are_monkeys
      @Apes_are_monkeys Před 10 měsíci +9

      ​​@@jessicav2031I think the main reasons shein clothing ends up in thrift stores is
      1. Buyers get their item and realize it's garbage so they donate it
      2. It's a novelty item or micro trend so they wear it a couple times then donate it.
      As someone who buys most of what I need from thrift stores, it's very annoying when every few items there's shitty shein clothes or an otherwise poorly made garment that you can tell was bought cheaply from Amazon. But you learn to gloss over them I guess. I'm mostly just annoyed that people keep falling for this trash.

    • @klaytonalexandermatthews2047
      @klaytonalexandermatthews2047 Před 10 měsíci +5

      I purchased some items from shein, because I used to think it was kind of like Costco, in that it was like a giant warehouse where other brands were purchasing things from. But then I learned that it was not and I got sad and disgusted. I still have my items (two pairs of trousers and some cleaning items) and am repairing them and keeping them for as long as I can because I don't wanna fill up my trash bin.

    • @CocoKitty19
      @CocoKitty19 Před 10 měsíci

      I agree. Sometimes, I see them online (I use vinted to thrift as there are not thrift shops where I live) and some clothes look soooo cute but when I see that they're from shein, I get so disappointed because I know it will be poorly made, by exploited workers, with designed probz stolen from an internet creator. Everything about these "brands" is horrible. @@larissabrglum3856

  • @Courtney7171
    @Courtney7171 Před 10 měsíci +193

    You have convinced me to delete the Temu app and to tell my friends about your video.

    • @hynnow18
      @hynnow18 Před 9 měsíci +27

      Yay! Thank you for being open-minded and willing to do the right thing!

    • @ricardo_boutique
      @ricardo_boutique Před 7 měsíci +9

      I did the same :)

  • @nataliawineland34
    @nataliawineland34 Před 10 měsíci +60

    I have absolutely been harassed by Temu adds but thanks to this channel I know to think through my purchases

  • @Jessicaschilke
    @Jessicaschilke Před 10 měsíci +36

    Thanks for the video!! This is disturbing and disgusting, like I’m physically sick at how terrible this company is and how blind people are…

  • @annieway35
    @annieway35 Před 9 měsíci +11

    The consumerism I witnessed through the 80s, 90s, and 00s is astonishing. The wave of influencers is like a plague on the masses. Thanks for making this video Shelby, I hope it gets millions and millions of views because people should be educated and rethink the next little plastic cheap shit they buy.

  • @Mel-__-
    @Mel-__- Před 10 měsíci +105

    I don't understand how anyone could look at a country like China, a country that is committing genocide in 2023, and think that they'd have even a shred of care and compassion for the environment. Thank you for being so passionate Shelbi !

    • @deslenee8931
      @deslenee8931 Před 10 měsíci

      Lol

    • @CristanioPeweyyy
      @CristanioPeweyyy Před 9 měsíci +10

      When America does it on 3rd world countries, it's okay?

    • @xoa9956
      @xoa9956 Před 8 měsíci +1

      the uygher cultural genocide absolutely pales in comparison to the daily practices of the united states of america.

  • @weewooitsanavocado7348
    @weewooitsanavocado7348 Před 10 měsíci +17

    Honestly, I find temu so scary because it's like "what are you buying" you don't know where this thing came from, who made it- no tags, no brand... You can't say what that random shirt that you ordered is made of. None of it is regulated to make sure these items are actually safe to put on your body, and you know none of these items are undergoing a quality check.

  • @thamires.magalhaes
    @thamires.magalhaes Před 10 měsíci +41

    Holy! I am not going to lie, this is terrifying. I am not from the US so I had never heard of temu until I went to visit my bf this year, who's from there, and his mom constantly had packages from temu coming in the mail, I just thought it was another Alibaba/wish and went on with my life, but omg, this is really concerning I had no idea this thing was that big.
    Also, I don't know if you did change something with your audio after my comment, but it's so much better in this video and I can't tell you how much I appreciate it, I love your channel for years and that made a lot of difference for my sensitivity.
    Keep up with the amazing work Shelbie, thank you so much for all the research and sharing knowledge

  • @katcardenascruz
    @katcardenascruz Před 10 měsíci +60

    you deserve millions of subscribers!! ugh this is so egregious and I am sharing this to everyone I know. THIS IS BAD EVERYONE WAKE UP, EDUCATE AND LETS GIVE A SHIT PLEASE IM BEGGING 😭

  • @Hereforthelaughss
    @Hereforthelaughss Před 10 měsíci +21

    I am happy you talked about this! One of my goals this year was/is to be more sustainable and consume less. As much as I love a haul video I have started to feel disappointed by creators who are constantly consuming and the amount of Temu ads I get and videos of the hauls show up, and they are usually sponsored. It just doesn't sit right with me and I agree that I'm kind of shocked that people are still okay supporting that in this day and age.

  • @bryannab2703
    @bryannab2703 Před 10 měsíci +11

    The first time I heard about this online retailer, alarm bells were going off in my head. Thank you so much for dedicating your time and sacrificing your sanity to present us with the facts.

  • @emilyclaire319
    @emilyclaire319 Před 10 měsíci +42

    Haven’t there been instances of people purchasing from them and subsequently having their banking details compromised? I feel like I’ve seen more than 1 person say they bought from them and shortly after had to open fraud investigations with their bank. And allll of this is wish all over again, but worse. If it seems to good to be true, IT’S BECAUSE IT IS

  • @sifrafaasse-vanasperen7728
    @sifrafaasse-vanasperen7728 Před 9 měsíci +5

    Yes, I love the quote of “when you don’t pay the true pice, someone else is paying it”. Years ago, that quote made me realize how pressing the matter is and I find that it resonates with other people who are just starting their sustainability journey as well!

  • @artyshefartsy
    @artyshefartsy Před 10 měsíci +8

    I used to shop just to shop weekly. Daily even- it wasn’t until I started watching your videos and got inspired. I also quit my job and have a lot less money to spend, so when I purchase something now I give it immense thought and say to myself “Will I use/wear this for a long time? Is it something I need or will it just collect dust?” My mindset has changed completely. Thank you for making these!

  • @afeeser
    @afeeser Před 10 měsíci +39

    I don't buy from Temu, mostly because I am a crafter and have seen people buy items from Temu that were illegal copies (copyright violations) of popular craft items such as stamp sets by Tim Holtz. I am not interested in violating anyone's copyright (and I don't want anyone violating mine-not that I have a lot, but you know).

  • @christinageorgieva
    @christinageorgieva Před 10 měsíci +80

    I wish we could broadcast your videos on every TV and Billboard Screen Wall in the world, so that there is no person who remains uninformed on all of these issues.

    • @tonyzed6831
      @tonyzed6831 Před 5 měsíci

      Moronic "influencers" will always have more views than any debunker, alert launcher. But the work needs to be done, and people need to stay alert. Always.

  • @lisapoulsen5452
    @lisapoulsen5452 Před 10 měsíci +10

    People don’t understand how a company comes in and undercuts everyone else, puts them out of business, they now have a monopoly and, guess what…raises their prices and you now have nowhere else to purchase most thing. I mean, even Amazon prices have gotten a lot higher in the last few years🤷🏼‍♀️. Shop locally, support who you can and ONLY BUY WHAT YOU NEED!!! I love a good Shelbi rant🥰

  • @WhenInDoubt_Pink
    @WhenInDoubt_Pink Před 10 měsíci +21

    You ate on this👏🏾

  • @Tesla-Cannon
    @Tesla-Cannon Před 10 měsíci +60

    I was telling someone how messed up Temu is and then they bought from Temu because they hadn’t heard about it before. 🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️

    • @Helcaloth
      @Helcaloth Před 10 měsíci +5

      Oh nooo

    • @hynnow18
      @hynnow18 Před 9 měsíci +2

      Omg this has happened to me too! Makes me feel so invisible that they didn’t even bother listening

  • @verucabeckwith3014
    @verucabeckwith3014 Před 10 měsíci +14

    This was a FANTASTIC video. I appreciate all of the information, but especially the segment on influencers and sponsorships. I recently watched a video where the influencer was promoting Temu and the comment section was expressing disappointment over the sponsorship. The influencer was clueless about why promoting Temu was a terrible idea. Utterly disgusting and irresponsible.

  • @stellacforeman
    @stellacforeman Před 10 měsíci +13

    i’ve seen so many people who won’t buy from shein for ethical reasons turn around and promote temu it’s ridiculous!! i feel like i’m losing my mind 😭

  • @sustainfem
    @sustainfem Před 10 měsíci +199

    Wow this is worse than I ever imagined. Thank you for researching and speaking out about this horrible company!

  • @hi2656
    @hi2656 Před 9 měsíci +3

    It's so insanely refreshing to hear someone express how much they care, thank you for putting this out there!!!

  • @dorienengelen
    @dorienengelen Před 10 měsíci +11

    I just want to add that a lot of people are coming forward now that their creditcard details were sold to the blackmarket after shopping on Temu so that just makes it even more sketchy...

  • @jamiesjoy
    @jamiesjoy Před 10 měsíci +25

    I hope this video gets tons of views! This is such an important conversation. I would love maybe a follow up video about HOW to have these conversations with friends/family without pushing them away. I 100% support this, but I also want to be able to convey this in a way really does encourage and educate people without making them feel bad for not knowing any better. Any tips or thoughts?

    • @hynnow18
      @hynnow18 Před 9 měsíci +1

      Yes! I second this idea so hard!! Unless the person I’m talking to asks me bc they know I’m sustainably-minded, people get defensive. And any prior advice I’ve found just vaguely says, “Talk to them”

  • @cynthiabartz2157
    @cynthiabartz2157 Před 10 měsíci +14

    This is exactly what I thought was happening. And I think they have gotten so much smarter and are hiring Americans to make their site feel more legit than Alibaba or Wish

  • @otf.snpr73
    @otf.snpr73 Před 9 měsíci +7

    Just don’t waste your money on things you don’t really need

  • @crazylatingirl94
    @crazylatingirl94 Před 10 měsíci +16

    I constantly see people in tiktok comments of small businesses telling people to buy similar products on temu and its so disheartening. people just don't care about anything other than stuff

  • @mochibunny91
    @mochibunny91 Před 10 měsíci +10

    Thank you for making this video, honestly seeing some of my favourite creators being sponsored by them is upsetting. I just can't comprehend how people can't put two and two together, if the price and quality is that low then surely you have to think, what corners are being cut because it's normally other humans being exploited. Not to mention all of the other alarming issues like people's bank accounts being hacked after making orders, it's just so sad seeing people clicking before thinking 😞

  • @abrielle13
    @abrielle13 Před 10 měsíci +33

    My boyfriends mom keeps getting Temu packages. I've told her it's scammy crap but she's like "what i got seems fine". And guess what....I never see her use what she got.

    • @crystald3655
      @crystald3655 Před 10 měsíci +3

      She likely isn't buying things she will actually use. I bought several things and use them at least weekly. I carefully shopped and didn't buy everything I saw and thought was neat.

    • @matildalitsey143
      @matildalitsey143 Před 8 měsíci

      ​@@crystald3655You still shouldn/ buy anything from it at all.

  • @samw6344
    @samw6344 Před 10 měsíci +8

    I was on fb and I saw someone ask if they should buy from temu or if it's a scam. Even if it's not a "scam" like you get the item for the price, it's just a no-brainer for me. NO!
    I was watching a video about this shop that makes and sells fake flowers( last one left in NYC). If they sell their flowers at $1 let's say, and a competitor shop sells theirs for $.99 or $.98 that's competitive. Now if someone sells that item for $.03 that's not competitive, that's impossible to compete with. And that's what happens to small American businesses when they compete with these foreign, mostly Chinese companies. they can't compete. It hurts small business.

  • @jocelynnkamay
    @jocelynnkamay Před 9 měsíci +1

    I love love love how passionate you are about this and I love that you can express yourself so thoroughly! Loved this video ❤

  • @allietrost850
    @allietrost850 Před 10 měsíci +8

    thank you for spreading awareness about this!

  • @Sunfire3814
    @Sunfire3814 Před 10 měsíci +9

    I admit, I've gotten stuff from Temu before, but I decided to stop. I saw some cute Winx Club stickers that I had to have, then when I got them in the mail 80% of the stickers were fanart and that made me feel gross. Also, lipstick that technically worked but the container was broken. Not only is the stuff low quality, it's just not ethical and gives bad vibes. If I want something cheap I'll go thrifting.

  • @MsYazz69
    @MsYazz69 Před 10 měsíci +2

    LOVED the video, I was also so frustrated at every single point, and remembered that my family are consumers by excellence 😢 and your final quote "do your best and advocate the rest" is reminder that even being an example is just not enough for a change, but I'm doing my best

  • @jessv4300
    @jessv4300 Před 10 měsíci +22

    I watched this video at work then came home to my roommates looking for pieces of their halloween costumes on shein and temu. They are eco-conscious here and there (we love secondhand everything) but they treat halloween as a free pass to buy single use clothes. Maybe you already have but please make a video about Halloween consumerism!!

    • @sharkshannon
      @sharkshannon Před 10 měsíci +5

      every time i say i hate halloween i get looked at like i have 3 heads. it is the worst consumerist holiday, i have worn the same barely a costume for the last 3 years because i will not be buying anything new at that time of year.

  • @10222lucy
    @10222lucy Před 10 měsíci +11

    I used to follow Laura Lee before but stopped following her because she kept deleting my comments when I tried to inform her how awful shein was and that she should not be partnering with them. She started filtering out any 'negative comments' ☹️ so I just unsubscribed

    • @anthropomorphicpeanut6160
      @anthropomorphicpeanut6160 Před 10 měsíci +4

      This happened to me with Ann Reardon from how to cook that. She made wonderful videos but she accepted a temu sponsorship and started deleting comments :/ now I just unsubscribe from any channel if I see a temu/shein sponsorship

    • @crazylatingirl94
      @crazylatingirl94 Před 10 měsíci +1

      ​@@anthropomorphicpeanut6160what??? no way not how to cook that 😭

    • @therobotdevil2284
      @therobotdevil2284 Před 10 měsíci +1

      So many creators who partner with Temu delete critical comments, I've noticed.

  • @holly2337
    @holly2337 Před 10 měsíci +7

    Yes! Thank you for this video! I get so annoyed by all the Temu ads I can totally see it’s just garbage. I’m surprised that anyone would fall for purchasing from them.

    • @JehanineMelmoth
      @JehanineMelmoth Před 10 měsíci +2

      Unfortunately they do sell enough quality products to make it seem worthwhile to some people. Reusable cotton make up pads, reusable silicone ear swabs, cotton period pants, some decent shoes and plus size bras. I have a friend who buys from them sometimes , and I’ve seen things that looked great. She’s really poor and has more excuse than most. I’m not, so I haven’t. I’ll ask her to watch this video, and maybe if there’s something she really needs I can get it ethically for her.

  • @flybalbu
    @flybalbu Před 10 měsíci +11

    I've also seen temu constantly having pop ups where you have to play a game or send someone a link and have them sign up for it to get free stuff. The fact that the people selling stuff there are forced to lose money there is just horrible

    • @davidb9806
      @davidb9806 Před 10 měsíci

      Sellers are probably not losing money, Temu is subsidising purchases to build a habit in consumers

  • @adrossi
    @adrossi Před 8 měsíci

    I LOVE YOU. Thank you so much for calling this all out and organising it into a digestible form 🙌

  • @rodemates
    @rodemates Před 10 měsíci +4

    Love that you are clear in your opinions and are calling people out. So tired of videos like this where the youtuber gives like 10 disclaimers that she/he isn't judging you. We should be judged on this.

  • @kirbybie
    @kirbybie Před 10 měsíci +3

    it’s so frustrating watching people have the information on how all this over consumerism is destroying the earth and the lives of actual people and then say “they don’t care” because it doesn’t effect them in the moment. truly everyone should be required to go live as the most unfortunate people in the world for a certain amount of time to ignite their empathy.

  • @NaturallyNicool
    @NaturallyNicool Před 10 měsíci

    Amen! I hope your video spreads far & wide. Thank you for all the good work you do 🥳

  • @Killian_P.
    @Killian_P. Před 10 měsíci +2

    I've been waiting for this video! Thank you!

  • @beautyandthefeast2
    @beautyandthefeast2 Před 10 měsíci +7

    Thank you so much for making this video. I've been wondering about them since the first time I heard about them. Many people have made videos on shein but this is the first I've seen on temu.

  • @jessicav2031
    @jessicav2031 Před 10 měsíci +8

    Let's be fair here: the monopolist tactic of losing a ton of money to drive the competition out of business is basically THE standard business strategy these days. Every "Silicon Valley" style company does it. Amazon did (and still does) it. In the modern business playbook, it seems to just be this or a leveraged buyout. Temu is doing what everyone else does.

  • @tieamatzen2174
    @tieamatzen2174 Před 5 měsíci +1

    Took the words right out of my mouth girl say it how it is. I love that I love that you just spill it and say it how it is it’s so refreshing and nice to see someone just speaking the truth no bullshit! I love it! Great points made!!! Keep up the amazing work!!!

  • @SheriLynNut
    @SheriLynNut Před 10 měsíci +4

    👏🏼🔥👏🏼🔥👏🏼🔥👏🏼🔥👏🏼🔥👏🏼🔥👏🏼 thank you!! For speaking up, and out! This company needs to be stopped!

  • @ellenhazelton8872
    @ellenhazelton8872 Před 10 měsíci +3

    Very clear TEMU fits the number one rule, 'if it seems too good to be true, it is'

  • @Laura-st2qc
    @Laura-st2qc Před 10 měsíci +8

    I’ve unsubscribed from anyone who does a temp haul

  • @mhmmhm5995
    @mhmmhm5995 Před 10 měsíci +1

    I'm always so blown away by your videos, they feel so powerful, everything is well said

  • @martinaraschmanova8414
    @martinaraschmanova8414 Před 10 měsíci +1

    You are such a storm when talking about what bothers you! Love it! Wishing all the influencers will connect this way and boycott these kind of practices

  • @job9651
    @job9651 Před 10 měsíci +7

    I love your content and passion so much!

  • @ellielissner6291
    @ellielissner6291 Před 9 měsíci +4

    I thought Temo was Wish 2.0. I'm glad to know I was correct. Never bought there, never will.

  • @Ronilank
    @Ronilank Před 10 měsíci +1

    This is one of my favourite videos that you've done. Thank you for addressing this!!

  • @thearcadio
    @thearcadio Před 5 měsíci +2

    "just don't buy anything" is like the grown up version of the floor is lava in the US... I've gotten so much better at buying the stuff I need and REALLY want the last few years because I went back to college. Realizing I don't have the disposable income I did before was the quickest way to make me realize I was buying too much. I did enjoy your video, just because it is a serious topic doesn't mean it can't be fun/engaging!

  • @jenn4461
    @jenn4461 Před 10 měsíci +5

    Thank you for talking about this!! I am so angry at these influencers and companies like Temu. I hate that people literally do not give a flying duck about anything but themselves. 😢

  • @BekaWrekaT90
    @BekaWrekaT90 Před 10 měsíci +4

    I just recently found your channel and I'm so glad I did! I find your content very helpful. You've educated me on things I didn't know about or quite understand 100%. I've struggled for years with making impulsive purchases and justified it because I could just donate after using it. Now I'm learning to be more conscious of what purchases I make

    • @hynnow18
      @hynnow18 Před 9 měsíci +1

      Yay! Thank you for being open-minded and willing to change!

  • @ElizabethNicoleSchwartz
    @ElizabethNicoleSchwartz Před 9 měsíci +4

    and to be abundantly clear, this isn't just a TEMU issue. Shein as well.

  • @rebeccaanne3083
    @rebeccaanne3083 Před 10 měsíci +8

    Thank you. I was explaining this to my husband but he thinks I’m paranoid and that they aren’t trying to pull a “Walmart” and take out the competition.

    • @stacythomas9916
      @stacythomas9916 Před 9 měsíci

      He's right. They're far worse than Walmart. At least you can physically go IN to a Walmart, and they provide local jobs. Granted they are not good jobs, but they aren't sweatshops or child labor either. Temu doesn't care about competition really. The entire thing with Wish/Shein/Temu companies is to bring down the economy by removing as much money as possible to China.

  • @rat3015
    @rat3015 Před 10 měsíci +3

    ann reardon did a sponsorship with temu which left me really disappointed, especially because she brands herself as someone who cares a lot about brand reliability and product safety. really a shame.

  • @nhuslage
    @nhuslage Před 10 měsíci +3

    Thanks for the great research you share with us! Glad to see a fellow Aggie doing such great work. Gigi'em!

  • @ariannawilliams6040
    @ariannawilliams6040 Před 10 měsíci +6

    Thank you Shelbizleee. I can't get my sister to stop buying from temu. I'll share this video with her.

  • @JehanineMelmoth
    @JehanineMelmoth Před 10 měsíci +5

    I’m going to admit it - when Temu first came out, I was intrigued, and went to look there. The first thing I put in the search was ‘reusable’, but the results were puzzling. It took me a while to work out that they were showing me ‘reusable’ and ‘DISPOSABLE’ products together! The search term ‘zero waste’ yielded mostly waste baskets and rubbish bags. ‘Sustainable’ wasn’t much better.

  • @amberkramer05
    @amberkramer05 Před 10 měsíci +7

    thank you for talking about this!

  • @nmtrules96
    @nmtrules96 Před 10 měsíci +4

    Thank you for not holding off and calling out these creators

  • @beautibrew
    @beautibrew Před 10 měsíci +2

    This video deserves millions of views, thank you for speaking out about how awful Temu is. I'm so tired of seeing creators take sponsorships from them and seeing ads all over the internet.

  • @bugsandbrushes
    @bugsandbrushes Před 10 měsíci

    Just let me say: we love you! You have taught us so much and many of us changed because of your passion. Thank you, and cheers to you ❤

  • @BookNomming
    @BookNomming Před 10 měsíci +5

    I am so concerned about people just not taking responsibility anymore. Also these people are targeting people on purpose they know what they are doing, preying on people, especially in the U.K. with a cost of living crisis.
    In the U.K. I have seen so many teachers buying stuff from TEMU and want to scream about sustainability and preaching what we teach but because schools are struggling more with money and teachers are, the brand preys on people like this.
    The hyper consumerism is scary at the moment, I have seen small positive changes in some things then this comes along and wipes out all those small positive actions 😢

  • @amandavaldez4372
    @amandavaldez4372 Před 9 měsíci +3

    I also saw a video about how temu is selling peoples credit card info to the black market & then of course the ones who buy it ends up stealing a bunch of money. Some are even doing it little by little so you don’t really notice it at first

  • @marinam9389
    @marinam9389 Před 10 měsíci

    I'm so happy you made this video. I'm sharing it when ever anyone mentions Temu. I hadn't personally researched them but saw the prices and thought no way that can be good.

  • @Jordan-HI
    @Jordan-HI Před 10 měsíci

    Thank you for making this educational video. I love how you get fired up because that encourages me to keep doing my best as well.

  • @trisarahtops8928
    @trisarahtops8928 Před 10 měsíci +7

    Of course I got a Temu advert after this video 🤦‍♀️ Thank you for raising awareness of their shady practices!

  • @aggielilou9013
    @aggielilou9013 Před 10 měsíci +3

    Love your videos, great job on educating people ❤

  • @savvyshoppingmomma5474
    @savvyshoppingmomma5474 Před 10 měsíci +1

    I'm SO THANKFUL that you made this video! I had a friend recently ask me, "Are you doing Temu yet?" UGGHHHHH!

  • @goodandgreen
    @goodandgreen Před 10 měsíci

    Thank you for getting a great mic 🎤 ❤. I love that you care so much and educate us. it’s inspiring and now the audio means I can start listening again!

  • @DevilishFailure
    @DevilishFailure Před 10 měsíci +3

    One of your best videos so far!!! Easy to understand, great research made into very good arguments and the rage kept it entertaining. Loved this! And hate Temu.