Cheating Stories - Would You Leave Her If She Did This?
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- čas přidán 13. 09. 2024
- Today, I want to share a cheating story I heard recently from an Uber driver I met. It’s a rollercoaster of a ride, and I can't wait for you to hear it!
So there I was, hopping into an Uber, and my driver, who is 24 years old and has been married for three years, struck up a conversation that quickly turned into a cheating story I won't forget. He shared that he and his wife dated for only six months before she was pushing for marriage. Looking back, he feels like they rushed in, and unfortunately, the cracks started to show early on. Just within the first year of their marriage, she cheated on him. Can you believe it? After such a short time being together, he faced betrayal so quickly.
But the real twist is that my driver is still trying to make things work. He just bought a house with her, hoping that maybe tangible commitments could foster love and devotion. I can't help but wonder: Why would he want to stick around? It made me reflect on my own experiences and what could be considered solid relationship advice. My marriage lasted a solid 20 years, but it ended when my ex-wife lost interest-not because of infidelity but because she simply wasn’t invested anymore.
This brings me to the core of today’s discussion. In my opinion, if betrayal happens once, it’s incredibly tough to rebuild that trust. My advice in situations like these? Bounce. The old saying “once a cheater, always a cheater” rings true in my mind. Why would you give her additional time to establish equity in your eventual child support or alimony? By sticking around, not only does he risk further heartbreak but also unwittingly hands her the upper hand in the relationship.
What’s even more disheartening is that it seems he loves her significantly more than she loves him. Folks, I can't stress this enough: letting this imbalance fester is a recipe for disaster. You want a relationship where both parties love each other equally, or, ideally, where one partner loves the other a little more. It creates a sense of security and stability, preventing feelings of inadequacy and resentment down the line.
Reflecting on my marriage, I can’t help but acknowledge that mutual respect and love should ideally be at the foundation of every union. Sure, some relationships survive infidelity, and some couples even come out stronger. However, from my perspective, allowing someone to cheat on you erodes that foundational respect, which is tough to rebuild.
Now, I want to hear from you, watchers! What do you think about this cheating story? Had you been in my Uber driver’s shoes, inspiring thoughts on whether you’d stick around or cut your losses? Share your thoughts in the comments below. I’m sure many of you have your own cheating stories or experiences that could serve as important relationship advice for others. Let’s create a community of insights where we can learn from one another!
In the end, if you find yourself in a situation involving betrayal, consider what you want from your relationship and your life. Are you giving someone the chance to play with your heart? Or are you genuinely in a loving partnership? Remember, your happiness and emotional health should always be a priority.
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Thank you so much for tuning in, and remember, you deserve to be loved fully and without hesitation. Catch you in the next video!
One and done. Cheaters will always be cheaters.
I'm in my mid 40's and only ever landed 4 dates in my lifetime. Washington DC ladies all say I'm too old to be in the dating world. The minimum standard where I live is that a man needs to be is: 6'2 in height, six pack abs, $250k minimum income and be very pro gov.
I've been on dating apps for 25 years. Zero dates from any app.
If she confesses, I'll work on the relationship if she want that too. If I catch her, its over.
If she cheated within a year, she was never yours to begin with. At my age, I won't tolerate that. I'd go for the annulment and once it's over, block her on everything. Never contact her again. When I was his age, I would have tried to make it work because I was brought up that relationships are hard work. But at no point was I told that in these cases, it's ok to leave. I have since learned that.
OK, you lost me when you said the young people are mature
Good luck to you man
1. He should drop her and never look back. He may lose half the house but he's young enough to rebuild and he needs to get rid of her.
2. No don't tell your channels name for a long time. None of their business and don't mix the work and women.
3. Don't "date"! Going for coffee or a walk is ok, but no dating if you mean buying them drinks and dinner. You can do that for a girlfriend but not a "date".
Let’s replace the term masculine frame with self-respect. If he has no self-respect, she will not respect him. No way around that. And if she doesn’t respect him, she doesn’t love him because you can’t love someone that you don’t respect. The reason she cheated ultimately fall on him he had eaten enough self-respect to be with her in the first place. had he not done that, he would either be gone already or she would see him in a different way. And so now that she’s done that, he must leave her because ultimately she will leave him.
You would save a lot of time and money if you told them everything because there reaction will tell you what you need
Marriage is for suckers! Remember, she is never yours, it's just your turn!
I think you got something wrong here. Today's younger generation are more immature and behave like little kids
Women cheating is way different to men cheating. It's not right bit sometimes one gets to a point, as a man where you need an outlet. Women do it for other reasons.
Not for months; never mix business and pleasure. No matter what, it will affect your business.
Don't ask don't tell :)
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Don't come for Kevin Samuels my friend. Stay in your lane. It's not productive. A lot of the men who are loving your content LOVE KS. Also, I wouldn't even waste a text/convo to detail to women what my 2-3 strikes are. In my opinion, the best solution is radio silence. Especially a gentleman like yourself. You have 3+ dates weekly = abundance (seriously speaking). You don't need to explain peep to women. They'll miss YOU. "Hey...I haven't heard from Silver in several days. I wonder why not?" Other than that, great content!
Without having seen this video, is he STILL trashing Kevin Samuels?
I initially unfollowed this channel when he first started doing that, but couldn’t even get basic details right (like the year KS died!)
This one only came up as a suggested video…