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Ep 4: Pop The Balloon Or Find Love | With Arlette Amuli
• Ep 4: Pop The Balloon ...
That Ending Was Not What I Expected
• That Ending Was Not Wh...
This is the consequence of not properly vetting: choosing "the smooth talker" over the guy that's authentic.
Why I advise any legit man, not clout chasing pookie, to date outside the AA community. You will be happier 👀
@@hardlessons9732what’s AA
How well can someone vet on a dating show, though 🤔?
What did he lie about?
@@dontez606 or the consequences of attracting who you are yourself.
Truth be told …. Dude got exposed. He needs to find a smash piece, but he should not be on the internet dating. No debit card, no sound system, no roof top date, microwaved chicken fingers, stealing candy, mad he had to pick her up for a date. Too many red flags 🚩
Ok 😅
@@MrHumbleSoul yea, but if you think his ass isn’t smashing something you’re mistaken. The audacity comes from somewhere, and it isn’t t dry ####…he just wasn’t able to win with that bluff.
Mad he had to pick her up probably because of the gas prices 🤣 I was screaming the whole time 😂
TOOOOOOO many
Yeah I think she may have better off with the darts guy
Black women: " There are no good black men available!!" meanwhile... turns down every actual good & stable black man as "boring". 🙄🙄🙄
Always bring your own money on dates. This entire date was a comedy 😂
He bragged about the dine in movies like it had Gordon Ramsey cooking the food. He sweet talked her, when the other dude kept it real.
😢he from the ghetto.
@@SlimeNews except the chicken tenders
She should have chosen the other guy. Stop complaining...
Arlettes face when she said he wanted her to pay for the second date 😂😂😂😂😂
The fact that he is stealing on a first date is tooooooo hilarious on the floor. Us women rrally encounter alot sometimes
I'm scared of anybody who goes on these show, they all fronting for the camera 😂😂
"Let's be real" 😂
Ghetto ass out here stealing candy 🍬 and she down with it lmao 🤣 🤪.....why do black folk announce to the world our trifling ways smh.
She played herself period 😂
He should've stayed home. He's not ready.
😂😂😂right
The Bluetooth speaker part was funny as hell.
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Bro did her so wrong and you could tell she a genuine woman . And not a gold digger and he couldn’t even give effort to make the date go smoothly
He lookin at me,I'm lookin at him,he lookin at me😂😂😂😂story telling reminds me of Kelly trapped in the closet 🤣🤣🤣🤣
lmaooooooooo
She said he stole some candy 🍬 that’s hilarious 😂 hahahaha 😂
I died 🤣
Not the phone up to the ear!!! 😂
He’s turned off by the idea of simply picking her up? The bar is in hell lmao
Yeah! Title Loan ppl @ ta Repo...😮 His ride!
I would be turned off
Arlette was trying her best not to laugh on some parts. This was wild 🤣🤣 hella petty. When he said he’s from Cali I figured he had to be from the bay.
😂😂😂
This story is comedyyyyyy 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Tyler Perry need to jump on this
Some of you have never been on a date that required no money but still had the best time EVER & it shows.
This guy needs to be ashamed of himself.... WTF, the girl is honest and everybody can see, even Arnett knows she telling the truth....
Shut up sucker
Arlette laughing all di way to di bank wid dis 🤣🤣🤣
She a good woman need more woman like her 🙌🏾
you're right this really can be a movie script. She lowkey a funny storyteller
A Honda is a very reliable car as long as you maintain it.
It be tough in these streets I picked my now wife up for a first date in a 2012 Hyundai Accent, granted it was 2012 at the time and my radio did work lol but it didnt come with one, had to buy that later
Her car didn't even have oil.
@@whatchandstudy7 But she’s learned a bit about car maintenance
Buddy need to date only chicks from the block ,he tried to see if he can get the buns wit the ookey dookey 😂
Where she from?
You got what you asked for when you said you wanted to Wing... That's what he did he Winged it.😂😂😂😂
She clearly said she was down for anything really 😂😂😂
Exactly, she went for the smooth talker instead of the authentic dude. It’s her fault
No it's both of their fault
I’m trying to figure out how when someone tells you something, but what they said isn’t what they meant or true that it’s not a lie? We changing whole definitions out here to not shed light on the truth.
@@MHsame2dayaZystrday FACTS
@@MHsame2dayaZystrday yes us crazy how todays society has skewed the line to make a lie more honorable than the truth
Started off with a lie when he said he's a model 🤣🤣🤣
I screamed at the end when he said he was a gentleman.... but wouldn't pick her up on the first date.
She's really going outta her way to make him feel bad about his situation
Shit not cute, it’s corny.
From Sunset rooftop to Bluetooth car speaker 😂😂😂 I guess lesson #1 is.... don't FRONT😂😂
Chill out 😂
I don't feel bad for her she chose him cuz she wanted that rooftop date. She should have chose the guy that told straight up what she was getting for a first date.
Yep and this dude had the grills in too so you can work out he might not be 100% legit. The cash only situation is a lil shady
@@pfunk72 a rooftop date is a simple restaurant that has met zoning and licensing requirements. Most commercial buildings i.e., most restaurants are in commercial buildings; have flat roofs. It is not something special, he finessed her by using what he knew about her. She is a photographer, so he knew she would want to kill 2 birds with one stone. I am not saying this to offend, but there are people who have no intention on being what they present, just getting what they can out of someone else in the least inconvenience to themselves. In other words he a manipulator.
"It was chicken strips warmed up in a microwave!" LoL Also. Honda and Toyota makes the most dependable vehicles on the planet. Oh snap. He was rocking a Bluetooth speaker in the whip too? Hold up cuhz. He stole some candy in front of her? He saying it's all lies. Hilarious
I’m not sure what “in a space to date” is. Broke people date one another all the time. The problem is when one or both act like they’re not broke or expect the other person to have a bag.
Somebody gotta reenact this date on a skit 😭😭😭
lmaoooo
FR 😅😊😂
Clowning a car that was able to pick YOU up is nasty work.
Yea ungrateful broad 😣
Nope pretending to have something for a high class woman is disgusting
I’m on her side, be fr the dude had a broken down car that didn’t even have any speakers and had a Bluetooth speaker to listen to music anyone would have been questioning the situation especially when he was flexing earlier
@@Luhnchboks no, him lying to kick it was nasty work. Him being effeminate in his reaction made it extra nasty.
@@cupcake2009isthigh class is crazy
To talk bout someone's car when ur check engine light is on🥴 chile! The other guy with the last ballon is somewhere laughing with his money still in his pocket.
THAT PART!!😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
I know that’s rt 😂😂😂😂❤
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You misunderstood what she meant. She did not criticize him. He acted like a fool and lied about his lifestyle, That Sister was not a gold digger and if she said that she would go on a second date, then she wasn't a gold digger.
@@basictruth11-09 some women just want to downplay another for WHATEVER reason they can. He was the problem, and if they can’t see it they aren’t listening. As long as it’s women who accept this, these men will always have something to poke on.
It seems like they fooled one another. She thought he had a bag. He thought she was there for love…
She didn't go with him for the bag. Any man or woman who goes on a date with someone always make sure that whomever they get involved with are going in the same direction. If she was a gold digger, then why didn't she even get into the car or why did she not get out of the car from the jump.? If she was a gold digger, why would she even allow him to take her to the movies. That sister is genuine.
@@basictruth11-09 you said all that to say what exactly? I didn’t call her a gold digger. I said what she said, “I thought the bag was there.”
@@wegetBuZy2 Maybe I'm mistaken but it seems as if you You all inferred that she was with him because he had the bag, when in essence she was saying that she thought that he had himself together. That has been that Sister's whole contention and she also understood if he was on his grind. She never judged him. He got upset, because she exposed him.
@@wegetBuZy2 that ninja don’t want love, he wants a hot pocket and some help.
@@MHsame2dayaZystrday 😂😂
That Bluetooth speaker was like Kobe on the court... No assist 😂 it played the whole time but when he picked up a girl and turned it on "Boom"
Yup…being single sounds awesome right now…royalty treatment on solo trips 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
They should go on second date 😂 fr . They actually like eachother it just wasn’t a good start
🎉yeah they perfect for each other. That tattoo on her leg 🦵.
Exactly what I’m thinking too! I think they both just misunderstood each other. Maybe the 2nd date should be a free park date & they both bring their own snacks tbh Lol see if the chemistry & connection is there & go from there
He seems angry, angry😮😂😂😂😂
That Ending Was Not What I Expected
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Oooooweeee when he said I’m from Cali I knew then. It’s only 2 type of Cali dudes and he the lesser version. It’s game, he knew you had to have a debit card, so he FINESSED his way. Kinda like how he finessed his way on the show.
Most definitely a loser and not a representative of us from California who are established!! #1 HE shouldn't have had any issue picking her up whether she had a car or not. That is his responsibility and it is her choice if she wanted to drive. Also, the fact that she told him that her car needed an oil changer or that her check engine light came on, my first statement would have been, "Do you want me to help you check this out, so that we can get you mobile, and then we can go on a date?" This is What Grown Men do! See, I'm not a mechanic, but I know basic things and while looking at her car, it would've given them time to talk and would have shown her a different side of him instead of the bitter person that he is.
She was very understanding to his situation let’s be honest. I wouldn’t have settled for that he was all over the place. Instead of spending money on a date how about you save and work on getting a new car. Im not even judging, we have to be smart and honest about our situations
Exactly 😅
She’s definitely not a gold digger. I personally had friends that were and they wouldn’t have agreed on a movie. They would have clowned him and blocked him. This lady was real cool and open-minded to still give him a chance
True if anything it might have been cool to offer to change her oil for her. It’d be a cool experience and time to talk.
You would say that
@@danieljohnson2576how is the lady a “gold digger” for still trying to make the best of the date with man despite it not going as planned please explain to would she either be a “gold digger” if
1. She declined the date since there was no rooftop
Or
2. Changed the plans to a movie date which was likely cheaper
@@JadeissoJaded because they to go below the bar. Like minded people always take up for each other.
Facts she is cool i Agree 💯✅
That was painful to watch. The world is full of crappy people. Be careful of who you let into your bubble. Intuition/discernment is more important now more than ever. If you’re not using it, you end up wasting a lot of time with people.
@@Cristobal34 that’s true, and sometimes being nice isn’t giving someone a chance. Being nice sometimes is politely declining a person. Not everyone should have the chance to UNO reverse. I recall her seeming slightly hesitant, I bet she won’t do that again.
Most definitely a loser and not a representative of us from California who are established!! #1 HE shouldn't have had any issue picking her up whether she had a car or not. That is his responsibility and it is her choice if she wanted to drive. Also, the fact that she told him that her car needed an oil changer or that her check engine light came on, my first statement would have been, "Do you want me to help you check this out, so that we can get you mobile, and then we can go on a date?" This is What Grown Men do! See, I'm not a mechanic, but I know basic things and while looking at her car, it would've given them time to talk and would have shown her a different side of him instead of the bitter person that he is.
Nah she a real one when she said she was down to steal the snacks 💯 this dude got butt hurt when she mentioned that 08 Honda with the blue tooth! This shit was definitely a comedy skit where the CZcams actors at 😂
This is an example of how much times have changed. Men had cars and young dudes borrowed their parent's car for a date. This is "The Bro Generation" Brothers and Females call women "Bro and Bruh" so they have the roles mixed. This Sister is down to earth, she just made a wrong decision BY ALLOWING HERSELF TO BE CHOSEN BY SOMEONE WHO LOOKS LIKE HE HAS A POVERTY MINDSET.
AMC Theatre Dine-In she hilarious 😂 not chicken strips 😅 he said “ I told you not to choose that “ 😅😂 his vocabulary words was not matching his pockets 😂😂😂😂 not giving her the phone to hold to her ear taxing the parking ticket this most definitely can be a skit 😂😂😂 5 finger discount 😅 this funny asf 😆 he said “ Hood Comedy” Tubi at its finest 😂😆😆
The guy was wearing sunglasses inside and saying a whole bunch of word salad what did she expect..let's be for real here
The discernment of these young ladies is fu bar nowadays…Pookies stays winning 🤷🏽♂️🤷🏽♂️🤷🏽♂️
From his answers on the episode, she assumed that he would've been more established, so i understood her, and he low-key complained about picking her up....😂 he is the type of person that counts every dime he spends on his date, and he wants that money back...😂
This was really entertaining
Both are shady. An oil change costs 40.00 dollars, maybe. Who runs out of oil? You need an oil change once every 3,000 - 6,000, really. Brother should have just picked up the girl; that is shady, too.
Right no oil in the car u need a new oil pan not an oil change. Y is it empty?
I was thinking, why didn't she just refill😂
Bingo 💯
Many have forgotten to change their oil. I drive an Infinity QX80 and have been on the go many times and look at my dashboard and realize at the last second that I needed to put gas in my car. My car cost 106K Brand New. I'm a Biotech Coordinator and I own my own business as well.
@@basictruth11-09 that is BS. You can get an oil change at 6000 miles or 7000 miles. one more mile will not make a difference. Plus if you can afford 106K car, you afford get someone to change your oil for you.
His face at the 707 mark is very telling 😂
They made for each other lowkey😂😂😂
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I agree 😂❤
I think if he reacted differently she might have gone out on a second date, but he is so defensive. I mean there are a lot of people that are married today even though they had a horrible first date. You can mutually agree that a date was very bad.
When pookie and pookihana finally link 😂😂😂
Maaaan shorty isn’t even established in her own life trying to clown…she couldn’t even afford oil for her car ..
Right I peep dat who's lets their car run out of oil every car has an oil light.....but tried to call dude out on his car......but he was in the wrong too for frontin.....😂
Facts
@@addicted2truth408a lot of females do. My sister do that. Oil light be on, gas always on E, but she keep at least $5k cash at all times and she got a new Benz. I be clowning her but I know females don’t be caring about they cars like us.
DAT PART!
Yall clearly broke as hell to even justify this! He shouldn’t even have known shit about her car cuz he should have just picked her up from jump. But either way, it’s ridiculous to take a woman out and have her in this situation. Old ass car, no music, blue tooth speaker that died, no debit card like wtf?! Hell nah!
What about this man looked like he’d plan a decent date? Although they are well matched
The pick of men nowadays is so sad lol she is def out of his league .
A movie is not an appropriate first date. It does not allow you to get to know the other person. A movie takes no planning. Very lazy planning.
Dude talks about her staying even though she was uncomfortable, BUT WHAT HE DIDN'T UNDERSTAND IS THAT SHE SHOWED HIM MERCY BY STAYING AND THAT MADE HER STAY. SHE PUT UP WITH ALL OF HIS BULLSHIT
Bro stole candy 😂😂 on a first date😂
😂😂😂😂 she toasted cuh he salty 😂😂😂😂😂
This whole video was hilarious 😂
she went in lol damn son ....sheesh.... wow .....she got jokes this was a horrible date lol she seems fun tho
Good gir her he doesn't need to go on a dating show.
The men on this show have been grossly lacking. Some of the women have been problematic too, but definitely more unqualified men have been on the show, and Ishmael is one of them.
keep in mind he is younger than her.....she needs an older dude, for real.
Sounds like they deserved each other. Goldigger vs broke ninja
She doesn't sound like a gold digger at all, if she was she wouldn't got into that 2008 Honda
She doesn't sound like a gold digger, she sounds like, she ain't got time with a guy not on her level and she wasn't going for a subpar dude. He needs to date when he actually has his stuff together. She ain't about to be supporting a bumm.
For real! They earned each other.
Men who accuse women of being gold diggers are broke and frown at another man treating a woman like a queen.
@@keketayv1111you say that but she couldn't even get a oil change who lets their car run out of oil to the pint they can't drive it every car has an oil indicator she was broke too or couldn't afford an oil change they both was wrong cuz he was frontin........😂
“Everyone should have there own car” Damn so forget being chivalrous and picking shawty up huh? That’s was a lame remark g
If she knows a little about cars, she could’ve put oil in her car.
Normally I don't believe the woman in cases like this, but nah dude was on some bs 😂
The fact that he assumed she had a debit card with her or had enough money in her account to cover everything is crazy. He could've bought a prepaid card or rescheduled.
This is why communication is key🎉🎉
The first couple of dates we drive to the location. You can’t be letting everyone know where you live. Y’all some rookies
Cant watch you talk entirely to much. I mean i understand your comments but let them talk a little more, before you interrupt.
All human beings love the follow up. If something happened we want to know the outcome. Just a suggestion. Love the channel. 👏🏾👍🏾✊🏾
Thank you for the content bro!
Facts though
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The fact she said dude sounded like he “planned” a date.. by going to a rooftop restaurant.. he’s probably been there plenty times before that lol that’s why he knows it’s good
They both are just not ready for dating. But I put a lil bit more blame on him. GET READY FIRST!!! And I, personally, would try to avoid any complaining, like...about the parking. And the question about her paying for the next date is WILD!!! It's getting painful to listen to this.
Not the Bluetooth speaker! Omg!!!!😂😂😂😂
This is the problem with Men in today’s relationship dynamics. You have to be a man, take charge and lead. He has a 50/50 mentality with that we are grown, everyone can drive. Yoooo this was a date from HELL!! I feel bad for her, this dude was a total lame.
Correction, this is the problem with poverty mindset individuals. First off he knew his situation; therefore he never should've brought his ass on the show, knowing that he was not in a position mentally, emotionally nor financially to even go out on a date. ALSO AND MOST IMPORTANTLY, THIS IS THE RESULT OF EMALES ACCEPTING MUSIC ALLING THEM BITCHES AND HOES, AS WELL AS ALLOWING DUDES AND OTHE RFEMALES TO CALL THEM "BRUH AND BRO" These types of dudes(they are not Men, definitely not "BLACK MEN") are immature, and lack firm foundational structure. AFRICAN AMERICAN MEN BELIEVE IN THE 50'50 DATE; WHEREAS BLACK MEN KNOW THAT OUR RESPONSIBILITY TO THE WOMEN IS TO BE A LEADER AND PROVIDER AND THAT WHATEVER SHE BRINGS TO THE TABLE IS A BONUS, Black men also understand that we shoudn''t be adversarial to a Black Woman who is humble enough to accept us where we are. I own 2 businesses and I would never disrespect a Sister like he sat up there and did.
Lol this funny, they funny. As they say you made your bed you have to lay in it 😂
Bro was trippin … 😂
I Like That She Go with the Flow Of Things And Don't Be All Stuck Up!
He is supposed to pick you up if you are going on a date. He made it seem like he took her to Moviehouse Eatery, Movie Tavern, or Studio Movie Grill. I can see that Ishmael was getting upset over what she said. Don't be upset over what the young lady said because she is speaking her truth. This was the worst first date for this young lady. She saw the Red Flags. She is not lying, but she probably didn't want to hurt his feelings. He is upset and shows that he is not a gentleman by his response.
Bro never stepped foot in the roof top he said he would take her in his life 😂😂😂
24:02 Arlette damn near started laughing 😂😂😂😂 good job playing it off sis guys just screenshot 24:02 look at their faces thank me later 😂😂😂😂
She wanted the red carpet treatment without even knowing each other first wow
If she wanted a second date why she do all that extra stuff.
She picked wrong simple
Exactly like why are we dragging this lol
She will always pick wrong with wrong motivations.
Yeah she should went 🎯 wit dude.
Yal know women always wait until the last minute to change oil lol Broke men always complain about how much they spent he really didn’t have the money 😂😂😂lol
When choosing a partner, use your intuition. Don't be so swept by what you see and hear. What do you feel, though?
Had a great laugh watching this 🤣🤣🤣🤣
I meaaaaaan i workrd at the first dine in AMC in los angeles & the food is about the same as a Bj's or Chilli's for whatever thats worth to you lol
Reminds me... i just turned 19. Met some girl that worked at BB fashion. We went out to a movie in my 1995 nissan sentra with a portable CD player hooked up to the stereo with a casette adapter. We had a great time. We were both stupid kids so we were on and off for about a year and a half. Didnt end well, but was fun.
She didn't have time for dinner but had time for a movie? Seems to take around the same amount of time. Something missing here.
It's ok when she assume he didn't have a card but he can't say you didn't have a car. Crazy
Shawty makin bread off this lol