so boom...MODESTY. | my views on modesty as a single Christian woman

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  • čas přidán 21. 08. 2024

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  • @a.v.6158
    @a.v.6158 Před 2 lety +21

    very wholesome! I'm glad you talked about modesty being about the heart, WITHOUT disproving that clothes are important as well!

  • @_art.honest
    @_art.honest Před 3 lety +35

    Just found you on a search! I was searching about Modesty because it's something I think isn't spoken about often. Self expression/individualism, I've found, has taken us away from the Modesty of the heart and physical apparel as well. There's nothing wrong with self expression though! But I just think we've strayed away from Modesty. Modesty is important to me and to God as we look through scripture. I do feel that some don't understand why I take part in physical modesty amongst other things, but I knowwww what works and what doesn't. I also think we could help each other out as well when it comes to this. I'd love to see your vid on Modest outfits and stuff! (Alright I'm done😂. Let me go watch your other vids ✊🏿)

    • @KennedyKelly633
      @KennedyKelly633  Před 3 lety +4

      oh wow, just now seeing this comment!!! so glad you found me! modesty is also something very important to me and it's taken (and is still taking) me some time to navigate. one thing that has really irritated me is the language that is used concerning modesty from both sides of the aisle of opinions on modesty... definitely gonna make a vid on modest outfits sometime soon, thanks so much for supporting my channel :)

    • @CatNab0904
      @CatNab0904 Před 3 lety +1

      I second this, would love to a modesty outfit video from you!

    • @Brendaglam24
      @Brendaglam24 Před rokem

      I don’t like being Judged I feel like other Christian are too judgemental when it comes to modesty

    • @theparttimehomemaker
      @theparttimehomemaker Před rokem +1

      I agree. The feminism movement has been catastrophic for modesty. It's when everything started going downhill.

    • @khaiylahwiththestyla8722
      @khaiylahwiththestyla8722 Před 5 měsíci

      You said it! Fashion and personal style has always been something I feel a passion for. However, in the past I thought I was dressing outside of the box, when, in reality, I simply had my box out (I couldn't help myself with that one)! Now that I followed the calling of the Lord to dress modestly, my style has improved so much. The outfits are ten times more creative and comfortable. Plus there is a new-found level of respect toward myself and in how I am treated by others. May God bless you on your modesty journey and send companions in Christ with the same conviction for it into your life!

  • @ifesjournal
    @ifesjournal Před 3 lety +16

    Your hair is so beautiful 😩😩❤️

  • @taylorw.4572
    @taylorw.4572 Před 2 lety +12

    I am so grateful to God that my sister shared this with me! After watching this, I felt this weight of legalism and shame come off. I know that I received clarity about this topic just from hearing what you had to share. Keep doing God's work because your obedience changed my life for the better.

  • @Amelia-vn5yb
    @Amelia-vn5yb Před 3 lety +22

    Would love to see a modest summer outfits video :) Thanks for your videos. God bless you!!!

    • @KennedyKelly633
      @KennedyKelly633  Před 3 lety +3

      Omg yea for sure, definitely gonna do this then!! And soooo so happy they bless you! Thank you for watching 🤍🤍🤍

  • @lauraaah.4343
    @lauraaah.4343 Před 3 lety +10

    Thanks for the reminder of being free. So much ppl are on here “spreading the gospel” and telling people they are going to hell if they do this and that etc. Which is pushing more people away than bringing people closer and they are putting us in a box as if we cannot enjoy what God provided for us because if we do we are “enjoying worldly things” it’s so crazy🤦🏽‍♀️

  • @khaiylahwiththestyla8722
    @khaiylahwiththestyla8722 Před 5 měsíci

    God bless your soul! So inspiring to see a young woman sharing this message and so many scriptures. I am so happy and blessed to have come across this video!

  • @Lottamoneyy
    @Lottamoneyy Před 3 lety +14

    Congratulations 500 subs keep going

  • @kenadysanaa
    @kenadysanaa Před 2 lety +5

    I’ve watched a couple CZcams videos about modesty, and yours is by far the best I have seen. I am seeking to start embarking on my journey of learning how to be more modest in my heart & how I present myself!! This is a struggle for me bc in high school, I conformed to the ideal that I needed to flaunt my assets *y’all know what I mean lol* to be considered attractive or “sexy.” As I’ve been growing my relationship with God & I’m now a freshman in college, I know WHOSE I AM, and I want to glorify the Lord. And I’ve been thinking about how I need to redefine my style to fit the young woman I’m growing into as someone who wants to glorify Him. So your video helped so much with this topic & encouraged me to truly seek God for my journey.

    • @Brendaglam24
      @Brendaglam24 Před rokem

      Yes but I don’t wanna be too modesty

  • @SummerRichardson
    @SummerRichardson Před 3 lety +9

    This was right on time for me. I love how you weren't condemning at all and displayed so much wisdom!

  • @softprincess552
    @softprincess552 Před 2 lety +6

    Girl ur so pretty!

  • @zyomaramarina
    @zyomaramarina Před 3 lety +8

    You explained this in such a loving and understanding wayyy. Loved it ❤️

  • @nicolabanda2231
    @nicolabanda2231 Před 2 lety +5

    Word!

  • @joycewatt8289
    @joycewatt8289 Před rokem +1

    You did a great job in this video on this topic. Thank you for your transparency AND for looking at it from the Word of God🙏🏽

  • @lifeisbeautiful9455
    @lifeisbeautiful9455 Před 9 měsíci +1

    A guy told me I looked like a old lady because I had on a floral sun dress he was used to women showing their skin. He felt like he couldn’t be attractive to me because he couldn’t see my body. That was the first and the last time he saw me. This dress was beautiful but sometimes from my own experience, my own men of color tend to sexualized the black woman’s body. They think it belongs to them but it doesn’t. I don’t get that from other races at all. Just my experience. If I walk past a black guy they always say something, I mean always 😂 always looking.

  • @allysoncashion2268
    @allysoncashion2268 Před 2 lety +5

    Thank you so much for making this video!!! I have a very similar background as you, I was very promiscuous since a very young age. When I was saved by Christ at 23, the Holy Spirit slowly but surely started convicting about modesty. And I LOVE how you said 1. It’s not all about clothing, but it includes the heart, the intention and 2. That it’s also for men and 3. The personal doubt and how we must listen to the prompting of the Spirit. Overall, thank you!!!!! God bless you, and keep speaking of His Word! It is our weapon against this world.

  • @BecomingZakah
    @BecomingZakah Před 9 měsíci

    Loved this video!

  • @urniggasfavorite2481
    @urniggasfavorite2481 Před 2 lety +1

    if i’m not mistaken i believe the hebraic meaning of modest is well put together/put together. and i couldn’t agree with that more but that’s another topic lol…😅- but GIRLLL!!! i love you for making this video especially as a black woman speaking on this topic i really appreciate it more than you know! most ppl haven’t studied deeper into what modesty ACTUALLY means besides what church has told us it means, so all in all i’m happy to see another person doing that! wonderful video, my love
    and p. s. your hair looked good 😌

  • @sundralawton
    @sundralawton Před 3 lety +4

    Teach!!!!!

  • @3unhy3
    @3unhy3 Před rokem

    100% agree!! So much truth sis! Praise the Lord ❤

  • @theparttimehomemaker
    @theparttimehomemaker Před rokem +1

    So many great points xxx

  • @tecumseha
    @tecumseha Před rokem

    I love your comments on modeSTY & dressing modeSTLY! 🙏🏽

  • @ladykadiijha
    @ladykadiijha Před 2 lety +4

    Wow amazing

  • @EngineeredByGod
    @EngineeredByGod Před 3 lety +2

    So we are in the process of editing a video on modesty right now and wanted to see what other people have to say about it and found you! We agree with everything you said and touch on similar points so we obviously had to subscribe to your channel! You did a great job tackling this topic and we are looking forward to watching more of your videos! 😁

    • @KennedyKelly633
      @KennedyKelly633  Před 3 lety +1

      Oh wow that is awesome!!! That warms my heart ☺️ Are you both engineers by chance? Asking because of your CZcams name haha

    • @EngineeredByGod
      @EngineeredByGod Před 3 lety

      @@KennedyKelly633 Yeah, we both studied engineering in college (Dave studied civil and I studied mechanical) and that's how we met ☺️. Dave works in the construction field now and I am an engineer for the Department of Defense.

    • @EngineeredByGod
      @EngineeredByGod Před 3 lety

      @@KennedyKelly633 Shout out to you! Fellow Black girl in STEM 💪🏿 I love it!

    • @starhunter9085
      @starhunter9085 Před 3 lety

      *The idea of "modesty" is an absolute joke. God created us to be fully naked with NO SHAME and it was only when we started playing our own game that we started viewing our bodies as disgraceful. 99% of clothing has nothing to do with trying to be provocative, it's just the person wearing what makes them comfortable. Clothing doesn't influence bad actions, corrupt character does.*

  • @kaseywilliams1487
    @kaseywilliams1487 Před rokem +1

    i would love a summer modesty outfits!(:

  • @vanessarodriguez2127
    @vanessarodriguez2127 Před rokem +2

    Nice advice 👌

  • @jennabates4973
    @jennabates4973 Před rokem

    Yes sister 🙏 you're so funny too 😂💕 bless you xx

  • @diamondkeystv6771
    @diamondkeystv6771 Před rokem

    I love this

  • @lee-annebarrett366
    @lee-annebarrett366 Před rokem +2

    The only views on modestly l am interested in are the bible scriptures from Gods Word.
    Not a single womans opinion on what she thinks modesty is. Gods word and only Gods word.

  • @courageouslyencouraged
    @courageouslyencouraged Před 3 lety +3

    Oh so you fancy now with the 500 subs I see you!!!

  • @profmj7630
    @profmj7630 Před rokem

    Great video

  • @kadijahduarte
    @kadijahduarte Před rokem

    Amen, amen, amen! Also, you're so funny! Pleaaaaase can you share the name of this beat in your video? 🎶

  • @courageouslyencouraged
    @courageouslyencouraged Před 3 lety +6

    The thumbnail though 😂

  • @mosesthomas8499
    @mosesthomas8499 Před rokem +1

    It's so much deception of the scriptures to suit the narrative

  • @Bsarahkristy
    @Bsarahkristy Před rokem

    Running you your check? Clearly you’re not doing this genuinely

  • @IDeclare
    @IDeclare Před rokem

    No one is saved until christ comes back

  • @makotoakiyama6765
    @makotoakiyama6765 Před 3 lety

    #GodLovesYou
    #いぇすがだいすき
    We need to repent for our sins to be saved

  • @starhunter9085
    @starhunter9085 Před 3 lety +5

    *The idea of "modesty" is an absolute joke. God created us to be fully naked with NO SHAME and it was only when we started playing our own game that we started viewing our bodies as disgraceful. 99% of clothing has nothing to do with trying to be provocative, it's just the person wearing what makes them comfortable. Clothing doesn't influence bad actions, bad character does.*

    • @Isabel-dm1gy
      @Isabel-dm1gy Před 3 lety +7

      God clothed Adam and Eve. "And the Lord God made clothing from animal skins for Adam and his wife." Gen 3:21

    • @starhunter9085
      @starhunter9085 Před 3 lety +2

      @@Isabel-dm1gy *That was after Adam and Eve already clothed themselves.*
      *Then the eyes of both of them were opened, and they realized they were naked; so they sewed fig leaves together and made coverings for themselves. Genesis 3:7*

    • @lissettegutierrez2876
      @lissettegutierrez2876 Před 2 lety +10

      As we are sinners, clothes do influence bad things. And the Bibles says we have to dress modestly, so? Is the bible lying? Of course it's because our sin. For example the divorce, Jesus explained that God doesn't agree with divorce but Moses put laws about it because men and women are sinners! And they kept divorcing, so they had to put a law. The same as clothing, you're right, God created us with no shame. But now we sin, so things are changed and He gave us His Word, so we have to obey.

    • @starhunter9085
      @starhunter9085 Před 2 lety +4

      @@lissettegutierrez2876 *Nowhere in the Bible does it say that our bodies cause others to sin, that's a misinterpretation. The Bible is clear that our bodies are made in God's image and, because of that, we're the crown jewel of His creation. That's why there was no shame in nudity but we've lost sight of that but that doesn't mean that truth changes. Hebrews 13:8 tells us that Jesus is the same yesterday and today and tomorrow so if He thought our bodies were shameless yesterday, He still believes this today. Yes we have to cover certain areas of our bodies when we're in public because we'll get arrested for indecent exposure if we don't but clothing isn't God's creation nor was it ever intended by Him so it's not a priority of His. 1 Samuel 16:7 says WE LOOK AT PHYSICAL APPEARANCE WHILE GOD LOOKS AT THE HEART ❤ and that couldn't be any more true. David, Esther, Isaiah and Adam and Eve (before the fall) were all elevated when they embraced their natural beauty (bodies) so our bodies are not shameful "stumbling blocks", they're glorious elevation tools.*

    • @retrosynthdid4476
      @retrosynthdid4476 Před 2 lety +6

      @@starhunter9085 "before the fall" is very important. We clothe ourselves because sin was brought into the world. Before that, it's true we can be naked and unashamed. Now this is not the case, cause there is sin in the world. The earthly kingdom is broken, seek Gods kingdom. Stop making excuses for dressing pervertedly. You know it in your heart, stop justifying what's wrong.