Ep. 05 | The Morning Nomad Podcast - The MOTHER of a Solo Female Van Lifer
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- čas přidán 27. 07. 2024
- Welcome back to The Morning Nomad Podcast! This week's guest is one of the most important people in my life... my Mom. After years of travel and 1.5 years of full time van life, we sat down to discuss my mother's worry, thoughts, challenges, and advice about supporting her adventurous and independent daughter.
You're so like your mother, you look like her too. She's lovely and brave, kind and wise . . . keep being yourself 🙂
🎯 Two peas in a pod!! Love them❤
What a wonderful mom you have! Her understanding of how to live fully, being aware of surroundings, but not allowing fear to overcome our minds and pursuits is so healthy. Your "balance" obviously comes from being raised so well. Bravo, mom! 🥰🥰
Your mother is a truly extraordinary woman. Wow! To have a partner like her, I have no doubt, made your father's life something beyond extraordinary. Amazing!
I can't imagine how hard that was for your mom. Having to tell you about your dad. I'm sure that was a very hard challenge. Mom your more then enough 😉
I lost my mother recently and I can't help but feel how special this video will be to you one day. It warms my heart with a few tears. I miss her terribly. Thank you for sharing
I had someone say to me that once you’re a mother you will always have worry. Maybe not always in the forefront but it can be tough to let it go and breathe sometimes. Once in a while I’ll open up our messaging thread on my iPhone and check their locations, especially if the older two are traveling to and from their homes out west for our annual Boundary Waters trip just to make sure they’re making progress.
You have your Mother’s laugh, Linnea.
I have an older brother (around 60) that has worked as a travel RN for years. Often he takes months off at a time to hike the PCT. So….Its not only Moms that worry but siblings. So he will send a pic of a lizard 🤣or something around once a month! 🤗To let me know he’s ok.
Lol Aw 😊he sounds adventurous
Your mother is so amazing, she had me in tears talking about how she had to accept that she couldn’t be both the mother and father to you and your brothers. I myself am 53 years old and am also a mother to 2 boys and 1 girl who are all in their late twenties and I support them fully in whatever they choose for their lives and hearing her talk about the way she allows you kids to live your own lives as it confirmed that my choice in parenting style not only worked for my kids but it has also worked for you and your brothers as well and kind of gave me a sense of peace and self assurance. I am very close with my children and we have very open communication about everything in life and I see that between you and your mom and it makes my heart happy for you and her. You have a precious family and are a very interesting and intelligent lady and as a couple who owns two campers and a van and run to the outdoors any time we can, we truIy enjoy your adventures a lot.
I might have to send this to my mom, I'm in the process of building out my van and hoping to finish it this summer, and I know my mom is supportive but she definitely worries! Thanks for sharing 😊❤
That's a really good idea. It may help put her mind at ease.
I’m building out my bus now and I’m thinking the same thing.
Mom, You should be proud of raising such an amazing daughter.
(Can be proud, because I think she is) 😉
I love this conversation. Your family has such a calm and grounded energy, and the way you look at each other and listen when the other is talking makes me teary. I so wish we could have heard/seen a podcast episode with your dad too, because I have no doubt he exudes this groundedness too.
I love that laugh®Sister, brother mom and probably the dog too..totally crazy bunch
T u,
Your mom is wonderful! 💜 I love how supportive she is of you! 💜
So enjoyable to see a mother and daughter have such a wonderful conversation. What an awesome relationship they have!!!
The kind of mother I wish I had growing up. That was special
great vid…..your Mom is as cool as I suspected she was….actually, she is WAAY cool! I see her in you
This is so beautiful Linnea, I got such a tear in my eye when you were discussing your father. I really enjoyed this and send my love to you and your lovely mama 🤎
I think your mom is amazing. My mom is the same. At the end of 2020 my mom was diagnosed with breast cancer. I had amazing plans to go to Europe to volunteer on a cruise and help families with disabilities. My mom told me that she trusts me and to have fun. Covid happened and then my mom got her diagnosis. With the world closed I was able to devote time to help her get better. She is in remission and doing well. Last year over the holidays I got asked to volunteer on cruises again. I asked my mom if it was ok for me to volunteer instead of spending the holidays with her. She said you go live your life. You took care of me when I needed it. I know you will visit us when you can just have fun. I had the best time volunteering and expanding my friends. It's always so great when we have support of those we love.
I see so much of your mother in you. You have a lot of the same expressions.
You favor her a lot. She's lovely.
My favourite episode so far. What a beautiful mom you have, Linnea. A very emotional watch for me. Please have you and your mom chat more another time.
I watched this with my 22 year old daughter, not because she's getting into van life but because I am! We both thoroughly enjoyed watching you and your Mom. It's a blessing to have the support of one's loved ones. Looking forward to the next episode.
I’m 69 and I would love to live in a van. I’m currently trying to persuade my husband to buy a small motorhome and travel. My daughter and her family are currently living on the road in a 40 foot travel trailer and is out west. I want to go out west and experience the beauty that is so totally different from the beauty of the eastern us.
Gawd….Apples dont fall far from the tree…..Mom you raised (and Steve of course) a wonderful daughter and sons…
I gave my son a tent when he went to college (shelter) one of the needs in life. He used it to live in for a few weeks. He found work at a friends parent farm. We love our children more than they will ever know.
I just love her she warms my ❤️. She’s such a loving women. I love when she’s in your vlogs
What an incredible lady your Mom is. Such a beautiful and thoughtful soul.
What a treasure you have in your mother and your entire family and what a gift this video is to yourself and your siblings. It is so heartwarming, open, and it exudes such familial love. Thank you.
This is so heart-warming. I recently found your podcasts and I am fascinated by your van life. I worked at the DC Library for years and remember your mom coming in before she married your dad, after having kids, etc. You are both beautiful women and I appreciate both of you being so vulnerable about your lives. Thank you for this gift of sharing.
Linnea, I am significantly older than you, but have never felt motherly watching your videos. I am a part time overlander and vanlifer. Never think about your safety, because I've never had to worry about mine. Any mom will worry about their kids no matter where they are or what they do. Love your content and love that your mom has instilled the outdoors in you. Wonderful! Keep up the great work!
Very cool that your mom is laid back as she is she seems like a very pleasant person, we all should have that relationship with our kids...✌️❤️
As a parent of adult children, you never stop worrying and thinking about them, but I do know my children utilize good judgment and I crammed as much essential lessons into the first 18 years that I possibly could. I'd probably want a Garmin with my son or daughter (which, I think I've seen one on you?) I think Akela is a great safety buddy! Your mom is amazing, as are you!
My daughter is at a university in another state and I was worried about her all the time. It's been a year-and-a-half and I realize that there is nothing I can do except pray and put her in God's hands. He can do much more for her than I ever could even if I was standing right next to her all the time. I'm getting there. You have a lovely mother and your father seemed amazing as well. They raised some awesome children. The short glimpse we saw of Noah, you can tell that he has a sweet spirit like you, Linnea. I'm sure it makes your mother feel better that she knows you are smart, you have a weapon of choice, and especially you have your sweet and strong, Akela, by your side.
It is easy to see where you get your courage and strength Linnea. Your mom is an amazing lady. Blessings, love and light to you and your family. So sorry about the loss of your dad. It is clear his spirit lives on with you all.
I just love you guys and your relationship with one another. What you have is really rare - I do appreciate that it takes a lot of love, respect, intelligence, wisdom and courage from you both to let go and for you both to actually explore the things you want to do. And ‘Mom’ (yes it feels like you are mom for us all) the way you include your children and made a mindful choice to let them be part of your way of life from the beginning - is so refreshing. And what a legacy to pass on to your children. (instead of stopping your way of life cause you have children) It is no wonder why you have such a great daughter and two sons.
Thank you both for sharing and for having these conversations with us! 🙏🏻R. E. S. P. E. C. T.
Big hugs all the way from Sweden.
Love Greta ❤️
Linnea I love ur mom she is great, and you are just like her just younger, your laugh, your mom laugh, expressions…
You are so blessed to have such a wonderful relationship with your mother - always treasure her. She raised a strong independent and wonderful woman in you and her pride shows - with you and also with your brothers.
I don’t think we, as mothers, ever stop worrying about our children though. Mine are 30 and 22 with the youngest getting ready to graduate college. My biggest struggle has been learning to let them go (so to speak) and now trying to figure out who I am without them here. If I didn’t have 5 GSD’s - I would seriously load up and hit the happy trails.
I hope you all have a wonderful week!
Outward Bound 1972, Collegiate Range, Colorado. Changed my entire life. Way to go, mom.
Love your mom! And she raised 3 nice people. Showing your kids the beauty and value of wild spaces is the best way to raise them, IMO.
Hi Mom! Loved listening to two thoughtful, loving people talk about their trust and understanding of each other.
I absolutely loved this! Your mom would worry no matter where you were. As women we have different risks in life. We live with those risks no matter where we are. We can't allow that to stop us from living. Your mom gets that, and that is a blessing. I lost my mom a few years back. We were really close. So it always makes my heart so happy to see people treasure their family. Esp their parents. Your mom seems like an exceptionally strong and cool woman. ❤ & Sorry for your loss. It's the worst growing experience we go through as adult kids.
Thank you for sharing your mother with us. I'm one of your older subscribers and I worry about your safety so your mom doesn't need to.
Awesome conversation with two beautiful people. I am your mom's age and I hope I have done the same for my own kids. This video was very validation because I never heard the child's side of it, only my own inner voice telling me I had to let go and let my own kids live their lives, as hard as that was at times. Still is, always will be I suppose. I've even had to let my youngest, who has multiple handicaps, make his own mistakes and learn from then. Now *that* was hard! You guys are great! Thank you!
Great chat Linnea...you are so lucky to have had such wonderful, adventurous supportive parents as rolemodels. I love that you each got a tent when you were 18....thats awesome!
Roots and Wings. 👍🏻
From another Wisconsinite. Mom. You did a great job.
Thank you for sharing such a sweet visit. You're very fortunate to have each other.
I am 72 years old. Love watching you and your adventures. You have a sweet mom.
As a mom, you worry no matter what you do. Your mom is so great. She's extremely logical and she knows you the most. So after all is said and done, you as kids growing up, will do what you want. We as parents have to let you grow into who you are going to be. 💖💖 I think that the quality of life your giving yourself Linnea is beautiful and I really hope you continue.
Your mother is amazing and you are so like her. You are both beautiful! I am one of those that are much older that watch your channels, 78. Your laughs brought a smile to my face. God bless you both
You have a wonderful mother. I live in wisconsin myself. 5 yrs ago I traveled here and fell I love with the beauty of this place myself
This goes both ways. I think my grown children worry about me traveling as a older women.
I came home from a Girl Scout camp out when I was 10 to find that my dad had died in a plane crash. My mom was 32 w 3 kids, had quit college to get married and be a mom so didn’t have a job or work history. I know how hard this must be for your mom, watching my mom over the years. She is happy now. I will pray for healing for your family.
I simply ADORE YOUR MOM!!!! She is such an elegant and gentle soul. You two have the girl’s version of my Son and myself. However, I think I “Mother” too Intensely still, lol. It is amazing how similar you and your mother are: your laugh, the way you sit and the way you intently listen. Just beautiful!
I've been to Iceland twice. Puffins nest in early May, northern lights start around August or September. I enjoyed being there in August and May... daylight forever
Oh my, your mother is so precious. I just cried a little bit watching that. I'm a 55-year old female and have also had this question, wondering how your Mom feels about your life. I too want to have the van life so I TOTALLY get what you're doing; but, I also know that it has to worry her. Parents always worry about and want to protect their children. Thank you for this video. She's precious and such a wonderful mother. Update: Please don't ever say to your Mom again "Stop bothering me". That must be painful for her to hear. Just letting you know to please be kind to her. I think you are mostly kind but oooohhh OUCH! That must have hurt her. She reminds me a LOT of my mother, very loving, kind, wonderful to talk with about vulnerable things, strong, intelligent, tender-hearted. HUGS to your Mom 🤗
I'm alot older and I love watching your youtube channel 😊 Your Mother is lovely She sounds alot like me I loved camping and rock climbing with my kids Horse back ect.
I know it sounds odd I worry about you and I'm not your Mother Don't laugh I worry about my kid's too one lives in NYC and one in Indiana It's just that the world is so different so I'm glad you are living your best life
You and your Mom have a wonderful open relationship and she is happy for you. You are so responsible and very aware and don’t take risks.
This was such a special episode. 🤍
So awesome to meet your mom LInnea! I see a lot of her in you, in all the good ways! Kudos to your mom for supporting you all, for getting through her grief and continuing to enjoy her life!
This melted my heart to see you two discussing the hard things in life...but how joyful. You're mama is on smart cookie and I relate to that so much since I am a mom of two about your same age. I just am transitioning in my build of my van that at some point in my retired life want to travel and life in my van. This warmed the soul!! It's great to follow you Linnea....you are wise beyond your years!
I love Linnea’s mother. She seems like such a happy woman and a joy to be around. ❤️ Except I don’t consider cats to be a challenge. 🐱😊 But you can tell she is a good mother and has helped foster a sense of wonder, adventure and love of nature and the outdoors in her children. That is a wonderful thing.
two amazing women. so appreciate being able to see how loving and supportive relationships can be.
Thank you so much for this❤️
Thank you for this content. I'm a 57 year old mother of two, very independent 20 something daughters and worry about them in the same way. They are very capable, intelligent, strong young women but I will always worry about them being harmed by others.
Wow you look like your Mom. My daughter looks just like me also. Do love your Mom. My parents and sibling did alot of camping I loved it. My ex and I camped a few times he just wasn't a camper.
You ate even sitting the same way in the chair.
I totally agree with your mom on the being afraid for our children and having to talk my self out of it. Bad dreams and all. But I also feel that I want my children to live their lives all the way through!
This is one of my favourite podcast episodes of all time and one I love to revisit. Your mother is absolutely lovely, and you two have such a great relationship! Would love to see an episode like this where you sit down and discuss your different lives as nomads, and your other brother's take on having nomad siblings while choosing a more conventional life. Congratulations on becoming an aunt and to your mom for becoming a Grandma!
Loved the chat with your Mom…I can relate to your talk. It eas awesome. My husband and I raised 2 boys. We lived in a few different states while raising them (Oregon, Texas, Flagstaff, AZ). We moved to No. Idaho many years after they were on their own. My husband, Steve had an very adventurous spirit always in his life. Steve was a California surfer. I was raised camping and hiking. We raised our boys mostly living on rural land, had horses, garden, boats, camping, backpacking, hiking. Our boys are 47 and 48, very independent and successful in their work. They have traveled to other countries. They are both vert skateboarders, snowboard and do snowcamping, backpacking, hiking. Linea’s CZcams videos are awesome. She has strong character qualities! She can do a lot. I like the dogs in the videos too. Thanks for sharing your stories
Good talk ladies!!! Yes, as a mom, I don't think the worries ever really go away. Its like breathing...it comes with being a human , or any living creature i imagine.... Parenthood is parenthood....love is love
That doesn't just stop and dry up, when our children reach adulthood. Their safety, health, and happiness, is EVERYTHING, ALWAYS!!!
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Cool mama. Good video. As a mom of adult kids, the fear/worry exists often at a low level all of the time. We just live with it and hold our kids close to us in our minds.
Linnea, you have inspired me so much into van living. Life has lead me to want the solitude and peace van life gives. I’m 62 but I don’t feel it. Not as strong as you but still want to do it. I love your momma. Y’all are so much alike. My parents aren’t with us anymore. So I’ll be able to do it for just the pleasure. I feel very blessed. I love your videos and now your podcast. Thank you for inspiring me to actually doing this for myself. I live in the south near the smoky mountains. One day I’d love to sit and talk. Take care.
Linnea, great conversation with your mom. I believe we all have a set time here on earth for our souls to have a human experience. I get enjoyment watching your adventures and take comfort in sensing that you are in tune with your inner self allowing you to give your soul an incredible journey. It is this new perspective that I've gained that is allowing me to start my van life.
I can relate with your mom when it comes to worrying about kids because I have three and I go down the rabbit hole occasionally, but I want them to live the most adventurous life full of experiences. My parents on the other hand freak out when I’m traveling in my van and I’m 50 years old with two big dogs! They would rather I stay home! 😆🤣
So worth the wait... Fantastic content ! Thanks for sharing ....
Thanks for sharing your mom…. I’m retired teacher to a 28 yr old son who has his own life and is married but oh how I miss him and long for a van so I could travel to see him and drive around the area to visit! Your mom is spot on about your life being your own and it’s not her decision… it is yours. I feel the same way and I worry to but feel similar to your mom! We’ve raised you to be strong and intelligent folk! Go forth and do your thing! I am sorry about your lost of your dad! I have lost lots of family parent and 2 siblings and a baby so.. it is a hard thing that is never overcome, but it is life too! You just go on!
Beautiful sharing you are both so lovely together x
Integrity , balance, and boundaries. What a sweet interview. Gretchen is a beautiful human and it's clear to see how each of her beautiful children and pursuing living, really living. Oh my, she is funny. Thank you for this. I am one of your older viewers and raised my daughter, 25, alone. You can see all the love pouring out of you both. We lost dad in 2018. I still talk to my dad too. Thank you for sharing with us. Xxoo
Beautiful mama pretty daughter very nice vlog
I’m one of your older followers. I don’t worry about you so much because you are very capable. You are aware of your surroundings and take precautions. I’m just trying to figure out how to get myself out there. ❤
You are TWO STRONG LADIES!!! So appreciate following your adventure, seeing you grow and succeed! Your mom should start a channel Trail Running! :)
I got a tent as my high school graduation present! I live in the Midwest. It must be a thing here. You two are precious. I’m glad you’re back together for awhile. I wonder if you and your brothers ever worry about your mom home alone or out trail running?
Thanks for sharing this intimate and loving conversation between you and your mom. It touched my heart and reminds me of the type of relationship I have with my two adult children. When my daughter was eight and my son was eleven, we traveled the US for 2 1/2 years as a family in a fifth wheel. My husband & I loved ever minute with them & it made the most amazing memories. From this, they both wanted to see more, so as young adults they both worked hard, saved their money, and each traveled independently all over the world. And as their mom, so many people questioned me too, and while I was always afraid (especially in certain areas of the world), I always cheered them on and encouraged them to be curious, open minded, and kind, while also being as smart as they could be regarding their safety. Simultaneously though, on the inside I Iwas sometimes overwhelmed with fear; and never more so, than when my husband was suddenly killed by a reckless driver & I had to call may daughter in South Aftrica (she was 21 & travelling alone) & my son in Australia (he was 24 & travelling alone.)
So, Linnea, when your mom said that calling her four kids was the hardest thing sheʻs ever done~ I could relate to her as a woman, a wife, and a mother. In my life up to that point, I had been with five separate friends & family members as they were dying, and when they took their last breath, and hands down, making those calls to my two kids almost six years ago was the hardest & most heartbreaking thing I’ve ever had to do.
That, and as your mom so eloquently put it, moving forward and navigating the rest of our lives knowing that I can’t be both their mother & father. And, riding side car to that reality, is the deep pain & longing for not only my husband of almost 30 years~ but also the ONLY person in the world that loves my children as deeply and completely as I do, and the only one who has shared all of our family memories from the parent’s perspective.
So, from our family to yours, and from me to your mom, we honor your journey as a family, and we send you strength & comfort for some extra support, and laughter and more adventures to delight & nourish your souls.
And to you & Akela, may the road continue to lead you safely in the directions of your dreams & desires, and may your time with Chris be a wondourously l-o-n-g & loving adventure that continues to grow into a lifetime of love, where each of you are accepted & encouraged to be completely yourselves, while also honoring & nourishing your relationship. ❤
The relationship you have with your mom is so beautiful.
What a great conversation. Respect is evident between you.
Thank for such deep and real sharing about losing your husband and talking openly about that journey and how you still draw strength from him.
Your mom is such a quiet spoken understanding women lovely personality sounds like your dad and mom gave you all a wonderful fun childhood letting you all experience nature and later on your dad and mom giving you all the freedom to experience these adventures yourselves. Even though your mom worries, That is a mom thing and she will always worry until her time to pass comes. I am so sorry about your dad what a very unfortunate thing to happen , But I bet he is watching over you all and is very proud. I cant imagine what that was like for you all and may he rest in peace. My children's father died at 43 of a massive heart attack , It is a challenge to have to tell your kids that dad is gone , Mine were suppose to see their father that weekend , they had plans to go camping, ( this brought a tear to my eye listening to your mom). god bless her. wonderful video and happy you shared it with us .
I love you so much more after watching your interaction with your mother. Such a pure, honest video!
Wow, you are both so blessed. Beautiful souls ❤️I enjoy all of your journey's, they bring me joy and peace.... Thank you for that🦋
I love your mom! I love her honesty and her courage. And you look just like her♥️♥️♥️
Omygosh Linnea, when your mom spoke those words about worrying about you being hunted it made me sick in the pit of my stomach. God bless her for her honesty. That's the dark nature of the minimal part of society that can chill to the bone. It's the saddest thing to have to consider, but it's brutally honest. I'm a mother who can relate. The deepest love we have is for our children no matter what the age. I said a special prayer for your safety, that in the tenderness of God's mercy no such thing shall happen, in Jesus name, Amen. 🙏❤️💕
When I was about 23 I told my family I planned to visit every continent in the world... something I'd thought about for about a decade. My parents were worried about everything! I learned to tell them *after* the adventure about the adventure, especially the bungee jump. :) Stepped on continent #7 at 33. I wouldn't trade it for the world... parental fears included.
I've watched it at least 4 times, but still want to watch it as it reminds me of times when my mom was in my life. So happy for you, Linnea, to have a relationship like that. So sorry for your loss. Just cherish your family when you can. Love from UK xx
What a lovely interview. Your mum is great! I have lived in my touring trailer for about 25 years now. Travelling in the UK and Ireland. I'm 76 now and have no plans to change my lifestyle.
Having a 24 year old daughter I definitely understand your mom's worry about you being out alone and she is absolutely correct about being concerned about other people. For me animals are easier to read than humans and you can take precautions for animals, with humans it's a whole different story. Take care and God Bless!
truly impowering, soul searching and most of all sweet... big hugs to you both from a mom with a daughter and granddaughter who love to adventure...
you are both amazing women and you are blessed to have a mom who supports you in what you do and sets an example for how to live your life for you!
I absolutely love your mom! She is an inspiration for me, as you are also. I could go on & on, but am choosing not to be a bore! Missed Akela’s face! 💕
Well now we know where you get it from lol. Seriously though, this was so nice, I think we all learned a lot about you and your mom on a more personal level which was awesome. I have always wanted to say this to you but was always afraid of upsetting you, but after this video I am going to just throw it out there ? Forgive me for being to personal but being a father of three children myself, Linnea he must be so proud of the independent and strong young woman you have grown up to be …… 🙂
I love the bond you have with your family it’s just so loving and caring. I’m also proud of the way you handle everything really; you’re such a well rounded young lady. You’re smarter than most people give you credit for lol. Most moms will always worry and most kids will still do what they want to do. You have to do what’s best for you in the end. I think A lot of misconceptions come from various generations or just being unaware of other ways of living or traveling. Van life is a true lifestyle in this day just as tiny homes are it has nothing to do with your status in life. I’ve seen a rocket scientist living in a car on CZcams channels currently working still and there are many traveling nurses doing this kind of thing. What’s comfortable for one person may not before another and that’s where their own fears come in to play. On the flipside there are those who are not as aware of their surroundings safety wise. It is sweet that your followers truly care for you and your well being.
I love your mother for understanding your life journey. Keep being you and be happy ❤️❤️
It was really nice to meet your mom as it were. I can see where your personality comes from LOL
Fear can be stifling if you are on your own without backup. As we get to know your mum, we are also getting to know more about why and how you became you. You had that support and you had the encouragement and you learned from how your parents made it all work. They did an awesome job but I know you know that. When your dad wasn’t in any vlogs I assumed he had passed. You didn’t mention how long ago but I sat here blubbering. Although we say life happens, it isn’t always fair. Maybe one day you’ll post a picture of your mum walking you down the isle. In this day and age it doesn’t have to be a man right? Cheers from Canader eh! PS I was always getting into trouble.
So much fun getting to know your mom better. I'll send to my mom. Thanks!