*EXTREME* KIDS ROOM DECLUTTER. EXTREMELY DISGUSTING ROOM! DECLUTTER AND ORGANIZE WITH ME 2022

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  • EXTREME KIDS ROOM DECLUTTER. KONMARI METHOD CLEAN & DECLUTTER. DECLUTTER AND ORGANIZE WITH ME 2022
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  • @mimiNana-yi4cy
    @mimiNana-yi4cy Před rokem +300

    Impressive. A few observations. The stuffy nose could, very well, be from all the stuffed animals on her bed. They do collect dust. It may be time to limit how many she has on her bed. Have her pick a few, put the rest, neatly, in her closet, and then she can rotate them out when she wants to change them up. It looks like she is a "collector" (One of my daughter's was a collector at that age). It is not a bad thing to put a limit on it. We had to implement a rule, something comes in, something goes out, otherwise it ends up a hot mess of way too much stuff. Also, love the fact she is creative but have her do her creative stuff at the counter, not in her room. That way it is easier for her to do some cleanup and not just push it all under the furniture. Start slow but stay consistent, and set firm limits on her collecting. Great job on the clean up. It looks wonderful.

    • @angeliquemosley5072
      @angeliquemosley5072 Před rokem +16

      Thanks for this comment, my boys have stuffed characters from their favorite cartoons on their beds. I'm going to do what you suggested here with them.

    • @Sienna10Sunz
      @Sienna10Sunz Před rokem +10

      Work on those "Atomic Habits" for her as well :)

    • @Gouthami_k
      @Gouthami_k Před rokem +14

      True, my 7 year old have a habit of sleeping with a load of stuffed toys and used to sneeze all the time, she also got dust allergy coz of that. My sister is a Doctor and when she saw this she asked me to at least limit the stuffed animals at night . My daughter got so much better now, she doesn't get dust allergy that frequently anymore!! Btw, we live in a tropical climate so we use cotton blankets which is plus

    • @katinkavanoursouw9
      @katinkavanoursouw9 Před rokem +10

      Not only the stuffed animals, also the blankets, clothes and especially the carpet collect a lot of dust!

    • @Elcinqazye
      @Elcinqazye Před rokem

      😔😔😔😔

  • @cassandrabursich1301
    @cassandrabursich1301 Před rokem +89

    It’s so good to see this. So many of the cleaning videos show these perfect kids rooms and it makes me feel like I’m failing all the time. I have to do this to my kids rooms a few times a year. And they are exactly the same.

  • @darniataylor7749
    @darniataylor7749 Před rokem +23

    Oh boyee do I remember those days. I started having my kids stay in the room while I cleaned/organized (why should they get to have fun while I cleaned? LoL) and eventually, they figured out that the less mess that there was the less time they had to spend "not having fun" as they put it. By the time they were 7 and 8, all I had to do was a weekly tidy.😉

    • @ashleyforbes
      @ashleyforbes  Před rokem +6

      That is a brilliant idea!! I am definitely doing that the next time I have to clean it off camera 😅 I bet that would be motivation to keep it clean!! Haha

    • @mamajessiej
      @mamajessiej Před rokem +2

      I love this idea!!

    • @loisleckie8329
      @loisleckie8329 Před rokem +4

      Same, I declutter their rooms all the time, and I got tired of hearing where's this, where's that!!!! So I make my 9 year old son declutter with me atleast twice a year, and honestly he declutters better than me!!! He's figured out less mess, less cleaning!!! Lol 😂

  • @claudiag.3036
    @claudiag.3036 Před rokem +45

    Oh girl, I can so relate! My daughter’s room is currently a HOT mess. Thank you for sharing & motivating me to tackle it!

    • @ashleyforbes
      @ashleyforbes  Před rokem +8

      Hi Claudia! So happy I could help motivate && good luck tackling the mess 😅 ♥️

    • @amymnaglowsky4520
      @amymnaglowsky4520 Před rokem +1

      So I can relate with our bedroom

    • @amymnaglowsky4520
      @amymnaglowsky4520 Před rokem

      @@ashleyforbes And also taking care of 3 kids and traveling to Disneyland and moving to the other side of town in Eugene , Oregon .

  • @sheilabundren2037
    @sheilabundren2037 Před rokem +19

    You are a good momma. That was a big job. When you opened the closet my heart sunk for you. It obviously doesn't bother her. It all looks amazing now. Go get some rest after that!! Thanks for sharing your motivation.

  • @brandipoage1
    @brandipoage1 Před rokem +5

    Thank you for your transparency!!! Now I can exhale bc I know I'm not alone. I use to think I'd gone wrong somewhere with my 3 little people. They just seem to enjoy being able to see all their belongings in the floor all at the same time....and I do mean EVERYTHING they own! Lol

  • @brigittegreenwood2970
    @brigittegreenwood2970 Před rokem +18

    That's funny I used to go thru my girls stuff and declutter as well, but their floor had to be clean. Their room was downstairs towards the front of the house, and I didn't just close the door. But they learned at an early age you play with it, you pick it up, you throw it around it goes in the trash.

  • @jos-1994
    @jos-1994 Před rokem +15

    Wow Ashley. That room alone gave you a workout 💪🏼What an amazing difference. I'm exhausted just watching but as always you've given so much motivation 👍🏼

  • @beckiblack859
    @beckiblack859 Před rokem +5

    Maybe you could ask your daughter to pick her 10 favorite stuffed animals and put the rest in storage bins. After a year, switch them out or see if she can let them go. Dawn from the Minimal Mom calls it a Time Will Tell bin.

  • @susanfilipiak8538
    @susanfilipiak8538 Před rokem +10

    Ashley you're the Best Mama!!! But I just could't deal with her room like that all of the time. She loves to cook with you and go to the gym and love on her siblings, but she needs your help to teach her how to stay more organized, When I was young, I shared my bedroom with my older sister. She told my mom that she didn't want to share the room anymore because I made a mess. (she just did't want her little sister in there) So my mom moved me to another room and my sister's room only became worse. 😰She is 69 and is still lazy and messy etc. I have always been the organized clean sister. I watch your videos faithfully but I don't comment much at all, just watch and like! But this just hits me hard. Maybe because I'm old school and we had to appreciate what 5 of us children had and shared with our Loving single Mom. Just speaking from my heart.. Love you Ashley and your beautiful family 🥰

    • @susanfilipiak8538
      @susanfilipiak8538 Před rokem

      Ok so I will keep my comments to myself!

    • @ashleyforbes
      @ashleyforbes  Před rokem +1

      Awe thank you! ♥️
      But like you mentioned your sister was in the same house hold and taught the things you were taught… and yet still lazy. It just goes to show that some things are just personal habits and traits. Not everyone likes to be organized & clean. To each their own! I mean of course I love my stuff clean & tidy but I’ve met many woman who don’t care & their houses are a disaster but they are amazing in other areas in life. Just because they lack in one area does not make them any less. We should just appreciate each other for what we are 😊

    • @jensygalvez6403
      @jensygalvez6403 Před rokem

      @@ashleyforbes you are stupid and you don't tell her what to do son of a bitch

  • @brendahowell5946
    @brendahowell5946 Před rokem +5

    Thanks so much. So much motivation. We do scheduled snacks if you don't they do eat out of boredom. But you know their are days they could eat an elphant lol. If my kids put (hide) anything under bed or closet. The more I pick up more electronic time they loose.

  • @lynnhendley8910
    @lynnhendley8910 Před rokem +17

    You are doing the best you can as a mom. But if your children are old enough. They should at least help you. Also maybe it's time for a toy rotation.

  • @Hey_its_Dre
    @Hey_its_Dre Před rokem +5

    Love your words of wisdom in this video. Completely agree with “you have to take action”. I write down goals every single day and I wake up at 4:15 every morning to work out. If I don’t do it in the morning I find too many excuses not to do it. You are such a super mama! I have started having Azelynn help me with the declutter. It honestly is easier if I just do it but I figure she made the mess and can help clean it. Such great motivation as usual!

  • @carolkoehn6225
    @carolkoehn6225 Před rokem +4

    I never had this problem with our 5 sons but our niece oh my word yep did the same thing as u did & so glad to have you along side me. Thank you so very much for all the motivating videos.

  • @The_clean_mama
    @The_clean_mama Před 6 měsíci +2

    It’s so interesting to see how many mama’s actually struggle with keeping a clean house. I really don’t get it, it’s not that hard. This has truly taught me that I need to start a CZcams channel for tips and tricks of keeping a clean house with kids. I have a few short videos that I created lately but this is something that I really need to do. How old is your daughter?

    • @bethanyhaynes1123
      @bethanyhaynes1123 Před 3 měsíci

      Same. Especially with kids older and capable to clean and tidy. Habits start from a young age.

  • @sheilarowan8664
    @sheilarowan8664 Před rokem +9

    Sometimes less is best

  • @josie436
    @josie436 Před rokem +1

    Great job Ashley, love your cleaning motivations! Have a wonderful week! ☺️💖

  • @dw5593
    @dw5593 Před rokem +11

    I wonder if your daughter is seeking out pressure (so many blankets). Have you considered letting her try a weighted blanket? For some kids, it can be calming and improve sleep. Just a thought from one mama to another mama.

    • @ashleyforbes
      @ashleyforbes  Před rokem

      She actually does have a weighted blanket but doesn’t use it too much anymore. I’m not sure why she loves the stuffed animals so much, maybe because she doesn’t feel like she’s sleeping alone 🤷🏼‍♀️

  • @wendyinegbenedo1307
    @wendyinegbenedo1307 Před 8 měsíci +2

    Another tip for stuffed animals, vacuum them once a month, put in the dryer on low for 10 min to kill dust mites, then use your spray to disinfect or freshen. It will help with asthma and allergies.❤

    • @sarahsmith5045
      @sarahsmith5045 Před 19 dny

      Or bin them.. clutter and something else to clean.. baseboards behind bed and around bedroom need cleaned.

  • @sierra2256
    @sierra2256 Před rokem +9

    I love this video! My kid's rooms currently look like this and I'll be tackling them tomorrow! I like "real" cleaning videos of a good before and after! Thankyou for sharing ❤️ I love all the stuffed babies on the bed! My kids have tons and it makes their beds look so snuggly lol

    • @ashleyforbes
      @ashleyforbes  Před rokem +2

      Thank you so much!! 🥰
      Yesss!! That’s what my daughter says, he bed is just so comfy with all of them ☺️

  • @debbiebliss1523
    @debbiebliss1523 Před rokem +7

    Hi Ashley, my now 42 years old son used to be just like your daughter when he was 8 or 9 only worse! Problems with Hygiene, school work and very creative too. I tried everything! Nothing worked till I discovered the “NOTHING”. That finally did the trick. It's a group job and it's not easy but he's better for it.
    “NOTHING” is: just what it says, nothing. I had to work things out with his teachers first. He got no recess, no lunchtime, and no field trips till all his school work was completely caught up. I got a weekly report from his teachers on this, plus desk/locker inspection weekly.
    At home, I emptied his room. No toys, books, crafts, TV, games, dressers, bins, or boxes of anything in his room just his bed which he had to make every day. Showers tooth brushing, hair brushing, and clean clothes every day. He was smell tested daily. (he had no friends at school because he stunk. I thought he would grow out of it but he only got worse). He had to stay in his room doing nothing but homework. He got no TV time, no game time, and no family outings till he completed and got all his school work caught up, kept his room, and self-clean for 2 weeks in a row.
    When we started the “NOTHING” I ask him what did he think I should do about all of his behavior problems and he said “NOTHING”. He thought everything was just fine. I told him you want nothing he said yes. I said be careful what you ask for and it took me a while but once nothing was ready it didn't take him long to move his butt and change everything. In 2 weeks he had everything done daily and when he would slip I would tell him that nothing can come back and he would jump into gear again.
    I know you think this is cruel and a lot of work but it sure showed him responsibility and respect for himself and others. I made him do the work not me. After this, He made friends, got good grades, and grew to be a good loving son and man with a great job and a clean apartment I'm happy to go to. Plus he went to college and got the highest honors through 2 degrees. So it was worth it and he tells me that often.
    Your husband is a military man he understands what duty, respect, and doing things the right way means. You need to be a united front and example of what you expect from your children that's how they learn to be the same in adulthood.
    It worked in my house is all I'm saying. My oldest saw this and changed too. He's served 21 years in the AF and they tell me I was the best mom ever. In fact, their friends say the same thing.

    • @annparsons2112
      @annparsons2112 Před rokem +1

      What a great example of what can be accomplished with DISCIPLINE AND RULES! This must be done with this child or her life as she grows up with be complete chaos at home and at school.

  • @teewatson8168
    @teewatson8168 Před 11 měsíci +1

    So happy to see this! I’m in Aus, my boys 11 and 8 share a room half this size and they’re exactly the same, they can’t seem to put anything away - to the point where you can’t see the carpet. And they don’t put their dirty clothes in the basket so they never know what’s clean or dirty- their clean stuff ends up on the floor too. It’s such a battle and I’m hitting my head against a brick wall with them. We’ve done complete declutters multiple times a year and it just breaks me that it’s back to mess within a week, like they don’t care about my hard work.

  • @angiegibson3092
    @angiegibson3092 Před rokem +1

    Happy Sunday morning Ashley love watching your videos they are my favorite, I hope you have a wonderful blessed week

  • @mommingonthedaily8984
    @mommingonthedaily8984 Před rokem +6

    Hey girl ! I definitely needed this motivation to tackle my kids rooms , you did great !

  • @Evolvingalot
    @Evolvingalot Před rokem +14

    My mother would have NEVER cleaned my room for me. I was taught chores and the importance of responsibilities at a young age.

    • @ashleyforbes
      @ashleyforbes  Před rokem +2

      Good for you!

    • @deecasey6893
      @deecasey6893 Před rokem +2

      That's the way it should be

    • @fantz724
      @fantz724 Před rokem +1

      I totally agree with you.We live by example.

    • @ashleyswshr
      @ashleyswshr Před rokem +2

      Well everybody is different and nobody is perfect. Nothing wrong with mom going in for the occasional deep clean to the kids rooms. Its her home after all. I also think kids these days in general have a more abundance of stuff than when we were kids, that can be hard to manage in my experience.

    • @dawnyandandy
      @dawnyandandy Před rokem

      I’m laughing at you clambering under the bed 😂 my boys are 25 32 & 34 my daughter is 30 this year !!! I cleaned there rooms when they were little and found all sorts 😂 do whatever you feel the need to do you have a beautiful home sweetheart xxxx

  • @sunflower7766
    @sunflower7766 Před rokem +8

    Just a suggestion but for her stuffed animal collection you can buy empty bean bags on amazon so it can double up as a bean bag chair and helps contain them.

    • @ashleyforbes
      @ashleyforbes  Před rokem

      We used to have it but she kept pulling everything back out of it. She says she needs all of the animals 😅 she swears she has names for all of them and everything haha she loves them things

    • @sevdjanahmed7793
      @sevdjanahmed7793 Před rokem

      @@ashleyforbes s3xr
      Можете да плъзгате изрезки, за да ги изтриете

  • @takayafisher8710
    @takayafisher8710 Před rokem +3

    Not an adult but an older sibling. My younger sister Kelly is like this! Her room is FULL of stuffed animals and I thought she was the only one who had... questionable... food under the bed. This has inspires me to help my little sister with her room because her room is SCARY messy. Thank you for motivating me hahah
    Oh and by the way sorry if anything is incorrect my language is portugese :)

    • @ashleyforbes
      @ashleyforbes  Před rokem

      Haha I feel like we all know that one person whose room looks like that 😆 That would be really sweet of you to help her 💖

  • @sophialeal16
    @sophialeal16 Před rokem +12

    I was looking for a motivational video and found you! I loved how realistic this was! I sometimes feel like my kid’s rooms never stay clean, I don’t even know how they accumulate so much trash out of paper. Lol. This was really motivating!! 🙌🏼 your daughter reminds me of my 9 yr old daughter, she has a bunch of stuffed animals & loves Pokémon too. Lol. & yes I always recommend Atomic Habits to everyone! It really helped me change my habits! I’m reading it for the second time, it’s such an easy read too!

  • @marcyk3271
    @marcyk3271 Před rokem +1

    Your video is very motivating. No food in bedrooms is one thing I forbid with my kids. Another thing, I go into my kids rooms daily to clean up junk therefore I don’t have a huge cleanup. With 3 kids I must be on top of cleaning. It works

  • @mendy838
    @mendy838 Před rokem +7

    I love your videos. I'm sorry but she would be upstairs helping clean up that room . You are a very patient mom.

    • @ashleyforbes
      @ashleyforbes  Před rokem +2

      Thank you so much! ♥️ She usually cleans it herself but this is my deep cleaning of her room! 😅She was at school … otherwise she would of wanted to keep all the trash too 😆😆

  • @ElainahTru
    @ElainahTru Před 10 měsíci +1

    You have no Idea how much I love how real this video ! My child has a blanket hording problem too! This is what my girls room looks like 😂❤ thank you for this video

  • @carriejohnson4922
    @carriejohnson4922 Před rokem

    Just came across your videos today. And wow, thank you!
    I always feel like I’m failing at keep a clean home and my daughters room is just another story, I can’t believe how similar our daughters rooms are to each others. The blankets, the stuffed animals, the paper and fidgets, the bits and bobs that end up under the furniture, and trash. She’s 11 now and getting into older girl things now, so I think it’s time to go in and declutter that room once again.
    This video is inspiring and is reassuring in so many ways. I appreciate you taking us along on your cleaning journey !
    I watched the more recent video of your daughter room, then came to see this one:)

  • @carolhensley3857
    @carolhensley3857 Před rokem +2

    Glad you are putting your health first! Even if you have to stop what you are in the middle of to do it!!

  • @bridgetwallace9892
    @bridgetwallace9892 Před rokem +2

    Haha my son Eastons room! I call it the black hole where everything goes but never comes out. He is like Adrian. But once it's cleaned it's so nice and I get back so much I thought was lost. I loved your motivational message. It truly resonated with me, it's so very true! Learning to prioritize yourself and needs is something we all fail to do at times. But, if we're not living our best lives neither is our family. When we're at our best, so are they. You and I are so similar in so many things/ways. Again, I don't comment much but every time I watch your videos I laugh and think that's just like me lol. It's nice to relate. Thank you ❤️ .

  • @jennatolls1028
    @jennatolls1028 Před rokem

    Its great to see you doing this for your child, and not only that, but showing her what you're doing for her.
    As a child, I was exactly the same, possibly even worse, and my mother simply cleaned while i was out of the house, and never gave me the tools nor motivation to help me clean on my own once i became a teenager. It took a frankly ridiculous amount to teach myself good ways to clean and declutter, and a lot of time and energy on top of battling my rather poor mental health.
    So thank you for the simple act of showing your daughter how to clean, rather than just shutting her out and doing it completely by yourself. You have no idea how much it means in a child's development, even as something so minor. ❤

  • @joyceheaton2406
    @joyceheaton2406 Před rokem +1

    So excited Ashley for your video I look forward to you and your content every single week I just love you and your channel you are one of the most precious people I've said it to you before but you really are and your little man he's just too cute he likes to be right next to his mommy he wants to help you are such a good mom as I've said before never doubt that

  • @nancyhaefner4596
    @nancyhaefner4596 Před rokem +1

    Thank you for this video!!! It motivated me enough to clean out 4 dresser drawers this evening!

  • @bethanypetersen7005
    @bethanypetersen7005 Před rokem +1

    My 8yo son struggles to keep his room tidy. It looks like a tornado hit it quite literally and every time we get it clean, it's back to trashed super fast. It's so hard to maintain. We limited toys and he did the same thing with his clothes etc. Thanks for showing a REAL kids room

  • @aubrieramsdell520
    @aubrieramsdell520 Před rokem +4

    This video actually got me to clean my book shelf/closet! I’ve been neglecting it so long! Actually didn’t take that long to clean up..

  • @reginabeasley872
    @reginabeasley872 Před rokem +1

    Great video Ashley you motivated me to clean my living room

  • @kristinsager1884
    @kristinsager1884 Před rokem +1

    Thanks for the motivation. Now to tackle my son's room. ❤️

  • @LifeWithTheLovedays
    @LifeWithTheLovedays Před rokem

    Okay I'm LOVING this!! So motivating!!

  • @adafonseca2517
    @adafonseca2517 Před rokem +4

    Loved it, its so satisfying when you see the results. Great video.

  • @kassiereid3300
    @kassiereid3300 Před rokem +2

    Stumbled across your channel today and feel like I finally got the kind of motivational videos I need because you show real life. Thank you!! My kids rooms look just like this.

    • @ashleyforbes
      @ashleyforbes  Před rokem

      Yay!! That makes me so happy to hear!! 🥰 I get a lot of crap for showing the real life but I think it’s so important to show it!! ☺️ I don’t have a Pinterest house haha

    • @bozennawise7207
      @bozennawise7207 Před rokem

      Right! This is what my kids room looks like and I do NOT understand why. Love this video and the transparency. Nice to know I’m not failing.

  • @jsblake199
    @jsblake199 Před rokem +3

    You just reminded me of my life 30 years ago. My kids rooms looked exactly like this. Good job!

  • @lauraenright10
    @lauraenright10 Před rokem

    Absolutely love your videos! This was such a motivating transformation!

  • @lagjnl2010
    @lagjnl2010 Před rokem +1

    First time viewer here!!! I needed this particular cleaning motivation video!! I know this feeling all too well!!! Thank you for all you do on you tube!! Im definitely here for all of your content!!! Do you take any vitamins/supplements for extra energy??

  • @whispergemini3870
    @whispergemini3870 Před rokem +1

    Loved this video! You helped motivate me to doing little exercises everyday so I can be the healthy women I deserve to be. I think I should get the book you were talking about, it would probably help me in other areas of my life as well.... Thank you so much!

  • @sheilarowan8664
    @sheilarowan8664 Před rokem +3

    I always say if it has been under the bed they won't miss it if you toss it

  • @cindythompson3960
    @cindythompson3960 Před rokem +1

    Thank you for the affirmation I'm going to start putting my health a priority first again I have been off track for months have a blessed week beautiful lady ❤️ 💖 💕

    • @ashleyforbes
      @ashleyforbes  Před rokem +1

      Hi Cindy!! ♥️ You got this! It’s always hard to get back into it but once you do it is so much easier to stick with ☺️ wishing you the best luck!! Hope you have an amazing week as well!!

  • @maryfreese280
    @maryfreese280 Před rokem +7

    My parents would grounded us for a year if our rooms looked like that we didn't have much but we definitely took care of what we had but we were taught to deep clean as young ages.

  • @wendystahlke
    @wendystahlke Před rokem +2

    Hi Ashley love decluttering my home I like things in their place,No food upstairs or drinks only water we have carpet in the bedrooms so it’s hard to keep clean we don’t need food tramped in the carpets.
    We have set times for snacks too usually in the afternoon after school it’s easy for kids to snack out of boredom.One thing about kids they always bring their toys downstairs it’s ok if there going to play with them then they don’t want to take them back upstairs after they’re done out of pure laziness that drives me nuts lol 😂 I don’t like clutter it stresses me out so I like things tidy.I will say though weekends go too fast I wish it would slow down I like to go do things but it goes way too fast.Have a great week 😀

  • @ashleyroberts48
    @ashleyroberts48 Před rokem

    It took me a good part of the day to clean out my youngest daughter's room in the new year. After I organized everything she went through and got rid of a bunch of toys. She is only seven so I was happy. We built some shelves in her room and most of her stuff is now in her room. I was very surprised at what cleaning did to help motivate her and I love videos like this because it helps motivate me to take the first steps.

  • @Kristen-kt9uw
    @Kristen-kt9uw Před rokem

    I can totally relate to you! My middle child is exactly like this. A complete hoarder and collects not only all the blankets but the towels too. She is 16 now and can clean herself but only does it about once every other month. They are who they are!

    • @ashleyforbes
      @ashleyforbes  Před rokem

      Haha yes!! We can only encourage them to clean up after themselves 😅

  • @shairmainejoycecole9299

    Thankyou for a new motivating video ashley love all your videos 😍🤩 very motivating

  • @jclapine94
    @jclapine94 Před rokem

    After seeing your sneak peak on Instagram last week I was looking forward to this video! I NEEDED this motivation today! 🙌🏻

    • @ashleyforbes
      @ashleyforbes  Před rokem +1

      Yay!! 🥰 hope I helped motivate!! 🤗♥️ hope you have an amazing weekend!

  • @williamcarlyon6048
    @williamcarlyon6048 Před rokem

    hey i enjoy all of your videos please keep makeing these it gives me motivation to do my own cleaning and organizing thank you

  • @emss55
    @emss55 Před rokem +3

    Such a great job of cleaning I’m sure she really appreciates it! Just one thing though, the no food upstairs 100% get it but be careful with having really strict food rules/ times once they get a bit older like 10/11 as it could lead to disordered eating habits of course it’s not a definite just a very prevalent problem that you might want to consider x

    • @amandawalsh8321
      @amandawalsh8321 Před rokem +2

      Absolutely agree. I was looking for this comment and hoping it was mentioned. Even at birth we know our bodies and how much we need and when to eat. No one besides us can tell us that we are eating because we’re “bored”. Unfortunately that really rubbed me wrong as being an adult who has fought with an ED my entire life starting at a very very young age, and raising a daughter who has never had her food restricted and she isn’t “overweight” she is in control of when she eats.

  • @JenniferGFamily
    @JenniferGFamily Před rokem +1

    Hey hey! Here catching up with you while I eat some breakfast! We have a 1 snack between meals rule here! They get one snack before lunch and one before dinner but absolutely NO eating in the bedrooms! I love you watch band!! Her drawers looked SO good when you were done with them!

  • @asmaa_vlog_85
    @asmaa_vlog_85 Před rokem +2

    When I watch your videos I feel comfortable and happy 🥳🎊♥️ I wish to see you always and wish you a happy life my best friend🫂🍡❤️🥰😍😘🍭🌸💖💕🧁. 💖🥰

  • @lynnettewood355
    @lynnettewood355 Před rokem +2

    We had 4 kids but their rooms never looked like that!! A bit messy but they were made to keep it tidy!!

  • @Isabelle.2.cool.4.u
    @Isabelle.2.cool.4.u Před rokem

    This video gives me the most motivation I watch it so much 🖤

  • @MaisieHutchinson-mi3wc
    @MaisieHutchinson-mi3wc Před 9 měsíci +1

    Your are a very happy person I love watching your videos

  • @shannonsri6359
    @shannonsri6359 Před rokem

    Saw your video. And fell in love. I’m not alone when it comes to kids, and mess .

  • @pinadelmonico
    @pinadelmonico Před rokem

    Wow awesome job!! So so satisfying!!👍🏻👍🏻

  • @Wendy-jh4kr
    @Wendy-jh4kr Před rokem

    I love these videos the most, they are so great!

  • @deborahhopper4832
    @deborahhopper4832 Před rokem +1

    I had to laugh a couple of times watching you do this room😀Reminded so much of my kids bedrooms as they were growing up. My granddaughter has the same issues with stuff too.

  • @brookephelps2162
    @brookephelps2162 Před rokem +1

    This is probably my first CZcams comment tbh, but I absolutely CANNOT believe all the nasty comments you’re receiving. Wow.
    Everybody is an expert! You seem like a loving mother giving your all! Your kids appear to have wonderful bedrooms full of clean clothing, a warm bed, things surrounding them that bring them joy and comfort.
    Why all the criticism?! How about some gratitude for your willingness to be authentic about your content ? I certainly appreciate it!
    I never comment on CZcams videos, but for yours I had to! Why on earth are you receiving so much negativity?

    • @TheOfficialKayy
      @TheOfficialKayy Před rokem

      I’m not saying I necessarily agree with the comments left, however the reason is due to the state of the room. It’s not messy, it’s dirty. There’s a big difference. I think a lot of commenters forget that people live differently and leaving a comment won’t change that. HOWEVER, some people *may* think this is normal when posting and receiving comments stating otherwise may open their eyes to change something. I didn’t listen to the talking, I watch these on silent. I had a best friend growing up and her room looked like this all the time. She now has a filthy house 24/7. I get where people are coming from as this isn’t a habit you want to create for your children. Also, if you put something on the internet and allow comments, you’re going to get negative ones. either way, the interaction in the comments (positive or negative) actually help her channel so I doubt she minds. I personally wouldn’t ever have a house with this mess but I truly enjoy watching people clean their disasters.

  • @jennyspence6870
    @jennyspence6870 Před rokem +5

    Firstly when doing her room let her do it with you ! It's her mess, stuffed animals carry so much dust so see if you can donate some

  • @bri4210
    @bri4210 Před rokem

    I'm relieved that my girls' room isn't the only one that ends up like this. 😅 I went from one little girl to three - 2 bonus daughters. I'm currently going through all of their clothes and toys. It's a lot of work so great job in this video.

  • @taffeniterrell4466
    @taffeniterrell4466 Před rokem +1

    I can relate.. I have 2 boys and their rooms are omg. Its clean now but give it a day and its back to messy 😂 but I love how this is so real life.

  • @elainedomalewski4954
    @elainedomalewski4954 Před rokem +2

    You are such a wonderful Mom ,your daughter is lucky for you doing that.

  • @christinatait8714
    @christinatait8714 Před rokem

    Awesome job loved the video❤

  • @margaretoneill284
    @margaretoneill284 Před rokem +1

    You did a good job Ashley, have a great day, best wishes from NZ. ❤️🤩💚

    • @ashleyforbes
      @ashleyforbes  Před rokem

      Thank you so much!! ♥️ hope you have a great week!

  • @trishbafus5522
    @trishbafus5522 Před rokem +1

    Great work oh my gosh those kids are crazy Messy Kids I just want to say you're a great parent going and taking your time cleaning organizing and folding those clothes and putting them in those drawers just great job and thanks for doing everything for your kids I've been following you for about 5 months plus close to Christmas Thanksgiving and I just really grateful you do this for your kids and you use all your time with it.

    • @lioness2000
      @lioness2000 Před rokem

      She should also teach her kids to clean up their own rooms

  • @angiegibson3092
    @angiegibson3092 Před rokem +1

    Ashley I’m changing my diet I’m definitely going to eat way better and start drinking water and STOP drinking soda I feel bad all the time and I know it’s because of my weight! I’m going to start walking 3 to 4 hopefully 5 miles a day love watching your videos they have always been my favorite

  • @cbowick1000
    @cbowick1000 Před rokem +1

    I love this video🧡

  • @normataylor3124
    @normataylor3124 Před rokem +3

    Great feeling when u get finished. Looks good

  • @23respectme
    @23respectme Před 11 měsíci

    My room used to be like this growing up and I hated it so much but didn't know how to do better. One of the reasons I can't stand mess at all now.

  • @tommymiller6668
    @tommymiller6668 Před 3 měsíci

    Thanks for sharing! My kids definitely have the same obsessions, lol. My girls' room always seems to be the messier, hot mess situations!

  • @eileenloughran2566
    @eileenloughran2566 Před rokem

    Really really enjoyed this video, was good to see the finish❤

  • @chelsearenee8642
    @chelsearenee8642 Před rokem

    Great job mama! Those sheets from grove are meant for the washer that might be why they aren’t dissolving in the dryer cycle? ❤️ I love them also I’m currently using them!

  • @KaylonBriana
    @KaylonBriana Před rokem +1

    Sooo glad I’m not the only one with extremely messy kid rooms 😂 So motivatingg!

  • @amyhull8049
    @amyhull8049 Před rokem +1

    I just deep cleaned 2 of my boys bedrooms that are downstairs last week and yes it was an all day project pretty much! My son has an “animal zoo” I found it on Pinterest and my husband built it. It helped with my sons stuffed animals. Thanks for the great video.

    • @ashleyforbes
      @ashleyforbes  Před rokem

      I’ve seen those! They look awesome. Wish her room was a bit bigger because I would definitely get one of those! ♥️

    • @amyhull8049
      @amyhull8049 Před rokem

      @@ashleyforbes my sons room is much smaller than hers, we went up in height with the zoo rather than width

  • @bernardetteprimrose1343

    Awesome video 👍OMG Ashley! That is a lot of work 👏

  • @brittanymcdonaldbarr1106

    Thank you for the motivation.

  • @MayleenLora
    @MayleenLora Před rokem

    I respect you for taking your time to clean your kids room. 🥹🥰

  • @mirandabump1918
    @mirandabump1918 Před rokem

    My son and I share a room and oh my it gets so bad 😂 especially on his side ( we cosleep but he's got most of the room for toys) so this definitely helped me reorganize things and get rid of just a few things that didn't need to be there anymore

  • @emh7084
    @emh7084 Před rokem

    I love your videos so much ❤❤❤

  • @InhaleSkyExhaleStars
    @InhaleSkyExhaleStars Před rokem

    most satisfying cleanup vid i have ever seen!!

  • @Delight791
    @Delight791 Před 5 měsíci

    Hi I am a kid but I like watching your videos❤❤❤❤❤

  • @yolomanolo6103
    @yolomanolo6103 Před rokem

    Love this one 🎉

  • @dianeparker2170
    @dianeparker2170 Před rokem

    What i do with my kiddos is everyone including my husband Ian and I as well we once a month we go through and get what you Hammett
    Haven't seen or touched or wore side then and through it out it rlly helps keep their room clean

  • @susanunderwood7414
    @susanunderwood7414 Před rokem

    Great video!!!

  • @angiegibson3092
    @angiegibson3092 Před rokem

    Ashley what is your favorite Febreze fabric spray

  • @HelenFrost57
    @HelenFrost57 Před rokem

    My daughter had a stuffy nose sore throat kinda thing going on for awhile when she was younger. Her dr asked if she had a lot of stuffed animals in her bedroom. Well of course! She did she Sid! 😂 Her dr recommended running through dryer several times a year because they collect dust etc. and the less soft fabrics in her room the better. So we took the carpet out and all the extra stuff out (running stuffed animals through dryer every time I changed her bedding) and overnight she was better. AMAZING! Just wanted to share. ❤️

  • @Hoppyfox9
    @Hoppyfox9 Před rokem

    Nice job, I love all of your videos!

  • @angelabryce1811
    @angelabryce1811 Před rokem

    Great video! Thanks

  • @guadalupeandaverde9650
    @guadalupeandaverde9650 Před rokem +1

    Nice love it how it turn why you don't put stuff animals on inside the closet shelf I think it would look nice many blessings to you and your family

  • @AyeJye
    @AyeJye Před rokem

    Finally a real house! Instantly subscribed!