Paris Is Burning "I would like to be a spoiled rich white girl." Femme Realness Queens category

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  • čas přidán 4. 09. 2022
  • Gender, Race & Class in drag? Yaas, queen! This is part of the segment described in bell hooks' book Black Looks, 'Is Paris Burning?' Which women? Rich, white women. Not the women in their families and communities?
    "I would like to be a spoiled rich white girl They get what they want. They don't have to struggle with finances and stuff..." -Venus Xtravaganza, Rest In Power.
    #bellhooks #parisisburning1990 #parisisburning #lgbt #class #poorpeople #poverty #hiv #hivaids #transgender #lgbtq #représentation #dragonball #dragqueen #ballroomscene #peopleofcolor #lgbtqia #lgbtqia #lgbtfilm #race #gender #intersectionality #intersectionalfeminism #nyc #newyork #criticaltheory #criticalthinking

Komentáře • 286

  • @jesssanchez2954
    @jesssanchez2954 Před rokem +1026

    So sad she was murdered after this :/ she just wanted to be loved and accepted

    • @Gr95dc
      @Gr95dc Před 10 dny +77

      That's such a tragedy, she sounded like a kind soft soul :(

    • @rabidpepe
      @rabidpepe Před 9 dny +1

      It wasn't murder. It was AIDS. There was no hope back then with HIV/AIDS. I wish people would still take the virus seriously. It's treatable but it is still out there.

    • @aftonstan5494
      @aftonstan5494 Před 7 dny +10

      ​@@rabidpepeShe was murdered.

    • @captivecat5858
      @captivecat5858 Před 2 dny

      @@PartyClown-rh8ffwhat the fuck?

    • @PartyClown-rh8ff
      @PartyClown-rh8ff Před 2 dny

      @@captivecat5858 are you a traitor?

  • @lilithz
    @lilithz Před 20 dny +453

    her and the femmes and queens like her walked so the girls and the dolls can run and dance and strut today. stunning in life and in the afterlife because you best believe she is still alive now in all our hearts. paved the way with her bare hands taking from her own body for us to stand on now. rest in power, peace, and beauty venus, on behalf of all the dolls who found strength in you and girls like you. you were born a woman and the rest is drag.

  • @liz257
    @liz257 Před rokem +500

    😭 Venus the goddess of beauty and love. The name fits her so well. Transphobia is an ugly cruel thing

    • @thedolllovett
      @thedolllovett Před 18 dny +43

      so cruel. i’d never understand hating someone for something they want for themselves

    • @user-tq3pw4bt6i
      @user-tq3pw4bt6i Před 10 dny +12

      This is a beautiful comment ❤

    • @Naruto_fishcake
      @Naruto_fishcake Před 7 dny +6

      Y'all threatening actual women and forcing them to be attracted to y'all is also an ugly cruel thing
      Women's safety over the feelings of a crossdressing man

    • @thedolllovett
      @thedolllovett Před 7 dny +26

      @@Naruto_fishcake nobody is forcing anyone to be attracted to trans people. women’s safety is just as important as trans women/men’s safety, quit the yap

    • @finnbaker8695
      @finnbaker8695 Před 6 dny

      @@Naruto_fishcake nobody is threatening women to have a relationship with transitioned people. by the looks of your other comments, you support an author jk Rowling who has 0 original ideas and legitimately gaslights and insults women on twitter.

  • @pizzaface4628
    @pizzaface4628 Před měsícem +216

    RIP queen, you deserved to live a full and prosperous life. Hope you’ve found peace in the next life

  • @essaeldridgeYoBro
    @essaeldridgeYoBro Před 12 dny +290

    I was scared to read the comments at first because I thought there would be transphobes.
    It’s so nice to see kind and loving people coming together for a woman who was taken too soon.
    So sad to see what happened to her is still going on, literally all the time.
    Trans love to you all.
    Essa (She/they)

    • @Naruto_fishcake
      @Naruto_fishcake Před 7 dny +2

      And ofc like a typical troon you don't give a damn when actual women who don't bow down to your delusions are threatened with death & SA by your white knight TRA's like Harry Potter's author :)

    • @wormwoodcocktail
      @wormwoodcocktail Před 2 dny

      Sir, stop following women into the bathroom, you scare us.

    • @chichihiwi6319
      @chichihiwi6319 Před 2 dny +6

      ​@@wormwoodcocktailMe being transphobic because I want to feel like I'm the smartest person in the world:

    • @wormwoodcocktail
      @wormwoodcocktail Před 2 dny

      @@chichihiwi6319 Yes, there is a correlation between understanding how sex works and being smart.

    • @Almond.stars666
      @Almond.stars666 Před 2 dny +4

      @@wormwoodcocktailThe fact you imply that we who disagree with you don’t know how sex works isn’t smart, diminishes any smarts you think you have.

  • @alimay4342
    @alimay4342 Před rokem +349

    As a trans woman who is "passable" it breaks my heart that trans women feel the need to pass in order to live regular daily lives, it also gives me an insight into the mind of transphobes, they say they can always tell, but believe me they can not, I just want to live in a world where people dont think they have the power to end someones life just because they disagree with how its being lived.

    • @hannahg.8572
      @hannahg.8572 Před 24 dny +50

      As a student of cultural anthropology, I'm also sceptical of the current focus especially in Western cultures on physical conformity / surgeries or very invasive procedures. Of course it is up to individuals to decide what is right for them. But considering how many cultures there are or were, where many people we would label trans today were valued members of their society and could live good lives, without the expectation of physically conforming to a certain "standard", definitely makes me question why we consider it so central today. In the recent words of Juriji der Klee (approximated), in the queer world of today, it is time to be accepting of trans people regardless of what changes they have or haven't made to their bodies. People should go with their heart on these decisions, not because they feel the pressure to "pass" in order to feel or be treated as "legitimate".

    • @latifa3995
      @latifa3995 Před 14 dny +11

      girl you are stunning

    • @Avatar_Brandy
      @Avatar_Brandy Před 11 dny +8

      @@hannahg.8572People have surgeries and GAC because they have gender dysphoria that doesn’t just go away after you accept yourself. Having surgeries like FFS isn’t about passing, it’s about combatting gender dysphoria.

    • @hannahg.8572
      @hannahg.8572 Před 11 dny +12

      @@Avatar_Brandy That's definitely true for a lot of people, but I do think plenty of other people feel pressure from a society that expects everyone to fit into a neat binary box and that that is something they may take into account when considering their options. Also we need to keep in mind that gender dysphoria has different incidences and may express itself differently between cultures. I'm not saying it's about "accepting yourself", that puts the onus on the individual, it's about getting recognition of who you are from general society, which is a perfectly understandable need. There are and were other, non-Western cultures where other genders than male and female were completely normalized or even had special status within society. I don't think it's too far-fetched to assume people might suffer from less dysphoria if they are just outright accepted or maybe never even had to "come out" at all, but were allowed to grow up as themselves.

    • @bleachnbones7107
      @bleachnbones7107 Před 10 dny +26

      It cracks me up when they say they can always tell. As a very masculine cis woman who has been insulted and pushed out of women's bathrooms multiple times, no, no they can't

  • @jobella2656
    @jobella2656 Před 12 dny +219

    Over 30 yrs & still brown tgirls & now black trans young men being killed for living openly, sad.

    • @owens5737
      @owens5737 Před 9 dny

      And all the whites and Latina’s who do sex work also

    • @aclstudios
      @aclstudios Před 9 dny

      Most of them are killed by other black people.

    • @wormwoodcocktail
      @wormwoodcocktail Před 2 dny

      Over 30 years and men still can’t be women

    • @wormwoodcocktail
      @wormwoodcocktail Před 2 dny

      @@aclstudios*other men

    • @smelly3273
      @smelly3273 Před 8 hodinami +1

      my heart goes out to them as a genderqueer latine 🫶🏼 it's upsetting how the effects of transphobia and racism stack up like that

  • @a.e.3984
    @a.e.3984 Před 11 dny +113

    It's wonderful how everyone in this comment section is peaceful and kind, mourning and celebrating Venus Xtravaganza. Trans people are here to stay, and so are the others who are kind to us.

    • @Naruto_fishcake
      @Naruto_fishcake Před 7 dny +3

      Just stay tf outta actual women's spaces thanks😊

    • @wormwoodcocktail
      @wormwoodcocktail Před 2 dny

      Women are adult human females and men who say they’re women are sexist scrotes.

    • @wormwoodcocktail
      @wormwoodcocktail Před 2 dny

      @@Naruto_fishcakeThis

    • @treasureobasuyi894
      @treasureobasuyi894 Před 2 dny

      ​@@wormwoodcocktailyet death is expectant to all under the sun. How can any stay? Your great grandmother didn't stay in any shape, way or form so how can you and those like you? There's none to stay. It just decays.

    • @wormwoodcocktail
      @wormwoodcocktail Před 2 dny

      @@treasureobasuyi894 I can assure you that women will still be female after I’m dead.

  • @baglady2652
    @baglady2652 Před 19 dny +69

    This docu had me in tears

    • @Tom-zp1rp
      @Tom-zp1rp Před 9 dny +2

      You need a helmet

    • @notreal9214
      @notreal9214 Před 3 dny

      ​@@Tom-zp1rp what do you mean by this?

    • @Tom-zp1rp
      @Tom-zp1rp Před 3 dny +1

      @@notreal9214 that this person is so pathetically soft they should wear a helmet. Idk what’s worse. The fact that people are this soft or that comments need to be explained to others. 🫠🥴🥴🥴🥴🥴🥴🥴🥴

  • @_yaboi
    @_yaboi Před 2 dny +4

    its horrible to now know what her future fate was... rest in power

  • @Awesomes007
    @Awesomes007 Před 7 dny +23

    Trans liberation NOW. 💪💙

  • @tyroneonphone
    @tyroneonphone Před 11 dny +37

    RIP Gorgeous Diva, remembered forever 🩷

  • @harlowhazardperry255
    @harlowhazardperry255 Před 9 dny +19

    Every time I see this segmant my heart breaks, her story was so hopeful and ultimately ended in tragedy 💔 Her soul is at peace now, rest in beauty Queen ♡ You got your wings, and are immortalized forever, you're loved by thousands and thousands of people! Go girl, fly high and free 🏳️‍⚧️ 🏳️‍🌈 🏳️‍⚧️

  • @miles_quartz
    @miles_quartz Před 9 dny +20

    trans women, drag queens, feminine men, and all queer people living their lives and loving themselves and fully expressing themselves you ARE the most special gorgeous things on earth 😭 I love you so much all of my beautiful queer, gay, and trans siblings ❤❤❤

  • @beensybaby773
    @beensybaby773 Před rokem +81

    god shes so beautiful

  • @cpaul69
    @cpaul69 Před 11 dny +24

    Venus was a beautiful trailblazer for sure.RIP😞❤️

  • @shineekings615
    @shineekings615 Před 9 dny +14

    shes beautiful, its always nice to hear other LGBTQ+ people talking about their identity. especially people who identify as trans*, i feel like lots of us have many interesting ways of explaining our gender. have not watched this docu yet, but definitely plan on doing it. rip venus ❤️

  • @simpulacra
    @simpulacra Před 2 dny +1

    thank you to all who lived before me to give me the chance to live as myself today

  • @babiegirl526
    @babiegirl526 Před 4 dny +7

    "I didnt wanna embarass them. so thats why i moved away" its so sad people cannot be themselves she is so beautiful like a goddess

  • @declanwolfgang5775
    @declanwolfgang5775 Před 2 dny +1

    REST IN POWER XTRAVAGANZA!

  • @suave-alpaca8412
    @suave-alpaca8412 Před 7 dny +7

    Its been a while after I’ve seen this documentary. My heart still breaks for her

  • @geligniteandlilies
    @geligniteandlilies Před 8 dny +9

    So long as I live I will hurt for her. Rest in peace angel. You deserved so much better from life.

  • @thedolllovett
    @thedolllovett Před 18 dny +24

    she’s beautiful

  • @realniqqa101
    @realniqqa101 Před 9 dny +14

    RIP Venus Extravaganza. I can't imagine they things her and other trans women went through in those times. Can't say much has changed.
    Her memory lives on.

  • @stebec
    @stebec Před dnem

    rest in peace sweet venus

  • @dante_9000
    @dante_9000 Před dnem

    rest in power beautiful ❤️‍🔥

  • @MerakiRak
    @MerakiRak Před 17 hodinami

    I love her so much

  • @MultiNadiam
    @MultiNadiam Před 10 dny +8

    She was lovely.

  • @seansswamp
    @seansswamp Před 9 dny +4

  • @vi0let831
    @vi0let831 Před 7 dny +1

    Oh my god she seems so sweet, I've never heard of her but now I'm curious to know more about her. That's so sad what happened to her. Pobrecita :(

  • @almostatami
    @almostatami Před 10 dny +3

    I still think about her and just cry.

  • @888mazzystar
    @888mazzystar Před 10 dny +4

    we miss uuu venus

  • @JavaEFA
    @JavaEFA Před 3 dny +2

    Seeing this makes me so sad. She had so much to live for.

  • @davidmiranda4745
    @davidmiranda4745 Před 10 dny +4

  • @justme8340
    @justme8340 Před 5 dny +2

    Why the hell does anybody care what anybody else is doing as long as it’s not an infringement on anybody else’s lifestyle?
    As long as you’re not blasting your music at 3am or stealing my parcels off my porch, more power to ya!

    • @wormwoodcocktail
      @wormwoodcocktail Před 2 dny

      Men are cheating in women’s sports, sexually assaulting us in prison and domestic violence shelters, and following us into the bathroom. This man was part of that. Womanface indicates misogyny. It does affect women.

  • @user-x7dc2pq7n
    @user-x7dc2pq7n Před 6 dny +5

    Honestly same. You are statically likely to have the best life with those attributes. Halo effect, nepotism, the least likely to be killed because of their identity

  • @savagerobot18
    @savagerobot18 Před 9 dny +3

    Chi chi Chi from to Wong Foo

  • @KasiaHavlicek
    @KasiaHavlicek Před 3 dny +1

    Love you forever venus

  • @diegomo1413
    @diegomo1413 Před 7 dny

    In my opinion, she should not have been murdered. That was not good 😕

    • @wormwoodcocktail
      @wormwoodcocktail Před 2 dny

      That was not good, but being murdered doesn’t make him a woman. It makes him a male corpse.

  • @MsTinkerbelle87
    @MsTinkerbelle87 Před 2 dny +2

    MAN!

    • @FireandBlood161
      @FireandBlood161 Před 2 dny

      TERFs are so fucking weird. Are all of you as deranged and constantly obsessed with trans people as your icon Joanne Rowling? Get a life.

  • @missquiles
    @missquiles Před 3 dny +4

    Mental cases lil boy was so delusional😊

    • @notreal9214
      @notreal9214 Před 3 dny +13

      she was murdered in a hate crime. what kind of person are you, that you'd insult the memory of a woman who did nothing to you?

    • @eliza1826
      @eliza1826 Před 3 dny

      @@notreal9214it’s not a woman

    • @wormwoodcocktail
      @wormwoodcocktail Před 2 dny

      @@notreal9214Maybe OP is a woman who finds the idea of womanface offensive? And yeah, he died at the hands of another man. Men commit most crime. That’s why men like him don’t belong in women’s spaces.

    • @chichihiwi6319
      @chichihiwi6319 Před 2 dny +2

      Transphobes are weird people, y'all need help

    • @FritzMonorail
      @FritzMonorail Před 2 dny

      @@eliza1826 she was murdered and the only thing you can think of is to call her it. Not even a person, a thing deserving of death. The world truly does find knew ways to disappoint you every day.

  • @MsTinkerbelle87
    @MsTinkerbelle87 Před 2 dny +1

    Stoppid c u next tuedsay really though he was one of us? Hahahaha no, hes burning now 🤭

    • @wormwoodcocktail
      @wormwoodcocktail Před 2 dny

      Based

    • @chichihiwi6319
      @chichihiwi6319 Před 2 dny +7

      You should learn how to spell if you're going to try to insult people

    • @andreja9425
      @andreja9425 Před 2 dny

      you’re a sociopath. She’s far more likely to “get into heaven” than someone with so much hatred in their heart like yourself. She lived with love and light. You live in hatred and fear. Evil. Just straight up evil

  • @AndreeaCe
    @AndreeaCe Před 9 dny +5

    So you want to be rich and do w/e. Money can get you out of a lot, not gonna deny that.
    Don't forgetty, they still bleed no matter how rich they are and colour of the skin they have, sooooo let it at "I want to be rich".
    00:00 - 00:16 , deal with it.
    No, is not tansphobic to put you back into your place.

    • @aftonstan5494
      @aftonstan5494 Před 7 dny +12

      This is a video of a woman who was murdered after a man found out she was transgender.
      Keep your politics out of it and show some basic human respect.

    • @AndreeaCe
      @AndreeaCe Před 7 dny +1

      @@aftonstan5494 a woman? No, he was not a natural born hermaphrodit. You made it political, and shows you lack the basic human right respect.

    • @AndreeaCe
      @AndreeaCe Před 7 dny +1

      @@aftonstan5494 so he lied he is a woman, and is not a natural born hermaphrodite. Keep your delusions to yourself.

    • @AndreeaCe
      @AndreeaCe Před 7 dny +1

      @@aftonstan5494 shows you're also a homosexual that is clearly a misogynistic person.

    • @AndreeaCe
      @AndreeaCe Před 7 dny +1

      @@aftonstan5494 you know how to read and write, but you lack comprehension.
      so yeah, keep your delusions to yourself.

  • @brigittejoan7139
    @brigittejoan7139 Před 10 dny +14

    For everyone in the comments, this is a man. Please stop indulging in their dilution. Nothing wrong with a man wearing make up or a dress, something wrong with a man identifying as a woman, wanting everything a woman has fought for.
    These days, please women need to stand up for women!

    • @davidmiranda4745
      @davidmiranda4745 Před 10 dny +2

      You sound like a man, or an OUTDATED soul. Grow one, good luck

    • @jakupshmakup1457
      @jakupshmakup1457 Před 10 dny +39

      Dilution

    • @davidmiranda4745
      @davidmiranda4745 Před 10 dny +59

      @@jakupshmakup1457 Yeah, god don't pick the smart ones for bigotry

    • @socialjusticeworm3820
      @socialjusticeworm3820 Před 10 dny +39

      She was murdered in a hate crime.

    • @davidmiranda4745
      @davidmiranda4745 Před 10 dny +1

      @@socialjusticeworm3820 Jupp, and this person making that comment is one of these terrorists, thinking they're making the world better.

  • @madame7399
    @madame7399 Před 10 dny +8

    Male in drag

    • @aftonstan5494
      @aftonstan5494 Před 7 dny

      This is a transgender woman.

    • @ree1120
      @ree1120 Před 4 dny +3

      @@aftonstan5494so….a male in drag

    • @notreal9214
      @notreal9214 Před 3 dny +5

      hey, just in case you're not choosing to be insensitive and rude, I thought I'd let you know that this comment is incorrect. Trans people are different from people who crossdress.

    • @wormwoodcocktail
      @wormwoodcocktail Před 2 dny +1

      This.

    • @wormwoodcocktail
      @wormwoodcocktail Před 2 dny

      @@aftonstan5494A transgender woman is an FTM. Venus was a transwoman, AKA a trans-identifying man. He’s not a woman.

  • @AA-cf4es
    @AA-cf4es Před 9 dny +6

    That man is disgustingly sad.

    • @psychoshamrock
      @psychoshamrock Před 8 dny +14

      Well, you have nothing to worry about. Venus was murdered not long after this was filmed. Venus has been gone probably longer than you've been alive. This film is almost 40 years old.

    • @dianeaishamonday9125
      @dianeaishamonday9125 Před 7 dny +14

      She was murdered, have some class
      Oh wait, people like you don't have that

    • @notreal9214
      @notreal9214 Před 3 dny +7

      this is such a messed-up thing to say about her. What's wrong with you?

    • @hesinparties
      @hesinparties Před 3 dny +3

      don't you feel any shame disrespecting a murder victim's memory?

    • @wormwoodcocktail
      @wormwoodcocktail Před 2 dny

      This. All men in womanface are sad.