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Would love to hear the family's perspective on boundaries to keep when actually dating. This was a wonderful talk.
Dude Gabbie’s supernanny impression was spot on.
Gabi* her real name is Gabriela
@@K-.Allah.- It's not that big of a deal she just spelt it as she thought it was spelt
If Gabriela really had a problem with it she would of said already
As a 28 year old, who has never been in a relationship on purpose, I was nodding my head like a bobble head toy and screaming yes at the screen. Thank you for this conversation, Bee Family! 💖
Mama Bee is so proud listening to her kids having healthy views on not needing to date in their teens. Absolutely love this family. You have raised some amazing human beings. 💜💙💚
Literally I was thinking the same thing she’s so proud of them
This video came right on time. I’m 14 years old and about 85% of my school has been in a relationship, in a relationship, or has had their first kiss and I feel so left out knowing I’ve had none of these experiences. I’ve liked so many people and they end up not knowing, or leading me on then ending up with someone else to the point that I was tired of it. Then there’s this one guy I sorta like, he feels the same and recently asked me out. I still haven’t given him an answer being that I somewhat feel unworthy of his or anyone else’s love. I pushed relationships trying to get someone to feel the same and now someone does and I just don’t think that I’m ready. So your opinions really help me, thank you.
Well dont feel forced into one but i will tell you high school relationships are meant for learning experiences but that dosent mean tolerate the toxic people!
@@anayahh.2908 I tested up while reading this…this is honestly just what I needed! Someone to listen and someone who has had former experience to help me. I appreciate you so much! I really will keep this with me throughout the rest of my remaining school years (seriously I screenshotted this and everything). Thank you so much! God bless you!
@@DonaldgloverLover You are completely right! I really appreciate your intake 😊
i’m turning 20 on tuesday and haven’t had my first kiss or anything so this made me feel so validated
Happy birthday! Y dads is this Wednesday
I love how I have the same exact mindset as The Bee Family with dating, I’m 28 and still single but I’m happier than ever because I have so much free time to focus and better myself. When I’m ready, I’m ready.
I’m 19 and I absolutely love love love these podcast-like videos. It’s so nice to hear about another Canadian family like mine share such similar morals and values towards these topics! I always find myself aggressively nodding and wanting to respond back to all these great points. PLEASE, keep these podcast vids coming!!! Much love 🙌🏽💕
"Trust me, your soul mate isn't in your Science Class." Very wise words from Gabbie!
At 30 years old [over a decade ago] I found my soul mate three-thousand miles away. We met through playing a video game together [Dark Souls!] People are too much in a rush to find The One, but in due time it can and will happen.
Love the transition for the channel, I do love these lil Podcast-Lite episodes!
gabi*
Haven't hear the whole thing, but I would like to say, as someone who never had a proper partner until I was 24, I can say that teenage relationship are kinda important. My whole teens I wasn't ask out, no one had an interest in me and that actually hurts a lot when you grow up and you're, let's say, 22 and the last time some one showed interest in you was when you were 14 and the relationship lasted a conversation; when I got my first bf I was a MESS, didn't know how to communicate. period. I didn't have many friends growing up due to bullying so I didn't learn socialization so I didn't know how to talk to someone on that deep level, specially a boy. A lot could have been avoided if I had friends or my parents talked to me about how relationships, romantic or platonic, should be from a broad but healthy perspective.
The whole thing of "it's not gonna last" and "it's time consuming" is rocky territory for me, it's sooooo easy to just not bother to work inside a relationship bc of those phrases. yes, relationships can be "perfect" and over in like 20 seconds, and it does consume a lot of your time, but it's time that you wanna spend (should, in my opinion, if u truly want to be with that person) and no relationship has a warranty that it's going to last, not when you're in your 20s, 30s or when you've been married for 35 years, they can break, was it a "waste" of time? No, I don't think so.
I mean, I don't talk to my ex anymore bc I realiced that we weren't compatible to begging with but because of the whole we kept dating, that's the mind set you should NOT have. Things can be over so quickly, it's weird but it doesn't mean it wasnt worth it. I learnt a lot in my first relationship -almost 2 years and a half- I don't regret it, maybe I shouldn't have gotten into that relationship in the first place, but it made me grow, realice who I was (or becoming, I'm only 26) and it was a cute time.
Yea I agree, if you look at it that way you can spend any time wasting on stupid things but I feel like that’s life and that’s the point to experience and learn, you shouldn’t expect to have a perfect experience with one go.
Gabriel Iglesias talked about how his first substantial breakup WAS the divorce with his son Frankie's mom (long story). And he talked about how badly it messed him up and said "You're not supposed to have your heart broken for the first time this late in life."
Don't jump into relationships....make friends and let them develop spontaneously
I don't think there's really a right or wrong answer. I think it depends on the individual. Overall it's difficult to navigate through and figure out your feelings and who you are when you're 13-18. Not to mention having to worry about all of the schoolwork and extra curricular activities. Some might be able to deal with all of that, some might not, others might not even try.
I think ppl should try. I was not good at relationships til I went through the ringer in some and I can't imagine how awful I would've been as a partner if I didn't date til 20. But like you said, everyones different and not everyone will be as awful as me in some of my teenage relationships
Thank you, Bee Family.
This is an amazing conversation (I'm hearing it while writing this comment).
I just turned 28 this month but with the lack of wisdom I have and received, I feel like I'm just entering my 20's mentally.
This kind of "Podcast" was a nice change of winds on this morning.
Just, thank you. You're like the superheroes we've seen growing up.
This actually opened my mind on dating ,I'm young and I was rushing on finding someone to be with but after I watched this video it helped me realize that I needed to find myself first rather than dating someone for the feeling.
I’m 18 and I’ve never dated anyone. However, I think at some point it’s better to have dating experiences because we can know what we are looking for in a relationship and find someone who really suits us. We can get to know the red flags in a relationship and see how we can handle them. But for now I’m focusing on my studies. Btw, I love your podcast videos, they are the best❤️
My husband was 3 weeks from being 20 before he had his gf. It’s me. I’m his first gf. LOL
Know your core values and don’t even consider dating someone who doesn’t share them. You don’t need to date around to figure out you or what you “like” you know that already and if you don’t then figuring out you and not others is a great place to start. Honestly read the core values in Matthew, Ephesians, and Proverbs.
I think that "serious" dating is something that probably should be avoided as a teen, but the the things that the kids are saying they are worried about like breakups, making time for others, learning to share your feelings, I believe these are things that are important to emotional and intellectual growth.
They can learn all of that without having to be in a dating relationship as teens.
@@eleventy9x330 You're saying they can learn from experience without having any experience?
@@mikeduncan3953 they can learn to "make time for others" and "learn to share feelings" without having to date. Nobody needs to go thru a "BREAK UP" to learn any of that.
@@mikeduncan3953 emotional and intellectual growth has nothing to do with romantic relationships. we can have that with friends, family, classmates, coworkers, neighbours, colleagues... you don't have to date someone to have all that
@@bruna.186 A romantic relationship has many different benefits and pitfalls that do not exist within those other types of relationships. It's like running all of your life, but now you have to go skating.
I’m in love with the idea of your podcast. You guys create such a calm environment where you also don’t forget to add some fun while speaking truthfully. I’ve been a viewer for quite a long time watching you evolve. I completely understand and agree with the words you put out. Personally at the age I’m in right now I don’t feel comfortable or ready for a relationship even though it’s so normalised to date at a young age where I’m from. Much respect to all of you. Y’all are the best❤️
That's very kind of Roberto. To see the woman's worth and only pursue when he knows he can give himself fully. This gives me hope. ❤️
We need to protect Robero at all costs! Dude is a keeper❤🥹
I don't understand what you mean by protect him
@@thebeefamily1- Stop scamming. :)
dude i literally love these type of videos. Everything you guys say is so easy to understand. I always have these type of family talks, but this really is a great different point of view for me, i learned so many new things from a different point of view. I will definitely be having a family night about this tonight.
i love how real they are, well spoken too, literally love watching you guys :)
Appreciate the openness and nurturing you share between the four of you. It's readily apparent the deep bond of love you have.
I like these podcast and how real they are.
I’m going through a breakup right now and this is really helpful to me because I can learn from you guys and have you as my “supportive parents” and I can listen to your advices and learn, I will definitely take this into account and it will help me grow as a person, thank you so much for sharing this information, I appreciate it so much.
Great video guys! I feel like kids now are quick to have the amenities of a marriage in a week relationship. With everything that’s promoting sexual immorality music, social media, etc.. Kids trying to deal with other kids emotions when they can’t figure out there own emotions. This is awesome that you guys have this relationship with your kids.
Bro this actually almost made me cry because I understand everything that you guys said. And now what I’ve noticed about what you guys said I see it like “ life is a test”. Ty for really explaining how this works.❤
this is a really great conversation and I have learnt a lot from this tysm bee family
I also love to see you guys grow because I've been watching you since 2018 and I love you guys 💕
I'm my personal life, my sister has never been in a relationship. Now she is just finishing UNIVERSITY and has the most healthy, beautiful relationship! It's so happy to see that her first relationship in her whole life is turning out so well!! I want to say thank you for putting yourself out there and having these discussions! KEEP it up!! ♡ :}
God bless your family and your channel 🙏🏼❤. Thank you so much for having these type of talks and for voicing out your opinions. I take into consideration everything that you say. Maybe in your next episode, you can talk about how people with daddy issues can overcome thoughts of finding validation in someone instead of themselves? Love your channel❣️💕
I love these podcasts thank youu for making them!!
I strongly agree with with the arguments they presented especially when Roberto was talking about how you should learn not to step over that fine line thats so true, you have to learn to keep to yourself and be busy with yourself instead of others and also when Gabriella said crushes are more fun than being in the relationship and that's true because their is just way to much commitment evolved. Thanks for the great vid. -Maneau
this was an amazing talk. i love how they all had their own perspectives and im glad i came across this video, because i never really understood why some parents were skeptical about teen dating till about now. although i do have some other points of view, this video made me have a more open mind. There is no right or wrong answer to teen dating unless it is dangerous or mentally dangerous!
yoo Gabbie's wink at "fruitful" ...lmao - seriously though this was a very productive and needed video for many of the fans who are most probably in the situations mentioned. I think we all appreciate how vulnerable and open you all were with your thoughts and opinions, it's not easy just putting them out there. Great content, can't wait for more family podcasts :)
Everybody deserves to be with somebody no one deserves to be alone
Thanks for sharing your valuable wisdom and insights 🙏❤️
Kids should be kids! Like until you’re 20 or 21! Just focus on being a kid and doing fun things! Go to a theme park, movies, bowling etc enjoy childhood while it lasts!
bro i love these podcast videos🤞🏽
Thank you Bee Family! This really helped me realize that maybe a person that I like might not be worth my time. Thank you for reminding me for focusing on myself!!!
I love that even though the topic was teen dating it applies to all forms of dating at different ages. I also agree that it depends on the person. not everybody is the same. It was nice to hear your perspectives and thoughts on this topic. so thank you
Even at 16 Gaby is already an insanely high value woman. 1000% opposite of all the toxic street rats of this era. This goes for the son too
“To all of the street rats” and “the son too” Dude your wording is sending me 💀🤣
Gaby is 16 ????
@thebeefamily1- give me prize
Ok stop. “High Value Woman”? Women aren’t products to be bought. They are people, just like men. Their value doesn’t change based on their decisions. “High Value Woman” is just such a terrible way to say that she’s smart. Same goes for men.
@@-charisma- A person's value absolutely changes because of their decisions. Lets just put it this way. If women were products, 99% of men wouldn't even be able to afford her. These conscious decisions she has made developed her character which in turn makes her a higher value. Which is a good thing! As of 2023, and for a long time now, when it comes to sex and relationships both men and women stay eating out of the trash. It's up to the individual to stop dumpster diving for love.
Amaría tanto este podcast en español también!
This is what i needed THANKS!
You guys are all so amazing. I wish I could have had parents like this. ❤
there’s also the matter of sexuality which you’ve got to slowly explore as you get older, like do i like males? females? both? neither? and it’s often the case that asexuality is overlooked and belittled or whatever
I love this video, especially as a teenager myself. Could you guys make more podcasts about 'teenage' topics? I really am looking forward for those topics.
Best podcast ive seen in a while
This was very valuable. Thank you
You guys are one of the rare ppl that I actually like , I've been watching you for years.... And I can say that I'm thankful to CZcams for suggesting ur channel to me
I absolutely agree with y'all, I myself have been saying that relationships isn't an important thing the way the world show it to us , ever since I was like 7 or sth I've been saying pretty much all what you all just said about how important it is to love and find yourselves before you waist ur precious time on someone random who isn't worth it , I'm 19 now and I'm proud I've never been a relationship
Love you guys, and I wish you all the best in life 🫶🏻
i love the podcasts keep it up :)
I am so grateful for this video. I felt like I was the only 16 year old with this mindset. 👏👏
Interesting perspective. I learned a lot. Great parents and great kids. I love how the parents communicate with the kids, respecting them and their opinions. Amazing and so much love
Oh yeah I want to share something. I’m 25 now. When I was around 20, somebody liked me “seriously”. But at that time I was not ready at all for any relationship as I couldn’t even love myself. My thinking was, how could I let someone love what I hate? and I don’t have it in me and I don’t know how to love this person. I could have handled it better but I knew it won’t work out.
Wish I had the same relationship with my parents. Your kids are very mature.
Wow, I remember watching the funny vines and now they all grown up. And the family is still great and funny. Now having great discussions.
I would love it if you guys would talk about social media, like what is your view abt it because In our country, most of my fellow teens are addicted to social media apps and the saddest thing is that they don't think of it as a bad thing! They're bombarded with so much information and they don't have time to discover themselves anymore because their mind is just filled with life of people that they don't even know.. Anyways, I've been looking for some teenagers podcast lately and I can't really find many of it and I'm happy that you guys are doing it like with the family and it's even better!! keep it up!
YES!! Great way saying. I’m a 30-year-old woman. I have never really acted like a girl. Well is “supposed”.
I noticed that teenagers today are heavily influenced by social media. It makes up their personality, looks, relationships, etc… I feel like social media should have never become a thing. I’m only on CZcams.
I noticed that relationships don’t really matter much, only lust and what they call “bodies”. Friendships don’t matter. More like you have to look a certain way to fit in. Today I seen that appearances are more important than personalities in this generation. I mean it’s what human beings do, but everyone is different in mindsets.
Kids younger than 10 are heavily impacted on social media. I mean I see young girls dressing ways… that I have never see before.
Anyways, I won’t say much. No harm done. I’m just frustrated with how us human beings have evolved.
can you PLEASE bring this type of videos back? pleaseeee
You guys are awesome!
I’ve never had a boyfriend. I’m a teen and My parents homeschool me and my dad has always said when it comes to boyfriends “explore the world first. Travel, find out who you are” same with my mum, she’s always Said “find your identity. Well your young there’s no point adding another person into the mix whilst your figuring out who you are.” I’m so glad my parents are like you papa and mama bee. Because they’ve done the best in giving me freedom to be me, and opportunity’s. And I see you doing the same with your kids. Awesome video! You guys always make me smile ❤️
I concur with that remark that Mr. Bee had said. I’m 27 years old now and I was 20 when I discovered their channel through Vine. I have always thought of relationships as a very time consuming thing when I was 18 years old, and especially at a very young age. Social media these days is trying to make you think that being single in your teens isn’t a commonplace way of life to have. I have only been in one relationship in my 27 years of existence.
You all guys genius, always admirable , a good family example.
I’m 18 and I have been in a relationship with my first boyfriend when I was 15, it has been almost perfect and I am really happy. I do agree with everything you guys say and I think it is important to not focus too much on relationships. At the same time, I think it’s good to experience being in a relationship, experience the heartbreak and experience what it might be like when your older. It’s really up to the person, and sometimes you just find that person who clicks and your whole view on everything changes. When I was 15, I didn’t expect to ever have a relationship till I was in my 20s, but I found the person who made me happy and I made him happy and we thought we could give it a try.
My sister started dating a guy at 15. It was her first relationship.
Well.. they are married now and their second child is on the way 😂
My sister is going to be 34 in august by the way 😅
Thank you for sharing this. so much great content on your channel. I love listen to you guys
That was absolutely fantastic.... Absolutely relatable and full of knowledge
Tbh, Gabby and Roberto are so right toward this subject and the fact that Mamma and Papa Bee are there for them throughout all this and helping them is simply magic to see! My parents, my brother and I have had this type of convo but not that deep like you guys just had! I’ve had a boyfriend at like 12 years old until I was maybe 14 or 15 and not that it was bad, but now, at 19, i know that it’s a part of my life experience and it wasn’t necessary. Since then, I’m focusing even more on myself and my mental health before going out with somebody rather than being scared to hurt them because I’m not there mentally. Thank you for that and I truly think you guys will help a lot of young youth with those advices 🫶🏻
I really like what Mama Bee said about having more guys like Roberto because to be honest guys now make me have no faith in society and the future, we need more gentlemen in this world 💙
I actually wanna say thank you for this video not everyday you vet videos like these to help guide you like this tired rn so imma sound dry texting but thank you so much and yall are right like seriously wasn't a single thing I disagreed with
Love the talk .❤
This is so insightful
I 100% relate with this video and I'm 15 and I always felt left out when it goes with dating and firsts kiss in highschool but not planning on dating in highschool or teens bc just want to focus on myself and give myself free time and i want to wait the best time.
This topic definitely touches home for me. I think a good conversation could be how to spot red flags or green flags. I’m a 2 abusive relationship survivor where cops got involved and the guy manipulated the cops in making my self defense seem like the aggressor. I think this topic is something to greatly talk about because I’m a full believer that cops need to add a social worker or something in domestic violence calls to detect guys/girls bullshit if they try to blame the victim. Take it from me I’ve been in therapy for 10 years of mult emotional and abusive relationships. Take your time, and the right person will come to u
I really love this so much, i am 18, never been on any relationship, this was so helpful.
I am 16, and literally everyeverything you just said is the way i also Think About it.
You guys awesome💯
Thank you for this ❤
Great video. You’re an amazing family!
Hey Bee Family, I really enjoy your recent podcasts, especially when you have Gabi and Roberto on them. Do you think you can make a podcast about the LGBTQ+ community? As i don’t see many families talking about it, and i would love to hear your opinions on it.
Sending Love!
This will be such a helpful topic!!
I totally agree with what you guys said and maybe you guys can do how to find your favourite job or what you want to do when you grow up 😁❤
Love yall
First. Btw love the podcasts they are amazing. good job!
26:21 Mama bee. I have a one year old. I saw your proudness toward your son right here. I’m so aiming to achieve this. Oh my God I can’t even explain. Great job👏🏽
Wow, this helped me so much to think of things differently. Thank you:)
It would be soo cool if you guys talked about growing up on social media and all that jazz
Wow i really loved to listen to you discussing the topic. I do however want to respectfully disagree a bit. I get all your points but I think there might be a benefit of having some experiences in less serious relationships because if it is serious it might be seriously bad and if you had that experience in a less serious relationship you might be able to avoid another one. And i dont think it always keeps you from learning and growing your own personality. Learning how to be with another person might help a lot in later relationships. BUT i really like the point you made about the pressure from the outside of being in a relationship at a young age. I think it should be (more than) ok, not being in a Relationship at that age especially but also actually at every age. I just don't think its necessarily a bad idea to be dating at a young age. I really hope your doing more of this format, its really interesting to see. Kinda reminds me of my own family :)
Please make more podcasts. ❤❤❤
I love how real the eh bee family is ❤
Yes, this is A Nice kind of educational video. Thank you very much, amazing family.
"Love History" is outta control!!! 😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣
Loved this video, momma and poppa Bee, you guys are amazing, your kids have good heads on their shoulders. You are teaching them great values and I applaud you all.
This podcast has helped me a lot and will help me more through life
This gave me chills! More young people need to listen to this❤
I have SO MANY friends who have boyfriends/girlfriends and personally, I want to wait for the right one to come into my life.
Broke up right away after watching this
i would love for you guys to talk about any trends on social media like insta trends or tiktok and how you view them :)
or how you feel about manifesting
Alot of great talk in this CZcams podcast I love it I agree with things that where said
Love this!
I think in teenage we need to give time to ourselves
Because that is the phase of our life where we grow to understand things better
I recently started getting panic attacks and if i had a gf
I can't even handle myself knowing my thoughts how can I handle someone else about whom I don't what she is thinking
This applies also for girls
Teenage is same both sides
Just one more thing happens to girl (menst...)
You got it
I am still quite young and agree with the important messages! Thank you ❤️:D
Love this family 🥳🎉🥳
I completely agree what Gabi says always focus on yourself! I had my first girlfriend freshman year and it started out good then sophomore she started smoking weed and probably doing drugs i don't know for sure and junior year she cheated on me and also that will tear you down my advice is don't date a person until you've known them for 5 years or more. I'm thankful i got rid of her and I'm very happy being single. most people think dating has to happen. I never have and never will use dating sites and I don't recommend any of y'all using them as well. I hate dating sites they are useless!
When you guys said the kids age you made me feel old because I have been watching you for the past 4-3 years and now I am 14 and you guys got me trough COVID while watching CZcams
Agreed, well said.
Edit: The video is 100% right. I commented before I watched and I agree with it wholeheartedly.
As a teenager, I think it is better to have a relationship with a group of friends, not to just build your social portfolio, but also let you have some of the best moments of your life. I do not know how people will balance a job, school, and be able to just dedicate their time to/rely on 1 person.
I love my friends, they are there when I need them and I am there when they need me. Not saying that I am against having closer relationships or to date a specific person during your teens, but I feel like the life skills from having more than one person to appreciate and be there for is much more rewarding.
Once you have your life set in motion and you have some years of experience under your belt, you are ready to go try and hone in on the closest people to you.