The Hidden Truth About Your Sexuality

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    👉 In this episode, Teal Swan reveals the hidden truth about sexuality and how it plays a much bigger role in our lives and relationships than we think. She explains how our sexuality is shaped by our early life experiences, our deep desires, and our needs, and how it reflects in our personality, our expansion path, and our compatibility with others.
    She also gives us some examples of how sexual incompatibility can point to deeper oppositional desires and needs between two people, and how sexual compatibility can greatly increase our chance of finding someone who is more compatible to us in our broader life. She invites us to become more conscious about what causes us to feel turned on and aroused, and what it means about our true selves. This episode will help you to understand yourself and others better, and to improve your sex life and your relationships.
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  • @TealSwanOfficial
    @TealSwanOfficial  Před 3 měsíci +67

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    • @DarkLight-Ascending
      @DarkLight-Ascending Před 3 měsíci +1

      Thanx for ur contributions, Teal.
      Interesting insights.

    • @damianjones6546
      @damianjones6546 Před 3 měsíci +2

      Who wrote this? It's getting to the point where I can't tell the difference between AI and the real Teal Swan.

    • @kevinfernandes1882
      @kevinfernandes1882 Před 3 měsíci +1

      Would sign up if I could get a one on one or group video chat if thats possible. Really love your videos Teal.

    • @jenteschoof
      @jenteschoof Před 3 měsíci +2

      Wow Teal, I just see that you added a workbook to the video. Thankyou so much for offering these practical tools. ❤️ Grateful for all that you do.

    • @psyduck8025
      @psyduck8025 Před 3 měsíci +1

      Link 404:(

  • @annikabirgittanordlander6887
    @annikabirgittanordlander6887 Před 3 měsíci +470

    ”Incompatible sexuality is one of the hardest things to work on and improve in a relationship. Not because it is hard to improve things regarding the act of sex itself. But because incompatible sexuality points to deeper oppositional desires and needs between two people. And these incompatibilities (which incompatible sexuality will point to) will not just limit themselves to the bedroom. They will ripple out across so many other aspects of a person’s life and their relationships”. Teal Swan 🌎 thank you Teal for talking about this 😘

    • @joanofarcxxi
      @joanofarcxxi Před 3 měsíci +14

      And so, you need to heal yourself and improve yourself. You have to be the right person before you are capable of finding the right person (people), and the right compatibility. Otherwise, it's a futile pursuit.

    • @user-vn6ol1jn9l
      @user-vn6ol1jn9l Před 3 měsíci +8

      Total b.s. if you are in a relationship, say what things you like. Don't assume your partner can read your mind. Sexual incompatibility is a excuse people use to cheat on partner. Then used as the reason to keep cheating.

    • @spiritofmatter1881
      @spiritofmatter1881 Před 3 měsíci +1

      Absolutely!

    • @lemon_dog_
      @lemon_dog_ Před 3 měsíci +10

      @@user-vn6ol1jn9l Very myopic take. Sexual incompatibility is absolutely real and isn't always communicated because it can be hard for one to articulate or even understand themselves. And of course, people will inappropriately and irresponsibly employ mendacious claims of "sexual incompatibility" to cheat, but that doesn't equate to a justification for reducing the existence of sexual incompatibility nor is it a valid claim in general. If it wasn't sexual incompatibility as an excuse to cheat, it would have been something else.
      Is it ridiculous to state that people have different answers as to what matters in a sexual relationship? Some one who has been sexually taken advantage of in the past will have an exceptionally different list of needs in sexual encounters than someone who has not. These needs, unfortunately, are not always easy to recognize and might be impossible to meet, therefore such a situation can lead to sexual incompatibility.
      TL;DR: Sexual/romantic needs are hard to articulate and sexual incompatibility =/= excuse for cheating.

    • @samadams6487
      @samadams6487 Před 3 měsíci

      That is pure junk. Romantic relationships are new in western civilization only being a couple of hundred years old before that all marriages were arranged pretty much and people learned to love each other and be with each other. The obsession in our culture with this is the reason why our society is spiraling to destruction

  • @1HorseOpenSlay
    @1HorseOpenSlay Před 3 měsíci +32

    In my culture, there is a second spring. It is when a woman passes menopause. It is a time when a woman is freed from her reproductive cycle. Her youthful sensuality was wonderful, and her youthful second spring is also wonderful. She is no longer, subject to her desire for sexual fulfillment. She is young again, yet wise with experience.

  • @user-tc5fv4cg8i
    @user-tc5fv4cg8i Před 3 měsíci +234

    In social media there’s A LOT of hate and anger towards everything.. and i get sucked to it a lot too, but whenever i see teal swan i feel like am being in a solid balanced safe ground where nothing will be said but truth and knowledge.

    • @carriehobbes2448
      @carriehobbes2448 Před 3 měsíci +12

      Good for you! I’m older and quite grateful I managed to avoid getting sucked into the world of social media. Sometimes it makes me feel lonely but reading comments like yours makes me realise I was perfectly happy as a child and teenager without social media, and I don’t need the extra burden of trying to extricate myself from its pernicious effects. I’ve got enough healing to work on and I want my mental state to be as balanced as possible.
      Thank you for sharing. I wish you good luck! 🙂

    • @sebastiandahlqvist900
      @sebastiandahlqvist900 Před 3 měsíci +9

      I wouldn’t be so foolish as to think everything she says is the truth. You just made up your mind to buy in to everything she tells you, that’s not very smart.

    • @jimhayhurst1201
      @jimhayhurst1201 Před 3 měsíci +6

      @sebastiandahlqvist900 Sure! I wouldn't believe 100% of what anyone says.

    • @user-tc5fv4cg8i
      @user-tc5fv4cg8i Před 3 měsíci +1

      @@sebastiandahlqvist900big thing to say for someone u don’t know..

    • @R.leo1110
      @R.leo1110 Před 3 měsíci

      @@sebastiandahlqvist900i think you're reading too much into it, i think that person is saying she doesn't have the haterd others are used to inside so she is has a better and less biased grasp of reality ti be able to explain various subjects

  • @halfcutehalfcreature
    @halfcutehalfcreature Před 3 měsíci +100

    PLEASE can we have more content about this !!! so interesting i want to read an entire BOOK on this teal

    • @Gr00vyMutati0n
      @Gr00vyMutati0n Před měsícem +2

      I'd like to figure this stuff about myself.. can anyone recommend any more material besides this video, that could help me

    • @icytransfer9127
      @icytransfer9127 Před 15 dny

      I am interested too​@@Gr00vyMutati0n

    • @kritigupta3713
      @kritigupta3713 Před 9 dny

      Me too ❤

  • @psyduck8025
    @psyduck8025 Před 3 měsíci +140

    When Robert California said "everything is sex" i knew he was on to something

    • @leajacobson4458
      @leajacobson4458 Před 3 měsíci +15

      Oscar Wilde said, “ everything in the world is about sex - except sex. Sex is about power.”

    • @VictorEstevesCastro
      @VictorEstevesCastro Před 3 měsíci +5

      Chico Xavier from Brazil said the same.

    • @Golden_Queen_888
      @Golden_Queen_888 Před 3 měsíci +12

      Sexual energy is represented in everything, interactions, business, society, religion, revolution, commerce, food,clothes, building styles, laws.. everything! The same energy, dynamic, it’s not just confined between a male & a female body .. day & night represent feminine & musculine energies too, sun & moon, white & black.. etc!
      Sexual energy is a divine creation energy it’s is involved in the atom it’s self (nucleus & protons)!

    • @gilchasin1022
      @gilchasin1022 Před 2 měsíci

      Yes, & not that long ago Freud was villified for pointing that out.

  • @SongsBySteph
    @SongsBySteph Před 3 měsíci +61

    Thank you for highlighting sex isn't just about sex, and all of the dynamics at play underneath often illogical desires

  • @liviacgm0
    @liviacgm0 Před 3 měsíci +45

    "Her best case scenario is to be shared by multiple men who are all taking ownership of her" hit hard 😂❤

    • @MrBooYa-yd5er
      @MrBooYa-yd5er Před 2 měsíci +4

      Women aren’t complicated.

    • @weened5808
      @weened5808 Před 2 měsíci +8

      Wait seriously? That's so strange to me that someone would want that. Haha oh No offense sorry just so interesting.

    • @BQ900
      @BQ900 Před 2 měsíci +6

      They flip the Islamic scenario where the woman has 4 men? No! I like just one.

    • @Rut-vi7iz
      @Rut-vi7iz Před měsícem +2

      ​@@MrBooYa-yd5erbut unfortunately men still can't figure us out.😂

    • @sylviawang6183
      @sylviawang6183 Před měsícem +1

      I don't think it's a bunch of men with one and only one women, they all can have other women too just all taking good care of them

  • @Despin7a77
    @Despin7a77 Před 3 měsíci +69

    it’s beautiful to see teal giving closure to people👁️

    • @kevinfernandes1882
      @kevinfernandes1882 Před 3 měsíci +3

      the womans as beautiful as she is intelligent thats what makes her insanely magnetic. Could talk with this woman for hours and share ideas and opinions on numerous topics and ideas about anything and everything. She's the type of woman that draws you in physically (sexually) BUT also mentally and spirituality.

  • @FuckingPurple
    @FuckingPurple Před 3 měsíci +97

    she's absolutely right. i came out as gay at 27 and my life has completly changed since.
    even though i only told 2 friends and haven't started dating anyone, it felt like lifting a big fog over my eyes and feeling comfortable in my skin for the first time ever.
    i started working out, taking care of myself better, expressing myself through clothes and other means, going out... it just really changed my inner state for the better, with just this self acceptance.

    • @JinxMarie1985
      @JinxMarie1985 Před 3 měsíci +9

      As a fellow of a human that desires the same sex as myself (im a lesbian) lol I can just say that I'm glad that you feel safe and better coming out as a gay human being. We don't choose who we love, it just happens... and I'm proud of you! Stay strong and know that if any person that you are friends with has an issue with who you love then they are not a friend. Stay safe. Always. ❤

    • @gregorystinette8271
      @gregorystinette8271 Před 3 měsíci +3

      Dats rayciss

    • @kawtarborji7478
      @kawtarborji7478 Před 3 měsíci +3

      Yaay❤

    • @luizaramonamunteanu9030
      @luizaramonamunteanu9030 Před 3 měsíci +4

    • @millysmanifestations
      @millysmanifestations Před 3 měsíci +4

      proud of you ❤

  • @truthvfiction
    @truthvfiction Před 3 měsíci +56

    I’ve been with someone for 28 years. I can say that this woman is 100% correct.

    • @Chef8898
      @Chef8898 Před 3 měsíci +8

      I am married for over 50 years. And i can second this

    • @likearollingstone007
      @likearollingstone007 Před 2 měsíci

      She is just pointing out an evidence that most adults already know about.

    • @truthvfiction
      @truthvfiction Před 2 měsíci +1

      @@likearollingstone007 Then why are you here?

    • @Pablo-gl9dj
      @Pablo-gl9dj Před 2 měsíci

      ​@@truthvfictionwhy would you care?

    • @orangetulip1261
      @orangetulip1261 Před měsícem

      ​@@Pablo-gl9dj He doesn't care. He merely asked a logical question...😅 besides, if he did care, he would have responded and fuelled your need to fight! 😂

  • @marksouthern7542
    @marksouthern7542 Před měsícem +8

    Teal described me exactly. I had a severely bipolar mother (but a great father). I found a picture in encylopedia Britannica. I dreamed I would merge with one person for life. Sex for me was a metaphysical pursuit. I was a virgin when I got married. I had plenty of opportunities to have sex before marriage. While I wanted to merge she shut me out after about 2 years. We had 15 years of sexless marriage. We had two children of our own and then took on a foster daughter. My wife left a couple of years later and shut our foster daughter out of her life. I raised her on my own for the next 10 years. This was so difficult to do on my own with a difficult daughter (with her own trauma), I never remarried. Despite having deep desires, some crazy fantasies (like the one mentioned in the vid), and wanting deep connection ...I have lived a virtually sexless life.

  • @BREAKOUT444
    @BREAKOUT444 Před 3 měsíci +42

    I'm seeking someone who can be vulnerable and show affection.
    That pretty much sums it up for me.

    • @carriehobbes2448
      @carriehobbes2448 Před 3 měsíci +10

      And may you find it sooner than you think! Good luck to you 🙂

    • @BREAKOUT444
      @BREAKOUT444 Před 3 měsíci +6

      @@carriehobbes2448 Thank you! Same to you!
      It's been a hard few years, so I hope my luck is turning around :)

    • @kleom
      @kleom Před 3 měsíci

      search “dylan james self concept/relationship”

    • @DeadlyKiss000
      @DeadlyKiss000 Před měsícem

      You are looking for a woman

  • @user-ih2eg3ef6j
    @user-ih2eg3ef6j Před 3 měsíci +143

    Thank you for this video. Please consider making a video regarding childhood sexual abuse and the ways it can manifest later in life

    • @psyduck8025
      @psyduck8025 Před 3 měsíci +17

      Might not be what you're looking for but i think she talks about it in the episode she did on Pedophilia

    • @user-ih2eg3ef6j
      @user-ih2eg3ef6j Před 3 měsíci

      @@psyduck8025 thank you, that is a great and interesting video. Would love for her to expand on it

    • @JinxMarie1985
      @JinxMarie1985 Před 3 měsíci +17

      Yes that is a huge issue right now too. Unfortunately. Its sad.

    • @nikkifoster5630
      @nikkifoster5630 Před 3 měsíci +5

      I want this too

    • @Misfit.Sanctuary
      @Misfit.Sanctuary Před 3 měsíci +2

      I would also love this

  • @scorpiamusic
    @scorpiamusic Před 3 měsíci +59

    I think this is my new favorite Teal video. Also, let's be real- sexual energy has lots of names: kundalini, prana, chi, sacral chakra energy, life force energy... how are you going to separate that from the totality of your life? You can't. And it's so linked to our subconscious wounds and needs that it's staggering.

    • @carriehobbes2448
      @carriehobbes2448 Před 3 měsíci +9

      An excellent observation - if I may say so I would actually say it is sexuality that is an expression of life force rather than the other way around - it is not as if asexual people do not have prana or chi. I Understand that for them Lifeforce expresses itself in a different form

    • @scorpiamusic
      @scorpiamusic Před 3 měsíci +11

      @@carriehobbes2448 As I understand it, lack of sex drive/ interest in sexuality/ being repulsed by sexuality is usually a trauma response. But any form or expression of sexuality comes from a trauma response, regardless of how "tame", conventional, or vanilla it may seem to the outside. Like Teal mentions in this video, if you were really lonely in childhood and felt very disconnected from everyone around you, you may be drawn to more things like eye contact and positions that have your body closer to your partner's. I think it really does all comes down to the conditioning and contrast we experienced in childhood. My point of saying that sexual energy is life force energy is more to say that everyone has it, though it is more expressive, vibrant, and apparent in some people versus others based on where they are in their healing journeys and what their lifepath focus is.

    • @ilyatownsend2824
      @ilyatownsend2824 Před měsícem +1

      Beautiful take

  • @Xianne027
    @Xianne027 Před 3 měsíci +15

    In astrology one sees the myriad of different sexual needs and desires in individuals and how complex it is to find a match with someone who you can indeed have a fulfilling sexual expression with. But being in sync on other psychological levels isn't necessarily a given, so a lot of other emotional and psychological needs have to be addressed as well.

  • @joncolunga673
    @joncolunga673 Před 3 měsíci +51

    Man, this is so true. Outside of the bedroom, I'm more of an independent dominant that wants the control. But sexually, I always had a subconscious desire to be dominated by a woman who is strong. So I was always confused thinking why was I not like this in any other way? Once I did some inner work and tried to figure it out I realized it was because my mother was always weak and fragile. Growing up as a child, she overlooked the abuse that my older brother was dishing to me and my younger brother, she always quit her jobs and left my Dad with all the finances, which caused us to have to lose our homes a lot of the time. She lacked mental and emotional strength and would without fail end up throwing tantrums and breaking things. And then finally when I was 15 she left all together and abandoned me. So, this is what made me desire a strong woman in control in the bedroom. It's the opposite of what my experience with my mother was growing up. I was left desiring a woman who could own me somehow. It's hard to admit, but it's true. The mind can be really trippy. And it's probably also why I'm attracted to Teal Swan's energy. A soft spoken woman, who has a motherly type aura but stands her ground and owns her power.

    • @Ann-op5kj
      @Ann-op5kj Před 3 měsíci +2

      It's interesting that your mom was responsible for keeping your home when you had a family unit as a child. I'm sorry for your traumas 😢

    • @aminadolores4908
      @aminadolores4908 Před 3 měsíci

      In that case do you think it’s a lasting value to you to keep desiring being sexually dominated by a woman in the way that evokes your subconscious or do you believe it’s a subconscious desire you want to/have to heal?

    • @aminadolores4908
      @aminadolores4908 Před 3 měsíci +6

      In that case do you think the subconscious way in which you desire to be sexually dominated by a woman is a lasting value for you to have that’s worth holding onto or do you believe that subconscious desire deserves to be healed and to be let go of?

    • @letsdomath1750
      @letsdomath1750 Před 3 měsíci

      ​@@aminadolores4908It's probably something that OP needs to experience first. If all prior relationships did not meet this criteria and ended in disappointment and dissatisfaction, it would be important to find someone who fulfills this need and desire. Why let go of a desire that can be met? From there OP can determine if that was the missing ingredient or if there was a deeper level still.

    • @carriehobbes2448
      @carriehobbes2448 Před 3 měsíci +8

      That is some profound and deep self knowledge you have. Thank you for sharing it openly-it helps people like me to read about the insights people like you have into your own psyche and sexuality
      I am not quite so clear on the origins of my own but I have made some headway. Off to do some more introspection now - I wish you luck! 🙂🌈

  • @dramendiana373
    @dramendiana373 Před 3 měsíci +54

    Oh, I really like this perspective of how sexual compatibility goes beyond sex. Lately I've been paying more attention to how my sexuality works, what I genuinely like, want and need in that field, this video is very helpful. Thanks!!! ❤

    • @user-mn6sq3is4t
      @user-mn6sq3is4t Před 3 měsíci +1

      ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

    • @DeadlyKiss000
      @DeadlyKiss000 Před měsícem

      Are you thinking about lesbianism?

    • @dramendiana373
      @dramendiana373 Před měsícem

      @@DeadlyKiss000 I'm Pansexual, I was referring more to the specific dynamics that make me feel aroused (whose details I rather not to share in a public space, LOL 😅) and not so much to the gender of the people I'm attracted to.

  • @dalevelie5398
    @dalevelie5398 Před 3 měsíci +10

    Powerful insight. Thank you Teal for being yourself, and living your courage and helping us all come into greater and greater healing and health in all areas of our lives.

  • @Aces_100
    @Aces_100 Před 3 měsíci +17

    I just had a full-circle moment. There's so much good stuff here. Teal, you're awesome!

  • @Iamlightning333
    @Iamlightning333 Před 3 měsíci +6

    Incredibly insightful. The depth and nuance on this subject is crucial. Thank you!

  • @theeastman9136
    @theeastman9136 Před 2 měsíci +2

    Wow! This explains and reveals a lot. I'm 77 y.o. this year and I never had such a revealing explanation about how deeply our sex drives are linked to our deep personal histories. You can imagine that, after five long term relationships and three marriages I've been questioning myself about this issue. Thank you for this new avenue of speculation and soul searching. You are precious, thank you sincerely. 🙏🏼

  • @stable-shadow
    @stable-shadow Před 3 měsíci +6

    Hey Teal, have an awesome weekend, excellent topic, very helpful points and observations.... keep smiling spring has sprung... many blessings Be Well 🕊️

  • @Michael12111983
    @Michael12111983 Před 3 měsíci +12

    I feel like you just explained my last relationship and now I understand why it didn't work out despite having very similar interests

  • @helmeteye
    @helmeteye Před 3 měsíci +8

    I can hear compatibility. Its been through fire and came out stronger.

  • @thealkamist_
    @thealkamist_ Před 2 měsíci +2

    One of the most interesting topics to create content/literature on is how one's fear and shame get mangled with desire and how it all transpires through one's sexuality... great video, Teal! I study and dissect my own sexual patterns as a part of shadow work so am familiar with the tropes discussed here.

  • @leajacobson4458
    @leajacobson4458 Před 3 měsíci +2

    You share such wisdom every week. So fortunate to have discovered you. Your book has made such a difference. Thank you.

  • @duskzehedgie3840
    @duskzehedgie3840 Před 3 měsíci +6

    Literally was just diving into this topic. Perfect timing 🙏

  • @celestial516
    @celestial516 Před 3 měsíci +1

    Great video and topic and the examples really helped pull it all together! Thanks Teal!

  • @alejandravillanueva2292
    @alejandravillanueva2292 Před 3 měsíci +5

    Wow this incredible bc this is what I learned unfortunately over the last 10 years. Thank you for speaking it and sharing it, I am glad to know I am not alone in my discovery!

  • @carolinelaronda4523
    @carolinelaronda4523 Před 3 měsíci +52

    Teal said piss play 😩🤣

    • @noahliasam7407
      @noahliasam7407 Před 3 měsíci +1

      Hahaha noticed it too, all too well 😂😅 *dirty minds activating*

    • @samuelgomez3311
      @samuelgomez3311 Před 3 měsíci +1

      Peace play

    • @marksouthern7542
      @marksouthern7542 Před měsícem +1

      Gulp...me too. (Actually, gulp may be the wrong word to use 😂).

  • @etoilefelante8994
    @etoilefelante8994 Před 3 měsíci +4

    This is amazing. Would love to hear more on this topic

  • @alexys3575
    @alexys3575 Před 3 měsíci +52

    So I don’t need to force a change in my sexuality? From what i understand I simply need to be honest about what I need, and it’s out there for me?

    • @ancillavandeleest3196
      @ancillavandeleest3196 Před 3 měsíci +18

      Within the bounds of the law ;-)

    • @Passiyona
      @Passiyona Před 3 měsíci +9

      Yes exactly. There is no right or wrong. Just be authentic and find a compatible partner.

    • @fcz32
      @fcz32 Před 3 měsíci +12

      This question points to what I think was missing from this video. A lot of good info but it seems to exclude how much change could/should happen after uncovering the motivations behind certain sexual desires. Not all of the driving factors to one’s own sexuality are healthy and there are things that would be in our best interest to heal rather than continue to play out. Things that hurt us or limit us in many ways outside of sex.
      So no, you shouldn’t force a change to your sexuality. Especially not to force a match to someone else’s. But at the same time, that doesn’t mean there aren’t certain aspects that may need healing for your own sake.

    • @smileyjones730
      @smileyjones730 Před 3 měsíci +3

      @@fcz32 I really appreciate your response. It seems a topic you have examined in a genuine way.
      Any chance you know some good online resources or books on this topic? If you do, I'd be very interested to know so as to explore this topic of integrated honest and healed sexuality. Cheers

    • @showmeyourpapers0312
      @showmeyourpapers0312 Před 2 měsíci

      ​@@smileyjones730here here, leaving the comment here to find out more.

  • @XallrounderX
    @XallrounderX Před 3 měsíci +3

    That's a powerful video, thank you so much!

  • @lisadavie5282
    @lisadavie5282 Před 3 měsíci +2

    Thank You for this deeply spiritual support as you provide us of multiple perspectives ❤🙏✨️
    Love You Teal!

  • @5DMElanie
    @5DMElanie Před 3 měsíci +30

    You make me proud to be a human being. I am honored to be here, now, as you are also here. Your authenticity breeds empowerment. Period. 🙏🏼

  • @ronedelgaleone6706
    @ronedelgaleone6706 Před 3 měsíci

    This is fascinating.... I need the workbook!!

  • @kathymarie4958
    @kathymarie4958 Před 2 měsíci +1

    I am so grateful for Teal. 😇✨ I have followed her since she started her You Tube channel. Her very honest straightforward wisdom has supported my life in countless ways. 🙏🕊️Thank you for being so brave, Teal!

  • @davidderidder2667
    @davidderidder2667 Před 3 měsíci +1

    Brilliant and thought provoking! I appreciate these lectures as they provide more insight into what possibilities might be unpioneered.

  • @charitylankford9987
    @charitylankford9987 Před 2 měsíci

    I absolutely love this information. This is incredibly insightful. This is exactly what I think about. But putting an actual video to it just confirms so much. Thank you , Teal. I appreciate the work you’re doing.

  • @Anangelfromabove
    @Anangelfromabove Před 3 měsíci +8

    Much love Teal! Love the necklace. ❤ Thanks for sharing this.

  • @RaeLarz
    @RaeLarz Před 3 měsíci +12

    This is fascinating. I've been delving deeper into these concepts lately. I've realized what I truly like most. And my ex, I thought initally, was compatible with my desires because their desires were opposite in a sense. So it went well. But the longer we dated, I realized she had more desires that were similar to mine but hadn't accepted them within herself yet - so these conflicting desires made us even more incompatible and went over into other areas of the relationship. Thank you for the clear examples which helped to understand this, Teal 💙

  • @luketimewalker
    @luketimewalker Před 3 měsíci

    Truly fascinating! And also in line with mutual and very recent explorations!

  • @nessaspurel5619
    @nessaspurel5619 Před 3 měsíci

    Here Teal Swan comes through with the most cogent and groundbreaking message
    BRAVO!

  • @carathorsven3326
    @carathorsven3326 Před 3 měsíci +27

    My husband and I are not very compatible sexually but we do have compatability in most other things. I don't really many deeper things. But the incompatibility in our sexuality is really really challenging.

    • @cheesecake4648
      @cheesecake4648 Před 3 měsíci

      imagine not getting the only thing that makes you orgasm in a sexual relationship?

    • @marksouthern7542
      @marksouthern7542 Před měsícem

      What did you mean to say when you said, 'I don't really many deeper things'? In what ways are you incompatible? This was my story too...we did life and family well, but sex was really poor. We are divorced now.

  • @Emma-Laya
    @Emma-Laya Před 3 měsíci +6

    Thank you again Teal.
    I have been longing so much for something to shine a very clear light on this.. I have seen your other sexuality videos, and reflecting on them.
    This one is going even deeper.

  • @celestehernandez2000
    @celestehernandez2000 Před 3 měsíci +34

    I’ve been thinking about this topic a lot lately ❤️ thank you Teal

  • @katclayton2594
    @katclayton2594 Před 3 měsíci +13

    Actually very insightful. It explains why the bedroom issues between my ex husband and myself were the death knell for the marriage. I have a strong need for containment and open communication and he didn't/ couldn't understand that. I'm now in a relationship with a man who communicates very clearly and loves to spend hours just touching me, not necessarily in a sexual way but both of these things make me feel very loved.

  • @richardhall5489
    @richardhall5489 Před 3 měsíci +2

    This is great content.
    I love how nuanced your presentation was as a result of using specific examples. When the content is full of generalisations the comments tend to get polarised.

  • @laleldon
    @laleldon Před 3 měsíci +1

    I love you discussing such taboo topics Teal thank you for sharing your wisdom!

  • @dianarhyne
    @dianarhyne Před 2 měsíci +9

    Is it possible to just genuinely like a person so much that you feel like sharing the most intimate activity there is, being present with them?
    Safe to be yourself, no complicated kinks to decode.
    Learning to honor them and yourself through a deepening relationship.
    🤷‍♀️

  • @melaniehellum1281
    @melaniehellum1281 Před 3 měsíci

    That was a very good video. Interesting food for thought. Brings all kinds of thoughts to mind.

  • @jovi5309
    @jovi5309 Před 3 měsíci

    amazing. thank you for sharing how deep this goes!

  • @patrick.771
    @patrick.771 Před 3 měsíci +10

    Simon and Ally almost perfectly described a relationship I just had. And she also had the father issue you described in her childhood.

    • @The_Gohan_of_Crunch
      @The_Gohan_of_Crunch Před 3 měsíci +5

      Same here brother. As she described Ally it was a def turn off for me. My ex had deep father issues and it prevented me from getting needs met sexually and in the relationship.

  • @heidinaegele19
    @heidinaegele19 Před 3 měsíci +6

    Thank You for this! You just explained why my previous marraige did not work!

  • @aleksanderwishman8701
    @aleksanderwishman8701 Před 3 měsíci

    Her understandings are SO deep!

  • @abdouyr
    @abdouyr Před 3 měsíci +9

    WHY DO I FEEL EXPOSED

  • @doublemintmaple
    @doublemintmaple Před 3 měsíci

    Been waiting for this since you mentioned it in your interview with Charlie Houpert. Looking forward to it!

  • @evolvefly2981
    @evolvefly2981 Před 3 měsíci +2

    Thank you for this. I felt it was difficult to communicate this in a way where people would believe me. I needed something like this to send to help me articulate the importance of sexual compatibility to me.

  • @auryn684
    @auryn684 Před 3 měsíci +8

    (Teal’s examples almost always refer back to her own life.) I’m glad Teal is admitting to her flirtatiousness and wanting multiple male partners. I remember Sardeep mentioning (in a blog post? Or interview?) that Teal was very flirtatious with other men while they were married. I believe she met Ale when she was still with Sardeep. But what’s also interesting to me is that Teal kind of taught *against* polyamory for a long time - saying that people need to get good at 1 romantic relationship before they attempt having multiple partners 🤷🏽‍♀️

    • @tiram12
      @tiram12 Před 3 měsíci +3

      So when you look at her birth chart, she is a Gemini with Gemini Venus. That Venus is predicted to have more partners at once. Even if they don’t really want to cheat it just happens that they have more than one relationship while being married or dating somebody else.

  • @yanizle
    @yanizle Před 3 měsíci

    This is a really good one. Thank you Teal 💫

  • @zetristan4525
    @zetristan4525 Před 3 měsíci +9

    People who say they like piss play are either disturbed or just taking the piss...

  • @thetravalanche
    @thetravalanche Před 3 měsíci

    Wow this fills in some blanks I had on the topic. Amazing stuff.

  • @nishadh366
    @nishadh366 Před 3 měsíci +21

    I have never resonated with a character as much as I have Aly. Down to the childhood, desires, approach with a partner and the fact that I don’t drive anymore either. I rewatched that part so many times, it’s scary how deeply I resonated with it.

    • @pizzanoodz
      @pizzanoodz Před 3 měsíci +1

      What’s scarier for me is I kind of relate to all the people exampled in this video. I’m constantly bouncing back and forth with what I want and how I want it. Constantly conflicted. It’s great 👍

    • @pixpixpix394
      @pixpixpix394 Před 3 měsíci

      me too...

    • @user-mn6sq3is4t
      @user-mn6sq3is4t Před 3 měsíci

      ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

    • @MrBooYa-yd5er
      @MrBooYa-yd5er Před 2 měsíci

      Women aren’t that complicated.

    • @weened5808
      @weened5808 Před 2 měsíci

      Really?? Tell us more though

  • @Violets14
    @Violets14 Před 2 měsíci +4

    I think in spite of everyone's different histories, we should all aim to be honest with ourselves and our needs, be upfront and communicate them as much as possible - esp. in the early stages so that both parties know whether there are any non-negotiables or any type of major conflict in values/lifestyle. After that, if two people are attracted to and love one another and are considerate of each other and want to please the other partner (without disrespecting values/boundaries) they can grow together. I think in the early stages of dating/relationships, communication is very important regarding any types of major preferences or possible conflicts. Since partners will not have 100% of the same history and experience, there has to be some patience involved if they want to move foward in harmomy.

  • @dinazaharia3221
    @dinazaharia3221 Před 3 měsíci +1

    Like why hasn't anyone talked about this until now? 😩 Thank you Teal, you are amazing! ❤

  • @toyathomas2631
    @toyathomas2631 Před 3 měsíci

    Thanks for this one! So very helpful ❤

  • @KLillian_
    @KLillian_ Před 7 dny

    Wow I’m mind blown 🤯 that was so in depth. I’m inspired to explore this. Thank you Teal for all your knowledge & gifts!

  • @neutralfog
    @neutralfog Před 3 měsíci

    Brilliant talk. Not many dive into the depth of sexual needs and sexual compatibility in a relationship.

  • @CrazyTee33
    @CrazyTee33 Před 3 měsíci +57

    “Tanner wants to jump on a new opportunities.” Lol. Bet he does…(sips tea innocently)

  • @bondarem
    @bondarem Před 3 měsíci +1

    Brilliant explanation. I applaud.

  • @lorieckhart1887
    @lorieckhart1887 Před 3 měsíci

    Thank you for the insight in this video! ❤

  • @scruggsrox
    @scruggsrox Před 3 měsíci +9

    Too Real, bro! As per usual. Teal hits the nail on the head.
    I can relate to simon, I’m rootin for him ✊

  • @clemcusato
    @clemcusato Před 3 měsíci +3

    Sexuality is faaar more complex than I thought 💭

  • @wallodr
    @wallodr Před 3 měsíci +2

    Interesting, thanks! I know there's a ton of information to be learned from my sexuality. Also nice you gave the examples, a few things were reflected to me.

  • @davidderidder2667
    @davidderidder2667 Před 3 měsíci +24

    Where did she get all this ability to communicate this so structured and logical? I do not wish to know the answer, just to express that I appreciate and applaud for this talk.

    • @DelSunflower33
      @DelSunflower33 Před 3 měsíci +1

      Just being able to recognize patterns in energy. The way people eat, choose certain things even hobbies tells you all about how they are in bed. You can connect things… cuz energy is the same if it’s above so will it be below 🤷🏽‍♀️

    • @TheVioletMagic29
      @TheVioletMagic29 Před 3 měsíci

      she's very high IQ

    • @soulthriver-oz6470
      @soulthriver-oz6470 Před 3 měsíci +2

      I think this is what we call..a Genius. It's very clear to me Teal is a highly evolved human. Rare.

  • @joycesegers5578
    @joycesegers5578 Před 2 měsíci

    I couln't keep my eyes off of that necklace!! 🦊Love it!! And.... Thanks so much for the examples, it helps me to understand the concepts so much better.

  • @Yota_65756
    @Yota_65756 Před 9 dny

    Thank you for this small education 🙏🏻❤️🙏🏻

  • @amirarosemusicUK
    @amirarosemusicUK Před 3 měsíci

    Thanks for this informative video!!

  • @oceanwonders
    @oceanwonders Před 3 měsíci +1

    Well this one is EXTRA fascinating.

  • @erniegutierrez2288
    @erniegutierrez2288 Před 3 měsíci

    This explains A LOT!!! Thank you. Liked & Subbed"

  • @annapetrosian4717
    @annapetrosian4717 Před 3 měsíci +2

    Incredible information with great examples thank you so much❤️

  • @coupofmentality3417
    @coupofmentality3417 Před 3 měsíci +3

    I thought there were parts of each one of these examples that were commensurate with my experiences, though I get that wasn't the point and am glad to having been pointed toward exploring topics like "what was my first arousal and what it's implications in my life are. How sexuality affects the personality or it's specific development is a fascinating question to puzzle out.

  • @jennakfae
    @jennakfae Před 3 měsíci +2

    loved this deep dive ❤

  • @leoswalters
    @leoswalters Před 3 měsíci

    Thank you, Teal! 🫶🏽
    Appreciate your insight!
    Blessings!! ❤

  • @peterchandler9014
    @peterchandler9014 Před 3 měsíci

    Very interesting concepts and in certain aspects helpful although as I'm sure we are all in some ways complicated.....enjoyed the learning

  • @Richard_DS
    @Richard_DS Před měsícem

    Great information, I hadn't thought how pervasive our sexual energy can be, that it can reflect in all our motives feels very, revealing. I'm going to have to watch for this in others.
    Very interesting aspect.
    Thanks for sharing ☺💖✨

  • @Ursaminor31
    @Ursaminor31 Před 3 měsíci

    So important to know what you prefer and to communicate it

  • @cainen6355
    @cainen6355 Před 3 měsíci +12

    Rarely is there a fountain of wisdom so clear, honest and untouched by societies arbitrary boundries as is Teal.

  • @kiravonmaydell147
    @kiravonmaydell147 Před 7 dny

    So much gratitude - I would love to hear your knowledge in regards to twin souls most appreciated Teal ❤

  • @k888k
    @k888k Před 3 měsíci +3

    This was FANTASTIC ❤️

  • @hughgrantham8640
    @hughgrantham8640 Před měsícem

    Wow thank you Teal, I would really like to understand this on a deeper level

  • @markp6062
    @markp6062 Před 3 měsíci

    interesting for sure. thanks for sharing

  • @maddiemm73
    @maddiemm73 Před 3 měsíci +2

    But our deepest core desires from life are primarily from our essence and soul. They may be influenced by, changed or blocked by nurture / our upbringing, but aren’t our sexual desires basically down to our true nature? That’s what I believe

  • @deharp
    @deharp Před 3 měsíci +1

    Ok Question: If you are the Tanner in this scenario, how do you engage in long lasting relationships? If you find another Tanner, where is the security in that? Tanner can up and leave at any time. Doesn’t Tanner need someone to ground and balance him out - while still supporting his desire for new experiences? Doesn’t there need to be an inner confrontation that some of these needs and desires aren’t workable in a committed relationship?

  • @tinafeluxia
    @tinafeluxia Před 2 měsíci

    Thank you so much! That was wooing me! ❤ Eye opening. Lots of Love to you! ❤

  • @sukhmanicambridge
    @sukhmanicambridge Před 3 měsíci

    Fascinating... thank you!! 🎉🎉❤❤❤

  • @Dee-Ann_Louise
    @Dee-Ann_Louise Před 3 měsíci +3

    Wow
    I think I have just had an epiphany...
    My Mirror Soul and I... when we get together, he makes it all about me. Which is what he has been trying to get across to me forever.
    This is how he wants me to behave in life. And as soon as I start I simply allowing myself to receive... he will show up.
    Incredible how you have helped me, Teal.

  • @real3125
    @real3125 Před 3 měsíci

    Wonderful. @TealSwan Unique truth seeker and a very encouraging person. Thank you for the pearls of true knowledge. Adjustable to daily life.❤

  • @lonewolfgaming5245
    @lonewolfgaming5245 Před 3 měsíci

    Wow thank you, this is amazing. Love your way of explaining. Can you make more such videos where we can read people's behaviour to understand what their core needs are and their sexuality to gauge if they are a good match.