Megan Washington: Why I live in mortal dread of public speaking

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  • čas přidán 7. 08. 2014
  • Megan Washington is one of Australia's premier singer/songwriters. And, since childhood, she has had a stutter. In this bold and personal talk, she reveals how she copes with this speech impediment-from avoiding the letter combination “st” to tricking her brain by changing her words at the last minute to, yes, singing the things she has to say rather than speaking them.
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Komentáře • 158

  • @Nulibrium
    @Nulibrium Před 10 lety +169

    For some reason I just want to give her a hug.

    • @ICOD73
      @ICOD73 Před 9 lety

      I was just thinking the same thing.

  • @jakeaf1021
    @jakeaf1021 Před 8 lety +57

    She really touched me with her talk and her voice. Her I am, sitting here thinking about dropping my speech class because of the panic attacks I have when I give speeches. Though I don't have a speech impediment, I can relate to her experience of feeling vulnerable about your insecurities when speaking publicly. This really put my fear into perspective, and it makes me want to conquer it instead of run from it. Thanks for that. I truly admire her bravery and her talent.

  • @getupaisha
    @getupaisha Před 10 lety +48

    So inspiring! Public speaking is sometimes difficult for those with no speech impediment, hearing this really puts things in perspective....and she has the voice of an angel to top it off

  • @morbidbushido
    @morbidbushido Před 9 lety +18

    My brother stutters and he has it bad, I stutter a little too but not half as serious as him. This talk felt very personal and im so happy for the speaker finding her voice and having people listen to her without being uncomfortable through her singing.
    With stuttering its more of how uncomfortable you feel knowing you make other people uncomfortable when you stutter than how uncomfortable people actually are about it.

  • @rabihdakhlallah4485
    @rabihdakhlallah4485 Před 8 lety +30

    Oh man, if only I had that amount of courage and pride in me everyday. I would carry myself much more differently. My head would be so much higher. I feel locked up, scared to say my own name. Stuttering really is a drag with no cure. I've been stuttering since I can remember, currently 15 in the 9th grade. As I too had the same hopes that maybe I would grow out of my speech impediment, but it looks as if it wont be going away any time soon. Which is frustrating but i need to learn to live with it, i have a loving girlfriend who doesn't look at me for my impediment but for who I am whole, as a person. Truly inspiring, this has given me a different perspective of stuttering. Maybe it isn't all that bad. I like to broaden my vocabulary so people know that stuttering has no effect on my intelligence. I am as intellectual as they are, even perhaps more. I excel in English/ Literal, currently having the highest GPA in my honers. I hope too soon carry myself with such confidence.

    • @RecaiiG
      @RecaiiG Před 3 lety +2

      How is it going now? Do you manage your stuttering better?

  • @blueapparition7
    @blueapparition7 Před 10 lety +16

    she sings fluently. she's very honest and confident about her stuttering.

  • @RealShanShan
    @RealShanShan Před 9 lety +10

    What an amazing and beautiful soul. It warms my heart that a child with a speech disorder found herself another way to express her emotions, in such a lovely manner at that.

  • @phantomenergies
    @phantomenergies Před 10 lety +14

    Brilliant, humorous and talented woman. Another great TED Talk!

  • @HBSanta
    @HBSanta Před 9 lety +71

    She has an amazing voice. I had never heard of Megan Washington before this video but I will most definitely check her out now. It's always encouraging to see people overcoming major obstacles in their lives.

    • @dreamswillcometrue6096
      @dreamswillcometrue6096 Před 9 lety +1

      Totally in agreement with you.

    • @Taurickk
      @Taurickk Před 9 lety +9

      I'm more concerned that I've been listening to Megan Washington for 5-6 years and only just now found out she had a stutter

    • @dreamswillcometrue6096
      @dreamswillcometrue6096 Před 9 lety +5

      Because her talent is so extraordinary that it doesn't matter whether she stutters or not

    • @marinajakus4140
      @marinajakus4140 Před 8 lety

      +Dreams Will:
      Come True 🍌🍈🍑🍑🎅👻👻🎅🎄🎁🎁🎁🎇

  • @Archimagus
    @Archimagus Před 10 lety +8

    I love how when she relaxes a bit and gets into one of her "fun" sections that the stutter drops off such as 2:07. I've known a few people with a stutter and it is usually like this.

    • @RogerTankorzero
      @RogerTankorzero Před 9 lety +4

      I think it's because when you know you're about to say something fun, you tend to inhale a bit more and it causes you to almost SING it, or something like that... kinda like in a RAP kind of way... >_

  • @Xplorer228
    @Xplorer228 Před 9 lety +10

    I like her stutter. I don't know her but I can just tell that her struggle has made her a better person. I could see myself falling in love with her.

  • @SansrisJeevan
    @SansrisJeevan Před 10 lety +11

    That was one of the best Ted talk I've seen.

  • @JanFerre
    @JanFerre Před 9 lety +4

    It must require an extraordinary amount of courage to stand up and do a speach like that when you stutter. On the other hand other personal matters have been publicly announced by people, so maybe courage is just around in surplus.
    For me it was fun to note that some parts of the text - especially when Megan got excited about something - came out with no stutter at all - and for me there was no 'visible' cause for this.
    I'm happy Megan did this speach. Lots of people stutters and no matter how much you want to include them, you get bored over time and isolates them. This is not fair at all! But it's life.

  • @SteveGouldinSpain
    @SteveGouldinSpain Před 10 lety +20

    Interesting talk! I live in Spain and very few Spanish people can pronounce my name, Steve, without putting an 'E' in front of it - so here I am Esteve (or more accurately, Estiff).
    Years ago I worked on a helpline where a lot of elderly people rang in to enquire about the value of their Saving Certificates. Many of them used to mispronounce as Sustificates. Repeating patterns of mispronunciation must lead to a common cause that can be rectified. You sing real nice BTW Megan!!!

  • @fictionmyth
    @fictionmyth Před 9 lety +7

    Both her voices are beautiful. The intended and the interrupted.

  • @totallybasicyoutubechannel

    Wow! I've been a fan for a couple of years, and had no idea about Megan's speech impediment. But after watching this talk, I have more respect for her than ever. It's really quite inspiring to see how far she's come and without letting it hold her back.

  • @ZyklonB95
    @ZyklonB95 Před 9 lety +6

    I absolutely loved this talk. I can totally relate to everything said here, being a stutterer myself. It's so frustrating being able to sing clearly, or talk in another persons voice, but not your own.
    By the way, words that have a "b" followed by an "a" are my kryptonite. Like "banana".

  • @CharlesTutt
    @CharlesTutt Před 10 lety +2

    I love you! Especially your honesty and courage to 'put yourself out there'. I'm touched in a very nice and special way. Thank You!

  • @stevanz1
    @stevanz1 Před 9 lety +1

    I've always thought Washington has had an amazing voice, but I never knew she had a speech impediment, I think shes so brave to tell the whole world. I have so much more respect for her and her music.

  • @jenny20254
    @jenny20254 Před 4 lety

    worth it to watch, and i'm glad i found this. love it, keep up with good work.

  • @pokiwii
    @pokiwii Před rokem

    Wow, her voice blew me away. I am so glad I found this TED talk :,) She definitely is inspirational and talented.

  • @immaog34
    @immaog34 Před 9 lety +1

    Good job, Megan! I stutter too and I salute you for speaking in front of such a big crowd bc I would NEVER do it! Again, THANK YOU and good luck on your career!

  • @baongu2019
    @baongu2019 Před 9 lety

    Incredible! Her story and the song are truly inspiring

  • @annreshaw
    @annreshaw Před 9 lety

    You made me laugh and cry. Happy tears though! Love the positive attitude! And what a beautiful voice.

  • @RichTriggerBontrager
    @RichTriggerBontrager Před 5 lety

    As one that has stuttered all his life, and yet has made his living as a public speaker and broadcaster.....I am amazed by Megan's boldness to share how a stutters mouth and mind work. It is NOT normal or natural, but each learn our own tricks an defy the odds and overcome in our own ways. Standing O for Megan Washington !

  • @gizmomac1520
    @gizmomac1520 Před 2 měsíci

    I remember my high school teacher showinng this video back in high school when I was in year 8, and no one else has heard of her. Except me lol. And now, she's on Bluey and making soundtracks for the show. Amazing work!!

  • @brandonroyes3707
    @brandonroyes3707 Před 10 lety +4

    This was beautiful, one of my favorite Ted Talks thus far xD

  • @sonaliprity278
    @sonaliprity278 Před 3 lety +1

    I have a phd interview next week and more than my course I am more worried about how I am gonna talk there becoz of my stuttering.I have been facing this issue all my life till now, people often think me a stupid person, as I choose to keep quite most of the time, and yes I am 26 and almost accepted the fact that this is going to be with me forever, I can so relate myself with this girl so much.God bless her ♥

  • @user-rv7zd3jz8y
    @user-rv7zd3jz8y Před 8 měsíci

    This is a wonderful speech! I really liked her singing, very beautiful. It’s also cool when people don’t have any complexes about stuttering and speak in public. Not all people even speak in public without stuttering, but she could. It's amazing.

  • @user-yx5nd6cn2k
    @user-yx5nd6cn2k Před 8 měsíci

    I really liked Megan Washington's speech. It's cool when a woman isn’t shy about her speech impediment, talks about it in public. What really surprised me was the song, it’s wonderful.This is a paradise for ears!!!

  • @user-sq1gr3oq6j
    @user-sq1gr3oq6j Před 8 měsíci

    She touched me with her desire and persistence to get rid of stuttering. It was new to me that it was possible to correct speech defects by singing. she is a great fellow and I think she will be as a good example for many people, and they will not stop before their problems

  • @15harrishawk
    @15harrishawk Před 9 lety

    Wow, what an incredible voice. I could listen to her voice all day long.

  • @varghesejohn322
    @varghesejohn322 Před 10 lety

    It's impossible to not like this video..!!So inspiring!!

  • @Amberpawn
    @Amberpawn Před 7 lety +1

    Thank you for sharing this with us and I hope that you find these words at some point.

  • @KayKayPureHeart
    @KayKayPureHeart Před 2 lety

    Im happy to have learn new information on the topic of shutting.

  • @user-zw4cx5bj6y
    @user-zw4cx5bj6y Před 8 měsíci

    She is wonderful, so her speech is inspiring for not being afraid of any problems with voice. So huge speech impediment seems like a tiny difficulty. It’s worth to listen to her magnificent singing, that can give people with the same speech impediment a flash of inspiration for becoming more confident)

  • @superpcstation
    @superpcstation Před 9 lety +3

    Man! i wish i were strong like her and that song at the end, my jaw dropped!

  • @BaByCaKeZ106
    @BaByCaKeZ106 Před 4 lety

    she is so beautiful!!! sending so much love her way!

  • @xMISTERxJ
    @xMISTERxJ Před 10 lety

    Absolutely breath taking voice!

  • @LittleMissWhaleFail
    @LittleMissWhaleFail Před 9 lety

    i LOVE this video

  • @user-em7jf2iv4i
    @user-em7jf2iv4i Před 8 měsíci

    After watching this video, I experienced a lot of emotions. First of all, her singing is incredible. Secondly, I am glad that people with such disabilities have the courage to perform in front of an audience despite their fear. It's important to realise that nervousness before a performance is a normal phenomenon and doesn't necessarily mean that you will fail your presentation.

  • @spartin11786
    @spartin11786 Před 9 lety +2

    I've stuttered my whole life and when she stuttered for the first time, and swapped her word, I knew exactly the feels.

  • @SHINSHINDESU
    @SHINSHINDESU Před 9 lety

    She is amazing! Brilliant singer and person!

  • @rudyperez9940
    @rudyperez9940 Před 10 lety +7

    Damn this girl is brave! And has an amazing voice! I don't have a stutter but would never speak publicly. Also first

  • @munchableis
    @munchableis Před 9 lety

    I had no idea, and i used to see her do the Jazz thing at the PowerHouse in Brizzy often. Amazing how song smooths it out.

  • @sladostrastnayavaflya
    @sladostrastnayavaflya Před 8 měsíci

    To be honest, she made me feel proud and inspired! I also really liked her jokes, they sounded very organic in her speech, made it real, from the heart. I wish her luck, inspiration and understanding;)

  • @ChristinaRedd
    @ChristinaRedd Před 9 lety +15

    The one thing I take from this is how incredibly sweet she is. :) I want to be her friend.

  • @maycameron254
    @maycameron254 Před 9 lety +5

    I studied Speech Therapy and have a slightly different perspective on stammering. This lady has achieved so much despite having a stammer and... so what? A stammer is unrelated to someone's intelligence and talents. Therapy is about, not curing it, but not letting it get in the way of doing your thing. Setting strategies and techniques so you can go about your day. Do we set the bar so low in our expectations that we're SURPRISED when someone with a stammer goes on to achieve great things? I will not patronize her by declaring how wonderful and inspirational it is that she's (gasp!) able to do a speech with a speech impediment. Good on her though for overcoming her hear of public speaking- a fear we probably all have- stammer or no stammer.

    • @iflymilly
      @iflymilly Před 8 lety +2

      I'm a year late, but I think this is more about music saving her from her self-doubt/pity (due to stammering), rather than achieving greatness whilst having a "setback".

  • @joannahamburg877
    @joannahamburg877 Před 9 lety

    She is a much much better public speaker than most people without a stutter. Great talk!

  • @Lily_fan
    @Lily_fan Před 5 měsíci

    So lovely message❤ hugs

  • @gatheredwisdom
    @gatheredwisdom Před 9 lety

    Loved this! This really inspired me

  • @NOTuNOTme
    @NOTuNOTme Před 9 lety +3

    Megan Washington just became my hero.

  • @HarryKey
    @HarryKey Před 9 lety

    A bloody amazing talk. I think I'd like to learn a bit more about strategies for stutterers.

  • @Rh1no1
    @Rh1no1 Před 9 lety +6

    No one is perfect and you are lovable just the way you are.

  • @ThuTran-uj8ty
    @ThuTran-uj8ty Před 9 lety

    thanks for the inspiring talk

  • @Aprinsa
    @Aprinsa Před 9 lety +1

    Beautiful song. I'm terrified of public speaking without a stutter. Wish I could sing like you... dancing does for me sort of what singing does for you. Both are musical.

  • @podcastbard
    @podcastbard Před 9 lety

    I love this TED talk.

  • @TakahiroChiba
    @TakahiroChiba Před 9 lety

    beautifully done!

  • @user-ph2gh6fu7d
    @user-ph2gh6fu7d Před 8 měsíci

    I enjoyed her performance because she was very honest and open. With her performance, she supported people with other defects. And her voice is just magic, she's a talented person. People who write negative comments are just jealous of her talent and features.❤

  • @Anticrystal88
    @Anticrystal88 Před 9 lety

    Oh, my dear. So brave, so lovely, so talented. Thank you.

  • @tollewursttollewurst
    @tollewursttollewurst Před 9 lety

    Love your courage!!!

  • @Neeboopsh
    @Neeboopsh Před 9 lety +2

    I have a lisp which caused me to almost fail kindergarten. I devised a way of saying the letter s, which is completely not the way a mouth normally goes, but it largely masks my lisp. One of my close friends however, has lived his whole life with a stutter and he has never had any type of intimate relationship to my knowledge. He is in his 70s and his embarrassment and resulting shyness has confined him to a very private life, with a handful of really close friends, usually due to work-based relationships. something so small as a speech impediment can really impact the way someones life unfolds.

  • @Tastaturmusik
    @Tastaturmusik Před 9 lety

    brave talk, beautiful music

  • @gboltlier6091
    @gboltlier6091 Před 9 lety

    I like her! She is, what's good in this world!

  • @TyTang24
    @TyTang24 Před 10 lety

    great talk, amazing performance.

  • @jordanspencer8993
    @jordanspencer8993 Před 3 lety

    Beautiful voice!

  • @meganfollett
    @meganfollett Před 9 lety

    Cannot believe there were people who actually gave this a thumbs down... I do wonder why. Megan Washington is incredible. So sweet and talented and smart. She is the underestimated darling of Australia.

  • @mroutdoorsy
    @mroutdoorsy Před 7 lety

    hi megan nice to see you here today thanks for the best wishes today it meant a lot. i really thought of you when that happened

  • @jonathanbrooks4969
    @jonathanbrooks4969 Před 9 lety +1

    Stutter and Aphasia ( word block) are a pain, when you are young and older. I found singing to be a great way to deal with both problems.

  • @davoriusjames7207
    @davoriusjames7207 Před 9 lety +1

    Love this ted talk

  • @vaibhavgupta20
    @vaibhavgupta20 Před 10 lety +1

    great video.

  • @user-wu9fx6kp8q
    @user-wu9fx6kp8q Před 8 měsíci

    Megan is very brave and cool, I admire her. She has a great voice and a nice appearance. I hope she still sings ! And maybe she managed to get rid of her stutter.

  • @christianm20358
    @christianm20358 Před 9 lety

    That vooce is amazing

  • @frianejade824
    @frianejade824 Před 8 lety

    this is so inspiring

  • @kateeritchie850
    @kateeritchie850 Před 9 lety +1

    Incredible.

  • @caroll.8861
    @caroll.8861 Před 9 lety

    She have a beautiful voice.

  • @durdonaabdumutalova2863

    She is so perfect😍❤

  • @Dibxmonkey
    @Dibxmonkey Před 10 lety +4

    Wow, inspiring

  • @jordanlatour5282
    @jordanlatour5282 Před 9 lety

    This is beautiful

  • @ggundhi9
    @ggundhi9 Před 10 lety

    Loved it

  • @demigodlord
    @demigodlord Před 9 lety

    i never realised this but i complete do this all the time

  • @lyn_cei
    @lyn_cei Před 9 lety +12

    Speech and singing are actually controlled by totally different areas of the brain, this is also why Alzheimer's patients can recall music very well when they can't recall anything else.

    • @sweetasamuff
      @sweetasamuff Před 5 lety

      Lyncei Interesting. I once knew a man, that stuttered all his life in Italian. Moved to Australia, and has no stutter when he speaks English. He still stutters in Italian though. It’s always fascinated me.

  • @Seabacon346
    @Seabacon346 Před 7 lety

    Her speaking voice is very pretty. Nice voice all around

  • @geekgroupie42
    @geekgroupie42 Před 9 lety +1

    beautiful!

  • @mickusmick
    @mickusmick Před 9 lety

    amazing and charming

  • @MiloBoz
    @MiloBoz Před 9 lety +5

    She is talented...

  • @MuadDib1402
    @MuadDib1402 Před 10 lety +35

    Dam Megan, I fell in love a little bit there.
    :)

  • @melisamao1328
    @melisamao1328 Před 9 lety

    Lovely, nice voice~ I like her :)

  • @SahilChaturvedi
    @SahilChaturvedi Před 9 lety

    Beautiful.

  • @AssClappicus
    @AssClappicus Před 10 lety +1

    I have a stutter, though not as bad, I get this. Much respect, Megan!

  • @toomuchtruth
    @toomuchtruth Před 9 lety

    That singing and piano were so beautiful and peaceful. She seems really nice, and it's inspiring that she got through that talk in front of all those people. A bit beside the point but she's got some banging legs as well :D

  • @rprasannakumar
    @rprasannakumar Před 10 lety

    That was just cool ! .... Girl that was just cool !

  • @Tom-xy9gb
    @Tom-xy9gb Před 4 lety +1

    she on spotify or apple music?

  • @M.G.R...
    @M.G.R... Před 6 lety

    Awesomeeeeee mam 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @datoorion
    @datoorion Před 9 lety

    my father had a stutter probably worse than her's... made me laugh and imagine the two of them talking when she talked about two stutterers meeting. he was worst talking on the phone, i'd have to be like "ya, I get what you're saying dude... :)"
    beautiful voice darlin'

  • @kidness294
    @kidness294 Před 9 lety

    Beautiful :)

  • @Tahani60a
    @Tahani60a Před 9 lety +1

    الكثير من الشجّاعة تطلبها للوقوف أمامهم 💁💕

  • @NKPyo
    @NKPyo Před 10 lety +4

    That's beautiful ;D

  • @kevintheagle
    @kevintheagle Před 9 lety +1

    Whats the name of the song?

  • @neonpaintsplash
    @neonpaintsplash Před 9 lety

    OMG this woman is so dauntingly beautiful.