15 Decisions You’ll Regret 20 Years From Now

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  • @alux
    @alux  Před 5 měsíci +5

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  • @romeojasper
    @romeojasper Před 5 měsíci +13

    I'm so happy I made productive decision about my financial that changed my life forever, hoping to retire next year... Investment should always be on any creative man's heart for success in life....
    Thanks to joyce Wooldridge, the lady you recommended.....

    • @MelissaBulawin
      @MelissaBulawin Před 5 měsíci +2

      It's truly inspiring to hear how Ms Joyce Wooldridge mentorship and her dedication have led to such remarkable financial success.

    • @Wendy10926
      @Wendy10926 Před 5 měsíci +2

      investing can help to protect the value of your money as the cost of living rises.

    • @LibyanHagrieve
      @LibyanHagrieve Před 5 měsíci +2

      You're right! The very first time I tried. I invited $1000 and after a week, I receive $10,000, that really helped us a lot to pay up our bills.

    • @romeojasper
      @romeojasper Před 5 měsíci +2

      *SHE'S MOSTLY ON TELEGRAMS APPS WITH THE BELOW NAME*

    • @romeojasper
      @romeojasper Před 5 měsíci +1

      Expt Joyce

  • @untouchable360x
    @untouchable360x Před 5 měsíci +40

    The freedom to make my own mistakes is all I ever wanted.

    • @MarieTMa
      @MarieTMa Před 5 měsíci +6

      That's what true freedom is

    • @kamichikora6035
      @kamichikora6035 Před 5 měsíci

      Interesting

    • @Lyndell239
      @Lyndell239 Před 5 měsíci +2

      Who stops you from making your own mistakes? I wish I was stopped from the many stupid, terrible, mistakes I insisted upon making. Some that changed my life forever. When I was young I esp thought I knew everything.

    • @DonnieIp
      @DonnieIp Před 5 měsíci

      Your comment sounds like a mistake so it seems you achieved your freedom. You have that freedom and it’s a dark one. True freedom is the freedom to achieve your successes.

  • @MarieTMa
    @MarieTMa Před 5 měsíci +13

    #15 movies no longer feels the same now that my kids have grown and are living overseas. It used to be the best moments of my entire life, watching the curiosity in their eyes. The excitement and anticipation...
    Then watching the level of understanding and criticism they've developed throughout the years... I'm so proud of them.
    It hits really hard whenever I am watching a movie that I know they would've enjoyed...

  • @hugh009
    @hugh009 Před 5 měsíci +5

    At now 78 years young I'm learning GAME THEORY as I believe it is one of the MOST important areas for us to learn. Also becoming more interested in how PLAY and CREATIVITY are interelated.

  • @cglawrence
    @cglawrence Před 5 měsíci +2

    I love going solo. Im 53 and wouldnt trade it for anything. I love my job and enjoy going on vacation by myself as well.

  • @MarieTMa
    @MarieTMa Před 5 měsíci +4

    #9 I love acting, roleplaying, and theatre plays...
    Movies like Whiplash, Birdman, Coffee Society, and The Wonderful Story of Henry Sugar are masterpieces to me...
    Most of my closed friends know nothing about that because, well, that's not their cup of tea.
    I'll never give up on that!

  • @zankarbolde
    @zankarbolde Před 5 měsíci +3

    I did do it all; all alone. Yeah it's darn hard but I've almost made it ...sure the world was my teacher and also alux but physically I was and am alone since I started on my trading career path....so when I finally achieve my goals soon, I'll let you know so that you can make a case study if you wish 😅

  • @MrBlackjack456
    @MrBlackjack456 Před 5 měsíci +2

    The video titled "15 Decisions You'll Regret 20 Years From Now" provides insights into crucial life decisions that may lead to regrets in the future. The speaker emphasizes the importance of avoiding complacency, settling for current circumstances, and making choices without considering long-term consequences. Here's a comprehensive summary of the key concepts:
    **Introduction:**
    The video begins by acknowledging the challenge of predicting future regrets and emphasizes the significance of making informed decisions in the present.
    **1. Settling for What You Have:**
    The speaker discusses life satisfaction inflation, highlighting that what satisfies you now may not be sufficient in the future due to evolving responsibilities and demands. Settling for the status quo might result in stagnation, akin to the speaker's metaphorical representation of parents who stopped progressing after their children left for college.
    **2. Doing Something Without Passion:**
    The video addresses the dilemma of pursuing a career solely for financial reasons, emphasizing the potential dissatisfaction and loss of creativity that can arise when one lacks passion for their work. The speaker suggests that a point comes, typically around the ages of 30 to 40, where the dissatisfaction becomes apparent, and a decision to either persist or make a significant change must be made.
    **3. Following Well-Intentioned Advice:**
    The importance of discerning advice is discussed, cautioning against blindly following guidance from those with good intentions but potentially irrelevant or mismatched experiences. The speaker encourages individuals to recognize their unique tolerance levels and the value of personal experience in shaping one's path.
    **4. Not Investing When Capital is Available:**
    The speaker advocates for wise financial decisions, emphasizing the importance of investing when one has the capital. Investing is presented as a means of creating a financial safety net, fostering patience, and providing a valuable skill set.
    **5. Lack of Continuous Education:**
    The video underscores the necessity of continuous learning beyond the early twenties, cautioning against becoming stuck in outdated mindsets. A metaphorical version comparison highlights the importance of adapting to the ever-changing world to avoid stagnation.
    **6. Being in an Unfavorable Situation:**
    Both physical and emotional aspects are considered in this point, emphasizing the need for proactive change rather than resigning to a suboptimal situation. The speaker challenges the notion that circumstances are inherently fixed, emphasizing individual agency in making life changes.
    **7. Dealing with Problems Independently:**
    The speaker discourages handling personal challenges alone, comparing it to fixing electrical wiring without professional help. The importance of seeking external support and leveraging collective human wisdom to address issues is stressed.
    **8. Playing a Side Character in Your Own Life:**
    The video encourages authenticity and self-discovery, warning against hiding one's true personality to conform to societal expectations. The speaker predicts a future where authenticity becomes increasingly rare in a world filled with copies.
    **9. Giving Up on Personal Interests:**
    Individuality and personal interests are championed, with the speaker urging against sacrificing unique hobbies or passions to fit societal norms. The potential loss of personal brightness and uniqueness is highlighted when individuals succumb to external pressures.
    **10. Sacrificing the Wrong Things:**
    The video introduces the concept of life as a series of trade-offs, cautioning against sacrificing crucial elements like personal time, health, relationships, peace of mind, and core values for short-term gains.
    **11. Chasing Someone Else's Dream:**
    The speaker warns against pursuing dreams influenced by external factors, urging individuals to ensure that their aspirations align with their authentic desires rather than societal expectations or familial influence.
    **12. Quitting Too Soon:**
    The importance of enduring initial hardships and not giving in to the temptation of quitting when progress seems slow is emphasized. The speaker positions this phase as vital for mastery and skill development.
    **13. Quitting Too Late:**
    Quitting too late is cautioned against, as it may result in missed opportunities and lingering regret. The speaker emphasizes the need for discernment in recognizing when to make strategic course corrections.
    **14. Choosing Convenience Over Quality:**
    The speaker discusses the trade-off between convenience and quality, cautioning against downgrading for convenience instead of paying for a higher quality of life. The example of meal planning and nutrition is used to illustrate this point.
    **15. Doing Everything Alone:**
    The importance of shared experiences and relationships is highlighted, with the speaker encouraging a life that is meant to be shared. Memories of happy moments typically involve others, reinforcing the idea that a solitary existence may lead to future regrets.
    **Bonus: Pursuing a Watered-Down Dream:**
    The video concludes with a bonus point emphasizing that dreaming big requires the same effort as dreaming small. The speaker encourages viewers to pursue ambitious dreams rather than settling for a scaled-down version, citing the similar effort required.
    **Conclusion:**
    The video provides a comprehensive overview of 15 decisions that may lead to regrets in the future, covering various aspects of life, including career choices, financial decisions, personal development, and relationships.
    The summary encapsulates the video's main points; however, for a detailed understanding, watch the entire video.

  • @leadgenjay
    @leadgenjay Před 5 měsíci

    Solid points on the long-term impact of today's decisions. On the topic of not investing when you have the capital, it's crucial to understand the power of compound interest and start as early as possible, even if it's with a small amount; the growth over time can be staggering.

  • @johnkh2576
    @johnkh2576 Před 5 měsíci +1

    Alux,when is your book coming out?

  • @barney9008
    @barney9008 Před 5 měsíci +1

    Learn from other peoples mistakes before you make your own

  • @weijie9851
    @weijie9851 Před 5 měsíci +1

    @alux your content is good but you guys didn’t update on your Spotify podcast, do take note of it, thank you☺️

  • @JWEATHERSBY
    @JWEATHERSBY Před 5 měsíci +1

    #8 could be a whole video on its own. Definitely a solid insight.

  • @kime3780
    @kime3780 Před 5 měsíci +1

    Hii Lovely Alux's❤.
    Hope all is well with u all😊.
    Can u do a video on 'cost of rostering a child/ children's'?!
    Thank you!!

  • @tippygraham
    @tippygraham Před 5 měsíci +2

    No guarantee we will be here 20 yrs from now. Even so, there will be other things on the list.

  • @charlottepeukert9095
    @charlottepeukert9095 Před 5 měsíci +1

    To what age range does this video refer? Calling your current job quit and starting over might be possible if you're 30.
    But it's not the best idea if your're 60.
    You might well be in a place where you find that you're doing well, but still not like your job.However, if you're on the road to retirement, leaving and starting all over is only a good idea, if you're planning to work for another 10+ years.
    Everything else is just wasted time and money.

  • @nkugwa19
    @nkugwa19 Před 5 měsíci +1

    The video is very meaningful. Thank you, Alux team/

  • @Guilherme.Soares.96
    @Guilherme.Soares.96 Před 5 měsíci +1

    Nothing To Regret If The GRIND Keeps Going To Achieve It !

  • @imlv2614
    @imlv2614 Před 5 měsíci +1

    amazing advice as always❤Alux, you are a game changer❤

  • @TripSoul10
    @TripSoul10 Před 5 měsíci

    Chapter 4 is my favorite investing for the future in the later years of life.

  • @JSFGuy
    @JSFGuy Před 5 měsíci +1

    🤷🏻

  • @mohtown8751
    @mohtown8751 Před 5 měsíci +2

    #9 really hit home with me since my father passed away.
    I had the tendency to avoid doing things I wanted to do when I would ask my friends if they wanted to join me and they would not reciprocate that when I would invest more time in their activities.
    After my father passed, I asked my friends if they wanted to join and they would not show interest and I would go by myself. And now I don’t even ask my friends nor talk them that much anymore and go and do my thing myself.
    One of the best feelings I have had so far.

  • @narimansabah8655
    @narimansabah8655 Před měsícem +1

    حلم😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍

  • @robertmaxa6631
    @robertmaxa6631 Před 5 měsíci +1

    Not having "passion" for, and not enjoying doing something, are different. I don't believe that "passion", is required, or relevant.

  • @chrisanderson1543
    @chrisanderson1543 Před 5 měsíci +1

    You only have one life span. You can’t back it up, and there are no “do overs.”
    So do what you enjoy!
    In a “flash, “ it is over!”

  • @_ace_711
    @_ace_711 Před 5 měsíci

    Six videos in and it’s so refreshing to find a channel that gets to the nitty gritty, covers all corners, and doesn’t sugarcoat anything. Thanks. More family added to the mix!🙋🏾‍♀️

  • @colinchandler6516
    @colinchandler6516 Před 5 měsíci

    thank you

  • @VicDamoneJr82
    @VicDamoneJr82 Před 5 měsíci +1

    The Bible says follow no man

  • @user-sk4zx3hf5w
    @user-sk4zx3hf5w Před 5 měsíci +1

    Hello alux thanks for your help Karen forestparkga 😊😊

  • @colinchandler6516
    @colinchandler6516 Před 5 měsíci

    I always learn something new

  • @Blipblopmarketing
    @Blipblopmarketing Před 3 měsíci

    Please move episodes to podcast it really helps me listen while travelling

  • @_ace_711
    @_ace_711 Před 5 měsíci

    🔥
    🔥
    🔥

  • @kingech_B15
    @kingech_B15 Před 5 měsíci

    This is a sad one.

  • @Whoeverwhateverwhenever
    @Whoeverwhateverwhenever Před 5 měsíci +1

    15. Bullshit
    You want people to depend on others.

  • @magickittenz
    @magickittenz Před 5 měsíci

    Very motivating.

  • @PiNetworkGeek-ec4kh
    @PiNetworkGeek-ec4kh Před 4 měsíci

    Doing something you have no passion for, is a thing we here in Ghana can hardly escape. It would be financial suicide to do so. It is a retrogressive society here. Imagine trained nurses not getting work/posting! I was never the case in the past.

  • @Samsons121
    @Samsons121 Před 5 měsíci

    ❤😊

  • @brindaram1073
    @brindaram1073 Před 4 měsíci

    So many have accomplished without education

  • @timesmond75
    @timesmond75 Před 5 měsíci

    I have been alone almost all my life the people who I call a friend do not try to check on me

  • @grahamwithinshaw5575
    @grahamwithinshaw5575 Před 5 měsíci

    Take care my friend ❤

  • @charlottepeukert9095
    @charlottepeukert9095 Před 5 měsíci

    What about giving all those big dreams a reality check?
    Some dreams don't come true and you have to put up with a smaller version of that dream.

  • @muhammadmuaaz9594
    @muhammadmuaaz9594 Před 5 měsíci

    • @JSFGuy
      @JSFGuy Před 5 měsíci +1

      What is that for?

  • @kaizersolze
    @kaizersolze Před 5 měsíci

    For 14, I was told "spend what you have more of, time or money."

  • @abishekdalphaking2728
    @abishekdalphaking2728 Před 5 měsíci

    Big B

  • @ShaKing_037
    @ShaKing_037 Před 5 měsíci

    Hello Alux 🙌

  • @auro1986
    @auro1986 Před 5 měsíci

    narrator says you will regret 20 years later if you do not watch not watch 15 videos in alux channel daily for all remaining years of your life

  • @danielmacaulay3105
    @danielmacaulay3105 Před 5 měsíci

    Great video

    • @JSFGuy
      @JSFGuy Před 5 měsíci

      It is? It just started and you haven't watched it yet.

  • @5canwalk
    @5canwalk Před 5 měsíci

    Sobering thoughts🎉❤

  • @rethinkrich
    @rethinkrich Před 5 měsíci

    Alux, that’s funny,,,million’s are carrying more baggage than FedEx!😆6:27

  • @javaidak4204
    @javaidak4204 Před 5 měsíci

    Very motivational though a bit pinching 😂🎉❤

  • @anilsupraj
    @anilsupraj Před 5 měsíci

    Biggest one - Waiting for all cards to get correct before starting.

  • @douglasparks9424
    @douglasparks9424 Před 2 měsíci

    Good one todqy!

  • @DoloresSimpson
    @DoloresSimpson Před 5 měsíci

    FIRST of all, you should "hope" that you'll be ALIVE in 20 years from now & then & ONLY then if you are ALIVE 20 years from now, .... you may ponder whether you have any REGRETS made 20 years ago !!!

  • @GabannaAmor
    @GabannaAmor Před 5 měsíci

    You started the video off swinging. 😅

  • @ivangisairo550
    @ivangisairo550 Před 5 měsíci

    6:28 There are millions of people out there carrying more baggage than FedEx. 😂 @Alux that was brutal.

  • @ryanpenman251
    @ryanpenman251 Před 5 měsíci

    You forgot to mention voting for Joe Biden

  • @adegoke2661
    @adegoke2661 Před 5 měsíci

    Here first

  • @entrepreneurking8162
    @entrepreneurking8162 Před 5 měsíci

    First

  • @coolrunnings5383
    @coolrunnings5383 Před 5 měsíci

    Mistake 1: “Settling for what I already have”
    Me: Sorry, Mary, the time has come for me to level up.

  • @colinchandler6516
    @colinchandler6516 Před 5 měsíci

    great video

  • @kuotemmanuelmevergreen1658
    @kuotemmanuelmevergreen1658 Před 5 měsíci

    🙏

  • @FlourishLight
    @FlourishLight Před 5 měsíci

    It's informative!

  • @bloodmooncomix457
    @bloodmooncomix457 Před 5 měsíci

    Listening to Alux is like listening to sermons in the the Bible....🤔
    They'll both set you free after they break their foot off in your @$$! 👊😫😬🥺🫡😜🇺🇸