Feeling Lonely in College
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- čas přidán 16. 09. 2021
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I see everyone around in university happy,talking with friends,laughing,having their best time ,most of them having girlfriends kissing ,going to clubs like God has given them all the happiness wheres me even struggling to make friends ,always worrying about how i look to others and not even talking to a single girl,I don't think i even exist,really makes me feel really low,i just left my hometown for higher studies and im in this situation right now
I'm with you bro! You aren't lonely cuz u have me.
Same situation as me 😭 lets try finding happiness alone. Let's not force ourselves to make friends
@@rihakhan1539 same bro, I feel you
u are in which uni?
@@hehe-zt4zy I study in a design institute
There are mostly guys in my class so I have no friends
@@rihakhan1539 I am boy tho, and I am unable to talk to girls can you please help me.
honestly i’ve come to the realization that everyone in uni is more or less lonely. it’s just the way it is. it’s such an individual experience but i hope we all can find our people some day
Totally relate to it. I'm at my second week of uni and it sucks already
It’s almost the end of year one of uni. Exam season is being harsh on all of us, and isolation’s at its maximum level :( I miss home, I miss socialising, being with friends, not worrying if I’m talking too much or being awkward.. I just want to actually connect with someone and quit small talking all the time
that's true. a lot of times it boils down to managing expectations too.
But other times, it's true that certain things like being listened to will make you feel better.
Here's something I got from the book 'You're not listening':
'Listening is about the experience of being experienced. It’s when someone takes an interest in who you are and what you are doing. The lack of being known and accepted in this way leads to feelings of inadequacy and emptiness. What makes us feel most lonely and isolated in life is less often the results of a devastating traumatic event than the accumulation of occasions when nothing happened but something profitably could have. it’s the missed opportunity to connect when you weren’t listening or someone wasn’t really listening to you.'
I feel like college will be better when we have a safe space to express our thoughts, emotions and being listened to. While also listening to others share their authentic stories. This alone can curb a big chunk of loneliness. Afterall, loneliness might be an inner state, it's not the actual state where there aren't ppl around us as I've felt lonely at big parties as well.
As a third year college student I have come to realize that not everyone has the fun college experience and that's okay. But I can't lie sometimes is hard for me too and I often feel lonely and lost in between so many people. But don't worry, this too shall pass...
To anyone feeling lonely- just remember this feeling will go away and this period of time does not define you! Remember it’s better to wait to find people you actually click with versus just making convenient friends that will feel like filler!
omg I agree with this so much thank you. ive been in college for a month and it’s so hard and excruciating to even go eat lunch and seeing everyone with their friends laughing and having fun…I feel like such an outcast and all my expectations for this place got crushed the moment I moved into my dorm. your comment really helped me at this time.
@@threads4dummies323 7 months later, how college treated you? kinda going through the same thing rn
I'm actually very relieved you made this video. I'm in my second week of college and I just feel like I'm the only one without plans/friends seeing everyone going out each night. But I have to realise I'm not the only one feeling this and that it is completely valid to feel this way. It doesn't even bother me to be alone but I feel like the world is judging me for it
Edit: seeing the likes makes me feel even less alone! All your feelings are valid! Thankyou kind strangers
that is something can happen during our cycle of life..... be smart to accept that .... and do something to react to that
i relate to you so much omg so not used to this drastic change and I also feel so lonely seeing other ppl having so much fun and I’m just by myself. I’m so glad you’re taking small steps to spice up your day and hopefully everything will go well for u soon !!🤍🤍
I’ve been in college for a little over a month and I feel very isolated. I don’t really have any friends and every interaction with everyone else feels very surface level. On top of that I feel like everyone I see has already gotten past this problem and I’m just super behind. I know there are things I can change about my situation but I’m just stuck in a rut.
So so so true. The people who I used to hang around with are no longer here, and it’s left me feeling so blue lately. Everything just feels so surface level. The conversations sometimes fall flat. Sometimes I feel isolated and alone, even when I’m in a room filled with people. There are days where I literally don’t say a single word in at least one of my classes. And when I want to take things to the next level, my mouth and brain never cooperate. Without fail, I end up regretting it so much after. I have acquaintances, but not a single solid friend. Maybe I’m just not fully used to the whole “people will come and go in your life” mindset yet. But I promise that you’re not alone!!! 🙏🏻❤️ but who knows, things might get better for people like us sooner or later 👍🏻
I feel you. I'm just over a month in my college but I feel extremely lonely and sad. It's like the people who were supposed to become friends have already done it and I can't seem to talk to just about any people in particular as they want to be with their friends.
It's not that people don't talk to you, but at the end of the day, when I come back my dorm and realise not a single person there cares if I'm there or not, it hits me HARD.
@@khushipankaj3331oh my god same, it feels comforting to know that there are other people out there who feel the same as me. im a first year transfer and everyone around me already has friends from when they were previously here , so everyone is in their “cliques”. it’s so hard because i want to have fun and talk about silly things and go fun places with other people but i feel like I have no one. i can’t even go to lunch some days because I’m scared ppl will judge that I am alone.
@@threads4dummies323 I really hope that you find amazing friends and we can always chat online so let me know if you ever need to talk. Remember you're not alone here.
@@khushipankaj3331 same to you as well! i hope you find friends who value your time and existence. I would love to chat , it seems like we relate on this topic well lol.
college can be really lonely at times, like your circle of friends could either be different or you're on your own for the most part.
i viewed it very differently before beginning my college, i'm a junior now, and i've learnt that it's okay to be alone 🥺
can feel a little disheartening at first but you'll also learn a lot, kelly 💗
You described exactly how I feel. It always make me feel really frustrated, thinking about how lonely or how not loved I am... but it's nice to know that for once, I'm not alone. Btw, I enjoy a lot your videos
Can I talk with you? I'm feeling lonely
you’re definitely loved
girl i can totally relate abt feeling esp lonely when going on social media and seeing ppl with all these friend groups, what ive realized is that all these friend groups will probably disband within months and that real friendship takes time to develop
I needed to hear this thank you
I understand ur situation but just because ur struggling w finding a solid friend group doesn’t mean you get to say other peoples friend groups will “probably disband” or that they’re fake to make yourself feel better. Making friends quickly doesn’t mean they’re fake, everyone makes friends differently, and one is not better than the other.
@@heist4420 i'm not trying to make myself feel better lol it's just the reality of being a college freshman, yes there are friend groups who will stay together but at the same time a lot of people will eventually find other people they vibe with more. it's not that serious lol
@@heist4420 Im sorry that You had to hear the truth, not “all” groups disband but MOST do within less than a month. I’ve seen it and prefer being alone for that reason. It’s better than having a hive mind and then set myself up for disappointment
환경이 변한다고 모든 게 해결되지 않고 그런 시간에 아무것도 안하고 부러워하기 보단 할일을 찾아하고 만들어서도 한다는 거 정말 멋지고 성숙한 자세 같아요! 낯선환경에선 성향에 상관없이 깊은 외로움이 찾아오는 거 같아요 적응하면서 그 외로움들과 함께 공존하며 잘 지낼 수 있다고 생각해요ㅎㅎ! 응원해요🤍
솔직한 감정을 공유해줘서 고마워요 필요했거든요 나와 같은 기분을 느끼고 있는 누군가가
Exactly how I feel 5:26. Thank you for sharing this. I am independent and I am studying abroad right now. I have no friends here and it has been almost a year now. I really tried to build a freindship and to the point that I feel no one really connects with me and they kind of hurt me, so I withdraw myself from people not to get hurt. It is really hard, starting your life in a new city and country. Seeing my classmates live their lives and have their own people make me feel lonely. I develop the habit of not wanting to go on social media because I am tired of seeing everyone having their own people, while I am alone in my room. I don't think I will ever make friends again or happen to find one during the university life, I tried and now I am tired. But I am lucky to have my boyfriend because he is my famil, yet we are doing LDR. So, I guess life goes on. Also, I thank that I am an only child and an introvert so loneliness does not hurt me.
I'm not abroad but i totally understand you, same situation. Where do you study ?
@@cezarazamfir8474 thank you for sharing. Thats sweet 🥹
@@yelsthoughts Taiwan
I love how you're being vulnerable and honest in front of the camera bcs life is not all about rainbows. There are days like this where we feel sad esp when we saw others having fun on socmed but remember, we only show good things online. It's okay, Kelly. We feel you ❤️
It might change later, but most of the time, I am alone, but I came to a realization that I enjoy this. Eating alone, watching videos, reading a book and do a lot of things comfortably! Yes, I do feel lonely and wish I have friends, but somehow I love it
I used to be like that but now that i have moved to a different country for studies, i feel way to lonely and i hate it!
I remember spending most of my freshman days (and nights lol) at my friend's dorm because I was lonely despite living with my family. It is one of the perfectly normal phases that everyone goes through in college and it's great to see you embrace and acknowledge that. (Existential crisis is a sophomore phase, just so you're aware 🙃) Hope you don't try too hard to make the most of every single day, since you need those days when you completely let go of everything. Remember you can never go too wrong in college 😂. Stay safe! xoxo
i first encountered loneliness way back in 7th grade, i literally had no friendgroup and i only had one friend in class while everyone had their own group and they always go out after class or plans on going to mall on lunches, i felt really sad and alone but then later on in 8th grade i found my people. i’ve had big groups but my friends i met on 8th grade were the ones i really feel comfortable and stayed with me. i’m now in senior and we’re all in the same class and we’re still bestfriends. it really just takes time finding the right friends that’s gonna stick with you throughout everything! you’ll find them!
Kelly don’t be saddened it do happens to everyone, things take time ✊🏻💪🏻love you ❤️
Today was the first day of my junior year in college and at first I was excited but today was extremely overwhelming. I started college during COVID and my first time being on campus was my sophomore year but majority of my classes were hybrid online and in person. But this year, EVERYONE IS HERE! The bus was packed classes were huge again like before COVID. It was just overwhelming. I’ve never felt so alone. I’m also a POC in STEM. Now I see what people mean. I grew up in a diverse school and neighborhood and now to go to a mainly white university with up to 60,000 students and being the only black student in the room. It kind of sucks. But I’ll give it to my college that there’s a lot more international students than what I’ve seen from last year… but also that makes sense because COVID.
I'm a college sophomore and up until now, I'm still yet to find a friend at my uni. With all the stress of being an engineering student in the midst of a pandemic, lockdowns (atleast in my country still), and virtual classes, its really stressful for me so much that I sadly don't even think about getting to know my classmates anymore😥 All I think about right now is to (hopefully) ace my classes and get through this pandemic in good health🥺
I feel the same being at college and people are going out with friends and also during the time of online classes they even made bfs and like they seems happy most of the times and it makes me sad for me . I know it’s okay to be yourself and stay happy alone and do self love but from the past 2 years i have been doing the same things like watching series doing selfcare things eating healthy. I felt left out especially when i am with a group of people and they try to share their infront of me while hiding it from me . And whenever i call them they hardly pick and all they do is to lie while i’ll ask them to take me with them .
Never felt this thing! Was a popular back in the school days
유진님은 자신의 감정에 참 솔직한 것 같아서 좋아요…너무나도 닮고 싶은 부분😭
자신의 우울함까지 솔직하게 공유할 수 있는 용기가 멋있습니다. 공감도 많이 되고 위안을 얻고가요
this couldn't have come at a better time, thank you youjin
소소한 일상 브이로그만의 매력이 있는 것 같아요.. 재밌고 그 잔잔함이 힐링 돼요 💛
Omg I can relate to you so much ;)
I really wanted a change of environment too and so I moved out for college but it hasn't been that great like I thought and I feel lonely but then again I feel stuck when I stay home but that's okay I guess time will heal for both of us :)
Anyway lotsa love to you❤️
I just love listening to Youjin talking... I can sit and listen to her for hours and hours 😌😍❤🧿
i feel like i'm not lonely anymore since so many people have the same issue here
thank you for being so open about this. I'm sorry that you feel sad and frustrated but everyone is at a different place in their lives. I felt lonely at times in college despite having a group of friends that I'd hang out with regularly, there is a sense of loneliness in college. I'd suggest not going on social media during some of that alone time in bed or on the couch and journal any thoughts and ideas that you might have, whether it's somewhere you want to travel to eventually or a new restaurant to check out. Don't let others' social posts influence you too much!
I can relate quite a bit. University was really difficult to adapt to especially last year in the middle of a pandemic. It’s super lonely at times but that’s completely normal:)) also join clubs and societies and stuff. Uni is what you make of at the end of the day!!
I'm truly okay with being lonely and alone but I feel like the world is making me feel bad about it and like I'm missing out on something. Thank you for making this video! 🥰 it helped me a lot with my thoughts!❤
Awe honey!! It’s okay! A friend making tip in college I did- I put a white board on my door with a few facts about myself and I encouraged people to knock and say hello! It helped a lot!
A lot of people feel the same in college but no one talks about it. Unfortunately, you gotta just throw yourself into it. If you see someone cool on campus, ask them to get coffee with you! Remember social media is fake! True friends will come! 💜💜
I think everyone said it the best, but things will always get better over time as long as you put in the effort! Make as many memories as you would like to look back to in few years and enjoy every moment of it. Love your honesty and the acceptance of feeling lonely because that is completely okay. Looking forward to seeing more of you in college and California :)
최애영상이 되겠네요…🖤 그리고 유진 님, 어떤 기술을 개발할 때 말고 자기 스스로 발전하는 건 자기계발이라고 표기합니다!! 영상에서 자주 말씀하시는 단어 같아서 혹시나 하고 말씀드려요 오늘 영상도 너무너무 잘 봤어요!!!
i relate to this so much... im a second yr in uni but i wasnt on campus last yr so i basically know no one but my roommate. social media makes it really hard to not make you feel like youre behind socially, academically, etc. so i totally relate :( i always remember this one quote that says, "i like to be alone but hate feeling lonely" and i think that is something i resonate with. but at the same time, we have the whole year ahead of us! even if rn it feels hard, we'll find our people eventually hehe. i hope your year goes well, you got dis :')
Omg totally same I am also a second year and i havent been to campıs much fpr several reasons but i feel like shit when i see other people living my dream college life. I try to manifest and have a positive outlook in life and thank god my neighbor includes me in activities they have sometimes. We have a lot of common points actually do u wanna be friends :3 I really want one whom i can talk about college experience and movies i like lol
언니,,, 이런 무계획 브이로그도 짱짱 좋아여!! 앞으로 많이 남은 대학생활 더더 화이팅하세용😆❤️❤️❤️👑
자기 감정을 잘 알고 말할 수 있는 게 정말 대단하고 부러워요 유진님 대학 생활 잘 보내길 바라요🖤
저도 대학 때 4년 내내 기숙사 생활해서 그 외로움이 뭔지 너무 잘 알아요. 내가 독립적인 사람이라는 것과는 별개로 문득 문득 오는 고독함이 있거든요... 새내기 때는 그게 유독 심하죠ㅜㅜ 저는 결국엔 시간이 답이었어요. 유진님 외로울 땐 여기 예쁜 댓글들 보세요!💓
she really made me feel much better after she talked about being lonely seeing all of the social media friends going out etc. same goes to me babe aaaa 🤍🤍🌹love u kellyyyy
유진님의 분위기가 너무 좋네요❤️🔥! 업로드될 때마다 행-복
I appreciate how honest you were here. I watched it yesterday and suddenly remembered it today and wanted to come back and comment lol😂 thank you for sharing this with us💗
im an international student and im experience whole new series of emotion. i feel exactly the same. i feel lonely, i feel terrible when people go out and have fun with friends. i feel envious and hate myself when people have friends that care for them. i doubt myself too. i keep asking why i dont have any friend that I can be comfortable with and hang out with. Lol anyway. your vlog reminds me that i should take vitamins (i bought them and left them on my desk for centuries) and learn to drive. i cannot rely on anyone anymore haha.
Heyy don’t worry i’m on the same boat aswell! I’m an international student aswell and I go out of my comfort zone to talk to people but sometimes it really feels like im forcing a conversation! How have you been coping with not feeling lonely?
유진님....3년전 모닝루틴 영상보고 반해서 맨날 찾아봣는데 특유의 감성 너무 좋습니다?
ngawwwww so happy that get to see you going to college!! Gonna watch it now~ stay safe and enjoy your week ahead!💕
i can relate so much, not just college, sometime u just cant makes friends in highschool and it just makes you the odd one out....ive been going through this phase now a days, and it is so hard to overcome it...at somepoint you think your the problem why people arent hanging out with you.
we will get through this and im so happy theres someone who is going through an emotion which i am too, and which im trying to overcome.
I just want to find a group of similar age friends that’s in the same situation as me, everyone meeting e/o for the first time and actually looking for friends, it’s hard when it seems everyone already has a close circle of friends and they don’t need me 🙃
i agree! I moved to a new school last year and barely had interactions and I have a feeling that I'm going to be alone again this year bc everyone has their own little group and due to covid :) it's hard but I'm just trying my best to enjoy my own company now. I've got no choice and I have anxiety haha
I hear you. I’m in college but I’m feeling lonely as well. we just have to keep going. the friends will come :) and everything ends up being okay 💕
항상 유진님의 차분하고 정돈된 일상, independent한 모습을 보고, 막연히 유투버라 그런지 언제든 주변에 친구/사람이 있을거라는 생각을 했는데,, 오늘 영상으로 새로운 면모를 또 본 느낌이에요!
그리고 이런 영상이 제 과거를 돌아보는 시간을 갖게 하게하고, 또 그속에서 본받을 점들을 발견하게 되네요
특히 오늘 유진님 영상은 제가 처음 대학교를 가며 자취를 시작했을때 기억을 떠오르게 해줬어요. 고등학생때 그냥 공부만을 목표로, 학창시절을 즐길줄도 모르며 학교생활을 하다가, 대학을 가야해서 갑자기 서울로 갔을때, 처음하는 자취생활은 익숙해지지않았어요.
다들 대학생활이 재밌다는데 아는 친구도 하나 없고 먼저 다가기도 어려웠던 그시절에 저는 방에만 있으며 정말 핸드폰만 붙잡고 있었어요. 그때 이런 영상을 봤다면 내 인생이 조금 달랐을까,,, 어디 물어볼곳도 없고, 너무 막막했었는데.. 유진님의 영상을 보며 늦었지만 그때의 제 자신을 달랠수 있게 되었어요
아직도 여전히 외로움은 느끼지만, 그래도 지금은 어떻게 대처해야할지 알고, 그리고 그 이상을 가서 이젠 혼자만의 시간을 즐길수도 있게 되었어요.
저는 다시 돌아간다면,
1. 운동을 꼭 해서 저에게 잘 맞는 운동을 찾고, 체력을 꾸준히 다져놓고싶어요(직장 다니면서 운동하려니 쉽지않네요..
2. 책 읽고싶어요(이제는 책하나를. 읽어도 직장, 재테크 관련으로 읽으려니 소설, 산문같은걸 상대적으로 덜찾게 되더라구요)
3. 사진 많이 찍어두고, 제 감정을 기록해두고 싶어요. 유진님은 유투브가 엄청난 일기장인것처럼, 일년에 한번쯤은 내 변화하는 모습? 을 기록할겸 사진을 찍어뒀으면 싶어요.. ㅎㅎ 그리고 일기도 안쓰고 인스타도 안하고 페이스북도 잘 안했던 터라 막상 내가 뭐하고 살았지 ? 생각하면 기억이 잘 안나네요 ㅎㅎ 지금은 개인 비공개 인스타에 감정의 소용돌이를 기억하는데, 다시 읽어보면 마음이 아프기도 웃기기도 해서 참 좋네요ㅎㅎ
유진님도 부디 슬기롭게 이 시기를 극복해나가셨으면 좋겠어요 🤍
You might feel lonely sometimes, but you're not alone 🖤
언니는 항상 느끼는 부정적인 감정들을 공유해 주는 사람이어서 좋아요 예전부터 언니가 겪고 있는 고민들, 불안들까지도 영상에 다 담아줬었는데 그런 게 정말 솔직해보여요 다른 사람들은 다 좋은 모습만 보여 주려고 하는데 그런 사람들과 다른 것 같아요 그래서 제가 언니를 더 좋아하는 거겠죠?! 앞으로도 어떤 모습의 언니든 좋으니까 꾸준히 영상에 담아 주세요~
Its my 5 day in college, I'm alone in my room,I don't have friends.
But after seeing this I think it's not just me who feel this way
유진님은 저보다 더 어리시지만 정말 더 성숙하신것 같아요. 항상 좋은 팁과 leason주셔서 감사해요♡
난 이렇게 계획적이지 않은 영상도 매력있는 거 같음. 안 넘기고 다 보게되는 힘이 있달까.. 너무 본인의 틀에 갇히지 않길 바라요 ♡ 항상 응원하고 있답니다 ;)
thank you sm for this video. I'm in my second semester of online college due tocovid, and besides questioning my major, I feel very unmotivated and lonely lately. I live in a tiny city and my college is far away, so I can't go there and socialize and meet people yet, I don't know anyone, and I feel like I live in a constant routine; waking up and sitting in front of my computer is draining sometimes.
I think is a normal thing to feel lonely in college, but sometimes it can be hard too, so to everyone who is feeling this way, everything is going to be okay, I believe in you
매번 다 귀찮아하는데, 유진님 영상 보면 뭐든지 하고 싶어져요!
유진님 저도 대학을 졸업하고 취업준비하느라 태어난 이래로 가장lonely한 삶을 살고잇어요ㅜㅠㅠㅠ그치만 괜찮아요!! 모든 사람들에게 인생에서 외로움을 느끼는 시기는 항상 오는거같아요
I'm also going through a bit of a friendship rut right now too :( I moved schools this year, and don't really talk to my old friends anymore. The first group of girls I sat with told my friends and I that they didn't want us there anymore (like lowkey kicking us out but tried to phrase it nicely lmao). And the second group of girls I found were already pretty tight, and because I only had a few weeks to talk to them before lockdown hit Australia (stay safe and get vaccinated everyone ❤️) they don't really talk to me, and I know that they regularly use their old group chats and call each other. I don't know, I know this situation isn't anyone's fault and that lots of unfortunate things overlapped with each other to make this situation but I can't help but wish that I really have at least one solid best friend that I get along with. Fun fact - used to have one, but she became super toxic, obsessed, jealous, and clingy, and I had to cut it off with her so that my mental headspace could be positive and not always so drained.
So when you mentioned becoming your own best friend, I really felt that in my heart because I relate to you - I think lockdown has given me this chance to get to know myself and be comfortable without a proper friendship group and a best friend for the first time. Hopefully things will look up for you, me and all of us ☺️
enjoy those spontaneous moments in college! i wish i had done more of those.
This came at such a good time. Due to covid and studying abroad and studying from my family home I haven't had the chance to really make friends (excluding first year where I had a normal experience but I was dealing with a lot of anxiety). Now going into my fourth year I only have a few people I can gonto but we are not at all close *minus my lovely friend and now flatmate* I hope to join some clubs to combat my feelings of loneliness
외로움을 나만 느끼는게 아니라는 것에서 위로를, 그럼에도 열심히 하루를 보내는 유진님 모습에서 동기부여를 얻어요☺️ 다음 주도 잘 지내보아요💞
I feel like literally sh*t cause it's my second year in college and i still don't have friends or someone to talk to... There are some who take advantage of me, some who suddenly disappear and stop caring about me, some who laugh of me and don't include me in their plans (they talk about them openly right in front of me...)
I don't know what to do with my life cause last year was a real nightmare i didn't want to go to classes nor meet my friends from school (true friends). I don't even wanna tell my true friends how's my day going cause they don't put the e same interest i put in what I'm saying as i do when they tell me something. I've never felt this bad in my life and my heart is so in pain
유진님 저도 지금 서울온지 일주일 됐는데.. 좋기도 하면서 외로운 감정이 커요 유진님 영상 보면서 공감 많이 했어요 ㅠㅜ 솔직하게 감정 말해줘서 고마워요. 유진님 늘 응원합니다 !!! 💜💙
im still so happy to see you back ㅠㅠ
Social media is showing just fun part of everyone. So, you do not have to feel depression. You looks so cute:)
love ya!
아자 끝나고 집 가는 중인데 딱 올라오다니 ㅠㅠ 최고에요 ❤️
힘들었던 한 주 였는데 유진님 브이로그 덕분에 위로가 되었네요 ｡:°ஐ 남은 주말도 알차게 보내야겠어요 😶🌫️
I can totally understand that feelings cause I’m a little bit of a loner. But I just tried to get away from that feeling whenever I was. Now I learned lessons from your video, which is sometimes It needs to just let flow that away. I really appreciate that:-) I love your mood very much🤍See ya
my first year of uni i didn’t really make new friends bc i thought id distant myself from my friends back home which is wild thinking back but!! Definitely a process when moving to a new city!
자기 자신이 어떤 상태인지 잘 파악하고 우울한 상태에서 벗어나려고 스스로 노력하는게 멋있어요! 제가 혼자 살기 시작하면서 똑같이 느꼈거든요.. 그걸 말로 잘 표현해주시고 공유해주셔서 고마워요 저도 유진님처럼 침대에서 한번 일어나보고 루틴을 바꿔보려고 해볼게요 영상 잘 봤어요~!
This is such a relatable video.❤️
It is common for first year of college/ university to be lonely
You are not alone girl❤️💕
Keep up your spirit and love you so much , my favorite vlogger girl😘
Youjin!! Love you to the moon and back!!
너무 힘들어하지 말구 그 순간마저 즐길수 있길 바랄게여 ㅎㅎㅎ 그리고 위험한 일 없기를❤️❤️❤️
I’m a fourth year student and this is my last year. I felt the same way my freshman year of college. It sure was hard to make friends in the beginning but just a reminder you can always goto parties or do all the college stuff. You can simply enjoy going to movies by yourself, shopping by yourself and working out. By the time you are in your fourth year, you get tired of it and bored with parties honestly. Like me and my friends did all of the fun things but now that we are seniors, we goto Resturant and drink wine like old ladies then off to the movies. 😂 Don’t rush yourself to make friends or do all of the college experience, you have more years to come. ❤️
Suggestion, join a club, or a sorority and add yourself to the Instagram friends list on your university. You can meet people like that. I found my friend from the cultural center on campus. ☺️
yass!!! I’ve waiting for a video
Literally undergrad was not a good time for me. I had some friends but overall, I felt more alone than anything!!
omg you're so sweet🥺🥺 thank you so much for this video! 🤍🤍🤍
hay what happened, can we talk Luana?
Omg I can relate to you 100% but always stay healthy ! ❤️❤️❤️
Hey so I’m in my 5th semester and I lost my best friend so I’m completely alone so I’m watching these videos to have a routine on my own without relying on other people :/ hope I find good people and stop hurting and start learning new things and experiences too :)
저도 요즘 언니가 느끼는 그 감정을 느끼고 있어요. 친구들이 놀러가는걸 보면 나만 이러고있나 싶고, 본가에서 많이 떨어진 곳에서 대학을 다니다보니 전부 새로 만들어가야해서 너무 지칠때가 많더라구요. 그날그날 하고싶은걸 하고 먹고싶은걸 먹고 가끔 룸메이트와 밤새 떠들다보면 이런 생각이 사라질때가 있어서 그렇게 지내고있어요:) 곧 추석이라 오늘 본가에 온다고 이제서야 영상을 보는데 12시가 지나 제 생일이 되어서 괜히 언니 영상 선물받은것 같고 그렇네요🥰 오늘도 영상 고마워요! 언니의 생활이 행복해지길 바라요❤
이번 영상은 다른 영상들보다 더더욱 자기 자신을 위한 기록용 영상처럼 느껴졌어요 ! 스스로를 가꿀 줄 알고 내면적인 부분도 섬세하게 다룰 줄 아는 모습을 칭찬해드리고 싶어요 :) 유진님을 처음 뵀던 2년전과 지금은 많이 다른 모습이지만 유진님으로부터 self-care가 중요하다는 것을 계속해서 배우고 있어요. 이번 영상은 우리 모두가 일상 속에서 충분히 느낄 수 있는 상황과 감정에 대해 솔직하게 이야기해줘서 더욱 더 공감됐고 요근래 올라온 영상 중에 제일 좋았어요 ! 특히 썸네일보면서 제니 solo 뮤비의 한 장면 같다는 생각도 들었다요(?) 다음 영상도 기다릴께욧>< Love, youjin.
Your vlog reminds me so much of myself, when i was in college and everyone who lives nearby goes home and i was left alone pretty much during my whole college 😅. But i did enjoy that time and once heavy studies started i was glad to be left alone and focus. But everything changes all the time..step after step we go up. This was pure vlog:). HATS OFF TO YOU:).
저도 나 빼고 다 재미있고 알차고 생산적인 하루를 보내는 것 같다는 생각을 자주 해요.
사실 그럴 때 유진님 브이로그를 많이 보면서 "나도 저렇게 열심히 생산적인 하루를 보내야지"라고 생각하곤 했는데 유진님도 그런 생각을 하신다는 게 뭔가 저를 멍해지게 만드네요...
누군가도 저를 보면서 그런 생각을 했을 수도 있겠다는 생각이 들어요.
왠지 모르게 위로가 되네요ㅎㅎ 오늘도 영상 너무너무 잘 봤고 오늘도 유진님 영상을 통해 삶을 알차게 시작할 수 있는 힘을 얻고 가네요😊
i needed this video so badly. incoming freshman in 2 days and i felt this >>>>
We love your spontaneous videos too!!:)))
'환경이 바뀐다고 바로 행복해지지 않는다 똑같이 주어진 환경에서 네가 어떻게 사느냐 얼마나 긍정적으로 생각하느냐가 상황을 바꾼다'라고 말씀해주신 인강 선생님이 생각나네요 강의 들으면서 정말 감명 깊은 말이라 따로 적어두기까지 했는데 유진님도 똑같은 말을 하셔서 깜짝 놀랐어요🤭 정말 배울 점이 많은 유진님... 고3이라 영상을 이제 봐서 조금 늦었지만 오늘도 좋은 영상 감사해요❤️
할 수 있는건 멀리서 응원하는 것 뿐이라 속상속상 억지로는 말고 힘내고 싶을 때 힘냅시다!💜
언니 브이로그 너무 좋아 ㅠㅠㅠ자주 올려줘요
Hope things work out the way you want it to be, it doesn’t always work like that but u got this. I guess in life there’s a phase like dat… when things r not wrong n right
어저께부터 유진님 영상 정주행 하고 있어요 ㅠㅠ 영상 편집 스타일도 너무 제 스타일이고, 마인드도 제 스타일, 미래의 꿈도 저랑 똑같고,,,ㅠㅠ 패션도 외모도 다 제 워너비... 영어도 첫 영상 봤을때보다 점점 잘 들리는 느낌...?? ㅎㅎ
literally always looking forward to kelly's vid!! yayy
월요일에 첫출근하고 맞이하는 긴연휴에요. (출근하자마자 토일월화수 쉰다니 좋음) 어딘가 나만 동떨어지고 섞이지 못하고, 원래 이렇게 혼자 헤쳐나가야하는 건가 싶고, 외롭다.는 감정보다는 불편함? 이 더 맞는 것 같아요. 그런 감정으로 일주일을 살고 이제야 고향올라가는 길에 유진님 브이로그를 봤어요. 댓글 먼저 보고, 유진님 영상보고 위안받고 가요🙂ㅋㅋ 새출발은 나만 힘들고 어려운 게 아니었어! 누구나 힘들지만 이 시기도 잠깐일테니, 나만의 적응법을 찾아 잘 버텨봐야겠어요
just take time i remember the first year of college that was so awkward when i met a lot of new ppl and environment that i couldn’t fit in. i still felt awkward being around my classmates but i found a group whom i could feel comfortable with
진짜 보이는게 다가 아니라는걸 느끼네요🥺 제가보기엔 유진님은 미국에서 즐겁게 대학생활하고 계셔서 부러운데..ㅜㅜ 역시 누구나 자신만의 스트레스가 있다는걸 다시 깨닫고갑니다
enjoy that time being alone, you have to learn how to be alone and feel positive on it. And when you draduate and get a job, you will discover staying alone is soooo improtant and valuable.
oh,i forgot to mention ! quitting your phone!! or just try to go out and have fun without your phone. Plz try it out and you will find it is sooo interesting
the people who see their potential generate a different type of aura from which people are scared or jealous. I think it's like we feel this way but we should also think they're wasting their time in clubs and doing stupid things with their so called best friends that wouldn't be there in next new year with them. What I do is I talk to strangers and I try to be social.If you're an Introvert what you can do is make friends with animals and your favourite place or cafe manager or helper or anyone.and This gurl is doing so good she inspired me a lot 🥰❤️❤️❤️
저도 유진님 말에 너무 공감해요! 대학들어가고나서 자취도 하고, 새로운도시에서 혼자 살아보고 하니까, 자신을 가꾸는 마음가짐이 정말 중요하더라구요! 유진님도 저도 같이 힘냈으면 좋겠네용👍👍
I'm starting uni next month, and I'm moving to a big city. It will be my first time living alone in a big city...I'm so scared but excited. I'm already homesick even though I'm still home and I know I will be really lonely but I think every person will go through loneliness at some point in life. I've never had many friends, so I hope to make some. I wish you all the best ♡♡♡
honestly I’m the exact same position and it’s so scary, yet I think it’s all part of life and you become a better person for it:)) you can do it!!
@@sherinnn exactly!! Aww thank you, I eish u all the best :))
The most important thing is to feel comfortable with the friends and friendships you are developing + doing some good extracurriculars/동아리s for the CV xD
Second semester, made a friend group right away in the first semester and now i've decided to stop talking to them for good, even though it's very scary i just want to feel at peace, even though it's lonely suddenly i don't think much about how these people are going to treat me today or what drama i'll have to deal with over and over again. Being alone from the start (personally i think) it is a really good way to find yourself and your balance, your values, be comfortable with yourself first so you don't make the same mistakes like in hs etc.
Thank u so much, this was the same feeling I am having now
아직 대학생이 아니지만 솔직한 영상 내용이 많이 공감되었어요! 유진님을 항상 응원하고! 대학생활하는 동안 마치 안 일어날 것 같은 운 좋고 설레는 일도 생겼으면 합니다💚💚
그런 외로움은 아마 인싸라해도 느끼는걸거에요.외로움은 친구같은거 아닐까요.잘하고 있어요.늘 영상들 잘보고 있습니다😊