HOW TO WEAR A HAIR SYSTEM CONFIDENTLY
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If you wanna rock the bald look then great, (I find it easier) or if you choose to wear a hair system then that’s cool to... just do what makes YOU happy forget the anxiety thing. It’s totally down to the individual
For sure, you gotta do what you gotta do
sometimes, im tired of being bald
Bald doesn’t suit everyone. I felt really angry bald. I wear fibres now but they clog up the bath and I’m sick of them so I can’t wait to get a system. So many Hollywood actors wearing systems and you wouldn’t know it...Brad Pitt , Leornado Dicaprio and Ben Affleck I hear. Do what makes you happy.
Bruh this comment makes me feel good , I luv you
John Wayne wore a wig and didn’t hide the fact,when photographers asked “is that real hair” he would reply” yeah it’s real hair, not mine but it’s real” and laugh it off.women wear wigs regularly, so fuck it wear a wig when you want if you don’t like the shaved head look.
Women use wigs all the time, lots of makeup, silicone breast etc, and we are afraid of using a hair system? F*ck no. If you look great with a wig, just do it.
Even though I don't suffer from the same hair loss issues, I love these videos! All about owning yourself and loving who you are!
Thats what we are trying to do man. Thanks for watching 🙏
Ikr?
Sure its nice to feel confident, but you want to look like something someone else will fancy, no point being confident if everyone thinks you're a munter
Not everyone can shave their head and look good, only some guys can pull it off. Some guys genuinely need hair to look good.
True
right on! i dont get why poeple are always pressuring others to shave their head... its a certain style and some people cannot pull it off, me being one of them!
I was thinking same before shave the head but then I was happy I wasn't afraid anymore
@@luka-gd6pg Probably because you turned out to look half decent bald. If you ended up looking like a complete idiot, as I would, then you'd hold your original opinion.
Samuel115s true
God damn bro, hair loss really is the vanity killer for men. I mean, you look 10x better with hair. But once you shave, it is like you say "fuck it I don't care." But god damn the hair looks so much fucking better.
Yes it does
True but for what its worth a complete bald look looks much better than balding.
But it’s just one of many characteristics that attract. We guys tend to fixate on hair being the be all, end all, of physical traits that dominate attraction… but a confident man who has chosen the harder road less travelled (and it doesn’t necessarily have to be hair loss but lets apply it in this example), always ALWAYS pulls the higher quality mate. That doesn’t mean they won’t be physical attractive. They could be everything you want. Dig deep. 🤙🏻
You can go with that or change it hair systems aren't worn because of the stigma of wearing them tell me how great being bald is when you do it for a decade say all your 20s or 30s and you was invisible to women the whole time only getting scraps at the bottom of the barrel the choice is yours I went down that road of just shave it bro all you will find is loneliness and pain
New to this channel but it's become one of my faves. You're very honest and intelligent. Thanks, I've needed to hear a lot of what you've said.
Great video. I really like your focus on switching up the styles of your videos! Keep it up, love the live interview ones too! All the best to you and to those that breakthrough.
Thank you man. Really glad you enjoy the content. Really appreciate it
I have not embraced the bald look, but thanks to your videos I do buzz now. I just love how positive you are man and its been helping. I have a tattoo on my arm that I hid for a long ass time with compression sleeves and so on. Girls I knew said it looked fine, but for me I felt uncomfortable with it. it was until last month I stopped giving a damn and just rocked it and moved on with my life. One thing I noticed ( nobody gives a damn and many liked it ) All that useless energy of fear wasted for no damn reason at all! Owning the look is living peaceful.
lol " He told this bird " your fast correction was funny. Appreciate the videos bro!
Cape Urban 😂
@@Baldcafe bird haha glad to see people still use that word...hit the nail on the head with that.
Amen brotha. Just clean shaved my head for the first time on saturday. Girlfriend likes it, i like it. Head is smooth as silk. Keep it going.
Michael Mosier good man ✊
@@chaseattaway1832 uh yes she is around. Marrying her in less than 2 months. Head still smooth as silk.
If it makes people feel better, that's amazing.
i think the main thing of this video is that you need to be happy...if u wanna go full bald or use a wig is up to you as long as you still confident enough to tell others whats going on without stressing/feeling anxiety/etc... rock the look u want and be happy
Hey man. I rly enjoy your vids bro. Thanks Akh
Awesome! Thanks for watching 😊
I don't think you have to come clean immediately like that guy did. After a few dates, if things are getting more serious then you can tell her.
Exactly.It was too early
Agreed. I think being open in the first 5 minutes will just put someone off
@@adiheale2926 Agreed. She may think you deceived her, or she may realize that she likes the real you too much to sacrifice losing you over hair.
"I don't date bald guys."... is a BONUS. If you're rejected based on your baldness, you should be grateful for it. It reveals to you what kind of woman she is and the earlier you know the better. Much better to realize from the start while it's easy for you to just turn around and walk away, than having your love building up over time and get her true personalty as a nasty surprise.
Depends how old the woman saying that is. If she's 21 and says that she doesnt want to date a bald guy, then I can kind of understand that. We can be very superficial when we're young. Looks are our priority. Being bald, overweight/too skinny, flat chested, having a big nose, etc etc... whatever. Too many to list here. All those things can be seen as flaws when we are young. As we age, that stuff becomes less important. Our priorities change. Our tastes change. We grow out of being arrogant superficial little shits lol. Beauty fades very quickly. Things like personality and intelligence and compatibility become much more important.
Any woman who would reject you for hair loss is probably a pump and dump anyway.
@@signoguns8501 That sounds like a very cheap excuse to me. I consider 21 to be an adult and wouldn't want an "arrogant superficial little shit" whether she was 21 or 50. If she hasn't got her priorities straight by 21 it's better to leave her beside. It shouldn't be hard to find someone who started to see things like that as secondary 5 years earlier.
@@Josh-fp2qn Couldn't have said it better myself...
@@MrSweck71 I'm sure you were a perfect human being, no doubt. But some of us arent so lucky. I'm just saying... being bald is just one of many "unattractive" physical traits. We can all be superficial when selecting boyfriends/girlfriends. Most people have refused to date someone because they're too short or too tall or too whatever. Take your pick. Refusing to date someone for being bald is really no worse than refusing to date someone for being flat chested or having a big nose. We're all guilty of that behavior. Even the bald guys...
I got my first hairpiece a few months ago. I absolutely love it. With friends/ppl I know I just makes a joke of it - I say yeh, I prayed to the lord for my hair to re-grow and he heeded my call - praise the lord! Everyone I know say it looks great, totally natural and makes me look about 5 yrs younger. With other ppl who haven't met me before at first I felt a bit self -conscious and was thinking 'can they tell'? But I am so confident in how natural it looks that I honestly don't think anyone can tell (just like the guy in the video - the girl had no idea). And if they do suspect - so what?! They aren't gonna say anything anyway.
And the bottom line is this - at first you feel a bit self conscious when you go out, but very quickly I honestly forgot it was there. It is so light (poly base) I forget I am even wearing it. The self-consciousness very quickly fades and disappears. The biggest challenge was going into work wearing it - there was a bit of banter, and funny remarks but most ppl quickly complemented it and respected me for having the 'front' to wear it for work. On day 2 at work no-one even mentioned it - you have to remember that you are not that important to others - they have their own issues/problems and really couldn't care less if you are wearing a hairpiece or not! After a week I promise anyone who wears it you will forget all about it, as it feels and looks so natural you don't even know you are wearing it. And finally I had my first date in ages last week - 2 hrs face to face over a restaurant table during daylight hours and 100% she never suspected anything I know it (again, like the girl in the video). She never looked at my hair once as if she thought it was a bit odd. We have been in regular touch since, and she has never mentioned my hair in her texts/calls. And did I feel more confident in going on the date with hair for the first time in years compared to dating as my natural self as a bald guy? I would have to say yes, 100% more confident and happy with how I looked.
ocelot salarian where you get it done
I live in the UK - I got it done in a salon called Simone Thomas located in a town called Bournemouth. The stylist did a great job!
I live in the UK and I had the hairpiece fitted at a salon called Simone Thomas in a town called Bournemouth. It cost £385 with styling/cutting. The actually hairpiece was £350. But you can buy it much cheaper online, but as it was my first hairpiece I let the salon buy it for me. Next time I'll probably purchase it myself and just go to the salon for styling/cutting. It does feel a bit hot when the weather is very sunny. But you get used to that. It definitely does not feel heavy at all. It is so light I forget I am wearing it! I am 48 yrs old :) @Abubakr #Apostate
No problem - happy to help. You can exercise but definitely not swim. The chlorine (in a pool) would damage the hairpiece fabric and sea saltwater would probably not do it much good either. If you wear a waterproof swimming cap it would be ok.
It's very secure even in the windiest conditions and will never blow off providing you tape it on properly!
If a ladyfriend was to run her fingers through it well ...I think she would notice especially if she got 'vigorous'! And if she started tugging and pulling then your secret would be out I'm afraid! 😂😁
The stylist said it would last about 3 months, but I've had it over 4 months now and it's still fine. But I don't wear it everyday - probably 3-4 days per week. I hope it will last at least 6 months before I buy a replacement. You can change the style yes - brush forward, side partings etc - but brushing back is not possible with my hairpiece. It would reveal the tape at the front and the fabric wouldn't stay in place if brushed back. Hope that helps!
@@Abubakr #Apostate
I should have added - don't worry about the hairpiece getting wet in the rain - that is fine. Obviously plain, untreated water will not damage it and you have to wash it in water with a special fabric shampoo fairly often (never use ordinary shampoo for real hair!) - at least once a week really if you wear it 3-4 day per week - otherwise is starts to smell! @@Abubakr #Apostate
Hi man, I like your video. By this example you showed to us you remarked some very impertant things we have to keep in mind. If you can´t accept yourself, that´s the key question. Besides, being bald looks great at you, but: You have got a nice beard, without, I´m not sure about it. I am using a hairsystem, I do not like at all surgical operations, finally I look like someone of the Adams family. I don´t like to fix it with glue for weeks or month, I like to take it away going to bed every evening. When I met my boy friend I mentioned to have it, he couln´d believe, so I schwowed him. Most of the time I use it out of the house, sometimes not using a base-cap and I feel very comfortable.
Just find what works for you man. If you feel 100% confident with the hair system then keep going with it man. But if you have doubts, just be your true self as Max Desilva would say.
"sorry, l don't date bald guys", this is the worst nightmare to a bald guy right there, its painful to hear.
Just laugh and say “me neither. Looks like we have a lot in common.”
Good, it shows you the true nature of girls that are shallow, you wouldn’t want to live the rest of your life with them. Unless you yourself are shallow, find one that is not shallow and accepts you for who you are even thou you are balding
@@rockymckay1705 just say : I don't date aliens who are putting make-up on to look more like a girl
@@angryyoungman4389 no, thats a little pathetic to say, bro
@@rockymckay1705 Shitip idly
im guy that can rock a bald hair at the morning and a justin bieber hair cut at the evening, i don't really care, is really funny to surprise people with your hair pull out or pull of game lmao
Ah! you live to rock both looks? thats cool
I considered looking into one at one time, but that was just a better option to consider when I was still painting my head. Since I shaved it a year and a half ago, now I wouldn’t. To me natural (be it bald) is far better. And I wouldn’t feel confident if I felt I had to explain “my hair”. Maybe some guys can wear one and feel completely good about it. Or are they really being honest with themselves. To each his own though. I couldn’t. Great video!
My reason also for not really considering this option. I would feel far less confident with one because id be worried someone might notice or it will start fraying at the edges or something.
Baldcafe Agreed. There are better things in life to think about and enjoy than being concerned someone is going to notice your hair isn’t real, or try to avoid someone being sat directly behind or over you.
If you are near 40 or over then yea it may not make much sense because at that age your potential dating pool of women would be cut in half any way but for the younger men 20s and 30s who want to be with younger hot women because that's natural having realistic looking hair is all that matters a 40 something man at that age is mainly looked at as a provider work slave to pay the bills hence all the divorces and cheating around that age too each his own but I'm still somewhat young 32 and I refuse to throw in the towel and only appeal to old women or single moms looking at me as a paycheck and not sexual attraction
tried one for 2 days made me paranoid went back and had it removed,it was lifting on the edge already.
I shaved my head and when people ask why i just say because i felt like it i do wanna get a system or something cause i miss styling my hair. I was fortunate to have hair most of my 20's started losing it at 26 27
The guy speaking on this video can get away with the bald look cause he looks good without hair not everyone can getaway with it. It's a big test of self-esteem.
no, you just think that because you are not used looking at yourself without hair. after 2-3 months you would feel differently
U are a mentor man 😄❤
After shaving my head for many years, I said fuck it, and got a hair system, I love it. It looks totally real, and no one who meets me has any idea (I know this because I got feedback about my awesome hair from a third party).
To me, it's artifice. Like, makeup. If someone asks, I don't lie. For now, I love it, it's fun to have a hairstyle... and I have changed it twice already. It's an option, same as shaving. One does not make your more or less of a man.
It does make you less of a man in a sense. Excessive vanity and insecurity is not a masculine trait. Females don't like that.
Most men don't like women with excessive makeup. Being someone you're not is always a bad look....for yourself and to others.
Ryan Turner your whole comment has very little logic... how can you dig at a man for trying to give himself a nice appearance?? Everyone does things to alter their look wether its makeup or going to the gym... (yes i said gym because that wouldn't be your natural body unless you made it that way by working out) look at rapper tv actors or anything that has a big public following... they all have veneers and hair transplant or hair pieces... even footballers... you can say females don't like it because they actually probably do because they can be just as shallow on looks.... he's not being someone he's not... being someone your not is more down to personality... sorry but I have put you in your place on this discussion..l nice try
@@drugsbunny1884 There's a difference between living an active lifestyle and taking care of your of your body to look and feel better. But actual mental health, which is a huge issue in today's world, is more important. Hiding and covering up your baldness because you think you look awful, and having self negative talk is a horrible place to be. If he's so happy, then why is he on this show spending his first date explaining himself? He's living this lie. He thinks this makes him happy but I'm telling you it's a burden on mental health.
Same goes for plastic surgery, excessive make up, etc. You're essentially saying You dislike the way you look more naturally, so you're going to unnaturally make yourself look another way because you value other's opinions way too much.
Ryan Turner you sound like a bitter jealous man who can't stand that other men are able to be happy... I can see yo hurting inside... I bet you wrote that comment with a bright red face... you want some tissue mate?? Mental health?? Lol wtf are you talking about you loser.... you will actually find that guys that feel the need to build muscle are the same... they are changing their appearance to feel accepted... whereas going to the gym just to run or not build muscle would be healthy...
@@ryanturner8577 Masculinity is a social construct and your normative committment to its continuation is not a substitute for logic :)
did she meet him for another date I do wonder ... I hope so , honesty beats any head of hair !!
I’d like to get peoples thoughts on what the best way to tell people (mostly women I’m interested in) that I wear a hair system? I don’t care who knows, as I wear my system because I choose to. I like having hair, just like I’m sure people wear tattoos or piercings or implants. So I’m not worried about people noticing, not that anyone ever has, but what are your thoughts on when is a good time to tell a woman you’re into that I’m wearing a system and what are some good ways to discuss it? Please comment and let me know I’m very interested in different thoughts on this subject. Thanks.
Honestly that’s a really great question and I’m not sure how to answer it myself. My gut tells me to just mention it if it’s appropriate given the conversation topic. If it doesn’t come up then I guess there’s no need to make a big deal about it. If it does come up own it and say it how you did above. I like it so I wear it.
I don’t get why there is such a mystery to this at all. A picture is worth a thousand words. I’ve yet to see any hair system that doesn’t scream fake hair. Unless the person you want to tell is blind, it shouldn’t require disclosure unless you feel better about saying something because hair systems are detectable at 30 feet away.
@@famfam5922 Personally, I’ve never been able to spot someone wearing new hair systems. No one also has ever been able to tell when I wore one either. It’s possible that they lied to me but I don’t know why everyone would lie to me when I make it abundantly clear that it not something I’m hiding or ashamed of. Which is why I posed the question. It’s also possible that some people are better at spotting it I guess. As a magician, the idea of not bringing attention to the “trick” and the “trick” will not be noticed has been very true.
He makes a big mistake by telling her about it, I've been wearing hair systems for 30 years, been married twice and both of my wives have never found out about it, that is how good they are now, they are no longer the "wig" that granddad used to wear
No it's not a mistake to tell, because if he were going to have a relationship with this woman and she was around him all the time obviously he would have to take his hair off at some point and then she would find out that way, better to tell it in the beginning then to have an awkward moment later on
Id imagine you have to be careful at times though to keep others from knowing. Does that not create a level of anxiety?
No not at all, there's nothing to be careful about, it looks like it's growing right out of my head and there's nothing I can't do that you would do with a normal head of hair, after all these years I don't think anyone would believe me if I said it wasn't my own
Pain in the ass to keep a secret of that size for so long
Retro lmfao!!!!!! 😂🤣
Well girls are so confident with weaves. If anything they become more confident with it. So guys do not even sweat it.
5:00 men NEED TO ROCK THIS LOOK!
I’ve been bald for one year and liked it but sometimes I miss hair! Hair systems I believe are great if you wanna have the hair! Hair one year and bald the next!
Exactly. Sometimes you just wanna shave off your beard and rock a certain hairstyle. I don’t see anything wrong with a hairpiece as long as you are not insecure about being bald.
Lmao the thumbnail!
Nailed it
Love the subtitles, he was going to get a "her transplant" ah computer speech recognition is great! Can't pick up on the accent in spite of the unambiguous context clues of the whole conversation previous!
A hair piece makes you look younger and less discriminated against. Yes, the same people that are totally against discrimination of any kind have no problem making opinions about an older person and discriminating against them.
I reckon that even if girl didn’t reject their guy for hairloss then they’d even think that they would rock an smp too and the hair system is not a blanket and I hate when I get rejected by women too 😬😬😬😬
Can yo do a podcast with Nick shell, think that will be really cool!
Yeah I've had that request a few times now so I am sure I can make it happen. I'm still trying to figure him out though because I agree with a lot of the points he raises but some of his videos have concerned me in the past. is there anything specific you would like us to discuss?
Nah. Do a podcast with Max DaSilva instead.
Nick Shell is a POS. He’s admitted he strictly makes videos for the cash, NOT to help people
Totally agree with this guy!
I could tell -- also -- price does not equal realistic. If it's cut right, and you have the face and head shape - you can look great with a $99 full poly system.
I just want to know and affordable hair system that I don’t have to change every month I can’t find any videos on CZcams
I unfortunately can not rock a bald look so I use finasteride and minoxidil. The dating maker is extremely cut throat
A few years ago maybe i would have thought about it
Once you've rocked the bald look for a while, no need to go back to having hair really.
Baldcafe disagree. I am 52 and have been bald since my 20s but it gets fucking boring.
i thouht somtimes u have wrong sid of the proboganda you sent but i had i transplant my self and it cost me alot of time energi and monye! and no results! u had right i had wrong
4:39 “non surgical herpes” 😂😂😂
The accent was tough tho. I had to slow down the video
Im interested in the thing about growing a big bushy beard when u are bald - isnt it a kind of cover up (ie to distract from the bald head) - interested in your thoughts - cheers
Yeah a fantastic beard can definitely take the attention away from having no hair. not to mention growing a beard is fun and takes patience.
5 minutes in (picture is really bad), I agree! Never have 'bushy sides' with nothing on top! 5.55 in, he has a good 'bald look' Ahh the experience saying "I do not date bald guys" has hit his confidence! Problem is, he is still bald under it, and he should not be embarrassed for being 'bald'! The woman saying the 'connection' is more important, which is so true!
Holy fucking simp. If you honestly believe that, you're in for a hard life. The truth is, women are far more superficial than men. Seems counter intuitive, but its true. Where people get confused is, women will overlook appearance in favor of money, where men won't because we don't need to. We will overlook appearance in favor of personality. That is, until we realize that they're basically all the same.
It's like everything else in life,once you get used to it,you don't even want hair any more.
Yeah, that is just bullshit and you know it.
Kratos, Walter White, Riddick, Thanos, Drax, Agent 47... all mega cool characters that are bald
All of the right head shape to full it off
I am still not sure if my hair loss is due to the enormous stress and PTSD I experience, but still considering a hair system, if it will look natural on longer hair. I am a very aesthetic person, I just like a certain type of look and clothes, and my face and skull are definitely not designed for being bald. Another thing is that I'm into acting and I just look more interesting with hair, same with making some extra money as a model. :(
But still, my insecurity over this is enormous...
How far back has your hairline gone?
@@brokenbutterfly3178 I'm taking pills, so it's not as bad yet, but those (hair) are still progressively thinning, so after I'm gonna get any vauge stability in my life I will fund myself a hair transplant (I am way more attractive with hair).
@@pawelzabicki7785 I think the best thing to do is hair transplant and finasteride and the time to do it is now or during the early stages of hairloss. People make the mistake of seeking treatments when 50% of their hair has already fallen off.
@@pawelzabicki7785 as far as thinning goes, do you loose hair in the shower or while brushing? Plus how old are you?
@@brokenbutterfly3178 31, depending on certian time period I'm finding them everywhere, on the shower wall, on desk, computer, phone, etc., when I'm brushing with my hand.
I'm honest with me wearing a hair system lol
No knock on any of you guys who choose a hairpiece. If you take that route, more power to you and best of luck!
I can just say as a married man of 20+ years... When I finally decided to say goodbye to my thining hair and shave it all off, my wife (who's opinion is most important), my coworkers and my friends all backed me up on going clean shaven. For me, at least, it's been a very great inflection point when I embraced the loss of my head-hair and took pride in the new/older man I'd become.
Best advice I can give is to be the best person you can be. Whether that's with real hair, fake hair or no hair!
Paul Bowen ....nice bloke 🤟
Great lad. Will have him on the podcast soon 👍
thew only way is t b upfront a nd tell everyone otherwise u will b paranoid about being found out.after only 2 days mine was coming away on the edge that was the advanced hair studio load off shit tbh,you would become a slave to it anyway its a tough call going bald but you must talk about it to close friends family etc,tell them how u feel and that u need support.,my mistake was not doing that and getting lied to by clinic salemen but it was different in the early nineties blokes were growing pony tails and i was losing mine,not many blokes had shaved heads and if they did they would b considered thugs/leary skinheads,this channel is great for anxious men looking for help.advice real shame we didnt have years ago,good luck all and b strong............
6:33 The guy in the back :D
What do you think about smp head tattoos ?
I mean to each their own, but I think that's one of the worst options. People like to touch bald or buzzed heads and if they see a short buzz cut and rub their hand over it and feel it's smooth they're gonna know somethings up. It's also permanent so theirs no going back on it and if it's not done well it looks really bad.
@@ooooswain people can feel hair system too.. and smp does fade after 2-3-4 years.
All this is good, but ain’t nothing as good as the hair God have us, but it still looks handsome
wonder how excited she was to tell her friends she's been out with a guy with a wig
Or how funny it was a bald guy tried to hit her up.i just hit it and split luckily I'm very good looking which goes good with the fake hair no one ever finds out no need to be honest when that would happen
To anyone who needs to hear this: whatever choice you make, make it with the foresight that you will be happy and confident. And remember, there are billions of partners in the world, you will find someone who falls in love with you for what's in your head, not what's on top.
I love bald cafe 😂 this dude does everything
Can you grow your hair out; I’m curious too see how it will look?
I will do at some point (maybe) If I'm being honest I'm kind of afraid to see how bad it looks. I'm not sure if I want to put myself through that again. I'm curious to try a hair piece though and if I did I would have to grow out my existing hair. I'd only try a hair piece so that I was more educated to talk about it though, not because I don't want to be bald, just to clarify.
@@Baldcafe awesome! :) Please do it!
@@Baldcafe Would love to see this video
I was focusing on ur eyes and the pupil "the black circle" in ur eye is square ! Wtf is it because of the light?
must be a reflection
A lot of the hair systems look amazing and real these days, but I think it comes with constant fear and that is why I didn't opt for it. I'll always be worried of it getting blown away or detached.
Way too much hassle with maintenance and keeping them on. I would rather keep my own hair instead wearing someone's pubes on my head. So I guess medication, transplant or don't bother and shave it off.
How about micropigmentation, no fear of falling out, no fear of hiding
One day I'm sure I'll reach the point it's better to shave my head, never thought about wearing a hairpiece though it always seemed like something men did back in the old days since there were no transplant options or anything.
Plus I'm sure we've all seen the comedy skits where they come off which wouldn't be good, although they can be attached to your hair if they're advanced I'm sure.
But it is interesting to think about the fact that to us as guys a hairpiece is kind of alien to think about, but women wear wigs and weaves all the time
it seems like the girl in that video is a considerate and lovely person, where did you get this video mate, could I have the youtube link maybe if there is one :)
rio20d czcams.com/video/ebD2Fl1Y2rs/video.html
It’s from a uk tv show called first dates.
You might be able to find the full episode somewhere 👍🏽
Nah, she’s vain. It’s like saying “sorry, but I don’t date women who wear push up bras”
Not only men wearing systems. Women are aswell.
So true, I wonder why only one has a stigma attached
@@mikeparrott8304 toxic masculinity
@@koopag8
Masculinity isn't toxic.
This is how i see wearing a wig; getting bald is anxious by itself while trying to cover your baldness will gives further boost to your anxiety!! Its basically a double anxiety that you have to deal with, try to embrace the baldness in the first place
Yeah, my thoughts exactly.
It's interesting. I truly think its dependant upon the person. I could not get out the door without having a panic attack about being bald so I wore a hat every day. I avoided new job opportunities in an office setting because of the fear and it ruined my relationships with people because I couldnt get myself to take it off in certain settings. It was paralyzing for me. Then, I got the hair system and I became more confident and got a good job where people at my work know about it because I told one of them and it doesnt actually give me anxiety that they know. It gives me anxiety if they ever saw what I would look like bald. So for me, it's just the one axis of fear but DEFINITELY could be a compounded type thing for some . Just depends! All the best fellas.
I don’t see it as trying to hide my baldness. I am totally open with people that I am getting a system and I am only doing it because I want a change. I find it really demeaning when people saying I ”rock the bald look” - we don’t tell people they rock the fat look/ginger look/nerdy look/etc. I am looking forward to having options again - if I want longer hair, I can just buy some.
I tried to embrace bald. Man I just looked fugly. With hair I look good.
@@AlexHarrisDigital Same here. I tried the shaved and bald look for a long time and it didn't work for me. No one is under any obligation to be happy and content with being bald. I have been wearing a hair piece for the past 5 months and I will absolutely never go without one again. It has done wonders for my self esteem and I really don't care what people think at this point.
He’s told this bird 😂
I want to see more guys rock the combover look
No
Hell no
Tf
If we loss the ability to see clearly we use spectacle. Is it a natural solution to carry a spectacle on your nose? Do a person ever try to not use spectacle and pass his/her life with the disability to see clearly ? Is it natural ? Obviously all answer will negative. So what's the problem if a person don't have hair going to use hair system? Logically both are same. right? If you have defects and if you have chance to recover it by natural or Artificial why don't you do that ? Using spectacle is not a natural solution. It's a logic.
Going bald is not a disability. The comparison with being able to see clearly is not even remotely the same as going bald. I appreciate your efforts and I agree, if a man feels more comfortable with a hair system then more power to him. However I believe that he majority of men do not need such things to be happy and successful in life. They can do just fine with or without hair.
@@Baldcafe baldness is a defect of a human. If you can't see clearly it's also a defect of a human which I wanted to say . Success in life is different thing its dependent on your brain and skill . But looking and success is not same issue . They are just like different coin .
@@Baldcafe have you ever tried it. I am using it and has changed my life. I don't even feel that anything is on my head, and if someone asks me I am open about it. It's about understanding perspective of others. If not able to accept a man using system, it indicates ones inability to understand others perspective. Their is an industry working upon these systems to make it look more natural and comfortable. And LOL people are debating should one use it or not. Why go for hair transplants then, they are also concealing baldness. And they don't solve the purpose often. It's self care first. Then we think of pussies. Moreover what I have experienced is women feel comfortable being around even if they know you wear a system. If someone wants you to be happy, they will be happy with your decision, rather than forcing their own belief. Look matter not the hair. And women don't care how you manage the look. And it's not necessary that the women is perfect too.
If it is a defect that natural selection would have irradiated male pattern baldness. But we are still here going stronger than ever.
I haven't used one before But I will try one out when I am back in the UK. It will help me understand the whole hair system thing much better.
I'll never wear a wig. But it's me. You can do whatever makes you happy.
Enjoy being invisible to women then or scraping the bottom of the barrel "single moms"enjoy being looked at as a paycheck bill payer because if you are unattractive to a woman and I'm sorry but 99percent of bald men are to almost all women then that's all you are good for I choose to have hair and be sexualy attractive to a woman but ehh each to his own get back to me when you spend a decade or more of just sharing it bro
"Shaving"
Its not surprising that some women are turned off by bald men. Its especially true for younger women. They don't want to date a guy that looks like their dad with a receding hairline. I read a post by a man that was on a dating website as a bald man and got few responses. He started wearing a hair piece and reposted new pics of him with the hair and got a lot more replies from women. It seemed to make him mad that the hair piece made the difference. The good thing is that its acceptable for men to shave their head with a razor now. It wasn't always acceptable. Its certainly alot cheaper to do the bald look. If you have the right shaped head then it looks good.
To be fair you don't need 100 women but just the right one.
@@alessiofe I was generalizing. I do think its harder for a man who loses his hair in his late teens or early twenties to date. I know I noticed my hair loss at 19. Some women were harsh. I took a woman out who told me she enjoyed my company but "couldn't do the bald thing" with a boyfriend. As I said shaving your head makes more sense then a combover like Donald Trump. You're right some women won't care.
You need to have the right head shape and face shape. Face shape is probably more important, but yeah, what is that guy complaining about? Just wear a hair system if it makes that much of a difference.
@@lamentate07 True.
using a hair peice is like the came for girls who wear makeup and expenstions to cover up what they dont like. only hair peices can be fantastic and sometimes makeup can be sometimes too obvious. and im saying that as a woman. i havnt experienced much in the hair peice situation as i havnt dated many men at all but just girls alone its quite sad that they hide behind so much makeup when really the are pretty without it but they cant see it same as men and hair peices. but of course each to their own and what ever makes them happy and i hope that everyone out there that struggles with their looks finds some peace
But if the hair system is actually un detectable then he doesn't need to worry about people discovering it, right?
He hasn't got to worry about about people finding out so he should only be more confident.
Imagine if he married her and then she found out it was a hairpiece then divorces him!
I am just wondering what kind of niche this guy has picked to make a CZcams channel 😃😃😃
I'd really like to see a Minoxidil update
I will do an update at the 1 year mark. Only a few more months to go. In all honest though there hasn't been much change. I'f anything my beard has gotten worse! but I need more time to be sure. It's coming 👍
I'll be looking forward to it. Your videos are very motivating keep up the good work. Greetings from Mexico
I feel like if women can do anything to enhance their looks it’s totally ok for a guy to do the same. I also envy the bald move. I’m in that weird thinning stage where I could get away with topix and rogaine but If I shaved my head people would wonder why the hell I did it because I conceal the crown loss so well. I’m close to going full bald lol
This guy completely talked her out of liking him
Yes it was hard to watch lol I felt sorry for the dude
If, someone asks you if that is your hair, simply reply: Yes, it´s mine. I paid for it.
I feel the same way with women and makeup I think they look much better au naturel
I was seriously considering a hair system but after watching a lot of your videos I decided against it and just go with the bald look and glad I did. I think if your already insecure about your hair then your only really swapping one insecurity for another that being can people tell if it’s real or fake.
I think you are right man. I think if you are not totally accepting that no matter what you are bald, swapping that thin hair for a hair system won't solve your hair loss problems. Not at their root cause anyway. you just gotta get it all out there on the table in my opinion.
Yo where do you live like country or state lol
I live in China at the moment 👍
@@Baldcafe yo thats so cool I'm stuck in tx
I want to go to china or Japan or one of those countries one day
If you use a hair system, how comfortable is it to sleep with it? Do you still go to the gym and sweat under the hair system?
ubtrio08 yeah
Great questions. I'm hoping to have someone with a hair system on the podcast that can answer these questions for us.
Im wearing a hairsystem for 2 years now. You can go to gym easily. Sleeping is normal lol. We live in the year 2019. not 2009
Johnny P do you think i could ask you guys a few questions about hair systems? I have a few before i get mine pretty soon!
Jadc ^?
I had a girl tell me she didn't like bald guys ( I was thinning and rocked a 0 guard, I had a hairline and you couldn't even tell it was that thin back then) I immediately recognized it as a test and I laughed it off and continued to flirt. I remember her rubbing my buzzed head and saying "ew" as we were laying in bed after sex later that night. I now wear a system, not because I am insecure about balding, and believe me I was, but because I honestly like the way I look with hair. Good luck fellas, and remember nothing is more attractive to a woman than confidence!!
Yes!!!
Right on. As long as a man is not insecure about being bald, hair should be a choice. And a hairpiece is better than any of these nasty pharmaceuticals!
The problem with hair Pieces is they can NEVER replace what real hair functions as.
Our Hair is an extension of the nervous system and Acts as Natural Antennas that provide a pathway for information to reach the brain. One reason why people feel bad when they go through hair loss is not simply isolated to loss of Looks, but a loss of their antennas and sensitivity. That’s why Bald Men should Definitely grow a big beard and rock that Viking look. Not only does it look good and provide balance, but it is also very healthy for you to have that extra hair. It serves a very important purpose.
We can receive messages through the hair?
What the fuck are you on about
Lol, you're full of shit. Keep the tinfoil hat on.
What? Is there any truth to that?
So people with hair are getting messages from aliens, lol.
Really unfair, since women never have to tell you about the enhancements that they have gone through.
bad move. don't tell til halfway in the biscuit. 🤣lol
Baldcafe I agree with you mostly, BUT shaving ones head is also a way to not “hide” ones hair loss but it is a way to disguise it if you will. Same with a system; in both cases you are just trying to look better while being bald. Yes if you are terrified of being caught then you are not free but if you can’t shave your head for a week you will become insecure so in a way you’re also not free. I do think both you and the man in the video are as free as it gets with hair loss, either way you’re just trying to look like your best self. 100^ a guy and many do, can rock a system with close to absolute confidence.
I think the difference with going with the shaved head is its pretty much the final form. Balding then Bald. You just cut to the chase and then rock the best look possible. Its all out there on the table. Its only the same if you shave it and then try to tell people you "shave it because you like the look" and not because you are losing your hair.
Baldcafe I definitely get what you’re saying and mostly agree. The problem with the just shave it philosophy is some people legitimately have ugly heads, Very good looking people can have very ugly heads that drastically lowers their physical appearance to the world (you’re lucky and are not one) whether it’s the shape or bumps, moles, birthmarks etc and I think the stigma for wearing a hair system needs to go away and it should be accepted, even embraced and not looked down on. A person isn’t weak nor even vain for wearing a system, they are simply putting something back that they lost. Hair transplants are pretty much accepted but a non surgical form is not? People want to recognize themselves in the mirror. Shaming a system wearer (and I know that’s not what you’re doing) is little different from shaming someone who looses some of their teeth and gets fake ones put in. No one would think that was weird or weak. It’s just replacing something you had naturally with the closest man made alternative. In a world where the Kardashian’s are 60% plastic and rearranged and still worshipped over it’s absurd to think a man should have to hide wearing a hair system, especially if it looks completely natural.
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I think his hair didn't look quite natural, because in the front he had a low hairline, but in the sides it was far away.
I think once you know its a hair piece you can kind of notice. if he hadn't have said anything though I think it would be pretty difficult to detect.
49jubilee i agree, natural hairlines are not as straight as a Lego character..
The sad irony of this is that if hair systems where less stigmatized and more widely used then not only would they be acceptable they would be preferred in the world you would never see any bald men the same as people getting fake teeth however what you have is a stigma passed from men to others and what balding or bald men have is only a few options take medication that will destroy your sex life or the other be rich and afford a ht early in life the rest are stuck with one option and it's a option MOST don't want imagine the concept of fixing bad hair with fixing bad teeth by getting nice new fake teeth one is accepted by society the other not so much and until men want change and options when it comes to things like these we will never have a "CURE" for hair loss only acceptance and invisibility of a life we thought we should have had life is short people you only get one let that sink in do what you need to do to be happy
This video is proof of what is wrong with our society. Social media has expounded on the negative aspects of humans. Vanity has become common, and impossible standards are the goal.
Everyone is afraid to be themselves and let's the possible outlook of others control the outlook on themselves. Natural always looks better, because reality and honesty are moral values. Vanity and being unnatural are not.
This world is twisted. We want to play to society to be accpeted vs. Being ourselves and being accepted. It's becoming upside down world.
everyone has to do what is right for them, do what makes you happy
Ryan Turner Blah Blah Blah... say what you want but your comment will be ignored by millions and everyone will carry on doing what they want anyway... therefor your comment was pointless.....
@@drugsbunny1884 Use the same logic for baldcafes videos. Millions will move along and never see this. But some do and some it will help change their lives.
Your negative attitude will do more harm in this world than my comment. Luckily, I'm positive and can do what I want. I'm glad my comments strike a chord with you
Ryan Turner your a miserable slaphead who can't bare to see other men happy... wonder why you spent your time trying to hate on people wearing hair pieces...
@@drugsbunny1884 Exactly the opposite. I'm not the one name calling am I?
To someone else, alcohol may make them happy. Or percasets. Just let them be happy happy right?
I'm speaking from wisdom. I went through all of this. I have never been happier than being bald. Why? Because I don't put stock in hair to make me happy.
Fuck shaving my head bald, I won't shave the sides. I will go for the mad scientist look. Systems look real, but fuck all that effort, and having glue on my scalp. Better option than propecia though.
What's the point you'll get found out eventually
So you can say the same for the make-up women put on? ;)
You can look at it as wearing a hat or a piece of clothes that fits you... nothing wrong with that
Baldcafe Bro i just noticed your 2 front teeth 1 is way longer then the other, Just file it down a little bit with a emery board. I had the same problem and filed it down a touch looks so much better and no issues with it.
NickS hell does it really matter?? Certainly doesn’t offend me! 😂
@@MattEff01 Does not matter but some people think your going to file a hole in your tooth and are to scared to file there own tooth down, just my advice.
who cares?Nick S hell...that is none of your business, stay in your lane
😂 Yeah my two front teeth and bottom two teeth are slightly out of line so the one behind appears longer as its at a slight angle. Its been like that for as long as I can remember and has gotten slightly worse as i've gotten older. It doesn't really give me any issues though. I might look into getting them straightened out when I'm back in the uk but i'm good for now 👍
@@Baldcafe Dont bother with straightening just get veneers
Its too much to give her on the first start. I say get to know eachother and later tell her.
I think the hair system looks great, but I don't agree with that man's approach of telling women on the first date that he's wearing a system.
Love and attraction is a fantasy, and that is a sure fire way to kill any spark.
Men have got to stop this "gotta be real and honest" bullsh*t.
When did you ever hear a woman say something like the following on a first date:
"Gotta be honest, my tits are not real. I got a breast implant a while ago"
"Gotta be honest, I'm wearing a lot of make up and I certainly don't look likes this after a shower!"
"Just to be real, I'm wearing hair extensions and a push up bra"
Answer? Never.
I'ts about perceptions. Girls do whatever they can to be attractive and they don't apologize for it. You should do the same.
Stop looking for people to pat you on the back for your honesty. It really shows a lack of confidence and a need for approval.
“Being honest shows a lack of confidence and a need for approval” - max A 2021
A couple of weeks ago I read a comment on one of these hairsystem videos (which somehow showed up in my feed) and the dude said that rocking a hair system takes true confidence and that us bald guys are just jealous that we don't have the courage to wear one.
I don't know how concealing your insecurities instead of rocking them takes confidence but whatever, that comment at least gave me a good laugh haha. I can only imagine how embarassing it must be to explain this to a person you are dating or when it randomly detaches from your scalp. I'd never wear anything like that
Joey thakid your actually couldn't have said that any better my friend... you got that bang on point...
@Joey thakid To be honest, the only thing that really sucks about balding is the lack of having a choice. The style itself is fucking awesome and will always be. A thing like a hair system is just hiding from yourself and trying to evade the inevadeable. I much rather explain to a girl that I shave my head because my hair is falling out than to say that I wear a hairpiece because I was ashamed that my hair is falling out. Ultimately, going bald is a manly thing, most men will experience it at some point in their life and those who experience it a young age will have to deal with and will arise as a stronger person without a doubt. Also, not to forget, many women really dig the look subconsciously from my experiences, because it looks dominant as fuck. A hairpiece however I belive, signals that you'll run from difficult situation when they arise, and that is not considered attractive by any means.
Yo, thats a really interesting point.
@@WButterTBWButter Sorry mate, but it's all about choice. You wouldn't look down a woman for choosing a wig, if she is balding (women also go bald), or a child? Your response is really negative and judgmental. So people with makeup hide? Be a man and respect others' choices, so they can respect yours.
@@baldnbearded Sure its all about choice, but I don't think a person that masks their insecurities is necessarily in a position to talk shit about people who own them instead and call them jealous. Female alopecia is far more rare and in my opinion not an ordinary condition at all. If I was a female and balding, I'd probably wear a wig too, even though I think bald girls are quite hot. MPB on the other hand is a completely normal and common condition to have, therefore its broadly accepted and I am pretty certain that I could call a person insecure could who calls me jealous. So you are right, it was a judgemental comment, but I wasn't the first one to judge. And as far as makeup goes, I am pretty sure a lot of girls use it to hide something. I am not saying everyone, some girls just like the process of putting makeup on, but if I see a women with an absurd amount of makeup, my first thought usually goes into the direction that she wants to hide something. I might be biased here, because I usally dig Women that look more natural with very little makeup.
Honestly I really don't see the point from wearing hair systems where you can work on other things like a good diet and workout, taking care of your skin is important, Your hair must not define who you are :) and in order to find your true self one must learn to let go, I know I sound like a guru but guys stop wasting money on thing you don't need, fix your personality and quit your bad habits first, they maybe the cause for your hair loss
Hair really changes how you look. Drastically to the point where you can look up to 10 years younger with good hair
You arent bald. You don't know how bad it feels when you see your thinning hair.
Wearing a wig is the same as wearing dentures, trying to replace what u lost.
he needs another shower before a date.
I could tell he was wearing a wig!
Because you knew it when you were watching it. If you randomly saw this dude without the context it would be difficult to pay attention to the hair so much to realize that.