I Catfished as a MAN On TINDER
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- čas přidán 12. 07. 2022
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This was so uncomfy and weird, and being a man on a dating app is harder than I thought, but I did it for you guys! So I hope you enjoyed the chaos! If you did please LIKE and SUB and let me know what else you want to see in the comments below!
Appreciate you!
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Omg I was the first like!
huh
Sorry I'm broke but I'm sure it's good👍
Thanks for the like your the first CZcamsr to like my comment you made me so happy thankyou 😄
And also do you like rugby
24 like ❤
I find it hilarious that she spent so long figuring out a name when she literally could have just gone with Chris 😂
I was thinking the same 😂
I was shouting "CHAD"! Lol.
Christopher
Sameeee
i was thinking the same thing lol
Kris: "Okay, so, I don't have a plan... At all."
Ah. Already inside the average male mind when it comes to dating. She's a natural.
Dang just roasted the men 😂😂
Nah. That's accurate
@@josiemincey6106 kinda accurate... lol no hate tho
Yes she’s looking beautiful Christian rose
@@josiemincey6106 they ain't wrong tho
I love how Hannah’s demeanor totally changed as the conversation went on (as did her grammar and texting abilities). Must have been the tequila shots 😂😂😂
haha fr
It’s because Hannah might be a catfish herself. Makes me wonder how high the share of catfish is on dating websites.
fr
It’s because kris didn’t take the lead and redirect the conversation. That lady wanted her to take control, not lift her up and just talk about her stuff. That would be “clingy” or “too simpy”. The chad would say “no stress about that, I’m so rich you’ll never have to work. Let’s go ride my bike, and you can wrap your arms around my hard abs as we fly along the freeway” 🤦♂️💀
@@It-b-Blairwtf are you talking about
If you get ghosted looking like this and not pressuring anyone with sexual stuff, then I'm honestly concerned about this world 😐
That's why he got ghosted probably. Just chatting like friends and not making any moves, not being assertive at all, not pressing for a date, no innuendo or anything. She was acting like a woman, cause she's a woman, and they're into men *shrug*
@gavinjenkins899 yesssss I’m a woman and WE WANT Y’ALL TO MAKE THE MOVES. As long as you’re not so overpowering cuz then it’s like “ummm so this dude thinks he’s better than me”, than I don’t see a problem :)
@@lioranadel despite describing the situation I think was happening, I don't actually think it's reasonable, though. I would have been happy to make the moves until society also decided to add on "Oh but if she doesn't happen to find you hot when you do, she can interpret it as and say you were a creep, and everyone is supposed to just believe that now without evidence, and you can lose your job, friends, or worse". Yeah nah thanks, I know that's what you WANT but ain't GETTING it from me anymore. I'm waiting for women to make the important moves from now on, or just hanging out with my dog and friends and hobbies til then. Unfortunately, there's no other safe, reasonable option anymore.
@@gavinjenkins899As a transwoman who has been on both sides of the coin, this is exactly why Kris got ghosted
@@lioranadel it's really better that the women make the moves though like men have such a terrible time on dating apps compared to women.
Kris not knowing how to deal with someone flirting with her is the biggest fucking mood I have ever seen in my life. This is so hilarious to watch! Sending love, Kris!!!!!
It's love you 3000 not 3333 🥲
I'm sorry but I'm old and don't understand what "the biggest mood" means. Would u be able to tell me please?
@@mrstupiduniverse731c It means I relate to something, basically. Kinda like "dude I felt that on another level"
@@mrstupiduniverse731c Ooooh man, I felt that, haha
@@wynnwilliams3701 oh cool, thank u for the explanation, i like to stay caught up on this stuff
Hope you enjoyed the video! Sorry I’m such a terrible man😂🕺🏻 LIKE the vid if you remotely enjoyed ❤️ let me know what other antics you would like to see!
Good job
thx for making my day today :)
Kris u were an amazing man 😂💖 edit: KRIS LIKED MY COMMENT! 🤭🫠
I was feeling a bit down today but you made it better! Love you Kris!!💕
I'm a terrible person so it's fine 🙂 I'm terrible at life also I'm bad at speling 🙃 your funny though and so am I so I think we would be friends irl😅
Hearing about my partner's experience on dating apps was wild. I was on Bumble (as a woman) for a few. Had well over 100 matches (small town south, only one larger city on the edge of my radius), and had narrowed it down to around 20 guys I was chatting with who I could see myself going on a date with, met my now long time partner about 2 days in, fell hard, met up on day 3 (Halloween 2021) and immediately started dating. For him, I was his first real match on Bumble in weeks or months. It probably doesn't help him that he's 5'3 and girls on dating apps seem obsessed with height. (I'm 5'10) Apparently, Tinder led to constant ghosting for him, and bumble was dry as dessert when it came to matches. Glad we have each other now tho.
That's funny, where I'm from (Greece) girls don't seem to care one bit in general. I'm a breath away from 6'3, good shape and my friend who is 5'5 has easily had twice the dates all the time we've known each other and it's a general thing here with all shorter guys. I visit the states often for work and my friends there mention that height is a major standard for women there. I see why it makes sense for women to prefer taller men of course but I didn't know in some countries it was that important for them. It's really interesting to me when taking into account where I grew up.
Whomsoever could salvage something, they did so. For most, it is another source of trauma.
You discovered your market. Congrats! @@constantinesoldatos
Seriously a big discrimination. He is getting rejected for his height, then what? Grow taller? So lucky he met you but there are still plenty more short guys struggling out there...
Stories like this kinda make me wish I was born a woman ngl. I’m 26 and have never had a relationship or even my first kiss. It really sucks. Kinda feel like if I were a woman I’d have a family by now
I love how she always compliments us when she looks 10,000 times better than me
im sure you look good to :)
Fr
I'm glad that you didn't manage to snag either girl, Kris, and therefore that you didn't have to let them down. I think Julie probably caught some "faker" vibes, but Hannah was 100% fishing for endless affirmation. You fed into it, but weren't also segzually aggressive to break out of the loop, which is why I think she gave up. Anyway, great content as always and a great little peek into swipe culture.
Hannah seemed like a party girl that maybe still living with roommates. which is fine but definitely not that attractive after a certain age in my opinion. Unless you are into that type of life I suppose.
Definitely agree
I agree
Spoiler:(
Right but i think if kris was up and answered that 1st girl. She would have tried to meet possibly. She did choose a "normal guy". Lol
I love how she made one of the girls basically sound like a female chad
Also on the bright side, at least you didn't have to break any of their hearts lol
Frrrr
agreed, though I wanted to see it play out more. I understand it isn't her fault but i'm happy they didn't get their hearts broken.
NOOT NOOT
They probably did a reverse google image search
they broke hers lmao
I deleted Tinder and all the dating apps. I was exactly like you (very mannerly) and I never got anywhere. I was on them all. I got stories, none of them ended well but that’s life. Dating apps work for some people and it’s a nice way to connect to people you might not otherwise but for me I think the traditional way is best. Getting out there and meeting people. Love the video Kris 💜
I don't use Tinder because as a friend said to me "it will definitely hurt your feelings" and now I see she was right. Thanks for keeping me off of there!
Kris : “EVERYBODY CALM THE F!CK DOWN”
Also Kris: “only one freaking out”
That was the joke Sherlock
That was the joke Sherlock
@@atr0stisticbreak991 *(meow)*
Office reference tho
LOL-
Crazy how different our experiences on tinder were as another gender loool
hi
Omg hiii!
Hi Ian!
wait why is eveybody acting like ur famous
@@annleigh_ Well he is that why lol
A girl I work with picked her husband off of tinder. She was like his second match in like a year and she literally described it to me as "man shopping"
So... Kris kinda ended up just coaching someone on how to start a CZcams channel. 😂
If Louis got ghosted I've got no shot
He probably got ghosted because the girls felt he was out of their league. I’m currently leaving a guy on read who’s really hot because I’m too nervous to continue the conversation, and quite honestly, I’m not sure he’s real. I’m a bit sus that he’s a catfish profile like Louis or a bot. You’ve probably got a better chance being average looking. And your best chance is to be slightly above average.
*ALSO, smile with your teeth on your profile pic. That makes you way more attractive for some reason. I’m not joking*
Not with that attitude, you don't! :)
Your names Carl all the the girls HAVE to fall for you 😂
I feel your pain bro.
Hi my name is Louis💅
Yup, you pretty much nailed what it’s like to be a guy on Tinder: trying to carry conversations by yourself only to get ghosted. The part that you didn’t experience is that if your pics are just average like the rest of us mortals, and not that of a shirtless god, the number of matches plummets.
lmao now I feel bad for ghosting 😭😭
@@christinaescobar7255 its always better to just say youre no longer interested in talking! any decent guy will understand :) I dont have any dating or dating app experience but ive talked to a lot of people online (girls included, and anughty stuff included) and getting ghosted SUCKS. Every time someone has said theyre not interested in talking ive greatly appreciated it. I thank them for their time and wish them luck. then im on my way. being respectful is easy and its also easy to not ghost someone. a quick "sorry, I'm not interested in talking anymore" is plenty! some TERRRIBLE guys will not react well to that, but the majority arent like that. And do you *really* want to date someone who cant respect a boundary like that anyway?
@@pvic6959 oh yeah literally a light reason why I always appreciated too, if someone wants to grow, even as basic as "we not really vibing"
*insert he's right you know meme* I stopped relating the moment she got a like before even finishing the profile 😂not to mention matches that message first!! What Marvel universe is this set it?
@@christinaescobar7255 no you dont
It’s always good to hear that women know what guys go through and visa versa, it’s so much easier getting along with someone who understands you
Seriously though, why do I love watching videos where youtubers catfish as other people? Like its so much fun watching them go undercover!
I think you did a great job Kris. Maybe if you had used more pics you might've been able to get more people. But then again I wouldn't know, I've never used Tinder(have debated trying it once just to see what its like but I think I'm a bit young for that right now).
Amazing video, keep up the good work!
i love how she never fails to compliment us. im literally sitting on my couch eating top ramen rn and ik my angle is not very flattering but she always makes me feel a little better 🥰😊
For real
I was literally doing this not even two minutes ago had ramen and hot chocolate
👍😇
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Stop bc I literally just cried cuz kris saw my comment
Not fair. You can’t morph one hot guy with another hot guy and expect to get an “average guy” experience. That’s cheating haha
Getting ghosted as Clark Kent is what I could only hope to achieve in my wildest dreams. Dating apps are only for the 1%ers, I swear.
Yeah she threw some pictures of a literal 10/10 dude and thinks she’ll get a normal guy experience. Probably because she knows it’s depressing for an average guy
@@tylersanders2388 I mean it likely wouldn't give her much content for that reason, fair tbvh
@@tylersanders2388 Well, if she'd gone with a picture of an average looking guy, the entire video would just be 15-20 minutes of swiping right on everything in a 100 mile radius, and nothing else...
Even with loaded dice she still managed to get ghosted... twice...
It's just so amazing to see her detication to her CZcams and see her go that far for a Video!!! I love her much and I hope to see her doing her CZcams for a long time!💕💕💕💕
Thank you for being my idol you helped me enter my weirder self like I was when I was young. Kris you have helped me through depression and anxiety thank you so much for being weird I love you and the rest of the 8 M subscribers do
It’s nice to know even a hunk like Louis still struggles on Tinder like the rest of us.
Also thanks kris for giving me a smile. You’re doing great work as always!
I got a friend that made one cause she was just curious about what the app was all aboit. She didn't even use any pictures of her face. Used pictures of our town that she took and had a typical, zero thought put into, bio. She would swipe based on her own personal preferences, definitely NOT every person she saw. I watched as she got well over 20 "matches" every day. Almost every person she swiped on swiped back. And conversations could lead her to "whatever she wanted," as she said. a hook up, a date, or a friend. She never did any of it, ofc.
Got another buddy that's rather good looking, has a decent bio and some good pictures of him, a group picture and some with his pets. He got like 15 in a month? And most of them were asking him for mass amounts of money for any type of in person interaction even just a simple date. 🙄
Crazy to watch. We were just all bored but it definitely caused us to form opinions on the matter haha
@@dlcdaniel6308 it crazy how that works and that’s also very funny. I’ve been on it just to see what it was all about. Put some effort in nice photos, good bio, and of course show my pride and joy, my puppy. I’ve gotten a handful of matches and a bunch of scammers/ people wanting money.
At the end of the day it’s just for giggles but I have very little faith in online dating.
@@dlcdaniel6308 Same here, I am "decent" looking I'd say, I get like maybe 5-10 matches a month and it's either "Add my private snap!" or has "requirements" to go on dates, meanwhile a friend that is a girl has legitimately gotten about 400 matches in the last few weeks. It's quite frustrating for us guys lol
@@ryanfrisch6175 it can really be a downer for some guys out there. I know someone else that tried using it cause it's known as the "hook up" app around here and he'd just gotten out of a really long serious relationship and just wanted to hook up with someone.
Poor guy was on that app for like 6 months nefore delting it and had the same happen to him that happened to kris every time. Just ghosted after a seemingly fine conversation, where both parties mentioned their intentions in the first few messages. So it's not like the guy was chatting for hours and hours just to pop the "yeah I just wanna f*ck" which would never work really anyway lol.
Yet any of my gal friends over the last few years in can hop on tinder for an hour or so and have a hook up or date planned and out the door almost guaranteed every time. 🙃
@@ryanfrisch6175 I have no stories of my own experiences. I've been with my girl since before tinder and online dating apps were a huge thing. So I just know what I've seen and heard haha
-"I want to know how it is to be a average guy on tinder"
-"so I found a handsome face and morphed it with a Olympian god.."
To be fair, that's what girls expect the average guy to look like!
@@ulizez89 not me I expect them (if I liked men) to look about around 5 foot 4 ft brown shaggy hair and thats it now for girls my type is
Red hair
Freckles
Blue eyes
@@ulizez89nah not all women I have pretty low standards lmao
@@ecat101 Bruhhhh. Dude what the heck. That's not true
i made ur likes to the bad numbers hahahaha
Welcome back to another video where Kris does dumb shit but we still watch it cause it's entertaining and we love her😌
Brooo I love Native so so much! I use natural deodorant and this is my favorite!! So glad you mentioned it!!
Imagine matching with this “guy”, vibing, getting ghosted then accidentally finding this video lmao how wild 💀😂
I mean she’s the one who got ghosted by the girls
bro i wanna know if these girls found out lol
@@mathlover5697 same
That was my thought too while watching it!!
What makes Kris’ videos so enjoyable is that she seems like she’s lowkey a relatable dumpster fire but she covers is better than any of us could imagine doing 😂
She's lowkey, highkey, a relatable dumpster fire but also entrepreneurial influencer. *tucks hair behind ear*
@@Broxigar07 omg when you said that last part I pictured Kris doing that! 😂
GURL Native is wonderful it comes in shampoo and conditioner to! Ive been using it for a couple months now! Rock it!
The fact you made out to be like
a) top 1% attractive
b) interesting career
c) was all round nice person
and still got ghosted and struggled to keep a conversation going shows how rough online dating is for men.
😂 fax
Big time
For real
Dude I lived in London and there were profiles with checklist like:
"- 6ft+
- £100k+ salary
- Own car
- Own house
- No kids
less that 4 ticks? Don't bother swiping"
Lol I think likely because they could tell he was fake. Too good to be true! No one is perfect.
Kris: “I just realized I’m gonna break these girls hearts”
Also Kris: **gets ghosted by the girls**
Once I matching with a girl that work as a nurse.
So I wrote to her and asked if it is still extra stressful now because of the pandemic.
Her answer was something like.
"Did you really think I would swipe on someone like you? Don´t you understand that I accidentally swiped right!"
I had another one message me saying something like because of my then current weight 62kg=136lbs I should not be allowed to consider myself a man.
I had gone from 50kg too 62kg in a year and that summer I dropped back down to 47kg.
Now I am finally at a much healthier 75kg =).
I have had women saying I seem boring after three lines of text where I asked what they like too do on their spare time and them not even asking anything back.
It takes almost 100 swipes to get a match and then 50% of the matches never even reply back when I text them.
Out of the once that do reply back almost none actually makes an engaging conversation but just expects me to entertain them and 90% of them ghost me after three days.
man up, stop respecting women's opinions, in paticular about yourself.
Is it bad that throughout the video im dying from laughter? Love the vids kris keep making them, they make us feel better every day!
Kris: * flirts through the camera and complimenting us *
Also Kris: “uhoh someone is flirting with me I don’t know how to deal with this”
Love you Kris 😂❤️
i feel that lmao
That's so ture
lol so true
Lmao so true
ikr lmbo
The way you unconsciously started sounding like Chad when you mentioned that you'll be going undercover as a man was hilarious 🤣 When the fake persona starts to merge with your real persona, you know you're deep in
Kris: What name should I do? Me:CHRISTOPHER
First video of yours I've ever watched, really enjoyed it, thanks :) but also this is like my experience on the app, except I am not that hot and less people talk to me, but we still all just be ghosts after a day if we are even real to begin with
As a man I can completely say that dating on tinder was a struggle. I could swipe on 10s of women and never get a single match. Starting conversations was never too hard but keeping them going was difficult when people never seem interested. It wasn't until last year I met someone totally worth the wait and now after 8 months together we're doing awesome. Online dating isn't easy but every once in a while you just might find your missing puzzle piece.
It's a real shot in the dark sometimes. I got lucky and after being on a site for months, my now boyfriend joined the site and I was his first match and we hit it off super duper well. I can't imagine never meeting him.
Yes it had to date online while me here still single have been cheated once with one relationship before but I divorced, do you care about to chat with me Anthony.
its called your not in the top 20% of males. sorry bud
Aww I’m glad you’ve found someone! Dating apps are shit shows! It’s worth it when you find someone you click with though 😊
Question is, which dating site do you pick? :') There are so many...
I'm pretty sure Hannah was waiting for you to offer to edit her singing videos 😂
LMAO!
Probably.
11:49 not going to lie I was on the toilet listening and I thought you literally said Shazam I laughed and realized it was the damn ad 😅 but it wouldn’t surprise me if you did!
As a man I had always issue with starting these kind of conversations too. :D
I was very surprised when a stupid one-liner worked very well: "nice dress"
One time I literally pretended to be Harry Styles on Tinder and like 5 girls actually believed me- One of the girls was getting very um- HRAWNY 👹👺 apparently and tried to make me send pictures- when I didnt she said she was going to expose me on her youtube channel for being interested in minors (??? why the heck is a minor on tinder looking for a SERIOUS relationship anyways?) and said she had 34 million subscribers and that she was gonna sue me- I asked her what her channel name was and she said: I dOnT wAnT yOu SpReAdInG lIeS aBoUt Me sO iM nOt TeLlInG yOu
LMAOOOO 😂😂😂
oh my gosh-
what the flip thats HILARIOUS
Scammers trying to get you
you should have told them " I'm harry styles. I can get your youtube if I want" anyways, HOW ARE PEOPLE SO DUMB THESE DAYS!?
Gee, you really believed that was a girl you were talking to?
Kris always does an incredible job. shoutout to her if she reads these comments. but i just want to say,
My grandmother loves watching your videos all the time. She never misses an upload and whenever i go to her house
she's like "Sweetie! Kris just uploaded. have you watched it?" My grandmother is 86 and she loves your videos.
Thank you Kris for being inspirational to my grandmother.
Your grandmother is a legend 😌
Watch me be like her in 60 years
I wish my grandmother was as excited about a CZcamsr as yiurs
Your grandmother is a legend!
Your grandmother is a blessing honestly💕 And I don't blame her lol. Kris is great 😁
I’m amazed you got matches right away but with pics like that I guess it isn’t too surprising. Getting ghosted isn’t surprising either, there’s a reason I’m not on dating apps anymore
You could produce your own dating reality show, this is intense
You was such a gentleman and so nice. It's quite sad to think that even cute, nice, and well spoken guys can't get a date on tinder. But you entertained and made me smile as always, and at least you didn't have to break any hearts, there's the silver lining lol.
I just want to add that you never fail to make my day brighter, thank you.
I think most ppl are just looking to hook up on tinder 🤷🏼♀️ I’ve never been on it, but that’s the impression I’ve gotten from ppl I’ve met that use it.... I met 2 girls that used it for free food and hooking up 😂🙄🤦♀️
Online datingis a dumpster fire,you like a girl IRL go for it,whats the worst thing it can happen
@@okipo3443 that's true, but if you're gay it's so much harder imo, especially if you're not particularly social
@@wolfzmusic9706 if youre lgbt its among the very few people that don't have any choise but to use online apps
@@okipo3443 ye basically. I'm also too shy to go out and meet people, and I'm definitely not the type of person to enjoy Pride or a gay club etc (which I feel like is the only way to meet people irl if you're gay).
Kris practically gay panicking everytime one of the girls said anything remotely flirtatious is honestly a mood
I was laughing the whole time love your content Kris!
Plot twist because 12:40 is catfishing you as well!! Typical scammer line (source: the show social catfish) (also, I'm only like 95% sure lol)
While you say you're an amateur tinderer, you did follow rule #1 and rule #2 flawlessly.
#1: Be attractive
#2: Don't be unattractive
But was she over 6’ tall? 😂
lol
Damn those are the rules? Never been on tinder and now that I know I failed the rules I guess I’ll never be 😅
@@thefollower89 They're the most important rules to follow. Without them you're playing on hard mode.
@@Oakest Is like DarkSouls without dying
I feel like this is probably immoral but also Kris’ high school-esque squealing and excitement is hilarious
You should do another one of these because this was so funny
YEESSS A HOUSE TOUR PLS, Btw my sister and i are your biggest fans we loveee you so much
I love how whenever she promises to do something she also does and NEVER click baits. Love you!
I actually met my wife on tinder years ago. I was going through a breakup with a girl I was with for about 10 years and had no idea how get back to dating and and wasn’t really sure I wanted to if I was being honest. I was out with some friends and they said these dating apps were the way to go, so they put tinder on my phone. I met a handful of nice women, and went on about 20 or so dates over a few months, some good some bad, nothing really terrible. I matched with my now wife and we texted for a few weeks then talked on the phone for a few weeks before we met in person, so we really got to know each other. It’s was pretty cool because her sister talked her into using tinder because she was a bit against dating apps, and at the time wasn’t really dating. She agreed to use it for a week and that is when we connected. When I set up my profile I was really honest about what I was looking for, who I was, and made sure I used pictures that represent me versus pictures that showed me in the best possible light. I think it was one of the reasons it may have worked out well for me.
I met my husband on Plenty of Fish lol been married just over 5 yrs now! Long back story but I knew on our first date I was gonna marry him, it scared the crap out of me because I was just barely separated from my ex husband and wasn’t ready for anything like that! I basically ghosted him for 5 yrs or so, dated other people, etc etc… He never gave up and over 5 yrs after our first date I finally started talking to him again and we were married 8 months later!
I met my current partner on TikTok lol we haven’t been together that long but we met in person once in Seattle when I was seeing family in Olympia and that’s when I really decided dating them would be cool. I knew I liked them before that but I didn’t want anything long distance unless I’d seen them in person.
That's great. My husband and I met on a blind date. We were set up by my cousin and her husband. That was 23 years ago. 🥰
"I didn't get answers from my girls last night." had me rolling 😂😂
Whenever I see when you upload, I always smile :)
Love that you compliment us in everything you post, but you’re the one who deserves all the compliments because how much you post and how happy you make you’re viewers and/or subscribers:) Oh and you’re hair is always on point🤩❤️
kris can you do a day with nona part 2
Facts!!!!!🥺🥰
Well said 😄
Your* both times
@@evanreloadingbazookagaming1699 I’m Dutch, so sorry for my grammar🥲
This was equally enlightening and frustrating to watch, as it shows I'm not alone in struggling with this, but also doesn't provide relief or a solution! I used tinder a while after a tough divorce, and it was a nightmare. People always talk about how easy it is to connect with someone on Tinder, and I was swiping literally to the point that there were no more women in my area. I might get a couple matches, and even if I do, they never respond to the first message. After a while, I got a few responses and had some short lived fun with two women, and that was it. Literally what I imagine was over a thousand swipes, and nothing. I'm not as attractive as the guy you picked for yourself, but still a good looking guy. I put effort into the conversations and everything, but none of it mattered. I was just left feeling like I'm either not attractive enough or that something else was wrong with me, and it was soul crushing.
Maybe they where confused by a guy called aimee
I mean there is a certain type of people who use tinder, quess you arent really one of them u know. From what i have seen there is a lot of poeple who just look for atention or “adult fun time” and thats it. So if you are normal you probably arent what they are looking for. You might get lucky and find someone that you might actually like, but i belive thats really rare.
Dont let this get under your skin. Tinder is for people wo look like models, because lets be honest, how you look is probably the most important thing on tinder and with so many options people get really picky.
Dont mention your ex in the beginning.You might mention your ex a bit later in deeper conversations. Iff you mention here emediatly, it means she is on your mind rather than who you chat with! I believe flirting in the conversations is good. First of all: the introduction of you both and so move on with the flow of flirting. I don't know iff this works but for me it seems reasonable.
Personally I think it would help to really look into the profiles and the bios and find people that like the things you do that others don't typically. It's a great way to start a conversation. Always bare in mind that when your given the opportunity to just talk about something you like with someone who's also actively interested in it you make more progress in a relationship whether it's romantic or not. It's also good to approach these apps with the mentality that you will only make friends, not find your soul mate. Sometimes you gotta let things go slow, if it's loneliness then talk to your friends or family, if it's because your horny then just look for a fling, there's nothing wrong with that because there are so many others out there in the same boat. Way to often we force ourselves to settle while looking for the right one because it feels like it's now or never and that's not true. Most of life's greatest pleasures fall into your lap over time. Stay strong, focus on you, build yourself up and let others see your happy become drawn to it. Good luck friend.
i love jays editing!!!
Kris' compliments make my day
I would have been thrilled to find a “man” that was kind, encouraging and sweet.
The one time I signed up for some dating app most of the “men” just wanted to send pics of their favorite toy and find a girl to hook up with.
All I was looking for was companionship and open to more if the right guy came along. I was looking for that unattainable
Yeah, dating sites are a freaking mess. It's like 95% people just looking for hookups and 5% people actually wanting to find a love.
@@brim9961 and out of the 5% looking for love you still have to sift through it to find the one's (normally 1%) that are good.
But I mean, I found my current boyfriend on Tinder and we have been officially a couple for 8 months now.
Hey I get what you saying, I just wanted to give you some hope and let you know there are a few good guys out in the world and as a man I'm a shamed there are not more.
Woman want a Chad that makes 150k +, 6 feet tall, 6 inch member, 6 pack, and above 6 in looks. It’s ridiculous
@@jameshusentoff2953 Nah, we just want guys who take care of themselves, aren't assholes or immature, and are respectful and caring. Ofc, the better they look the best, but good looks don't make it up for a bad personality.
Me: That looks like an interesting video
Also me about 10 seconds after I clicked on it: Uhhh, wait why is she playing mind games on these women, creating trust issues & likely cause them not to meet up with anyone.
Kris like 10 minutes into the video: Wait, I'm gonna have to break their hearts.
I love you’re energy sooo much!!!!
Kris always complements us so here is my complement to you : I love your eyeliner
A moment of silence for how much EFFORT Kris puts into her videos
I swear Kris always makes my day dm better
Frfr she is so underrated she deserves more subs and likes
Um....she has over a million subscribers.....shes definitely not underrated
@@Devond085 why.... do.... u.... type.....like......... that....
Nearly 7 millions subs! Hardly underrated
@@13alfrescoThe same reason you spell the word "you" with "u" Because I can. Quit nitpicking....
@Gemiline cause it’s a pet peeve
Kris, you don't NEED a dating app. You could literally throw a rock and hit a guy or girl that would love to get to know you better!
Don’t give her ideas 💀
new video: throwing things at people to get their attention
@@morgannotmegan that sounds like a great video idea!😂
I feel like the enbies would be happy to too!
doesnt she literally have a partner already lol
Hey Kris, love your channel so much❤
I love how this like shows how people lie and don’t trust everyone especially online
Does anyone else just love Kris' compliments and greets she does for everyone at the beginning of her videos?!
Always makes my day
It's really cute
As a guy, I have to say that I’m happy your doing this as a experiment; but you definitely choose pictures that not a lot of guys would choose. As a Iot of people will say dating for women generally is like shopping, while men it’s like a job interview.
As a man I would like to formally agree with this dude. Except for me it has allway been the struggle to get invited to a job interview. I have a really close female friend, and we have been open about our tinder experiences. She could get up to 500 likes in a week, while I would count myself freaking lucky getting 2-4 (and to be ghosted by them all)
It all lead to me deleting Tinder, and meeting my fiance the old fashioned way :)
Allso. Kris got matches cuz the guy in the pictures is ripped and shirtless. Pick more everyday photos, and you will not be as lucky.
Love the video tho kris :) Good job
@@liex85 there are other sites or apps that are better, but it is a times the results. Also yes she was choosing the above average or even above above average guy as her photos, when as I said not a lot of men would choose those; and not all of us are ripped. I’ve got muscles, but I don’t got washboard abs; I mean aside from the pandemic messing things up i got a semi lean stomach.
As a woman it still feels like a job interview 🤷🏻♀️
@@AmalieManover sure, but not as much as many men. This experiment, and many others shows the differences. Without being too tmi about my life as of recent I’ve only got two hearts/likes, and a friend of mine has a lot more than me; she has a lot of potential people. I’ve gotten a few matches that wasn’t great such as “a non negotiable is that we have get at least 10 dishes to share, and eat”. That’s not great in many senses, I understand from a traditional sense as the man I’d pay for the meal(which I don’t mind); but this gives me the feeling like all you want a free meal instead of getting to know me. Even if we went Dutch or split the bill, to me it doesn’t seem fair. My friend agrees that doesn’t seem right, and she see’s my point.
@@AmalieManover just because I feel like it another video that gives similar results czcams.com/video/DZTIbHIsIYw/video.html
You were being too nice, you didn't escalate the conversation to meeting in person, and you didn't add any sexual tension. Being the guy, you have to carry it all...
I love your content, it would be awesome to meet you some day. You are brilliant
It made me so happy when she made a "Walking Dead" reference😍😍 I love all of the videos!!!
At 9:07 at the top of the screen on the left side, Celina spooky boo sent a snap. 😂. Cute
This woman always finds ways to entertain us, and she never fails, and she's so nice. She's an absolute angel.🥰🥰❤❤
Thanks for the likes 😭😭❤❤
She has a name
You no
I used Native for a long time, still do some, but I recently found Humble. Smoother texture than Native and wonderful scents. I am loving the Palo Santo & Frankincense!
the way i bring my face closer to the screen at 0:09 just for kris to make the compliment success 😭
I will say as someone who has Bumble... initiating the conversations is SOOOOOOOO weird because I'm an introvert 😭
I felt when Kris said that she felt bad for the guys who typically have to initiate the conversation and then said that she had no idea how to start it... I felt that in my soul 😫😭
The fact that thousands of us are encouraging kris to be the start of a true crime case is low key not okay 🤣🖤 This is Proof that kris is so kind and cute we would let her get away with anything
from my view of dating on an app is just like in real life for me, try talking to them and having a great conversation and trying to make them feel better than when we started talking, then never seen again like a fart in the wind. Happened to me throughout my childhood and today still
for those who dont know - piccadilly is an underground station in london like for example its called piccadilly circus so when she said she liked to party in piccadilly it means just a place in london which has a lot of pubs and nghtclubs.
"I felt like things were going good...they went sideways really fast."
Kris darling welcome to the world of being a male
That moment when that isn't even half of it. The amount of prostitutes on these dating apps is unreal.
So far I think I actually met a real woman on a dating app, things are going REALLY well. But that is literally 1 in a trillion chance. Because the last one I tried to get close too, literally dumped me after I told her how I felt because she couldn't stand the guilt of trying to use me to hurt her boyfriend.
Tl;DR Fuck dating apps. But also fuck stereotypes. And at the same time fuck those who use dating apps to try and hurt people.
5:00 I laughed so hard at this when you said EVERYBODY CALM THE F**K DOWN
this is wrong in so many ways, but its also so funny and just intertaining😭😭😭😭😭😭 i love ur videos keep it up😊😊😊😊😊😊
omg is it just me or do I just love Kris's eyes their gorgeous I'll die for those eyes
I love how she can make everyone's day better by simply existing
As a guy on Tinder, or any dating app really, unless you carry the conversation it will just end. Every single match I've had resulted in me being the only one really trying to keep the conversation going, even on Bumble! If I stopped asking questions to get to know the females, then everything just stopped - and that's only if I hadn't been ghosted and left on read before that point. But, as other have noted as well, the profile pics you chose to use were exceptionally above average and thus why you had so many matches. As an actual average guy, I promise you it's almost like a desert most of the time.
I tried tinder once and was attracted to like none of the guys in my area lol. I also accidentally ghosted one when I forgot to reply to his message and then it had been too long and I haven't been back since.
Ahhh the quest for connection... good luck mate! 👍
It’s the same for the females
ur matching with the wrong women ma dude🙌 and remember, its so much better to get ghosted after a few days than after u catch feelings. u’ll find the right one some day🫶
while i get the struggle of carrying conversations and women ghosting over average looks, I don't think calling them "females" is doing you any favours
bestie your videos have that same idea of catfishing on tinder (like other you-tubers) but u did it so much BETTER!!! HOW?!?!?🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯
Yeah... as a "Jim", everyone forgets your name easily. They say something like, "Oh, it's some basic 3-letter guy name like Tim or Bob"! yay
Always love the videos! As a guy who’s about to be an “old man” 30. Personally I’d say after being on and off dating apps for a few years, I realized they’re not good for you. At least tinder. That judging feeling of left or right, not knowing if your pictures are good enough, trying to keep the conversation flowing, constantly stressing about what to say and not come off as a creep, potentially meeting up, potentially hooking up and then after all that getting ghosted. It absolutely sucks. My crippling depression of being lonely went through the roof while on these apps. My advice to all the people stuck on them. Delete the apps and take a break for as long as it takes. Then go out with friends, do trivia nights at a bar or brewery, ask that cute person you see every day out sometime, re learn how to have conversations with random people, do something that breaks the bubble we’ve built to keep ourselves comfortable and “safe”. I know it’s hard for some people. but you’re honestly better off working towards being okay alone then trying to find something In the black hole of the dating app world. -Thank you for attending my Ted Talk-
i think this is such good advice especially for the next generation with all the tech we have, it makes it hard to talk to someone face to face without being on your phone the whole time. love the Ted talk it was fantastic :)
8:12 "She knows" sounded Australian lol
It happened!!! Literally JUST watched the video where you talked about this!!!
What a cool video! Thank you for showing us girls the other side of the dating app life lol.
I love how she compliments us to make us feel better even if we feel bad or unattractive about ourselves she tries to make us feel better. ❤️😁
Same!
things i think they were looking for: Julie: wanted the number, probably thought that you weren't gonna go anywhere because you turned her down, tinder is a quick moving thing. Hannah: was probably looking for you to offer to edit her videos as a bonding activity, left because you weren't responding in the way she wanted. Overall: act less bro like, follow along with the flirting, but follow their lead if you're a guy in case they think you're coming on to strong.
Agreed
True that
Why can't they just communicate that or simply say they're not interested? Ghosting is rude, and as a girl if I was not interested in somebody, I would just tell them that politely.
Great advice👍
@@wolfzmusic9706 because people who know how to properly communicate aren't on tinder
I've never used a dating app, but this was enlightening.
😂😂😂 I was watching this finding it hilarious but at the same time was like damn Kris this is cold and then when halfway through you're like "Oh I just realized I'm going to have to break these girls hearts" 😂☠️