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  • čas přidán 5. 06. 2024
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Komentáře • 840

  • @pramitinandi
    @pramitinandi Před 2 měsíci +863

    I discovered you some days ago, and after watching 'how to study efficiently' video, i immediately hit 'subscribe'. it was an eye opener by itself. then i proceeded to watch more of your videos, and it was worth it. amy, thank you for your patience, and honesty, in sharing your journey, and all these amazing unpopular tips with us.
    i consider youtube as a huge distraction, but with your videos, it isnt. your videos made me realize that we all have a purpose in life, and we just really need to keep grinding until we reach a milestone out of nowhere. all along, i used to wait for life to happen. for that one milestone to reach. but after this, i want to just keep working hard. do my homeworks on time, study on time, use all those tips you mentioned (all of them are a big plus), and just keep going like this.
    key to stop thinking about milestones is patience. and as for me, i am a sick patient struggling with 'impatience' (please dont leave me-). i started meditating everyday for 10 mins. its an eye-opener itself. now i am starting small, but solid study sessions, to utilize every moment into building up that milestone i want to reach.
    you made us realize that our dreams can be turned into reality. we CAN do it. so world, fighting!
    lets be determined, and dedicated, keep watching @wAmy 's videos, and apply them!
    'I will thrive, not just survive'
    thank you Amy, for such insightful content you provide to us. thank you, really.
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    • @Z-007z
      @Z-007z Před 2 měsíci +10

      Really Motivating....FIGHTING

    • @wamyy5
      @wamyy5  Před 2 měsíci +92

      So grateful you stumbled upon my channel and that you appreciate my perspective.
      I believe everything is what we make of it. Social media and CZcams can indeed be super helpful tools, life-changing in the positive sense. But if not used correctly, they can also change our life for worse, so I try to constantly evaluate whether I'm optimizing my actions, how I think, how I feel. And it's not a productivity guru sense, but in the natural, intuitive way of making sure that we are happy, doing things as smoothly as possible, and won't have regrets in the future. It's awesome that you joined our like-minded A-Team community where we're all trying to reach our potential and live our best lives!
      Milestones are created by ourselves just like success is by our own definition. Since we coexist in this society, some things like money we have to still have enough of to be comfortable, but at some point, as long as we're working hard and being true to ourselves, we are having success each and every day. I don't think of success as a thing you get at the end of working hard; rather, you're successful each day you make it a good day. It's a state of being.
      I'm also trying to meditate more! Really awesome that you're taking little steps because those habits are what compound over time.
      Jiayou! Fighting! ❤ Wishing you the best!

    • @user-pc2pm7xl3y
      @user-pc2pm7xl3y Před měsícem +8

      it's always what my grandma says, there are plenty of good AND bad things out there. and it is up to you, and you only, to choose which ones you pick.
      Amy's channel is the good thing we get in the world of youtube.

    • @Aqua4life
      @Aqua4life Před měsícem +4

      Thank you so much Amy! You made me realise my potential and that I can perform way better without social media honestly it has made me worse mentally and physically In so much ways but now that I know of it I won’t let those apps take control of me ! Cheers to moving closer together towards our goals!! Love youu

    • @wamyy5
      @wamyy5  Před měsícem +3

      @@Aqua4life YES love that for you. Cheering you on!

  • @9gmeenakshichidambaram403
    @9gmeenakshichidambaram403 Před měsícem +2555

    I finally accept…my mom was right, my phone made me dumb

    • @gigitijarain
      @gigitijarain Před měsícem +69

      All moms said the same ahah they are righttt

    • @Interdacted
      @Interdacted Před měsícem +12

      Wait?! It does??

    • @user-kx5hv9qb6b
      @user-kx5hv9qb6b Před měsícem +20

      alas... our parents were right all along

    • @youandi1873
      @youandi1873 Před měsícem +26

      Exactly I used to get angry but by the time I realised the root of all the cause is actually this mobile phone.I am actually intelligent and my mum said that too but it's the phone which made me dumb.

    • @neeza6966
      @neeza6966 Před měsícem +21

      ​@@Interdacted depends on the type of content you're consuming and how you're using your phone if you're always watching reels, shorts and tiktok videos that are not related to your ambitions, school, University etc then you're just getting brain washed

  • @agathalynx
    @agathalynx Před měsícem +1284

    For everyone saying “social media is not a problem”, IT IS. Social media is literally designed to be addictive, because corpos make money off of it. Of course, it’s up to you to decide how you use SM, but don’t underestimate its addictive core.

    • @wamyy5
      @wamyy5  Před měsícem +77

      YES exactly. We need to look at the big picture, who's behind social media, and what do they gain at our expense?

    • @flyingdumpling5204
      @flyingdumpling5204 Před 24 dny +27

      Yeah, the same logic as "drugs are not a problem, drug addicts are just weak"

    • @Ipromiseyounobodyismad
      @Ipromiseyounobodyismad Před 17 dny +1

      Says that while using social media

    • @vivi-ws9yl
      @vivi-ws9yl Před 14 dny +7

      ​@@Ipromiseyounobodyismad You can be responsible with how you use social media. This is a comment under an informative video. I don't think I need to explain to you that that is a good use of social media. Also, alcohol addicts will probably also be able to tell you that alcohol is not good, but they continue doing it, because that's how addictions work

    • @lolcats-uzi
      @lolcats-uzi Před 2 dny

      Exactly! It’s unrealistic to expect us normal folks to fight something that’s been scientifically researched and designed to occupy as much of our attention as possibly. It’s just not fair! There is a huge imbalance of power here.
      Social has millions of dollars worth of investment into making it addictive. I on the other hand only have my willpower.

  • @mregg3634
    @mregg3634 Před měsícem +1418

    petition to bring an option to disable reels so we could just post our pictures and be happy!?!🤷🏻‍♀️

    • @ikaz2210
      @ikaz2210 Před měsícem +31

      I know an app for that if you want to! It also works with shorts and tiktoks :)

    • @ikaz2210
      @ikaz2210 Před měsícem +45

      It's called ScrollGuard , I know it's on Android but I'm not sure about IOS

    • @dorykrysz
      @dorykrysz Před měsícem

      ​@@ikaz2210OMG THANK YOU, WILL CHECK IT OUT

    • @marwatone
      @marwatone Před měsícem +11

      Create your personal website

    • @flooojmu
      @flooojmu Před měsícem

      ​@@ikaz2210 THANK YOU SO MUCHHHHHHHUQJW !!!! I've thought for so long that there should be an option to turn off shorts and reels... I cannot thank you enough, truly !!!

  • @suchismitakar2154
    @suchismitakar2154 Před měsícem +1404

    I wasted 5 years scrolling away...literally destroyed my career and my long term relationships.

    • @missgame9976
      @missgame9976 Před měsícem +100

      It never to late you can restart all over again and if something was meant for you you will eventually reach it or get it

    • @nandinisharma9931
      @nandinisharma9931 Před měsícem +10

      omg😵😦😰

    • @minismom09
      @minismom09 Před měsícem +19

      It’s never too late to start over. Go and work hard!!

    • @Barbiejoooo
      @Barbiejoooo Před měsícem +12

      You definitely can cut that habit out of your life through perseverance. 👌

    • @neyni-bg7cj
      @neyni-bg7cj Před měsícem +23

      I did spend my years scrolling and this year in 11th grade I failed and I know it's the result of losing my attention spans and my screen time on phones 😭.

  • @thorn_princess
    @thorn_princess Před 2 měsíci +651

    17:30 the fact that I watched this video at 2x already shows how messed up my attention span is 😭 its time to level up my attention span !!💪

    • @wamyy5
      @wamyy5  Před 2 měsíci +120

      So proud of you for being aware and taking the first step to improve it!!

    • @aalekhjain2682
      @aalekhjain2682 Před 2 měsíci +42

      Not actually though, because I myself watch videos on 2x, but to save time (I do accept tho that I have shorter attention span).

    • @blueberrymuffin4921
      @blueberrymuffin4921 Před měsícem +9

      @@aalekhjain2682 Yesyes bc I need to get back to work 😭 Same amount of value at half the time :)

    • @ans8483
      @ans8483 Před měsícem +10

      i do that to save time lmao💀

    • @pikichan3443
      @pikichan3443 Před 26 dny

      I do it too but my attention spam is probably kinda messed up bcs of ADHD 😅

  • @oliviadavis895
    @oliviadavis895 Před měsícem +210

    My reason for deleting the apps that take away my attention is to achieve better grades and be more productive in life all together

    • @g.anushavennelareddy4896
      @g.anushavennelareddy4896 Před měsícem +4

      Even I want to go on a social media detox to achieve good grades and learning a new skill.Good luck to you.

  • @EternalKorvo
    @EternalKorvo Před měsícem +348

    Hopped off social media last month and started learning a new language while getting back into Hybrid martial arts

  • @tania5825
    @tania5825 Před 2 měsíci +499

    I'm addicted to CZcams and shorts actually. It's hard to ignore these cause it is always a way to just take a break from study ( a very long break).

    • @user-ob6yk9mw4e
      @user-ob6yk9mw4e Před měsícem +15

      For yt short you can pause your history like that way CZcams wouldn't show videos on your home feed and you wouldn't be able to scroll shorts too .... Hope this will be helpful

    • @DanielZanca-ou3pj
      @DanielZanca-ou3pj Před měsícem

      It is worse than Instagram because even though it is less addictive, you can't delete it from your phone. I deleted Instagram and TikTok long ago because I noticed they were harmful to me. However, since I am unable to delete CZcams, sometimes I waste a lot of time on CZcams shorts. I am not able to stop doing something if I don't tackle the root issue, and how am I supposed to do that if I can't delete the app? The worst thing about this is that you don't realize how much time you are wasting until it is too much.

    • @moonknight372
      @moonknight372 Před měsícem

      A game changer for me was deleting them off my CZcams page!! In the short clusters there’s an “X” next to “see all” and it removes them from your homepage for a month. Highly recommend this, after a few days you’ll forget CZcams has shorts.

    • @royros76
      @royros76 Před měsícem +6

      @@user-ob6yk9mw4ehow do you pause the history exactly?

    • @pawprints3464
      @pawprints3464 Před měsícem

      ​@@user-ob6yk9mw4e I did that but still I will search for something and start binge watching it

  • @amilennialsstory
    @amilennialsstory Před měsícem +402

    The social media is so scary, I never downloaded tiktok or never used to watch reels, bit nowadays I find myself watching reels and scrolling mindlessly, I get angry on myself for doing that, I always say to my family not to scroll mindlessly but now I am there, but I know I have to get myself back ❤❤❤💜💜

    • @dark_warrior27
      @dark_warrior27 Před měsícem +2

      Hope you succeed

    • @malikcutchin
      @malikcutchin Před měsícem +4

      Bro you don't even have to have tick tock to do that other social media platforms does tick tock on them as well.
      So the damage is all over

    • @amilennialsstory
      @amilennialsstory Před měsícem

      @@malikcutchin so true and sad at the same time😥

    • @malikcutchin
      @malikcutchin Před měsícem +1

      @@amilennialsstory I'm going to be honest with you I think deleting might help. But if you don't want to delete I would just mute all notifications. That way you won't get a ding when you're trying to do something.

    • @amilennialsstory
      @amilennialsstory Před měsícem

      @@malikcutchin my notification is always muted from the firrst get I got my phn, cause I don't like things control me rather than me controlling my actions and time. But when I go to social media to ckeck something or watching something on youtube for important things suddenly sometimes I get sucked there on those short videos, which I hate. Although I have my boundaries like I Don't carry phone with me always, I study or work on laptop, do not use phn, love nature so spend a lot of time in my gardens. But still the functions are made for humans to get sucked and this is what J hate, I even deleted the facebook account which had a good amount of followers and a huge community.

  • @user-pv8qp7je6p
    @user-pv8qp7je6p Před měsícem +131

    My brother is so stuck with netflix, I hardly remember him as the cherish brother he used to be. Now he has 0 pacience, he is mean and always angry when we don't do things the way he exactly want us to do...

    • @fianski
      @fianski Před 20 dny +3

      Sorry if i may ask. Just curious does netflix have short vids or something? Because i thought netflix is for movies and series that mostly 20mins+?

    • @EnasHawsawi
      @EnasHawsawi Před 16 dny

      @@fianski skipping.

    • @fianski
      @fianski Před 16 dny

      @@EnasHawsawi oof. i see. thank you!

  • @dahai35
    @dahai35 Před 2 měsíci +131

    The way I quit social media is that I don't care about other people's lives anymore,I only care about myself now😅

  • @areenkhan6108
    @areenkhan6108 Před 2 měsíci +174

    At the start of this month , I deleted my social media (only keeping whatssapp and discord ) it was supposed to be a one month thing but I don’t feel like going back anymore. Life feels so so much peaceful. I only watch CZcams now and even that’s for study breaks.

    • @StudytubeDetermined
      @StudytubeDetermined Před měsícem +3

      Same. I deleted my facebook some months ago because of exams. But I don't feel like going back anymore. It's so peaceful

    • @ZE-fv4ge
      @ZE-fv4ge Před měsícem +1

      Discord is for what reason u using?

    • @areenkhan6108
      @areenkhan6108 Před měsícem

      @@ZE-fv4ge some of my friends prefer using discord

    • @pencilonpaper1026
      @pencilonpaper1026 Před měsícem +5

      @@ZE-fv4genot original commenter but i think most people use discord to talk to people they know lol it's my preferred way to talk all my friends

    • @JVlk-tw6fs
      @JVlk-tw6fs Před 24 dny

      @@ZE-fv4ge I use discord only for my german speaking club :D

  • @Iquey
    @Iquey Před měsícem +213

    "Your fashion is so on point on Instagram, that nobody would think your house was hit by a tornado! 🌪️"
    That sounds so wild said out loud for real. 😂

  • @bear3s
    @bear3s Před měsícem +60

    I literally skipped a class last week and another one today because I simply forgot I had them. I am shocked at this memory lapse, and as someone who's always been so organized and who loves having a good structured schedule, this scared me a lot... I really need to get off screens

    • @maddyharvey7414
      @maddyharvey7414 Před 22 dny +2

      Yes! I did this. I was late to my class one day because I literally forgot that it started an hour later than it does on Tuesdays. I’d spent all morning in a social media doom scroll…

  • @Senya007
    @Senya007 Před měsícem +46

    My attention span is so bad so I had to listen to this while drawing because I can only focus doing a couple of things at the same time😭

    • @jumpfruit5515
      @jumpfruit5515 Před 24 dny +7

      I've always had this even before social media. I like to doodle or write things down when getting information primarily through audio. This really does not have to have anything to do with social media. We all retain information differently, no need to always immediately hit the attention span emergency button for things like this

  • @wamyy5
    @wamyy5  Před 2 měsíci +293

    If you think this video is too long, that's a sign of your damaged attention span 👀
    Actions you must take include changing your mindset such that good habits are actually sustainable. Watching this video is the first action you can take, and everything I didn't cut in this video is left here for a reason!

  • @KrishithaVenkat
    @KrishithaVenkat Před měsícem +93

    I wasted 6 years of my life...scrolling away every single day...causing my health to deteriorate both physically as well as mentally and many other chain reactions (not positive ones)….this destroyed my relationship with everyone around and my career. It's not like I didn't do anything during this duration, I did nothing to my full potential...during recent times I even found myself having memory gaps, a short attention span and I'm constantly in a foul mood.
    I never realized that social media could be the answer to the problems I'm facing. I can't wait to start over, I'm done being so lazy. I never wanna get back to the same situation I am in right now
    Thank you for sharing your experience
    Much Love,
    K

    • @Annie-fv3wy
      @Annie-fv3wy Před měsícem +4

      I totally resonate with you and hope we get out of the situation stronger and better

  • @soniasharma3531
    @soniasharma3531 Před měsícem +76

    I deleted these social media apps because they are the reason with which i'm dissatisfied with my ownself and i always feel so much regretfull by the end of the day..that i have done nothing..wasted whole time onto stupid stuff
    Remember your time=your life
    U should not let other peoples views on your poor social media attendance affect u
    Bcz u r u and i is me

  • @aryatripathi2486
    @aryatripathi2486 Před měsícem +85

    I was just thinking to myself that I'm literally addicted to social media and went on youtube again...and I saw this video (truly a sign) which is now gonna change my life and get me A*s!!!! I deleted all my distracting apps :)

    • @ngannguyen9618
      @ngannguyen9618 Před měsícem +2

      Me too!! I was studying for my apush exam and realized I was chilling on my phone more than I was studying. I wish you good luck on your journey and let’s do this together YEAHHH!! 🎉🎉

    • @lounatamaya
      @lounatamaya Před měsícem

      did you re downald them? i hope not!!

    • @ngannguyen9618
      @ngannguyen9618 Před měsícem

      @@lounatamaya Nope!! What about you? did you decide to delete your apps?

    • @lounatamaya
      @lounatamaya Před měsícem

      @@ngannguyen9618 not really 🥲 my friends are in insta and i lovre pinterest an youtube, i just dekete tiktok and my screen time is just BETTER 🤠🙈🙈

  • @anamikahehe
    @anamikahehe Před měsícem +65

    The main problem with us is not social media but also parents and social offline group. When we put our phone turn off we start thinking about the taunts which our parents give which has nothing to do with us, the trauma of the childhood and so many disturbing things, and what happens
    As soon as turn our phone all those bad thinking becomes distractions and the phone becomes our escape point.
    I think the society should improve and also solutions need to be make for such scenarios which is almost 90% genz are facing because of generational gap.

    • @notherepim
      @notherepim Před měsícem +1

      Exactly.

    • @saniacreations
      @saniacreations Před měsícem +1

      Ooo that’s on point

    • @Shubhieeyy
      @Shubhieeyy Před měsícem +7

      That is so true!
      Social media is literally the coping mechanism for me from my toxic relatives and family💀

  • @aichasdiary
    @aichasdiary Před měsícem +27

    I deleted TikTok first and then instagram because I knew I could do better with my self and with my life. I wanted to live again!

  • @mayabiene5530
    @mayabiene5530 Před 6 dny +3

    I used to be so creative and interested in learning as a child…literally until I got my first phone. Now I don’t make art anymore, it takes me forever to finish a book (it used to take me just one or two days). I want to be more like my old self and I know I have to get away from social media for that.
    Thank you for the reminder!

  • @Drganguli
    @Drganguli Před 2 měsíci +34

    CZcams is good but Facebook, Instagram and others are a huge waste of time.

    • @mizu4908
      @mizu4908 Před měsícem +21

      But CZcams shorts are also a big waste of time

    • @Drganguli
      @Drganguli Před měsícem

      @@mizu4908 yes true but long form CZcams content now has lot of free tutorials and courses which can be used to learn and grow.

  • @vatsal5791
    @vatsal5791 Před měsícem +49

    Why is she being so relatable 😭😭

  • @wamyy5
    @wamyy5  Před 2 měsíci +69

    You all are posting such AMAZING, inspiring comments that I wish I could pin multiple ❤🥲 Thank you.

  • @rimshafatima7414
    @rimshafatima7414 Před 2 měsíci +68

    I deleted insta few days back and tbh it truly changes your life ...I feel more n more grounded , calm and just happy ...its like the sense of urgency is gone and now i can finally breathe...ive been feeling more innthe moment and appreciative of little things...
    My screen time has reduced immensely and it just Makes me so proud of myself..
    Thankuuu for this vedios Amy ❤

  • @sragviii20
    @sragviii20 Před 2 měsíci +59

    I've been thinking of deleting Snapchat since a month now as I'm just kinda fed up of wanting to open all those snaps n chats all day. I was scared tht my friends might be a bit mad if i break our long long snap streak cuz what's a teenager doing without a snap account??? ....but i realised that in the next 10 yrs it won't even matter what my snapstreaks are. There r too many more important things in life. Your video really really motivated me so much! Deleting Snap rn. 💪🏼💫
    Thank you Amy ❤

    • @Katon987
      @Katon987 Před 4 dny

      does anyone still use snapchat??? whoa, i havent used it since 2022

    • @sragviii20
      @sragviii20 Před 4 dny

      @@Katon987 in my class, almost everyone does

  • @hyunnism
    @hyunnism Před 11 dny +13

    a tip: the more we stay away from social media, the more bored we become, and this is the perfect time for you to direct your attention to things like studying, exercising, planning (things that are useful for our life)

  • @lilyzzzzzz
    @lilyzzzzzz Před měsícem +68

    I love that this video doesn't have any background music

  • @another_user8898
    @another_user8898 Před měsícem +19

    i just deleted insta to focus on ap exams…here’s to a successful 5 on ap calc ab and ap world history 💪🏽

  • @tuanaatav
    @tuanaatav Před měsícem +11

    I don't even have social media only CZcams, yet youtuhe shorts is ruining my attention span aswell to the point where a 5min video is to long for me. Watching 19min and not skipping was a such a great thing. Thank you!

    • @homiekeen23
      @homiekeen23 Před měsícem +1

      Yess 😭😭 didn't even realise because I felt "safe" on youtube 😅

  • @buyankhishighoroldavaa4265

    I deleted TikTok and insta bc they are the ones that makes me want to scroll for hours and hours. So that now I deleted them I will have more time and more time to study compared to when I had barely time bc of social media. So excited tou to have a lot of free time. I hope I stay disciplined

  • @Alexiagood1407
    @Alexiagood1407 Před měsícem +8

    It’s not just social media for me anymore it’s self help podcasts and Spotify , and CZcams videos like this one!

  • @ellieyu4734
    @ellieyu4734 Před měsícem +23

    I want to begin my life again and I want to help people along the way. I’ve been overthinking so much and forgetting so much these past few months and it scares me.
    I’m putting this comment out there so every time I re-download social media, I can look back at this and realise how far I’ve come.
    Thank you so much for this video and I can’t wait :)

  • @diya3584
    @diya3584 Před měsícem +17

    Thank you for saving a lot of teens like me from wasting a lot of time on these social media ...... Wish you a healthy and happy life ahead

  • @viridisrex
    @viridisrex Před 2 měsíci +920

    everyone pretending they've watched the whole video after 9 minutes in a 19 minute video 💀

  • @nisham6327
    @nisham6327 Před 2 měsíci +35

    16:28 reminds me of a quote "You’re not missing out because you have different priorities than everyone else" I almost watched all your videos and it's really an eye-opener for me since I always gave my average, somehow got grades that were considered good but not really best tbh I was pretty disappointed in myself too. But the mindset change I got after watching your videos is valuable, I finally got into the mindset of putting myself first and giving it my all.
    Thank you. ♡

    • @sragviii20
      @sragviii20 Před 2 měsíci +1

      I'm putting that quote on my motivation wall. Really needed to hear that

  • @dianamiller-xz2vz
    @dianamiller-xz2vz Před 17 dny +2

    I started losing my memory more too, i hate that i cant remember stuff anymore it makes me feel and look like an idiot to everyone's around me

  • @lilith4565
    @lilith4565 Před 8 dny +1

    I want to feel present in my own life, social media and distractions are making my dissociation way worse.

  • @NiaRiggins
    @NiaRiggins Před měsícem +6

    This helped me so much I didn’t realize how much social media has consumed my life and how attached I got to it so much so I started to bring my iPad into the shower with me and felt bad for unsubscribing and I actually have 4,251 videos liked 😭

  • @dazzIingstarlet
    @dazzIingstarlet Před měsícem +3

    to these who don't want to cut out entirely: just shape the content you consume block whatever and whoever makes u uncomfortable, uneasy, sad, annoyed, envious etc. there are endless content that could motivate and change the way u see yrself and life just follow artists u like and motivational and inspirational content creators its really life changing

  • @naisergikdeepikakhanna7676
    @naisergikdeepikakhanna7676 Před 2 měsíci +33

    Amy.......I am so happy to understand this video. Just a perfect solution for my distraction and ultimate academic success

  • @lakshyapappu
    @lakshyapappu Před měsícem +10

    The shoe story really brought tears to my eyes because my mom is a person that's always sick she has back pain, sciatica, neck pain and she asks me to do some small chores like putting the washed dishes in the racks or getting the dried clothes from the terrace etc.. and sometimes i'd tell her that I'd do it after eating or this or that and end up forgetting.. she doesn't ask me again and does those things by herself even in pain. I wouldn't even remember that she had asked me to do that stuff until the next day.

    • @VanillaBalm2116
      @VanillaBalm2116 Před měsícem +3

      Hey, I hope everything's gonna get better asap. Take care

  • @lycheeluvr17
    @lycheeluvr17 Před 27 dny +5

    Just deleted TikTok for the summer, hopefully I’ll get a 4.0 in summer classes and get out skateboarding more, this video gave me a final push to delete it tysm

  • @EmiMayhemYT
    @EmiMayhemYT Před 7 dny +1

    I just watched this video and deleted both Reddit and Instagram. I had a timer set, but when it filled it would prompt with adding more time, which then went into mindlessly adding more minutes... I have a week until 2 very important exams and I want to focus fully on them. I've also been very tired lately due to the stress of the exams + a project I need to present in 2 weeks.
    Today I cried like 3 times. I don't want this happening again. I really needed seeing someone else deleting these apps to finally take action. I'll chime back when I finish everything to see what changed and update this comment!

  • @awesomeaanu989
    @awesomeaanu989 Před 2 měsíci +73

    Under 24 hours gang
    👇

  • @elisschern
    @elisschern Před 6 dny +1

    I deleted insta and tiktok, because scrolling through them makes me feel bad and really feeds my escapism/daydreaming and makes it really hard for me to be grounded. I always worry about something and feel bad about myself, but hopefully I’ll feel better. I wanted to do it for a really long time but I just felt so scared on missing out things(especially since I’m living abroad)..

  • @EcomCarl
    @EcomCarl Před měsícem +3

    Amy's candid approach to addressing the pitfalls of social media is refreshing and relatable. Taking conscious steps to manage our digital consumption can lead to a more balanced and fulfilling life offline. 📵

    • @wamyy5
      @wamyy5  Před měsícem +1

      Thank you, Carl!

  • @eternalstellar1
    @eternalstellar1 Před měsícem +5

    i want to start living my life, because of the war in my country and fear, that my life and lives of my loved ones could be lost for nothing. thank you for video

  • @jeon_fx6371
    @jeon_fx6371 Před 2 měsíci +9

    you talked about the exact things I've been noticing in myself when being addicted to social media, I'm less mind full and aware even about the miniscule things, I realzied that I was limiting my happiness and than I'll have a breakdown of how less productive I am becoming, which made me realize that you also don't have to be productive all the time, its okay to get slow sometimes, but I also had to be aware of the content I was consuming, if I 'slow down' a bit, I switched listening to Islamic videos and podcast, and (as I am a Muslim so I'm also trying to improve myself in terms of my religion), I also took time to understand and tell myself to value my life and the blessings I have (like I can make choices on my own, I have the capability, this the thing I pointed out and have been practicing to be grateful about, which had a great impact on me,) I noticed that now I'm kind of disgusted to 'mindlessly' scroll (I do binge watch sometimes) and now I'm automatically aware of what to consume! I struggled a lot with improving myself in these things, and wamy, I am also going to give you a credit, bcz of you, I have a bit stronger and matured mindset than before!❤ I'm so glad to be a part of A-team!🎉

  • @ayazerguine8095
    @ayazerguine8095 Před 14 dny +2

    I deleted all my social media today , the only screen time I can get is watching tv (a movie) for three hours max

  • @umakannan1330
    @umakannan1330 Před 2 měsíci +5

    thank you so much amy ive been requesting it for almost a moth now and you came up with it we stan a helpful queen

    • @wamyy5
      @wamyy5  Před 2 měsíci +2

      Yayyy yes been working hard on this video!

  • @KEYsource13
    @KEYsource13 Před měsícem +1

    its crazy how much u got me motivated and i deleted my social media apps with you too!, and tbh it felt good so now i can have better focus. ty

  • @Rrutiikiingg
    @Rrutiikiingg Před měsícem +1

    i just deleted all my social media and all those distracting shopping and entertainment apps id subconsciously reach out too, thanks amy for always being a best friend through your videos, lots of love

  • @wiktorgoaszewski7337
    @wiktorgoaszewski7337 Před měsícem +1

    Thank you for this video. I recently realized that I got too much addicted to Instagram and others social medias and unfortunately my grades become worse too, and I really felt bad for me and now when I have your video watched I feel that I still can "rebecame" the person I used to be 2 years ago. Thank you so, so much

  • @lyssa7094
    @lyssa7094 Před měsícem +1

    Hi Amy, thanks for reminding me about this ☺️ i feel more comfortable with my life now and grateful with everything that i have now. I hope everyone will be living their life well and happy.

  • @Lizzie-dx5ln
    @Lizzie-dx5ln Před 13 dny

    I almost left the video because of how long the intro is. I’m so glad I got to the part where you talked about short attention spam before i was about to leave. This video has actually given me motivation to delete majority of my social media and stick to it. Thank you very much for this video!

  • @avanijadhav2849
    @avanijadhav2849 Před 2 měsíci +5

    Thank you Amyy!!
    My new academic year has started and i know you're going to help alot!!

  • @Jessica-yb3in
    @Jessica-yb3in Před 2 měsíci +2

    Hey Amy! Thank you for posting this. I think about all the things you say in your stories, but no one has really said it out loud in such a way to help me understand how distracting and life-sucking social media is. Plus, this video came at just the right time because AP exams are coming up and I don’t want a good score to slip away simply because of a lack of self control 💚🧡

  • @ShevinAndresen
    @ShevinAndresen Před 2 měsíci +1

    Last year I was addicted watching too much you tube videos and this year I'm addicted to tiktok
    Thank you so much for posting this video Amy you're a lifesaver

  • @user-wh1tv8ps4g
    @user-wh1tv8ps4g Před 2 měsíci +2

    Watching this video, I'm not in an exam season, I'm on a holiday! And I'm sure this video will help me get good use from it. Thank you! ❤

  • @AlejandroHenriquez-sp2fz
    @AlejandroHenriquez-sp2fz Před 2 měsíci +30

    Hey Amy.
    So...
    Alright lemme tell you:
    I confess that yes I have an addiction to social media. More specifically CZcams.
    I actually have many addictions and most of them are related to my phone 📱.
    Now the thing is that I have severe depression and anxiety.
    The last few months I had mental breakdowns (at least 4 so far) and this had ruined my semester!
    Not even a few days ago I had such a powerful mental breakdown!!! It was INTENSE AF!!!!
    I've thought that I reached my lowest point before but MAN I WAS WRONG!!!!! I NEVER THOUGHT I COULD FEEL THAT LOW!!!!!!
    This is obviously affecting my capacity to study but not only that! Actually I have been struggling to do the most basic stuff actually! Such as washing myself, brushing my teeth, studying, practicing my hobbies etc.
    It's really gotten so bad that I cannot currently revise for my exam which is after tomorrow :(
    I really don't know what to do
    I don't even know why I am telling you all this 😅😅
    I mean we talked initially about social media addiction.
    The point I was trying to get to was that I have addictions because of my shity mental health :/
    Could you make a video about: how to manage to study even during a mental breakdown??
    Could help SOOOO many people!
    I am sure I am not the only one needing a video like this
    Anyways thank you 💖🥰 so much for your videos and the great content you make!!!
    You're a great CZcamsr!!!!

    • @Nathan-Million
      @Nathan-Million Před 2 měsíci +4

      Very brave of you to post this online, wish you the best.

    • @sabinusrachel7718
      @sabinusrachel7718 Před 2 měsíci +1

      I hope you still do great on the test 😌you can do it dear☺️. If not you then who??🐙🙂

    • @AlejandroHenriquez-sp2fz
      @AlejandroHenriquez-sp2fz Před 2 měsíci

      Thank you 😊💕 guys
      It really means a lot to me 💓💖

    • @OUAZENEHANANE
      @OUAZENEHANANE Před 2 měsíci

      i can feel you that's what happened for me and the worst it happened to me at the worst time like there is only two month left for my final exam which will decide in which university I'm going i feel like dying

    • @AlejandroHenriquez-sp2fz
      @AlejandroHenriquez-sp2fz Před 2 měsíci

      @@OUAZENEHANANE Ouch 🤕🤕
      I really don't know what to say mate :(
      May the strength be with you dear
      I am wishing you strength, patience, resilience, determination, consistency and good health...
      Hopefully you'll get accepted in the place where you want to get accepted.
      I am at university and it's not fun 😭

  • @alacepearl
    @alacepearl Před měsícem

    This was SO beautiful! Story 3 is making me feel sooo good and joyful just hearing it! Thank you so much

  • @sakimizumi5432
    @sakimizumi5432 Před 2 měsíci +8

    THANK YOU AMY FOR POSTING THIS....IM REALLY STRUGGLING WITH THIS SITUATION RIGHT NOWWWWW

  • @Samira_07
    @Samira_07 Před 2 měsíci +4

    Thank you so much amy for making this video. I have my finals coming but i have been scrolling everyday instead of studying. I promise to cut off the social media and live the real life. One amazing thing happened was my phones display was gone but still have been using laptop to scroll but now its time to stop and find who i am. Have nice trip to china and enjoy a lot^^ Love you

  • @artreadcode
    @artreadcode Před 25 dny +1

    I will thrive, not just survive! No more doomscrolling, just will study more with books, papers, and lectures on CZcams for my dream.

  • @lonelywolf1210
    @lonelywolf1210 Před 2 měsíci +2

    It was so messed up to watch other people’s lives, I got so mad for having a boring life compared to them, now I don’t worry about that anymore, now I can focus on my own and not think about other people’s lives, now I feel peace in my brain and life, now everything is much better

  • @user-pd9zh5sq7i
    @user-pd9zh5sq7i Před měsícem +2

    Hey girl! Thank you so much for this honestly u change my life like ur my sister. Right now for me its holidays and my family is here and I can understand what u mean by u are more observant and grateful for what u have, I know that I am small and young but still I want to support myself and be more matured than my age. Girl I really want to meet u, you are a changer not for just me but for 100's of other people. I am just in year 6, but at the same time, I feel like a 20 year old woman.
    I will thrive, not just survive.

  • @SweekrutiRaniSwain-uo1on
    @SweekrutiRaniSwain-uo1on Před měsícem +2

    Thankyou Amy for this video. I am very much distracted of youtube shorts. Now I going to put the habits you said in my daily life to achieve my full potential and succeed in my field.❤

  • @elleroya1268
    @elleroya1268 Před 24 dny

    Thank you so much for this video. I recently deleted instagram and TikTok off of my phone and I now have a designated hour at the end of my day where I look at social media on my iPad. It genuinely does not bring me any joy unless I change my algorithm to positive content, much like this video, so there is not a lot that compels me to re-download it onto my phone.
    I’ve noticed, the same way that you did, that I am a lot more grateful and observant of the world around me, because I think as humans we are not designed to be exposed to so many other peoples lives. The constant comparison is absolutely a thief of joy. I am excited for this new life ahead without social media taking over my brain! We are so much more powerful than the world leads us to believe. ❤

  • @SID_597
    @SID_597 Před 2 měsíci +2

    REALLY NEEDED THIS VIDEO!
    GOD BLESS YOU💫

  • @moremusic25
    @moremusic25 Před 15 dny

    Thank you so much for this video, I was feeling lost, without a purpose in life really... so after watching your video I realized I was spending the majority of my time on social media instead of going for a walk or go out with friends!! I was so stressed...
    Now I want to go for a walk, to read a book... live my life!
    Thank you so much, really!!

  • @luisadavila4527
    @luisadavila4527 Před 16 dny

    Gurl, I’m literally half of your video and already deleted IG, not like account shut down but deleted app, I feel SO relatable, been depressed, moody, my bf asks me all the time if I’m ok, I spend HOURS at reels and garbage content, I don’t feel like a person anymore, glad I found your video, thank you.🙏

  • @nyph7955
    @nyph7955 Před 23 dny

    This video actually made me concious. I have disciplined myself for 3 months. During that time, I totally focused on learning, but now I am using social media again. I really regret it. I think this video appears to warn me

  • @KayasKreations
    @KayasKreations Před 8 dny

    Thank you so much. I just deleted all the addicting “” apps off my phone. This is just what I needed to hear.

  • @laujiajie5019
    @laujiajie5019 Před 2 měsíci +3

    Hi Amy, this is my first time commenting ur vid after being ur subscriber so long, thanks for making this vid, I just freed myself, deleted all social media like yt insta Reddit immediately, feeling released, finally not like a slave to the phone, I’m setting a target for maximising my phone time to 45min a day, just limited to replying important msg, ur videos have always been so motivating and inspiring, I’ll try out my best to be the best version of myself❤

    • @wamyy5
      @wamyy5  Před 14 dny

      I'm so so proud of you ♥️

  • @Val.Sonnenschein.19
    @Val.Sonnenschein.19 Před 2 měsíci +4

    Hi Amy, I watched so much of these “get your life back” videos and I honestly have to say this is the only video wich really helps me. I said always to myself “I have to delete this scrolling from my life but had every time the excuse that why can’t I be like normal kids in my age who don’t care if there wasting there life on social media. everyone does this so I can do to And now I know why I can’t, cause the kids will never achieve the things that I want to achieve, there highest dream isn’t to get into an Elite University like Oxford, they’re just don’t care about there grades. But I always did. And yes I also have these straight As and maybe it’s easier for me than for others. But I also ever wanted to be good because I want to achieve big goals in my life.
    So thank you this Video was exactly what I needed to know again what I can and wich dreams I want to reach ❤

  • @imjustkait
    @imjustkait Před 28 dny

    this is the first longer video I've been able to sit and watch in ages omg. I deleted all socials while watching and subscribed :)) thank you for making this!

    • @wamyy5
      @wamyy5  Před 28 dny

      So proud of you!! :)

  • @hyunjinshairband1
    @hyunjinshairband1 Před měsícem +2

    hey, amy! i love the new style of videos and the thumbnail, its so cool. but of course, the same great vibe from you always stays 💗

  • @Matilda130_
    @Matilda130_ Před 8 hodinami

    I'm so much addicted to my phone that i don't even remember what i used to do before having a phone. Whenever the thought of putting my phone down crosses my mind i feel suffocating. I'm realising that my brain doesn't work faster like before, I can't be attentive at anything at all

  • @isskalima
    @isskalima Před 2 měsíci +3

    Thank you very much for this❤ video, it helped me remember those coins when I made a challenge like you in 2023 in the summer, I felt what you felt. But after I downloaded social media again, I passed the exam more aggressively, each time I spent preparing for the exam for later, and a feeling of emptiness that life was boring. But this video helped me realize everything, and I, too, like you, will delete the social network and bkdu, focus more on the exam and self-love and life
    You are the best CZcamsr and you are always give the best advice that work love u❤❤❤
    Ps: I even cried when you started talking about grandma and grandpa because I think so too😭

  • @kpopcharlits
    @kpopcharlits Před měsícem +2

    Whenever I get up I always time myself like 3 hrs insta and then we will do our work, but I always end up procrastinating. The context of the page gets more interesting and I forget about it and then when I finally put my phone down my whole energy is drained. I am going to delete a few apps on my Phone for sometime, till i achieve my goals. Thank you so much Amy, I found your channel just yesterday and I am already loving it and watching all your videos for motivation ❤

  • @floofy2880
    @floofy2880 Před 12 dny +2

    my goals are to regain my passion for my old hobbies, and to get better grades and find a way to balance the two when schools back in play.

  • @book_addict
    @book_addict Před měsícem

    i literally love you so much, you are the main reason i was able to make an academic comeback. You are the most humble and kind hearted person ever. Your personality and your mindset are so admirable (along with your successes of course). I am so lucky i found you on youtube, they were the only study related videos that motivated me and when I felt too lazy to study or I just felt like scrolling on instagram, i watched one of your videos and it helped so much! Thankyou so much for always being there and putting out those amazing study tips. Love from Pakistan💞

  • @artistgenixpriyanshigupta752

    All the stories you've explained is so relatable

  • @Lilaaa-il2tl
    @Lilaaa-il2tl Před 11 dny +2

    I waste 8 hours a day on CZcams. After school, the first thing I do is start Tik Tok. I forget everything every now and then, I often lose track of life. I don't feel okay with it. I use my phone for everything I do.

  • @geshnasartandcraft4770
    @geshnasartandcraft4770 Před měsícem +1

    I am deleting these apps cause I’m missing a lot in my life wasting time and being unable to enjoy life , be happy with others and become less lazy . And to stop being aggressive towards others😅..
    Than you so much amy❤❤❤❤ for giving everyone one the realisation.
    And your videos are so amazing it feels like we are going to miss the important part of our life if I don’t see your videos😊
    Thank u so much sis

  • @mint._cloud
    @mint._cloud Před měsícem +1

    I honestly was on a social media break and came back now, seeing this video makes me soo happy today.
    I totally agree with you, like with the journal part....i felt that during my break. and seeing u getting emotional like a lil bit during 12:35 was so like i can't even explain it made me emotional as well, i definitely saw the emotions in your eyes. yuppp i totallyyy agreee with the app deleting system, it totally works.
    I legit love the positivity in this video, I love the efforts amyy

  • @dahman42
    @dahman42 Před měsícem +2

    "I will thrive, not just survive!" Thanks for great tips, Amy! - a subscriber from Korea

    • @wamyy5
      @wamyy5  Před měsícem

      YES! Omg I love Korea :)

  • @Prohacer209
    @Prohacer209 Před 12 dny

    Hi amy thanks for this vedio I am preparing for a exam and its been two to three days I have been mindlessly scrolling yt shorts its currently 3am and knowing the fact that I wasted my whole 1 year of preparation I still keep on doing it. My parents asleep think that I am awake to study but I know the reality I am already a year late so now I pronise myself that I will hustle hard and from tomorrow I will never ever open yt shorts I give this challenge to myself for my betterment. I delete all apps not needed for study and from tomorrow I will hustle hard and to make most of my time to achieve my aim.

  • @daryus_0828
    @daryus_0828 Před 29 dny

    Thank you so much for those inspirating videos. Continue posting them and you will help millions of people to reach their max capacity.

  • @chelseachang1009
    @chelseachang1009 Před měsícem

    The social media always let me feel like I’m doing something but I know that was just the way I escape the challenges that I must go through for the things I actually want. But when I was scrolling it just made me feel more scared of the difficulties and refuse to try,then to lose the chance to find that those are not that bad.

  • @katillack
    @katillack Před 27 dny

    Thank you wAmy, I really enjoyed this video and your energy. My goal is to delete media, to be fully present and my truest self. The addiction to checking my social media sucks!!! i’m done!

  • @Julia_definitely
    @Julia_definitely Před 18 dny

    Personally my reason was Procastinating my studies and spending 11 hours a day on my phone which is crazy, even if I knew this is bad for me but those apps are so attached to me that I was struggling to delete them and I made excuses to myself to stop from deleting those apps. For the first time in my life I passed a very hard exam easily with studying efficiently without my phone but before the results arrived I had spent so much time on social media that I am back at the path I was before preparing for that exam and I realised it now that it's social media that gave me those unnecessary insecurities and I deleted all those apps today with you. I am starting my junior year of high school now and I will study hard with your videos as a reminder to keep going, Thank you so much 😭❤

  • @wolfaestudio7952
    @wolfaestudio7952 Před 5 dny

    I've noticed the more I've spent online the more symptoms of anxiety I experience and the harder it is for me to find routine

  • @NameZei
    @NameZei Před měsícem +1

    I'm hopping off of youtube (long form content too) because it's just taking too much time away. Without it, I'm excited to sit down and actually lock in and study for my 5 AP tests, as well as get back into video editing, reading this fire book I got from my school library, and journaling more frequently. Thank you Amy for this amazing video, a lot of times videos like these don't really help but today I actually feel like taking action. Cheers to everyone else and good luck on your journey!

  • @Mrs.tailor
    @Mrs.tailor Před 17 dny

    Sis your content is really helpful thanks for uploading something this real ✅not reel ❌, your new subscriber ☺️

  • @florabhatt2661
    @florabhatt2661 Před 25 dny

    I can totally relate to your 1st and 2nd story and I have been spending a lot of my time figuring out what has happened to me. I honestly didn't think of this aspect and as I was watching this video, it made me see the pattern of when I am lashing out on my loved ones, forgetting major things and it just made me more crazyyy. But thank you soo much that I found your video. I am too grateful that even I uninstalled the instagram.

  • @Adelfa087
    @Adelfa087 Před měsícem +1

    Hi Amy, so I've found your channel some time ago and I must say that your videos, different from others, ACTUALLY help me. I'm currently in my exam weeks and what you've explained perfectly describes me which is kinda sad but you really motivate me and I feel like I'm just getting advice from a close friend so I wanted to say thank you!

    • @wamyy5
      @wamyy5  Před měsícem +1

      YAY so happy to hear that! I spend so so much effort on my videos to connect with you and help people like you :) Keep going!