We were FORCED to make a LIFE CHANGING DECISION after finding out my mother has DEMENTIA

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  • čas přidán 11. 09. 2024
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  • @TheBoringChannelLawnCare
    @TheBoringChannelLawnCare  Před 20 dny +121

    What is one memory with your parents that you will never forget?

    • @uneekanne
      @uneekanne Před 20 dny +11

      @@TheBoringChannelLawnCare how they used to hold hands when driving down the road together. On sundays they would want to go for a drive with them. We’d go to Branson. There I’d be in the back seat smiling thinking 50+ years of marriage still holding hands. The next I will never forget when I told dad she was about to go there he was by her side boo hooing because she had always been his best friend for many many years even though she wasn’t mom anymore he took the best care of her he could. Now she was gone he fell apart and was never the same again.

    • @TK-3739
      @TK-3739 Před 20 dny +10

      Painting my dad's house and relaying carpet tiles in his house as he couldn't do it. Got his house fixed up, and unfortunately he passed away Oct. 5, 2017 in Bartlesville, OK. Hardest thing was letting it go after he passed. Still missing him today. Kevin, enjoy all the time you have with your mother and father as they will not be around forever. Parents are here to make memories for their children so they can remember them when they're gone.

    • @gigglemethis1441
      @gigglemethis1441 Před 20 dny +5

      One of my best memories with both my mom & dad also included my grandparents. My mom, dad & myself has just moved into a new place. My grandpa had been in the Army & was a veteran. My dad was an MP in the Marines. As men will do sometimes they apparently decided to see who could be quieter while doing “recon”! I had been put to bed hours before & probably a couple beers ago. My grandma had went to bed early as was her custom to be up at the crack of dawn the next day. My mom had been enlisted to work the Polaroid camera. I was awakened by my grandma screaming. I ran down the hall and didn’t know what it was but saw a bright flash (mom taking a picture). Then a lot of choice words from a woman I rarely heard say a curse word. I was told to go back to bed that everything was ok just daddy & grandpa being silly. I woke up the next day to everyone around the table drinking coffee & laughing. They were passing around two Polaroids laughing. My mom had taken the picture as grandma was rising up to scream while dad & gramps each dressed in nothing but shower caps, boxers & a bra. They each also had a bottle of Talcum powder. Grandma got the worst of it. The next picture was of dad on one side, grandpa on the other & grandma in the bed covered in powder. They were standing in the strong man pose on either side & grandma sitting on bed mouth open probably cussing. I’m not exaggerating they were all covered in powder. Two huge bottles full but now empty. It was the biggest mess to clean up but one heck of a funny memory. Grandpa is the only one still with us but there are days he doesn’t know who anyone is. He was diagnosed with dementia not long after a terrible accident that took my moms life in 2006. My step dad (mom remarried yrs later) passed away a cpl yrs later & grandma soon after. My wish is that you have as many years with your mom as we’ve had with my grandpa. We were worried the most about him after the terrible accident. May God give you those 20 yrs more as we’ve had with my grandpa. Make time to create those lasting memories. Remember that it’s sometimes the simple things that last the longest. Like our Sunday dinners with grandpa at the grill, grandma in the kitchen & the kids setting the table. After dinner was time for that homemade IceCream and a game of cards.

    • @dougsjoberg2353
      @dougsjoberg2353 Před 20 dny +5

      @@TheBoringChannelLawnCare I think lazy Sunday mornings listening and singing to music. But I have to say the most frustrating thing about dementia is that it’s confusing to them if you bring up old / best memories as they don’t remember so that makes it more challenging as they become sicker. 😞. All the best!

    • @laurawilson6389
      @laurawilson6389 Před 20 dny +3

      Holiday dinners with All the family. My father passed when I was young. My mom and I moved from the family home when I was in high school. Then she moved to Ark. and we really didn't see much of her and step grump.

  • @64cuspofchange
    @64cuspofchange Před 21 dnem +235

    I am the caregiver for my mother who has multiple health issues and dementia on top of it all . She is 88 years old and it is not easy for her (or me) but 'love' is key to their longevity and good care . My mom and i have morning prayer together and we read a chapter from the bible every morning (we never miss) and it sets the tone for the entire day . When my mother passes i will sleep good , i will be strong because i know that i am doing everything within my power and the strengthening aid of God's holy spirit in order to care for her spiritually and physically 🙏

    • @lia-liz2012
      @lia-liz2012 Před 20 dny +11

      You're an awesome son!😊

    • @janehelbert7551
      @janehelbert7551 Před 20 dny +7

      God bless you!

    • @2009samiy
      @2009samiy Před 18 dny +4

      Quran 21:33
      َAnd He is the One Who created the night and the day, and the sun and the moon each one
      floating (and moving) in an orbit
      youtube mary and jesus in the quran and mohmmad in the bible and the Torah and the scientific
      miracles of the quran and mohmmad in hindu scripture

      according the bible that you have

      (Matthew 4:1) Jesus was tempted
      (James 1:13) God doesn't get tempted
      (John 1:29) Jesus was seen
      (1 John 4:12) No man has ever seen God
      (Acts 2:22) Jesus was and is a man, sent by God
      (Numbers 23:19, Hosea11:9) God is not a man
      (Hebrews 5:8-9) Jesus had to grow and learn
      (Isaiah 40:28) God doesn't ever need to learn
      (1 Corinthians 15:3-4) Jesus dies
      (1 Timothy 1:17) God doesn't die
      (Hebrews 5:7) Jesus needed salvation
      (Luke 1:37) God doesn't need salvation
      (John 4:6) Jesus grew weary
      (Isaiah 40:28) God Doesn't grow weary
      (Mark 4:38) Jesus slept
      (Psalm 121:2-4) God doesn't sleep
      (John 5:19) Jesus isn't all powerful
      (Isaiah 45:5-7) God is all powerful
      (Mark 13:32) Jesus isn't all knowing
      (Isaiah 46:9) God is all knowing
      ...................

    • @64cuspofchange
      @64cuspofchange Před 18 dny +2

      ​@@2009samiy yes you are right Jesus is not God . Jesus never claimed to be God and many people for some reason cannot see that 🤷‍♀️

    • @mariewolton7027
      @mariewolton7027 Před 16 dny

      ​@@2009samiy Who was & claimed to be 'the greatest deciever? The Bible & Mohammed had things to say about that to....?

  • @Seeyouatthegate
    @Seeyouatthegate Před 21 dnem +118

    Hi Kevin, I’m so sorry to hear about your precious Mother. As a hospice nurse of 25 years, I have done a lot of teaching about dementia and care for patients and their families. You are truly doing the best thing moving her early in the illness, moves tend to increase the decline of health past a certain period. Also, remember to be patient and sometimes you just have to agree with the person because reality orientation is not always helpful. Example: who put those clothes on my bed? Now you know she did, try telling her once “I thought you did” if she says “no I didn’t” you just go with it, and tell her you’ll talk to the manager and it won’t happen again.
    The person isn’t caused more anxiety or agitation and you’re not the bad guy for correcting her.
    Please feel free to reach out when you get to Florida, I’m the one that has a place for yall in central Florida. 5 acres, you can park RV and use the empty 4 bedroom house if you want to stretch out!
    My prayers go out to you all for wellness, safety and happiness.

    • @shannonwolf7188
      @shannonwolf7188 Před 20 dny +13

      What a kind and wonderful person you are with such a generous offer! 😊❤

    • @Seeyouatthegate
      @Seeyouatthegate Před 20 dny

      @@shannonwolf7188thank you, sadly I have a lot of experience with this illness, and I am happy to help with patients and families are suffering with this, unfortunately it affects the entire family and the best offer is some kind of respite. Since I have the ability I’m honored to extend the invitation ❤

    • @mariagriffin1216
      @mariagriffin1216 Před 17 dny +5

      God bless your wonderful heart and soul for your offer to Kevin as he and his family are awesome people and I’m sure appreciate your offer. ❤

  • @user-s6_3-
    @user-s6_3- Před 15 dny +11

    I lost my mother when I was 18 to cancer, she was 34, and then I lost my dad when he was 53 with lung cancer, it's really hard to lose your parents especially at a young age, I am oldest of 6 and my baby sister lost mom when she was 4yrs old and it was on her birthday (my mom's & my sisters) my sister won't celebrate her birthday cause of it. So I agree, cherish every moment you have with your parents. Prayers.

  • @txknitnurse
    @txknitnurse Před 19 dny +49

    My mother died from Lewy Body Dementia. I was her caregiver. Most difficult thing I ever did but I don’t regret being able to keep her home and free from bedsores, infections, loneliness and isolation. God Bless you.

    • @kimtonearts
      @kimtonearts Před 6 dny +1

      So sorry 😢 Thats a tough spot for sure. Its these little-big lessons we're here to learn things through. I imagine you think first, "that person may be going thru something that isn't obvious to the rest of the world..." Or something like that. Our parents, if they did their job right, are our greatest Teachers. One way or another God uses them to make us better than we'd be if they weren't our spec parents. I'm not saying that's all they taught you at all, but it is a stand out thing that some people never catch on to. That a sad lesson or example, but take the good from it, cherish it and let it make you the best soul you can be on this cra cra earth. You thought I was going to say crap crap earth didn't you? Lol, I almost did. I hope you're doing ok. 🕊️

  • @Tiregoddess1
    @Tiregoddess1 Před 17 dny +24

    Bless you and your family.
    My younger sister was diagnosed with White Matter disease last winter. She is much younger, only in her 40’s.
    The news was devastating but, she is doing so much better now. Her and her husband had to move from Louisiana to Iowa and is receiving treatment at university of Iowa hospital. She made a complete lifestyle change and with their guidance and treatments is stable and thankful for everyday!
    May the Lord guide and protect your mother and her doctors!
    There is no cure, but not all is hopeless!

  • @MrLangDog
    @MrLangDog Před 20 dny +44

    I was literally choked up the entire time you guys did the transformation. I hope their move to your property turns out to be a decades long, family bonding experience.

    • @2009samiy
      @2009samiy Před 18 dny

      Quran 21:33
      َAnd He is the One Who created the night and the day, and the sun and the moon each one
      floating (and moving) in an orbit
      youtube mary and jesus in the quran and mohmmad in the bible and the Torah and the scientific
      miracles of the quran and mohmmad in hindu scripture

      according the bible that you have

      (Matthew 4:1) Jesus was tempted
      (James 1:13) God doesn't get tempted
      (John 1:29) Jesus was seen
      (1 John 4:12) No man has ever seen God
      (Acts 2:22) Jesus was and is a man, sent by God
      (Numbers 23:19, Hosea11:9) God is not a man
      (Hebrews 5:8-9) Jesus had to grow and learn
      (Isaiah 40:28) God doesn't ever need to learn
      (1 Corinthians 15:3-4) Jesus dies
      (1 Timothy 1:17) God doesn't die
      (Hebrews 5:7) Jesus needed salvation
      (Luke 1:37) God doesn't need salvation
      (John 4:6) Jesus grew weary
      (Isaiah 40:28) God Doesn't grow weary
      (Mark 4:38) Jesus slept
      (Psalm 121:2-4) God doesn't sleep
      (John 5:19) Jesus isn't all powerful
      (Isaiah 45:5-7) God is all powerful
      (Mark 13:32) Jesus isn't all knowing
      (Isaiah 46:9) God is all knowing
      ...................

    • @jmsmom67
      @jmsmom67 Před 15 dny +1

      I was literally sitting here crying

  • @user-eb9zc3pd1z
    @user-eb9zc3pd1z Před 21 dnem +85

    Young man my heart goes out to you . I took care of both my parents they passed within a year of each other due to Dementia . I am not much of a religouse man but I will pray for you and your folks ! Keith

  • @kbaseheart
    @kbaseheart Před 21 dnem +164

    I lost my dad to dementia & Covid 12/19/23. He had fallen & had to go in a rehab for strengthening which is where he caught Covid from a nurse who was treating him. He passed away alone because they wouldn’t let us go in. Yesterday would’ve been his birthday. 78
    Make sure to keep up your strength & all you boys in the family so that if your mom ever falls or has an accident she won’t have to go in a rehab. It’s really important. Praying for your mom & strength for the rest of the family. ❤

    • @lia-liz2012
      @lia-liz2012 Před 20 dny +9

      So sorry about your dad...😢❤

    • @kbaseheart
      @kbaseheart Před 20 dny +3

      @@lia-liz2012 Thank you

    • @sharontinin2805
      @sharontinin2805 Před 19 dny +3

      I agree, my mom broke her hip while I was in the hospital having cancer surgery.
      She had dementia and was confused, and fell one night.
      Anyway she had to go to a nursing home after, because I couldn't lift her to transfer to wheelchair, bed, etc. As I still had tubes and very weak.
      Anyway just before I was going to bring her back home, some one from the nursing staff gave her the flu or covid, she passed alone with no family.

    • @kbaseheart
      @kbaseheart Před 19 dny +2

      @@sharontinin2805 I am so sorry. I know what that is like. Home is always best. I hope you’re doing okay.

    • @user-dq9po1nh4g
      @user-dq9po1nh4g Před 18 dny +1

      Beautiful. Thank you for sharing. ❤

  • @KJABurch
    @KJABurch Před 17 dny +12

    My gosh how beautiful! It turned out amazing! I wouldn’t want to leave. 😢if there’s one advice I can give for those who have their parents, and that is to Go and help do improvements for them while they are healthy, regardless if they say no a million times. Simple things like how they painted the chicken coop area makes a world of difference, and brings a breath of fresh air to them. It will help them feel a sigh of relief in a time where they look around and feel overwhelmed by the aging of the property and all the property entails. Mom loved watching her birds. So us kids bought her a huge fountain ⛲️, and designed an area for it where she could sit on her porch swing and enjoy them. That was years before she passed away. We never took the time to go out to the fountain and inspect it from time to time, and after she passed awry, and we were trying to freshen the place up for dad, we noticed it was crumbling beyond repair. Something she loved so much couldn’t even hold water anymore. It broke our hearts. I’m saying this stuff because I’ve been through it all. We all wish we would have taken the time to do the things to freshen things up when they were healthy enough to enjoy it.
    I’m praying for your mom and family. ❤ Be Gentle and understanding as your mom fights this battle. Even if it comes to having to repeat yourself over and over. Remember it’s not her fault. ❤

  • @briankrone2631
    @briankrone2631 Před 20 dny +13

    The one memory with my parents I will never forget, we were on vacation and stopped off at the wallsmart and my dad went to look at a hat and the whole wall display fell down 😂 my dad was mortified but it was hilarious. Kevin you are an angelic reincarnation, the things you do for not only strangers but random neighborhoods but you put all that aside to help make life a little easier on your parents truly amazing

    • @2009samiy
      @2009samiy Před 18 dny

      Quran 21:33
      َAnd He is the One Who created the night and the day, and the sun and the moon each one
      floating (and moving) in an orbit
      youtube mary and jesus in the quran and mohmmad in the bible and the Torah and the scientific
      miracles of the quran and mohmmad in hindu scripture

      according the bible that you have

      (Matthew 4:1) Jesus was tempted
      (James 1:13) God doesn't get tempted
      (John 1:29) Jesus was seen
      (1 John 4:12) No man has ever seen God
      (Acts 2:22) Jesus was and is a man, sent by God
      (Numbers 23:19, Hosea11:9) God is not a man
      (Hebrews 5:8-9) Jesus had to grow and learn
      (Isaiah 40:28) God doesn't ever need to learn
      (1 Corinthians 15:3-4) Jesus dies
      (1 Timothy 1:17) God doesn't die
      (Hebrews 5:7) Jesus needed salvation
      (Luke 1:37) God doesn't need salvation
      (John 4:6) Jesus grew weary
      (Isaiah 40:28) God Doesn't grow weary
      (Mark 4:38) Jesus slept
      (Psalm 121:2-4) God doesn't sleep
      (John 5:19) Jesus isn't all powerful
      (Isaiah 45:5-7) God is all powerful
      (Mark 13:32) Jesus isn't all knowing
      (Isaiah 46:9) God is all knowing
      ...................

  • @fightzoid
    @fightzoid Před 21 dnem +99

    My mom was diagnosed almost 4 years ago. She kept working for two years. She sold her house in Portland OR and moved closer to me and her siblings. Almost 4 years now and she still drives, hangs out with her sisters, plays music and has the great grand daughter come and spend the night. Next month she is driving to the Oregon coast to meet with friends for a week at the beach. She keeps notes on her phone and on a calendar at home, has her bills on auto pay and uses gps.

    • @lia-liz2012
      @lia-liz2012 Před 20 dny +8

      Wow...that's awesome 👌 😊

    • @amylathrop8329
      @amylathrop8329 Před 13 dny

      Is she driving alone? If not, get someone to go with her! PLEASE!! Still driving today doesn't mean that won't be gone in an absolutely instant. TRUST ME! So was my mom. And then, one day, miles from home, when she drove just fine to her destination, but when she left to go back home, she almost took someone else's life and her own. They are BOTH VERY lucky to have survived. Please understand that she really could be driving just fine one second and the next not. That's how this disease works. Also understand that they can and WILL "showtime" so if you test her skills by riding with her while she's driving, by the NATURE OF THIS DISEASE, she will do just fine. And then when no one is with her, she's making mistakes. And she will be completely unaware that she made them. Please recognize when she complains about being in traffic and someone honked at her so what a jerk....No, it was her. or they did something that made her have to do something to avoid an accident, PLEASE recognize that it was HER, not them. PLEASE. I'm begging you. Please don't let her drive alone. Please! Keeping notes on her phone means nothing. She will tell you has them, show them to you, use them frequently, and then, other times, she has no idea she has them. And you are completely unaware that for a moment, an hour, two days, she was completely unaware that she had those notes because she's completely unaware that she was unaware. And if those notes are to inform others of who to contact in an emergency, the goal is to PREVENT that emergency in the first place. PROACTIVE, not REACTIVE.

  • @user-td1lf5ly8l
    @user-td1lf5ly8l Před 21 dnem +181

    I’m the primary caregiver to my parent who has moderated dementia and I’ll be praying for you and your family. I like how you all work together to support one another.

    • @jimwatson7368
      @jimwatson7368 Před 21 dnem +6

      How many acres is that in Texas?

    • @jimwatson7368
      @jimwatson7368 Před 21 dnem +12

      BTW praying for your mom I lost mine in 2022 to Alzheimer's. It's a hard road, enjoy every minute you have together.

  • @JorgeM523
    @JorgeM523 Před 22 dny +104

    Dementia is a Horrible disease. My Mother is going through that now, as well. What you have offered your parents is absolutely Awesome and I truly hope it works out well, offering prayers to you and your entire family.

    • @pamkammann1176
      @pamkammann1176 Před 21 dnem +12

      Hugs to you and your mom , savor every moment ❤

    • @spizzenergi2292
      @spizzenergi2292 Před 21 dnem +3

      Still crying. God save us xxx love from UK

  • @elizabethreinhart2710
    @elizabethreinhart2710 Před 17 dny +23

    I'm so VERY grateful for getting the opportunity to taking care of my mother, she was diagnosed with dementia, unfortunately she lost her battle in 2016. She would have been 91.
    Treasure the time you have with both of your parents. Your family is in my prayers 🙏.

    • @user-ey7js4ee1c
      @user-ey7js4ee1c Před 15 dny

      I took care of my mom when we realised she was having problems with simple things. A Pediatrician actually took her as a patient..dementia is a much kinder ailment than Alzheimers. I don't remember how long I cared for her at her home daily while my kids were growing up. Staying close was the best thing for both of us. As many years went by I had a heartbreaking realization ; my mom had a boo boo that I couldn't fix. Her Dr. Helped point me in the right direction for Day care with folks her age. She would shoot hoops until in her late 60s. Eventually we had to put her in a nursing home which God selected the morning she was to be transferred.much closer than the 60 miles away the previous day. She lived to be 92. Happy and smiling loving the nursing staff until the twinkle went out of her smiling eyes. I will cherish the time I spent with her and the did too. 2 decades of laughs and challenges were so worth it. GOD WILL HELP YOU ALL GET THE BEST FOR AS LONG AS IT TAKES..YOUR MEMORIES WILL INCREASE ..Help is available if you need direction. I wish your whole family the very best on this new adventure. Love and patience and of course laughter will get you through..

    • @marinahyre2213
      @marinahyre2213 Před 15 dny +1

      Please please please get your mom off SUGAR, refined carbs, processed foods and EQUALLY important to do intermittent fasting allowing autophagy to take place. Sugar is killing Americans liver, pancreas, heart, kidneys, brain, etc.

  • @heidiely3243
    @heidiely3243 Před 20 dny +8

    My mom died of vascular dementia last year. Your videos are some of the content on CZcams that has kept me going. Thank you. Prayers for your mom and your family.

  • @dianegidaro6784
    @dianegidaro6784 Před 21 dnem +52

    So glad your parents have the support needed in a situation like this. My son is helping me in my later years (79) and I know what a blessing you are to your parents. Praying your mom has a beautiful rest-of-life. Love the home.

  • @BamaGirl4Ever
    @BamaGirl4Ever Před 21 dnem +116

    I just lost my mom to dementia on April 19th. It began 3 years and 8 months before she passed. The last 8 months were the hardest watching her physically and mentally fading away. My prayers go out to your Mom and your family. I hope you will be able to make some very lasting and special memories with her while they are living with you. God bless and keep each of you during this journey

    • @nancyf18
      @nancyf18 Před 21 dnem +11

      I'm so sorry for you and your Family's loss of your mom. God bless you and God bless your Family.

    • @DIYwMrandMrs
      @DIYwMrandMrs Před 21 dnem +5

      I’m so sorry for your loss

    • @Isaac-sj3jh
      @Isaac-sj3jh Před 21 dnem +7

      Lost my brother on April 25th after being diagnosed on February 14th.

    • @JoyceWilson-sn2bh
      @JoyceWilson-sn2bh Před 21 dnem +4

      I lost my mom too and my baby sister and my older sister

    • @gregoryspearing9012
      @gregoryspearing9012 Před 21 dnem +7

      I am sorry to hear about your mother's illness. Take care and enjoy your time with her. Bye for now Kevin. All the best wishes for you and your family. 😢😢😢😢🙏🙏🙏🙏♥️♥️♥️♥️👍

  • @andreashaynes3346
    @andreashaynes3346 Před 20 dny +29

    Bless you Kevin. I’m an ex-psychiatric nurse with experience in nursing people with Alzheimer’s and dementia. God bless you, your mother and all your wonderful family.
    Andreas from Hereford England xxx

  • @cathymorse8479
    @cathymorse8479 Před 20 dny +13

    My Mom is dying of cancer, only has a couple months, she is 86 but has never seemed her age to me. Over the last few months I have relived so many awesome memories, everyone is special and I hope I get to remember them all as I get older. Sad that your Mom will more than likely loose hers 😢but somewhere in her mind they will still be there and she will hopefully visit them here and there ❤ What a gorgeous home 😊

  • @janehelbert7551
    @janehelbert7551 Před 20 dny +10

    Kevin, you show how much you love your parents! God bless you!

  • @jodidavis6595
    @jodidavis6595 Před 20 dny +40

    I just got back to SC from seeing my son’s baby shower. It’ll be my first grandchild. As I reach 60 this Christmas it makes me realize my youth has slipped away in a moment. This video was very emotional on many levels. The way you and your dad work together is amazing. Absolutely beautiful home. I’m very impressed with your remodeling and the interior design of the this home. Gosh it’s gotta be hard to leave. God bless you and your entire family Kevin. Much respect and love. Take care 🇺🇸❤️

    • @2009samiy
      @2009samiy Před 18 dny

      Quran 21:33
      َAnd He is the One Who created the night and the day, and the sun and the moon each one
      floating (and moving) in an orbit
      youtube mary and jesus in the quran and mohmmad in the bible and the Torah and the scientific
      miracles of the quran and mohmmad in hindu scripture

      according the bible that you have

      (Matthew 4:1) Jesus was tempted
      (James 1:13) God doesn't get tempted
      (John 1:29) Jesus was seen
      (1 John 4:12) No man has ever seen God
      (Acts 2:22) Jesus was and is a man, sent by God
      (Numbers 23:19, Hosea11:9) God is not a man
      (Hebrews 5:8-9) Jesus had to grow and learn
      (Isaiah 40:28) God doesn't ever need to learn
      (1 Corinthians 15:3-4) Jesus dies
      (1 Timothy 1:17) God doesn't die
      (Hebrews 5:7) Jesus needed salvation
      (Luke 1:37) God doesn't need salvation
      (John 4:6) Jesus grew weary
      (Isaiah 40:28) God Doesn't grow weary
      (Mark 4:38) Jesus slept
      (Psalm 121:2-4) God doesn't sleep
      (John 5:19) Jesus isn't all powerful
      (Isaiah 45:5-7) God is all powerful
      (Mark 13:32) Jesus isn't all knowing
      (Isaiah 46:9) God is all knowing
      ...................

  • @62djones
    @62djones Před 20 dny +46

    Lost my Dad last Dec, he was 88. Moved in with him June of 2020, best decision we ever made. He had dementia, Parkinson's and spinal stenosis. Something very rewarding about being there for a parent. Praying for you all! ❤

    • @2009samiy
      @2009samiy Před 18 dny

      Quran 21:33
      َAnd He is the One Who created the night and the day, and the sun and the moon each one
      floating (and moving) in an orbit
      youtube mary and jesus in the quran and mohmmad in the bible and the Torah and the scientific
      miracles of the quran and mohmmad in hindu scripture

      according the bible that you have

      (Matthew 4:1) Jesus was tempted
      (James 1:13) God doesn't get tempted
      (John 1:29) Jesus was seen
      (1 John 4:12) No man has ever seen God
      (Acts 2:22) Jesus was and is a man, sent by God
      (Numbers 23:19, Hosea11:9) God is not a man
      (Hebrews 5:8-9) Jesus had to grow and learn
      (Isaiah 40:28) God doesn't ever need to learn
      (1 Corinthians 15:3-4) Jesus dies
      (1 Timothy 1:17) God doesn't die
      (Hebrews 5:7) Jesus needed salvation
      (Luke 1:37) God doesn't need salvation
      (John 4:6) Jesus grew weary
      (Isaiah 40:28) God Doesn't grow weary
      (Mark 4:38) Jesus slept
      (Psalm 121:2-4) God doesn't sleep
      (John 5:19) Jesus isn't all powerful
      (Isaiah 45:5-7) God is all powerful
      (Mark 13:32) Jesus isn't all knowing
      (Isaiah 46:9) God is all knowing
      ...................

    • @EdwardFullerton
      @EdwardFullerton Před 18 dny +1

      Amen, To you , INRI+

  • @rumrunner1756
    @rumrunner1756 Před 20 dny +42

    This brought tears to my eyes. I am in my seventies and lost my son 6 years ago. He always pitched in without ever being asked when I had a large project. You remind me so much of him. God bless you Kevin. R.I.P. Jonathan. 💔

  • @FLCindy
    @FLCindy Před 20 dny +4

    What a gorgeous place. I'm sure your parents will have no problem selling their property. Best of luck. I'll be praying for you all, especially for decades of good health.

  • @davidbratton3855
    @davidbratton3855 Před 20 dny +6

    OMG!!! That home is stunningly beautiful. Credit to all of you for making it what we all would want for our parents. I am from the UK but have lived in Thailand for over 10 years. My father passed away from Alzheimers within two years of being diagnosed. He passed away in the February and my Mum died of a broken heart in the September. I miss them every day but I thank them for providing me with the life I have here in my retirement. Make full use of every day you have together. I love the channel even though all I have to take care of in my garden is a 6 foot high hedge around my property and a strip of grass 20 foot by 6 foot which is for my dogs. Brilliant work guys and gals!!!

  • @rhondagunderm4862
    @rhondagunderm4862 Před 21 dnem +37

    My father had dementia, he wanted to stay in his own house that he owned for 65 years. I was his caregiver. We take care of family. Their place is beautiful.

    • @2009samiy
      @2009samiy Před 18 dny

      Quran 21:33
      َAnd He is the One Who created the night and the day, and the sun and the moon each one
      floating (and moving) in an orbit
      youtube mary and jesus in the quran and mohmmad in the bible and the Torah and the scientific
      miracles of the quran and mohmmad in hindu scripture

      according the bible that you have

      (Matthew 4:1) Jesus was tempted
      (James 1:13) God doesn't get tempted
      (John 1:29) Jesus was seen
      (1 John 4:12) No man has ever seen God
      (Acts 2:22) Jesus was and is a man, sent by God
      (Numbers 23:19, Hosea11:9) God is not a man
      (Hebrews 5:8-9) Jesus had to grow and learn
      (Isaiah 40:28) God doesn't ever need to learn
      (1 Corinthians 15:3-4) Jesus dies
      (1 Timothy 1:17) God doesn't die
      (Hebrews 5:7) Jesus needed salvation
      (Luke 1:37) God doesn't need salvation
      (John 4:6) Jesus grew weary
      (Isaiah 40:28) God Doesn't grow weary
      (Mark 4:38) Jesus slept
      (Psalm 121:2-4) God doesn't sleep
      (John 5:19) Jesus isn't all powerful
      (Isaiah 45:5-7) God is all powerful
      (Mark 13:32) Jesus isn't all knowing
      (Isaiah 46:9) God is all knowing
      ...................

  • @karenwerda9296
    @karenwerda9296 Před 21 dnem +33

    I received my first newsletter today. Thank you Kevin. Sorry to hear about your mothers diagnosis. From what I have seen in past videos, you have a strong family unit. You will get through this. There will be good days and bad days but the good will outshine the bad. I will pray for your whole family.
    Love the video work. Great job Kevin. Teamwork is what it is all about. GOD BLESS YOU ALL.

    • @mariagriffin1216
      @mariagriffin1216 Před 17 dny

      Kevin and family I’m so sad to hear this news about your sweet mom and please know your in my heart and prayers and I

    • @mariagriffin1216
      @mariagriffin1216 Před 17 dny

      I’m praying for you to make many great memories of her with her grandchildren that you can show them when they get older as I have many memories with my family to show my grandchildren now of my parents that they didn’t know due to them passing away at early age. Love you and your sweet family give your mom a hug from me a big fan of your videos.

  • @lloydedwards8038
    @lloydedwards8038 Před 21 dnem +24

    Kevin: You're a hard working compassionate man who does a great job and you have an excellent family.
    What you are doing for your parents in particular for your mother is complete love.
    May the Lord shine his grace on your mother and father, and your whole family!

  • @mariedrake5418
    @mariedrake5418 Před 18 dny +5

    You must of eaten your banana today, you have so much energy. I just moved out of State a year ago. This is bringing me right back to all the work to sell our home, while my husband is challenged with dementia. It's really good to have all that stress behind us. You and your wife are awesome people. God Bless you and all that you do. Our Prayers are with you and your whole family. My husband and I really enjoy watching you and your Dad interact and all the people you help.❤

  • @sheilacomstock2456
    @sheilacomstock2456 Před 2 dny +1

    You have asked for a memory of my parents , it is more a feeling. The love and cents of home and family. They adopted 4 children from 4 different family's in the late 50's and 60's . They were a teem , he was the outgoing one and she took care of the details. Love them . She is 92 and going through something similar. My prayers are with you and yours.

  • @blkmagicwmn4461
    @blkmagicwmn4461 Před 20 dny +17

    So sorry to hear that Kevin, you, your Mom and your family have my prayers that you will have another decade to enjoy together ❤️ 🙏🏾🙏🏾😇

  • @effimiakitsaki861
    @effimiakitsaki861 Před 20 dny +17

    Hi Kevin, I am sorry to hear about your mum. You are an awesome son.And the house looks beautiful.

  • @jeansimpson2373
    @jeansimpson2373 Před 21 dnem +21

    "The Fluffy Butt Hut" 😂 Ba-na-na! (love the Minions) What a transformation!

  • @patriciashort7908
    @patriciashort7908 Před 20 dny +2

    Absolutely Beautiful, I lost my mom in 2015 to dementia, she was 96 and I miss her so much, love on your parents, give them their flowers now, love your content ❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @daniellegodard1756
    @daniellegodard1756 Před 17 dny +3

    I have so many memories of my mother that I will never forget.
    She loved her children and she did without so that we could have.
    Memories of my father - he was a hard worker.

  • @Suebe1962
    @Suebe1962 Před 21 dnem +22

    The house looked so pretty at night with all the lights!!! I hope Dawn is still doing well. My brother, Craig, who was diagnosed with dementia in 2022, is doing ok. Last year, he fell and broke his hip, he healed just fine from that. But now he needs help walking. He has a walker. He rarely talks. The last time I went to visit him, he said a couple of words, and it was during a game that his daughter played with him. She sings a familiar song and then stops towards the end. And he has to finish the song. "Take me out to the _____ _____." He said "ball game. " It was so wonderful to hear the sound of his voice!!! We had a big 75th birthday party for him in March!!! I bought him some wooden exercise tools to help him with hand movements. He does quite well with them.
    Secret word: Banana!

  • @blueharley84
    @blueharley84 Před 22 dny +22

    My mom has dementia and/or Alzheimer’s and she is currently in the hospital and will need to go get physical therapy… I’m hoping she can come home soon… I hope your mom has a long time before she gets bad.. sending prayers and love and healing thoughts

    • @shannona.2309
      @shannona.2309 Před 22 dny +7

      Prayers for your Mom and you and your family 🙏

    • @TheBoringChannelLawnCare
      @TheBoringChannelLawnCare  Před 22 dny +7

      I’m will pray for you and your mother.

    • @michaelsim4338
      @michaelsim4338 Před 21 dnem +2

      ​@@TheBoringChannelLawnCare hi, what happened to James hope all is well with you and your families..very sorry to hear about your mom..your house looks Absolutely Amazing

  • @Sweetencourager21
    @Sweetencourager21 Před 21 dnem +8

    You should be proud of the work you did to help your parents. I noticed from watching Cabinet on the Hill that your dad has lost a lot of weight. I hope his depression fades away. He’s lucky to have a close family to support him in this next chapter of life. Well done! Family is everything.😊

  • @tboettge2
    @tboettge2 Před 13 dny +2

    Family is so important. So happy to see you being able to be there for them. My husband and I have my mother in law living with us full time and my mom and dad in the winters really 3/4 of the year. It is a blessing to be able to have the memories with them. My dad has cancer of the bones and liver and my mother in law has broken so many bones do to her ostoporisis. Bless you all

  • @diane_alworth
    @diane_alworth Před 20 dny +8

    Your mom and dad have been through a lot the last year. My prayers are with all of you. ~ OKC
    (The house looks AMAZING)

  • @tjmoonchild7428
    @tjmoonchild7428 Před 21 dnem +16

    You know that old saying.... " A family that sweats together, sticks together.." ❤. You all certainly work well and get things done. What a beautiful and lovely family that you have. And to be able to make your homes right there in God's country, perhaps the finest choice to make these days. God bless you and your family Kevin. Sending you much love and light always..

  • @boostmobily7088
    @boostmobily7088 Před 21 dnem +8

    My prayers are with you and your family. You all made the correct decision. My God watch over you and your mom

  • @roxannamartine6622
    @roxannamartine6622 Před 20 dny +4

    I took care of my mom, she had Parkinsons and dementia. I basically became the parent. But I still loved being able to make her smile

  • @gayames190
    @gayames190 Před 19 dny +2

    Flying with my Dad to Oklahoma for the Ross 4th of July family reunion before he passed away. My Dad was born and raised in Dillord Oklahoma and it will be a life time memory for me. God bless each and everyone of you and sending lots of love and prayers

  • @bergermary917
    @bergermary917 Před 21 dnem +30

    You are a good son. My mom had dementia and my father had Alzheimer’s. Miss them both everyday

  • @JRP58
    @JRP58 Před 20 dny +30

    The property looks fantastic. My mother developed Alzheimer’s in her early seventies and we lost her before she turned seventy nine. My dad developed Dementia in his early nineties, so I had many more years with him. Stepping up to support our parents, who have always been there for us, is a privilege. It’s definitely not easy, but I’m so glad I could be there for both of them when they needed me.

    • @2009samiy
      @2009samiy Před 18 dny +1

      Quran 21:33
      َAnd He is the One Who created the night and the day, and the sun and the moon each one
      floating (and moving) in an orbit
      youtube mary and jesus in the quran and mohmmad in the bible and the Torah and the scientific
      miracles of the quran and mohmmad in hindu scripture

      according the bible that you have

      (Matthew 4:1) Jesus was tempted
      (James 1:13) God doesn't get tempted
      (John 1:29) Jesus was seen
      (1 John 4:12) No man has ever seen God
      (Acts 2:22) Jesus was and is a man, sent by God
      (Numbers 23:19, Hosea11:9) God is not a man
      (Hebrews 5:8-9) Jesus had to grow and learn
      (Isaiah 40:28) God doesn't ever need to learn
      (1 Corinthians 15:3-4) Jesus dies
      (1 Timothy 1:17) God doesn't die
      (Hebrews 5:7) Jesus needed salvation
      (Luke 1:37) God doesn't need salvation
      (John 4:6) Jesus grew weary
      (Isaiah 40:28) God Doesn't grow weary
      (Mark 4:38) Jesus slept
      (Psalm 121:2-4) God doesn't sleep
      (John 5:19) Jesus isn't all powerful
      (Isaiah 45:5-7) God is all powerful
      (Mark 13:32) Jesus isn't all knowing
      (Isaiah 46:9) God is all knowing
      ...................

  • @demetricadement1138
    @demetricadement1138 Před 20 dny +7

    You are the son and DIL your parents deserve. Keeop staying strong and make those memories.

  • @sharonh.harris1924
    @sharonh.harris1924 Před 13 dny +1

    My Mom died of dementia and my Dad, who was so healthy, died 4 months later of a pulmonary embolism. I don't know which was worse, the slowness of dementia or the suddenness of Daddy's death. We had a family farm and Dad had helped us all build our houses and barns. Our husband's learned under him. We had a wonderful life on the farm as the kids grew up. We all worked together and lived together. I have nothing to regret and tons of memories of our togetherness. For your parents this is a humbling experience and very hard to face their mortality and future. Facing their age, this diagnosis and a big move is overwhelming for them. You've done the right thing and it will be paid back to you in many ways. The memories and love. But also you are teaching your children that taking care of the elderly is what you do in your family. Then, when it's your turn, your children will do for you what you did for your parents because it's what you taught them. You are teaching them about generosity of heart and spirit. You are teaching them it's not easy but it's what you do for family. Someone is watching and your lessons won't go unseen. God bless you all. I know how hard it's going to be but it's do-able. Many others are going through it as well. The only way we made it was with God. I didn't think I would be able to survive their death as I loved them so much but I have. It's taught me that we can get through worst case scenarios with the help of God.

  • @ronaldsteichen838
    @ronaldsteichen838 Před 20 dny +2

    Such a gorgeous place. Whoever buys it will be so lucky to have all the peace and tranquility this property has to offer.

  • @theresalebleu3132
    @theresalebleu3132 Před 20 dny +17

    🙏🙏🙏 my mom made it 15 years after diagnosed will keep praying for your mom

  • @ReAnneWhite
    @ReAnneWhite Před 20 dny +7

    I am so sorry to hear about your mom's early onset dementia diagnosis and sad that they have to give up their little slice of heaven. I am glad, however, that your parents are going to be closer to you for you all to enjoy each other. Here is praying for 20 years! I hope someone buys it that puts the love into it that your parents have.

  • @user-sw4bl4rn6f
    @user-sw4bl4rn6f Před 22 dny +7

    Hey Kevin, praying for your family especially your Mom!! 🙏🏼❤️ I have a friend that has dementia and it was a tough pill to swallow but God will get us though!! Following you and all helps not just what you do but for everyone who witnessed it!! A BIG THANK TO YOU AND YOURS for all you do and will definitely keep praying!! 🙏🏼❤️🙏🏼 Blessing my friend ❤ BANANA 🍌
    P.S. Beautiful job on the house….Absolutely beautiful! 😍

  • @kirbsterk1563
    @kirbsterk1563 Před 20 dny +1

    My mom has been battling dementia since 2016. It a battle but with the right support you all will be fine. The family support you have is phenomenal.
    I'm actually speechless with the development of this house you all built. ABSOLUTE PERFECTION❤

  • @beverlygarner7996
    @beverlygarner7996 Před 17 dny +1

    As a nurse, getting this diagnosis is heart wrenching, she will have a lot of support! Love the 4 legged supervisor!❤

  • @JulesFinn
    @JulesFinn Před 21 dnem +10

    You are not alone! There are so many of us caring for a parent with this horrific disease. Reach out to us when needed. You have our support of your viewers without doubt. ❤

    • @dreatafoya5162
      @dreatafoya5162 Před 20 dny +2

      I’m 24/7 with my mom. She broke her right hip after a fall in June, then broke her left hip after a fall at the rehabilitation center (it was the 2nd fall at this rehab). She was diagnosed in 2019 and now is recovering at home. She babbles a lot but I respond. I call this the longest goodbye. You have to mourn the person they were, and eventually the new person they’ve become. Stay strong!

  • @christinarodeghier4861
    @christinarodeghier4861 Před 20 dny +5

    So beautifully done!!! What a phenomenal place. A paradise for a lucky family! ❤

  • @EastTxPolarBear
    @EastTxPolarBear Před 21 dnem +15

    We will be praying for God’s healing hands on her. I know it’s hard, when God calls her home we pray for a peaceful passing. We love y’all.

  • @scorplady1953
    @scorplady1953 Před 7 dny

    I moved in with my parents when they was il Dad had Diabetis and went blind and had Alhemers . My had Diabetis and lots of heart attacks and strokes. I was with them until they died. Dad in 1999 and mom on 2001. Took care of them for way over 10 years. I still hold them dearly in my heart. What you and your wife did for your parents is awesome. You are a blessing to many people ❤

  • @staceyacre
    @staceyacre Před 20 dny +1

    I lost my dad the night before my birthday in 2018 to the same form of dementia that robin williams had when he died. I was his support/caregiver from 2013-2018. From my experiences with that horrible disease, please for the love of God, make time for your own mental health during this time. I didn’t, and now I’m paying for it with a wife and kids who don’t want anything to do with me. Please don’t make the same mistake. I will be praying for you and your family.

  • @kimmiller7539
    @kimmiller7539 Před 21 dnem +9

    I had a relative that passed from the disease but she lived til she was 84. Lived with it for 15- 20 years in a special senior place that worked on your memory. I would tell your mom to live everyday to her fullest and not dwell on the diagnosis! Live your healthiest, less stressed life! Live like she was dying- just like the song. 😊❤

  • @Sabrina-lj7ne
    @Sabrina-lj7ne Před 21 dnem +7

    You are what every parent hopes their child becomes. It is full circle...the parents take care of the children, the children take care of the parents. How it was meant to be. God bless you 🙏

  • @donnalonon6778
    @donnalonon6778 Před 22 dny +18

    I’m praying for your mom and all of you. God is more than able to heal her. Thats my prayer for her.
    I really enjoy watching your videos
    Since my husband passed I’ve had to take on the yard work and I’ve learned so much from you and your dad. Thank you for being there to help me get through these passed 2 years of mowing and trying to keep my yard work done. Not as good as my husband but it’s my best

  • @pamthompson495
    @pamthompson495 Před 9 dny +1

    What a blessing to have a family like you have, especially for all family members to have compassion for your mother in her early diagnosis of dementia. Just having you all together is sure to improve her quality of life
    I just want to tell you we watch you all of the time and when you did the dark color on the house I thought oh no ....but let me tell you... I can't believe how BEAUTIFUL" the house and landscaping turned out. You all have a special gift and thank you for sharing with us all. I pray the best for your mother❤

  • @BetsyCRobison-sv5ml
    @BetsyCRobison-sv5ml Před 8 dny +1

    That transformation was amazing. I thought the black might be too much, but it really looked lovely. The garden was breath-taking.

  • @geraldinearneil2506
    @geraldinearneil2506 Před 21 dnem +11

    Oh Wow! Kevin. That is like a little bit of heaven now! Well done everyone!

  • @maggiekay9292
    @maggiekay9292 Před 21 dnem +20

    How beautiful for your Mother, you've made a scenic, peaceful, family surrounded home. Prayers on this journey in your family's life❤

  • @johncarter3900
    @johncarter3900 Před 21 dnem +8

    Hey man so sorry to hear about your Mom, that's a horrible disease, we will be praying for you and your family. God Bless and continued success.

  • @debbiebertram
    @debbiebertram Před 20 dny +1

    My mom lasted for 8 beautiful years. Her short term memory was bad but she never forgot me. I made her a memory book that I would read her when she got upset which always calmed her.
    I would let her know, no mom you don’t have Alzheimer’s your memory just isn’t as good. She felt safe with that.
    She’s been gone 6 years but it’s just like yesterday.
    Love you mom ❤❤

  • @elviraobregon5414
    @elviraobregon5414 Před 3 dny +1

    Have you considered moving to their property since you all bought the new motor home. This way she is In environment she knows and you can always return if and when you need to to help your dad.? Your parents property is beautiful. It’s so good that your parents are going to spend time with you and the family. Those are precious time for everyone. My nephews remember the times they got to spent with grandma. The youngest one was about 2 1/2 when she passed so he didn’t have as much time as his older brothers did. But he still has some memories.

  • @teresacartwright5406
    @teresacartwright5406 Před 20 dny +5

    My mother is in a long-term care home with dementia. My heart goes out to you and your family - it's so hard to watch someone slide gradually away. Stay strong & safe - your dad is going to need all the strength and support you have.

  • @debbiedelgado6446
    @debbiedelgado6446 Před 20 dny +4

    BA NA NA! My step mom had dementia. It is a horrible disease. God Bless you and your family and ma he give you all strength to get through this! 💕

  • @marcialavine1272
    @marcialavine1272 Před 21 dnem +6

    I'm very saddened to hear of your mother's illness, and I will continue to keep you all in my thoughts and prayers as I have since I first started watching your channels several years ago. It's been a pleasure seeing you grow and prosper, and I can't imagine how tough this blow is for the entire family. The work you did here is a true labor of love, and it shows. That's the kind of place I wanted 30 years ago, but losing everything in a divorce ruined everything. Now, I'm too old and broken- not to mention too broke. I'm sure someone who will love it just as much will snap it up, in spite of the economy.

  • @btaxel
    @btaxel Před 16 dny +2

    My mom died from Alzheimer's at 72. She got dementia diagnosed in her late 50's. Completely changed my outlook and demeanor.
    Life is short folks, soak it in, love on yourself and be kind to others.

  • @suzanchamness376
    @suzanchamness376 Před 20 dny +2

    That turned out beautiful such a good son you are to help your mom and dad like that much respect to you❤❤❤

  • @amypreuit4114
    @amypreuit4114 Před 20 dny +9

    Wow! It looks amazing! So much care is put into everything that y’all touch. Doesn’t get better than that. I’m sure they’ll miss it some, but well, GRANDBABIES!! Literally nothing in this world is better than being close to grandchildren. I have 9 and they are my breath in this life. I wish your family so much love and happiness in the new place, filled with laughter and the best new memories. Y’all feel like family. Thanks for always taking us along for the ride!! ❤️🎉 1:03:15

  • @AZJH8374
    @AZJH8374 Před 21 dnem +8

    Absolutely beautiful. God bless you all and many prayers 🙏🏻 Nurse Judi in Scottsdale AZ and Eucharistic Minister 🙏🏻 ❤️

  • @loriebarker9290
    @loriebarker9290 Před 21 dnem +7

    Your Mom and Dad have a beautiful place. Makes you go BANANAS!! Praying for your Mom and the family. Also praying for your Dad. I love watching ALL of your families channels.

  • @lindasalas7828
    @lindasalas7828 Před 20 dny +1

    Your parents must be proud to have such a wonderful son and family! May God bless you all with more blessings.

  • @joyceslusser3148
    @joyceslusser3148 Před 11 dny

    I cared for both of my parents in the years before they passed; moved them into my home and moved myself to the basement. You will have tough days for sure but you won’t regret it - ever.
    That was a HUGE undertaking and fantastic job!!

  • @marleneferrara4366
    @marleneferrara4366 Před 21 dnem +6

    Prayers for your Mom and your family 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @shannona.2309
    @shannona.2309 Před 22 dny +9

    We love watching your channel. ❤️ Prayers for your Mom and you and your family. 🙏 God bless you all. Thank you for all you do.

  • @anitatirkot4112
    @anitatirkot4112 Před 21 dnem +6

    First thank you to the chat and all the comments.
    My Mom also suffers from Dementia. It is not easy at all. I am fortunate to have siblings who also help me take care of her. My prayers are with you and your family. Stay strong and enjoy the precious time you have. ❤

  • @j.c.1826
    @j.c.1826 Před 5 dny

    I'm so sorry to hear that. My mom had dementia. A lot of patience and a lot of love. My prayers 🙏 are with you all.

  • @lornadouglas7887
    @lornadouglas7887 Před 5 dny

    I know what your going through lost my own mother to this awful dementia and having them close is really the best decision for your peace of mind and your mothers and father, bless you I know things will work out for you. Keep the faith and blessings to you and your family.

  • @CalifgalCindy1
    @CalifgalCindy1 Před 21 dnem +15

    Kevin, having your parents with you, Rachel and kids was such a kind and loving move for the entire family. An amazing gift for all to be able to build and enjoy memories of not just your mother and father but of a loving family. Family memories will live on not just for your children also their children. Prayers and blessings for you and yours. Speaking of memories, those made over the course the family project are precious and priceless. Everything looks absolutely beautiful. 🍌🍌🍌🍌🍌🍌🍌🍌🍌bananaaaaaaa

    • @kimauten1844
      @kimauten1844 Před 21 dnem +1

      I was thinking the same thing…they were building memories during all this renovation on the property…what a great family.

  • @diannepommier2874
    @diannepommier2874 Před 20 dny +21

    My grandmother had dementia. She lived with my mom, her daughter. I state this to let you know that caregivers for dementia patients need a lot of help and support. Whoever is the caregiver for your mom will need frequent breaks. Dementia doesn’t only affect memory but also affects the patient’s personality. Your sweet mother can turn into a screeching banshee. Please be patient, forgive yourself and others for not being Pollyanna perfect. Hire professional help if you can even if it’s only for a day or two at a time. You can’t take care of her if you don’t take care of yourself.

  • @annkoler3705
    @annkoler3705 Před 21 dnem +5

    Home Sweet Home! Awesome homestead. You have an amazing, beautiful family.

  • @bruceberry7324
    @bruceberry7324 Před 20 dny

    I pray for your family, we know first hand what it's like. We lost my father this February after a long 5 year fight against f.t.d. dementia. I was so blessed to be able to see him daily and help my mom out taking care of him. We miss him dearly but take comfort knowing he's waiting to meet our lord and savior when he returns. Cherish every second you can. God bless you and your family for all the wonderful work you do.

  • @odelldaniels1978
    @odelldaniels1978 Před 17 dny +1

    I am so passionate about this because my oldest sister has dementia and it is not easy. Her children put her in a nursing home

  • @pamkammann1176
    @pamkammann1176 Před 21 dnem +10

    My heart goes out to you , and anyone else that has a loved one with this diagnosis. I lost both of my parents , 11 years apart to dementia /alzheimers . It’s definitely a heartbreaker for the care givers as well as the person . Your folks have beautiful property and blessed to have your help . Sending you all and anyone else going through this many prayers and lots of comfort ❤. Banana 😉

  • @sidqcampbell6892
    @sidqcampbell6892 Před 21 dnem +4

    My Mother and Father in law both had dementia. Father in Law got to the place where he did not even recognize himself in the mirror.. Very sad. My advice is to enjoy each moment that you have.

  • @carolebillue357
    @carolebillue357 Před 20 dny +5

    What an EXTRAORDINARY transformation!
    So serene and peaceful!
    Your parents raised ya right, son! ☺️
    God bless you and your entire family.
    Thank you for sharing your good times, bad times, & all the ones that fall somewhere in between!✝️🙌🏼

  • @JamesSperling-xu3rp
    @JamesSperling-xu3rp Před 19 dny +1

    The transformation of the property was Fantastic. Your mother will love it. Great job on what is not The Boring Channel. Love watching you and the family.

  • @trucker85d47
    @trucker85d47 Před 20 dny

    I lost father almost thirty years ago from heart disease I miss working with him in his repair shop fixing pretty much everything that has a motor . And then lost my mom about ten years ago to dementia she lived with it for about five years so I know what you’re going through so enjoy every moment you have with her I miss both of my parents every day but I know that they are in a better place with God so I will keep your mom and your family in my prayers 🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🌹❤️

  • @frstcontact
    @frstcontact Před 21 dnem +6

    Good idea. I lost my Dad 3 years ago from this. If you have family photo albums and music helps stay connected to them. Prayers.

  • @eckes13
    @eckes13 Před 21 dnem +6

    BLESSINGS AND PRAYERS to you and your family...

  • @sharonparker2262
    @sharonparker2262 Před 21 dnem +4

    Kevin, your entire family is in my prayers. You are a gem. I was blessed to be able to purchase a house so that my mom could keep her independence during her final years. Being with a parent as they decline is very hard emotionally, but it was a gift to simply be able to hold her hand as she took her last breath. I did the same with my father, and would never trade that memory and love our Lord gave me. 🙏 ❤❤

  • @kathleencorral3960
    @kathleencorral3960 Před 20 dny

    My youngest sister got premuture Alzhimers in her mid fourties while her yougest daughter was in high school she past in 2021 her 4 kids cared for her including myself my brother inlaw retiered early, the kids did not want to put her in a home we all worked together to keep her home, with the kids school and work scheduels. Im so proud of the commintment we all made just as proud of you Kevin and Rachel's commintment. You all are an amazing family.. always working hard together. I love your family. God bless your mom and God bless the intire family✝️💜🇺🇲

  • @BruceHart-s6q
    @BruceHart-s6q Před 19 dny +2

    Love how patient you was letting your dad help. What you could have knock out in an hour took him a bit longer😅

    • @TheBoringChannelLawnCare
      @TheBoringChannelLawnCare  Před 19 dny

      The paint sprayer was giving us fits on the roof but other than that everything went really smooth