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天生讀寫障礙的我如何考入亞洲頂尖大學?怎麼努力都不比別人好?這些年我經歷了什麼...How I got into TOP 5 Asian University with Dyslexia & ADD…

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  • čas přidán 1. 07. 2023
  • 小時候的我,不管怎麼努力成績依然不好… 📚❌
    How does it feel as a kid to constantly achieve low grades no matter how hard you try? 📚❌
    因為學習方式和其他人不一樣,被同學們排擠… 🙇‍♀️
    How does it feel to be left out from friends because you seem to be different? 🙇‍♀️
    發現自己在學習上有特別需要,是什麼感覺?🤯
    What does it feel like to then discover you have Special Educational Needs? 🤯
    這些需要又代表了什麼?有學習障礙依然能在學校取得成功嗎?
    What does it mean to have these needs and can success at school really be achieved???
    在這集的VLOG裏,我想和大家分享一下小時候因為學習障礙而遇到的各種困難,以及當時的我是如何在家人的幫助下克服它們,並考入亞洲頂尖的大學 - HKU !👩‍🎓
    In this VLOG I open up about my REAL experiences with my own Special Educational Needs and reveal how I overcame my own obstacles, with the help of my family, to attend one of the top universities in all of Asia, HKU. 👩‍🎓
    來看看我和大家分享我帶著學習障礙成長的三個篇章。
    Watch along as I break down my very own learning journey into 3 key chapters of my life and build a genuine picture of living with SEN.
    身為一個學習上、社交上都不順利的小朋友,是什麼感覺?🫠
    What is it like as a young kid struggling both academically and socially without understanding why? 🫠
    要成功考入頂尖大學,究竟需要什麼?
    What does it take to succeed enough to earn a place at one of the most prestigious universities?
    成功考入大學後,又如何能夠集中精神,抗拒各種誘惑,突破學習上的重重難關?👀
    And once you’re at that university, how do you maintain the control and drive to stay focused despite all the distractions? 👀
    身為媽媽,又該如何用自身經驗為孩子建立最好的學習道路?👩‍👦‍👦
    On top of all this, as a mother how do you then use all of your experiences to provide the best possible pathways for your own children to succeed? 👩‍👦‍👦
    快來看看我透過個人經驗回答這些問題!
    Jump in and find out the answers to all these questions and more as I open up about every step of my journey.
    希望大家喜歡這部影片,也希望我小小的個人經驗可以幫助有需要的人 ☺️
    I hope you enjoy this video and hope my journey might offer a little help along the way too ☺️

Komentáře • 389

  • @thereynoldsfamily
    @thereynoldsfamily  Před rokem +568

    大家好,我是Gladys的媽媽。在影片裏,Gladys 分享了在學習障礙影響下的心路歷程. 影片裏她多謝媽媽嘅陪伴。而Gladys的媽媽最想多謝的是上天的祝福, 在困難的路上一直有許許多多的天使一直陪走。
    首先我要多謝教育界的朋友,從幼稚園、小學到中學。Gladys都有校長和老師的包容和教導。你們所給予的空間,正好讓有障礙的小朋友慢慢地成長。老師在書寫上一筆一劃地用心糾正錯誤,成就了她在語文上漸漸趕上來。
    我也想多謝身邊的親友,在疲倦乏力的時候,有你們默默無聲的支持,幫忙照顧一下孩子,好讓我的身心能得到恢復過來。
    在留言中有許多朋友分享了自己的經歷,感恩的是有不小朋友成功跨過障礙的;同時也為心靈受到傷害的朋友感到難過。希望大家當年所受的傷害能得到治愈。
    在這條影片𥚃最感人的不只是Gladys有勇氣讓大家知道她如何跨過她的弱點。在留言區裏也有不小朋友道出他們的心聲、經歷和不同的方法去幫助有相同困難的人。
    假如大家分享這條影片給親友的話,希望大家也請親友看看留言區的信息,從而對學習障礙多一點了解和有不小人找到不同的方法去跨過障礙。
    最後,我再一次衷心感謝Gladys 小學的校長和老師,在你們的包容,支持和努力下,無論孩子們最終有沒有跨過障礙,只要他們能在童年快樂地建立好自信和良好的品格,老師們巳成就了他們的人生和未來。

    • @pinkyho3131
      @pinkyho3131 Před rokem +10

      希望Gladys的媽媽拍片分享怎樣培養和教導Gladys,有咩方法或實質例子跟家長分享,Gladys的父母功不可沒!

    • @katherinewong2958
      @katherinewong2958 Před rokem +4

      好感動!❤️欣賞你的付出

    • @candylam3074
      @candylam3074 Před rokem +5

      Glady 媽媽,好敬佩你。Gladys is a credit to you! 其實孩子的成就也就是父母自己的成就。妳的成績單已經滿分啦!恭喜🎉

    • @laiangel9389
      @laiangel9389 Před rokem +5

      Glady's mum, proud of you. If you havd not treat Gladys in this way when she is young, she will not grow up like this and able to share so many experiences and good things to us! It is all because of your attitude, your mind, my decision and your love to yhe kids. Thank you so much!

    • @Benjamin_wong2024
      @Benjamin_wong2024 Před rokem +3

      good mum

  • @ginychin6565
    @ginychin6565 Před rokem +456

    我都係喺HKU grad,不過比你多兩個病: 聽障加視障。SEN學生非常需要家長的支持,很欣賞你父母;當然,長大後自己繼續摸索學習方法同樣重要。我中學AL的成績當然係滿江紅,讀Asso先可以升到大學;上到大學後好似重獲新生咁,我個系唔駛考試,行Inquiry-based Learning,這對我Dyslexia + ADD的人係最合適的學習方式,咁先令我有幸以1st hon畢業。

    • @matthew_983
      @matthew_983 Před rokem +14

      可唔可以問你係讀咩系?thanks🙏

    • @wcsoo6613
      @wcsoo6613 Před rokem +1

      想知道😂

    • @theresechoy8346
      @theresechoy8346 Před rokem +3

      好犀利呀👍👍👍

    • @paisley4890
      @paisley4890 Před rokem +1

      HKU咩系唔駛考試?👍👍

    • @ginychin6565
      @ginychin6565 Před rokem +18

      我讀Education Faculty的,當中大部分學系都唔駛考試,我記得Architecture喺我個年代都唔駛考試,全部以continuous assessments完成。

  • @kendall4883
    @kendall4883 Před rokem +226

    我都係有讀寫障礙、專注力不足,加埋記憶力特別差😵‍💫由細到大成績唔好,父母因為我成績差,長期對我講左好多難聽嘅說話,會打我,鬧我懶,點解唔去死….搞到我好大壓力
    睇完你條片,我忍唔住喊左。因為我覺得自己終於被人理解,咁多年黎從來冇人會明白我嘅難處,只係不停踩我成績差😢多謝你講左唔同嘅方法去學習,我會努力讀書❤❤❤

    • @gracechan9472
      @gracechan9472 Před rokem +14

      揾到出路就努力前進吧,希望你愈走愈好,人生是自己的

    • @salmonlovereel
      @salmonlovereel Před rokem +3

      加油!!

    • @dominic213w
      @dominic213w Před rokem +34

      其實係有方法㗎,雖然一直响香港嘅中小學啲成績都麻麻地。我最後一年响英國讀中學啲成績就好高分,但係我係去到大學先至真係好struggle。因為我自己係去到大學先發現有inattentive adhd(專注力不足)同埋dyslexia(讀寫障礙)。以我嘅經驗嚟講,而家寫緊Computer Science 碩士論文,以前係讀Econ同埋有响大學讀過少少歷史系嘅科。1.當你溫書嘅時候,一定要自己寫筆記,用電腦打字都得。我自己就唔鍾意用螢光筆間書,最後間到好花,反晒光,啲字就變到好難睇清楚。2. 如果你係visual learner,用mind map 將啲重點記低,而家可以响電腦上面畫,畫錯咗可以即刻改到,好方便。3. 如果你係audio learner,你就用電腦軟件將啲文字讀出嚟。4.當你整一個timetable嘅時候,一定記得break一break,嗰日狀態唔好,比較分心就要多啲休息。每次溫書先試下每一個鐘就休息一陣,頂晒籠2個鐘。因為坐得太耐只會分心,溫書啲嘢唔入腦。4.整一個tasks list 將啲嘢拆晒細嚟做。5. 仲有你可以响枱面黐啲stick it notes 提醒自己要做咩嘢。如果本書太多反光,你可以去買一啲filter放响本書上面。當然你都可以配眼鏡,但係眼鏡嘅鏡片會比較貴。呢啲全部都係我响英國啲大學嘅study skills tutor學返嚟嘅方法。

    • @user-ss6tn7oh4d
      @user-ss6tn7oh4d Před rokem +1

      加油啊

    • @ttfei7362
      @ttfei7362 Před rokem +1

      我大仔九歲,啱啱被查出有讀寫障礙,言語障礙😢成績差到爆😢中文4分,英文又第一名,真係好奇怪

  • @agneschoi8536
    @agneschoi8536 Před rokem +92

    感恩你有好好嘅父母,懂得因才施教,而你自己的付出,現在得到肯定。
    我由細到大,讀書成績一般,經常唔合格,考試時腦袋一遍空白。。到49歲時才確診焦慮症,驚恐症,才解釋到以前考試默書點解驚到震,可惜已經返唔到轉頭

    • @hh1593
      @hh1593 Před rokem +1

      想問你係從咩途徑知道確診?

    • @shukchingyau7831
      @shukchingyau7831 Před rokem +1

      @@hh1593睇心理醫生 細果陣可以去睇政府醫院既兒科 都可以做到一定既心理疏導同埋對家長既Support

    • @agneschoi8536
      @agneschoi8536 Před rokem +2

      @@hh1593 經常感到情緒緊張,睇政府醫生,再轉介睇精神科醫生和見心理學家

  • @leungnathan5950
    @leungnathan5950 Před rokem +77

    我都係ADHD+閱讀障礙,小學時間期成績大起大落,中學時期讀長篇文章比人慢好多倍,記vocabulary比人花好多倍時間,但幸好身邊有不同人幫我,你同我情況。雖然最後dse拎好差成績,但係靠asso接駁上U,比起以前多左機會上U。就算有這個問題不要怕,它會陪住你一世,過左一段時間你會變得麻木,最重要搵正確學習方式,容易搵到自己有興趣科目。👍👍

  • @makyeeyee
    @makyeeyee Před rokem +12

    好羨慕你有對咁好父母,我自己本身乜都有+心臟病,細個讀書簡直想死,都想過自殺,我爸媽唔理解,好在有老師幫我上到大學畢業。我都好感謝老師幫我。

  • @sawakun
    @sawakun Před rokem +41

    你嘅今日離不開父母嘅支持,你父母嘅開明同support,真係好難得有咁嘅亞洲父母,點解話passion咁重要,雖然話歐美數學讀書時候嘅難度比較低,但係咁嘅大環境下會培養到一啲有passion嘅細路一直鑽研落去,而呢啲細路嘅base基本上唔係話應試教育係咁做試卷可以俾到,而係純粹對於該專業的一個地基理解,歐美教育所謂嘅難度低係for所有人,但係所有人入面仲有幾個對該專業非常有passion嘅細路,只需要做到因材施教,可能未來又係一個科學家嘅誕生,而亞洲嘅教育好多時候應試教育係針對父母同孩子雙方嘅,而最大嘅背後嘅factors就係功利性,孩子希望得到父母老師同學嘅期待,而父母希望借住個細路去相互攀比,所謂人性,有本著作叫自卑與超越,我諗真係幾應景,到今時今日人工智能即將係未來會席捲潮流嘅背景,基本宣判一考定終生嘅年代早已過去,未來應該專注自身嘅能力發展

  • @nicemannakamori8238
    @nicemannakamori8238 Před rokem +11

    我係ADHD,一樣有閱讀障礙,仲有HSP。你講嗰啲我都好有共鳴,睇到喊。由細到大都被人蝦,食飯小息長期自己一個。但可惜我冇你咁好嘅媽媽,我媽好忙唔得閒理我。你真係好努力好努力。我依家喺外國讀書,但只能話已經太遲。多謝你嘅分享,我會參考。😊

  • @kellieccc2962
    @kellieccc2962 Před rokem +26

    ‘’努力的底下是你的態度‘’ 💓
    ♡ 我非常認同這句❤
    十分打動我🎉,燃起我溫書的動力🤭🙈❤

  • @kwanzeta1251
    @kwanzeta1251 Před rokem +14

    好感恩您有一對懂得教育妳,發掘妳潛質的好爸媽👍👍👍;而妳亦受教,孩童時間開心與否?真的好影響孩子的一生,恭喜您!亦恭喜妳2位活潑可愛的小朋友,擁有一對懂得因材施教的好父母,好公公婆婆🥰🥰🥰🎉🎉🎉🎉

  • @yushirley1345
    @yushirley1345 Před rokem +13

    真心鐘意你的性格,正面有愛。你的父母亦係好無敵,祝福您及家人健康愉快!

  • @Kingking-so9wf
    @Kingking-so9wf Před rokem +14

    有你這位過來人說明,真是好不過😊!每個人都有自己天份,所以沒有什麼冇輸在起跑線,認識自己需要時間,方能找到方向!

  • @brendalam4132
    @brendalam4132 Před rokem +36

    多謝你的分享🙏你將你的經歷分享出來,給家長們多一份鼓勵!希望更多孩子在充滿熱誠的父母教導下,發光發亮👍💖😄

  • @Andrew02190
    @Andrew02190 Před rokem +16

    我係睇依條片都好有同感,自己本身都係讀寫障礙加上左手寫字。因為寫字多數係左寫到右,所以會遮住自己啲字。所以小學嘅成績都好差,嗰陣時都係冇乜朋友,仲有人欺凌我。所以小學嘅時候都好唔開心。之後,中學雖然努力左,但係DSE成績都係低。但是依家讀緊Asso, 第一個學期GPA都係好低因為環境轉變。慢慢搵到適合自己讀書的方法。個時第一次見到成績轉變,都估唔到自己可以做到有較高成績。之後GPA keep 到3.2以上。個時就相信有良好態度同勤力都可以戰勝讀寫障礙。所以有讀寫障礙的大家都唔好放棄。❤

  • @7_6senses_kv50
    @7_6senses_kv50 Před rokem +33

    嗚嗚 真係好鍾意呢條片嘅每一part 尤其係你嘅parenting同面對人生嘅態度! 有被鼓勵到!

  • @olespeaking
    @olespeaking Před rokem +21

    Well said 🎉 多謝你既坦誠分享❤ 我發現原來成長過程都有ADD, 以前都冇留意⋯我做不了準時交功課,成日發呆/分心其他主題,係剛好大學時同同學合作溫習, 我難自己跟lecturer guidance 寫paper /project ,但分析, connecting the dots同帶領方向 (簡稱吹水)。今時今日都係😂 但工作有時腦袋轉得跳脫, 不是人人都能了解, 搵到知音人同對自己有效既方法真係好重要,每個人都是獨特的,多謝你分享出來make sense of the world❤

    • @Dududeeaaxggv
      @Dududeeaaxggv Před rokem +1

      我都係,我細個都成日做做下功課,溫溫下書就係到發呆,發白日夢…成日都唔可以準時交功課,被記缺點,我就成日諗點解會咁,但小學既我真係一舊飯,我媽亦都好少理我功課,冇去真正了解過我究竟係咩一回事,家人亦都只係一尾責罵,點解成績咁樣?所以我童年都幾沮喪,家長呢個角色真係好重要

  • @arson363
    @arson363 Před rokem +8

    講得好好!好認同所有學習最重要離唔開Passion,最近讀一本叫「一流的人如何駕馭自我」,同你講Passion既point好似,佢講到一流既人都會有passion在經營既事上面,而且都識得駕馭passion既龐大力量為自己帶來好處,如果你對個件事無passion就唔好強求,但可惜香港填鴨式教育就係令所有小朋友都唔敢有passion,10個有8個都唔敢講夢想

  • @cathyli4405
    @cathyli4405 Před rokem +13

    Gladys 你今日嘅成功是值得的、我也以你為榮、繼續努力

  • @jojo-tv4fv
    @jojo-tv4fv Před rokem +14

    要講番自己過去同弱項出黎不客易,但你分享幫到好多人同埋怕讀書既人,好欣賞你堅持同努力

  • @jessyfoo
    @jessyfoo Před rokem +9

    謝謝Gladys的分享。我覺得家庭資源是最重要的事情去支緩SEN,我個女有自閉症,我家花了很多金錢、陪伴在她的治療上,我也一直做freelance以便去支緩她。

  • @laweunice825
    @laweunice825 Před rokem +4

    身為ADD, Dylexia小朋友嘅媽媽,你的分享令我好感動,令本來好灰好擔心嘅我突然充滿動力和希望去幫自己嘅小朋友,十分感謝你的分享❤

    • @dorothykwok1240
      @dorothykwok1240 Před rokem +1

      作為媽媽的你,你已經跨過了這個困難。
      別忘了好好照顧自己,自己也要好好休息。畢竟這是一條話長唔長話短唔短嘅路程

  • @hkcheung0001
    @hkcheung0001 Před rokem +14

    睇到最後已經眼濕濕…
    好俾你ge真誠同努力而感動
    加油❤

  • @romanaleung4513
    @romanaleung4513 Před rokem +20

    Thank you for making this meaningful video. My eldest twin is ADHD also. I am proud of your mom's good efforts to help you. My son is 29 now. I used the Lego, painting class, playing trumpet to make him enjoy the learning and improved his patience span. Your golden word " passion" and encouragement is the key to motivating ADHD kids.

  • @feefeemeee7225
    @feefeemeee7225 Před rokem +10

    這個片真的很有用,增長了不少知識。須然遲了一些才認識,也悔恨當年用錯方法教兒子。希望學校可以提供更多的支援給這類同學。

  • @theresechoy8346
    @theresechoy8346 Před rokem +60

    Hi Gladys,
    My daughter also has mild autism & 專注力不足. She used to study in 中半山traditional girls school ( you probably can guess which one); the teachers thought she was ‘very weird’ & send I should send her to ‘special schools’. I was very unhappy that my daughter was ‘labelled’ & she also found socialising very difficult & 講嘢同PONG年紀嘅小朋友爭好遠. So she had no friends all along. Making friends at secondary school (same school) got worst as the girls started gang up in groups, some will pretend to be good friends with her & said things behind her back… and the teachers at school are probably the worst I’ve ever come across. 老師原來唔使改功課,send 出去比補習社做,所以啲老師根本唔知同學嘅情況同進度…..
    So in Easter of Form 4, my daughter thought she had enough & asked if she could go to UK to continue her studies. I of course said yes as I also studied secondary & Uni in UK. I think the different mode KF teaching, diff Env etc will help her to become happier, make new friends & finds school interesting for a change. And it really changed her life. She studied unusual subjects like Photography, Psychology for her A levels. She really made loads of local friends as we chose a school with practically no Chinese in Oxford. She really enjoys the past 2 years in UK & will continue Uni in UK after this summer.
    So if you’re in similar situation, 唔好放棄,there are many options out there , be supportive to your kids & 辦法總比困難多😃

  • @amyyanh
    @amyyanh Před rokem +21

    好多朋友包括自己都有讀寫障礙,你個故事好勵志❤

  • @woodAdam0123
    @woodAdam0123 Před rokem +28

    想知道Gladys 係點樣學英文,英文真係好勁👍

    • @dominic213w
      @dominic213w Před rokem +3

      其實學英文最緊要係學日常生活要點講同埋要識啲外國朋友,我啲英文好係因為,我細細個就已經成日用英文同菲傭姐姐溝通。雖然因為我有ADHD+讀寫障礙,响香港啲英文嘅公開試嘅試卷係一定答唔晒,但係嚟到英國考咗兩次IELTS,第一次考到6.5,第二次就已經考到7.5。

  • @enzolai6205
    @enzolai6205 Před rokem +7

    啲畫好正。有咁開明、理解你同支持你嘅父母都係幾生的福氣,唔難怪你可以咁出色的!

  • @karenliu8167
    @karenliu8167 Před rokem +16

    很好的分享👍祝福你們一家❤️

  • @sandylai
    @sandylai Před rokem +2

    多謝你的分享😢睇到眼濕濕真係,自問自己細個讀書都一樣係好差讀唔好,但知道自己既興趣真係好重要😲😲

  • @claudia8218
    @claudia8218 Před 2 měsíci

    ❤❤ 多謝你嘅分享
    我囡有讀寫障礙,學術上確係有難處,慶幸無意中發現佢對gymnastics 好有興趣, 見到佢有返passion, 同自己講學習唔止一兩條路 😊
    又聽到你講陪伴既重要性。

  • @kwaiyingtang3095
    @kwaiyingtang3095 Před rokem +5

    最重要是你的父母非常用心教導❤

  • @chinkuwu6181
    @chinkuwu6181 Před rokem +2

    雖然我咩病都冇,但睇左呢條片我真系獲益良多,多謝你咁用心既分享!❤

  • @GJ11_11
    @GJ11_11 Před rokem +9

    好勵志. Your parents are PERFECT!

  • @gracegrace1681
    @gracegrace1681 Před rokem +5

    I think this is the episode that I love the most over your channel🎉 I always admire others having great parents who are encouraging and rich resources. They are the true factor of success in life

  • @dominic213w
    @dominic213w Před rokem +7

    我都有inattentive adhd (專注力不足)同埋dyslexia(讀寫障礙),我响香港讀中小學成績係麻麻地,嚟英國中學讀最後1年成績係非常好。但係我去到大學先至真正勁struggle,因為哮喘突然間發作好犀利,後嚟呢面嘅醫生同埋護士開哮喘藥搞掂咗之後,我個腸胃又開始有事!初頭啲醫生就不停話係IBS (腸燥症),但係我個腸胃嘅情況不停惡化,之後又有 perianal abscess (肛門膿瘍)同埋fistula in ano (肛門廔管) 要開兩次刀!後來先發現原來係Crohn's Disease (克隆氏症),而家有克隆氏症就係成日會好容易攰,變咗啲adhd同埋dyslexia 係會差咗,而家唯有就係用多啲網上嘅apps 去補救。我同你有啲唔同就係,個education psychologist做咗個報告發現,我個腦個發展係比較平均,左腦同埋右腦都差唔多,佢話讀咩嘢科都啱。我啲數學反而唔算太差,但係以前响香港讀書嘅時候,數學嘅成績唔好係因為我睇唔明啲數學文字題要講咩嘢。但係如果淨係計公式,我响香港個補習先生話我啲數學都相當唔錯,只係計數嘅時候,好容易會有錯漏。

  • @romeochan2610
    @romeochan2610 Před rokem +2

    Good sharing. Especially pregnant during school age. Salute to your hubby your parent, all sweet family support

  • @chm5141
    @chm5141 Před rokem +2

    你同你父母都好優秀🥹🥹 睇到感動
    可以既話 都想知道多d你既育兒理念同心得

  • @kimcarlston
    @kimcarlston Před rokem +1

    真係好開心睇妳個channel, 每次睇都好開心。妳好開朗好正面好坦率。 😊👍🏻

  • @cololok2970
    @cololok2970 Před rokem +10

    我是2023dser同時是SEN學生(讀寫障礙),當睇到呢條片十分有同感,希望放榜可以有符合自己期望的成績

  • @user-sk7kf7od8g
    @user-sk7kf7od8g Před rokem +3

    我細個都係有讀寫障礙讀書好差,完全冇諗過自己可以讀到大學 ,但係你講得好啱,當我遇上一個有熱誠嘅事做乜嘢都唔係難題!最重點係你嘅分享你嘅人生經歷,你每一個笑容都好有感染力❤️‍🔥多謝你嘅分享💪

  • @yunlanju7600
    @yunlanju7600 Před rokem +10

    一聽你講嘢就知道是個尖子!😌☘️🌸😄🌹💕🌴🌴🌴🌴🤣

  • @katherinengai1925
    @katherinengai1925 Před rokem +2

    Oh, my God, I need to show this to our daughter, it will help her, thank you so much, always loves your video

  • @xiaomingzhang3047
    @xiaomingzhang3047 Před rokem +17

    身為ADD孩子的媽媽,非常感謝這條影片❤

  • @littlelittle6008
    @littlelittle6008 Před rokem +2

    雖然小朋友冇sen,但都好想鼓勵小朋友係香港讀書既父母,父母永遠係最了解自己既小朋友,佢地有咩係強項有咩弱項,要點樣培育係掌握係自己手,真係唔係一定要跟學校果套 ❤

  • @Loreenleung
    @Loreenleung Před rokem +4

    If you find a motivation to work on, this is the best way to work your day out! 作為一個Adhd嘅前學生,每日就係set緊唔同嘅goal,同搵一啲嘢去吸引自己完成個日嘅目標。好記得有一次喺屋企望住啲同一份notes hea咗幾日,但係當有屋企人同我講今晚會去做一啲我好鍾意做既野嘅時候,突然想溫曬嗰一科書嘅motivation就出咗嚟。想帶出嘅喺適當嘅target setting對於Adhd嘅同學嚟講,其實都好幫到手~~
    另外,真係要agree返有passion嘅重要性。如果唔係,讀書真係會悶死😂😂

  • @JC-oo1im
    @JC-oo1im Před rokem +3

    非常感謝你的分享。相信對一些有類似困難的人有啟發和幫助。kudos to your mom (and dad) for being supportive in the right way. Parents' attitudes can make or break a kid, and much more so for kids with special needs.

  • @Blueshadowfrommoon
    @Blueshadowfrommoon Před rokem +3

    不如下次岀條畫畫片❤我好鐘意你啲畫😂
    我都好鐘意畫畫😂,我都買咗好多畫具在家中,完全自學畫畫,後來先發現自己適合水彩。
    我都有讀寫障礙,我以前可以一心三用,考試都會pass,但不高分。後來我便改變方法去讀書,多啲時間專注於讀書,配合誦讀和寫小小notes,就真係好啲sum都個重點温習。

  • @evahung3087
    @evahung3087 Před rokem +2

    16:45 超級有感觸 我adhd 所以完全懂你的心路歷程 很有感觸~

  • @user-bb5wq9qf2h
    @user-bb5wq9qf2h Před rokem +1

    多謝你的分享,我仔仔同你一樣,向你學習,我都明白要如何去支持仔仔啦多謝你的分享

  • @oonahuen
    @oonahuen Před rokem +3

    除左自己努力 仲贏在有好父母親~ 幸福家庭formula

  • @yoyokwam9822
    @yoyokwam9822 Před rokem +4

    我係ADHD+讀寫障礙 睇到呢段片好感動
    好似又重新認識左自己多一次
    感謝您
    推介大家睇一本書關於讀寫障礙
    叫做the gift of dyslexia 有中文譯本
    我係睇中文的

    • @lailililililllchung9465
      @lailililililllchung9465 Před rokem

      你好,見你提到the gift of dyslexia 有中文譯本 ,我係網上搵唔到。想問問你知唔知道中文嘅譯本叫乜?

  • @Ahsokathepoo
    @Ahsokathepoo Před rokem +6

    Thank you for your video! It certainly had given me comfort to certain extent…my daughter was diagnosed with ADHD after she came down with depression symptoms after her 1st year of college last year. Similar experiences as your case where freedom of freshman year lead to a total chaos academically and socially. In the hindsight, now I see why she seem to not able to keep friends all her life. She is 20 now…I feel bad that she seem lonely without a social network. I really hope that it will get better as you said. You are fortunate with a very supportive and wise mom. While I try to be supportive of my daughter, I often felt that I am not wise enough and a little at lost as to how to help her..

  • @anitamisswumusic8722
    @anitamisswumusic8722 Před rokem +8

    以前接觸過不少讀障學生,老師除左要有方法幫助學生學習,要知小朋友是哪一類型學習者,找對方向,同時家長老師係真係要調整期望,但那個調整,非每一位家長能夠接受。
    教育是一個漫長的過程,可是重結果多於過程是常態,任何一方都辛苦了。
    所以千萬不要標籤孩子,我相信每一個都能教。💪

    • @theresechoy8346
      @theresechoy8346 Před rokem +2

      十分同意,千祈唔好因有學習障礙而標籤你嘅小朋友

  • @wingwing11937
    @wingwing11937 Před rokem +1

    呢個讚一定要俾你 叻女👍不過你好幸運出生於你父母家庭,祝福你家庭幸福 身體健康❤

  • @yhtyeung
    @yhtyeung Před rokem +2

    唔怪得知我咁鍾意睇你啲片,其他KOL我覺得個節奏好慢,我成日想飛,你同我個頻率一樣,十分舒適

  • @astridou1482
    @astridou1482 Před rokem +1

    好有共鳴。好有passion嘅嘢真係可以好focus,其它唔感興趣嘅真係好容易分神。。。而且專注力低,有時人哋講講下嘢就會走神,跟住又唔識識別social cue,好容易惹到啲唔好嘅人

  • @1668edith
    @1668edith Před rokem +1

    恭喜你有位好媽媽, 我小朋友也是ADD,做父母要花很多心力去幫小朋友,還要受學校的壓力, 當年要小朋友記到字詞,要想盡方法化作故事,圖像化去幫佢,我好記得個 (窮) 字, 幫極他也記不住, 今天記得好好的,明天一睡醒又忘了, 記得有一次見到座山腦出現個故事,我就跟他講有一個人沒錢好窮,窮到屋也租不起,佢走上山,掘掘掘(反問佢掘出的叫咩?), 佢答洞穴, 我就說對, 個人掘出個穴 將身體塞入去, 太細佢要屈埋個身先入到睡下, (反問佢有咩字似屈埋個身體) 佢答: (弓) ,就教佢窮字是由穴+身+弓 組成, 之後佢一寫窮字個腦會出現我的故事令佢寫得出 (窮)字。 香港最怕是學校老師不認同你是ADD ,會令小朋友加無助,會標纖咗佢係差學生,懶學生, 15年來求學,當中只遇上二位認同ADD學生的難, 有去幫助佢。

    • @dorothykwok1240
      @dorothykwok1240 Před rokem +1

      呢位媽媽好叻,好有創意👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

  • @sofieng4233
    @sofieng4233 Před rokem +5

    原來好多人同我一樣🥲以前成日覺得自己好似異類 就係考試成日去特別室同考試坐最前成日令我覺得尷尬 細個都係唔明大家點解都唔同我玩 考試成績好差 成日默書都0分 但數學同art就成日近滿分 依家先知有原因😂 我都係去到中學遇到d好好既老師 好有心咁幫我 先慢慢努力開始讀翻書 主要都係比到個信心自己 發現原來自己都得 但我真係會話讀寫障礙同專注力問題令我系讀書既路上浪費左好多時間同好沮喪🥲 個底打得唔好真係追得好辛苦 仲有每次都見到d同學好快完成d野就好有壓力 但我想講只要有心 好多野絕對可以做到 我今年拎到獎學金就更加證實左哩點 各位加油!!

    • @dominic213w
      @dominic213w Před rokem +2

      我係比較特別嘅,我响小學英文默書成日都勁高分,仲要高分過中文好多!中文對我嚟講就勁難囉!我睇過有一篇研究論文,原來以廣東話為母語而有讀寫障礙嘅香港人,佢哋同我一樣都係會覺得英文係易好多!

    • @sofieng4233
      @sofieng4233 Před rokem

      @@dominic213w 我覺得中英文都唔容易😂

  • @katau6171
    @katau6171 Před rokem +5

    Thanks for sharing this topic on your channel, it means so much to me❤
    I'm also a "sufferer from the traditional edu. System "and struggled a lot from ADHD since I was a kid.
    Thanks for pointing out that having these kind of symptoms do not really matter, what matters is how you deal with it and find out the proper and correct methods to cope with it.
    I enjoy watching your channel a lot . I love the vibrant attitude you and your family have. I wish you and your family will always stay happy ❤

  • @kamy6450
    @kamy6450 Před rokem +3

    Gladys , 你真係講得好好,your parents should be proud of you !

  • @user-tc7mx1yp1q
    @user-tc7mx1yp1q Před rokem +4

    好多謝你既分享
    我都準備做媽媽啦
    Bb未出世已經令我好緊張
    覺得香港既學習環境我無辦法可以support到小朋友
    但睇到你同兩個仔仔
    真係令我諗多好多
    希望我都可以做到一個支持倒自己小朋友既媽媽

  • @oviliatam7540
    @oviliatam7540 Před rokem +1

    祝福你~明德格物~大吉大利-身體健康~♡♡♡❤🎉

  • @hkdaisyhk
    @hkdaisyhk Před 2 měsíci

    Me2 , 我宜家中年,唔會介意別人知道我糸sen : ADHD , 讀寫邊緣, 長大後有焦慮, depression 抑鬱症。
    港大師妹你好叻,以你為榮,感謝這段片,给力。
    自己有了孩子之後,就知道痛苦, 社會上的歧視,不理解,造成很多很多生活上的困難。

  • @daudaucat1185
    @daudaucat1185 Před rokem +9

    多謝你,你令我更了解我孩子的困境和他的想法

  • @dwschi61
    @dwschi61 Před rokem +3

    呢條片唔係雞湯咁簡單,亦都好有啟發性

  • @ong1897
    @ong1897 Před rokem +2

    好犀利,真心!冇食藥情況底下都讀到書!

  • @raytiowai2675
    @raytiowai2675 Před rokem +2

    多謝你的分享,我都是你的忠實擁躉,今日睇咗你這個topic,啟發我怎樣教導我專注力不足的孩子,多謝你😂

  • @irischeuk25
    @irischeuk25 Před rokem +1

    真係好感恩有咁好既父母,成就更好既你

  • @chuncheng6726
    @chuncheng6726 Před rokem +3

    Hello Glady, thank you so much for sharing your experience. I think you are a very hard working person. You have your own talents. I am glad that to hear that you are proud of yourself. I envy you can speak so good and fluent English. I couldn't imagine you have problem of reading if you don't tell us. Also thank you for sharing the experience you found out your son Noah's interest and using it as a learning method. It is very useful. Well done, Glady😄👍

  • @missMaryChanChan
    @missMaryChanChan Před rokem +3

    You are so lucky to have a great parents and you can learn from them to be better parents

  • @az12312
    @az12312 Před rokem +7

    Totally agree!! Find out your kids gifts and talents. Help them to find their passion!!!

  • @emperor8716
    @emperor8716 Před rokem +6

    one reason why children are a blessing. people think its gonna be so much harder studying while being a mom, but look how having a son helped her overcome such difficulties.

  • @user-ty1bm1rw9u
    @user-ty1bm1rw9u Před rokem +2

    D條片一定幫到好多人👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

  • @Charles-sg9zu
    @Charles-sg9zu Před rokem +3

    Best ADD and Dyslexia representation ever ❤

  • @LauraLi-xm6ex
    @LauraLi-xm6ex Před rokem +2

    Very nice speech, Ms. Lo, you should totally become a Motivation speaker.

  • @zhixuennn
    @zhixuennn Před rokem +2

    看了你的短片,激励我更努力写assignment了!(还有3天截止的assignment😵‍💫)

  • @zoeleung3144
    @zoeleung3144 Před rokem +1

    好多謝你嘅分享,Noah真係上天俾你最好的禮物(之一)❤

  • @jantsang1442
    @jantsang1442 Před rokem +3

    So proud of you❤就算我冇小朋友都覺得好鼓勵,加油!

  • @chilloutdren
    @chilloutdren Před rokem +3

    多謝你嘅分享❤ 相信好多學生同家長睇完都會有好大感觸同得著 💪🏻
    你平時嘅影片都好值得分享比家長做教材 👍🏻 希望你哋一家繼續幸福快樂 😊

  • @shashalee6364
    @shashalee6364 Před rokem +2

    Your message brought tears to my eyes. Not only are you a wonderful mother but an amazing teacher. Thanks for sharing this with us. ❤

  • @JL_hahaha0303
    @JL_hahaha0303 Před rokem +3

    so lucky you have such supportive parents!

  • @melody-rv4wr
    @melody-rv4wr Před rokem +1

    有懂得應付和耐心的媽媽真的很重要!你條片好好,謝謝分享~

  • @wingshanma5614
    @wingshanma5614 Před rokem +1

    睇你嘅片好開心呀,因為你有好多正面嘅訊息比大家💪🏻💪🏻

  • @user-fg8yb8fd1l
    @user-fg8yb8fd1l Před rokem +1

    I love this video, thanks for sharing. My son's situation similar to yours, I shared this video to him. Hope it's helpful to him. love you.

  • @syma1243
    @syma1243 Před rokem +2

    謝謝妳的分享❤讓我更了解到兒子當年嘅感受😊雖然我兒子已經係成年人(比妳大少少)😅我會share比我兒子睇妳嘅片因為好正面😊又攪笑尤其是妳和丈夫兒子們一齊相處好開心😂

  • @user-ng8wo5fh3e
    @user-ng8wo5fh3e Před 6 měsíci

    我都係ADHD嘅學生又有讀寫障礙家傾向自閉症嘅,似搵到呢啲影片,講到我好啱,搵到好多共鳴,不過我而家中六,但係就比人講,我好懶好笨,又唔識處理人際關係,小學到中學都俾人蝦,喺學校有冇咩人幫到我,屋企家庭又破碎,我就好似呢個主播咁樣花咗好多時間好多努力好多心機去成績度,但成日結果都係失敗,最終都係咁,經歷咗無數次,我已經麻木咗。而家就嚟考DSE,真係好想好似你哋咁勁,但係好似點樣努力都成績都好差,報咗好多補習班包括中英數,但係只有少少提升,感覺上驚可能攞一都攞唔到,有時候會因為周圍所有嘅事情都令我好痛苦好想死,不過已經唔係一次,有陣時想諗吓有冇可能可以攞到一把槍直接喺自己個頭了結一切,但最終我都唔想咁樣,我好想有人幫吓我,所以喺度問吓究竟點樣先可以好似你哋咁嘅,或者你哋俾啲意見我,拜託謝謝🥹❤!!

    • @dorothykwok1240
      @dorothykwok1240 Před 3 měsíci

      擔心你,明明你感到氣餒,希望你明白讀書並唔係人生唯一嘅出路

  • @lchan5363
    @lchan5363 Před rokem +2

    每個人都有不同的障礙,你有你的讀寫障礙,專注力不足 ,我有我的社交障礙,group interview是難題,presentation 更不堪,總之各有前因莫羡人,大家都要努力克服,共勉之。

  • @qqliu1415
    @qqliu1415 Před rokem +2

    After seeing this video, I need to my soft on my kids. I have a lot of mom guilts raising my kids, i hope it is not too late to help my kids to build up and support their passion.

  • @HK-bk8wm
    @HK-bk8wm Před rokem +2

    RESPECT...God bless you and your family, especially your parents...they are really good ❤

  • @kumameow3405
    @kumameow3405 Před rokem +2

    Whatever syndrome you have got
    Support and attitude of mama are always important unless you’re genius 😂😂
    So appreciate you and your mom, you are a good mom because your mom is good

  • @amyying-miwoo7286
    @amyying-miwoo7286 Před rokem +3

    To summarize, Gladys, you are great !

  • @teresalee4680
    @teresalee4680 Před rokem +2

    Thank you for sharing I can echo with your experience. Your honest experience is very encouraging for others who have the same struggles.

  • @googleuserrr
    @googleuserrr Před rokem +1

    多謝你拍這個topic!!! 我係大個先知我有讀寫障礙. 好難先成功大學畢業. I know I'm not alone. Thank you❤❤❤

  • @viviankan7367
    @viviankan7367 Před rokem +5

    每-個生命都非常重要!但香港的教育制度,令到很多學校為了要交成績,只會著重栽培成績好的學生,成績不好的學生或 Sen 的學生住往會被放棄了!

  • @fannyleung3688
    @fannyleung3688 Před rokem +2

    講得好好,我個仔係亞氏保加,好怕社交,你段片好大鼓勵,感謝

  • @jaimetse6347
    @jaimetse6347 Před rokem +2

    最唔鍾意對住本書,睇可以不過好慢,只限死背,所以放棄讀書,但出黎做野最緊要活到老學到老,學以致用,同埋知道自己長短處再去慢慢學習突破,勝過自己最重要

  • @cherryleung1804
    @cherryleung1804 Před rokem +1

    ❤❤謝謝分享長知識👍👍

  • @estherwoo8567
    @estherwoo8567 Před rokem +1

    So well said. You sharing is so inspiring❤

  • @yeebeec9660
    @yeebeec9660 Před rokem +1

    I just want to say Thank you so much to u, I really enjoyed to watching the this video