ANOTHER WEEK IN MY LIFE *ARIAS, BOOK TOUR, MATILDA PREMIERE*
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Hi Chloé, I am 14 and I have adhd and autism your channel and book have helped me and my friends/family so much. I also loved heartbreak high and I’m so happy to see proper autism representation. Thank you so much for everything you’ve done for me and keep going you’re amazing ❤
Awesome! Just saying something goes a long way for anyone.
Same here
Sameee well I'm 14 in 2 days
I have adhd and Autism and I hate this girl
Watching Dylan watch you with the sweetest smile as you spoke about Matilda and how much it meant to you just warmed my heart. So often you see people zone out especially with special interests. Can you possibly do a video on navigating dating and neaurodivergency? ❤️
yes yes she should do a video with him about it too
@@gidget_music_autism963 When she's not gushing about Styles?
@@williamoarlock8634😂😂😂 yes
Hi Chloe i am a 14. I am autistic and I have adhd. I used to be ashamed of it and hide it but you have shown me that it is ok to be different and it really shows who is judgemental in society. Thank you for what you do and keep making people feel comfortable
I'm 36 and this money and media muppet makes me even more disgusted at being autistic.
Absolutely do not feel bad or silly about being upset and having a meltdown about thinking you lost your camera. It is honestly one of the worst feelings thinking you’ve lost or misplaced something, esp when it has some kind of sentimental meaning to it. I honestly would’ve been the same. Love you!!
Chloe thank you for choosing to share your difficult moments with us. Being open and authentic about a topic like meltdowns is so needed and validating and reassuring for so many of us (myself included). It is so impactful, almost more so than a vlog that just shows all the high points of life (but those are so wonderful to celebrate too!) Thank you again ❤
I totally get your Matilda feels, coincidentally I had a very similar experience that same weekend and it was one of the best nights of my life.
That same weekend I got to see Tim Minchin live at the Palace Foreshore, and he played "When I Grow Up" which is my favourite Matilda song and because it was outside I got to scream and dance along with them and it will forever be one of my favourite memories. I'm almost crying now just remembering it.
People are so quick to bring up the bad-side of Autism and we forget that Autistic joy is such an over-powering and healing and fantastic experience, and I felt it then and it's makes all of the hard times worth it. It makes me so happy to see other neurodiverse people feel that joy too
Chloe you are such an inspiration to all of us, sending you so much love and many hours of relaxation and watching bluey
thank you so much for telling us about losing your camera and the meltdown, this happens to me all the time and I always felt so alone in it and this helped me, I'm sorry you had to go through that, thank you for sharing
I can relate to your Camera story/meltdown Chloe, especially the memories part. I once jumped in a pool with a camera in my pocket, bad idea lost all my 1000 photos :( some of when my children were very young. I had a freak out session this week too pre Christmas I was trying to put together an expensive computer chair as a present for my son and it took me 3hrs. After the first 15 minutes I was feeling so overwhelmed because it was so frustrating to assemble and it didn’t look right. Then once I thought I was finished putting it together, I found a tear in the leather. Then I started to panic whether I would be able to get it replaced, go through the process of putting together another chair and another possible meltdown and get it all sorted out before Xmas. Long story short I did get the chair replaced , asked for some help from my dad to avoid going into a meltdown state again phew and managed to get it all done ready to give to my son on the big day.
Afterwards I felt so silly that I got so overwhelmed by the process of putting together a new computer chair for my son.
I love the vibes Chloe gives off it makes me feel so safe and seen
The media loves ugly narcissist girls.
me too
Hi Chloé, thank you so much! The Sydney book tour was amazing, and I'm so glad you love the frog I made! Thank you for sharing the amazing and the not so amazing moments of your week, for me to see my meltdowns visualized was so validating and humbling, keep on doing you! Love you and thank you again 💖💖💖
YES YES YES ANOTHER CHLOÉ VIDEO!! I adore the week in my life videos!!
Wow I really needed that encouragement about food. I’m currently struggling with this and your message was so validating. The realness of your content was so helpful when I started my autism discovery journey and continues to help me feel valid and relatable now that I’m post diagnosis. Thank you for opening your life to the world and being vulnerable to help others feel not alone! PS. Your Apple Watch is my fav color and has a cute pattern!
I love you so much Chloé it was such an amazing video and I can’t believe I made it into the video!! I love you and I just want to let you know you have helped me through so much and I love your book and show
I love your videos so much. My dream is to meet you someday!💕💕 your amazing!!
Meeting you was absolutely incredible for my son and I. Tim Minchin has been a wonderful obsession of mine for years, I can’t wait to see Matilda.
I hope you get some rest. ☺️🦋
Omg I love the earrings they gave you!! So CUTEE!!!😊 also I subscribed!!!!
My job is at risk because of my meltdowns. Now I have to justify my freak outs to a panel of managers. It's really important for you to keep showing your meltdowns. It helps people like me to remember that they aren't the end-all be-all and that it's possible to be a person in the workplace even though we get overwhelmed. Anyway, thanks!
Oh no. I bet you’re having a meltdown over your meltdowns. This sucks so much that you have to explain yourself instead of your managers just being like “Oh yeah you’re autistic…go chill for a minute”
Hope your meeting goes/went well!
@@TheVoiceinTheDarkness Christmas delayed it. I'm losing my mind.
@@werbnaright5012 that sucks! Hope it's successful!
Chippies feed the soul! I hope you got some rest and recovery after all your adventures 😄
Thank you for your amazingly spot on portrayal of Quinni. I've never seen my flavour of autism portrayed on the screen before and I was so gobsmacked I thought 'no way that actress isn't autistic'. I was so happy to find out that you are! It feels great being represented 🤗❤️
omg i love the bilby earrings!!
I relate to how you felt losing your camera. I've just been hacked on Instagram and have lost 5 years of memories videos and pictures and messages and contacts and pages I love. I often have such a hard time seeing other people lose things too and remember your videos about your ring so I'm so so happy your camera turned up fine xx P.S your achievements are outstanding!
Oh my goodness, I’m just realising how much fuller I feel after watching your videos, a good fuller, which I don’t really know what that actually means but it’s definitely a good thing 🥰. Also I’m hoping I get a copy of your book for Christmas ☺️. I always look forward to your videos and whatever I end up watching next just want make me feel as good as I do now. Thankyou Chloé. ☺️.
Hi Chloé!!! Seeing you so happy because of Matilda made me watch it as well and it was amazing!!! I loved the song Quiet a lot because I related to it *so much*.
Also your videos and you giving us proper autism rep in Heartbreak High helped me a lot. I still remember when me and my mother were watching Heartbreak High and she said that Quinni reminded her of me, she was at least a bit able to understand the way I feel and that made me feel so understood! You're an amazing human being, thank you so much for everything
You're such a big idol of mine!!!! I'm going to pre-order your book for the 5th of january (I live in Europe) somewhere this week and I'm just so excited!!🪷🌸❤️
I'm reading your book, I'm almost done. I love love love it! You make me feel so free to just be me. I love you. I wish you nothing but so much happiness and joy
You’ve said a lot of things I needed to hear today to reassure myself about my own autism, through watching this/yours. Thank you SO SO much, take care 💕
Edit: WHERE IS THAT CROCHET CARE BEAR FROM?? OMG 😍
i think someone at a book signing made it for her!
meltdowns truly are such a draining experience :(
U are such a amazing person ilysm and I loved your character in heartbreak high! It was the best series I’ve ever watched! ❤️😊
Hi Chloe it was such an amazing time at the Sydney book signing thank you for making my birthday weekend so special
I love you and your stims please don't ever let shitty people steal your happiness away 💕🥰
Why do ugly selfish girls deserve happiness?
aghhh wishing the brisbane show was here!! but i absolutely loved this video, you bring me ao much joy!
I remember that top!!!
OMG IM IN THIS OMG OMG OMG
God the meltdowns, man. Losing and breaking stuff is the #1 cause. Memories, and poverty, basically. I recently lost a piece of an earring after a lil spasm. Did the same, looked everywhere and turned couches upside down. It was in exactly the place I expected it to fall, which I checked three times. I found it later that day. I picked the item up, immediately felt the hard plastic, and just threw it away and walked the other direction, almost laughing. Once lost and found a pair of tights this way too.
ADHD and Autism is such a horrible combo sometimes. The lack of memory and the reaction to it. I feel like I'm crazy sometimes when I lose my stuff. I lost my medical shoe insert, I put it away from the dogs up high. It was RIGHT THERE on something of the same colour but the adhd and autism just couldn't see it or remember where I put it. Forgetting sucks. I get the same way about memories. I care a lot about my pictures being in chronological order, because my memory is so bad. I also once accidentally deleted the album with pictures of my dead cat because there were two of them but they both got deleted. Pffff man. I'd LOVE a working memory. I really, REALLY appreciate you sharing this. It makes me feel normal.
It is amazing she's been able to do all those things
Hey I hope you don't mind me asking but you still have a PO Box? And if anyone knows how do you find the book tours and signings? i've been trying to find information but I can't.
I sure do! PO Box is: PO Box 137, Inverleigh, vic, Australia 3321
do you have any advice for trying to get diagnosed as an adult :( i tried when i was 16 and they were so patronising cos of my masking
SEEING MYSELF IN THIS VIDEO I HAD THE SAME REACTION CHLOE HAD TO SEEING HERSELF IN THE 60 MINUTE VIDEO WITH NIAL HOLY SHIT
This is so random but Matilda the musical is on Netflix now does anybody wanna be exited with me?
@@aizarose9226 Ive now watched it 5 times and will be watching it 100000 more. I am very very excited
Narcissism.
I feel you re having a meltdown, I was at a Xmas party and they had to put food aside for me (I could eat bits of each of the salads but not the whole of any of the salads), I knew where it had been the day before so went to get it and it wasn't there. The person that was finishing it up that morning had decided to plate it up nicely for me - that meant that it was in a different bowl and different fridge from where I was expecting and I wasn't told that it had moved when I went to go look for it. Luckily for me one of the staff was still free and was willing to give me a bear hug (I love deep pressure to calm me down) and so I could short cut a lot of the meltdown, still tired the next day though.
If you said to someone that didn't understand that you were upset because your bowl moved and they made it up nicely they would think that you were making a big deal about nothing, so glad to have people who get it.
That would have been an epic talk!
hi Chloe you are amazing and my favorite person
beautiful flower crown
Thank u so much for showing and normising the burnout side of autism
i love you so so much chloe
Does anybody know where the bg music is from? I listened to the versions from both Disney Jungle Book movies but neither of them sound like it. Thanks! :)
5:45 cookie cutter shark bites can actually on occasion kill calves and whales do notice them because they are painful (so i wouldn't say they have no idea they have been bitten) I really hope this doesn't come across as rude, I just really love whales
remember food is food and food is the fuel and your body is the car and you need food to keep your body going
l love the matilda movie
Same I’ve already watched it 7 times lol
where arre your axolotl pants from omg
Don’t judge yourself for having a meltdown. Yeah, some of them may seem or look silly to people around you…but they aren’t silly to you and that’s what’s important. My mom reminds me that everyone, NT or ND, has a meltdown from time to time. You were also SO BUSY, which leaves you more vulnerable to melt or shut down. Please take care of yourself.
bless you
Hey chloe! I reckon the chances of you reading this are slim but i was wondering if u could talk about the meltdown scene in heartbreak high. Love you sm. stay safe
I am so thankful I'm not neurotypical. I mean, neurotypicals are probably okay in general but i see them mostly accept yet hate life. They center their life around a job that doesn't value them, underpays them, tells them to accept it because if you challenge it you're the problem.
I am so thankful to find my truth, im so thankful to be in a group thats hated for finding actual enjoyment in life. Life is not showing up to work on time, paying eay too much for everything and telling us we're not good enough. Its been difficult to deal with constant abuse and judgement but overall life is about what you enjoy and not putting up with a lack of understanding and value of the people around us. Nobody is going to be impressed with a person who showed up every day and worked way too hard at a job. Tomorrow is never promised so we should all be grateful for it when it comes and honor ourselves with living a real life. Not overindulgent but slow living as people are calling it. Maybe we dont al constantly buy things and maybe we just learn to listen to the people around us instead of getting angry about a morally bankrupt society that says to produce garbage for your life and devalue everyone and everything that makes you think.
25:53 the way Dylan is looking at Chloé. Well she is talking about Matilda is so heartwarming I want that.🥹🥹🥹
I enjoyed this video. I don't want to scare you, but if your nausea continues after eating udon noodles and the like, it would be worthwhile asking your doctor for some tests and an endoscopy. I was diagnosed with coeliac disease at 31 (I got symptoms at 16, and thought it was just nerves, but I was also caught between a rock and a hard place at the time (as in, I didn't like my parents' doctor and couldn't change)) and that meant I couldn't eat anything with wheat, rye, barley, oats or triticale. Some udon noodles have wheat in them. Buckwheat doesn't contain gluten unless it's blended.
Safe food loss is one of the most disruptive things.
I am proud of you. Now, I wish, people would support and allow me to be proud of me.
hey chloe i love you so much
it's gidget the girl from the brisbane book signing did you like the gift i made you will you be doing more queen land meet and greet talks anytime
soon could you do a brisbane book signing hall
you are so bubbly and cool
I am flipping in my mushroom boots!!!! I’m in this holy shitucky mushrooms🎉❤
Absolutely love! 'The day in the life' ones 😃🥰 You're my idol and person seriously for most of the year, you're one of the only topics of interest but most importantly person that I've being talking about ☺️ xo .....
Have being super excited to see real and authentic representation of neurodivergent women in the media that's being so amazing!!! 🥰 I did a little representation myself this year, but not directly just subconsciously
omg I'm the worm person with the silly outfit! I can't believe it 🥰💖 If anyone in Australia would like a pair, let me know! I just got 100 new ones in 25 colours, and some of them even have stripes!
"i swear to god if the tism takes bubble tea away from me..."
Comparing yourself to others is a sign of an unhealthy ego which will always eventually lean you to being miserable.
hi Chloe l am 10 years old and you are the best l love your videos and you are my idol and you are amazing and my name is Emily😃🙂😅❤
That’d be right my mum makes the video but I don’t 😂
“The autism is progressing” 😂
if its important to you its worth having a meltdown for i had a meltdown once over a water bottle
Why is it “cencored” if people don’t like it, tough sh@t. Just drink about four bottles of Monster Energy and you will be all set
Chloe, today is Christmas in America🎄🌟 and I want to wish You, Your Boyfriend Dylan, and Your entire Family a very Merry Christmas 🎄🌟🔔🎅🎀!!!!! Sorry to be 4 to 5 days late commenting, but even though I'm vaccinated for Covid-19, my Boyfriend ( who is also vaccinated for covid-19 ) and I caught covid-19 and now we are on on the mend from Covid-19. And as always I could not be happier for you😃😃👍👍 You look so beautiful in all the outfits you wear!🤗🤗👍👍! Your Boyfriend, Dylan, is a very kind and sweet man too🤗🤗! And I wanted to make a suggestion that might help you with digestion and relaxation, buy some fresh lemongrass and boil it into a tea. Lemongrass is delicious, tastes like lemons, and it's so soothing on the stomach. If I'm feeling anxiety ridden or my stomach hurts then lemon grass tea really helps me. And I can so understand that sometimes comfort food is necessary, even if it's not fruits or vegetables. And Chloe being someone that really loves to collect toys and I love homemade crochet things, I really love your crocheted Cheer Bear Care Bear🌈❤️🧡💛💚💙💜, crocheted dinosaur 🦖🦕💚💚, and your crocheted frog 🐸💚💚 !!!! And also being someone that loves Koala bears, I really love your rainbow 🌈 🐨 koala bear 🐨 Squishmallow❤️🧡💛💚💙💜!!! And I also really enjoyed the footage that you gave us of the zoo🐵🦁🐻🐨! Chloe, I'd love to see more vlog content like this about what you do during your week🤗🤗💛💛💛💛💛! I'm so happy to see you living such a vibrant life inspiring others🤗🤗💛💛💛💛💛! And my Boyfriend and I really do have to see the musical Matilda🤗🤗!!! I also would love to see a video what you got for Christmas 💚❤️💚❤️🎄🎀🎅🔔🌟!!! And I so love your cat Beatrix and your dog Matilda!!!!🤗🤗❤️💚❤️💚🌟🌟
8:55 YOU MET NAZ AND SABRE?!?!?!
I have ADHD I’m 16
Maybe your eating Midwestern food. Either white, brown, yellow, tan, or red.
I met you today love you
wait that gagging is because autism?!?! ive been blaming my stomach and stress for years girl...