THE heaviest music video - "Signed, Another Man" - Clayton Shay

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  • Nashville recording artist Clayton Shay's official music video for "Signed, Another Man"
    Available on all digital streaming platforms!
    Music video Produced & Directed by Andy Pollitt (Jeanz Media)
    Actors: Krystalanne Brunelle & Jordan Abbott
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  • @ClaytonShay
    @ClaytonShay  Před 3 lety +1080

    “Signed, Another Man” is out on all streaming platforms! Follow me on Spotify, TikTok, Instagram & Facebook!! More music coming soon

    • @maryhall1532
      @maryhall1532 Před 3 lety +18

      Now the world is clear closed forgotten but foll what I know but 4th episode canceled

    • @ClaytonShay
      @ClaytonShay  Před 3 lety +30

      @@maryhall1532 huh?

    • @Griffnstuff
      @Griffnstuff Před 3 lety +42

      This blew me away!!! Wow, just wow. These lyrics are nothing short of straight classy. I haven't heard anything like it. Although, I have lived something very similar. He's gone to heaven now, but went holding her hand, with a few hints from another woman. He would love this song and your voice! You've gained a fan💖💯🙌

    • @ClaytonShay
      @ClaytonShay  Před 3 lety +21

      @@Griffnstuff wow... that’s a powerful story. Thanks for sharing

    • @chevyguyss
      @chevyguyss Před 3 lety +17

      Great song my man! The first one I’ve heard from you, but I’m for sure a sub now. This is some real country music that takes me back.

  • @samthesham459
    @samthesham459 Před 2 lety +7769

    Clayton, you’ve got a fan for life, just from this one song! I’m currently watching my 32 yr marriage crumble around me. Subtle signs of cheating for about 6-8 months and right around our 32 anniversary in March, she said she was tired of our marriage and wanted a divorce. After raising 3 young men, 2 were twins, and going through the ups and downs that come with raising children, while keeping a roof over your head and the lights on, this hit me like Tyson! But I’m not begging anyone to love me. If the embers are cold in her mind, I don’t want to be around someone who doesn’t truly give it their all. This song is so beautiful and so rare for one to still care that much for the other, that they want them to be truly happy even after the heartbreak. In my situation, I don’t feel this way, simply because what I had to endure from a psychotic covert narcissist with BPD for 32 years because I didn’t want my sons to grow up hating me for leaving and I felt it was my responsibility to guide them through their young lives. Sadly I exchanged my internal happiness for the sake of my children and now that my life is in the sundown years, I feel as though I’ve been cheated out of 32 yrs. Thanks to anyone who took the time to read the story of my life ..

    • @pegpeg3939
      @pegpeg3939 Před 2 lety +225

      I read it. I'm going through same thing only a 18 year relationship and no together kids. His affair just started a couple months ago but just like that he was checked out. Good luck to you

    • @ClaytonShay
      @ClaytonShay  Před 2 lety +406

      Hope the song helps! Stay strong 💪🏼

    • @Being_JaredMichael
      @Being_JaredMichael Před 2 lety +108

      Shit brother I got you. I feel you I’m going through right now

    • @ohioanalily
      @ohioanalily Před 2 lety +39

      Hugs 💜💜💜💜

    • @secrets2884
      @secrets2884 Před 2 lety +98

      Definitely feel your story. Feeling cheated out of your years. That hits me.. I felt that too. It gets better hang in there.

  • @IonIsFalling7217
    @IonIsFalling7217 Před 3 lety +1927

    I love how this song is about a man who genuinely loved her and wants the best for her, even if it isn't him.

  • @MrLocomatt
    @MrLocomatt Před 6 měsíci +175

    You didnt waste your years bud. You got those boys for life ❤

    • @ClaytonShay
      @ClaytonShay  Před 6 měsíci +6

      That’s right

    • @allisonruby1448
      @allisonruby1448 Před 3 měsíci

      Why does my all feel like I'm supposed to take something when I was told no. Also, what do I have to take? I do not want to be the cause of someone's trauma 😭

    • @betsygalloway3310
      @betsygalloway3310 Před 2 měsíci

      Absolutely 💯 percent correct! The other half can always be replaced!? Lol. ❤

  • @be5764
    @be5764 Před 3 měsíci +128

    The pain never goes away. You just learn to live with it.....

    • @carlachesser4097
      @carlachesser4097 Před 2 měsíci +1

      Exactly right

    • @lilmammaz7749
      @lilmammaz7749 Před 2 měsíci +1

      💯

    • @ajs96350
      @ajs96350 Před měsícem +1

      Or you could grow a backbone and move on.
      Why cry over someone who doesn't want you?
      Grow up.

    • @kellykountouris7193
      @kellykountouris7193 Před měsícem +4

      ​@ajs96350 what a fkd up thing to say to someone...especially someone you don't know. Deal with your shit.

    • @ajs96350
      @ajs96350 Před měsícem

      @@kellykountouris7193 No. it's not.
      The video is specifically about the heartbreak of loving someone who doesn't love you back.
      Men need to hear the truth, we aren't living in a fantasyland.
      So I stand by what I said, I've been there and I freaking grew a backbone and got over it.
      Don't wallow in self pity, it's shameful for a grown ass man to do that.

  • @christianwestby5368
    @christianwestby5368 Před 3 lety +1331

    This is the most beautiful non toxic break up song and I respect it so much

    • @ClaytonShay
      @ClaytonShay  Před 3 lety +35

      Thank you so much!

    • @ourcatthefatness
      @ourcatthefatness Před 3 lety +28

      This is the break up song the world needs.

    • @loganmoore934
      @loganmoore934 Před 3 lety +12

      Have you heard “grew apart” by logan mize? It’s very non toxic

    • @chloe_he_he1144
      @chloe_he_he1144 Před 2 lety +6

      Its probably the healthiest thing to do even if that was hard at first

    • @haydenmadigan8186
      @haydenmadigan8186 Před 2 lety +2

      Shit this song is what I would do lol

  • @brycephilpot3192
    @brycephilpot3192 Před 3 lety +893

    Finally a song not talking bad about there ex but you just want them to be happy even if that's without you

    • @ClaytonShay
      @ClaytonShay  Před 3 lety +33

      You got it! Thanks for watching!

    • @bradleydavis6460
      @bradleydavis6460 Před 3 lety +23

      I mean are you serious?. That's like saying post Malone made ozzy famous... Listen man.... George Straight- you look so good in love
      Give it a listen

    • @ourcatthefatness
      @ourcatthefatness Před 3 lety +10

      It’s not the first but it’s a pretty awesome song.

    • @davidkuahiwinui2660
      @davidkuahiwinui2660 Před 3 lety +7

      Try listening to Grew apart by donovan woods

    • @NathanSmith-gr6tg
      @NathanSmith-gr6tg Před 3 lety +14

      Exactly sometimes it takes a real man to admit he jus wasn't it didn't mean he didn't love her jus she needed to be loved more than he could provide

  • @DeaqonJamesLV
    @DeaqonJamesLV Před rokem +546

    This is a PRIME example of what truly loving someone is. Wanting them to be happy even if it isn't with you.

    • @ClaytonShay
      @ClaytonShay  Před rokem +22

      So glad the message resonates with you! Thanks for watching. Checkout some of my other songs/music videos if ya got a sec 🙏🏻

    • @johnnywilliams9010
      @johnnywilliams9010 Před rokem +6

      I do want that...

    • @melaniedawnfortier9376
      @melaniedawnfortier9376 Před rokem

      ❤❤❤❤

    • @monikacase770
      @monikacase770 Před rokem

      ❤️

    • @jaywood1763
      @jaywood1763 Před 8 měsíci +2

      Famous last words, "there's no such thing as forever"," there's always an ending". "Everything has an ending"

  • @itsjustmeraew
    @itsjustmeraew Před 2 měsíci +23

    This one really made me cry. You know the music is good when it makes you feel.

  • @REMOTEKONTROL1FAN
    @REMOTEKONTROL1FAN Před 3 lety +239

    I’m a full grown man, first time hearing this song. Can someone tell me why I bawled as soon as he said “she likes movies in black n white”

    • @ClaytonShay
      @ClaytonShay  Před 3 lety +21

      It’s a heavy one for sure! Thanks for watching buddy! 🙏🏻

    • @marthasanders944
      @marthasanders944 Před 3 lety +4

      That’s where I starting bawling too

    • @2raleigh
      @2raleigh Před 3 lety +2

      Same here

    • @RebelCourt
      @RebelCourt Před 3 lety +23

      If I were to guess. Its probably because.. As you said you're "..a full grown man.." Takes a real man to let his spirit speak to his heart and embrace what it feels .. Then the mind connects and we cry. Stay true.

    • @johndillinger2170
      @johndillinger2170 Před 3 lety +6

      I’ve been happily married for 30 years this year. That hit me hard too. It’s great song writing. I wonder if he wrote the song. He sang it just as good as it is written.

  • @treygreen530
    @treygreen530 Před 3 lety +516

    This hits so hard. Especially when you’re so broken you don’t even know if you’re enough anymore

    • @ClaytonShay
      @ClaytonShay  Před 3 lety +65

      You’re enough for the right person. Hang in there!

    • @debprice3044
      @debprice3044 Před 3 lety +10

      You are ALWAYS ENOUGH for the RIGHT ONE 💙❤

    • @WelcometotheAmyLeighShow
      @WelcometotheAmyLeighShow Před 3 lety +6

      I feel you! I’m wondering the same thing. What was I thinking?😔

    • @joshuaowens8025
      @joshuaowens8025 Před 3 lety

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    • @johnnybrumett3111
      @johnnybrumett3111 Před 3 lety +6

      Hang in there champ. The boys got you

  • @BN-pd9tf
    @BN-pd9tf Před 2 lety +313

    Just happened to stumble upon this song. The title intrigued me, so I clicked on it. Wow. Hits you smack in the chest. Letting go is one thing. Doing it with class and grace is another. Exceptionally well done. 👍

    • @ClaytonShay
      @ClaytonShay  Před 2 lety +12

      Hey thanks so much for taking a chance on me! Check out my other songs if ya got a sec! 🙏🏻

    • @hydrothunder49028
      @hydrothunder49028 Před rokem +2

      @@ClaytonShay Love that song went through similar thing myself after a while it got worse ... Finally Got the woman i should have waited for be together 16 great years ... tyvm for putting this song out it reminds me of how great life could be if people treat ALL the way they want to be treated in return

    • @Chelle337
      @Chelle337 Před rokem

      Just got Smacked with this one!! ♥️♥️

    • @ClaytonShay
      @ClaytonShay  Před rokem +1

      @@hydrothunder49028 hey thanks for the kind words! I have a brand new music video for my single “Island”! If ya got a sec can you let me know what you think of it in the comment section? 🙏🏻

    • @ClaytonShay
      @ClaytonShay  Před rokem +1

      @@Chelle337 Thanks so much for watching! I have a brand new music video for my single “Island”! If ya got a sec can you let me know what you think of it in the comment section? 🙏🏻

  • @lucyswift5566
    @lucyswift5566 Před 2 lety +126

    That is what I consider Unconditional love. No requirements and willing to step aside for the other person well being over your own. ❤️

    • @ClaytonShay
      @ClaytonShay  Před 2 lety +7

      You nailed it! I love it when a listener connects with the message 🙏🏻 make sure to check out my other songs/music videos if ya got a second!

  • @GaryLiseo
    @GaryLiseo Před 3 lety +141

    Just because she fell out of love with you, that doesn’t mean you don’t hope she’s still loved right

  • @gissellezepeda883
    @gissellezepeda883 Před 3 lety +539

    I’m a girl but I feel like I can relate to this just the other way around, I want him to be happy even if it’s not with me! 🥺

    • @ClaytonShay
      @ClaytonShay  Před 3 lety +36

      Glad the message can reach both sides. Thanks for watching!

    • @devilheart1015
      @devilheart1015 Před 3 lety +5

      I feel the exact same way

    • @ClaytonShay
      @ClaytonShay  Před 3 lety +5

      @@devilheart1015 so glad ya can relate!

    • @devilheart1015
      @devilheart1015 Před 3 lety +1

      @@ClaytonShay me too lol

    • @creekerfox1071
      @creekerfox1071 Před 3 lety +13

      my buddy keeps telling me I just need to get over her and no matter what I do I can't we never dated probably never will but it's funny how the only ones who could help me don't care 😂 this probably don't relate but ima post it any ways only a couple deep

  • @mikode
    @mikode Před rokem +185

    I absolutely love this song and the concept behind it. When you love someone so much that you want them happy even if it's not with you and being grown enough to understand what you had and moving on healthily.

    • @ClaytonShay
      @ClaytonShay  Před rokem +15

      Thanks so much! I’m glad you connected with the message! 🙏🏻

    • @richardcarranza3613
      @richardcarranza3613 Před rokem +3

      How for is your absolute on yourself for absolutely clarity in understanding growth applying your gift of knowledge on a God-given match maker other woman than wasting your angel. I’m very hopeful Our Way-maker has forgiven an unwanted outburst. May the other guy prosper from the pebble curse to glorify his true forum. Amen
      Blessing to you Mikode on hearing

    • @melaniedawnfortier9376
      @melaniedawnfortier9376 Před rokem

      ❤❤❤❤😊😊😊😊😘😘😘

    • @prestonlong7261
      @prestonlong7261 Před 10 měsíci +2

      Does moving on healthily count if you kinda accidentally became the persons best friend and pretty much surrogate sibling bc youd rather have them in your life than not at all

    • @anakina1
      @anakina1 Před 4 měsíci +1

      No its just settling. You will always have an emptiness. ​@prestonlong7261

  • @HellJustLostAnother1.
    @HellJustLostAnother1. Před 8 měsíci +15

    Song about a man setting himself free and wishing happiness 💪🏼💪🏼

  • @shannmorris1065
    @shannmorris1065 Před 2 lety +147

    To let someone you love exit your life, no matter how bad it hurts, with such grace is the truest display of love.

    • @ClaytonShay
      @ClaytonShay  Před 2 lety +9

      You get it. Thanks for watching

    • @shannmorris1065
      @shannmorris1065 Před 2 lety +1

      @@davidbrian2039 Hello there

    • @shannmorris1065
      @shannmorris1065 Před 2 lety +1

      @@ClaytonShay I do. Thank you for combining such a love story with music-my lifeline.

    • @scottj335able
      @scottj335able Před rokem +4

      I let my first wife go her happiness was more important then mine and she is happy I never forget to text or call on special days

    • @shannmorris1065
      @shannmorris1065 Před rokem +1

      I am not sure who I am replying to. I am not sure why I never saw your response a year ago. I would feel rude if I were not to respond, so “Hello”.

  • @antrenfroe2750
    @antrenfroe2750 Před 3 lety +422

    Never heard of you and don't even know how I came across this video, but I am glad I did. Good stuff

  • @lesliealfred1979
    @lesliealfred1979 Před 2 měsíci +3

    I will always want the best for my babe.
    Austin Booth, I pray you find your way, someone who can love you the way you need, and joy in this life. May God always keep you and anyone who reads this in His Grace and Mercy. Amen

  • @brianfulwood7827
    @brianfulwood7827 Před 8 měsíci +15

    You ain’t a man until you’ve had your heart broken.

  • @kylekillu7153
    @kylekillu7153 Před 3 lety +305

    A song for any man who has watched the woman he had fall outta love!

    • @ClaytonShay
      @ClaytonShay  Před 3 lety +12

      You got it!Thanks so much for watching! Feel free to subscribe and share if ya got a sec!

    • @claystapes4827
      @claystapes4827 Před 3 lety

      Etj

    • @ashleighlieber1142
      @ashleighlieber1142 Před 3 lety +1

      😭

    • @e.drenalin6138
      @e.drenalin6138 Před 3 lety +40

      We don't fall out of love... We fall out of trust, respect, appreciation, happiness. But we don't just leave, we leave slowly... Men taking us for granted blocks their ability to see us distancing, and therefore they never stop us from leaving.

    • @kenzieG12923
      @kenzieG12923 Před 3 lety +2

      @@e.drenalin6138 AMEN to that!

  • @harkaic
    @harkaic Před 3 lety +358

    Finally a song that isn’t talking about how country someone is. Less gimmicks and more lyrics. Keep it up

  • @kylegarrison4853
    @kylegarrison4853 Před rokem +7

    My wife is calling it quits on our marriage and I miss her more and more everyday. This is one of the songs that is helping me through all of this

    • @ClaytonShay
      @ClaytonShay  Před rokem +1

      Sorry to hear you’re going through that, but I’m glad the song helps! Stay strong 💪🏼 Check out some of my other music videos/songs on my channel if ya got a sec! 🙏🏻 let me know what ya think in the comments!

    • @zoraxBonesplitter
      @zoraxBonesplitter Před 5 měsíci

      I feel that, same situation

    • @michaellong7649
      @michaellong7649 Před 3 měsíci +1

      I went through what you're going through 2yrs. ago, still feels like yesterday. You will get through this, it's hard at times, but you will.

  • @tjohnson1074
    @tjohnson1074 Před 6 měsíci +11

    Can't believe I just found this! God's timing can't be wrong, especially since my marriage of 25 years has been hit by the big D. I WILL ALWAYS HAVE MY JESUS, HE WILL NEVER HURT OR LEAVE ME❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

    • @ClaytonShay
      @ClaytonShay  Před 6 měsíci +1

      I hope the song helps! Thank you for watching 🙏🏻

    • @tjohnson1074
      @tjohnson1074 Před 6 měsíci +1

      @ClaytonShay Thank-you so much, I ❤️ this song!

    • @ClaytonShay
      @ClaytonShay  Před 5 měsíci +1

      @@tjohnson1074 So glad ya like it! It’s available on all streaming platforms if ya want to add it to your playlist!

    • @tjohnson1074
      @tjohnson1074 Před 5 měsíci

      @@ClaytonShay Thank-you ♡

  • @reynafonseca3900
    @reynafonseca3900 Před 3 lety +11

    The fact he just wants her to be happy!! Even if it’s not with him! Is everything!🥺❤️

  • @all_aboutharleigh9611
    @all_aboutharleigh9611 Před 2 lety +60

    Finally a song that is not toxic and is not about making there life worse by thinking about negative things in there mind. The song is fire and wonderful and your an amazing singer and I’m glad your talking good about your ex and not bad

  • @bobgibson874
    @bobgibson874 Před rokem +32

    That song hit home. Literally walked down this road this week. I needed to hear this. Thank you

    • @ClaytonShay
      @ClaytonShay  Před rokem +2

      I hope the song helps ya! Thanks for watching

  • @the_crystal_lynn
    @the_crystal_lynn Před 2 dny

    💔 this one got me! Guys, you are enough… stop thinking you aren’t! Here’s to the guys we love that think they aren’t enough for us and can’t give us what we need… to the ones telling us we deserve better… we don’t… we so badly wish we could convince you otherwise!

  • @sseek5924
    @sseek5924 Před 3 lety +153

    Found out about my ex's new guy a few days ago and even after a few months it's a gut punch the first time you hear about it or see them. I gave her to God though and I hope He works everything out for good in His plan for us both! Great song, man. This guy has real potential. 💯

    • @ClaytonShay
      @ClaytonShay  Před 3 lety +4

      Thanks so much buddy!

    • @katiebazewicz9479
      @katiebazewicz9479 Před 3 lety +2

      Hi

    • @katiebazewicz9479
      @katiebazewicz9479 Před 3 lety +1

      How are you

    • @IAMCHIDERA
      @IAMCHIDERA Před 2 lety +3

      Aww you gave her to GOD that beautiful. I pray happiness unmatched for you 😊

    • @deerhuntingtv1038
      @deerhuntingtv1038 Před 2 lety +1

      I feel you I got told Thursday at school she had a new man and I was sad af cuz it is a homie but oh well she said I didn't make her happy anymore but I got a new girl Friday night so I'm happy

  • @Butterfly-bs7jp
    @Butterfly-bs7jp Před 2 lety +58

    This song is a great eye opener for people that every freedom given doesn't require hate and revenge in return. It's a really good masterpiece. If Mr. Clayton Shay is a new man in producing songs this heartwarming that removes hatred from people's system, you bet I'mma support him on this a hundred percent.

    • @ClaytonShay
      @ClaytonShay  Před 2 lety +5

      Thank you! That means a lot 🙏🏻

  • @im-eazy
    @im-eazy Před 2 lety +19

    I just want to say a huge thank you to my best friend for taking the time to show me this❤️

    • @ClaytonShay
      @ClaytonShay  Před 2 lety +1

      I wanna say thank you too! 🙏🏻

  • @TannerBussell-nr3xs
    @TannerBussell-nr3xs Před 11 dny +1

    Clayton I’m a fan for life, when I first heard this song it made me think of two things one how my dad treated my momma before he left her and how I’ve been treated in my past

  • @brittnymariee6475
    @brittnymariee6475 Před 2 lety +128

    the pure intentions in this song are so rare for humans to have in todays world. it’s such a bitter sweet feeling hearing this song and knowing that there is still hope for love and relationships without the toxicity of an ex.
    don’t ever stop making music, this was amazing.

  • @abbimatthes4806
    @abbimatthes4806 Před 2 lety +53

    Did anyone else cry like a baby to this song? So good!

  • @matthewmasterson4756
    @matthewmasterson4756 Před 2 lety +107

    This song is extremely relatable. Last year I was friends with two people that were dating. I worked with the the boyfriend at the time. We weren’t close but we talked at work. I didn’t talk much to his girlfriend much just got a vibe from her so didn’t talk much. And I seen a post on her Facebook that she was depressed and it was concerning coming from someone who has personally lived through a suicide attempt. We started hanging out and grew really close. We would go out to eat , movies, and we’d drive through the river bottoms hitting every mud hole we could and park under the bridge and pass out with her laying her head on my chest listening to the radio. But they got back together. Before her it’d been three years since I’d been involved with anyone since my last girlfriend took her own life in 2018. But I texted him and told him he was going to lose her and I told him what all she had told me and how to fix things and just as many things I could think of I knew that just made her light up like no other by the time I was done I was in tears. To care so much about someone that you want to see them happy even if it’s with someone else. Luckily for me. Two days later I was going to Nashville to get my teeth looked at turns out I need all of them cut out before I can do my heart surgery but she wanted to go with me. She knew everything was getting to me and she wanted to support me. She’d broken up with him again. And by the time we stopped in Knoxville I just couldn’t handle it. I didn’t want to risk losing a friend like her but I couldn’t stay silent. I’ve had different girlfriends but I never broke down to the point I cried trying to hold feelings back. And the best thing I did was tell her because she kissed me and told me she felt the same way. We drove into gatlinburg and made it back to southern Indiana all within 24 hours. We’ve been married now 6 months and have a baby due in September. I’m sorry your situation didn’t have a similar outcome. But there’s someone out there for you. You have a good heart it takes a lot out of a person to put that kind of love out there.

    • @ClaytonShay
      @ClaytonShay  Před 2 lety +9

      Love this story! Sounds like you’ve live the song. Thanks for watching! Check out some of my other music videos on my channel if ya got a sec, I think you’ll like them too!

    • @ruthannkramer907
      @ruthannkramer907 Před 2 lety +1

      What a wonderful story with a great ending ❤️

    • @ClaytonShay
      @ClaytonShay  Před 2 lety +1

      @@ruthannkramer907 🙏🏻

    • @robinhicks6669
      @robinhicks6669 Před rokem

      Love this song

    • @barbarahorn6051
      @barbarahorn6051 Před rokem

      well you know, it was inspired by those very same folks mr 5cent piece

  • @charliebrendzan3803
    @charliebrendzan3803 Před 2 lety +48

    Gorgeous song needs to heard more often. True love, when u want them to be happy even if that means them not being with u. He’s been blessed with an amazing voice.

    • @ClaytonShay
      @ClaytonShay  Před 2 lety

      Thanks so much! Share with your friends and help me get it heard! 🙏🏻

    • @mariskarossouw7042
      @mariskarossouw7042 Před rokem

      @@ClaytonShay this made me cry , I hope my ex will do this after 11 years together

  • @Chris-cw5dm
    @Chris-cw5dm Před 3 lety +123

    Came from tiktok added you to my Spotify this hit home

  • @Tuckygurl71
    @Tuckygurl71 Před 2 lety +306

    The most prolific, thought provoking song in the longest. Definitely gives meaning to absolute unselfish love, without limitation. You know you love someone when you can want for nothing but their every happiness, even if its not with you.

    • @ClaytonShay
      @ClaytonShay  Před 2 lety +27

      That’s it! Glad you got the message. Thanks for watching! 🙏🏻

    • @charlesfuller8140
      @charlesfuller8140 Před 2 lety +3

      Hello! I don’t mean to bother you, but for some reason your profile come up under Eddie and it’s nice viewing your profile because I do not think I know you, I thought I just write and say hello, maybe we could be friends, I hope you are comfortable with that ?

    • @queenb4280
      @queenb4280 Před rokem +2

      Can Confirm!

    • @carguysunited8186
      @carguysunited8186 Před rokem +1

      I guess in possessive because I havent been able to move on

    • @JessieFord-hu7kn
      @JessieFord-hu7kn Před rokem

      Except inside you..personally.

  • @tiffanychapman9115
    @tiffanychapman9115 Před rokem +8

    Clayton Shay, this Sunday will make a year I lost my husband at a very young age. I take this song as him telling whoever man I end up with the words you are writing as the other man. Like he is letting him know from above all the things i like and still keeping watch over me! This song makes be bawl just thinking of him! I love this song always! Keep making more great music Clayton!

    • @ClaytonShay
      @ClaytonShay  Před rokem +1

      Wow thanks for sharing that ❤️ and thanks for watching 🙏🏻

    • @mzcrazyazhell
      @mzcrazyazhell Před rokem +1

      That’s amazing!! It’s a great song
      I hope someone thinks of me that way when I’m gone
      I’m so sorry for your loss

  • @haliewelsh3014
    @haliewelsh3014 Před rokem +12

    Listening on repeat… in tears… this hits. I hope you’re doing okay.
    You’re the epitome of a prince- no a King.
    I think a lot of people can agree no man is telling someone else things so she would be better off 🥺💔 you’re an amazing human being and such a kind genuine soul… ✨🥺

    • @ClaytonShay
      @ClaytonShay  Před rokem +4

      Thanks for the kind words! And thanks for watching! 🙏🏻

    • @haliewelsh3014
      @haliewelsh3014 Před 10 měsíci +1

      @@ClaytonShay I don’t think there’s many men like you in this world. She was lucky to have you and so is your future wife, hun! We all go though what we go though for a reason. 🤍

  • @timkinser9577
    @timkinser9577 Před 2 lety +73

    This song made me actually come to terms with the breakup with the woman I thought was going to be my wife. Moves me to tears and I hardly cry anymore. Thanks for this song helped me and probably others out there going through their own struggles.

    • @ClaytonShay
      @ClaytonShay  Před 2 lety +5

      So glad the song helped buddy! Thanks for watching 🙏🏻

    • @rebekahbernedette2304
      @rebekahbernedette2304 Před 2 lety +2

      One day you will find your match and you will never be disappointed 🙂

    • @timkinser9577
      @timkinser9577 Před 2 lety +1

      @@rebekahbernedette2304 Thank you so much

  • @jenna7114
    @jenna7114 Před 3 lety +26

    There should be more men that actually think this way 💓

    • @MrButterz48
      @MrButterz48 Před 3 lety +3

      That means girls as well. Not just one sided.

    • @ClaytonShay
      @ClaytonShay  Před 2 lety

      I agree! Thought this message needed to get out there

  • @JoelUldrych-kh2sc
    @JoelUldrych-kh2sc Před 7 měsíci +8

    That's deep and hits home for many of us. I learned the hard way that sometimes God has other better plans.

  • @Badpoison1
    @Badpoison1 Před rokem +33

    If you truly love someone, you'll want them to be truly happy, even if that happy is with someone else... I needed this song today, and I'm glad I found it.

    • @ClaytonShay
      @ClaytonShay  Před rokem +1

      Well said, and I’m glad that the song helped you in some way! 🙏🏻

    • @ClaytonShay
      @ClaytonShay  Před rokem +2

      I just released a brand new music video for my single “Island”! If ya got a sec can you let me know what ya think of it in the comment section? 🙏🏻

  • @minimelodia4743
    @minimelodia4743 Před 3 lety +160

    Hey Clayton, CZcams randomly recommended me this, and I gotta say I'm really glad it did. You are by far one of the best singers I've heard in a good minute, on the Country side of music. Being a man who has done this before, it really hit me hard. It was one of those things I kind of regretted doing because i still loved the woman at the time, and I wanted her to be happy, even if it wasn't with me. Thank you for making this, and letting others know people like us exist in this world.

    • @ClaytonShay
      @ClaytonShay  Před 3 lety +8

      Hey thanks so much for watching! Glad ya connected with the message!

    • @sam31101
      @sam31101 Před 2 lety +1

      Infe

    • @shanecross6149
      @shanecross6149 Před rokem +2

      Hits different when you feel it in your chest

  • @XDRAINBOWSnUNICORNS
    @XDRAINBOWSnUNICORNS Před 3 lety +42

    It's awesome showing respect for the others relationship and just wanting them to be happy. Great message :)

  • @CountryStrong2309
    @CountryStrong2309 Před 4 měsíci +10

    Seriously all a woman needs is a man to love her like this. I've been with my husband 21 1/2 yrs and we are so in love ❤️ it's literally feels like it's been a month or two. We have 4 beautiful daughters and he is my world my everything. Some ppl don't know what they have until it's gone. I see it way to much couples yelling Devorce! Once that's said it sticks to the wall and it will be repeated until it happens. Great song! Forever fan

  • @markboller4313
    @markboller4313 Před měsícem +1

    This is a lovely song. Never heard of him til now. ❤❤❤

  • @isabellatoric498
    @isabellatoric498 Před 3 lety +86

    This is the kind of country music we need more of. Absolutely beautiful!

  • @taralynnalexander2509
    @taralynnalexander2509 Před 3 lety +29

    This song breaks my heart. Why can’t they strive to be the man we need them to be. 😢😢

    • @ClaytonShay
      @ClaytonShay  Před 3 lety +10

      Sometimes it just doesn’t work out. Nothing wrong with that 🤷🏼‍♂️

    • @candylanes6462
      @candylanes6462 Před 3 lety +11

      Because no one should have to change who they are for someone else. It just wasn’t meant to be that’s all.

    • @queersofwar20
      @queersofwar20 Před 3 lety

      End up realizing it too late...such as the situation I'm in. 💔

    • @docholliday4709
      @docholliday4709 Před 3 lety +1

      Who (or whom) pray tell, are the '"they" to which you refer? Thr poor guy who was dumped in this video because little miss was bored? Sigh

    • @senseijuan3230
      @senseijuan3230 Před 2 lety +2

      Love is a partnership both people have to put in 100%. You have some really great men that get passed over or used by women who are chasing men that will use and abuse them.

  • @jonpowers9484
    @jonpowers9484 Před 2 lety +3

    Damn man …… the first love never leaves your soul 14 years ago…a lot of memories I forgot you just brought me peace ❤️

    • @ClaytonShay
      @ClaytonShay  Před 2 lety

      I live to hear that! Thank you for watching 🙏🏻 Check out some of my other music videos if ya get a chance!

  • @atremblay5817
    @atremblay5817 Před 10 měsíci +6

    I love my man more today then the first day we meet, it’s been 36 years now. I can’t imagine my life without him. Beautiful song thank you 🙏🤗

    • @ClaytonShay
      @ClaytonShay  Před 10 měsíci +1

      Glad ya like it! Thanks for watching 🙏🏻

  • @yourlocalanarchist3299
    @yourlocalanarchist3299 Před 2 lety +15

    Its still hard to let her go but this helped me understand that she'll be happier with someone else. Thank you.

  • @meganhartnett1650
    @meganhartnett1650 Před 3 lety +46

    I actually love this song n that's from someone who always gets there heart broken

    • @ClaytonShay
      @ClaytonShay  Před 3 lety +4

      Glad ya love it! Grab it off iTunes to help me climb the charts!!

    • @Brian-vk6tz
      @Brian-vk6tz Před 3 lety +6

      Give Jesus a try,He won't break your heart,He loves you i promise

  • @msbibidivine1111
    @msbibidivine1111 Před rokem +3

    Beautiful song such a gentleman I wish you well I’m your career you have a fan for life ❤. Keep striving

    • @ClaytonShay
      @ClaytonShay  Před rokem +1

      Thank you so much! Check out my other music if ya got a sec! 🙏🏻

  • @ruthlubbacon7839
    @ruthlubbacon7839 Před 2 lety +3

    Listening from philippines..I wish i could find a man like that, that genuine love... a man who knows everything i want😔 ..hey Clayton you're such a great singer.💕 Your song made me cry today.

  • @heathernelson7428
    @heathernelson7428 Před 3 lety +7

    Kids should really be shown that not every break up has to be toxic and dogging the other person just because there not with them. Love the song

  • @ThBlueSpirit
    @ThBlueSpirit Před 3 lety +354

    [Verse 1]
    Hey Bartender, can I borrow that pen?
    I've got a list of things I need to get down on this napkin
    And she's been goin' out with somebody new
    And he's sittin' there drinkin' a beer across from me and you
    And if you could pass this along with his next drink
    But don't tell him it's from me
    [Chorus]
    She likes movies in black and white
    The summer rain and red wine
    And she needs someone who knows how to make her smile
    She talks to her momma on the phone
    About babies and country homes
    And how someday she'll want one of her own
    So love her the best way that you can
    Signed another man
    [Verse 2]
    Hey bartender thanks for helpin' me out
    It wasn't easy for me to get these words down
    He's sittin' there reading what I wrote
    And I know that she'll be better off 'cause now he knows
    [Chorus]
    She likes movies in black and white
    The summer rain and red wine
    And she needs someone who knows how to make her smile
    She talks to her momma on the phone
    About babies and country homes
    And how someday she'll want one of her own
    So love her the best way that you can
    Signed another man
    [Bridge]
    I couldn't fit everything on this note
    It's just a few things I think you should know
    [Chorus]
    She likes movies in black and white
    The summer rain and red wine
    And she needs someone who knows how to make her smile
    She talks to her momma on the phone
    About babies and country homes
    And how someday she'll want one of her own
    So love her the best way that you can
    And be everything I cant
    Signed another man
    Signed another man

  • @obie1727
    @obie1727 Před 2 lety +7

    I'm grateful I came across this beautiful song. Pure Love does this, love the best for someone even when they aren't with you anymore.

    • @ClaytonShay
      @ClaytonShay  Před 2 lety

      So glad you like the song! 🙏🏻 check out my newest video for my single “Good For Nuthin’”!

  • @TonyVoss-fu1eo
    @TonyVoss-fu1eo Před 2 dny +1

    That's true love!

  • @sarahsmiles7016
    @sarahsmiles7016 Před 3 lety +22

    First time I’ve heard your music, I’m happy CZcams suggested this.

    • @ClaytonShay
      @ClaytonShay  Před 3 lety

      Thanks so much for watching! Feel free to hit that subscribe button!!

  • @shanenava4419
    @shanenava4419 Před 3 lety +9

    Country songs just hit different. This is bomb. The message is just *chef’s kisses*. Who’s cutting onions? 😭❤️

    • @ClaytonShay
      @ClaytonShay  Před 3 lety +1

      Thanks so much!! I’ve got more music coming soon, so make sure to give me a follow on your favorite streaming platform and subscribe on here!

    • @rednekprofessor5127
      @rednekprofessor5127 Před 3 lety

      Cut that bun

  • @dddecker-jb7ow
    @dddecker-jb7ow Před rokem +4

    This song hit the nail on the head for me. Keep up the excellent music.

    • @ClaytonShay
      @ClaytonShay  Před rokem

      Thanks so much!! Check out my other music/music videos 🙏🏻

  • @terryspry8482
    @terryspry8482 Před rokem +7

    Giving happiness to another is pure love!
    This song is beautiful and your true brother 💗

    • @ClaytonShay
      @ClaytonShay  Před rokem

      Thanks so much! I have a brand new music video for my single “Island”! If ya got a sec can you let me know what you think of it in the comment section? 🙏🏻

  • @bradstrayer485
    @bradstrayer485 Před 3 lety +15

    Great song. Sometimes unfortunately love just ain't enough. I pray that nobody has to go through that pain but it's a part of life.

    • @ClaytonShay
      @ClaytonShay  Před 3 lety +1

      You got that right! Thanks for watching 🙏🏻

    • @teresamarcum3328
      @teresamarcum3328 Před 3 lety +1

      Life goes on,keep your head up.....there's better DayZ ahead

  • @jassonibarra3412
    @jassonibarra3412 Před 2 lety +23

    This song hits so hard…. Especially when you are living these feelings

    • @bigsterms
      @bigsterms Před 2 lety +1

      It's relatable for sure. Been there a few times.

    • @ClaytonShay
      @ClaytonShay  Před 2 lety +1

      Glad you can relate, hope the song helps!

    • @jassonibarra3412
      @jassonibarra3412 Před 2 lety

      Hopefully you come to Vegas

  • @astridsekie567
    @astridsekie567 Před 3 dny

    For those who wish happiness and love to the one that gives them the most pain..

  • @kaitlinlovesfam3
    @kaitlinlovesfam3 Před 5 měsíci +2

    This song made me bawl. What a beautiful song from the heart ❤.

  • @jeannetteritter8866
    @jeannetteritter8866 Před 2 lety +15

    Absolutely beautiful, this song actually made me cry.

  • @dennamalley9378
    @dennamalley9378 Před 2 lety +3

    The best part of growing is learning to forgive when it’s dear to us. Our lives are full of experiences, and the best ones are the ones we’ll never forget.

    • @kailife1950
      @kailife1950 Před 2 lety +1

      so true.... as a vet, this hit heard, cause god knows i couldn't be home...... then....now i deal with bs

    • @ClaytonShay
      @ClaytonShay  Před 2 lety +1

      Well said! Thanks for watching 🙏🏻

  • @tracyberry9072
    @tracyberry9072 Před 12 dny

    First time hearing this and I can't love this song any more than I do! ❤️

  • @kristarrahlee3595
    @kristarrahlee3595 Před 4 měsíci +2

    I love the selflessness of love in this song, the gift from one man to another in helping him understand the woman that he's lost. The juxtaposition of the one man transitioning to the other throughout different scenes of her life is really touching.

    • @ClaytonShay
      @ClaytonShay  Před 4 měsíci

      So glad you connected with this! The song is available on all streaming platforms, and I have other music you might enjoy as well!

    • @WAViolenceLLC
      @WAViolenceLLC Před 3 měsíci

      Yeah she was definitely screwing the other dude before they broke up

    • @ClaytonShay
      @ClaytonShay  Před 3 měsíci

      @@WAViolenceLLC it’s a made up story, so whatever you want your version to be lol 🤷‍♂️

  • @dezritter1552
    @dezritter1552 Před 3 lety +5

    Right to the heart here man, sometimes we just want someone to love em right, when we didn't. Absolutely perfect.

    • @ClaytonShay
      @ClaytonShay  Před 2 lety +1

      Hey thanks so much! Make sure to check out my other music videos/songs if ya got a second! 🙏🏻

  • @caitlinscholler3151
    @caitlinscholler3151 Před 3 lety +11

    Came here from TT absolutely love this song!

  • @frenchiefanaticoneil464
    @frenchiefanaticoneil464 Před rokem +8

    This song hit my soul and heart, imagine someone who loves you so much that they still want you happy even if its not with them.?! I couldn't help but cry. So beautiful

    • @ClaytonShay
      @ClaytonShay  Před rokem

      So glad ya felt something from the song!! Thanks for watching! I have a brand new music video for my single “Island”! If ya got a sec can you let me know what you think of it in the comment section? 🙏🏻

  • @user-bn3eh8ix1u
    @user-bn3eh8ix1u Před 7 měsíci +2

    Omg. This song is such a Heartbreaker. It hits really hard for me right now especially since I'm going through such a turmulous break up myself. Love this song.❤

  • @arnoldic23
    @arnoldic23 Před 3 lety +65

    Damn it hurts more when you’re actually going thru it at the moment 😔

    • @ClaytonShay
      @ClaytonShay  Před 3 lety +5

      Sorry to hear that, thank you for watching tho!

    • @adamedgington5368
      @adamedgington5368 Před 3 lety +4

      I feel you I was with my wife for 10 years we have 3 beautiful kids together I literally just sent this song to her new man

    • @arnoldic23
      @arnoldic23 Před 3 lety +2

      @@adamedgington5368
      Damn bro I’m sorry to hear that I wish you the best of luck on your new path and that’s the truth 💯

    • @_s827
      @_s827 Před 3 lety

      I literally just came from another country video from an obscure band and comments had the same thing to say about a similar song

    • @ClaytonShay
      @ClaytonShay  Před 3 lety

      @@_s827 what song??

  • @missijones9493
    @missijones9493 Před 3 lety +16

    A great song without a doubt. And I like how he takes the time to read and respond to the comments left about his music. You have a new fan here!!👏👏👏

    • @ClaytonShay
      @ClaytonShay  Před 3 lety +2

      I do my best! Thank you!! 🙏🏻

    • @missijones9493
      @missijones9493 Před 3 lety +2

      @@ClaytonShay your welcome!

    • @titacoogan
      @titacoogan Před 2 lety +1

      I noticed the same…it’s rare to see an artist interact with their fans, and it shows how appreciative he is of how his gift of music touches each one of individually…
      He has a new fan in me today, as well!❤️‍🩹

  • @amberluke8871
    @amberluke8871 Před 2 lety +2

    Beautiful ❤️ The world needs more men like this. I have one, but he's here to stay and I'm so blessed, but I've had a few good guys let me go and wanted nothing but the best for me and to see me happy 😀 ❤️

  • @r4ndmk1tty66
    @r4ndmk1tty66 Před rokem +5

    I listen to this song still.. and it’s still makes me cry. This is so beautiful and the utmost level of Respect should be given to you for being such a gentlemen even after she got someone else, and thank you sir for giving us this absolute masterpiece that we’re able to relate to 🥺❤️ much love

    • @ClaytonShay
      @ClaytonShay  Před rokem +1

      Love that you relate to the message! Thanks for watching 🙏🏻 The song is out on all streaming platforms if you’d like to add it to your playlist!

    • @sharon2462
      @sharon2462 Před rokem

      @@ClaytonShay Beautiful and I love the song I cried listening to this song ❤️🥰❤️

  • @brandisealy
    @brandisealy Před 3 lety +11

    Not sure why CZcams suggested this from my SOJA playlist but I'm glad it was recommended. I haven't enjoyed country music since the 90's so this was a welcome surprise to hear.

    • @ClaytonShay
      @ClaytonShay  Před 3 lety +1

      I love to hear that! Thanks so much for giving me a shot!

  • @hopeloraye6144
    @hopeloraye6144 Před 3 lety +5

    I'm not crying, you're crying 🥺🥺. This song is so beautifully written and sung ❤

  • @pinkarmadillomd
    @pinkarmadillomd Před rokem +7

    I absolutely LOVE this song. Thank you for sharing this with the world

  • @kissface5150
    @kissface5150 Před rokem +2

    Just found this- I’m crying at 2am listening to this! You have a fan!!

    • @ClaytonShay
      @ClaytonShay  Před rokem

      Hey thanks for watching!! Check out some of my other music videos/songs on my channel if ya got a sec! 🙏🏻 let me know what ya think in the comments!

  • @candiwhite2950
    @candiwhite2950 Před 3 lety +3

    I'm so glad youtube suggested this song. This is now one of my favorite songs

    • @ClaytonShay
      @ClaytonShay  Před 3 lety

      Thanks so much for watching/listening!!

  • @kimberlynatal4641
    @kimberlynatal4641 Před 2 lety +5

    Awww I absolutely loved this!!!❤️❤️❤️❤️👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽😭😭😭

    • @ClaytonShay
      @ClaytonShay  Před 2 lety +1

      So glad ya like it!!

    • @charlesfuller8140
      @charlesfuller8140 Před 2 lety

      Hello! I don’t mean to bother you, but for some reason your profile come up under Eddie and it’s nice viewing your profile because I do not think I know you, I thought I just write and say hello, maybe we could be friends, I hope you are comfortable with that

  • @joseysickmon1
    @joseysickmon1 Před 5 měsíci +1

    Hits me hard right now... This isn't an easy time for me. With the holidays and losing a son to cancer and now clinging to all hope to keep my relationship alive. Currently struggling with the same thing the words hit home

  • @jess.4843
    @jess.4843 Před rokem +3

    I absolutely love this song. This is something that is rare, you don't see this very often with my generation sadly. I often wish to have been born in an older generation but it's songs like this that give me hope. Even though I'm only 19, for some reason this song speaks to me, and I absolutely adore this song. I'm so glad someone can write a decent 'newer country' song without it sounding toxic, and it's respectful, not about girls in bikinis, or trucks. THANK YOU SO MUCH!!!!!❤️❤️

    • @ClaytonShay
      @ClaytonShay  Před rokem +1

      So glad ya like it! Check out some of my other music videos/songs on my channel if ya got a sec! 🙏🏻 let me know what ya think in the comments!

    • @jess.4843
      @jess.4843 Před rokem

      @@ClaytonShay you are a really good artist. It's nice to actually like some more of the music from my generation. I normally stick to the older songs for almost all the genres especially country. You are right up there with them, thank you for giving me a little more hope for my generation.

  • @cyrildemello1473
    @cyrildemello1473 Před 2 lety +3

    I wish more people could wish the best and mean it. When things don't work out. I love this song thank you!

    • @ClaytonShay
      @ClaytonShay  Před 2 lety

      Same here. Glad the message resonated with you. Thanks for watching!

  • @christinej9080
    @christinej9080 Před 3 lety +5

    I've literally listened to this 20x already!!! Such a good song 😭♥️
    His voice is EVERYTHING!!

  • @crystalsauer8660
    @crystalsauer8660 Před 2 lety +5

    this is the best song ever my ex sent this to my current and now I respect him more than ever

    • @ClaytonShay
      @ClaytonShay  Před 2 lety

      Love to hear that! Thanks for watching 🙏🏻 Check out some of my other music videos on my channel if ya got a sec, I think you’ll like them too!

  • @katelincornwell6179
    @katelincornwell6179 Před rokem +2

    This song popped up after another song. I could feel the heartbreak at the beginning, but the selflessness just sent me crying like a baby! Wanting them to be happy, with or without you, is the truest love, imo. My heart breaks for this "other man."

    • @ClaytonShay
      @ClaytonShay  Před rokem

      Thanks so much for watching! I have a brand new music video for my single “Island”! If ya got a sec can you let me know what you think of it in the comment section? 🙏🏻

  • @raleighsterling3440
    @raleighsterling3440 Před 3 lety +5

    I’ve literally watched this 6 times today. Such a great song and story.

    • @ClaytonShay
      @ClaytonShay  Před 3 lety +1

      Thank you! Feel free to watch it 6 more times 😂

    • @nonyabeezwax8693
      @nonyabeezwax8693 Před 2 lety

      I knew someone that used to go by sterling, now he goes by chrome

  • @dianemoore8168
    @dianemoore8168 Před 3 lety +6

    Hearing this by chance and I've not stopped listening to all your music, amazing lyrics and voice to match 🤗

    • @ClaytonShay
      @ClaytonShay  Před 3 lety +1

      Awesome, thanks so much for listening! 🙏🏻

  • @MichaelR0522
    @MichaelR0522 Před 15 dny

    And another, and another, and another!

  • @cannab-al9582
    @cannab-al9582 Před 7 měsíci +1

    Never look back Kings, qint nothing there except a reminder of the heartbreak. Always look the way you should be moving... forward and she isnt there. Be thankful for that

  • @ltbit121
    @ltbit121 Před 3 lety +7

    This just popped up on my recommendation this is truly an amazing song.

    • @ClaytonShay
      @ClaytonShay  Před 3 lety

      Glad ya like it!! Grab it off iTunes to help me climb the charts!!

  • @debbistewart1186
    @debbistewart1186 Před 3 lety +12

    Moving outta Illinois was the best thing to ever happen to your career! Your original songs continue to slay man! 👊🏼

  • @CaroleNorris-gp7su
    @CaroleNorris-gp7su Před 4 měsíci +2

    Great signing always a fan of yours