JOY of GETTING OLDER - COMING of AGEING
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- čas přidán 23. 02. 2024
- We live in a culture that dreads the inevitability of growing older, treats it like a disease to be cured with potions, tries to silence it with botox. And through all of this, we’ve forgotten that to grow old at all is a tremendous privilege - to become a person worthy of old age is the triumph of life.
Our goal shouldn’t be to cling to youth as we get older, but to keep our joy alive by tending our inner child throughout our days while also nurturing our connection to the changing world. In doing so, we balance wisdom with wonder, confidence with curiosity and depth with delight.
A long life is a gift. But will we really be grateful for it?
Featuring Vicki Robin (vickirobin.com) and friends Ross and Deborah Koff-Chapin.
Filmed in Whidbey Island, Washington State, USA.
The full quote shared by Vicki during this film is by Florida Scott Maxwell - "You need only claim the events of your life to make yourself yours. When you truly possess all you have been and done, which may take some time, you are fierce with reality. When at last age has assembled you together, will it not be easy to let it all go, lived, balanced, over?"
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Who is Reflections of Life? We are Justine and Michael (previously known as Green Renaissance). We use our passion for filmmaking and our love of storytelling, to remind our audience of one simple truth - that we are all human. The more that we understand and believe in this interconnectedness, the more we will treat ourselves, one another, and planet earth with a greater sense of compassion.
Filming - by Michael Raimondo
Editing - by Justine du Toit
Sound mix - by Tamryn Breakey
The following music tracks are used in this film - all sourced from Epidemic Sound:
Assertively Furtive - by John B Lund
Phases - by Alan Ellis
Chalets - by Martin Gauffin
It's in the Trees - by Martin Gauffin
Fading Memories - by Martin Landh
Be - by Indigo Days
A Golden Sun - by Heath Cantu
A huge thank you to these guys, who gave so generously of their to time to help with translations, enabling us to provide subtitles in the following languages:
Arabic - by Frihat Oussama
Bulgarian - by Polina Stoyanova
Chinese (Simplified and Traditional) - by Shun-Ying Lu
Croatian - by Davor Bobanac
Dutch - by Karla Greven
English - by Justine du Toit
French - by Amélie Macoin
German - by Tanja Pütz
Greek - by Vicky Polychroni
Indonesian - by Ary Nuansa
Italian - by Grazia Gironella
Macedonian - by Lidija Pusevska Markovska
Persian - by Mona Zadsham
Polish - by Anna Konieczna
Portuguese - by Sibylle Steinpass and Lucivani Valvassori
Romanian - by Anca Zaharia
Slovak - by Zuzana Beratsova
Slovenian - by Jasmina Kovačič
Spanish - by Paty Aguirre
Vietnamese - by Thi Le - Krátké a kreslené filmy
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Don't let reflecting on the things that go away blind you to the new things that arrive.
I was thinking the same.
Thank you for sharing these words. Warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚
Very true....
This is amazing thank you ❤
Thank you. I have similar experience with friend shadow and with growing shorter and with declining boobies. Have the same burial plan but an reconsidering human composting as easier for those who remain. Your forest is also like mine. Grace abounding. Best to you🙏
Wow! That was wonderful. I am 71 and I can relate to everything she said . She is lovely, strong, smart and resilient. She is who I want To be when I grow up!!
So happy you enjoyed this video. Nice that she is an inspiration. Much love, Justine and Michael. 💚
Very wise woman. Beautifuly expressed.
Me too!!
That´s exactly what I was thinking...
I can relate to your comment. I’m 75 and don’t feel grownup yet🙃🤣💕
We all walk on the bones of those that came before us. Enjoy every second, dream, rest and love. I’m 70yrs old. Thank you and cheers.
Very true words. May you continue to wake each new day, with joy in your heart. Sending you love. Justine and Michael 💚
Wow❤
Your young yet, Enjoy.
“Go to the most painful place that’s where the truth is” thanks for the words of wisdom.💖
Pleasure. Glad we could share these words with you. Warmest wishes, Justine and Michael. 💚
Dibalik penderitaan ada pencerahan
Akan selalu ada pembelajaran agar hidup jauh lebih baik dari waktu ke waktu
Stupid.
I just turned 80 on February 1. I have been so teary since then and I don't completely understand it. Everything hurts my heart. As you talk about your soul, that may be what is impacted more precisely, but it hurts.
Gloria, you sound so very open to life, feeling everything with your heart. I hear you and just wanted to send you some acknowledgement. Your sensitivity makes me feel how very alive you are. May peace and comfort rise up within you, to keep your wonderful sensitivity company.
@@Elizabeth-de1uv Today I made plans to visit a friend in New England in the next two weeks. Sometimes when l get this lonely, being with somebody who knows me -- inside and out -- is the only thing that will help. I know that we will laugh and remember our lives together as young women and it will cheer me up, her, too. Thanks for your reply.
@@Elizabeth-de1uvyes someone once said a pure heart cries easily
@@Elizabeth-de1uvthat was so sweet to say
80 is the new 60, dear lady. 😉 Don’t let that number slow you down or bring you down. Maybe it’s time to try something new. Or revisit something you loved doing when you were 10 years old. Hmm? hugggggg…
" Keep your face towards the sun and you will never see the shadows." ~ Helen Keller ❤
Lovely, thank you. Sending you warmest of hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚
@@ReflectionsofLife Thank you both. 💚💚
That's terrible advice. We all need to look back and see the mistakes we made and try to redeem them as we can. If you went around hurting people even accidentally, you should acknowledge that because maybe you're still doing the same things. The shadow side is work that needs to be done to be healthy. So we don't continue the problem of hurting others.
@@debbiewilder4738 you need a Psychiatrist.
When I was younger I understood that my mother sacrificed herself so that the people around her wouldn’t be troubled. There’s a deep wound in our culture…we are encouraged to take what we want. My sisters ran towards their own lives chattering about what mom did or did not “get right”. It would have saved us all so much pain if they would have simply loved her 🤷♀️I love the wisdom of this woman…she’s done the hard work…she’d be a great friend❤️👋🇨🇦
So glad you appreciated the message Vicki shared. Thank you also for sharing this experience, these thoughts. Deep, much to think about. We hope you are doing ok. Sending you warmest of hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚
You may not have shared the same experience with your mom. It’s happens. I felt the same as you for many yrs but as I got into my 40s now 50s and after alot of reflection and some therapy along the way they have a right to their feelings and express them. It’s not fair for me to negate them for any reason. Life and emotions can be messy. Reality is we don’t know what we don’t know. If we sense our experience/feelings in a relationship are being dismissed or minimized it causes resentment and only inflames how we feel. That’s not saying any of us do this to others incl family consciously or with I’ll intent but it may not feel that way to others. For me slowly over yrs I’ve learned more compassion and forgiveness for others incl my family (not to ignore or make OK any hurt caused.) It’s let me put myself in their shoes even a bit. Peace and health on your path and with your family.
I always say there's a big difference in Who gave their all and made mistakes Maybe even a lot than someone who was just selfishly running around living for themselves. And or sabotaging others by their choices in lifestyle.
Oh boy!! My husband passed 6 months ago and my life has changed dramatically. I am 74 and againg. Bags under my eyes, thinning hair, flabby skin because I've dropped 40 lbs. Im not eating much these days because i don't want to. I actually feel better and my clothes fit better. Ive had to reinvent myself. I don't know how i grew so old!!
So sorry to read about the passing of your husband. It's always an adjustment after the loss of a loved one. May her message give you understanding and strength to find a new way of living. Sending you warmest of hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚
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I’m there with you…it’s going on the 3rd year of the loss of my husband…so hard to focus…🌻❤️
I lost 18 lb and had to give away half of my clothes. You must have had to get all new clothes
I just turned 70 in late December and I was very very upset. It seemed unbelievable to me. And I have done shadow work!! But this number still hit me like an iron frying pan. Then....once I finally FELT through the newness of such an auspicious decade, I took a deep breath and RELAXED. I am proud to say my age and I smile when I do. Thank-you for this wonderful video about a time in our lives, if we are lucky enough to embrace and enjoy. Sending hugs out to all the women who have recently turned 70.❤❤❤
Touching words, we are glad you came to accept the new 'number' and feel comfortable now. Wishing you many more happy years ahead, enjoy this time of your life. Much love, Justine and Michael. 💚
Aging with acceptance and grace seems so elusive to so many. This woman is THE example for all of us to follow.
We are glad that we could share her story with you and that you found her words so valuable. Sending you warmest of hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚
So much respect to this beautiful lady who realized that perhaps she, like so many of us, lived unconsciously in her dealings with others. And when she realized it, made the difficult and humbling approach to make amends. This really touched my heart. Thank you for a beautiful video.
Beautifully written. So happy her message meant much to you. Sending much love, Justine and Michael. 💚
@@ReflectionsofLife Thank you. I really appreciate your work because so many people are comforted and inspired.
"Someone knows you're coming. An extra fish has been salted." Yes. I love this Vicki. And your bravery and grace at this time of your life.
Glad this spoke to you. Much love, Justine and Michael. 💚
In a generation or 2 we shall be forgotten once we're gone. That's quite sobering.
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You die twice:
The first is when you physically die. The second is when the last person who knew you dies.
At 71, I still go to the gym 4 times a week and do weights which is very important. I did lose muscle mass though to my sorrow . I do not drink nor do I smoke. I have made amends to people that I have hurt, have cleaned the side of my street . I believe in life after death. Important to pray and meditate daily.
I was given a second life to live my life over again. I believe in miracles I am one . I love who I am . I read many spiritual books and follow a 12 step program .
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I am going to be turning 55 and my mom, who was my best friend went through to the other side 6 years ago. This woman's words comfort me.
This is touching. So happy that Vicki's message was so helpful. Sending you warmest of hugs. Justine and Michael. 💚
I can't tell you how very much I need to hear this woman!! At the age of 76 I am so in need of these words more than I could ever express.....thank you.
It's an absolute pleasure. Glad her words spoke to you so deeply, may they inspire and help you. Sending much love and kindness to you, Justine and Michael. 💚
Yes I agree with you
Thank you for your comment
What a cozy home she has,and I love what she says about ageing!
Thank you for your kind words, glad you enjoyed what Vicki shared. Sending much love, Justine and Michael. 💚
🎉.. thanks a billions.
Indeed you need to accept the harsh changing called impermanence which is not easy ..
Challenging...
We can't run away from it.
Impermanence...
1.suffering of birth.
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Suffering of aging
3.
Suffering of death.
A huge thank you to these guys, who gave so generously of their to time to help with translations, enabling us to provide subtitles in the following languages:
Arabic - by Frihat Oussama
Bulgarian - by Polina Stoyanova
Chinese (Simplified and Traditional) - by Shun-Ying Lu
Dutch - by Karla Greven
English - by Justine du Toit
French - by Amélie Macoin
German - by Tanja Pütz
Greek - by Vicky Polychroni
Indonesian - by Ary Nuansa
Italian - by Grazia Gironella
Macedonian - by Lidija Pusevska Markovska
Persian - by Mona Zadsham
Polish - by Anna Konieczna
Portuguese - by Sibylle Steinpass and Lucivani Valvassori
Romanian - by Anca Zaharia
Slovak - by Zuzana Beratsova
Slovenian - by Jasmina Kovačič
Spanish - by Paty Aguirre
Vietnamese - by Thi Le
Grazie infinite
Awesome
I am 47 and the idea of old age terrifies me because I don't have a partner, your video was inspiring, thank you for sharing.
Don't be afraid. Since women live longer, most of us are without partners in the end. So, we look out for each other.
You have you. Love who you are. Now. ❤🙏❤
Que Sera, Sera (Whatever Will Be, Will Be). ❤
Im 77 and dont have a partner....Whats the thing with haveing a partner...IMO..
We don't need a partner, only good soul friends and family to surround ourselves, occasionally. The love is in your/ our hearts to feel, enjoy, give and nature.
The message is insightful, but those carrots are incredible! I think the cells of those 'up the hill' are nourishing them.
So happy you enjoyed her message (and seeing those carrots). Warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚
The constant is change. That doesn't mean much till you pass 70 years. Thank you for sharing
You are welcome. Thank you for sharing this thought. Warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚
Luckily some have the opportunity to see this before 70 😉🙏🏻
Love is the constant we are all seeking & that is only found within! 💛💫🌟🫶
The fragment of the poem is full of peace and hope... and I love it!
Glad the words of the poem meant much to you. Sending you warmest of hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚
What a breathe of fresh air. I rarely or even maybe never hear anyone, talk about righting their wrongs. To me, righting my wrongs, is an extremely important part of my life. I care if I hurt, harm or wrong someone, so I make sure to make an honest amends when needed. I love how humble she is. Thank you for sharing your story. ❤
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Nice that her words and actions touched you deeply, thank you for sharing your thoughts. Glad we were able to share this video with you. Sending much love and kindness to you. Justine and Michael 💚
My life review is pretty good up until 3 years ago. Then Parkinson's popped into my life. I'm not going to say it's easy. It's been kind of tough. But I can still walk and ride a bike. I do cry a lot. I'm 67 years old. I get lonely a lot.
We are saddened by your message, that you are struggling with Parkinson's. Wishing you much strength for every single day, enjoy the big and small things in life whenever possible. Much love, Justine and Michael. 💚
This is really life changing for me, I love these videos. I’m 21 about to be 22 and I’ve been through a lot of change in the last few years that’s been very confusing and overwhelming. I’ve struggled to give myself credit for all that I’ve been through and lived in my head every single day thinking about what’s gone now and denying that pain because I care for it so much and anticipating the future and whether or not my dreams will come to fruition. Then there’s the thoughts of death that could come at any moment, so I’m doing my best to be as real as I can and live my life in the present moment and enjoy it as much as possible for myself while being kind to everyone I meet and sharpening my talents to share with the world/leave behind. I carry so much shame and guilt that I can’t seem to let go of despite knowing I was doing my best at each time with what I knew… constantly striving to be better because it’s a race against the clock in my chest. I’ve been in isolation for a while now too, I’ve had friends to talk to but I just feel so alone and so badly long to experience so many beautiful things and laugh while being my unapologetic self again with people who can do the same, but I worry if that will ever come and I know that it won’t last forever so I’m not sure that I want to even open myself up to more pain. My mind does this protective thing where it keeps me in a fantasy and numb all day long, constantly seeking distractions to avoid reality, but I’ve been trying my best to be fierce with reality like this beautiful woman says. It’s just scary and intense. I don’t really know how to cope with it, a lot of the time I feel empty and like I’m just living the same day on repeat and all for what… If there’s one thing that changes my outlook from here it’s that she said she cheerfully embraces the coming of aging, which is definitely a much needed perspective in my life… I do my best every day to be positive, yes in hopes of a bright beautiful future, but im opening up to more of a moment to moment basis now. Trust has been huge, there’s a bigger aspect of myself that knows better and loves me and I am so thankful for that, it literally washes away all of my problems. I’m not really sure what this comment is it kind of just exploded inside of me so if you read this then I hope it helps you in some way. I feel better now that I expressed it, thank you again for this video and for whoever is reading this. ❤
I felt that too (I'm about to be 25).. I think I'm coming out on the other side now though, able to embrace the change more, accepting me for who I am at the moment, each moment again and again. It's intense but so worth it, I think. It's a journey. Saying it (or writing it) out loud can work wonders and resolve some doubts ...and your words really resonated. Thanks :)
Thank you for your beautifully written your comment. I hope you're keeping a journal so you can look back at your life to congratulate yourself on all you've felt, said and done. Life is logical and clear looking back. We can see how we got to where we are now but life is not clear looking forward. You've got what it takes to be an amazing person.
On peut être terriblement malheureux quand on est jeune et trouver la paix avec soi même et les autres avec le temps, la vie est merveilleuse, lève les yeux vers le ciel ❤
Be kind to yourself, 21 is a gorgeous age. I am 61 and still a gorgeous age. "Beautiful things can come from the Toughest situations."
cheer up love
‘go to the dark, that is where the truth lives….’ I believe this, and words are failing me right now…..
We are touched that these words meant so much to you. Sending much love, Justine and Michael. 💚
Thank you Vicki. As a single woman about to turn 62, your message touched me. I am transitioning into another phase of life, contemplating retirement and having the feeling that I want to sell or give away all my possessions and venture out! You struck a cord when you said, "maybe it's the last experience of your life; maybe it's THE experience of this lifetime". These words gave me clarity. Thank you, from one island girl to another, although I am quite a bit north if you.
We are glad Vicki's message was so valuable. May her words help and inspire you to find the right path for your journey into the next phase of life. All the best for the road ahead, may it be 'the experience of your lifetime'. Sending you warmest of hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚
Yes follow your Heart ❤ enjoy 🎉
I am considering the same at the same age. I don't have the money for retirement conventionally but I feel I need to risk something different, travelling and spending time with others and releasing some of my financial fears. Maybe in this life my journey is to trust a little more and give a little more. Good luck to you x
We are in the same boat it seems. I hope we both do launch and have a safe, novelty filled and happy voyage. From one women of an age to another🤗@@claredavis2559
Thank you.@@rahmasamir909
I'm 75 and I find myself reflecting on all the people I have been, and anticipating the person I am becoming.
And what a precious and wonderful journey of self discovery and self love that can be. Big love to you. Justine and Michael 💚
@MQTAful I have enjoyed reading your short but very profound post. I love the part where you say "reflecting on all the people I have been" - Thank you.
@@mangoyacho 😍
"beyond the barrier reef of my identities and attachments" Thank you for this.
You are welcome, so happy these words spoke to you. Warmest hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚
Life is like a seed that eventually blossoms into its prescribed form and thus takes on its purpose that will gradually wither and leave a trace of itself. Cherish the moment and life itself. IMO. Thank you for a wonderful interview of a precious lady. Namaste. From a Vietnam Era Marine Corps veteran.
It was a pleasure to share her story with you. Thank you for sharing these lovely words. Warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚
Have been a fan of this channel for years and am delighted to see a beautiful face and hear a voice of wisdom from very near my own backyard. ❤ Thank you for spreading such beauty ❤
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Thank you for your kind words and for being with us on this journey. Glad we could share this video from close to your 'own backyard' with you. Sending you warmest of hugs. Justine and Michael. 💚
Beautiful reflections. I’m nearly 62 this year, and it’s not been easy sometimes, like everyone! I truly believe that letting go and acceptance is the way forward. Yes and being mindful or lack of, really does haunt you. Kindness, humility, non judgemental, acceptance, love, responsibility, these are the legacies us coffin dodgers need to leave in the world. Love and peace to anyone reading my comment. 🤍🤍🤍✨
Letting go of the terrestrial and embracing what lies beyond is crucial to understanding the void veil.
"Before I start, I must see my end. Destination known, my mind's journey now begins. Upon my chariot, heart and soul's fate revealed. In time, all points converge; hope's strength resteeled. But to earn final peace at the universe's endless refrain, we must see all in nothingness... before we start again." --A.B. (DD1)
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We are glad her message resonated with you. May her words help you to go forward in peace, doing the best you can. Sending you warmest of hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚
@@ReflectionsofLife 🙏 thank you, that’s so kind. Love to you both. 🤍✨🇬🇧
@@Novastar.SaberCombat thank you, that’s a wonderful passage. 🤍✨
Wellll, usually these videos touch my heart strings... This touched my funny bone! Humor is a Blessing. I LOVED this video. I'm 63 and loving ever second of my Beautiful Life. 💜🥰🙏
So great to read that you are enjoying your life! And how wonderful that her story tickled your funny bone, thank you for telling us. Much love, Justine and Michael. 💚
Her perspective of life is extraordinary/ making laugh 😆 of your own is one ☝️ of the most beautiful 🤩 things we can do
She is wise beautiful 😻 lady- we all go trough this process
Nice that her message resonated so much with you. Warmest wishes, Justine and Michael. 💚
@@ReflectionsofLife same to you guys
Such remarkable honesty and openness as regards life lived, ageing, and the adventure of life still to come with added acceptance of eventual death. Water flowing downhill and her body feeding her garden demonstrates both the impermanence and interdependence of all things.
We are glad her words meant much to you. Kindest wishes, Justine and Michael. 💚
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This was amazing! I did a life review about 10 years ago! Scary stuff, but very pleased I did it. Sadly, I couldn’t ask my mum for forgiveness, as she passed 20 years previously, so I pray to her and hope she hears me! This really resonated with me. Thank you so much for sharing. ❤
You are welcome. We are so glad her message touched you so deeply. Wonderful that you took the time to review your life, to be honest with yourself. Sending you warmest of hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚
*Sono's Death Poem*
Don’t just stand there with your hair turning gray,
Soon enough the seas will sink your little island
So while there is still the illusion of time,
Set out for another shore.
No sense packing a bag.
You won’t be able to lift it into your boat.
Give away all your collections.
Take only new seeds and an old stick.
Send out some prayers on the wind before you sail.
Don’t be afraid.
Someone knows you’re coming.
An extra fish has been salted.
--Mona Santacroce
Thank you; such a beautiful & life affirming yet stark & honest passage ... ❤️🩹
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Thank you💜
Thank you for sharing these words again. Warmest hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚
so grateful to you for posting the entirety, including Mona Santacroce's name.
I travel a lot by myself and people are amazed that I do so. I find that traveling along is normal.
Well done for you. Why not if you are enjoying it. Warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚
Daqui a alguns meses tbm pretendo começar a viajar sozinha com minha cachorra. Estou com 58 anos e sinto que tem necessidades nascendo em mim. Boa sorte para todos e eu amei o vídeo.
Shadow work is fundamental for healing ❤🩹 and spreading love💖. Thank you
Thank you for sharing these thoughts, a good reminder. Much love, Justine and Michael. 💚
Vicki, though I haven't met you, you are truly a wise guide on the road. May each step you take be full and rich and may whatever follows next for you be something wonderful.
Beautiful and kind words, thank you. Much love, Justine and Michael. 💚
"Do not go gentle into that good night…."
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I love this series! It’s beautiful and healing to hear these wonderful words of wisdom. 🌷❤
Lovely. We are so happy to share the different stories with you. Much love, Justine and Michael. 💚
I love her. She's as genuine as they come. 🎉🎉🎉🎉😊😊😊😊
So happy you liked listening to her. Warmest wishes, Justine and Michael. 💚
Yes, it always helps to zoom out and put yourself and your fellow humans into the perspective of totality. To me it's the perfect remedy against any kind of harmful nonsense that otherwise could build up in your mind...
Thank you for sharing. Glad her message resonated with you. Warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚
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Oh!I LOVE her honesty! We all have things we need to make right. Sometimes these things are too painful for us to face head on, so we just go through life hoping that they will all go away. They never do. Instead, they remain inside us ,weighing us down and possibly manifesting into illness. Her approach is so real and intrinsically spiritual.
Just beautuful. I truly value your efforts in bringing these life lessons to us! Thank you!
We are glad that her message spoke to you deeply, thank you for sharing your thoughts. Sending you warmest of hugs. Justine and Michael. 💚
More beautiful wisdom. Thank you x
So glad we could share her wisdom with you. Warmest wishes, Justine and Michael. 💚
Totally in tune with this. ❤
Lovely. So happy her message resonated with you. Sending you warmest of hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚
Age brings a new form of beauty . And it's the best bit. Our lines our aches and crakes our imperfections tell our story . Lucy is speaking the truth.
Thank you for sharing these positive thoughts about ageing. Sending you warmest of hugs. Justine and Michael. 💚 PS Her name is Vicki. 💚
What you shared will resonate with many. Yes forgiveness is essential for peace, healing & life. However I saw so much missing of God's love & being beyond self. The creator has a plan & as your body goes into the ground your soul continues no death there's eternity where you spend it in the love of Christ or in darkness where no light of God whatsoever. Though someone may not be aware of Him or believe our creator has been with us always on this earth. Look up.
Thank you for sharing your thoughts and views. Kind wishes, Justine and Michael. 💚
The title… “coming of ageing “ spells positive, happy, to look forward to… emotions!!! Thanks for sharing… ageing is inevitable, to take it by the horns is what will make it exciting, bearable… the takeaway message live life, love life the way it is!!! Right !!! Thanks for sharing!!!
So glad her message resonated with you and encouraged you. Sending you warmest of hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚
You start out talking about how growing old is about loss. For me with loss comes grief. Sometimes the grief becomes accumulative. Too much to carry. Weighted down with the sad and depressed stage of grief. It’s oftentimes difficult to move out of this stage, because just as you come to acceptance of one loss another loss happens. Thank-You for being honest about loss and growing old whilst adding a more positive way to think about growing old.
Thank you for sharing your thoughts with us. So glad her message helped you/created some positivity about growing old. Sending much love and strength to you for every day. Justine and Michael. 💚
You guys always find the mist beautiful souls to interview. Love her insights, as always, thank you!!❤
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She touched very deep spiritual dimension beyond religions
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I absorbed every single word of this. Thank you
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Excellent story. Since I myself am more in menopause, I identify with that lady. I myself am entering the golden autumn of my life and I feel like a girl again, I appreciate and love life more than ever and I find happiness in small things, I am more spiritual🙂😇
So happy her message resonated so much with you. Keep on enjoying life, the big and small things. Warmest hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚
Funny, I've been thinking about the shadow of late. At 69 yrs old, it must be a natural process. I'll have to spend some time thinking about the harm I've done to others and do more work on the attachments. Nice video. Thanks
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It rang really true when you said coming of aging is a challenging transition similar to adolescence. It’s got some great things and some gains, but it’s full of hormones, ups & downs, and losses too. Not to mention some body changes and various insanities.
Glad her message resonated with you. Wishing you all the best for this phase in life. Kindest wishes, Justine and Michael. 💚
Aging is difficult but the alternative is even worse. We are lucky.xx God bless.
Thank you for watching and sharing this thought. Sending you warmest of hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚
Very nice. Another one in my region. Thank you. I, of course, who will turn 70 in Oct., really "get" her. I truly understand that shadow work. It is concluded through so many vantage points thgat "We are not alone." Grandma Ellen, out.
Nice that this was another video that spoke to you. Sending you warmest of hugs. Justine and Michael. 💚
@@ReflectionsofLife Hugs returned. 😇
I like this woman so much. This short film literally took my breath away. Every word is compassion & wisdom for the human condition.
Imagine what the world would be if we all annually took a deep dive life/actions audit. The impact on our children, it breaks my heart.
The words , the looks , the judgement of each other …the daily lacerations to the soul we carelessly inflict on others…..imagine if we became aware - apologised and changed.
This film will be saved and watched daily until it fully sinks in.
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Wow! Deep words.💚
Lovely...Thankyou so much🙏🏻❤️🧚♂️
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Love her! Love this❤. So relatable for me❤. Thank you
Glad her message resonated with you so deeply. Warmest wishes, Justine and Michael. 💚
Admitting failure to oneself & saying sorry with heart to those close, that's strength, that's bringing closure to all.
Eventually drawing the last breath with a smile on one's face.
Beautifully said. Sending much love, Justine and Michael. 💚
im 60 a woman and would never want to be young again love my white hair wrinkles scars im starting to mellow out dont like getting sick at my age but we bounce back the only downfall about aging is your aches an pains an sickness thats why i eat healthy exercise i dont want diabetes or have heart problems havent been to the doctor in 10 or maybe more yrs im starting to like me too being comftable in me own skin this vid was good to watch see other ppls opinions on aging love your vids reflections of life God bless u ☺❤👍🙏👵👴💐
Nice that you found her words interesting. And what you are sharing sounds wonderful, so positive and energetic to live the best life possible. Lovely attitude. Sending you warmest of hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚
The poetry she read it resonated with me. Although i just turned 27. Sooner in this year i will be taking a leap of faith and listening to my heart. The poetry felt like a bell of reminder that the calling is real. I hope to come back to this comment of mine and see the video again after taking that leap. I am sure it will be one of the best decisions of my life ❤
Wonderful that these words of the poem resonated with you so deeply. Whatever it is that you will be doing, we wish you all the best for the journey ahead. Sending you warmest of hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚
I've just listened again for the second time. So inspiring, so rich....
That's so wonderful that her words mean so much to you. Much love, Justine and Michael. 💚
She’s wonderful. My favourite actress - Frances McDormand said something similar….
“ There is no desire to be an adult. Adulthood is not a goal. It's not seen as a gift.
Something happened culturally: no one is allowed to age past 45 - satorically, cosmetically, attitudinally.
Everybody dresses like a teenager. Everybody dyes their hair. Everybody is concerned with smooth skin.
Getting older and adjusting to all the things that biologically happen to you is not easy to do and is a constant struggle and adjustment.
You are someone who , beneath the white hair, has a card catalog of valuable information
So happy you liked her message. And thank you for sharing this quote. Warm wishes, Justine and Michael. 💚
I wish I knew to whom I should attribute this, but it was anonymous when I found it many years ago and copied it. It seems worth posting it here:
Resolve to be tender with the young,
compassionate with the aged,
sympathetic with the striving,
and tolerant of the weak & the wrong.
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Sometime in life, you will have been all of these.
Wow, thank you for sharing this beautiful quote. It is so powerful. They invite us to sit down and ponder. Sending much love, Justine and Michael. 💚
Profound. Spiritual. Deep. Insightful. Wisdom. Thanks!
It's a pleasure. Really happy that her words meant much to you. Warmest hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚
A message of support for this channel and a thumbs up on the video. Thanks so much for the effort to provide such consistently good content.
Thank you so much for your encouraging message, this means so much to us. We hope to share many more inspiring stories with you. Sending you warmest of hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚
So funny. I think God is teaching us how to not be so vane and to learn what’s the most important before we die. Looks don’t really matter. Last minute opportunity so to speak.
Glad you appreciated her message. Warmest hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚
YES, it is a coming of aging... change is inevitable and the ability to live with love and care in this adventure of discovering the importance of creativity and gratitude.
Being thoughtfull and present with kindness and care for ourselves and others in a variety of ways that nurture our lives in alignment with love and harmony.
Touch the world with compassion and tenderness.
Live in a way that makes sense for the best opportunity to be able to have no regrets because of the fact that you are giving heart felt energies to everyone in your life constantly with attention and delight.
Life is a journey that has a purpose for learning to live with love ❤
I am very glad that you have experienced this awareness that has caused you to share this video. You talked about a lot of things to consider in our own unique journeys of life unfolding in the mystery. 😊
We all are a work in progress ❤
So happy you enjoyed the story Vicki shares, that it resonated with you. Thank you for sharing your beautiful thoughts and views. Sending much love, Justine and Michael. 💚
Great interview! I enjoyed the message and hearing more from Vicki Robin, she has been a source of inspiration with her book and podcast!
Thank you so much. We are so happy that you enjoyed this video with her. Warmest hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚
Love this channel under any mood , either if I feel down as today or calm and happy as yesterday. Its all I can say by now. TY so much❤
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Aging is puberty in reverse. Skin issues, emotional roller coaster, second guessing myself resulting in regrets and fears for the future.
Realizing missed opportunities and the injuries to others caused by me and my selfishness.
If I could speak to myself in my 20’s I would say, think before doing something or going somewhere. Take time to consider those around you and what my impact might be.
Thank you for sharing these reflections with us. Certainly invite us to sit down and think for a while. Warmest hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚
What a beautiful place and lady. So much spiritual awareness, wisdom and peace emanate from her. ❤
Glad you enjoyed the message Vicki shared. Warmest hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚
I love the idea of being less and less attached to myself as a Cloud of Something! And setting out for another shore while I am still in the illusion of time. And being part of the multitude that has passed through. Yes, yes, yes. This is full of treasures springing from your honest heart and voice. A deep bow to the beauty of your aging. Thank you.
What a beautiful message of appreciation. THANK YOU for sharing this here with us. We send you much love. Justine and Michael 💚
“The experience of a lifetime” how profound ❤thank you.
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Thank you very much for making my day beautiful🩵
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Thank you for this beautiful spark of heaven on Earth🙏
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Oh boy what openness! So brave. (From one who lives in the shadows and carries around much guilt and some shame). I have no-one to blame but myself and nothing I can complain about in the hand life has dealt me. Maybe I could feel a bit of sympathy for myself that depression, especially in the winter, washes all the joy out of life. Still on a sunny day out in Nature the exuberant boy in me is still present, and I want to carry on, despite the fact that the world is going to Hell in a handcart in these 2020s. Thank you for this opportunity to reflect and be grateful.
We are glad that we could share her story with you, that it resonated with you. And that her words invited you to reflect. It's a personal journey for each one of us. Try and keep walking on despite many negatives around you. Sending you warmest of hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚
So well done - there is tremendous value in these stories. Thank you!
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I am truly mesmerized by the individuals that you highlight. The profound wisdom of her words and the perspective in which she shares with us, the viewers, enlightens and offers a new outlook at the aging process...."don't just wait for your hair to turn grey." Each chapter of our life story is to be lived fully! Thank you for this wonderful video!
You are welcome. Glad that her message meant much to you, that her words gave a different perspective on the subject of ageing. Warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚
Thank you I just scattered my father’s ashes after being with him as he died. My mom was moved to memory care and yet, she still feels his loss after 58 years. I’ve been feeling terrified and I appreciate your perspective 💛🙏🏻 would love even more from you!
We're sorry to hear of your loss. We hope that, with time, your heart will heal and find peace. Cherish the memories of precious time spent together. While it isn't possible for us to film more with Vicky (as she lives in the USA, and we have returned to our home in South Africa) - she does publish regular content under her personal blog on her website. You can find the link in the write up below the film. Sending you much love, kindness and care. Justine and Michael. x
The timing of this beautiful story is perfect for me right now. What a wonderful perspective and beautiful soul💜
Excellent, we are so glad this video came at the right time for you. Sending you warmest of hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚
How absolutely thought provoking and raw. What a wonderful wise woman with a message for everyone. ❤ This as always has hit the centre of my heart. All what I’m feeling brought to life. You are amazing people who are changing the world one video, one amazing person at a time. Thank you with all my heart. ❤
It's such a pleasure. So many beautiful and encouraging words in your comment. A big thank you. Much love, Justine and Michael. 💚
As I age I'm proud to become older. I've always waited for me to grow older ,with that wisdom poured into me without a warning. I love knowing I'm getting older. I live within my self ,but lend my wisdom to others to cherish what I've been taught. Just remember life is as you see it. Thanks
Thank you for sharing this message. Nice to know that you are at peace with getting older, that you love it. Wishing you a happy journey. Sending you warmest of hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚
Loved the introspective dialogue of this grand old lady. And, of course the beautifully made video over all. It has everything! And, yes, I'm in her age group: turn 88 in a couple of months.
You are welcome, we are so happy that you enjoyed this video. Thank you also for your encouraging words about the quality of our work, it means a lot to us. Wishing you many more happy and healthy years. Much love, Justine and Michael. 💚
Thank you for allowing these gifted people to be known and their names given and their identities and who they are be shared!! They all matter and everyone matters! And not be hidden behind a "brand." Thank you for sharing these blessed areas that society needs today.
Thank YOU for appreciating each new message that is shared through these films. 💚
Wow. I can relate on many levels. That journey is heartbreaking and soul building. Such a tight squeeze with openness on the other side. I am grateful to makes apologizes where they were needed and to thread more lightly on the feelings of others. And to be able to do so before I am on my death bed. Beautiful as always!! Thank you for the wisdom.
Thank you for sharing these additional thoughts and encouraging words. Warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚
" You Need to Claim The Events of Your Life"... Wow. What a message for me who decided only this morning to start with 'shadow work'... What a grand Lady and strong message. 💝
Wonderful that her message reached you at this time. May her words inspire and encourage you along the way. Sending much love, Justine and Michael. 💚
Beautiful, wonderful, very touching. 💜 Thank you.
You are welcome, we are glad you enjoyed the message Vicki shared. Warmest hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚
I know that every time I watch one of yours, I am going to be I inspired , comforted, and challenged. Thank you for this. She is a special soul .
Your words touch us. We are so happy this video was also valuable. Sending you warmest of hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚
Live fully each day, even when it is difficult 🌱 thank you for sharing your thoughts!🕊️
We are glad that her words spoke to you and inspired you to appreciate life every day. Much love, Justine and Michael. 💚
Fantastic Fabulous heart blowing experience 😊. Thank you team for sharing and creating such magical content 😊
It's an absolute pleasure. Happy that you enjoyed her story so much. Sending you warmest of hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚
When we can look at ageing and dying with an open heart we are already saved and we can enjoy whatever time we have left 🤗 What a beautiful reflection of life, thank you for sharing your story 🙏
Nice thoughts, thank you for sharing. We are glad her message spoke to you. Much love, Justine and Michael. 💚
God bless us all as we try to embrace lifes uncertainty much love to all xx
That was beautiful @@annagoretti5253 🙏 Soooo much Love ❤
Vicki, you are so awesome!!
Glad you enjoyed the video. Warmest hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚
The wonderful Vicki Robin!
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This woman is wonderfully refreshing. I am 69 and enjoyed this video very much. It was like looking through a stained-glass window. Thank you for your talent and creativity that you share with us!
It's a joy to read your words about the message of the video as well as the quality of our work. Thank you so much. Sending much love, Justine and Michael. 💚
Such a delight to be exposed to your perspective. Thank you for sharing!
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