INFP / Healer personality explained in 3 minutes

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  • čas přidán 20. 08. 2024
  • INFP or 'The Healer' personality is Introverted, Intuitive, Feeling & Perceiving type. Often described as quiet, imaginative, idealistic, open-minded & optimistic, INFPs are always looking for a hint of good in people, events, and life. They live for joy & care for all things pertaining to the human soul.
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Komentáře • 946

  • @aviralsinghal1274
    @aviralsinghal1274 Před 4 lety +3402

    Healers heals everyone.
    Nobody heals the healer.

  • @MambaBreezy24
    @MambaBreezy24 Před 4 lety +4533

    Just like this one meme said, INFPs are unpaid therapists that need a therapist themselves.

    • @almak3759
      @almak3759 Před 4 lety +59

      I actually have a therapist, to sort out the big problems.

    • @noomra
      @noomra Před 4 lety +207

      Unpaid is the sad truth.. All these videos presenting our type and none of them explaining how the f* to use these gifts to earn a living..cause being highly sensitive and altruistic are disadvantages in a selfish capitalistic world..

    • @simmsquee
      @simmsquee Před 4 lety +22

      Omg this comment - 10/10

    • @fredaaa-
      @fredaaa- Před 4 lety +26

      MambaBreezy24 😂when you’re an INFP and actually a Therapist (UK)

    • @myrninway8924
      @myrninway8924 Před 4 lety +30

      when you're 100% this comment and about to become a psychologist 👀

  • @zxra2470
    @zxra2470 Před 3 lety +2321

    Do other INFPs relate to this, whenever I meet new people they easily open up to me. They will literally tell me their deepest darkest secrets when I knew them for only a short amount of time.

    • @lainkinnie1442
      @lainkinnie1442 Před 3 lety +160

      yeees always happened. I think because they feel comfortable around us :)

    • @gdaymate3414
      @gdaymate3414 Před 3 lety +23

      Exactly!

    • @mellimii3471
      @mellimii3471 Před 3 lety +80

      Absolutely! I'm always the listener to everyone. xD To think what we could do with all the things we know is quite scary in a way or another but on the bright side I'm pretty sure that we're not interested into any kind of plotting but glad to be of help somehow.

    • @myl2955
      @myl2955 Před 3 lety +8

      SAME 😭😭

    • @k-rhynncyrhyss4691
      @k-rhynncyrhyss4691 Před 3 lety +37

      ... yeah. I mean, its hard for me to connect with people IRL though, but online, people literally flock to me and tell me their life stories. 😅

  • @lemon_3612
    @lemon_3612 Před 4 lety +1819

    I can confirm that reading as an infp is amazing because the visual representation I create is **mwuah**

  • @MsDoryLinda
    @MsDoryLinda Před 4 lety +2802

    As an INFP, I don't know if INFPs truly want to be understood. We have contradictions in that on one hand, we think we want to be understood but we wouldn't believe someone if they said they understand us completely, on the other hand, we don't want to be fully understood because it would mean the specialness and uniqueness isn't that unique if people are able to actually understand us. We are complex beings, we are!!

    • @embry7173
      @embry7173 Před 4 lety +122

      Yes , Exactly 😭, I always contradict myself with that . I want to be understood but I feel like if I was it would take away my uniqueness !!!!

    • @divyasrikanth
      @divyasrikanth Před 4 lety +19

      Exactly 😂

    • @healingandgrowth-infp4677
      @healingandgrowth-infp4677 Před 4 lety +46

      Defo we like our inner selves to be private.

    • @kshitarsi5018
      @kshitarsi5018 Před 4 lety +29

      Damn we really are complex 😂

    • @simmsquee
      @simmsquee Před 4 lety +18

      I would probably be terrified in that scenario. I am a unique, unknowable unicorn! 🦄

  • @refesyounes1218
    @refesyounes1218 Před 4 lety +922

    I realized in the middle of the video I was dreaming... I started it 2 times to watch out the whole thing 😭

    • @annabelle2688
      @annabelle2688 Před 4 lety +18

      omg same!!

    • @ayamohamed6932
      @ayamohamed6932 Před 4 lety +6

      🤣 🤣 🤣 +3

    • @Gapetz
      @Gapetz Před 4 lety +116

      What the actual fuckkk, i was partially hearing the video, partially reading the comments, partially imagining stuffs in my head and partially looking at my reflection on the phone

    • @elvinafajarena927
      @elvinafajarena927 Před 4 lety +5

      same😭😭

    • @zzzfia2626
      @zzzfia2626 Před 4 lety +13

      intps🤝infps

  • @lainkinnie1442
    @lainkinnie1442 Před 3 lety +540

    sounds beautiful but trust me, being a INFP is so tiring 😅

    • @sanchita-tu4fj
      @sanchita-tu4fj Před 3 lety +5

      It is!!!

    • @mellimii3471
      @mellimii3471 Před 3 lety +16

      @@sanchita-tu4fj Truth be told, yep. ;( Last year I figured stuffs like being an hsp-infp-virgo (sun)-pieces (moon) type and the only thing I could think was: rip to everyone who has to deal with my confusing ass and now that I'm watching videos about INFP's again it's still the same with more knowledge overall but the exhaustion never went away.

    • @SatumainenOlento
      @SatumainenOlento Před 3 lety +2

      @@mellimii3471 Hah 😊 I am sure that you are really lovely person. Find the right people and they will love your complexity!!! Somebody with a curious mind-set would be happy for the challenge to know you 😊😊😊 But yeah, the compo is surely a challenge.
      But you know, every man wants to find that special woman into their lives. The one who is totally different than anybody else....well, here is when we step in. Special unique features in abundance 😁😁😁 The man can be totally challenged to understand us for rest if their lives hahhhaaa 😁😁😁
      If that is any consolation....

    • @Clara-jz3yv
      @Clara-jz3yv Před 3 lety +10

      it is more than tiring. It is a curse. But a blessing for others when in touch with a INFP/INFJ

    • @brendapxh
      @brendapxh Před 3 lety +1

      FOR REAL THO

  • @RockandCheese666
    @RockandCheese666 Před 3 lety +592

    I'm a infp and I sense people's feelings before they even realized it themselves IT'S SO EXHAUSTING. I'm like why are you not feeling your feelings???

    • @shewarewolf9717
      @shewarewolf9717 Před 3 lety +31

      Ughhhhh the accuracy. It's so frustrating. It sometimes feels like living in a different dimension.

    • @mrscocodolo
      @mrscocodolo Před 3 lety +29

      And then you feel all gross because 4 other people came at you with the same energy so you’re walking around feeling feelings from 5 different people that don’t belong to you 😅 why am I absorbing everyone’s feelings 👿

    • @ghaliyakalysta4524
      @ghaliyakalysta4524 Před 3 lety +6

      accurate asf

    • @whitepeoplebefuckingup8959
      @whitepeoplebefuckingup8959 Před 3 lety +13

      Sometimes I wonder if it’s all real but I think it’s simply we pick up on people’s way of thinking pretty quickly so it like sticks to us. Our mind frame is pretty huge, very tolerant ❤️

    • @pffffffgjiooo8140
      @pffffffgjiooo8140 Před 3 lety +3

      FR OMG

  • @axdxwqwerty2514
    @axdxwqwerty2514 Před 3 lety +210

    Just admit it. We are all here for the therapeutic comment section.

  • @jujuhello6584
    @jujuhello6584 Před 4 lety +542

    Sometimes I look for the bad in people. it helps me to get detached of them !

    • @mc-ob7vp
      @mc-ob7vp Před 4 lety +24

      omg....ive always wondered why i do that. You explained it perfectly in just two sentences.

    • @sadianur7001
      @sadianur7001 Před 4 lety +9

      mocca coffee so does that make me a bad person ?? idk. I don’t think some people are good and even though I know it’s not possible to be fully evil I don’t want to look into the good side or even empathize with them.

    • @Jadedgems
      @Jadedgems Před 4 lety +2

      This is how you end up dying alone

    • @R2disco
      @R2disco Před 4 lety +18

      JadedGems We inevitably die alone, with or without people in our lives.

    • @JWu-jt7fz
      @JWu-jt7fz Před 4 lety +4

      @@R2disco A good complement to INFP is ESTJ. It's not that hard to spot a ESTJ hahaha

  • @notreallyash
    @notreallyash Před 4 lety +557

    currently in hermit mode

  • @niki5923
    @niki5923 Před 3 lety +808

    Am I the only INFP who can't take compliments or more like can't believe when someone compliments me. I feel like they're just saying that just to make me feel good or are taunting me or want something from me and they don't really mean anything?

    • @dreamynnnn
      @dreamynnnn Před 3 lety +47

      Finally!! I felt the same way too! I always or maybe despise compliments too much

    • @_sam_ddn
      @_sam_ddn Před 3 lety +43

      I feel like that too. Maybe it's because I know that I could've done something in a better way. Maybe this is the reason why I feel that those compliments are fake, even if it isn't the case all the time.

    • @medhamishra9674
      @medhamishra9674 Před 3 lety +28

      Totally completely...like when someone say he loves me... i am like why? Why do he loves me?

    • @douillette003
      @douillette003 Před 3 lety +4

      Relatable but I'm sure a lot of them are true

    • @syxzxxn
      @syxzxxn Před 3 lety +2

      same!

  • @axdxwqwerty2514
    @axdxwqwerty2514 Před 3 lety +363

    It blows my mind how many people there is that claims to be so precisely similar to me. Do you guys exist in real life or just on the internet cause damn where u at

    • @Themexicat
      @Themexicat Před 3 lety +49

      We are only around 5 percent of the population, which sucks because I would love to find someone who thinks just like me.Hope to find someone soon

    • @robincrowflies
      @robincrowflies Před 3 lety +3

      Lol, right?

    • @SatumainenOlento
      @SatumainenOlento Před 3 lety +27

      Yes, I feel so relaxed in commenting in here, becauae finally I found my tribe! All very very lovely people. Love you all, where have you been all my life 💗💗💗💗

    • @sunshineandrain869
      @sunshineandrain869 Před 3 lety +16

      Yeah, isn’t that frustrating? I’d love to have another INFP as a close friend IRL.

    • @euthanasiatbest
      @euthanasiatbest Před 3 lety +1

      Haiiiii im hereee

  • @gdaymate3414
    @gdaymate3414 Před 3 lety +207

    Me : I need somebody to understand my feelings
    My friend : I understand how you feel
    Also me : No ❤️

    • @dawrightleo13
      @dawrightleo13 Před 2 lety +1

      😂😂😂💕

    • @Zuiken2160
      @Zuiken2160 Před rokem

      I tried my whole life to understand myself and failed...
      I could not possibly believe that someone understands me just by listening to the words I say while I am not even capable of constructing as precise sentences with my mouth as I can within my head.

    • @tocatoltec7591
      @tocatoltec7591 Před rokem

      Why no 😭

  • @musicalimagination5406
    @musicalimagination5406 Před 4 lety +284

    I freaked out when saw "speaking in metaphors and parables" because that seems like the only way for me to communicate the feelings I keep within. In past situations, I would sit down and talk to someone about my feelings without giving analogies or stories. This results in "I don't understand what you are saying" and then I just feel like bleh.

    • @fancynancymacy
      @fancynancymacy Před 4 lety +19

      I’ll bet Jesus was an I NFP

    • @axdxwqwerty2514
      @axdxwqwerty2514 Před 3 lety +9

      YES. The ones that get or/and appreciates our metaphors are KEEPERS.

    • @StephJ0seph
      @StephJ0seph Před 3 lety +6

      So true, I always caught myself speaking in analogies
      But I'm not entirely sure how to explain a topic in detail without comparing it to something else

    • @isagi4875
      @isagi4875 Před 3 lety

      damn,this is so true :/

    • @kimdeoliveira9483
      @kimdeoliveira9483 Před 2 lety

      I am Infp and struggle with ADHD-PI. I think of it as walking through a darken room, bare foot, knowing there are Lego pieces struin everwhere. I am certain there will be pain and stumbling, and possibly blood. So, yes, I can relate.

  • @sadiepedley4355
    @sadiepedley4355 Před 4 lety +366

    I never felt so understood

    • @leemythic4400
      @leemythic4400 Před 4 lety +2

      It makes me sad as well, but your comment made me unintentionally laugh a little lol

    • @junsjulywonpilsyonpilchany5241
      @junsjulywonpilsyonpilchany5241 Před 4 lety

      @@leemythic4400 I feel this on a spiritual level. Both this comment and the main comment.

  • @ellaolsen3374
    @ellaolsen3374 Před 4 lety +172

    I've started to listen to the radio in an attempt to stay in the real world and not stand in the shower thinking about things for an hour

    • @xuananator
      @xuananator Před 3 lety +16

      People always ask me why I take such long showers.....

    • @axdxwqwerty2514
      @axdxwqwerty2514 Před 3 lety +3

      YES. Though I do this to feel less lonely? Uk with the thoughts in my head n shit

    • @ninchan3
      @ninchan3 Před 3 lety +4

      I replaced taking showers and only take baths now.
      Everyone will be ok with you to be 1 hour in the bathtub ;)
      (I have to admit that I sometimes need 2h)
      And you don't have to stand XD

    • @SatumainenOlento
      @SatumainenOlento Před 3 lety +4

      Hahhhhaaaahhhaaa 😂😂😂😂 I love these comments 😂 My shower secrets revealed!

    • @boorave
      @boorave Před 3 lety +1

      Relatable

  • @abhishekpathak8232
    @abhishekpathak8232 Před 3 lety +70

    I'll be honest. I'm here because i needed some appreciation

  • @bsplashing
    @bsplashing Před 3 lety +114

    "Taking things too personally" .... is just so true.
    Why am i hurting myself like that :')

    • @SatumainenOlento
      @SatumainenOlento Před 3 lety +4

      Yes! I am learning that Other People have Other Reasons to get upset than me!
      What a relief! It is not all about me!

  • @ankaschannel
    @ankaschannel Před 4 lety +314

    I'm an INFP and I'm going to be a Chinese Medicine practitioner... an actual healer 😌

    • @farwizah4336
      @farwizah4336 Před 4 lety +1

      you mean you're gonna take Doctor of Oriental Medicine (DOM)
      ?

    • @ankaschannel
      @ankaschannel Před 4 lety +10

      @@farwizah4336 no, I'm from Germany and there is no official degree for Chinese Medicine here. Instead, you need to study western biomedicine to get a license to practice alternative medicine 😅 so I'm studying two medical systems rn

    • @chasedavis2358
      @chasedavis2358 Před 3 lety +1

      What about a shaman?

    • @thegreatestislove8604
      @thegreatestislove8604 Před 2 lety

      Yes! I plan to become a naturopath. I learn it as a hobby already so I figured it’s probably my calling💕

  • @joanaborrellsanchez9225
    @joanaborrellsanchez9225 Před rokem +30

    As an INFP, people always share their whole biographies and automatically trust me. Strangers become very surprised to find someone that genuely listens and helps. The other day, a woman was very lost, she couldn't find the bus station, and I literally walked with her for twenty minutes and then bought her a ticket. I would do this forever. I love helping and I hate the idea of imagining someone lost and cold in the middle of the street. But, BUT, as I can be the healer, I can be also the harmful. And this is what I hate about me. I'm veery patient, but I don't say when something bothers me. I bottle up everything, and I explode. When I explode, I wake up all your demons. And you are scared. And trust is totally gone.

  • @mahnoorjaved6224
    @mahnoorjaved6224 Před rokem +34

    I am an exhausted INFP who is an actual psychotherapist. It's so easy to exhaust ourselves by being idealistic to a cause and giving to it more than we are capable of, as a person. ☠️

  • @areyouhappywiththattitlepo9464

    The comment section is just us infps askin other infps about if we all have same experiences (we do) n talking about our own infp specific scenarioes that we all relate to. The support system i didnt know i needed

  • @wonushi
    @wonushi Před rokem +22

    i am an infp and my friends always find me to talk abt their problems… at first i was so grateful and happy that i could help them even a little but then i realized it was draining me as i cannot tell them my problems because i tend to keep it to myself and try to solve it on my own.

    • @The-Mediator
      @The-Mediator Před 11 měsíci +1

      Exactly I don’t have friends, I got clients.

  • @wanimusician
    @wanimusician Před 3 lety +337

    "Left unchecked they may start to lose touch and withdrawing into hermit mode and it can take a great deal of energy to bring them back"
    As an INFP that has been in hermit mode since 2020....I feel personally attacked, lol.

    • @micalkiflu9654
      @micalkiflu9654 Před 3 lety +5

      Solitudes all good my friend

    • @SatumainenOlento
      @SatumainenOlento Před 3 lety +6

      Hermit mode activated since 2015 hahhhaaa 😂😂😂😂

    • @levituan438
      @levituan438 Před 3 lety +2

      Ify 😂 thats what i am in rn, hermit mode for the passed two months 😂

    • @ahmetfatih748
      @ahmetfatih748 Před 3 lety +5

      Well if you are in that mode for a year that means both of us have no real friends to get us outside...

    • @chelseakatie02
      @chelseakatie02 Před 2 lety +8

      I feel like hermit mode helps me get my energy back 😌

  • @indigodragon0613
    @indigodragon0613 Před 4 lety +154

    Been in hermit mode for years. Not sure I'll ever get out. Doesn't seem worth it tbh.

    • @junsjulywonpilsyonpilchany5241
    • @ocelotl7892
      @ocelotl7892 Před 3 lety +1

      I agree completely!

    • @jesso.4971
      @jesso.4971 Před 3 lety +13

      Take all the time you need. Coming out of our shell you realize just how loud the world is. So many people preoccupied by the most meaningless things: how they’re dressed, how others perceive them, they’re social status. It’s all just noise. Honestly, I don’t blame you for retreating just a bit and focusing on what truly matters - one’s peace of mind.

    • @indigodragon0613
      @indigodragon0613 Před 3 lety +7

      @@jesso.4971 I've been this way for years and I feel like I'm getting worse. Like my soul is getting torn from my body.

    • @jesso.4971
      @jesso.4971 Před 3 lety +6

      @@indigodragon0613 Perhaps you need to become more in tune to what speaks to your soul. For some getting out and being amongst nature is really healing and makes you feel more connected to something other than yourself. Perhaps a visit to an art gallery to go out and try to see things from another perspective will help. Sometimes even just a walk around the block helps.

  • @arxsyn
    @arxsyn Před 3 lety +79

    I am an INFP myself. I'm a proud Canadian. It happens to be that Canada has a rather large demographic of INFP's, as much as 15 percent! Can you believe? No wonder l feel so at home and at peace here!
    Great video. Beautiful artwork and narration

    • @OTK_KING
      @OTK_KING Před 3 lety +10

      I want to move 2 Canada

    • @GigiNKD
      @GigiNKD Před 3 lety +5

      Not the Canadian I was engaged to... or the ones I met.. it was quite difficult for me to relate there. But I’m so happy for you!!!

    • @ingridhoffmann8036
      @ingridhoffmann8036 Před 2 lety +2

      Canada is perfect for hermit mode. 😊

    • @scourneene
      @scourneene Před 2 lety

      Canadian INFP as well...ya I agree

    • @vindric8330
      @vindric8330 Před 2 lety

      I want to live there now

  • @ishapurohit8597
    @ishapurohit8597 Před 3 lety +122

    Not gonna lie when I'm by myself I literally get anxious and worried and feel helpless just thinking about the animal abuse that goes on every single day in the world and how I can't do anything to stop it

    • @bunnylove2310
      @bunnylove2310 Před 3 lety +2

      Omg same! I wish I could escape my own mind, if not the entire world 😩

    • @tkoviet
      @tkoviet Před 3 lety +1

      same! it's crazy how your comment is so relatable. When I think about the animal abuse I feel so depressed and powerless...

    • @angellightraven8257
      @angellightraven8257 Před 3 lety +1

      You can work on Animal Protection or Vet or Medioambiental Work

    • @AquarianValkari
      @AquarianValkari Před 3 lety +1

      Same but add child abuse...I start planning out how to become a pedophile hunter but then spiral because I can't because I have family that depend on me and I wouldn't be good at hiding my identity and thus leave us all vulnerable to dangerous internet people

    • @mom.left.me.at.michaels9951
      @mom.left.me.at.michaels9951 Před 2 lety

      Do you have the ability to foster animals? Check with your local shelter, they are always happy to have a helping hand!.

  • @simonashopova7428
    @simonashopova7428 Před 3 lety +38

    I came here after watching a video that made INFP seem selfish. After watching that video I don't feel bad about being INFP. Thank you for putting the smile back on my face! 🌻

  • @Victoria-of1mp
    @Victoria-of1mp Před 3 lety +36

    1:31 *dog starts whining*
    *me, an INFP*: Oh my gosh, I think I'm gonna cry

  • @lseal7
    @lseal7 Před rokem +9

    I just learned we are called INFP’s. I just thought I was a weirdo. It’s like I’m an emotional trauma magnet, even wound up with abused animals over the years. Like the Robin Hood of emotional misfits lol. How many times have people told me that looking at my eyes they feel as if I can see straight into their soul, and I can. It’s not as if I’m trying to, it just happens. People tend to cling to me, as if I can fix it, whatever they need fixing. My entire family and every one I know comes to me when they have tragic issues. Yes Im known to be able to always figure out a way but only because I never panic I just sit back and study the situation from all aspects knowing there is a solution you just have to find it. Therefore I tend to be reclusive living way way out in the country with my horses and animals. When we love someone death can’t even get in the way of us protecting them, and when we are “ done” with someone, we are “ done” period. We may forgive, but they will never be in our bubble again. The hard part is there seems to be extremely few on this earth I can reach out too. Tis a bit lonely.

  • @JoanieTristine
    @JoanieTristine Před 2 lety +5

    Is this why people come up to me and tell me there whole life stories? I love it, I love people coming to me and opening up even if I’ve never met them.
    Giving, listening, helping make me feel completely fulfilled.

  • @JoiusMemoir
    @JoiusMemoir Před 3 lety +13

    I think INFPs does not believe in RED TAGS on people. This is what makes us so unique 🤗 We tend to understand what are the most essential things in life. Even if we can’t understand ourselves sometimes. But I also think that if we have understood our lives even more, we will be able to help our inner soul in the most incredible and wonderful way ✨

  • @crystalpreuett9539
    @crystalpreuett9539 Před 3 lety +14

    People always think it's impossible for me to seriously not care about "keeping up with the Joneses', or having the newest/best whatever. When someone has known me for many years, they're often like, "Dang, I thought it was impossible for a person to value spiritual matters and relationships SO much over anything material, but now I see, you really are like that! Ya weirdo! Haha".

    • @crystalpreuett9539
      @crystalpreuett9539 Před 3 lety +1

      @Mr Popo
      Not too sure what you're getting at, but yes, I've had at least 3 friends I can think of who have told me this nearly word for word. My husband has also told me he didn't realize it was possible for someone to love others so purely, and to be so disinterested in material things. I just thought it was nice to have finally found some people I could identify with (it sounds like all INFPs pretty much have this personality).

    • @SatumainenOlento
      @SatumainenOlento Před 3 lety +1

      Hahhhaaa 😁 I have gathered friends who all share the same values of non-materialisticity and now I realise how very special that is!
      But yeah, now I can remember how my best friend was like: "So you really do not care about people's social status?" And I was a bit buzzed that it was even a question?! Hahhhaaa 😂😂😂

    • @mikescan7050
      @mikescan7050 Před 2 lety

      Life is a bunch of stuff that happened that we felt very strongly along the way. It’s all about the experiences. Some of them may actually happen outside our head!

  • @aesthetic_writer
    @aesthetic_writer Před rokem +5

    I'm an INFP with social anxiety and trust me, it's a raging war. I take everything too personally, despise small talk and hate socializing, and everyone dumps all their problems on me like I don't have enough to deal with already.

  • @StephJ0seph
    @StephJ0seph Před 3 lety +9

    Can I just say;
    Holy moly this video's graphics are absolutely stunning 💖

  • @borinqueena1
    @borinqueena1 Před 3 lety +7

    yes I speak in parables. I am bilingual and was learning Chinese as a 3rda language. I am also a massage therapist. This is spot on.

  • @LeslieMcHugh
    @LeslieMcHugh Před 2 lety +9

    I’m an INFP, but I also like money and material gain. Not gonna lie. Because it allows me to buy books and coffee and feed my many dogs. But it’s hard making money the money that I deserve because I’m an INFP. Ahhhhhh, the struggle 😂

    • @Selim_Osmanli
      @Selim_Osmanli Před 2 lety

      Well evreyone wants material gain but will you value the money over your morals that is the question

    • @tocatoltec7591
      @tocatoltec7591 Před rokem

      Welcome to life

  • @LG-lb7sf
    @LG-lb7sf Před rokem +2

    Omg, people hate it when I speak in metaphors and parables! But I can't help it, I think I have a teacher's soul so I'd rather make you conceptualize it yourself rather than tell you directly! :)

  • @ndrcalrryx2094
    @ndrcalrryx2094 Před 3 lety +6

    Its so funny how the universe works. My birth date, zodiac sign and desire/purpose numbers in life including this - INFP, pretty much resonates from one another. Its so freaky cool.

  • @timtrek
    @timtrek Před 3 lety +6

    think im like a cute dog who got kicked too many times.. all of the hippy dippy fairy traits have left me now and my heart has turned dark as spilled blood

    • @avicennitegh1377
      @avicennitegh1377 Před 3 lety

      I'm also like the kicked puppy who goes back for more. When it's all too much, you go deep inside and work on that trait. You will grow and flourish, eventually.

  • @kelc-1373
    @kelc-1373 Před 3 lety +6

    That "Hermit Mode" part was the absolute biggest callout!!

  • @wtx5688win
    @wtx5688win Před 3 lety +2

    So true. We are always misunderstood by people. Our serenity is our refreshing and recharging energy. Once we aren't comfortable with someone we will walk away silently and vanish without replying. 😁

  • @ronham4395
    @ronham4395 Před 4 lety +31

    That just in positive side, You don't know other side of INFP! We can open the Unforgivable Breaker's Ark or scream like Lord of the king dragon in infp self.🔥😡

  • @its_lemon_19
    @its_lemon_19 Před 3 lety +8

    I'm an INFP however I'm actually an ambievert I show both introverted and extroverted qualities. I think the test thought I was introverted because I answered that I can spend a weekend alone. I could also spend it with a friend doesn't really matter.

    • @SatumainenOlento
      @SatumainenOlento Před 3 lety

      I did do the test 3 times and one question out of 50 does not make the test go wrong. I tried other time to answer to questions differently in purpose and I got INFP anyway!!! So there is no escape hahhhaaa 😊😊😊

    • @kittmarie8285
      @kittmarie8285 Před 2 lety

      I can be very sociable and can connect people to each other, but I don't enjoy small talk and I process information more fully by myself. Anyone else?

    • @Heinz57ish
      @Heinz57ish Před rokem

      I am the same. The first time i took the test I came out as ENFP, the 2nd INFP. Just looked at ENFP traits and they talked about having a large social friend group; I don't. I'm quite reclusive and a bit of a hermit. But having said that, when I'm out and about and at work, I can be extrovert. As a child though i was definitely shy so I think I'm a natural introvert just trying to fit in to the world.

  • @sophssings
    @sophssings Před 4 lety +16

    It's amazing to me how this can be so accurate!!

  • @aaronpicking4935
    @aaronpicking4935 Před 4 lety +14

    What???! I was fluent at one time in 7 languages. Not at once, but each or two at a time when I needed them over the years

  • @dianamlv
    @dianamlv Před 4 lety +114

    I thought the INFP's are known as mediators and not healers

    • @sonja5058
      @sonja5058 Před 4 lety +43

      Add idealists to that list 😄 I've heard all 3

    • @StephJ0seph
      @StephJ0seph Před 3 lety +10

      There are different colloquial names

    • @SatumainenOlento
      @SatumainenOlento Před 3 lety +15

      We had an expression of: "artist/painter of the horizons" in Finland. That is pretty much a correct definition as well.

    • @freedomlibertad5310
      @freedomlibertad5310 Před 2 lety +2

      And daydreamers ..😂

  • @Havic22123
    @Havic22123 Před 4 lety +119

    What if you're in hermit mode. any ideas to help get out?

    • @wakingupowls
      @wakingupowls Před 4 lety +27

      Go on hikes or outdoor stuff. Find love, or yeah a group of friends. It’s hard, but if you want out you gotta be brave.
      Which since your an INFP, you are. You just gotta walk through the door when your ready.
      Best of luck bud! :)

    • @faeinacup
      @faeinacup Před 4 lety +6

      Maybe go to the shop and have a convo with people that work their if your brave enough. Maybe take some walks in the park or down the road. I know how hard it is to push yourself out of your comfort zone, ive been their myself) but youll come out of the "hermit mode" in time. All it takes is one small step. Hope this helps! Have a nice day! ♡

    • @RainbowEssence-c3w
      @RainbowEssence-c3w Před 4 lety +1

      I feel ya... *sigh*

    • @shreya446
      @shreya446 Před 4 lety +8

      maybe go out if you can, and find some peaceful places. connecting with natural surroundings helps too.

    • @kevinl4687
      @kevinl4687 Před 4 lety +5

      I find reading a lot helps. It helps satisfy your hermit ness but gives you a million ideas of things to experience which will help motivate you to go out.

  • @mikochaa
    @mikochaa Před 3 lety +10

    I love speaking with metaphors! but i have no one to speak to :(

  • @nataschaebinger7989
    @nataschaebinger7989 Před 3 lety +2

    I love wrapping gifts/making gifts/buying things for other people so much, more than for myself ♥️ greets from the ambivert highlysensitive INFP Girl ♥️♥️

  • @J-Earthling
    @J-Earthling Před rokem +3

    This is trippy! I took the test 4 times. I wanted to make sure I was doing it right, and I got the same results every time. INFP. This video described everything about me. Everything! I'm also a writer. I've written dozens of novels and some anthologies, and I don't know how many short stories. I haven't published anything yet, on account of anxiety. I have been alone for the last 6 months and I have kept my distance from people. I don't like people, lol. I can't believe how much it got right. Trippy!

    • @angelledesma5707
      @angelledesma5707 Před 10 měsíci

      You should publish your work. Would love to be one of your readers. I'm an INFP also and I'm interested in writing and reading stories as well. Wanna learn from fellow INFP.

    • @Pandatwirly
      @Pandatwirly Před 7 měsíci

      Taking the test 4x proves in itself you’re an INFP 😂 Welcome home! 💕

  • @benjones1458
    @benjones1458 Před 3 lety +4

    I took a test and found i am an INFP but the mediator type, so INFP-T. I did relate with quite a few of these things and found the video really informative and interesting, so thank you!!

  • @syxzxxn
    @syxzxxn Před 3 lety +47

    as an infp , i love reading bc i can imagine what happens and how each characters look when they're doing stuff etc etc . is it like an infp thing ?

    • @stopthis7460
      @stopthis7460 Před 3 lety +3

      Totally

    • @_animatorchara_
      @_animatorchara_ Před rokem

      I LOVE doing that!! Except sometimes I get frustrated reading because I'm trying to make my visual imagery look really expressive and have all kinds of emotions and scenesl!! But sometimes it doesn't end up happening and it ruins a lot for me. But either way, doing this is such an experience and I love it!! Brings me a lot of comfort and it's really nice. Guess it is an infp thing?

    • @aesthetic_writer
      @aesthetic_writer Před rokem

      Can relate.

  • @slovelyyx7718
    @slovelyyx7718 Před 7 měsíci

    One of the most genuine and sincere personality types, despite all their flaws, insecurity issues and problems. They stand out for their authenticity, morals and pure heartedness.

  • @hyungwonsunusedmicrophone6490

    I’m just ask as an INFP, have y’all ever just cried then someone walked in on you or almost so you run straight to the bathroom and shower while crying, cause that happened to me 2 times

  • @mama-uw9rz
    @mama-uw9rz Před 3 lety +12

    My name is asifa and the meaning of my name is medicine or you can say the healer
    And my personality is infp. Such a great name for me lol

    • @pearlita725
      @pearlita725 Před 3 lety +1

      Beautiful name! May I ask what language that is:-)?

    • @SatumainenOlento
      @SatumainenOlento Před 3 lety

      Beautiful name!!! 💗

    • @demarcomya
      @demarcomya Před 3 lety

      What a beautiful name!

    • @fsheik1127
      @fsheik1127 Před 3 lety

      Yes beautiful name that literally comes into check with your inner self

  • @ElegantAries
    @ElegantAries Před 3 lety +5

    Omg I’ve been drawn into hermit mode 😱! All of this somehow heavily resonates lmao. I’ve been trying to get out of it, but it is difficult... I go to work but then I just love hanging out with just my cat and dog. But if I’m ever going to meet someone, I need to get out of my shell lol

  • @Urmomhehe99
    @Urmomhehe99 Před 2 lety +5

    It’s so hard not to take things personally, one little comment or action will make me question everything. Like if sometimes my bestie isn’t feeling a hug and I try to give her one but she pulls away, then I know she’s not trying to hurt me but I can’t help but wonder if it’s annoying everytime I hug her and if she’s just putting up with it.

    • @hugzpls
      @hugzpls Před 2 lety +1

      Omg same. I always overthink little stuff like that and this take it personally even though it might not be me

  • @frugalmum7943
    @frugalmum7943 Před 3 lety +5

    INFPs repeat after me : "I am growing my healthy boundaries and compassionate accountability habits" :)
    Or don't, it's a suggestion not a command.

  • @sumiko_1384
    @sumiko_1384 Před 2 lety +4

    I don’t know if it’s just me but, when reading novels or fanfics, I really like the angst parts cause it really shows who the character is in their vulnerable state.

    • @_animatorchara_
      @_animatorchara_ Před rokem

      Yes!! I ADORE fictional angst. There's so much emotion to it and It makes everything so interesting and conjuring up the scene in my head for it is extremely fun There's just so much emotions in good angst, and I'm LIVING for it!!

  • @reenavalecha159
    @reenavalecha159 Před 4 lety +7

    This was so spot on ! It's almost scary

  • @foggyforest2625
    @foggyforest2625 Před 2 lety +1

    "Taking things too personally..."
    And i took that personally

  • @madronaldsalvador
    @madronaldsalvador Před 3 lety +4

    i love the last sentence, and also the word used there in describing our souls: 'radiating'.^^)*

  • @AnyaGlazov
    @AnyaGlazov Před 4 lety +10

    Love it! Explained well and the animation is so nice😍

  • @areyouhappywiththattitlepo9464

    Is it just me as an infp who feels energy? Like i can tell if a situation has turned sour or the mood has gone etc. Or if someone is in any mood i can usually detect it. N with things like events i get bad or good energy from it overwhelmingly sometimes like if my favourite boy grp is had a recent music video release n i felt this overwhelming energy that they were gonna dominate n it made me panicky so i dipped for a bit. N now they have done incredibly well. Idk just an example but yh does anyone else feel like that

    • @hanniequokka6136
      @hanniequokka6136 Před 3 lety +2

      I'm an infp and feel energy of places a lot like if a place is depressing or positive or so and so without even thinking about it, it just comes naturally

    • @Si-moonn
      @Si-moonn Před 2 lety

      An infp and cizinie 😍

    • @Selim_Osmanli
      @Selim_Osmanli Před 2 lety

      Duuh why no ENFJ I expected some of them to be here 😅

  • @MrsYolandicook
    @MrsYolandicook Před 10 měsíci +1

    I totally relate to the emotional and moral connection with my work while seeking harmony.
    I am a music teacher in a school with students that struggle with trauma and behaviors…
    I love where I work and what I do. ❤
    It feels so good to help students and teachers find their best selves and encourage al

  • @nathanielbables8652
    @nathanielbables8652 Před 4 lety +13

    I now two of these people, totally accurate.

  • @kamiliajohnson7430
    @kamiliajohnson7430 Před 3 lety +11

    Well everything checks except the romantic part. Extremely romantic situations actually make me a little uncomfortable and I definitely don't idolize my husband...who is in fact much more romantic than me.

    • @Heinz57ish
      @Heinz57ish Před rokem +1

      Romance is icky.

    • @roslyngross6083
      @roslyngross6083 Před 14 dny

      I don't like the word 'romantic' actually. It sounds soppy. What I yearn for is soul connection, not 'romance.'

  • @furuki60
    @furuki60 Před 4 lety +68

    I dont understand my self

  • @AditiWegad
    @AditiWegad Před 3 lety +1

    Very happy to see the video
    I'm an INFP
    Great work on visual representation!!

  • @joanaborrellsanchez9225
    @joanaborrellsanchez9225 Před rokem +1

    I have an INFP in my classroom. I think that as an INFP myself, I've never met another one. I'm not attracted to him romantically, but I feel so... I don't even know... powerful, energized and energetically "clean" after talking to him. I feel truly inspired. And then I meditate: "do others feel the same after talking to me? Is it that satisfying?" and I love me and I love him. I don't know how to express it. It's a really soft love I feel for him. We're friends but not best friends, we don't even talk that much, but when we talk, I feel something that I can't experience with anyone else. It's not admiration, it's not romantic attraction, it's not obsession. It's just inspiration, calmness and spirituallity.

  • @muichiwa9603
    @muichiwa9603 Před 3 lety +3

    I'm an INFP
    I already love this video because it was posted on my birthday LOL

  • @Themexicat
    @Themexicat Před 3 lety +3

    I don't have much friends because I'm only friends with people that i know it is safe to share my thoughts with.But it is hard finding them in the first place if I have to make the first move.If I dont feel cofortable being myself with someone then I won't hang out with them. Im not going around trying to be friends with everyone I meet,if I trust them then I am willing to talk to them,and then I start to open out of my shell. and I will build big relationship with that person, giving the feeling that I like them.But really that person is just special to me and I know i can be comfortable with them .I feel like I could be myself and they feel that they could trust me. I have a few friends like those that I care for and hope to be close with them for my whole life.there is so much I want to put but I feel like I'm on a tangent so ill stop.
    Sorry if I don't make much sense I was just speaking straight from my mind.

    • @fsheik1127
      @fsheik1127 Před 3 lety +1

      I understand you. I never cared about making friends either. It’s very hard for me to let anyone in. I think it’s more practical to have a small amount of ppl who truly knows me than a bunch of ppl who knows me on the surface

  • @pascalelandry8630
    @pascalelandry8630 Před 2 lety

    This is the best description of INFP's I found so far! Thank you very much!

  • @user-hn7es7ku8d
    @user-hn7es7ku8d Před 2 lety +2

    As an INFP, it's so accurate that some of us are multilingual. I speak 7 languages.

    • @kittmarie8285
      @kittmarie8285 Před 2 lety +1

      Wow! I've wanted to speak at least a couple of other languages, but, alas, never did. Are you a musician? or have photographic memory? 7 is really a lot! Is it part of your career? Very cool regardless! :)

    • @user-hn7es7ku8d
      @user-hn7es7ku8d Před 2 lety

      @@kittmarie8285 No, I'm not a musician, nor do I have a photographic memory. I'm a 16 year old high school student. Ever since childhood I was always fascinated by how people spoke different languages and so my goal ever since was to at least speak up to 20 languages. How many do you speak?

  • @dafffodils
    @dafffodils Před 3 lety +3

    I'm an INFP, and I have a Healer. My Jesus, My Lord and Savior 🤍

    • @Selim_Osmanli
      @Selim_Osmanli Před 2 lety

      Well believe in whatever you like i am an ENFJ and i have ALLAH my lord my guider my helper and the most one I love in this whole exsisitance

    • @tocatoltec7591
      @tocatoltec7591 Před rokem

      @@Selim_OsmanliI'm INFP or INTP and me too

  • @puzzlepiece2502
    @puzzlepiece2502 Před 3 lety +4

    0:55 literally been doing that ever since I've somehow acquired friends, less so before

  • @areyouchoking1471
    @areyouchoking1471 Před 3 lety +7

    I become more productive when I'm in my hermit mode lol.

    • @VengefulPolititron
      @VengefulPolititron Před 3 lety

      warxch out. overproducing is a trap.
      slow down. and go to nature.

  • @sibs_n
    @sibs_n Před 3 lety +2

    this video made me feel so understood

  • @Angell_Lee
    @Angell_Lee Před 3 lety +5

    I'm an HSP and an INFP-T :)

    • @despres380
      @despres380 Před 3 lety

      me too, and we have the same name haha

    • @Angell_Lee
      @Angell_Lee Před 3 lety

      @@despres380 That tells something, sending you some good vibes from Canada xo

  • @persephone6896
    @persephone6896 Před 4 lety +7

    Beautiful, thanks :)

  • @adams01234
    @adams01234 Před rokem +1

    As being an INFP I love this comment section, and I find it much better than reading comments of people who have the same birthday as mine.
    I am gonna always check these comments❤
    I love you guys

  • @XxElJefe
    @XxElJefe Před 10 měsíci

    Relatable. Can know how people feel without a word spoken.

  • @atashakgem
    @atashakgem Před 4 lety +3

    Absolutely true about me!

  • @2minutes4life
    @2minutes4life Před 4 lety +5

    Awsome 3 minutes :)

  • @ninahermogino9818
    @ninahermogino9818 Před 3 lety +1

    Wow! This is sooo spot on!!!

  • @babyap2526
    @babyap2526 Před 4 měsíci

    That anger part he wasn’t gone say how we flash out so bad then come back like nothing happens 2:02 😂

  • @ZakH644
    @ZakH644 Před 3 lety +3

    As an INFP I hate how I attract toxic people.

    • @Selim_Osmanli
      @Selim_Osmanli Před 2 lety

      Sir, miss / just get rid of anyone who doesn't deserve you it is indeed hard to lose people but i promise it is way easier to just get rid of them rather than getting minipulated

    • @tocatoltec7591
      @tocatoltec7591 Před rokem

      stay away from those people , they are bad for you, leave them straight away

  • @w_7414
    @w_7414 Před 3 lety +8

    Well.. um.. am I still an INFP if I wanna be rich and have things? Like Channel or a big house and all that stuff? Also, is that selfish? And ofc, i dun really think that material is all there is. I just like to have stuff because the things I want are nice and like.. um..idk.

    • @bigchungus2990
      @bigchungus2990 Před 3 lety +1

      I mean, as an infp I think it is a little selfish because why have a big house for yourself, when it could house a family, while there are so many living on the streets... it just feels wrong I guess. the thousands you spend for a little bag you could change a homeless persons life. In my eyes there’s an appropriate limit to how much money should be spent on things. Like doc martins are usually 100$.. and to me are worth it because you can get YEARS out of those boots! 2000$ for a bag?? I dunno, that could pay someone’s monthly rent honestly, and for what, a designer name? If that name wasn’t on the bag.. would you even want it anymore? What’s the point?

    • @SatumainenOlento
      @SatumainenOlento Před 3 lety

      It is very INFP to surround yourself with a comfortable things!!! I am sure that you like to have all those toys for their usefulness sake more than of the status that they give to you. It is lovely to have your own home where to hermit properly with comfortable items 😀 And some of us INFP do also go to work and have normal jobs and "normal" life dreams. It is all in more of a spectrum that your basic personality shows in you.

    • @ninacohen5401
      @ninacohen5401 Před 2 lety

      I think culture is a big influence of whether we want material things, and desire for safety and security can also lead to materialism. I found that pursuing altruistic spiritual ideals or living a life of extreme unselfishness, puts me in unsafe situations.

  • @hedgehogenglish
    @hedgehogenglish Před 2 lety +1

    What a great personality type!

  • @eo7914
    @eo7914 Před 2 lety +2

    i remember how my ex messaged in the middle of the night not because he wants me back but because he was having sad thoughts and wants to open up to me. and hey here i am willing to listen not because i still want him but i really am willing to listen huhu despite of being not in really good terms haahahahah

  • @demarcomya
    @demarcomya Před 3 lety +3

    do yall paint, write poetry, and is fascinated with psychology?

    • @ninacohen5401
      @ninacohen5401 Před 2 lety

      Even tho I draw/paint, enjoy poetry, love the art of translation (french to English, biblical hebrew to English, etc) LIVE for finding/making metaphors, I still type as an ENFP. ???

    • @Selim_Osmanli
      @Selim_Osmanli Před 2 lety

      I write poetry in world hardest language Arabic wich I am great at it and I am also studying phycologey

  • @alexandra9944
    @alexandra9944 Před 4 lety +4

    Can one be a socially confident and very assertive INFP? Or am I a more chilled out, less loud ENFP? I can never choose between the 2 lmao
    Edit: could you please do a new ENFP one?? Your last ENFP video is from 4 years ago :(

    • @aboveaveragejane3126
      @aboveaveragejane3126 Před 4 lety +2

      Its definitely possible. Infp is a personality type, it's your default but it is possible to learn to be louder or more assertive or even more quiet.

    • @SatumainenOlento
      @SatumainenOlento Před 3 lety

      Yes! You have basic type, but that is not your destiny written in stars! You can learn new skills, become more extrovert (it is a spectrum anyway) and evolve! Which we are all about anyway. I am mistaken for extrovert in regularly. Because when I step out of my house, I start radiating 😊 Then I come back home and don't leave it before next week 😂

    • @ninacohen5401
      @ninacohen5401 Před 2 lety

      I also type myself as an ENFP, yet this video, describing INFP traits, fits me to a T. I think I'm an unusually introverted ENFP . Probably a deeper dive, comparing the dislikes/shadow side of both types, will bring clarity. Thanks for the comments and video.

  • @squidwardsdiary2776
    @squidwardsdiary2776 Před 2 lety +1

    I kind of hate the fact that I only have a few close relationships, like I feel really good in a big group of people that like me but just to nervous to ask the people I want. And it's true I am a dreamy romantic and my standards are a bit to high because I want this super ultra amazing romance lmaooo

  • @captkling
    @captkling Před 2 lety +2

    as an INFP I resonate with 99% of this but have grown to have a tolerate/hate relationship with my type. Married to a VERY ENTJ wife who sees the world in terms of efficiency, logic and productivity my INFP-ness is really more of a disability and I have abandoned or suppressed dreaming, creativity and emotions that bless (plague) the INFP in order to keep the plates of life spinning and those checklists (there's always checklists) mostly checked off.

    • @MathraMania
      @MathraMania Před 2 lety +1

      But please don't see it as a disability!

    • @moscaonthewall
      @moscaonthewall Před 2 lety +1

      I think this sounds ideal. You both compliment each other. You each have what the other lacks. Add some time to share/accomplish your INFP dreams with your wife to that checklist. One-sided relationships are not healthy and I'm sure she would appreciate some "organized chaos" every once in a while. Take care!

    • @tocatoltec7591
      @tocatoltec7591 Před rokem

      @@MathraMania people think it's a disability cuz people relate Infps to mental illnesses

  • @nicolek1017
    @nicolek1017 Před 3 lety +3

    Now teach us how to stop being one 😂

    • @Selim_Osmanli
      @Selim_Osmanli Před 2 lety

      Get to know some friends and value your mind over your emotions

    • @tocatoltec7591
      @tocatoltec7591 Před rokem

      Maybe stop thinking about your own emotions opinions and feelings and think about objective logic, subjective logic or other peoples feelings and opinions

  • @matusvlna3580
    @matusvlna3580 Před 4 lety +5

    Why do I hear all these nice things but when i connect them with myself i hear only "weak, weak, weak..."?

    • @HmLys
      @HmLys Před 3 lety +1

      Probably because you are an INFP-J and very judgemental towards yourself.
      Love yourself more.
      It needs to be learned.

    • @axdxwqwerty2514
      @axdxwqwerty2514 Před 3 lety

      I feel like expressing such a thing indicates the opposite. You are moving forward, on the way. Proud of you. Not kidding

  • @kookussy
    @kookussy Před 3 lety +1

    As an IFNP I feel like I need to make the world better but because my constant fear of people not understanding me i keep losing intrest.

  • @creatingpassions9897
    @creatingpassions9897 Před 3 lety

    Gratefulness Beautiful Joyfulness Magical Awareness ✨ 💛 Magical Miracles Beautiful Divine Beings ✨