How To NEVER Be Boring Again (10 Steps)
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- čas přidán 28. 06. 2024
- We all want to be interesting. To live a life that is fun, and enjoyable, and impactful. A life that makes other people think - “hey I wish I was as cool as that person”. But when it actually comes to living this life, we are held back by either our own mental blocks and limitations or our lack of the right social skills. And the result is a dull life and a boring personality.
But there is a road map to NEVER be boring again, and become a lot more interesting, and create a much more fulfilling life for yourself
That is exactly what I am sharing in this video.
Timestamps
00:00 Intro
00:54 Make your life interesting
12:21 Become interesting to others
18:30 Homework
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How to be more interesting:
CREATE AN INTERESTING WORLD
1. Cultivate Curiosity
- rapid experimentation
- read more
- ask more why questions
2. Be less self absorbed
- volunteer at NGOs
- be empathetic
3. Be open minded
- read more
- talk to more people
- listen to opposing views
4. Challenge yourself
- get our of your comfort zone
- pick up a new hobby/skill
- do what is good (hard things) for you
- change up your routine
5. Prioritise fun in life
- make time for hobbies
- find fun in boring
- gamify your work
BE INTERESTING TO OTHERS
1. Be present
- mindfulness practices
- remove distractions
- active listening
2. Focus on having fun
3. Art of conversation
- prep answers to common questions
- ask people questions about 'them'
- ask for advice
4. Voice your opinion
(Do it kindly, be unique)
5. Sense of humour
- make jokes
- appreciate other's humour
HOMEWORK
? Pick 3 things in your room and research on it.
? Challenge yourself to do something out of comfort zone.
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