Your Self-Control Does Not Rest on You
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- čas přidán 8. 09. 2024
- If you want your self-control to actually be honoring to God, you better learn how to do it in his power and not your own.
Find the full resource at: desiringgod.org/messages/you-can-say-no-to-porn/excerpts/your-self-control-does-not-rest-on-you.
I believe that self control is in part dependent on the believer's willingness to submit to the Holy Spirit (Walk in the Spirit); otherwise it would not be called self control at all. As we submit our will to God's will, He empowers us by His Spirit to do what would be otherwise difficult or impossible based on our own ability. You can see this principle in James 4:7.
My my, well said
Even better in Galatians 5:16-18
Well said
Well said. There is an action on the part of the believer, of some sort. Submission may be the best way to describe it. Without some form of "self" control, there would be no basis for a judgement for either the punishment of the unbeliever, nor the reward of the believer.
So we just have to decide and then we are empowered, I like it
"We don't hire God to produce the same things the world can produce." Woah. I LOVE this distinction so much. The Holy Spirit produces fruit in us to glorify Christ through us. He helps us grow in love that we may use this love to love Christ and the church and the world. He helps us grow in patience that we may patiently wait on the Lord and show the world our confidence in God's faithfulness while we wait. He helps us grow in self control that we might continue to choose Christ over all other notions of fulfillment, that the world may see our delight and satisfaction in Jesus alone and wonder at the genuineness of it.
It is not merely for our own productivity. But in keeping with the same thought - all things are for Him and to Him and about Him. Including the fruits the Holy Spirit grows in our lives.
Wow, Amen. Wonderfully put!
This is one of the best comments I’ve ever seen on CZcams
We cannot do anything that pleaseas God without the help of The Holy Spirit.
It's actually very, very simple to understand. As a Christian, we are empowered by the Spirit to exercise self-control, but we are NOT forced to. WE alone decide if we will yield to the Spirit, or not. If we (by faith) yield to the Spirit we will reap life, if we (thru unbelief) yield to the flesh we will reap corruption, the choice is 100% ours as Christians to make, that is why it is both a fruit AND a virtue.
You have been brainwashed with lies.
"The wheels on the bus go round and round.."
Justin Haddon Yet the bus isnt moving.
For the preaching of the cross is to them that perish foolishness; but unto us which are saved it is the power of God....
EpcotBob So your saying God moves the Bus?
Plus the Preachers dont realize the Foolishness they say.
To those who are saved. Saved from what exactly? Eternal Suffering? Another piece of non sense made by your ancient people.
As I was praying today.out of nowhere I heard the voice speaks to me to have self control .thank you lord
Abba Father, in agreement with this message in accordance with and loosening the promises of proverbs 25:28, galatians 5:23, 2 corinthians 6:14-18 I bind one to the spirit of self-control in my life, the lives of my family, friends, colleagues, neighbours, acquintances, the body of Christ and the lives of my enemies while binding to hell every lack of self-control, binding to hell being unequally yoked and having any common share with those lacking self-control, in the name and by the blood of Jesus Christ, amen and hallelujah!
What's born of the flesh belongs to the flesh and what's born of the Spirit, Spirit is. Apart from Him there is nothing we can do.
before i came to christ i believed in being respectful but on my own terms. i believed in patience and waiting for marriage. but after baptism it was just so much harder to maintain these things. i believe these things are of the spirit.
Dude i love JP
Yeah I love Jake Paul
@@garfield6028 😂😂
crazed unicorn 1911 bruh not Joseph Prince 🤣
Dude me too
My control over self comes from knowing what the bible says on each matter.
Whether its allowed or not,knowing that logical premises are behind these rules "logos" everything has reason in the bible.
excellent timing:D my biblestudy today was about the same passage
Clais The spirit is working :)
The Holy Spirit produces self-control that is not of this world so we can do all things to the glory of God. That is the difference between stoic (worldly) self-control and Christian self-control. 1 Corinthians 10:31 "Therefore, whether you eat or drink, or whatever you do, do ALL to the glory of God"
These are the things that truly inspire me to be a better person. I know that the one molding me into a masterpiece will perfect me even if it means he burns out the impurities in me like a sword being forged in a flame. I just need to allow him to make me better and be willing to go through this pain.
Thank God for this man. I learned a lot.
Careful fo what you learn, try every spirit with the Word of God, Holy Spirit will not make and can not make you do anything you do not want to i.e. self-control comes from the will - and God will not go against a persons will.
God loves you all and can help us through this virus!
Best statement I have heard on self control.
Amen~ without the secret place in which we are b4 His throne, pouring ourselves out to Him, He pours Himself into us! ❤ The ONLY way to become an "overcomer". Oh I love the truth and those who preach it! God bless John Piper, Paul Washer and yes, Mark Driscoll. We have all failed God in our work for Him. Mark did what's right and stepped down for a season until God restored him to his work and giftings again. God used Mark to help me understand how precious I am to Him (God). And what I was to accept in my marriage, and what I wasn't, during a time when most pastors were telling wives to be a door Mat for their spouse no matter how you are treated by them. Their is a time and a season for everything. One thing you can count on for sure~ Gods word us TRUTH and it proves itself over and over.
God bless you guys!
Thank you! I need God's blessings right now! May He bless you, too!
JP is so amazing thank you for your words what a beautiful gift🎁 this man has 💖God bless him and his family always 💝profound like always I love you man😘😘😘
Blessed beyond my expectations
Faith alone has led to many incorrect beliefs like this one. How can you preach to people that they have no control over themselves. That is disparaging the humans he made us to be.
One could logically conclude and blame the Holy Spirit if I ended up having an adulterous affair.
Do we have free will or not?
You know who else claims we don’t have free will? The atheists.
If we don’t have free will then Jesus wouldn’t say over and over things like:
Repent.
If you want to follow me, deny yourself, take up your cross and follow me.
If you love me obey my commandments.
Never does he say just believe in me and let the Holy Spirit do all the hard work of being righteous and grateful to God for our lives.
I know this man understands the Holy Spirit is needed for victory over sin but sometimes he just seems to forget who provides the power and just talks about how we must fight the fight.
Yes... It does... Its a command from The Lord-->Genesis 4:7 KJV - If thou doest well, shalt thou not be accepted? and if thou doest not well, sin lieth at the door. And unto thee shall be his desire, and thou shalt rule over him.
The Old Testament was "obey or die" because of the law. With the new covenant through Jesus Christ, we are not to trust our own hearts nor think too highly of ourselves. We want to obey the Lord out of love because we have been born again, not because we're trying to earn His forgiveness which is what makes people become religious.
@@kaboom9081 i kinda agree with you... and we surely cant earn our forgiveness, but at the end of the day trying to keep HIS commandments(notice i said" trying") is expected of us every one.
@@davidcrane6593 Agreed but remember always....Jesus willingly died a horrible death in your place to make you a free man from the law. The 10 commandments are there to show us how sinful we are. But God knows if we break just one we are condemned, so He sent His only Son to fulfill the ultimate sacrifice. If you believe Jesus took your past and FUTURE sins and nailed them to the Cross, you are a free man my friend. You don't lose your salvation based on performance. Please don't take away the power and majesty away from His sacrifice. Don't focus on your "trying to be good"...instead focus on how good the Lord is and REJOICE because you have been set free and you've been adopted by Him. Its not about keeping score, its about a relationship with the Lord himself.
Paul says this in Romans 7;
"What a wretched man I am! Who will rescue me from this body that is subject to death? Thanks be to God, who delivers me through Jesus Christ our Lord!"
"Therefore, there is now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus, because through Christ Jesus the law of the Spirit who gives life has set you free from the law of sin and death"
@@kaboom9081 yes.. I'm a sinner just like u.
@@davidcrane6593 a sinner 100% covered, justified, saved and bought for a very high price, the blood of Christ.
God bless.
Even some unbelievers have self control, I as a Christian should have it.
Real self control is doing God's will.
Living by faith for him.
What is self? If we are made in the image of God. Then self is supposed to be God's image.
Therefor his will.
Amen
how do i activate the holy spirit to control me??? im so confused
Faith in Him
Seek Him above everything else. But to even desire this must require a series of prayers beforehand.
I was caught in a myriads of sins, unable to obey God. I hated it too. So I just asked Him to change my heart and, if necessary, for Him to change the circumstances around me so that seeking Him would be the only reasonable option. In my case He did both and although it ain't pretty (horrible, atrophying chronic pain) it's definitely worth it. God bless
Also get into the word! If you find a good study Bible and spend a good amount of time every day putting away all other distractions and reading passages about the Holy Spirit and His power you will see it begin to transform you!
Laura. Love. You have to have a real love that you dont want to do what God dosent want you to do. If you dont have that self control then it means your love for God is not strong enough.
Let God have His Perfect Way.. a broken and contrite heart.. Jesus said, "blessed is the poor in spirit".. only Jesus can show you just how bankrupt your heart is.. once He does, dont try to improve it.. abide there.. then hang on to Christ for the ride of His life
The only way to find out if this true, ask God in the name of Jesus Christ, to reveal the spirit of truth to you, and submit yourself, to the will, of God Almighty Creator,!!!
Amen. Jesus is Lord 👑☝️
Hebrews 12:5-8
Where is the whole message?
Beautifully put !!
amen
Good message brother 👊👍. Also Jesus coming back soon repent and give God the glory.
I'd like to listen to the whole message. What is the sermon title?
Yeah, because I don't agree with this 4 min message as a whole. The Holy Spirit does not control me. It works and guides with my will but I must make changes and surrender many things to have self discipline (same topic).
So , we accepted Christ, because he made us accept him. Then, my friends this is not love. We have to choose to accept the gift of life. We don’t love our spouse because they made us love them, but we decided to love them.
Provided by once and for all sacrifice of atonement paid by our savior Jesus Christ. John 3:16-17.
The blood of the Christ of the new covenant secures for us Christians the working of Holy Spirit
It all begins with the will to do good!.
So then why is it called self-control?
More on this topic please!
We fail to look at the message of the Bible wholesomely.
God's charge against mankind is that he rebels, meaning that man can but chooses not to obey God hence guilty as charged.
"He came to his own but they did not acknowledge or receive him."
"Put to death the passions at work in you"
"Resist the devil and he will flee from you."
"When the gentiles who do not have the law do those things required by the law it shows that the requirements of the law are written in their hearts."
Israel had the law but refused to obey it. Surely we cannot say that God gave them laws that they couldn't obey.
So, I think Piper is stretching the text to fit into a calvinistic perspective.
How is stoicism different from the self control encouraged in scripture? He says that word is the same then says we cannot "hire God" for just the ordinary*(emphasis added) self control.
He is clearly speculating and going beyond what is written or what is the logical conclusion of the text(s).
According to Piper the self control of the Spirit "must" be different. There is no way God can work in us just ordinary self control-he is speculating.
The implication here is that God is charging mankind for a sin which he did not equip them with the ability to resist. This is accusing God of Sin.
This is a calvinistic doctrine which violates scripture.
Not only that, he says the self control of the spirit is different, but never states how it's different. I have no idea what he's trying to say here.
I don't think he's implying that God is charging mankind for a sin which he did not equip them with the ability to resist. I don't understand where you're getting that from.
@@JohnL9013It's a consequence/implication of saying that the self control of the Spirit must be different.
It amounts to absolving man of guilt & charging God with sin for God says that man is guilty but he did not equip him to resist.
God gave us the freedom to make decisions, he gave us temptation in order for us to use SELF control . The Lord gives NOTHING to help us.....UNLESS WE HAND OVER OURSELVES TO GOD. Then he gives us LESS power because he trusts we will walk with him.
But by God do we have to prove our worth.
The Lord is not weak, he wants sensitive Warriors who will give their all.
Not following peasants who are scared of their own shadows. He wants us strong, tough, gentle, forgiving and merciless but all full of mercy.
Why so many contradictions? He wants us to be human and lay it down before him, he'll not give one iota until he sees the whites of our eyes , the blisters on our fingers and the skin off of our knees.
Our Lord is mighty!!
Do not accept cowardice and expect your shitty sinful ways to be forgiven because you THINK you are a Christian who prays but then covets his neighbours wife time time again...
He wants us true and only the true get to the next round.
These verses are related to the point you are making.
Colossians 2:21-23 ESV
[21] "Do not handle, Do not taste, Do not touch" [22] (referring to things that all perish as they are used)-according to human precepts and teachings? [23] These have indeed an appearance of wisdom in promoting self-made religion and asceticism and severity to the body, but they are of no value in stopping the indulgence of the flesh.
We learn self control by God chastising us.
Hebrews 12:6-11 KJVS
[6] For whom the Lord loveth he chasteneth, and scourgeth every son whom he receiveth. [7] If ye endure chastening, God dealeth with you as with sons; for what son is he whom the father chasteneth not? [8] But if ye be without chastisement, whereof all are partakers, then are ye bastards, and not sons. [9] Furthermore we have had fathers of our flesh which corrected us , and we gave them reverence: shall we not much rather be in subjection unto the Father of spirits, and live? [10] For they verily for a few days chastened us after their own pleasure; but he for our profit, that we might be partakers of his holiness. [11] Now no chastening for the present seemeth to be joyous, but grievous: nevertheless afterward it yieldeth the peaceable fruit of righteousness unto them which are exercised thereby.
But along with being chastised is the washing of regeneration and renewal of the Holy Ghost that changes our heart towards God and men.
Mark 7:21-23 KJVS
[21] For from within, out of the heart of men, proceed evil thoughts, adulteries, fornications, murders, [22] Thefts, covetousness, wickedness, deceit, lasciviousness, an evil eye, blasphemy, pride, foolishness: [23] All these evil things come from within, and defile the man.
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So if a man doesn’t have self control when he gets mad etc... and breaks things curses me out and than asks me to forgive him and begs me not to leave him and to accept hum just the way he is. Is this man really saved?? Should I stay marry to someone like this? I live a hell at home and I’m very close to walk away.
Irina Quintero Whether you choose to continue to stay or leave the situation, you should forgive someone asking for forgiveness for their actions.
Matthew 18:21-35 KJV
[21] Then came Peter to him, and said, Lord, how oft shall my brother sin against me, and I forgive him? till seven times? [22] Jesus saith unto him, I say not unto thee, Until seven times: but, Until seventy times seven. [23] Therefore is the kingdom of heaven likened unto a certain king, which would take account of his servants. [24] And when he had begun to reckon, one was brought unto him, which owed him ten thousand talents. [25] But forasmuch as he had not to pay, his lord commanded him to be sold, and his wife, and children, and all that he had, and payment to be made. [26] The servant therefore fell down, and worshipped him, saying, Lord, have patience with me, and I will pay thee all. [27] Then the lord of that servant was moved with compassion, and loosed him, and forgave him the debt. [28] But the same servant went out, and found one of his fellowservants, which owed him an hundred pence: and he laid hands on him, and took him by the throat, saying, Pay me that thou owest. [29] And his fellowservant fell down at his feet, and besought him, saying, Have patience with me, and I will pay thee all. [30] And he would not: but went and cast him into prison, till he should pay the debt. [31] So when his fellowservants saw what was done, they were very sorry, and came and told unto their lord all that was done. [32] Then his lord, after that he had called him, said unto him, O thou wicked servant, I forgave thee all that debt, because thou desiredst me: [33] Shouldest not thou also have had compassion on thy fellowservant, even as I had pity on thee? [34] And his lord was wroth, and delivered him to the tormentors, till he should pay all that was due unto him. [35] So likewise shall my heavenly Father do also unto you, if ye from your hearts forgive not every one his brother their trespasses.
Dear Irena, I am so sorry. I believe 1 Corinthians 7 indicates you can separate and remain chaste. You need to be safe and your husband needs to repent. Keep praying for him and remain true to the marriage....but go somewhere where you feel safe until and if he is truly repentant.
Irina Quintero I am praying for you and your husband!
Irina Quintero Hi sorry to hear about that. Please stay as marriage is a life long commitment in God's eyes. He will give you the strength and deliver your husband if only you ask and seek him. God never fails and he makes all things beautiful in his time so just hold on and you can trust him with your marriage 😃
Irina Quintero, I was in a similar situation, but so very committed to staying with my husband no matter what! This article helped me a lot, gave me direction to think about, pray on, and act on in my own power as a wife ( bible.org/seriespage/11-characteristics-godly-marriage-1-peter-31-7 ).
Peter tells us that we are powerful as wives and our example can bring our husbands to true dedication to Jesus Christ. I believe it is true. My husband's outbursts are no more. He is in prayer constantly instead of trying to do things on his own. I am so very grateful for the change God has brought in him. Praise God! Thank you Jesus!
Praying for you and your husband too.
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How LIBERATING 😭😭😭
*Jesus died for our sins and was resurrected the third day:* “And thus God breaketh the bands of death, having gained the victory over death; giving the Son power to make intercession for the children of men . . . . For behold, he surely must die that salvation may come; yea, it behooveth him and becometh expedient that he dieth to bring to pass the resurrection of the dead that thereby men may be brought into the presence of the Lord.
“Yea, behold, this death bringeth to pass the resurrection and redeemeth all mankind from the first death-that spiritual death; for all mankind, by the fall of Adam being cut off from the presence of the Lord, are considered as dead, both as to things temporal and to things spiritual.
“But behold, the resurrection of Christ redeemeth mankind, yea, even all mankind, and bringeth them back into the presence of the Lord.
“Yea, and it bringeth to pass the condition of repentance that whosoever repenteth the same is not hewn down and cast into the fire; but whosoever repenteth not is hewn down and cast into the fire; and there cometh upon them again a spiritual death, yea, a second death, for they are cut off again as to things pertaining to righteousness.”
“Therefore repent ye, repent ye, lest by knowing these things and not doing them ye shall suffer yourselves to come under condemnation and ye are brought down unto this second death.”
“And because of the redemption of man, which came by Jesus Christ, they are brought back into the presence of the Lord; yea, this is wherein all men are redeemed, because the death of Christ bringeth to pass the resurrection, which bringeth to pass a redemption from an endless sleep, from which sleep all men shall be awakened by the power of God when the trump shall sound; and they shall come forth, both small and great, and all shall stand before his bar, being redeemed and loosed from this eternal band of death, which death is a temporal death.”
“He denieth none that come unto him, black and white, bond and free, male and female; and he remembereth the heathen; and all are alike unto God, both Jew and Gentile.”
“And if Christ had not risen from the dead, or have broken the bands of death that the grave should have no victory and that death should have no sting, there could have been no resurrection.
“But there is a resurrection, therefore, the grave hath no victory and the sting of death is swallowed up in Christ.
“He is the light and the life of the world; yea, a light that is endless that can never be darkened; yea, and also a life which is endless that there can be no more death.”
“And because of the way of deliverance of our God, the Holy One of Israel, this death, of which I have spoken, which is the temporal, shall deliver up its dead; which death is the grave.
“And this death of which I have spoken, which is the spiritual death, shall deliver up its dead; which spiritual death is hell; wherefore, death and hell must deliver up their dead, and hell must deliver up its captive spirits, and the grave must deliver up its captive bodies, and the bodies and the spirits of men will be restored one to the other; and it is by the power of the resurrection of the Holy One of Israel.
“O how great the plan of our God! For on the other hand, the paradise of God must deliver up the spirits of the righteous, and the grave deliver up the body of the righteous; and the spirit and the body is restored to itself again, and all men become incorruptible, and immortal, and they are living souls having a perfect knowledge, like unto us in the flesh save it be that our knowledge shall be perfect.
“Wherefore, we shall have a perfect knowledge of all our guilt, and our uncleanness, and our nakedness; and the righteous shall have a perfect knowledge of their enjoyment, and their righteousness, being clothed with purity, yea, even with the robe of righteousness.
“And it shall come to pass that when all men shall have passed from this first death unto life, insomuch as they have become immortal, they must appear before the judgment-seat of the Holy One of Israel; and then cometh the judgment, and then must they be judged according to the holy judgment of God.”
The last words of Moroni in the Book of Mormon are: “And now I bid unto all, farewell. I soon go to rest in the paradise of God, until my spirit and body shall again reunite and I am brought forth triumphant through the air to meet you before the pleasing bar of the great Jehovah, the Eternal Judge of both quick and dead.”
All these verses and more are in the Book of Mormon. The Book of Mormon truly is a testimony of Jesus Christ and has been brought forth by the power of God in these latter days. Anyone who believes these words from the Book of Mormon (and I know these words are true) should contact the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints to speak with the missionaries and find out for themselves that the gospel of Jesus Christ has been restored in these latter days.
ChristIsOurSavior Get behind me Satan.
Both your names are offensive.
Jolly Cooperation Do you get offended at the truth that Christ is King and you will bow to Him?
Every Knee Shall Bow Your name is offensive because it emplies Force.
It emplies that you have no choice.
By your Christian ways, it means Convert or burn in hell for all eternity for not believing in our ideology.
You do know that by the way you describe god and its power. You are following the biggest immoral, vile, and malicious entity out there. Sentencing those to eternal agony and suffering just because they don't believe in it or believe in another. Killing hundreds of millions via drowning because of the flooding and disease. Punishing ever single generation that has come after Adam and Eve because they eat the forbidden fruit. To which your God placed there intentionaly. For you entity to be so powerful and forgiving, but allows thousands of inocent women and children to die every single day. To send down ITS SON as a sacrafice. If your entity has a some great plan, then that plan mean Billions of inocent lives dying for no reason.
Lets not forget the fact that your Jesus was a Jew, yet you took the Jewish religion, turned into your own, and made up these stories about Hell to use it as a Fear tactic to deprive people of their lives and make them fear death.
There many things wrong with your Religion, Christianity is too brainwashed and full of fear to even accept that fact.
Jolly Cooperation It is not my fault you hate the truth. Yes it does imply force. Christ is your Creator and your King, and you will bow to Him along with your father Satan. There is no choice. I don't care if that offends you. Truth hurts.
I can clearly see you hate God. The One who gave you life, sustains your life this very second, and died in your place to save your life. You are evil and you will suffer the same fate as Satan if you continue in your rebellion.
*Christ is King, every knee will bow to Him and every tongue will confess He is Lord.* I'm sure that statement offends your father the devil as well.
This guy is wild lol
So all Christians that dont always have self control all the time are not saved because they dont have the holy spirit? That has to beca true statement if this guy is right. But obviously he's talking crap.
Ingrid Garcia
No you got that wrong. Self control is not the holy spirit how could it be called self control if you your self are not in control but the holy spirit is? Thats not what paul is saying and if you have something that shows you the greek look it up and you'll see what paul is saying.
As for me slamming "a sister in an abusive marriage" You are a fool to listen and beleive just her side of the story. This goes on far to much in the church today and only on the witness of two or three others can the truth be established and that after hearing both sides.
As I read all the stupid comments in so called christian advice to her it is hard to read such nonsense.
People telling her to divorce (sending her to hell by doing so), and not a word in reality. Women always make out that they are completly innocent in these situations but they know the constant insults and put downs, or the desire to be with another man so cause trouble to break off the relationship and run around making sure every one knows how her man shouted and did stuff but don't tell everyone how for days or weeks or months they deliberately built up the anger in him. Thats the reality of it. No one will get away with helping to ruin a marrage no matter if its a person giving unbiblical advice or a person in the marriage trying to make it fail or a man or woman being abusive. God will judge all.
Grow up and follow what your bible says not men or women that make rubbish up. The holy spirit will overpower your emotions but you have to submit and call out each time those emotions rise up and the person you are in the flesh never changes no matter how long you have been saved. So if you walk in the flesh you instantly return to that same nasty person.
Ingrid Garcia dont try that victim righteously virtue signalling with me it won't work
Ingrid Garcia also no one said a man hit them so now your just making stuff up because you lost the argument and once again putting a man down
Ingrid Garcia no i obey. Legalisim is making your own laws and rules up and throwing gods out like you do
Ingrid Garcia
As I said there is no grounds for divorce. You obviously did not read the comment I typed explaining that divorce was only allowed to break off an engagement not a marriage and that was what Moses invented not Jesus nor God.
This guy is so confusing always trying to sound so smart lol
Egotistical know-it-all is going to tell you what life's all about.
Realy john realy? All you have are claims but evidence betrays your claims. Self Control doesnt come from an outside imaginary being , you cant prove that such things exist john . Give me a reply , a mentally honest reply pastor once you have proof for your claim and ill be happy to see that you get to lineup with einstien nobel price. 😁
MORE SCRIPTURES FROM THIS RICK WARREN LOVER... [KJV-ONLY] !!!
REPENT! KJV Idolater! The Bible was not written in English!
And, again, I say, Repent!
"self" control doesn't rest on yourself?! Good grief.
Elwood M. Buel go deeper
Add this: I can do all things through Him (Christ) who strengthens me. Php 4:14
Elwood M. Buel ever heard, “it is no longer I that live but Christ in me.” ?
This is the sort of guy who makes me reject christianity
Jesus loves you so much man 🙏🏿💜
Dom, is it his message here, or something more personal about him that gets you to choose to reject the gospel?
@@FanofAslan it's his personality. But having said that, i'm not a christian type of guy. I grew up a catholic, and many of the christian people i encountered over the years i found bigoted, closed minded , and hypocritical. I was a buddhist monk for a while in a tibetan monastery. I am not a fan of people who think their path is the only path, and if not ; you're going to hell for all eternity. That really does not resonate with me. But this guy, i dunno!!! I'm a good reader of people , and there is a bad resonance going on
@@dommccaffry3802 Thank you for explaining. I'm going to try to address your thoughts.
Christians, me included, are all hypocrites; we champion the need to repent, to turn away from sin, yet we all still sin. However, a true Christian hates his sin and yearns to be rid of it. He regrets each mistake, each fall, even each deliberate indulgence, confesses it to God and thanks Him for forgiveness. He ought to do this without becoming critically judgemental of nor unloving to others.
Bigotry is an accusation thrown at Christians a lot these days. One person's bigotry and close-mindedness is another person's resolute mind. Today we are supposed to accept just about everything and everyone as fine; this is referred to as a virtue of tolerance. It's a question of re-drawing the line of sin; we can all agree that murder, rape, acts of terrorism and under-age sex are wrong; but God has drawn the line already; humans have subjectively shifted it to do with justification what they want to do: have sex out of wedlock, kill the unborn etc. The eating of the fruit in the Garden of Eden symbolised this: we want our own understanding of good and evil. I ask you: is a parent of a toddler bigoted for not allowing the youngster to get his own way all the time? Living without boundaries isn't freedom; it's chaos.
The gospel is beautifully simple yet amazingly profound. Christ offers everyone redemption. His acts of deep love, taking the rap for the things that we've all done wrong, enables us to walk out of the court freely. We are all guilty, but the debt is paid, the sentence is commuted, we are free to go and live, inspired by the love of our Creator God to walk in faith and love ourselves. An unloving Christian is not in touch with God.
John Piper has a tremendous zeal. He desperately wants for others to come to know the real God. Not every prescher, teacher or singer inspires me or any other Christian, and some are (we are warned) wolves in sheep's clothing. As a former Buddhist, I guess a more tranquil style would resonate better with you. I like Casa de Jesús, a gentle man who has simple but profound messages on CZcams about the love of God.
Is God in your imagination a loving God or an angry God? I think many see God as angry with them. Read the story told by Jesus of The Prodigal Son. There is the nature of God. Yes, for those who choose to stay away, His anger at their waywsrd living remains on them; but for those who return to their loving Heavenly Father, an eternal loving, gentle embrace awaits.
@@dommccaffry3802 "I am the way, the truth, and the life. No-one comes to the Father except by me." Challenging words. Jesus is claiming that there is only one way that makes us acceptable to God; to trust in Jesus. We often want to be accepted as we are living. "I'm good enough!" we think. "I deserve to go to heaven!" You might have lived as a "good person", rarely doing bad stuff and never doing the very bad stuff. So you might be thinking "Why should I answer to this God?! I'm good!" I have to tell you that you're not reaching the standard God set for heaven: a sinless life. Only one person did that. If you accept this one person as your saviour, God sees you as He sees him: perfect. Jesus is, if you like, your ticket to heaven. There is no other way. That news makes some hugely grateful; they humbly confess their wrongdoing and pledge to try, through God's help, to lead a better life. For many, their response is "Pah! One way? Nonsense. I'll do it my way." This is where the road divides, on this choice. We must all choose.
That heretic and his Calvinist lie.
That is right
The Way I don’t think that’s necessary here even though I don’t agree with Calvinism. I don’t really disagree with anything he said here; did you disagree on some points?
Amen