30 Truths I Know at 30 But Wish I Knew at 20

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  • čas přidán 9. 06. 2024
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    00:00 Intro
    00:08 It is far more fun to be the person being discussed than the other way around
    00:22 Stop complaining
    00:33 You get what you pay for
    00:49 Don't take things personally
    00:58 Work in days not weeks
    01:11 Outwork your imposter syndrome
    01:27 You playing small doesn't benefit anyone
    01:39 Success is personal
    01:59 Have regular check-ins
    02:19 Getting to work early isn't going to get you promoted
    02:31 Fail fast and Fail forward
    02:47 Don't expect other people to do your work
    03:06 It is never too late to start something new
    03:28 Define what you want
    03:40 Do the thing that you need to do to get what you want
    04:48 There is no such thing as overnight success
    05:06 Don't take advice from someone who hasn't done what you are trying to do
    05:17 Other people are rarely your competition
    05:29 Mornings are important
    05:43 Focus on one thing at a time
    05:56 Don't rush to find your niche
    06:13 No one is coming to save you
    06:26 Pick your battle with your relationships
    06:43 Cut out anyone who belittles you
    07:00 Never keep a tally
    07:12 Find something to occupy yourself with
    07:29 There is no need to stay late "just because"
    07:47 Don't expect other people to read your mind
    07:57 Make hitting rock bottom a good thing
    08:09 Learn to find joy in working out
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Komentáře • 282

  • @nischa
    @nischa  Před 2 měsíci +33

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    • @kowkoww7541
      @kowkoww7541 Před 2 měsíci +1

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      @titaniumffclub9122 Před 2 měsíci

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    • @Naksu..
      @Naksu.. Před měsícem +1

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    • @kowkoww7541
      @kowkoww7541 Před měsícem

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    • @pavan9620
      @pavan9620 Před 29 dny

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  • @arnabchatterjee694
    @arnabchatterjee694 Před 2 měsíci +282

    1. It is far more fun to be the person being discussed than the other way around
    2. Stop complaining
    3. You get what you pay for
    4. Don't take things personally
    5. Work in days not weeks
    6. Outwork your imposter syndrome
    7. You playing small doesn't benefit anyone
    8. Success is personal
    9. Have regular check-ins
    10.Getting into work early isn't going to get you promoted
    11. Fail fast and Fail forward
    12. Don't expect other people to do your work
    13. It is never too late to start something new
    14. Define what you want
    15. Do the thing that you need to do to get what you want
    16. There is no such thing as overnight success
    17. Don 't take advice from someone who hasn' t done what you are trying to do
    18. Other people are rarely your competition
    19. Mornings are important
    20. Focus on one thing at a time
    21. Don't rush to find your niche
    22. No one is coming to save you
    23. Pick your battle with your relationships
    24. Cut out anyone who belittles you
    25. Never keep a tally
    26. Find something to occupy yourself with
    27. They is no need to stay late "just because"
    28. Don't expect other people to read your mind
    29. Make hitting rock bottom a good thing
    30. Learn to find joy in working out

  • @millie9814
    @millie9814 Před 2 měsíci +128

    I love these!! I’m 25 and I already have regrets, the main one is how much time I spent trying to help people who didn’t want my help, instead of helping me!

    • @potentialsomebody2615
      @potentialsomebody2615 Před 2 měsíci +7

      You eventually learn friendships are mutually beneficial as we contribute to each other's growth,we learn from one another and progress forward so rather take the good than bad . . .

    • @k3zani265
      @k3zani265 Před 2 měsíci +2

      I'M 25 TOOOO

    • @rocker1631
      @rocker1631 Před 2 měsíci +1

      💯same situation

    • @millie9814
      @millie9814 Před 2 měsíci

      @@potentialsomebody2615 your point of view is lovely, but I learned that certain friendships are only harmful

    • @moonbun690
      @moonbun690 Před 2 měsíci +2

      Hi 25 from another 25!

  • @erikachiao3704
    @erikachiao3704 Před 2 měsíci +103

    "No one is coming to save you," I agree completely with this statement. Thank you for your video. As always you do an amazing job!!!

    • @can1687
      @can1687 Před 2 měsíci +1

      I saved my self. Could not end University. But found a job. Paid all my debts back. For 3 years i almost did buy nothing for myself, build a emergency fund. Did not use it. Found a way to keep my expensives low. And i was on holiday last year.
      My boyfriend helped me. We cooked together and helped esch other

    • @kh884488
      @kh884488 Před 2 měsíci

      There is a great, very short poem by Stephen Crane on this topic:
      A Man Said to the Universe
      A man said to the universe:
      "Sir, I exist!"
      "However," replied the universe,
      "The fact has not created in me a sense of Obligation."

  • @_rohitbagde_
    @_rohitbagde_ Před 2 měsíci +144

    40 is the new 30
    30 is the new 20
    Thank you nischa for the financial insights!
    I follow all your suggestions and being from an accounting background helps me understand it better!!

    • @amalia4519
      @amalia4519 Před 2 měsíci +16

      20 is the new 10
      10 is the new non born.
      🎉

    • @ssc3360
      @ssc3360 Před 2 měsíci +8

      No it's not blud, 30 is 30 and 40 is 40.

    • @jeevansingh4353
      @jeevansingh4353 Před 2 měsíci

      This could not be further from the truth, your 20s are the most defining decade of your life - I suggest you read Meg Jay's book on this. Your 20s matter and you must make the most of the years you cannot afford to miss, because in all aspects; work, love, the brain and the body; 80% of life's most signifcant moments happen before the age of 35. Consequential moments slow down, 30 is NOT the new 20

    • @WaveManMike
      @WaveManMike Před 2 měsíci +1

      I’m 25 now, never did I imagine I would still feel so young 😂 I’m in better shape than I was as a teen.

    • @amalia4519
      @amalia4519 Před 2 měsíci +1

      @@WaveManMike I'm 40 and I'm feeling greater than ever, my mind and thoughts are in a much better place.♥️

  • @kevinbrook7033
    @kevinbrook7033 Před 2 měsíci +53

    Bit off topic, but I love the way that you record your videos, the lighting, mood, colour tones, minimalist but interesting aesthetics. You do a really superb job with presentation!

  • @sirikolanu
    @sirikolanu Před 2 měsíci +39

    These are very important reminders.
    You playing small doesn't serve anyone hits home. It is a people pleasing tendency which will eventually make people walk all over you. This point connects to the 24th point mentioned. Once you realise and grow as a person, cut off people who try to belittle you.

  • @als7132
    @als7132 Před 2 měsíci +18

    I am in my early 70’s. Nischa’s Truths applies for all ages. Good job Nischa‼️

  • @ehimareadedoyin3683
    @ehimareadedoyin3683 Před 2 měsíci +9

    You are literally one of the most beautiful people that exist. Thanks for this Nischa 🤗. I'll be turning 30 next year and like I can't even believe it. I've also learnt so much that I'll be sharing with people.

  • @ezisbertakachiungo7043
    @ezisbertakachiungo7043 Před 2 měsíci +8

    I truly appreciate how fast and straight to the point these were, fantastic work, thanks! 😊

  • @3xAudio
    @3xAudio Před 2 měsíci +16

    I remember the first time someone told me that people care much more about themselves than they do about you was very freeing

  • @ttmoore8750
    @ttmoore8750 Před 2 měsíci +11

    I'm 27 and realising certain things about life thank you for these videos. I know that I need to be the person to ask myself the hard questions.

  • @corinned7528
    @corinned7528 Před 2 měsíci +2

    1 Million d'abonnés ! Bravo Nischa ! C'est le juste fruit de la qualité de vos vidéos.

  • @kristinapaxton9686
    @kristinapaxton9686 Před 2 měsíci +6

    Thank you Nischa. I'm trying to figure out whether to work abroad or study here in the U.K. This is really helpful. Also it's lovely to see more British content creators. CZcams is saturated with content that tends to be geared only towards America & the financial lifestyle & system there. Keep it up X

  • @senatemona5402
    @senatemona5402 Před 2 měsíci

    What a treasure of a post. As someone in thier mid 30s, absolutely everything here is relatable. Thank you, I am book marking and sharing with everyone

  • @snwyn
    @snwyn Před 2 měsíci +2

    I respect you more for going straight to the point, no long intro
    You simply thanked your sponsor and started the video, thank you so much

  • @jeffandsherriefranzwa8970
    @jeffandsherriefranzwa8970 Před 2 měsíci +9

    Good job, Nischa. On #3, I generally agree, but there are exceptions. Today I wore a business suit which new, would cost at least $200, but I bought at Goodwill for $15. I wore shoes that would be $100 new, but $12. And a dress shirt which would be $50 new, but $6. These are hard to find, but are out there with some patient searching.

  • @PeteMatthew
    @PeteMatthew Před 2 měsíci +3

    Congrats on 1m subs, Nischa - you are an inspiration!

  • @deepapatel2374
    @deepapatel2374 Před 2 měsíci

    I deeply appreciate the presence of this CZcams channel for its unparalleled authenticity and the sincere, genuine content it delivers.

  • @LorenzoSenzaniOfficial
    @LorenzoSenzaniOfficial Před 2 měsíci

    I’m truly inspired by this video in order to reach my finance goals as much as I can. Thanks Nischa!

  • @user-xe3yd7fn3c
    @user-xe3yd7fn3c Před 2 měsíci +2

    Thank you so much! Everything you’ve said is invaluable advice!

  • @meoe00n
    @meoe00n Před 2 měsíci

    gosh to have an mindset and aura like yours, hope grow into my thirties with a attitude like you ma’am.

  • @user-se4kd1vz5v
    @user-se4kd1vz5v Před 2 měsíci +2

    Well done on a million subs, you deserve it!

  • @opietwoep1247
    @opietwoep1247 Před 2 měsíci +4

    Congrats on reaching 1M!!

  • @user-st2xb1dd4g
    @user-st2xb1dd4g Před 2 měsíci +2

    Love the content of this video! , thank you Nischa, will definitely listen to it again.

  • @jackiphone3g
    @jackiphone3g Před 2 měsíci

    Very good content, and one of the very best way to insert sponsors. Completely seamless integration of the product inside the narrative. Great job.

  • @Captain_Cool_007
    @Captain_Cool_007 Před měsícem +2

    Awesome Nischa Thanks for all the golden words !!

  • @potentialsomebody2615
    @potentialsomebody2615 Před 2 měsíci +2

    Eye opening and fruitful . . . When you navigate life's challenges and create your own path based on experiences so hopefully other's have awareness . . . 💐

  • @elab4187
    @elab4187 Před 2 měsíci +2

    Love the authenticity

  • @manuelnovella39
    @manuelnovella39 Před 2 měsíci

    This was great! Great in content, great in format, great in execution! Congrats, Nischa 🎉

  • @carolquezada30609
    @carolquezada30609 Před 2 měsíci +2

    Wow, Nischa! You have 1M subscribers now! Congratulations! Please keep posting videos. I love your contents! Very helpful! I always share your videos to my daughter and my family! 👏🎉😊❤️🤗👍

  • @martywilliard
    @martywilliard Před 2 měsíci +2

    Nischa - outstanding as always

  • @salmanuel4053
    @salmanuel4053 Před 2 měsíci +8

    "Outwork your imposter syndrome." Similarly, extreme effort can overcome depressive self-doubts. Good concepts. Subscribed!

  • @peterlloydworld
    @peterlloydworld Před 2 měsíci +2

    Firstly, congrats on hitting 1M subs 2nd great simply to process content. 🙏🏾

  • @PropertyReview
    @PropertyReview Před 2 měsíci +3

    Great content watching since you started!

  • @personalfinanceabundance
    @personalfinanceabundance Před 2 měsíci +2

    Such an awesome video and great insights, Nischa, right up there with Mark Manson's video on 40 lessons.

  • @DeclanHiggins-YoutubeChannel
    @DeclanHiggins-YoutubeChannel Před 2 měsíci +2

    Congratulations on reaching 1M Subscribers Nisha well done 🙂

  • @eduardoribas7733
    @eduardoribas7733 Před 2 měsíci +1

    Even though this video's coming from a business/financial advice channel, this is actually great and valuable life advice. Everyone should watch this video at least once in their lifetime

  • @thomaskingaby4407
    @thomaskingaby4407 Před 2 měsíci

    Thanks Nischa! Just what i needed today. Greetz from the Holland

  • @13ankur
    @13ankur Před 2 měsíci +2

    Love you Nischa!!!

  • @DrSamreenAshraf
    @DrSamreenAshraf Před 2 měsíci +2

    Being a small part-time youtuber, I was super happy to see that under YT analytics, my video was suggested along with Nischa's video🤩 Small joys of life 😀

  • @aniopara
    @aniopara Před 2 měsíci +1

    Nice one. You have given me more than I expected. Thank you so much.

  • @quintenquet
    @quintenquet Před 2 měsíci

    So much value. Thank you!

  • @ComradeBozzey
    @ComradeBozzey Před 2 měsíci +2

    Fantastic video so many valid and simple points I can apply to everyday life 👍

  • @thetrueproductivity
    @thetrueproductivity Před 2 měsíci +6

    Nischa ! Great work ! (Happy to 1st comment) I just created notion page to collect my life lessons at 21, this is spot on ! LY

    • @user-gx8bc6ry3y
      @user-gx8bc6ry3y Před 2 měsíci

      tu kyon yahan aaya hai hum sab ko pata hai bhai...hila le aur... nikaal ..chal...chal

  • @zenakaur9947
    @zenakaur9947 Před 2 měsíci +1

    Been waiting for your video❤

  • @fortuneeeeeeeeeee5220
    @fortuneeeeeeeeeee5220 Před 2 měsíci +3

    Incredible content. Thank you.. Keep it up 🎉

  • @user-ye7sg7gn3u
    @user-ye7sg7gn3u Před 2 měsíci

    You are good adviser I respect people like you

  • @billiondollarbella
    @billiondollarbella Před 2 měsíci

    Focusing on value makes you indispensable, highly agree!

  • @coulirunning
    @coulirunning Před 2 měsíci +12

    Hi, you changed my life. I have been watching your videos for 10 months and I have organize my finances in a way I never expected doing. Saved a very good amount so far. Thanks ❤

  • @afifikhwan6403
    @afifikhwan6403 Před 2 měsíci +2

    Another thing that I learnt is you can't save/help someone if the person doesn't want to help themselves. They are the one that need to put effort to improves their life.

  • @PatriciaAppelquist
    @PatriciaAppelquist Před 2 měsíci

    Thanks for sharing this and the whole get into work early is TRUTH!!!!! Literally Me the person who arrived early and stayed late !

  • @2pac1307
    @2pac1307 Před měsícem

    You have a really crisp voice, I love that!!!!!

  • @WeBeClubbin
    @WeBeClubbin Před 2 měsíci

    Solid advice. Thank you

  • @CL-ut6uu
    @CL-ut6uu Před 2 měsíci +1

    very useful, and congrats on the 1M subscribers!!!!!!

  • @khari83637
    @khari83637 Před 2 měsíci +4

    Can you do a video on finances in marriage? Also would you marry for money - assuming all things are relatively well in relationship? Lastly money and dating? would be great to hear your take

  • @mayanksharma6622
    @mayanksharma6622 Před měsícem

    Really glad that I subscribed to this channel

  • @FMJ777
    @FMJ777 Před 2 měsíci +4

    Congrats on 1m 😎 🔥

  • @Ashleycreates_content
    @Ashleycreates_content Před 2 měsíci

    Been following you for a while but damn you're spitting in this video BARS after BARS!

  • @djboombee1722
    @djboombee1722 Před 2 měsíci

    Wow! Great video & info, bless you 🙏🏾 💯🙌🏾

  • @M896
    @M896 Před 2 měsíci +2

    Model looks explaining finances, a winning combo!

  • @inkap5824
    @inkap5824 Před 2 měsíci

    I made notes- to each of your tip, 3 action points to take for me personally. Gold! Btw approaching my 40’s very soon 😅

  • @adorimonroe1
    @adorimonroe1 Před 2 měsíci

    22 is a conversation I had recently with my nana. She was offering to help me out of a financial situation that I got myself into but I had already found a solution. She has limited income as well and I needed the lesson.

  • @scinopad
    @scinopad Před 2 měsíci +2

    Go ahead more and more, Good luck🤩

  • @coachzandi7990
    @coachzandi7990 Před 2 měsíci +2

    That was a geat video with good tips. Thanks for the sharing :)

  • @daniellefournier978
    @daniellefournier978 Před měsícem +2

    Aside a channel about financial tips, you can also have a channel about beauty tips. You are very good looking. Woman here.

  • @Kbarboza94
    @Kbarboza94 Před 2 měsíci

    Gurl you are snatched!!

  • @Fuadstar55
    @Fuadstar55 Před měsícem

    Great advises! Thanks for sharing

  • @pointdex007
    @pointdex007 Před měsícem

    Great tips! Loved this!

  • @suntharrajan3216
    @suntharrajan3216 Před 2 měsíci

    This is an excellent video. Thank you

  • @khushijatarya11
    @khushijatarya11 Před 2 měsíci

    Dear I'm really proud that I have u as my mentor..... I hardly have people that got my mindset .... But I really include u in "5 people" who surround me .... And I'm proud that I have a person whom I genuinely admire and learn from ..... Thanks UNIVERSE FOR GIVING ME A VERY NICE MENTOR.....❤ U UNIVERSE :D

  • @awantamta
    @awantamta Před 2 měsíci

    Great pearls of wisdom

  • @SilverHawk214
    @SilverHawk214 Před 2 měsíci

    I wasn't ready to be called out so hard with number 2 on your list. I don't usually complain but I did yesterday about something that is giving me a lot of anxiety but I need to take action anyway despite the anxiety.

  • @overloadM
    @overloadM Před 2 měsíci

    Great advise!

  • @thecode_red1825
    @thecode_red1825 Před měsícem

    This video is gold ⭐️⭐️

  • @liam_harman
    @liam_harman Před 2 měsíci

    Great video! Thanks

  • @quattropower34
    @quattropower34 Před 2 měsíci

    Wow all amazing advice. Lessons for all.

  • @SveGuacamole
    @SveGuacamole Před měsícem +2

    I am 43 and can say it all still makes sense so hurry up to benefit frome the tips 🏝☀️🥂

  • @veesvoyages
    @veesvoyages Před 2 měsíci

    Great advice!

  • @ronnysvelazquez9848
    @ronnysvelazquez9848 Před 2 měsíci

    thank you. very insightful

  • @veronicavids
    @veronicavids Před 2 měsíci

    #2 has been a huge pet peeve of mine. I get annoyed when people act like they don't have a choice to change their situation when they absolutely do

  • @YawJnr
    @YawJnr Před 2 měsíci

    Wow
    Your ideas are super special

  • @MathieuDeVinois
    @MathieuDeVinois Před 2 měsíci +2

    There is basically only one thing I wanted to know. And that’s stopping worrying and overthinking and start to have fun. I was pushed into legal problems in my middle teens resulting in some expensive trials agains my father. Basically all divorce arguments fought against me. I went into huge debts and the problems coming from them. It took a long time and a lot of energy to get out. I made mistakes but I don’t see how I should have known better. Some mistakes I made on purpose. Kind of choosing between two mistakes hoping the chosen one is the smaller mistake. - I learned a lot. But I never learned how to enjoy live. How to have fun. And now? I start learning to do that. But my friends got „old“ and have different life’s. All is about children, paying rent and their jobs. I am like others in their 20ies. First time in my life having control over my money. Having money to spend. I see the big bright future and want to have fun. Just, I don’t know how to do that and I don’t have someone around me who can teach me XD.

  • @anniestacie
    @anniestacie Před 2 měsíci

    Wonderful tips for life.

  • @dalac_93
    @dalac_93 Před 2 měsíci

    I’m struggling with overthinking. I actually think it’s a sickness. Thanks for the advice!

  • @hunterandchavy
    @hunterandchavy Před 2 měsíci +1

    Nischa keeps going right after hitting 1 million subscribers. So happy for you. Imposter syndrome is real… I always wonder what if my friends found out that I am a CZcamsr. They probably poke fun and then would care less 😏

  • @synchron9019
    @synchron9019 Před 2 měsíci +12

    My girlfriend saved me.

  • @shawnhazel4110
    @shawnhazel4110 Před 2 měsíci

    Spot on 🏆

  • @moitse_
    @moitse_ Před 2 měsíci +2

    And cheers to 1 Million subbies😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍🎉

  • @Aercadian
    @Aercadian Před měsícem

    Wise words, no bullshit

  • @padmakumar3803
    @padmakumar3803 Před 2 měsíci

    Good job Nischa

  • @mightwing006
    @mightwing006 Před měsícem

    I'm 28 and most of my 20s just got wasted because of struggle and failure. I hope I understand things now so that my 30s can be fulfilling.

  • @jonasbauer3942
    @jonasbauer3942 Před 2 měsíci +2

    Tack!

  • @Maazyazdani1
    @Maazyazdani1 Před 2 měsíci +2

    Life is a sine curve. It's very hard to stay at the top all the time. Be patient and content as well as challenge the present.

  • @marketacomorkova9944
    @marketacomorkova9944 Před 2 měsíci

    so good!

  • @anishkabra4309
    @anishkabra4309 Před 2 měsíci

    "Take risk, take big swings" 👍👍👍

  • @markprothero2666
    @markprothero2666 Před měsícem

    That’s info dense. I’m going to have to write it down and revisit it a few times lol

  • @yogeshraikwar7749
    @yogeshraikwar7749 Před 2 měsíci

    Wow that is so helpful

  • @parthpandya99
    @parthpandya99 Před 2 měsíci

    thank you nischa

  • @MoneySense.
    @MoneySense. Před 2 měsíci

    In my late 20's was searching and seeking for knowledge about investment and how to go about it.
    I was seeking books and information, visited investment houses to seek knowledge and my goal was financial freedom and currently, I feel comfortable and pushing for more now in my 40's