Good Men LOVE These 3 Feminine Traits In A WOMAN

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    3 FEMININE Traits You NEED To Find A GOOD Man!...I don't want you to be unattractive to men and in this relationship advice, I will be explaining the feminine traits and feminine qualities men love. I want you to understand men better and be aware that feminine energy is very important. I will explain how to be feminine and the best ways to use your feminine energy when you are dating or while you’re in a relationship.
    I want you to understand that divine feminine energy is very powerful and once you understand men and be able to know how to be feminine then you will start to see improvement in your dating and relationships overall. Be sure to embrace the feminine traits that I share in this video so that you can improve the overall quality of your life.
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  • @MeetStephanSpeaks
    @MeetStephanSpeaks  Před 5 měsíci +10

    ❤ Join my SPECIAL coaching program here 👉 www.receivingmyblessings.com - so many women are experiencing AMAZING results!

    • @mooreforever2560
      @mooreforever2560 Před 5 měsíci

      Hi Stephan. Happy New Year to you! I’ve been with my husband for 26 years. Throughout our entire relationship I’ve struggled with trust issues. He’s cheated on me before and has always been a quote on quote a ladies man. I try to express the way I feel and the issues that bother me but he always tells me that’s my problem. It has nothing to do with him and it’s my own insecurities. I do have very weak moments when I accuse him of things he may not be doing but don’t think it’s right for him to it’s my problem or is it?

  • @cathya1645
    @cathya1645 Před 5 měsíci +95

    I could never express myself safely in my marriage. I always felt judged. My partner now appreciates that I express myself and appreciates my point of view. A healthy relationship is beautiful. I have no issues submitting to my man. He submits to God first which is the correct order. When you’re with the right man, you will have no problem submitting to him. Thanks for your wisdom, Stephan. 🙏🏾❤️🙏🏾

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  Před 5 měsíci +3

      I'm happy this has been helpful to you. Don't forget to share so that others can receive love, healing, and clarity ❤ 🙏

  • @joyricherson4570
    @joyricherson4570 Před 5 měsíci +65

    That's was the first thing my honey said to me. "I love that you tell me what's on your mind." I just stared at him for a minute because all other guys in my life complained about it. ❤❤😊😊

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  Před 5 měsíci +1

      Thank you for sharing your experience! Hopefully, it will help others learn from it. I appreciate that 🙏

  • @KP_FruitsoftheSpirit
    @KP_FruitsoftheSpirit Před 5 měsíci +77

    Honor is the seed, but submission is fruit. Submission is an inner transition from resistance. it's not about authority or obedience but about true strength and devotions in a loving and respectful relationship( set the table and eat)❣️

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  Před 5 měsíci +4

      Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback 🙏

    • @akziq
      @akziq Před 5 měsíci +2

      This is a word!!!! A proverb! Yesss❤💯

    • @KP_FruitsoftheSpirit
      @KP_FruitsoftheSpirit Před 5 měsíci +4

      @@akziq ❤️🙏🏼

    • @queenconscious2989
      @queenconscious2989 Před 5 měsíci +1

      Yess!! I first heard that quote about submission being the fruit from RC Blake's❤ sooo powerful!

  • @angelaheath4328
    @angelaheath4328 Před 5 měsíci +40

    So sir, when are you going to create a dating app for your listeners so like minded individuals can find each other a little easier. Lol I have been listening to you for about 2 years now and love everything you put out. Thanks for everything you do!

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  Před 5 měsíci +2

      My pleasure ❤️

    • @Heyu7her3
      @Heyu7her3 Před 5 měsíci

      90% of those who engage are women. But if that's your preference, then you'd have great pickings!

  • @user-bi4hf6vq1d
    @user-bi4hf6vq1d Před 5 měsíci +13

    Mutual Respect is needed to feel safe in submission within relationship! Both men and women need to be emotionally healthy and healed, having done the self work needed for a good relationship. Then one can feel safe. We are all works in progress, and the polarity of feminine and masculine energy works when Trust is present. Support and Trust are two of the sexiest traits in a man!! Amen 🤩😁😅

  • @nancybash1814
    @nancybash1814 Před 5 měsíci +27

    Steph, the issue isn’t necessarily trusting a man to lead. It’s men who think that manhood means gender therefore we shall innately submit, when in most cases they don’t even even have direction or on the edge of cliff(aka hold me down).
    A woman not submitting to a man is her intuition seeing something she can’t put a finger on, with time it shows.
    I am speaking from experience watching how I myself react to different men and their “leadership”

  • @Missnoemit
    @Missnoemit Před 5 měsíci +4

    Here to listen! Thankful for your videos! 💜🙏

  • @ricardajames5769
    @ricardajames5769 Před 5 měsíci +2

    Thank you Stephan! Blessings for a healthy and prosperous New Year 🙏 ❤🎉

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  Před 5 měsíci

      ❤ 🙂 Thank you very much, and may God bless you as well 🙏

  • @rhondaburnett350
    @rhondaburnett350 Před 5 měsíci +2

    Thank you. I think you did a wonderful job explaining these traits for women in relationships and dispelling negative ideas associated with submissivenesses. Happy New Year!

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  Před 5 měsíci

      Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️

  • @tiffi271
    @tiffi271 Před 5 měsíci +2

    Thank you for this video. I was starting to feel like I was the problem when I would be direct talk about things that I needed and get ignored. I feel really sad things aren’t working and I’m scared to move on however I can’t stay any longer without my needs being met. I’m hoping we can be friends if possible and rn I’m pushing myself to have the courage to permanently close that door.

  • @ms.evegene
    @ms.evegene Před 5 měsíci +5

    If he's not putting Yah 1st, I'm good. The dating pool is a cesspool. I'm not even ever gonna try again. Been single and abstinent for so long I am very comfortable. I do hope whatever Black women or man that wants a relationship, finds it. Put God 1st please. Amen amen

  • @Candacebrookedeutsch
    @Candacebrookedeutsch Před 5 měsíci +18

    When we submit, we are recharging our man. Pouring into him what’s been drained from him all day working his butt off for us. When we are devoted, loyal, nurturing, supportive, appreciative and respectful, that man will do anything for you. He will protect, provide and love you like a boss! He may be in control but us as women are in charge.

  • @sacampbr1
    @sacampbr1 Před 5 měsíci +6

    Interesting video and list. Thank you for your honest insight!🙏🏾

  • @pamelaseegars3970
    @pamelaseegars3970 Před 5 měsíci +3

    Happy New Year Stephan Thank You for Sharing

  • @marylyndaobioha
    @marylyndaobioha Před 5 měsíci +5

    Thank you so much for this message, Sir.

  • @claraamoaning5265
    @claraamoaning5265 Před 5 měsíci +2

    Thank you very much sir for this educative video...Happy New year to you and your family 🎉🎉🎉

  • @Petra.80
    @Petra.80 Před 5 měsíci +32

    Submission is a very feminine trait. I believe in order in a relationship and there is always a breakdown in a family when that is lacking! I totally embrace that 💯

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  Před 5 měsíci +2

      Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback 🙏

    • @RealSyn
      @RealSyn Před 5 měsíci +4

      My boyfriend and I had amazing chemistry from day one. And everything Stephen said in this video, was true. Because I felt comfortable she safe with him, my feminity showed itself more and he embraced it. He became more protective and caring. As I submitted and allowed him to lead as a man. Our relationship grew almost instantly. He opened up to me. Our conversations got deeper and we grow closer. He says 'I understand him' because I was not judgmental of things he's done in his previous relationships.

    • @Heyu7her3
      @Heyu7her3 Před 5 měsíci

      Submission is for both partners to one another. Even the pilot submits to the co-pilot when it's their turn to fly the plane.

    • @Petra.80
      @Petra.80 Před 5 měsíci

      @@Heyu7her3 Absolutely. It takes two to tango!

  • @DPeeva
    @DPeeva Před 5 měsíci

    Hey, Stephan, thank you for the great content that you provide! :) I just wanted to note that it would be great to also take care of your microphone, as it is becoming too noisy and thus hard to bear when you boost your speech with emotion. Thanks again, you are really great!

  • @makelifematter1896
    @makelifematter1896 Před 5 měsíci +1

    Happy New Year Stephan thank you for all the healing you do your humor is the best the wonderful ways you create these videos for us to enjoy on our way up the hill we get to the top dreaming our new life as we start down the hill will be not the struggle it was to climb up the hill.....sadly my 30 yr soon to be over marriage was about him and I tried all you say BUT that being said he was the wrong choice but never wanted to see the RED flags so pay attention to all listening to Stephen he is a rock of knowledge

  • @AmoniC.
    @AmoniC. Před 5 měsíci +1

    Happy New Year 🎆 🍾Stephan!

  • @girlwiththepinkscarf.
    @girlwiththepinkscarf. Před 5 měsíci

    You’re the best. Thank you💖

  • @PrincessArielAKingskid
    @PrincessArielAKingskid Před 5 měsíci +1

    This was very informative, thank you! God bless you!❤🙏🏾🥰👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾🌹🌹🌹

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  Před 5 měsíci +1

      ❤ 🙂 Thank you very much and may God bless you as well 🙏

  • @CynthiaFoster-dk1jd
    @CynthiaFoster-dk1jd Před 5 měsíci +2

    Thank you for your Transparency, I am grateful for that's, I am healed completely before I dating someone!!❤❤😊😊

  • @pilarpatrick
    @pilarpatrick Před 5 měsíci +2

    Thank you Stephen !

  • @queensteph2173
    @queensteph2173 Před 5 měsíci +23

    I knew the submissive one was coming 🤣. You’re definitely needed on this platform. So much knowledge and helpful info🙌🏾🙌🏾

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  Před 5 měsíci

      I'm happy this has been helpful to you. Don't forget to share so that others can receive love, healing, and clarity ❤ 🙏

  • @btwthblood
    @btwthblood Před 5 měsíci +1

    SPOT ON! SO GOOD! THANK YOU

  • @janetdemello938
    @janetdemello938 Před 5 měsíci +2

    Thanks and Happy New Year!!! 🎉❤

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  Před 5 měsíci +1

      Happy New Year!!! 🎉❤

    • @janetdemello938
      @janetdemello938 Před 5 měsíci

      @@MeetStephanSpeaks your advice is great and I got the book Life after heartbreak and it's very helpful and truly inspiring.

  • @susancourtney882
    @susancourtney882 Před 5 měsíci +1

    Loved this video and the LA show - was so fun that night!

  • @mrs.a.t.1278
    @mrs.a.t.1278 Před 5 měsíci +15

    🎉 HAPPY NEW YEAR 🎉 to you my handsome KING 👑👑. Thank you for always having relevant content for everyone in every situation. I have been watching you for a few years now. I'm a 57 year old black woman who is a widow who is committed to a 52 year old black widower as he is committed to me. Not everything you post pertains to me so sometimes I pass it on to my sisters or my nieces. I'm a very old fashioned traditional woman. And with your help and guidance I have finally found the ONLY man in the universe who is truly worthy of my TIME, LOVE, DEVOTION and LOYALTY. As he has finally found a partner who can truly UNDERSTAND , APPRECIATE RESPECT LOVE and give him the PEACE he needs for continued SUCCESS. Thank you so much and have continued success in this New Year 🎉🎉. Have a beautiful and blessed rest of your day.

  • @user-fh1tr9zp3l
    @user-fh1tr9zp3l Před 5 měsíci +1

    What a way to end 2023
    Am struggling to comment fight now
    Heading into 2024
    I think this could be my mantra moving foward
    Happy new year Steph
    Happy new year to all on our beloved channel

  • @emelsplendor4569
    @emelsplendor4569 Před 5 měsíci +1

    Happy happy new year Steph

  • @olivia16ism
    @olivia16ism Před 5 měsíci +1

    Such a great video. Thank you ❤

  • @unbothered731
    @unbothered731 Před 5 měsíci +15

    Happy New Year, Stephen. I've tried some of the tips you've given. None has worked. I guess it's just me. Wishing you continued success. 😊

  • @milaniaa.932
    @milaniaa.932 Před 5 měsíci

    I like you! Thank you for such an amazing information

  • @carmenelizabethchamorro8608
    @carmenelizabethchamorro8608 Před 5 měsíci +1

    Stephan Happy New Year my King thank you for everything that you do I always look forward to watching your Videos and I learned so much from you I Appreciate you forever & always love you.........♥️🥰🙏🏾🎊🎉🎈🎈

  • @suebaybee
    @suebaybee Před 5 měsíci +8

    Submission is such a blessing & gift. Lord have mercy.
    But it all starts with Christ.

  • @GreyAce8394
    @GreyAce8394 Před 5 měsíci +1

    Ty for this

  • @bettyhaines2570
    @bettyhaines2570 Před 5 měsíci +2

    Thank you.

  • @ashelyjames3574
    @ashelyjames3574 Před 5 měsíci +3

    I love your videos!

  • @RealSyn
    @RealSyn Před 5 měsíci +3

    Very true statements.

  • @deannarichard4568
    @deannarichard4568 Před 5 měsíci

    Thank you

  • @annasirvio4399
    @annasirvio4399 Před 4 měsíci

    Thank you for this! I really enjoy your content.😇 I just wonder what submission actually mean. I feel like many people talk about it but maybe it is because English isn’t my native language that I don’t fully understand what it means more practical sence.😅

  • @tetei0787
    @tetei0787 Před 5 měsíci +2

    Happy new year from india. This will be the first video I'll ever watch in 2024😊😅 God bless you

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  Před 5 měsíci

      ❤️ 🙂 Thank you very much and may God bless you as well!

  • @GloriaAllanah
    @GloriaAllanah Před 5 měsíci +15

    Men find women that very intelligent irresistible the power is in her words

    • @denisedee1978
      @denisedee1978 Před 5 měsíci +1

      💯👍

    • @sosinati3358
      @sosinati3358 Před 5 měsíci +4

      We just want peace. Intelligence just assures us that you can atleast understand logic to be able to understand us. We just dont want drama for the sake of it.

    • @denisedee1978
      @denisedee1978 Před 5 měsíci

      💯👐​@@sosinati3358

    • @Heyu7her3
      @Heyu7her3 Před 5 měsíci

      ​@@sosinati3358 Your entire statement is illogical. All humans regardless of gender use logical & emotional reasoning in every decision they make. *It's 2024; update your antiquated views.* They've already been debunked by scientists, the actual logicians.

  • @RhondaR4
    @RhondaR4 Před 5 měsíci +2

    I was just talking to GOD about some things you mentioned. Thank you!❤
    🎉HAPPY NEW YEAR STEPHAN!🎉I hope and pray you have a prosperous, loving, and abundant year. Blessings sent your way in JESUS' mighty name. GOD loves you and so do I.❤️

  • @Anar-hk5rv
    @Anar-hk5rv Před 5 měsíci +2

    8:28 if men settle with women who express desire, how come many men also walk away from women like this? Don’t men love to chase?

  • @marygranke204
    @marygranke204 Před 5 měsíci +1

    I meet the guy and we both felt the connection and yesterday he texted me and told me he was ready for a relationship and wish we good luck. I was crushed and realized that maybe it was for the best. Hopefully I handled it right. And talking about being judgemental towards others....the Bible even talks about judge not least you be judged....which means that if you judge someone a certain way, then you will be judged the same way. We need to show more grace to everyone we meet.

  • @joyricherson4570
    @joyricherson4570 Před 5 měsíci +7

    Lol, when I prayed I asked God to let me like my future hubs not just love him. ❤❤

  • @cerissabrown3487
    @cerissabrown3487 Před 5 měsíci +1

    I tend to fall into the judgmental spectrum often and I don’t know how to remain curious or explore my judgmental words or how to reframe my judgemental thoughts
    is it appropriate to ask my man for help reframing my judgemental thoughts if i can’t reframe it independently?

    • @Heyu7her3
      @Heyu7her3 Před 5 měsíci

      No, consult a couple's therapist. Allowing a man to "reframe" your complaints could result in him weaponizing incompetence against you.

  • @THE_rare_N_Unique
    @THE_rare_N_Unique Před 5 měsíci +2

    What u r saying , as a single woman I find to be true

  • @zeal4god402
    @zeal4god402 Před 5 měsíci +4

    Great exposition on submission. True Christian women love submitting to Christ because He guides them in the best and healthiest way. True Christian woman have no issue submitting to a man who is loving her like Christ loves the church.

  • @Hinfon868
    @Hinfon868 Před 5 měsíci

    You should do a video in Haitian/Creole

  • @Wouldntyouliketoknow1111
    @Wouldntyouliketoknow1111 Před 2 měsíci

    I wonder if the couples where the men say their future wife liked them, had long marriages. Whenever I see elderly couples talk about what they love about each other or why they fell in love, the men usually says the woman was or is beautiful.

  • @gabbymontoya2085
    @gabbymontoya2085 Před 5 měsíci +1

    So when I express myself . his true colors come out also . they end up pulling away and not want a relationship and that’s ok

  • @southernVal51
    @southernVal51 Před 5 měsíci

    love hi

  • @sarahblasdell5261
    @sarahblasdell5261 Před 5 měsíci +1

    My issue with my ex was his rigidness in the bedroom besides him being abusive.

  • @joyricherson4570
    @joyricherson4570 Před 5 měsíci +6

    I would say, to attract, not find, a good man.

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  Před 5 měsíci

      Thank you for sharing your thoughts, I appreciate hearing from you ❤

  • @user-fh1tr9zp3l
    @user-fh1tr9zp3l Před 5 měsíci +5

    Why did u choose this woman to marry ?
    Because she liked me !
    This was striking
    But Stephan please understand
    The only reason he found out that
    This woman liked him it's because
    He liked her to
    Am a firm believer in believing that it's must be mutual
    You can be expressive
    Make yourself available
    Send the clearest signals
    But if this dude is not into you
    It is what it is
    Relationships today it's like a full time JOB

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  Před 5 měsíci

      Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️

  • @offairhead
    @offairhead Před 5 měsíci +2

  • @J.CH.F.
    @J.CH.F. Před 5 měsíci +8

    Boaz come to me☺💗

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  Před 5 měsíci +4

      I pray that you receive the man who is truly best for you, the man God has for you 🙏

    • @J.CH.F.
      @J.CH.F. Před 5 měsíci +2

      Amen👌

  • @hishebamckenzie5974
    @hishebamckenzie5974 Před 5 měsíci +1

    As a woman of God, I don't have an issue being submissive. My problem is that some men tend to abuse this and then use it way out of context of the word of God.

  • @ashelyjames3574
    @ashelyjames3574 Před 5 měsíci +4

    The word is open minded and not opened minded

  • @JoyleiaJo
    @JoyleiaJo Před 5 měsíci +1

    17:57 defensive

  • @olivettenkafu7332
    @olivettenkafu7332 Před 5 měsíci

    🥺💗

  • @user-oq7hb5qz3j
    @user-oq7hb5qz3j Před 5 měsíci +1

    My brother my brother wonderful show 🙏🏻 😂😅😂😅😂😅😂😅😂😅😂😅😂😅

  • @Esthersayo1
    @Esthersayo1 Před 5 měsíci +2

    First to be here

  • @khemaloving4031
    @khemaloving4031 Před 5 měsíci +2

    These tips work way too well.

  • @chitowngirl6003
    @chitowngirl6003 Před 5 měsíci

    Submission is also a Biblical concept so he GOTTA submit to God

  • @jennifyliving5511
    @jennifyliving5511 Před 5 měsíci

    @stephanspeaks Okay, I love the content about submitting to my man. I have a man - six months in and we are fully committed. We talk about what marriage would look like, our wants, our needs, etc (even how much weight I could gain and still be attractive to him 😅) and I’ve said many times how I want to have the man (him) lead. However, that’s mostly be in the context of money. So, how aside from saying “I want a man whom I can submit to and who will lead us, can you show me that?” Is there another way to have this conversation with him? And/or is it too soon? At this stage, I am very much thinking he is a great fit to be a lifelong partner and he thinks the same about me. We’re still learning about each other and identifying where our issues may arise, but so far we’ve been respectful and the communication is unparalleled. So, I feel secure enough to broach the topic and maybe see how he can show me that he can lead. Or am I thinking about this all wrong? Neither of us are religious. We’re both faithful but not practicing.
    A way I think maybe we can start this… I’m the primary breadwinner (about 2-3x his salary) and always will be (he works for the gov and makes good money, I just am very lucky). He has the long term financial strategy in place (owns multiple homes) and I make the cash lol. So I pay for a majority of the food for us willingly (he drives to me). But I know we spend more on food than he would like to. So maybe, even though I’m paying, would this be a good avenue to take his leadership in budget or something?

    • @Heyu7her3
      @Heyu7her3 Před 5 měsíci +1

      If you are making 2-3x more than him, absolutely DO NOT allow him to be a sole leader. Even if you were gonna be an SAHW, you should have as much leadership since your sacrifice in salary would still contribute greatly to the household.
      It is now 2024 -- that shouldn't even be a consideration. It's equal partnerships & servant leadership or Bust.

    • @Heyu7her3
      @Heyu7her3 Před 5 měsíci +1

      And don't have him control YOUR money. That is how women get screwed. Tbh you should consider a pre-nup...

    • @jennifyliving5511
      @jennifyliving5511 Před 5 měsíci

      Ummmm yeah thanks. However I never said sole leadership. Stephan specifically speaks about submitting to each other and I would like a man who I can trust to be the leader when we are split in what we think is best. We are 100% in agreement on what partnership means to us and we’ve also discussed prenups. He has quite a bit in assets and I have almost nothing. While I may make cash, he definitely has far more to lose than I do at this point.

  • @GloriaAllanah
    @GloriaAllanah Před 5 měsíci +2

    Stephan Speaks I am extending an invitation to be on my channel,Gloria Allanah talks relationships and dating