Spiritual Warfare & Marriage part 3/3 ~ Fr Ripperger
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Every couple in marriage prep should be required to listen to this series, and be tested on it.
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Yes! was just thinking this. Would have changed my life before my marriage.
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I think, it would be best to learn all about this, before one even thinks about possibly getting involved with love and marriage!
Sad because regrettably, all lessons on marriage from part 1 to 3 were never heard of until 5 years ago when everything was falling apart. The devil has done its damage, severely. Now, how to move on from colossal failures. At 64, i now live alone, just breathing. A church is nearby my only refuge. I know God sees me.
You share you knowledge and wisdom to the next generations. Meet more people from your church and just talk with them. You can help your fellow generation as well by sharing your wisdom with them and getting them to help their own children and grandchildren. That is how we fight the demons. They want us isolated and tormented. Do not let them turn this paradise into a hell for that is their only goal.
The Deliverance prayers for the Laity is absolutely phenomenal. Having been gone from the church for 50 years - it helps me discern evil spirits and to take my own authority to throw them out. Also - the 12 commandments - what that really entails!!!
6:55 - Bible on husband & wife
10:48 - when your child does something wrong
12:46 - on workaholism.
15:09 - Q&A - first Q book recommendations
20:35 - woman asks for advice on husband
Amem father! and thank you; it's very interest and good, that people from Church ask you question! we can listen and learn aswell; also i love your sense of humour, i need bit laugh too. God bless all!
Seeking pleasure is effeminate. Seeking TRUTH is RARE. Be RARE not “RAW”...
I've listened to them once. Now I'm gonna do it again and take notes.
We attended an engaged couples retreat before getting married attended by 40+ couples. We broke out in teams to talk about things and future and with future spouse. There were 5 couples who decided this wasn't for them or postponed the marriage date. It's just not the day but a lifetime! Also temptation always comes after marriage, as an ex boyfriend or girlfriend calls but doesn't realize the person is off the market. Sometimes they don't care!
My boomer parents def dropped me off at my grandparents a few times..its not just millennials. Thats why community is important so you can have that support.
So important Father! Let's teach them Latin! The demons can't misunderstand it in latin! No watered down words to do battle with a demon!
My wife wears skin tight clothing in a male dominated work place and I i asked her to wear something more modest and she refuses,she is very removed from me..im at a loss and I'm heart broken...i pray every day for us..i don't know what to do
Pray to our Mother Mary to teach her Modesty.
Praying for your loved one and yourself. Have you tried Exodus 90?
I pray this has gotten better.
Set her bags out on the street. Make it brutally clear let her imodesty and her associate attitude is a violation of your marriage. Say to her "I will not tolerate your behavior and attitude." Don't threaten to put her stuff out do it and then tell her why. Don't tolerate this kind of behavior from a woman.
I hope your marriage has improved
Great series
Thank you Father for telling it like it is about the "Greatest Generation." As a Boomer, I have been saying this since 1970.
The soft parenting thing has always bothered me and now you mentioned tolerating bad behaviour. All you have to do is give them a time out. Those tantrums and parents “talking the child through it”… they are too young to get it, and yes they can be manipulative. It’s basic psychology, and it’s not a bad thing, it’s for survival. Every time I’ve said this I’ve been shunned but happy you’re finally touching on this. Children need strong role models and to learn to be above irrational emotions, and to know they have to rationally get what they need, and that it’s safe enough
I know a couple who did not DISCIPLINE their children at all. Both mother and mother-in-law were astounded at their laxity. The siblings of the parents avoided the couple due to the constant rudeness of the children. The children are now obnoxious adults, one is a complete failure who is morbidly obese, flunked out of college and lives at home, working as a nanny for his twin's offspring. He is completely emasculated. No correction, no authority leads to disastrous results that are lifelong. Spanking should not be a norm but there are some children who require it due to outrageous and sometimes dangerously, bad behavior.
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Amazing inspirational ideas….you’d think this priest was married and had all the positive and negative provocations of married couples…God bless him in his inspirational speeches and videos.
Ahh these videos were published right before I got married like literally a month before I got married. I wish I found them before I got married 😅 lol
Does anyone know if those who are about to receive the Sacrament of Matrimony take a catechess test
Women - indirect power of influence.
Making your suggestion and letting it go.
Using listening skills - with no addenda - helping him think through issues by asking open ended questions and letting go of the outcome.
Like what are the pros and cons of that? What else can you (we) do? What would be in our best interest? How would that effect… What could be the outcomes of that decision?…
You get the jest!
Can a wife say a binding prayer for her husband?
What if your husband is narcissistic and emotionally abusive - dishonest, scapegoating, blameshifting, gaslighting, belitttling, irresponsible, invalidates, excuse making, rewrites history, etc - anything to silence me, use me for his destructive behaviors. What does Canon Law say about that regarding in marriage.
If you didn't know he has a mental disorder (Narcissistic personality disorder) before marriage, you might have a solid ground for an annulment, your marriage is perhaps not even valid.
Maybe he is possessed by a narcissistic evil spirit & needs deliverance.
They need confession asap
And so do you need confession it's our only defense against the enemy
Yes, I am very mindful of my need to go often to confession to fight against the enemy. My husband today was able to “see” things he never wanted to admit and repented of some things. Praise God!! He is going to confession with me more now. Praise God!! I kept trying to help him “see” I am not his enemy, Satan is. I am witnessing the work of God and continue to praise Him. I too have grown in virtues in ways I never imagined. Truly surrendering to His Will - very, very, very hard to do but it has brought me closer to Our Lord than I could ever have dreamed. And I am witnessing more conversion in my spouse that I have been praying and sacrificing tremendously for. Praise God!!!!!
Please help, how to get deliverence prayer in Indonesia? Or do you translate all these videos in bahasa. I think we need it as full knowledge on marriage preparation material.
1 more, do you have any pray for parents to children who has trauma because of divorce(and or saw the father argue and abuse mother)?
These videos help me a lot. Pardon for my lack of english skill.
Thank you and God bless
There’s a deliverance book on Amazon compiled by ripperger
Father! Sorry It was not clear about the St micheal pray? Can we pray it or not?
You can pray the short version, but not the long version. Here is the short version.
Prayer to St. Michael the Archangel
St. Michael the Archangel, defend us in battle.
Be our protection against the wickedness and snares of the Devil.
May God rebuke him, we humbly pray,
and do thou, O Prince of the heavenly host,
by the power of God, cast into hell
Satan, and all the evil spirits,
who prowl through the world
seeking the ruin of souls. Amen.
@@jengus7493 are you sure? As it is said ( at 42min ), the CDF ordered in 1985 that lay people should not use even parts of the prayer? So I' m still confused...
Has someone maybe a good link where this is stated more clearly? Thanks!
A version of the St. Michael prayer, which I called "the short version," is also found in the book 'Deliverance Prayers For Use By The Laity'. It is found in the Prayers to St. Michael the Archangel and Other Angels section. The author of 'Deliverance Prayers for the Laity' is a highly qualified priest and exorcist.
@@jengus7493 can you maybe look up the name of the author of this prayer book? Many thanks!
The author of 'Deliverance Prayers For Use By The Laity' is Fr. Chad Ripperger, PhD. He is the one giving the talk.
I don't like having to look at random pictures of people - it is distracting.
Put the phone down and just listen to it. That's how I do it.
@@marianafaria6960 Thank you Mariana - you are a nice girl.
Father I’m wondering how to deal with a husband who has abandoned his family? Am I subject to him when he abdicated his authority?
Joan Smith sacrifice and pray more for him. St Rita is a good one for this. Email Fr at his dolorans.org site if need more please as I’m not him
Latin is not a dead language and should be brought back for instance medical terms are All Latin or latin abv.
Language is considered as dead when there is not a one person to whom it is mothertongue. Of course, you can revive it, as Jews did already with Hebrew. It was dead and they got it back by one Rabbi who talked to his son only that language and then some others followed the example.
It is a dead language but that is a good thing. That means that it's not subject to change like other languages people speak currently. What the words are and what they mean are the same now as they were a thousand years ago and will be a thousand years from now (God willing).
“If you can’t master subornation to your husband you can never advance in virtue” ???? That is very extreme. Is the husband the only way a woman can advance in virtue? God doesn’t have involvement in her holiness through the Mass and the Eucharist and the confessional?
Obviously not. A woman that’s not married doesn’t submit to a husband that doesn’t exist. But a woman that refuses to submit to her husband can’t even obey the Bible so ofc she can’t master any virtue
I was wondering that myself 20:00mins
Ya he totally had me on the first 2 parts until he said parents need to spank their children. Would Jesus have spanked children? You can absolutely discipline children without hurting them (Emotionally or physically) It’s called guiding and teaching. Also children are typically acting based on their developmental age not trying to be “Bad” yes you can guide them to the right way using love not fear-which research clearly shows that when children are spanked as a form of discipline it only causes more wounds; more likely to be incarcerated, suffer with addiction, perpetrators and victims of domestic violence, etc. He knows what he’s talking about in regards to the spiritual stuff but is clearly no expert in child development. That comment clouds a lot of the other things he said for me.
I was just going to say the same thing. As someone who has worked with children with behavior difficulties in schools for a couple years, I completely agree.
This is what happens when celibate men who will never marry nor have direct involvement in the rearing of children give instructions on precisely those matters...
If you endure chastening, God deals with you as with sons; for what son is there whom a father does not chasten? 8 But if you are without chastening, of which all have become partakers, then you are illegitimate and not sons. 9 Furthermore, we have had human fathers who corrected us, and we paid them respect. Shall we not much more readily be in subjection to the Father of spirits and live? 10 For they indeed for a few days chastened us as seemed best to them, but He for our profit, that we may be partakers of His holiness. 11 Now no [e]chastening seems to be joyful for the present, but painful; nevertheless, afterward it yields the peaceable fruit of righteousness to those who have been trained by it.
What if husband is a tyrannical control freak and emotionally abusive? What should a wife do with that?
MG W Draw close to Christ. With the love of God you can endure hardships and change things... When he sees God in you he can change.
Pray for him and seek some way to get counsel...Catholic counsel.
www.helpourmarriage.org/ a Catholic organization attached to Marriage encounter...but for couple having more serious problems.
God bless and keep you. Don't give up!
Thomas Burns thank you so much! I will continue to do that! ...you inspired me and gave me a shot of strength, God bless you.
Kitty Watson Thank you Kitty! I won’t give up. I’ll check out the website thanks so much! God bless you!
Check out the video on saint Rita of Cascia.
Not every husband admonish calmlu and respectfully, mist tines, the wife know nit fir what reason when a husbsnd suddenly exploded, grabbing one neck, threatening to strangle the wife, to smash her face in and still have no idea what makes this fearful outburst of anger and violence. The wife is commanded not to say a word, or face more wrath. The anger seems to come on arrival home from somewhere. Who lied and created mistrust and aggression against tge wife? Under so much wrath and fear, the wife is not able to even have the presence of mind to ask when under such aggression and expletives. If Adam accepted the apple from Eve, then Adam agreed to share in all adversities that comes to Eve , which dhould in the present day means equal standing, right or wrong, equal respect and just as many responsibilities when living life together..
What if the husband abuses his wife ? She should pray for him? Many women have been killed like that
She is given the permission by Catholic Church to seek safety and separate from" bed and table" from him. She cannot divorce, but she is encouraged to move away and seek help. If he has a mental disorder that causes him to abuse her, she didn't know about prior to marriage, she has a grounds for annulment.
I’ve have learned about the latter.
What do u do with a husband who is always bad-tempered and nit-picking and thoroughly spoilt? How do u obey a person who is unreasonable and finds it so exhilarating to shout and make a scene over what could be just settled quietly with speaking normally and point out the irritation?. It is obvioud the man if the house is insecure and likes to instil fear and extreme control, when he shouted and made a fuss about u being at home all day but cannot put a glass on the table for him when all he had to do was just stretch his arm and take it out of the fridge just behind him at hos side; after all he liked the glass chilled and it has be be brought out not too early as tge glass would be too warm for his wine?
Talk to your local priest.
Sounds like a Narcissist...my step father is one. It was a very tough life for my mother. She prayed constantly and did seek counsel with our local priest. I'd like to suggest a youtuber that goes by HG Tudor for you to check out. He is very educational on the narcissistic abuse topic. My mom wishes she had that education years ago. I will keep you in my prayers 🙏🏻 ❤️
He is struggling needs an assesment for mental illness. That is classic controlling nit picling narcissist behavorior, start a 54 day rosary novena, This is your cross, help him by making the appointment and going together.
12:15 workaholic
Sad.
Stop apologizing for a man's nature and authority. A wife's obedience IS because of him. It's how God made him and structured nature. Grace builds on nature. You said it's not because of him but because of God gave him. No. WRONG. it's because of him BECAUSE that's how God made it. Doesn't need to be in virtue OF COURSE JUST like the woman's obligations
Many things that he says are good and there are many things that are not so good. I encourage all of you to use discernment. He is an expert on many things, but not all things. Don’t just take him 100%.Many things that he says are good and there are many things that are not so good. I encourage all of you to use discernment. He is a expert on many things, but not all things. Don’t just take him 100% as truth, but do your research. Remember, all this is said in context of each situation. There are some situations of domestic abuse necessitates the women to leave the home for safety of herself and her children. Remember this statistics of domestic violence of more women being killed by their husband or significant boyfriend, then in all of the wars combined. Domestic violence is a severe tragedy of sin, and is a huge issue and tragedy that must be addressed in the issue of marital relationships of submission and dominance.
I honestly think spanking is satanic and diabolical. It had a place in the Old Testament in the same way divorce did- because of the hardened (by sin) hearts. After Jesus Christ, it is an act against mercy to beat children. I've seen and know that children can be raised obedient and respectful to authority without such violations of one's integrity. It is not that lack of spanking creates disorderly children, but parents' ignorance, laziness and other sins as well. The more use this method, the less they see their own sins because it is an act against mercy. Older generations have a hard time accepting that because their mercy got beaten up out of them when they were children themselves. Newer generations have a hard time understanding that mercy is not being permissive to the children's misbehaviour or any other sin (just like modernist CChristianspreach tolerance for gay marriages and whatnot). Both hitting a child, and tolerating child misbehaviour is not mercy.
If a women is unable to respect the God given authority of her husband on earth, just imagine the torture that awaits her in Hell where the demons will teach her immediately who is in charge.
Some men just don't know how to be the head of their families. You can't give a car key to a bad driver.
A spanking shouldn't last longer than the Ave Maria and should directly follow bad behavior with the parent observing SILENCE and internally praying. If your child has done something hours before and you are now given a chance to discipline a spanking may not be in order since the child most likely has a conscience and has felt remorse for the behavior mainly due to reaction to what they have done that didn't include physical reaction but emotional. If your child has been saying their prayers and been learning catechesis spankings should be rare and eventually turn into preparation for confession if not going to the confessional. Children of a certain age (reason) should be offered the sacraments as healing. We are ALL sinners, the child shouldn't be made to feel especially sinful but protected from advancing in a life of sin.
I honestly think spanking is satanic and diabolical. It had a place in the Old Testament in the same way divorce did- because of the hardened (by sin) hearts. After Jesus Christ, it is an act against mercy to beat children. I've seen and know that children can be raised obedient and respectful to authority without such violations of one's integrity. It is not that lack of spanking creates disorderly children, but parents' ignorance, laziness and other sins as well. The more use this method, the less they see their own sins because it is an act against mercy. Older generations have a hard time accepting that because their mercy got beaten up out of them when they were children themselves. Newer generations have a hard time understanding that mercy is not being permissive to the children's misbehaviour or any other sin (just like modernist Christians preach tolerance for gay marriages and whatnot). Both hitting a child, and tolerating child misbehaviour is not mercy.
Can you imagine the Blessed Virgin Mary spanking children?
You're absolutely wrong about possession. Most people that are possessed have lead evil evil lives. There was a movie made, The exorcism of Emily Rose, a German girl who was possessed what was a Sanctified soul. You better be very very careful how you're talkin about exorcism possession here
He's an exorcist.
He is an exorcist and you saw a movie.
@@carlagrado7201 Haha exactly
are you teaching an exorcist about demons? That's bold.
He whom the Gods wants to make mad they first destroy their ability to perceive.
This guy talks with demons? Really? Taking advice on marriage and family from him makes as much sense as letting your auto mechanic do your dental work.
We would be taking advice from a pilot on family matters instead
@@camissleepy8542 Yea, married 49 years to the same woman, raised 3 children. Certinally more qualified on family matters than this idiot.
Think he makes so much sense!
@@sharonhilferty5526 Only if your ability to reason is shallow
@@pilot2502 the demons like comments like yours.
he totally lost me at spanking. Spanking is proven to psychologically damage children. As far a psychological harm, there is statistically no distinction between kids (or former kids) who considered themselves "spanked" or kids (or former kids) who considered themselves beaten or abused. When you wield physical force as a mechanism for behavioral correction, you are appealing to the logical fallacy of argumentum ad baculum or might makes right. You are simultaneously admitting through action that you have lost the battle and are surrendering to your baser instinct of striking your threat into submission.
If you're then going to appeal to Proverbs: 13:24 as your defense against striking children, lets examine that:
"Whoever spares the rod hates their children, but the one who loves their children is careful to discipline them."
The "rod" referred to is actually a shepherd's crook. A shepherd's crook was not a beating implement. It was a staff with a hooked end, used to wrangle a sheep by its' neck, to guide them back into the herd. Sparing the "rod" in this sense does not mean refraining from striking your child, but instead, refraining from guiding them back into the fold.
Spanking your child is not guiding them back into the fold. It's using your size and power to intimidate and threaten them into submission.
Anyone who was ever spanked or beaten as a child and is completely honest with themselves knows that they didn't think, "Gee, I better not do that again because that was wrong." No, they in fact thought, "Gee, I better not do that again, because I don't want to get hit." The action of refraining from doing something might outwardly be the same, but any honest person knows that the logic behind the decision is entirely different. One is restraint due to a learned virtue. The other is restraint due to fear of reprisal.
@Steven-kiley Spanking with love and not with anger is the right way of correction. When you explain to your children that ever action has a consequence, just as when we sin we have to atone for the sin in the temporal and eternal punishment. Proverbs also states, "My son, reject not the correction of the Lord: and do not faint when thou art chastised by him: For whom the Lord loveth, He chastiseth: and as a Father in the Son He pleaseth Himself. Blessed is the man that findeth wisdom, and is rich in prudence." (Prov 3:11-13)
And also, "Folly is bound up in the heart of a child, and the rod of correction shall drive it away.... Withhold not correction from a child: for if thou strike him with the rod, he shall not die. Thou shalt beat him with the rod, and deliver his soul from hell." (Prov. 22:15, 23:13-14) Viva Cristo Rey!
I think there’s proof to the contrary there’s more emotionally damaged children who were not spanked than those who were. I was spanked with love and I’m glad. I spanked my kids and they’re well adjusted adults. Spanking and beating are two different things.
@@joehaaf1913 I honestly think spanking is satanic, diabolical and sinful. It had a place in the Old Testament in the same way divorce did- because of the hardened (by sin) hearts. After Jesus Christ, it is an act against mercy to beat children. I've seen and know that children can be raised obedient and respectful to authority without such violations of one's integrity. It is not that lack of spanking creates disorderly children, but parents' ignorance, laziness and other sins as well. The more parents use this method, the less they see their own sins because it is an act against mercy, a violation of your own and others' souls. Older generations have a hard time accepting that because their mercy got beaten up out of them when they were children themselves. Newer generations have a hard time understanding that mercy is not being permissive to the children's misbehaviour or any other sin (just like modernist Christians preach tolerance for gay marriages and whatnot). Both hitting a child, and tolerating child misbehaviour is not mercy.
Using spanking as a punishment is not admitting you're wrong or that they "won the argument". If a child as acting up, and you cannot get anywhere with reason then using spanking is not "might makes right", it's "I'll tell this kid off in a way I know they'll understand". Clearly your ridiculous ANCAP ideology has clouded your reason.
@@zach6643 So...no argument, concluded with an ad hominem. Thank you for your thought-provoking contribution.
We attended an engaged couples retreat before getting married attended by 40+ couples. We broke out in teams to talk about things and future and with future spouse. There were 5 couples who decided this wasn't for them or postponed the marriage date. It's just not the day but a lifetime! Also temptation always comes after marriage, as an ex boyfriend or girlfriend calls but doesn't realize the person is off the market. Sometimes they don't care!
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We attended an engaged couples retreat before getting married attended by 40+ couples. We broke out in teams to talk about things and future and with future spouse. There were 5 couples who decided this wasn't for them or postponed the marriage date. It's just not the day but a lifetime! Also temptation always comes after marriage, as an ex boyfriend or girlfriend calls but doesn't realize the person is off the market. Sometimes they don't care!