Lady Diana's Former Butler Paul Burrell Discusses Working In The Palace In Therapy | Only Human
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- Paul Burrell dragged himself from a northern mining town to the heart of the royal family, first serving under the Queen - before finding his place as Princess Diana's self proclaimed 'Rock' following her controversial divorce from Prince Charles. But when Diana tragically died, Paul was left heartbroken and exposed. Forgotten by the Royals, Paul was accused of peddaling her secrets - and worse - in a bid to keep his place in the royal household.
Therapy is not easy for Paul, as he struggles to let go of the Paul Burrell façade the ‘public’ has come to expect of him, rather than the off-duty Paul his husband Graham fell in love with. He knows he has to fully embrace the private man he really is, but can he really let go of the past - and the celebrity it has given him?
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From: Celebrities in Therapy S3 E4
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I'm American. There are many of us who love you, Paul.
I see the painful tears in Paul's eyes and I want to hug that pain away. He's such a good person and deserves to feel happy. Hopefully this doctor can help please.
Paul was in Princess Diana, life for a reason. I feel better that Princess Diana
had someone that looked after her. So, there was some light her dark days,
not totally alone. 🌹💔🌹
Watching Paul’s interviews lately I’ve found him him to be very fair and insightful in his opinions. He hasn’t been cruel or degrading towards anyone. He seems to understand the feelings and perspectives of everyone he talks about. ❤
He needs to stop talking about the RF, and get a life. His life is now built from Diana’s death.
@Lucile McGregor Lady Di was his life . Paul gave her the best years of himself. And then she was gone. It's normal to grieve and grieve for many years. It's difficult to shake off depression after a hugh loss so hopefully this psychologist can help him.
Good for him that he’s in therapy. He should have been 20 yrs ago. Harry is entitled to say what he wants. It’s HIS life and HIS family he’s talking about. Burrell has been working this for over 25 years. Time for him to get a real life.
🙄🙄🙄😤😡
@@lucilemcgregor Thank you I couldn’t say it better myself, the hypocrisy is abysmal, Paul can talk about Diana whenever, wherever and however he wanted for 20 years and making profit of Diana death but Harry cannot talk about his beloved mother... unbelievable!!
God Bless you Paul I hope that you can move on and find peace and to be happy! You were a special person to Diana and always there for her you were very loyal and a great friend ♥️🌹
Some people, are still so threatened by Princess Diana ♥ and her enduring legacy of love and caring. Such people will never understand why so many still love her and will never forget her. Why should we...?
Now, it is tragically comical how that 'royal' family try to adopt her ways and clumsily copy her. They will never be popular as she was and still is, even after a quarter of a century. Love you miss you beautiful Diana, Princess of Wales, Queen of Hearts 💕 forever
Amazing therapist. Paul is the friend all of us would like to have. I understand that he feels possessive over the memory of his dear Diana, because in a very tiny way, I felt that too. I knew a lot more about her than most in my immediate circle and I wanted to claim her loss for myself, because I felt so close to her. The sad thing is, that if you don't let go, she cannot move on. I feel that she has imprinted in Paul a part of his life that was always vacant and that means he is scared to be without that essential part. I feel for you, dear man. You were good to her while she was here, you are now allowed to let her go to a safer space in your memory. She needs to rest too.
Paul is so genuine and loving. Thank you Paul for sharing your heart.
This therapist is top notch. I like her challenging him and his choices also her compassion
God bless you Paul! I pray you are genuinely happy, everyone deserves that. You’ve given your entire life to others - it’s your turn now…..love yourself and do what is good for you.
Amen! I COULDN'T HAVE SAID IT BETTER MYSELF! BLESS HIS SWEET HEART AND SOUL
🙄🙄🙄🤨😡
❤
Dear Paul. He will never recover for his lost love of his friend. This therapist talked soooooo much tripe. Really does it matter that he loves and remembers? Really is it a problem to have cared so much. His husband loves him. Let him live and believe and love as he wishes to. The therapist used the word "I" so much it was it seems all about her. God Bless Paul for his honesty. A remarkable man.
He was a true friend to Diana and you can see that her death still affects him after all these years. I’m glad he has found happiness in his pers9nal life
No he wasn’t, true friend don’t make profit of your death for living!
I like this therapist… she used to have quite a few of her clients in therapy on camera for us to observe and I found it fascinating.. Humans are incredibly fascinating and every single one of them is different and unique to them.. Loved this … Thank you 🙏🏻
I find her so clear and direct, I trust she'll help Paul to the extent that he want's to move forward.
Bless him for being a true friend to Princess Diana, and for his unswerving loyalty to her. She was so strong and yet so fragile. It comforts me to know he was there for her through all her trials to the tragic end. I guess the Princess took a bit of all of us when she passed.
I agree. Paul is such a sweet person. God bless him. Not to be wierd or anything but after this interview I just want to hug him. After Diana died you could just see the pain in him. He was a TRUE FRIEND IN EVERY SENSE!
He used Dianna. She was going to fire him if there hadn't been an accident. He had been too.familiar
A lovely respectful book to the royal family with the truth as Diana's butler and close friend till the end.
I disagree... if he was any sort of friend, he wouldn't have said a thing
I wish we all could have a best friend in our life like Paul. He's simply wonderful.
Loved this, love you, Paul. Thank you for sharing with us.
He's been in his version of survival mode. He's learning to be free in leaps and bounds - he's here to help others, simply by being brave enough to openly wish to be true to himself.
For every good reason!
Yes! ✨🙌✨🌟✨🙌✨
At Diana’s expense.
@@lucilemcgregor you have no idea. There must be an enormous amount he has not shared. It is not your place to judge him or her.
amazingly brave of him to talk about these things. Thank you for sharing
Oh my! I can relate to this! Pauls's feelings and emotions are all that I have experienced!
Paul really struggled, bless him.
I REALLY like you Paul, not just because Diana chose you, but because you know we all want to know all there is to know about Diana AND you!
Isn't it ironic that the press vilified you for doing exactly what they try to do on a daily basis, bringing us information.
If you were good enough for the Queen and Diana, you are sure enough for us
What a nonsense do you here what he is talking about💁💁🙄🙄
@@lararistic4610 what nonsense you are speaking here.
As a psychiatric nurse, who also goes to therapy, I can say with conviction that therapy does not happen in a day or a few months or a year, therapy is an ongoing process that is not only challenging, but exhausting and difficult. That "good feeling" that Paul is having is quite likely only temporary. It is very easy to "go back in the box."
One is simply not suddenly 'better' after a certain amount of time that one can put on a calendar. You can't expect to have everything worked out to your liking because one of the most important things *for* therapy is not being fooled by your first day of feeling good because it may only be a glimpse of what you will feel in the future.
A critical tool for learning how *not* to play that game with oneself is by hearing your therapist say Ruhar he/she is proud of the accomplishments you've made because of the *insight* you've gained *during* therapy!
WASTED YEARS TO " THERAPY" VERY EXPENSIVE AND DID NOT HELP.
@@RebeccaAbrahansson I'm so very sorry to hear that. If someone has a story like yours *it is always* the fault of the therapist. This sounds like they could have been a bad fit for you if they could not help you in any way. After decades of useless councilors, I stuck it out until I finally found someone worthwhile. I've now had the same therapist for 11 years and she has been instrumental in healing some old emotional scars. Being a survivor of childhood abuse, therapy can be the difference between living a happy, full life and continuing to suffer old hurts that are never healed.
May I ask if you are in GB? The therapy styles the UK (and some other of the Commonwealth countries) have in place, especially considering the severe issues they have with a broken system overburdened by a lack of qualified providers and a massive population in desperate need of both mental and physical care, and severely long wait times, is what I've seen after visiting family there for a year. I hate the financial crisis in America, but if you're lucky enough to have federal coverage (I'm disabled from a work-related illness so I was forced to medically retire) the care can be excellent IF you make sure that you advocate for yourself and not accept half-assed care or uncaring providers.
He clearly has issues with attachment. He has had a tough run of it. I hope everything works out for him.
Very interesting. We all have our secrets. I wonder how many of us can truly unburden ourselves of matters that we have? Paul is very brave.
You are a beautiful person Paul, with a beautiful soul.❤
It seemed like the Therapist was very harsh in her cricism while I thought he seemed respectful and receptive throughout . I can buy that there's still work to be done but surely she can offer some encouragement !!! I also thought it was impressive that he allowed this to be filmed since he's such a private person who likes his secrets !
He wants the attention
@@leonenarwani7258 I’m afraid I have to agree. He’s being paid to do this on television. This never works. To be honest, I think the therapist _was_ kind and honest. It’s her way: very opposite to his behaviour.
He’s not a “private person”. He takes every opportunity to talk about her and her sons. He’s a disgrace.
@@lucilemcgregor you're the disgrace. How dare you judge someone else. Look at the mirror before commenting further.
@leonenarwani7258
When Diana died, he was let go after long service, and he lost his house. Frankly I don't blame him for making money discussing Diana. He's very respectful to her memory. I'm glad he talks about Diana, he's one of the few who worked for the Palace that has not gone with the negative narrative about her. Bless him.❤
He's lost his way spiritually. We are coming to a time in history where our Lord is preparing to return. Who will be ready? Interiorily, everyone ... deep down inside know there is a God and one day we will be judged. It was very brave of him to air his private session.
Every one who cares about Princess Di!! Would want to be near to her! He was at sevice for her wellbeing! And needs! I feel he has every right to express his story about what went on in her private life! We all want to know why she ended up alone desperate hunted down! The worlds most important woman! Hes Acepting his sexuality! There the reason why he was gentle & kind to her! He does not speek bad about the princess! He truley admired her! Every one has secrets!!
You are hundred percent correct, thank you!
He's a very cool guy.
Wonderful! Thank you for sharing. Love you Paul!! Hugs from Oz 🦘🦘🦘🦘
Princess Diana rest in peace 🙏 She would have made a regal Queen.
Trust me she would not have , she was a mess
@@leonenarwani7258 Why was she a mess? 😧
@@user-cy4vw1qj9m she did not like being alone , the amount of attention she needed , age played a part of it , and you can see it from her relationships
@@leonenarwani7258 The relationships were due to her been so hurt. If Charles had been a good husband she would have been faithful. Hurt can make people act out of character mind you I give her no marks for having a affair with a married man whose marriage broke down as a result.
@@user-cy4vw1qj9m both were wrong , and this is why I don't think she would make a good leader ,
❤with LOVE from ITALY💚🇮🇹
At least Paul came out just being real😍
Paul was such a good and trustworthy friend to the Princess …… I feel sorry for him . He deserves to be happy
Thank you both for sharing with the world these deep therapy sessions. It helps many people feel they’re not alone.. That even people of power are also vulnerable with many dark secrets like so many others in this world.
Question: Why does the therapist pressure Paul to let go of his love and special memories of Diana.. Why take it way? What harm does it do to allow him hold onto that special part of his heart?
I mean if they tell him to get rid of the pictures in the books I find that kind of stupid, you can coach yourself through losing somebody you love and your family or friend and still keep the pictures in the books and their memory around.
Love Paul he is a sweetheart ❤
I just love Paul. I saw the special where he shares his life story with us as (first) the Queen’s (and then HRH Diana’s) butler. He is an amazing storyteller, and i don’t think its quite as dysfunctional as perhaps this show portrays? Anyhow, i am American and so I wasn’t aware the British Press vilified him about some of the things he took after the Princess’ death (although it was later found to be gifted to him). I wish The Queen would have taken him back after the Princess’ death. It would have helped him grieve. I don’t think he was left with much support. I’m glad he has found love, and I wish him only the best. Keep doing you, Paul- we love hearing your stories… the ones about Diana and the ones about you!
Fascinating.
Nobody should live a lie like Paul have to 😢.I l married my husband in May 2019 after i met him in January 2011 ❤. I remeber Princess Diana shaking Hands with HIV /Aids Patients when i was a little boy ❤.I saw it on TV. This woman always wanted Love and aception like Paul always wanted the same ❤.
When Diana died on August 31.1997 😢 me and mother cried here in Germany for days❤😢and i promise Diana i will never live a lie by married a woman and having kids for my family and public❤😢.
Diana showed us how unhappy her marriage was and how short a life of only 36 years could be😢.
I sweared to her graveside no matter how long or short my life would be ❤.I will made myself happy ❤.
Love you Paul
Yeah that's kind of bogus I would have kept the cufflinks lol I have a vest, forever friend of mine that died in a recovery facility, cut the sleeves off and I wear it everywhere it is most certainly not worth as much as those cufflinks but they should have just kept wearing them if you like them.
A rather uncomfortable artifice - a filmed psychologist's session. Burrell's bit part in the royal drama is inescapable, he will always be Diana's Butler.
Mother taught boy to hate Dad and other Freudian issues around his Mother...his Mother literally imbeded him in him the feeling that he was: "special", "had a secret life he shared with his Mother, and was taught he needed her to be "protected". Like the therapist said he never learned coping mechanism. My gut feeling is he was sexualky abusedvas a boy and represses it. His conscious mind lets him think that's what he wanted. Im only 1/4 of the way in...lol have to watch the rest of the video now...lol
Therapist really irritating, loads of guess work no proper analysis, can only watch a few minutes of this
So far I'm up to the point where the therapist is talking about lady Diana's eating disorder he wasn't trying to be the catalyst I want to make that clear to people I don't think the therapist is seeing it from his perspective because I don't think she's supposed to and I think that is actually a good therapist I've been to a lot of them ended up taking care of my problems on my own but that's okay if I feel like having to go back I can go but the point I'm trying to make here is he couldn't go get her help he would have been probably in that car with Diana the royal family above all else they said it himself you know
Shes a very good therapist. He isn't there yet, though. He's also a very duplicitous character, probably a Gemini 🤣🤣 so difficult to know where you are with him and it can probably change on a dime.
I don't have great faith in this therapist - how did Paul sell out ??? It's rather stupid that she questions why Paul talks about Diana having a boy, after the boy is born.
We ask governments in all countries to unite bridge pillars as high as one or two meters so that if a car hits a bridge support it can still slide not as badly as a car hits a bridge pillar so that an accident hitting pillar like what happened to princess Diana does not happen again sorry and thank you
good documentary. 😅
Why the emoji??
This woman is to cold and harsh. Her demeanor is judgmental She can’t tell him what to feel from his experiences because she did not live them. Nor was there for Diana’s conversations with Paul. She can only hear his story and criticize. For her to dismiss his feelings when he says Diana was Important to him as his mother. That he wishes they lived as long as him and she lumped that together saying he can’t feel they were alike to him caring for both the same is when I disliked her.
I agree, I think that's why Paul never really could let his guard down. He felt threatened, and I don't think her intentions were to help. It was almost as though she was trying to convince him not to love Princess Diana anymore. So cold as you say, so very cold.
It's like she wanted to deprogramme him, and thereby see if that could be done to others. I wonder who recommended her to him.
Spot on! I don't trust her, harsh person. Last thing you want in a 'therapist'!
Agree
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No she’s being mean
You my dear man person, are now free - because of Love. Love is eternal, love, by any name or human being ~ is one within the best of the rest of you.
Better to Love than not to Love ~
lol
14:11 i have just written. Lost
I knoa number of pepole ...,.sales rep in the most prestigious stores i went in twice a week since 1988.
Superb service 🙏🙏 this is 19:20 19:23 how he and there are like treating me like extremely potentially buyer.
Bought here and there.
24:19 you are 🧠😊😊 intelligent........ prayers 🙏 trust in God....
He’s milking knowing Diana for all the publicity he can get..
Hes a clever cunning man. And yes with demons….
I think his intentions after Princess Diana was nothing vicious
I think Paul has alot of the same problems Harry suffers from with regard to Diana
I like that she challenges him in a way that makes him just uncomfortable enough to want to drop the mask we all wear outwardly to the world. I hope he continues his journey of self examination. Like her, I was not convinced of his proclamation that he “detached from Diana and her memories” or learned to not gravitate towards codependency.
He is exaggerating his relationship with princess Diana big time even her best friend said that this guy is not the guy talking like when you see him in Diana presence and she laughed ???
Actually there's nothing wrong with helping somebody that you're with help you cope with somebody that you had kind of a very over-the-top kind of attachment to, I think this is a little blown out of proportion and I'll tell a lot of you why, I find a kind of creepy that he was in the bottom of the closet with the clothes maybe he just got when did because he was crying and then it fell out, I think that with this particular relationship because it's not a normal relationship obviously, but the man was with his husband on getting over Diana don't just make it all about him, if you wants to request a little bit of an opinion on this because this is a very heavy situation I don't see nothing wrong with that just my opinion.
IF Paul had challenged Diana or any Royal family member, he'd have been out the next day and replaced with somebody who WOULD keep quiet. Would we challenge our work boss in the same situation, no. Ultimately, we are ourselves are responsible the practices we choose. It is the same story for those we know about Elvis, Michael Jackson etc. etc.
Therapy is intrusive, yet he has no problem being filmed..he knew and loved Diana, fair enough, but time to move on...people who still can't let go of.Diana and yet never knew het is something else entirely...
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Great, you remove my comments??? Bravo👺
The first thing I notice about her is definitely not her eyebrows, but okay.
I hope she recommends clearing chakras to alleviate the guilt and shame.💙
These are people who destroyed lifes of victims of medias.
Being a psychologist is not a profession, it is a GRACE, a ghift from GOD! Are a lot of them playing this role, 95℅ are completely useless but there is good money, isn t it ?! I don't like her, something is not in the right place!
She's completely cold-blooded and totally fake.
Agree
The therapist was excellent
If he really had respect and love for Diana, he wouldn’t be showing this. It’s unsettling.
The therapist is politely saying he's a very good liar. Ouch.
A liar who sees nothing wrong with living a double life.
Cold? I don’t know, she seems professional & compassionate to me.
After all she’s there for insight not to cuddle up & cry with her clients.
'Cuddle up and cry'?? It's very stupid to pretend that not wanting to be met with a cold attitude means that you want to be babied!!
I want to speak on Paul he loved that woman more than our bodies love vitamin d from the Sun he loved Diana I want to go as far as to say then he loved his mother no some people in those psychiatry community so quote unquote psychiatrists and help people you don't help much speaking for myself anyway that's not the wrong with that I don't see nothing wrong with him I've seen nothing off about him there were tapes with Diana that a dude which is an acting coach and speak coach speech excuse me I'm using talk to text and all that typing all this out that did some tapes with her to look at so she can work on her public speaking first take they did was her opening up about her life very intimately and deeply I can understand why he loved her and it's not just her physical beauty it's her inner beauty that really captivates people does not a coincidence in sight why people after she was murdered by the Royal family cried like babies it's snow coincidence man and I don't see anything wrong with him loving her like that she loves you she loved I read if she loved you she loved you and that's that that's that love love good down home Old fashioned Love you know so that's just my opinion on it
You want to be read? Punctuation and paragraphs are friends. Use them well. 😊
The past marked his life! Impacted him! I dont think he will ever let go! Obsesive! Hes Definsive! Not ready to let go!! He has to want to! To many secrets all of his life! Not done the work!!
We never really let go of those we have loved. We keep them inside our hearts. That's life. Have you let go of all your loved ones that have departed?
Omg, he’s back again???? Ugh.
And to tell the world she got colonic irrigations?!!
Oh brother.
It's already known.
That I believe that kind of pressure twists people's minds she played them like I played my fender electric guitar type of playing people I can see it what Diana was going through she probably became it on the verge of probably schizophrenic paranoid of the whole world that kind of environment develops a lot of things in the brain but they don't compute I kind of hear Paul but then I kind of hear the other Butler you know I just got to learn how to play that game it takes a while to learn
STOP TALKING.
Calling Diana "schizophrenic paranoid" is really hateful and preposterous. She was NOT schizophrenic paranoid. Diana had a horrible childhood, her parents had a vicious brutal divorce and her father was quite cruel to her mother and banned Diana's mother from having contact with her 3 kids for most of their childhood after the divorce. Then Diana's father married a Wicked Stepmother, Raine. Diana and her two siblings called their stepmother "Acid Raine"....like "acid rain" air pollution! Then Diana had a horrific marriage to a man who never loved her. Charles started committing adultery just TWO MONTHS after their wedding day and deliberately flaunted his adultery in public. He was an abusive husband and she was badly treated by the royal family. Then she was stalked, harrassed to her death by many hundreds of paparazzi who chased her car in the tunnel in Paris - then she was stalked, hunted down and killed like a wild animal in the car crash. You have zero emotional intelligence and zero empathy or compassion. Diana, Princess of Wales was a beloved international humanitarian who was widely admired all over the world.
Paul Burrell fears is failure. He is guilty because he feels lonely.
Lonely? That is total nonsense. Paul Burrell is quite happily married to a wonderful husband. Paul Burrell has a great relationship with his two adult sons and his grandchildren. He has lots of friends, owns a gorgeous home and has a great social life. What planet are you on?
The word Dogging is misplaced here
Wow first..
Congratulations!!
I feel like this should’ve been kept private
This vil man makes me nauseous, and wanting to puke each time I see him talking about Diana as if she was his belongings😤😡
He spent 26 of his life, cashing in on Diana Spencer name, thinking that he is the only person who can talk about her, making profit on Diana till this day!
You sound like a very vile woman.
Fingers crossed he keeps this therapists number in his book. You can't drop a love like that in one session and sometimes in a lifetime. I'm still trying to swallow that bowling ball of a statement when the queen told him to get married. Apparently thinking that would normalize things. Harsh.
Colonic irrigation. I have no words.
Second I guess
Is this the man who is Harry’s biological father?
Harry's father is Charles.
He looks like him doesn't he 🤔 🤷♀️
Ridiculous question. Harry's biological father is King Charles III - there were stupid preposterous rumors that Diana's riding instructor was Harry's father BUT they did not even meet in person until Harry was about 3 years old!
No.
I know what you are expecting Paul , lots of ££££££££s 😅😅😅
He was boinking other men in Buckingham Palace and didn’t even have the balls to own up to it when he was clearly caught.
35:55 nothing much, honestly. Seeing how he’s been hogging off of a dead woman for years
YOu have no idea. He at least knew her. Many write books about her who never did.
Paul should work for Harry and Meghan. It would be what Diana would want.
Meghan and Harry are "Bottom Feeders" and a couple of brats. Harry's wretched, putrid, vile book "Spare" absolutely trashed Paul Burrell with defamatory slander, libel and character assassination. Paul Burrell knew William and Harry from the time they were babies and he was very very close to both of them their entire life. Then Harry and Meghan jumped ship, abandoned all their "Working Royal" official duties and made that monstrous Netflix series. Harry's book is 100% rubbish and a cruel, sadistic book. You cannot be serious !!!! If Diana was alive today she would be FURIOUS with Harry for being such a brat and a "Bottom Feeder".
The body guard told that Diana was going to fire this twit because he was too familiar. Unfortunately Diana died first.
Who to believe? The bodyguard looks like he wanted his minutes of fame courtesy of Diana.
I believe he's Harry's father they look alike
Why he looks like prince harry