I found love again after spending years with a man who would beat me ,call me ugly and useless | LNN
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- Äas pĆidĂĄn 24. 11. 2022
- 47 year old Angela is a woman in love.,but she also knows how it feels to have loved a man that made her feel worthless and who constantly called her stupid and ugly reducing her self esteem to zero
On this episode of LNS, she takes Lynn through her painful childhood journey, falling in love with her abusive ex husband, raising her daughter, leaving the marriage to finding love again in a man that appreciates her
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Good morning team LNN,
We hope Angela's story serves as proof that you are deserving of beautiful, healthy love:)
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Thank you so much for watching.
Have a blessed weekend and remember to be an active participant as we observe 16 days of activism Against GBV
"The 16 Days of Activism against Gender-Based Violence is an annual campaign that begins on 25 November, the International Day for the Elimination of Violence against Women, and runs through International Human Rights Day on 10 December.
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Hello LNN, I sent an email to you a few weeks ago but I never got any response.
I'd really appreciate you highlighting my story. It'll be of great help.
Thank you.
She's a vibe, she's a beauty, she's an inspiration đ„°
If God was in her story,i will also come out victorious
I feel like this lady is talking about m.
I tell you this is my Sister and a Friend whom God used to change my whole story.
She sponsored my Secondary and College Education
I got a job and managed to pursue a Bachelor of Commerce ( Finance) at KCA University
She is a gem in my life,she is a gem in our family
Angie you are God's sent
The past reminds us of the hurdles we have all gone through and relays the best things ahead of us
May God continue blessing her.
đthanks bro ! I celebrate you !!! Thanks for joining in to support- many family members after you tell an unsettling story tend to distance themselves-- but we must speak our truth because this is what encourages others to open up and thrive too
Am a single mother,i came from a toxic relationship, my x husband was very irresponsible,so i left,i have a daughter who now is going to form 2, but i have been looking for a person who can sponsor her to finish her education pliz help me
She is a lovely person, i love how she grew past her childhood traumas. So beautiful!
@@angelakaranja6400 quite an inspiring story
Three weeks ago I lost my newborn son and during the same period i learnt of my husband infidelity,he is cheating publicly and blaming me. I separated from him,iam on my grief stage and i hope to heal completely. God has a great plan for me and my babies.
Sending you so much love and light Maureenđđ
You will be ok, as long as you've left that toxic situation. Keep encouraging yourself, speak to yourself positive and affirming words. The world is waiting for you to WOW it with your talents/gifts.
Sorry i wish you quick recovery so that you can move on
@@LynnNgugi thanks Lynnđđiam at stage of denial, can't believe itđ
@@teejayangel6638 thanks angel,I will surely attest to this after healing đ
đŻAngela...she is 47??? n she looks 25...wow! Aging beautifully like fine wine. Great message esp for me... really needed to hear that. Am so much encouraged. I wish her more love đ and wins.
This generation of 60s % 70s never age.
Iam wondering lam 28 but l look like 40s my God bad marriage
@@kemigishadaphine4409 it's reversible, take care of yourself mentally, emotionally and physically, you're too young to look older.
Was looking for this comment,she is beautiful inside outâ€
Being single and happy is better than being sad and afraid in abusive marriage,you should be in marriage to be happy to smile to laugh,and to make good memories not to be upset to feel hurt and cry.
This is so true
Yes yes
Sure
As a child whose mom left an abusive marriage. I became a happier child when she left.
Me too. Waa over joyed when my late Mum decided to leave. I watched her been bitten almost everyday and especially weekends. May her soul rest in eternal peace.
My daughter tells me that all the time. My kids are happy that am happy đ€Łđ€Ł
I congratulate you
Since I discovered that over apologizing kills my self esteem đ ,till today I no longer stay where I'm not appreciated nor I can't stay where I cry đ everyday, selflove for life #., your story makes sense on my daily today's lives
Am in a second abusive marriage and am trying to get out of it pray fo me ...
May God help you đ..I know..I also had two abusive marriage..and now I prefer being single for my kids.. they were going through but pain that I was
Iam so sorry about that. Please create an exit plan and if conditions allow, get out as soon as possible.
@@RUZHOFFS conditions not good as soon as possible will exit
It's normal don't be hard on yourself but mapema ndio best just put a full stop n walk away
Weee toka and wait on God's time
This show has really triggered me!!!
When I was going through a difficult time with my family and trying to discover myself to heal. I spend a lot of time studying narcissism and mental health. I learned, despite growing up in a well-off home, I grew up in a very dysfunctional family...There is something I read that stuck with me, "Adult children of narcissists carry a pervasive sense of worthlessness and toxic shame, as well as subconscious programming, which causes them to become more easily attached to predators in adulthood."
My late elder sister wasn't lucky. Because of all the vile hatred, invalidation and rejection she went through at the hands on my mother and her puppets...perhaps she would have married an abusive husband; perhaps she would have had a different life if she was loved, heard and encouraged; perhaps she would still be alive.
Sorry about what you went through, true, the things we go through as kids affect us much later in our adulthood. I'm glad you researched about that stuff and you're aware now.
Have you considered seeing a therapist, it helps alot. You need to become a better person first before being able to extend love to others.
I grew up in a dysfunctional home as well and I can tell you I've had to deal with alot of issues in counselling. I'm currently a student counselor and I've learnt alot of psychological issues that children have suffered from, from the families they grew up in. It's super sad but there's hope when you find help.
Youâre right. Child abuse does rob children the present and the future
@@liznyaga3918 I agree,I need therapy
@@mercygakuo6002 đŠâ€ïž
That's Soo powerful. I was in such marriage and I left with my 3boys 4months after C's and battered properly.
I didn't know where to go but God works well with anyone who trusts him. Even if am not stable yet..... Am happy I left. Am at peace my kids are at peace..... Hoping for more blessings.
Never think you can change a person who can't value you.
Praying for you and things will get better â€ïžâđ©č
Your a strong person, may God shower your ways,
@@RUZHOFFS Thankyou Soo much. Am very optimistic about life and I'll testify soon.
@@elizabethnzioki7627 With God we fight and come out victorious.
You are very courage's .may God lift you higher and higher
We all have a lot to learn from Angela's story , especially about Selflove, self-esteem and leaving tables where peace is not served.
I like your confidence lady
How I wish you could go round schools ad mentor our young gals
I just realized ukitoka on an abusive marriage and go out there,the doors open more than you expected
Yes, it's the thoughts of you are not worthy , no can love you. It's a lie . Good men know a good thing if they're God fearing.
"...a person who does not support your journey or is threatened by your journey" is the catch for me. Literally living this right now
This was my case.n the clipping part
This show has been like a free therapy session to me, thank youđ€
She's such a good story teller... She's got a really good aura, I'm glad your story will inspire others
This video just made me realize sometimes you donât have to hear someone say âIâm sorryâ as long as the person knows they hurt you, you got to move on
My mother grew up in different households, lost her mum at 15, married very young and had me as a teen ⊠sometimes Iâm angry she didnât do more but then the people around her never supported her and she grew up not knowing her own worth I think itâs safe to say that after this video I get my mum better now.
Well said. Get your mum better
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Great conversation. I am inspired...47 looking 25. Beautiful girl
I can't miss watching any of your shows, they motivates, am staying with a narcissist, it's never easy but anytime I listen to such stories I know my time to be happy is coming. Narcissts makes you look 3Ă your age. Thanks alot Lynn for the good work.
Oh wow..what an inspiring story.
Angela Karanja is such a vibe even after what she went gone through ,she tells her story with so much wisdom,grace ad compassion.
I pray for everyone going through any domestic violence or abuse.May you find the strength to chose yourself and leaveđ
May you prioritize peace over everything,it shall be well.
Shukran Lynn and LNN team.
Am not near to marriage live alone dating anyone at the moment, next year am going to the fourth floor, this story has made me to stand firm and not give in to the pressure. I WILL WAIT
Wx/8euux
She actually gave me a flashback, I left my abusive babydaddy because I couldn't suffer the same way my mum suffered though bado sijapata mtu lakini leaving a toxic man is the beginning of happiness, see God đ
Studies released recently shows that the two happy groups in our society are married men and single child less women. Women of next generations make wiser decisions
I was in an abusive relationship for years & I managed to get out of it in 2017. I have been single since 2017 but this story is making me think twice.
My case,let's move on sis
Thats me right now just moved two months ago.
This is me, but I always in Gods timing
I mean trusting in God's time.
Am on my way to join you girls đ
After watching this , I feel it's time I open up and tell my story. #Lynn ngugi I will be your guest soon.
Abusive marriage is a Noođ
Wow,Angela's energy and humour is unmatched. I love her already. She know who she is despite of what she has been through....this is awesome đ
Rising up from abusive relationship is a choice that requires one's self love and confidence.
Thanks Lynn for the video n your blouse is so good on you đ
OMG ! This lady is from my area wow am happy to see someone giving testimony âșïž from my area I grew up am in Dubai and I swear for sure it doesn't matter how you grew up or where you come from...the future is always bright âșïžâșïžI'm enjoying her inspirational story âŁïžâŁïž Murang'a mugoiri well represented
Tuko wengi hapađ
She's such a bubbly soul. I have learnt a lot from her,she has beautiful affirmations in her life. She's awesome
Taking notes, Lynn glowing each and every moment plus channel growing
Love love love Angela's positive outlook of life, what an inspiring story! Keep soaring!
To every woman you are beautiful and wonderfully made, let no man treat you less in the name of marriage.thrive in your power âŁïž
When we heal we know exactly what we want and donât settle for less
You are right..
âThrive in the place youâve been plantedâ Powerful
Very inspiring story.Her mum broke the cycle by receiving her daughter's words. She healed that generational trauma.Thank you so much for sharing â€ïžâ€ïžâ€ïžâ€ïžâ€ïžâ€ïžâ€ïž
Very true, abusive relationships are very complex and NEVER judge a lady for walking out. Angela you are beautiful inside out. Learnt alot from you,wise ladyđ.
She's such a beautiful soul and a great story teller.
I'm in France but I won't stop watching your shows Lynn. The show teaches a lot of things. We are happy and we love it very much. We are the Lynn family.
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@@bettymwash2672 hello
how are you
@@bettymwash2672 I'm good dear how are you?
Aki im need of a job i dont know bt you can help me to get a job
An abuser will first of all make sure you totally lose your self esteem,then they get the power n energy to abuse you the way they wanted.
I love this woman already , God didnât create us to be abused , itâs not His will for us to live in abuse and bondage â€
Lynn you are an inspiration to many.
Todays show has touch my soul,
Am reminded of my value as a woman.
Very inspirational! She had the courage to change the narrative. Breaking the cycle is never easy but we can do it with determination. Very insightful wellness journey! đŻđ
Iâm getting obsessed watching Lynn. A very motivating interview
watched angela karanja story, and was very inspired, by her courage, i lost two aunts through domestic abuse, yet people knew all about the abuse. No one did anything, they would come home tell their parents about, but nothing was done, in the end one of them took poison and ended her life. the other was kcked by the husband while pregnant and died. this has left a very bitter taste in me.
Pole. The worst bit, is that these men get away with this scotfree.
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Imagine
So sorry- and thatâs why we are speaking so we can stop losing our dear friends and sisters aunties mothers and ourselves!!
Got Goosebumps listening to this stories , Our Mother's tend to be in Marriages even though they are unhappy but what you did show things are changing for the good and Never to give up on Love nomatter what your situation is
Inspiring story â€ïžit's ok to be single than be abused..Angela you rock..
This is such an inspirational story, and I can tell she had a lot to unpack! Iâm happy for her accomplishments.
Thank you Lyn,I love her confidence and how articulate she brought it out...SELF Love đ is key,heal so that you don't bleed on other people..this is my story difficult childhood can really mess you up unless you realize it and resolve all the childhood traumas
I love this girl she is a vibe, alot of positivity in her.
Angie, you're an incredible woman! Keep soaring.
Beautiful soulđ„°, beautiful daughter and amazing family â€ïžshe is a champion... Say no to abuseđ
I like that she mentions that there are good people out there. I believe this. In this crazy world, there is still good. She has good energy.
Beautiful story Iâm really happy for her she over come her past and sheâs now happy with her new husband đ„°
Thank u lynn for the good work u do,God bless uđđ» this story has taught me alot
Wau the woman is beautiful thanks Lynn for bringing such stories to inspire us
Lynn, yes marriage is good but when abuse sets in, then the best advice would be to ran fast. Being single is no crime. Love for self is very important. An abusive marriage brings a lot of psychological problems including bed wetting cos of the trauma one goes through. Lynn, kudos to you and your team for all the great interviews you bring us. Gifty from Ghana đŹđ
She has such a bubbly and lovable spirit. Her story Just goes to show how much of an impact a god teacher can have on a child.
đ100 percent! Thatâs why when I work with teachers I remind them how pivotal they are
Love her story. Iâm inspired by her story. I pray for that kind of love and support from my one day future mate. This and Adaâs story is so inspiring. And sheâs so beautiful. Looks more like 28.
Wow, thought she's in early 30s,love is a beautiful thing
Another interesting story ,let me sit down and enjoy the show đ
Thank you Lynn for bringing us these inspirational journeys! This is one of the best! I must get that book!đ
In any reconciliatory relationship, we never seek to redo the experiences or things but owning up and saying "I was wrong, please forgive me" turns around events and restores the relationship and melts the pain of the occurrence. that was wisdom! Thank you Angela.
I like watching such interviews and inspire me having been single for 6 yrs
Hi Lynn,the story is sooooo inspiring,watching from USA.
"There was a lot of clipping of my wings" âčïž It's so true, abusive people don't want to see you happy or proud of yourself. They want to humble you...
My God have mercy of that kind of people....
My exact case,the clipping was too much I felt suffocated.
Shout out for miss Kamau..... let us always have positive impact to people around us. Lyn si we find out where Miss Kamau is..... am sure she is much older now but let her know she shaped someone's life. The way we handle ourselves and others matters a lot.
This is the best thing that has happened to me this morning Lord remember me at the time of need and give me a second chance
A story full of teachings! From hard work to breaking generational stories. My dad used to also use the derogatory word on me too. Weâre thrivers nowâșïžâșïžâșïž
and a bunch of lies too..........she was my mom until I was of no useto her.......she did the same with the so called ''abusive husband".......she lost control......she's trying to control the narrative and its disgusting
Wow amazingstory i will try to get angela so inspirational
When a man hits you once just walk away, Angela you are soo beautiful đam happy that you walked away and found love again.
When he verbally abuses you once, walk away too - that comes before the beatings
When you're wounded, you bleed on others. This explains so many things in life!
Lynn you are so good at what you do. You just let her have the stage which was the right way to interview her.
Wazungu are genuine and if they love you will give you the best love. If they donât want you they will let you know.
Great job Lynn, wow such beautiful soul who knows what she's need amazing.
Hi Lynn Ngugi and your guest, watching from Kansas đșđČ
Ageing gracefully Angela.. you're looking great .. very inspirational đčđ„°
Angela, you are a wonderful person and have a lot of great nuggets to share with adolescents and youth in general. Like the confidence and enthusiasm, and will definitely try to get your book, "smuggled" from Amazon
Waoh.....what a beautiful inspiring story........thanks,Linn for bringing us Angela.
Angelas story has brought me tears,my cousin whom we lost through domestic violence would be her age if she was alive,how i wished she listened and believed to the strong words my dad used to tell her.We loved her as a family,the pain never goes away even after the 20 years we have been without her.I miss her dearly.
Hugs
Mrs kamau is now a doctor lecturerin the same university.
@@rolahnjoroge5673 wow đ„°đ„°đ„°
Hugsđ«
Good morning Lynn and team stay blessed always here to learn
I am watching this with tears in my eyes.
Am truly proud of you Angie,i usually say when you know your worth you begin to be selfish in so many aspects of your life..your time,your emotions,your space ..and with that you realize that you deserve much better.We glow differently when we heal.You look amazing my gal.
May God continue blessing you Lynn,your stories is therapy to many of us
Wow ! I can relate so much from Angela's story . One day I will tell mine
Great lesson, people should learn to be strong and leave toxic relationships.
Lynn family, one of the best team. Many likesđđ
Such an inspiration, thanks Lynn for bringing us such important eye opening contents.
This lady is full of vigor and energy, I can resonate with her Thengeini primary school story
So glad that you got out of the relationship, stabilized and were able to focus on exactly what you wanted. May God grant you your heart's desire.
Excellent interview!!!!! So inspiring!!!! I appreciate that you have shared this story with us all! I especially like the focus on healing.
This woman is beautiful and so bubbly,her laughter is contagious.
Aaah,I would be happy just to watch her from a distance. I love her
Angela, Angela, love this woman and who she's become. Thank you for sharing your inspiring story.
This is amazingly awesome love you girls. Good job Lynn đđ
Remarkable lady, well done Angie.
You are such an inspiration. God bless you
Goodmorning lynn salimia the legendary and crew blessed day.
Iistening to this teaches me one thing.i need to be greatful for everything no matter how small or trivia it may be
She's a gem, and she don't even look her age.
Angela is such amazing soul
Wow! what an inspiring story. I learnt a lot from you.
I have to heal myself before I start over again. Thanks Angy. You've touched my heart and given me hope. Lynn, you're the best. God bless you both.
5months now since I left my toxic marriage am still here crying every single day remembering all bad things that man did to me..I hope one day I will heal and raise my daughter to be a testimony
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This is me 5 years and everytime I remember all the beatingsđđ
Yes sweetie you are healing already coz you hv shared
@@martharinebiseko1457 it's not easy for me to accept everything and move on since I was raised by a single mom I still have that fear,will I manage
U will soon đ„°
Thank you Lynn! Awesome work! Thank you Ms. Angela. God bless you
What an insightful show. Thank you