What Type of Sex is Okay in Marriage? According to the Bible
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Married 22 years. Does not matter if we are happy or unhappy. We have a 2 day rule. We never go more than 2 days without having sexual connection. If we mad, too bad. This prevents withholding, and it's a game. changer.
“If we mad, too bad” 😂😂😂😂😂😂
What if your sick or have a UTI?
@srv3fender well obviously if im puking, he dont want none of that... but I never have UTI. If you get them that often plz see Dr. I did have kidney cancer. Obviously, during that trial, we adjusted as we were focused on my recovery more. But that was just a short period with no sex after surgery. Even sick, I wanted intimacy with my husband. It was a scary time, realizing our time could be limited, love making gave us an opportunity express that. The pleasure was just a bonus.
Y'all are amazing for that agreement
Wow! That’s awesome! When I get married, I hope my wife agrees to a similar rule 😁
This is a huge help for me. I've been struggling with A P-addiction since I was 9 years old... It made me feel so shameful and the guilt was too much to handle. I would relapse and spiral and The enemy would gain more ground. Through Jesus working in me, I pray to one day be free of it! I'm gonna go straight to songs of Solomon and study!
God bless you
✝
I do as well
I also struggle with it. We just need to repent, keep asking God to deliver us out of it and believe in the Lord Jesus. We are saved by his works (our faith in him), not ours. This does not mean that it is ok, but just don't doubt your salvation. The Lord will forgive you. Just try to fight it, not because of your salvation, but because you love the Lord.
I have been struggling with this for almost 16 years now. I repented and prayed a lot to the Lord to help me get out of it. As time went on, it seemed like there was no hope and I had made so many mistakes that the enemy was succeeding in making me doubt my salvation. But then I remembered that salvation is all about what the Lord did for me and not about what I did for him. Unlike us, God does not take back his word. And now I'm about to get married, so very soon I will be free from this sin. Until then, I will keep fighting (avoiding it) as long as I can and just trust in the Lord. I hope my experience will help anyone who reads it. May God bless you in the name of the Lord Jesus Christ.🙏
I’m a Pastor and I love that you say go into the word for yourself I say this to God’s people all the time. Bless you
Amen
AMEN
Pastor, I'm not sure if that is our best advice to God's people. I recall The Ethiopian eunuch who sat in his chariot reading Isaiah for himself... yet, he did not understand what he was reading. This is just as common today. Perhaps our better advice should be to "seek a gifted teacher of the Bible in prayer who will help you rightly divide the Word of God"
I think the pastor is saying to pray, read and do your own due diligence. There are many ways to cross check scripture nowadays, that weren’t available in biblical times.
@@Raiders4LF thank you ,we must teach God’s people to study for themselves and rightly divide the word of truth.don’t just rely on others to teach you.
Please pray for me am on my 7 day daniel fast and am nothing hear for God my marriage needs some strong pray because my husband is considered divorce but in the name of Jesus he going to restore us as one union 🙏
May peace reign in your home.
@@Jenny-fl5cn thanks you so much 💓
I'm praying for you 🤍
@Ashanti c thanks you
I hope this gives you some hope - I can ASSURE you no doubt from experience that GOD LOVES RESTORING BROKEN THINGS AND MAKING THEM MORE BEAUTIFUL YOU EVER THOUGHT POSSIBLE. If you believe … keep knocking … when it seems like God isn’t working fast enough because things are getting worse … trust god! God told me in my situations, that this is part of his plan because he saying a lesson gonna be learned for both u and your husband to become refined like diamonds in his kingdom and u can’t be the best if you haven’t had to fall. When you’re crying, pray during because god holds our tears in a bottle and he hears us so dearly! God won’t let u down! Never! Trust god!
Karolyne. I happen to see your video for the first time, and wanted to let you know what a breath of fresh air like a cool sea breeze you are to listen to. Although I am not currently Married, I'm a 67 year old widower who was blessed to be with my dear sweet wife of just shy 25 years. If the Lord ever blesses me again in marriage, I sincerely hope that she will have the grace, and thoughtfulness you have displayed. Lord bless my sister in Christ. a new fan
Wow, I am blessed by this comment sister. Thank you. God bless you!
So he said may you forever be intoxicated with her love…. Sounds like it’s okay to be strung out or turnt out by your spouse. Ahhh. What a relief to be in Jesus and married for 27 years. We got each other hooked and that’s alright. So glad I found this content. Not that I didn’t know or believe but it’s on CZcams for the world to understand what God had given us for our pleasure. Thank you for posting 🙏🏽😊❤️
Some Christians and pastors believe that the Song of Solomon is only symbolic. It is a book of romance and physical intimacy. Nicely done here. Keep it up👍🏽 your husband is blessed to have you as his wife. You give the devil NO ammo to use against him. God bless your marriage and ministry.
They think it’s “symbolic” because they have no idea about the correct interpretation and they are too proud to admit that. When Solomon penned that stuff, there was neither Christ nor Church so how can SOS be talking about Christ and the Church. That was Paul’s job to come much later!! Besides, Christ is not in the business of having sex with the Church so these liars need to just STOP.
I’ve been married for 35 years. My husband and I have a great sex life. In the beginning of our Christian walk I like many wanted to please God in all areas of my life. I did not dare go to my Pastors for questions. Google was not around either. But one weekend my church offered a marriage retreat and my eyes were open!! We had a session with the ladies only and the Pastors wife and women’s leaders had a panel and like you they used the Word to enlighten us. I came out of that retreat with a load off my shoulders. My husband has been a very happy man ever since. Yes! Sex is for pleasure and enjoyment.
Yes 🙌🏽…. I learned from Pastors wives that the marriage bed is undefiled and I was given the talk & a whole lot of ques during my engagement! 😂😂😂 I was soooo happy & excited!
@@heartspeaks sex its not at all>>>>>>respect and wnderful company is gratter than unsatified sex ...
All faith is false. More control from a distance....blind faith by church women is one reason men have left the church bullshit.
The Church my husband and I attend had the same, a session with all females, a panel & the Pastor's wife leading the panel. There was a suggestion box with annoymous questions& my face was red for the majority of the session. It was a good time, I laughed so much but it also opened my eyes.
Woooow
I have been in ministry for 44 years I appreciate your insights. This subject definitely needs to be discussed in the church. Thank you for taking this on.!
Important Messianic scriptures which Jesus didn't fulfill and proves he wasn't the Jewish messiah....
Isaiah 11:9
Jewish scriptures say that when the messiah comes and the kingdom is established, "the earth shall be full of knowledge of Yahweh as the waters cover the sea". Meaning everyone around the world would know of Yahweh without the need to teach.(fail)
Zachariah 9:10
The messiah will take the weapons of war away from everyone, proclaim peace unto all the nations, and his rule will be over all the earth.
(We still have war, weapons of war, and Hindus--fail)
Isaiah 2:4
The messiah will judge between the nations and give many people criticism for their behavior. He will take all weapons if war and there will be world peacs and no more teaching/trainjng how to fight war.
(Fail)
Zachariah 8:23
Everyone worldwide will try to seek out Jews in admiration to bring them to the messiah, because they heard he is with them. (Fail)
Ezekiel 37:12
Mass Resurrection of the dead. (Didn't happen-- fail)
Ezekiel 45:22-23
The messiah will perform animal sacrifices for the sins of the people. (Which completely cancels the Christian claim that jesus was the last sin sacrifice)--fail
Zephaniah 3:9
When the messiah establishes the kingdom, Yahweh will give everyone one pure language to use. --fail, didn't happen.
Jeremiah 31:34
No more teaching of religion, for all will immediately be given knowledge of Yahweh. No bibles,no qurans, no religious books needed. And nobody would lack knowledge or be an atheist.
Are there atheists and religious books still?? Fail
Isaiah 26:19
Zombiepocolypse. Dead shall rise worldwide. ---fail
Ezekiel 44:9
Everyone must be circumcised by the heart AND the flesh. (Cutting all mens dicks😱🤭--fail)
These are just some of the major messianic scriptures that must happen, but didn't happen. Jews know they didn't happen, and therefore they know their messiah hasn't come.
Anyone whom claims otherwise has failed to acknowledge the importance of Jewish scriptures to Jews and Jesus.
Only blind cult faith in the ridiculous vision* claims of Paul (Paul never met Jesus) would lead someone to believe jesus was the messiah.
Jewish scriptures from the so-called "old testament" that contradict Christian beliefs.....
Isaiah 43:10-11
I, Yahweh, am the lord, and besides me there is NO OTHER SAVIOR.
Deuteronomy 4:35
Yahweh is god, and there is NO ONE ELSE beside him.
Isaiah 45:22
Look unto only me to be SAVED, for I am Yahweh your god and there is NO ONE ELSE as your SAVIOR.
Jeremiah 17:5
Cursed be the man that trust in man and make flesh his savior, and whose heart no longer looks to Yahweh.
Psalm 146:3
Do not trust in man, for in whom there is NO SALVATION.
Hosea 11:9
God is NOT A MAN.
Numbers 23:19
God IS NOT a man OR son of man.
1 Samuel 15:29
God is not a man.
Psalm 49:7-8
No man (including Jesus) can die in place of, or be ransom paid for the sins of another.
Ezekiel 18:20
Every man is responsible for his own sin, and a father (including God-the father) cannot take responsibility for the sins of his children
Exodus 20:4-5
Anyone worshiping a man in place of Yahweh is guilty of the sin of idolatry.
Malachi 3:6
I am the lord and do not change.
Christianity completely contradicts Hebrew scriptures and what Jesus believed. Jews AND Jesus believed you had to repent and ask Yahweh for forgiveness directly to be forgiven. Jesus wouldn't even know modern Christians as his followers, but Paul surely would. Christians are no less deluded than a Mormon or Muslim who believes their new testament is true.
Besides the immoral verses, verses in the Jewish scriptures that prove Christian doctrine is false, and the messianic scriptures that prove Jesus wasn't the Messiah, there's tons more evidence otherwise that proves Christianity wrong and the Bible lacks credibility.
Lots of errors, contradictions, borrowing from other religions' mythology.
Mythology like talking snakes and talking donkeys.
In luke, Jesus had to take money from Mary of Magdala and other gullible women for his ministry, because he couldn't provide for himself. And we know he welcomed the money because of the many times and people he accepted it. This is hypocrisy, because he told his followers god will provide for your needs. He could have easily turned down the money and said, "my father feeds me like the birds", and then popped out some magical loaves and fishes, right???🤷♂️ He was a hypocrite.
Jonah was supposed to survive in the oxygen deprived and hydrochloric acid filled stomachs of a whale for 3 days.(mythology)
In the earlier Jewish scriptures and belief, Yahweh had a physical' body and would have not needed Jesus' body to dwell among humans. Hebrews believed in a god like Zeus that had a body with a nose that smelled Noah's sacrifice, physically wrestled with Jacob, couldn't see past clouds with his eyes as he walked on the firmament above the clouds with his feet, walk in the garden with his feet, had to fly down to the tower of babel to see with his eyeballs what was going on, he breathed life into bodies with his mouth and lungs, etc etc. He never needed Jesus' body.
***Furthermore, impregnating a betrothed woman was breaking Yahweh's mosaic laws, which means u are calling Yahweh a hypocrite and adulterer for believing the holy ghost impregnated Mary.***
Bible also teaches the ancient belief of the sky being blue because of an ocean of water above a glasslike SkyDome firmament that kept the waters above from falling down on us and the waters below, Bible says the universe is geocentric and the earth is flat like a coin and the stars are hung on the firmament like Christmas tree ornaments.
Book of Joshua claims sun and moon stood still for a day, which only works with flat earth geocentric cosmology where the sun and moon revolve around the earth, otherwise such a thing would have killed everyone and everything as the oceans would have catastrophically flooded all land on earth based on our current cosmology scientific understanding.
Noah's mythological story was mostly borrowed from Babylonian and sumerian mythology.
I could go on and on.
You have to foolishly justify these problems with either "magic or god works in mysterious ways" which makes u no different than a Muslim who believes Muhammad split the moon and had a flying donkey.
If u really care about truth u need to investigate these things, or u risk believing a lie for the rest of your life.
People who want to believe true things do not believe books and humans that lack credibility
@@audieabel1261 one word cancels all your "fails", the word is "when". (Second coming, the rapture, etc.).
Old testament, new testament.
I like how Mrs. Karolyn said. "Ask God to lead you." The Holy Spirit will convict you as to how to establish healthful boundaries concerning many of life's activities that we share with other's be it we're married or single.
Thank u Karolyn.
There is no god, grow up!
@@zaratgreen2095 Then why are you here???
Karolyne, your hesitation and your spirit of unsureness bares witness that you don’t actually believe that you can practice sexual positions outside of the missionary. The sexual positions in the bedroom, even among the wedded, such as the doggy-style, the cowboy where the wife is on top of the husband, oral and anal sex are all perverted. These acts are even demonic. These acts were inspired by demons from the pits of hell and entered into the hearts of men and women thousands of years ago. Look at the ancient Hindu text of Kamasutra and Tantric sex. One is for gaining a sexual spiritual experience and the other is for carnal sexual pleasure. Karolyne, you sound dangerously close to this. You will be judged more harshly as a teacher in Christ. Be absolutely sure you’re not teaching a false doctrine.
God only accepts the missionary style of sex. Think about it. If God accepts all of these sex positions, then why is the porno industry “defined” and “branded” by the very positions that you support under the context of the marriage bed that is “undefiled.” Undefiled is not a code word for digging in your bag-o-tricks of freakdom to see how we can pleasure one another. I too have come across testimonies where Christians went to hell and back because a woman said her husband forced her to have this kind of sex even though she didn’t want to do it. She told Jesus that she was submitting to her husband. But if she had remained dead Hell would be her home today. Galatians 5:16, “So I say, let the Holy Spirit guide your lives. Then you won’t be doing what your sinful nature craves.”
@@fortheladies771 better question for that person: HOW are you hear?
So basically it’s going down in the bedroom after those vows are exchanged.. Amen 😎🙏🏾
😂😂😂hecks yes, you see she had to hold her laugh back as well
Karolyne, your hesitation and your spirit of unsureness bares witness that you don’t actually believe that you can practice sexual positions outside of the missionary. The sexual positions in the bedroom, even among the wedded, such as the doggy-style, the cowboy where the wife is on top of the husband, oral and anal sex are all perverted. These acts are even demonic. These acts were inspired by demons from the pits of hell and entered into the hearts of men and women thousands of years ago. Look at the ancient Hindu text of Kamasutra and Tantric sex. One is for gaining a sexual spiritual experience and the other is for carnal sexual pleasure. Karolyne, you sound dangerously close to this. You will be judged more harshly as a teacher in Christ. Be absolutely sure you’re not teaching a false doctrine.
God only accepts the missionary style of sex. Think about it. If God accepts all of these sex positions, then why is the porno industry “defined” and “branded” by the very positions that you support under the context of the marriage bed that is “undefiled.” Undefiled is not a code word for digging in your bag-o-tricks of freakdom to see how we can pleasure one another. I too have come across testimonies where Christians went to hell and back because a woman said her husband forced her to have this kind of sex even though she didn’t want to do it. She told Jesus that she was submitting to her husband. But if she had remained dead Hell would be her home today. Galatians 5:16, “So I say, let the Holy Spirit guide your lives. Then you won’t be doing what your sinful nature craves.”
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It's not like anything goes. Oral sex, anal sex, sex toys, even certain sexual positions etc. are perverted in and of themselves. It's demonic and never should be done in or outside marriage. Don't let anyone fool you. Satan has deceived many including Christians and minds have been preprogrammed through watching pornography. People with twisted minds think Song of Solomon talks about it but that is not true at all. Their sick minds see what they want to see. It's a sin to even suggest the Holy Bible talks about this.
I was a little leary about watching this video, because I thought it might be trying to put a bunch of rules and restrictions on sex within marriage. I was pleased to find out that it was just the opposite. I FULLY believe it's TOTALLY fine to be sexually free and unrestricted in marriage. Use common sense, as mentioned in this video, of keeping it between just you and your spouse. Aside from that, if you both enjoy it, and are in AGREEMENT, I can't think of any restrictions. You can be as free, creative, unrestricted, and "freaky" as BOTH of you agree upon. The last thing couples need is a bunch of rules and restrictions limiting the intimacy and enjoyment of their spouse. There are plenty of rules and restrictions before marriage. Now it's time to set restrictions aside, and enjoy each other without guilt or boundaries. Thank you for this video .... it just reinforced what I already felt I knew.
Oh! hay! It's getting hot in here😅
oral sex is demonic
What you say just doesn't like up with scriptures. Oral sex is a sin always. It's perverted and not of God. So many Christians won't make it to heaven if they practice it and don't repent and turn away from it.
My wife and I married ,I’m a male for 38 years so far. !!our marriage pastor met with us prior to marriage and shared God made marriage and sex a blessing . Amen 🙏
Oral sex is a sin at all times. It's never ok because it is a perverted act and not of God.
Wrong.
@@tjc1121 where is the exact scripture that says that.
10:15 a friend felt this way. He used sodom and Gomorrah as examples. He called anything other than man on top missionary, sodomy. He also continues to use verses about how husbands are the leaders to stronghold his wife. Treat her as the lesser partner. Regardless of how many verses I pointed him to and explained what many pastors explained, he refused to listen. Unfortunately this brother is divorced and to this day can’t figure out why.
Thank you for talking about this...many churches avoid or demonize the topic of sex.
That’s sad (even in marriage 🙄😩)
It’s so strange.
I hate that! Like does the Bible not say be fruitful? Sex is a beautiful thing inside of marriage ❤
sounds like yall need to go to diff churches
@@johnkttraining Really? Send me the full recording of when last your pastor’s topic was “sex”.
Thank you Karolyne , I couldn't agree more on the subject of sex within the marriage arrangement from the book " Song Of Solomon " . I know first hand that it can be a tough subject with closed minded and ignorant people . God Bless You .
Thank you so much Karolyne for this enlightening and informative video...I currently am single but have been married and my ex did withhold sex sometimes when she wasn't happy with me...when we had disagreements...I didn't think it was fair of her but your video has been very helpful if God blesses me with another opportunity for marriage! Thank you and keep creating more video content....maybe on biblical intimacy or what is fornication since I know many Christians who think sex before marriage is acceptable....look forward to more amazing videos...God bless!!
AMEN
@@feliciajohns4148 Thank you for the Amen Felicia
Praying you're doing fine!
I believe sex before marriage is not acceptable as christians
Sweet to her taste is a metaphor for fulfillment for her desire, becareful not to be a stumbling block to others
Sodomy is oral sex
Yes brother, you are correct. I used to believe as her until The Holy Spirit gave me the correct understanding of those verses. Unfortunately, many of us were influenced by pop culture, ungodly videos, and ungodly music as to what sex should be before turning to The Most High. And that has opened many people up to unholy and unhealthy sexual practices. And there are others who were forced to do things through abuse and sexual violation that opened them up to unclean spirits. We all need to be delivered and cleansed on a daily basis to keep ourselves unstained by the world. Peace and blessings to you 🙏🏽 and yours.
Church is more perverse then ever,even using scriptures to promote uncleanness..And they are all over the internet.When in history did you ever think that this subject would be an open forum ...that itself is unclean
That scripture isn't talking about Oral sex sister I would encourage you to meditate on the character of God and also the nature of God
Amen brother. It is not.
She never said it was about oral sex. But it seems like you interpreted to be about oral sex. I'm not blaming you, cause I interpreted it the same way, too.
@@kings17court well maybe that's the problem... A lot of folks interpret the scripture the wrong way... Lots of things are perversions of the natural way and they are sin and things that we love to do and engage that we shouldn't. Some of us do them ignorantly and some of us do it because of the influence of a demon
It’s called sodomy for a reason, I’d rather be alone and don’t perform this disgusting act since men are so perverted this days, even so called Christian men want to objectify and degrade women for their own pleasure 🤮🤮🤮
sounds like your wife refuses to give you oral sex so you don't want anyone else to get it 😂😂😂😂 how do you know that you of all people interpret it the right way 😊@@shugntelljohnsonjr
Great insight and excellent delivery. More marriages need to consult the Holy Spirit and study the Song of Songs. Both viewpoints, male and female ( her sitting and tasting his fruits and him tasting her garden), need to be explored
That verse in the Songs is not referring to oral sex. If you interpret "fruit" in the Bible to mean genitals (according to that scripture in the Song of Songs which says his fruit was sweet to my taste) then does the nine "fruit" of the Spirit actually mean the nine genitals of the Spirit? How about when the Bible says you shall know them by their "fruit"? Does that then actually mean you will know them by their genitals? No of course not! The Bible is a holy book. It uses the word "fruit" multiple times and it has never and will never mean genitals. Webster's dictionary defines sodomy as anal, oral sex and bestiality. It could also mean any unnatural/ non reproductive sexual act as defined by other dictionaries so that would include toys, manual sex, using the pull out method ect. The Bible says no sodomite will enter the kingdom of heaven "Do you not know that the unrighteous will not inherit the kingdom of God? 'Do not be deceived. Neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor [a]homosexuals, nor [b]SODOMITES, 10 nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor extortioners will inherit the kingdom of God. " - 1 Corinthians 6:9-11 Notice how homosexuals and sodomites are used separately meaning they are two different things.
@@ABezuidenhout370 I agree with you, when she said at the beginning that a friend had a vision of hell and the person was there for practicing oral sex I totally believed it. I am convinced that oral sex is the way the LGBT+ ppl have sex. It's disgusting.
Hi, your advice is 100%right and I hope that women take your advice seriously, because as my mother use to say, they become all heavenly minded and no earthly good
I hate that saying and people who make that statement are usually people whose flesh is ruling over the spirit.
Sister alot of women had needed to hear this message.
When my husband says something that upsets me or he baits me into an argument, I shut down I don’t want to talk, don’t want to be around him and definitely don’t want sex. How do I soften my heart and not let those things bother me? This is something I’m praying about b/c I’m tired of going through that cycle.
You are not alone. As a
Male, I get turned off when we argue and in the past she wouldn’t want me to touch her and I was the same. It’s the flesh. We’re not perfect but keep praying on the matter.
Hope, my pastor said that he and his wife have agreed that when they start arguing, as soon as one of them recognizes it, they will grab the other's hand and say, "Let's pray about it!" Something about getting in God's presence and humbling themselves before Him brings the drama level down and encourages them to work together for a answer.
Have you considered this? Maybe he isn't trying to bait you into an argument, perhaps he's trying to express himself with the hopes that you and he could talk openly and honestly about your sex life( good or bad) and it's possible that your approach could be causing him to feel rejected and he probably doesn't want to look at you or be around you either. I wonder if he even knows how you really feel..Probably not,, if your anything like my Wife, who has your name Hope..🤔✌🏾
Thank you 🙏 appreciated many times we are wondering what is right in the marriage specially sex we don’t want to hurt the Holy Spirit .
Yes !!! I’m feeling that right now . I’m so relieved because I want to please our father with everything I do
Glad to have found you! Sex is complicated in my marriage. I am trying to figure out how to shift my perspective and have a better sex drive. I don’t know why I am never in the mood but it’s not good for us…
Can be low estrogen. The right foods and exercise can help and so can your Gynecologist. Pray about it!
There is help that you can seek from your medics and from counsellors. Sometimes it can be some unresolved issues from way before marriage that your subconscious mind is taking out on your spouse. That unresolved mindset can be the issue that is stopping you from a potentially mind blowing relationship with the man you couldn’t wait to see again just a few years back. Remember? Start by talking plainly and honestly together. Don’t go into any solutions without your heartthrob. You are both in this together-all the way…
I love the part about being intoxicated by her love. I never thought that was okay. When I felt that her love flooded me, I felt guilty and tried not to accept it and come to work without acknowledging it. Now I accept that it's normal to be intoxicated by the wife of your youth.
"Great" video good sister! Thank you for being bold enough to discuss such a topic. I pray the Lord will bless you & your husband as you "both" submit yourselves one to the other.
Outstanding teaching. I really never understood what the passage of scripture in song of Solomon was referring to till now. Awesome!
Thank you for your bold witness on this emotionally stirring content, there are so many other avenues that can activate an "off switch" before an encounter takes place. We definitely need to be lead by our reborn spirit and enjoy the desired benefits that unity and harmony bring to the marriage. I'm sure we were all enlightened in our specific situations by the grace of God, as I was also. Thank you for reaching out to us with your compassion and wisdom.
Some people think that they can't live without sex!! But actually life goes on without it 😮
Yeah when your libido is low, you better hope your spouse libido is low like yours if not you’re in trouble
@@jazz3685 I agree. Some people live coo coo land, thinking that what’s going on in their body is the same in their spouse’s body. Or that their spouse’s silence means the desire is not there. One day, they get the shock of their lives. Then they blame the devil.
@@Kantz1 Explain what do you mean by that statement I’m still learning about what makes a women ticks Lol 😂
@@jazz3685 I was just indirectly responding to @Jeffrey. He might think that his life goes on without sex but if he has a wife who desires sex but just not with him (for some reason), he may think that the woman is going without sex like him, while the story is different behind his back. He’d then be the only one fooling himself.
Yeah he better take care of home or somebody else will 😂 Lol
Churches never teach you anything on this important subject why ? who really knows.
This is something that is usually NOT talked about by most anyone, Not even parents and it's important to know it. Thanks for doing this video.
Most intelligent people have left the church bullshit behind. Slaves are looking for a new master. His name is Reverand and Bishop bullshit.
And yet, Hollywood and the Internet, pornography and the entire world have blown it out of proportion and we’ve ended up with a gigantic mess strewn everywhere!! I see Satan at work, some may disagree.
Sex is a hot, naked, beautiful thing that a married woman should enjoy with her husband all the way-despite all the negative paintbrushes that have been splashed on it forever and from every corner.
I was full with knowledge within the first 5:40 of this video. God's blessings to you and your marriage Mrs. Roberts!
Thanks so much for sharing this with us!!!! This has just blessed me, and I will reread this book. I love it. We are an older couple and have been married a longgggggg time. So, this is helpful. You just taught me something. Peace and Blessings 😊
I agree
This is one of the best Christian takes on sex on marriage. Love how you kept going back to the word.
I will start by saying "AMEN" to the don't hold sex back as a weapon from your man. We have been married for 46 years, June 19th will be 47, and I have seen friends that split up because the guy or girl looked else where for sex and companionship. I am not excusing this act but, it could have been prevented. People ask us all the time what is our secret to a long marriage. Our answer is to continue to treat your spouse like you did when dating, can't wait to see her/him and guys, open the doors for her every time give each other 100% just like God loves us. There is no 50/50 just 100% and some times more.Treat her like a queen even if she gets in a "hands off" mood. I know there was a time in our marriage when she had cancer and I understood it was a no go for sex. I did it for her, because I loved her and understood she was sick. This part of the 100%, knowing each other and what and when the time is right.
Problem is that many pickup unclean and perverted sexual spirits in their past life before getting saved, and then bring them into the marriage bed thinking it's okay to continue to partake in those practices.
Mhmm let’s talk about it 🫣
@@teliah3922 What do you want to talk about? Can Christians have demons? YES they can.
We are a three-fold being: a spirit that has a soul and lives in a body. The body is the house we live in, and spirits can be attached to or in the house (body) but not in the spirit of the Christian since we are not possessed of demons, but can be oppressed or obsessed by them.
I know, I had several of them come out to my utter amazement back in the 1990's not long after I got baptized in the Holy Spirit. I was too embarrassed and ashamed to tell anyone for a time, but I know that others needed to know about such things.
And if Christians don't see those practices as being unnatural and demonic then they probably will never get set free since the Bible tells us not to give place to the devil, because Christians can and do.
We are to come out and be separate from the world, and those sexual unclean practices come from the world and the spirit of the world.
So, which methods do clean and unperverted spirits use in having sex?
@@Kantz1 Oral, anal, and whatever else....is not natural...but appears to be so when one has been either doing it for a long time or has become bored and tempted to try something new and experimental. Just like drugs or alcohol, demons always want to drive someone to do more and harder things. Many people, including many Christians, need deliverance.
Powerful yes, it’s called Make Love and it’s got a place in our guided paths. Thank you for guiding.
So true
Good explanation Sis. I encourage you to consider elaborating a bit more when you state “when we enjoy it, God enjoys it”. 7:04-7:09. We know God Is Spirit therefore His “enjoyment” of a married couples worship in the act of love making is obviously Not the same as ours. Perhaps His “Approval”or “Gladness” might be a better choice of description. Just a suggestion. God Bless
God bless you. Very informative, I am a married woman so I appreciate all of this. Tfs
Amazing video 🙏🏾 I am learning so much in my preparation season for marriage 🙌🏾Thank you ❤
I've been with my husband for 18 1/2 years with 10 kids and I need to rebuild, trust him and get through his habits and my anger
I am not a pastor, neither went to college. But I study my Bible prayerfully, in context. I listen. I research. And according to what you are teaching here, has some errors. I wish I could contact you personally and talk about it, but I’ll share some points for the public sake.
His fruit doesn’t have to mean his **** but his love
Your tone and demeanor are right on point. Your video is in tune with God's word. Keep up the God-inspired content.
God bless you sister! This is soooooo refreshing to hear through the scriptures. I have been watching since a year ago and everytime you use the word to explain things it’s so enlightening! Thank you Lord for using this vessel. 🥰
Are you a married ?
A topic much need for discussion for many believers.
Thank you! Be blessed. Praise JESUS…🤲🌹
Me and my wife started reading this book called “Sheet Music” by a Christian psychologist/Counselor named Dr. Kevin Leman. 😱OH MY GOD!! I recommend that book to all of you!! Me and my wife went from once every week or two, to 3-5 times a week. Sometimes we do it 2-3 times in one day 🤤. No joke. And it’s better than it’s ever been 😉😎. Sorry, I know it sounds like I’m bragging, but it’s the truth and that book really is awesome.
Go ahead Knock it out😂
Don’t use the Lord’s name in vain
@@brucemcgoose7609 Go get “Sheet Music”.
Don't use the Lord's name as it's nothing please
@@neortik7 Go be a Bible thumping, Law bound, Holy roller, Christian Karen, somewhere else.
Thanks for doing this Sis. I will study and incorporate some of your teaching in my marriage counseling and marriage teachings. God bless you!
Thank you for this and I ask for prayer for my wife and I. We have been together for almost 10 years. For the last 6 months she has withheld sex from our marriage claiming she hurts down there. I encouraged her to get to a female doctor at which point we found out she has fibroids I think. Anyway over the last two months she has sense left our home and I found out she has been seeing someone else. This hurts so much but I haven’t given up instead seeking Gods will. I know that per scripture I can divorce her without winning but I just feel I need to forgive her and pray for reconciliation
God bless you brother, I’m praying for you! 🙏🏾
My dude if she is cheating on you, Bail and don't be sympathetic toward her. She done you ugly. Don't be a doormat for anyone.
You can forgive her. Because that’s not even an option. The Bible commands it. However, God is not going to go against someone’s will. If she doesn’t want to be reconciled, it’s not going to happen. So you definitely need to continue to seek God on this because he knows the beginning from the end.
Thank you for taking this on. Many adult’s including belivers are out right scared to talk about sex & the proper context of it 🙏🏽👍🏽
Consider this if you like what she had to say: Oral sex is mentioned in the Bible it falls under sodomy. Webster's dictionary defines sodomy as anal, oral sex and bestiality. It could also mean any unnatural/ non reproductive sexual act as defined by other dictionaries so that would include toys, manual sex, using the pull out method ect. The Bible says no sodomite will enter the kingdom of heaven "Do you not know that the unrighteous will not inherit the kingdom of God? 'Do not be deceived. Neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor [a]homosexuals, nor [b]SODOMITES, 10 nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor extortioners will inherit the kingdom of God. " - 1 Corinthians 6:9-11 Notice how homosexuals and sodomites are used separately meaning they are two different things. Oral sex falls under the sin of Onan as well. In Genesis 38:8-10 Onan spilled his seed on the ground and God struck him dead on the spot. Oral sex is fruitless to God's kingdom and it directly goes against His command to "be fruitful and multiply"- Genesis 1:28. Also from a logical point of view anal sex is wrong because it would be hypocritical of us Christians to try and stop the homosexuals from having sex but then we go do the exact same thing in our marriage beds. However lesbians can not have anal sex... They only have oral sex (as well as other unnatural sexual acts but for the sake of the discussion I'll just stick to oral sex) So if oral sex is okay then what exactly is wrong with lesbianism? Nothing! Why can't two lesbians who are married to each other have oral sex but we Christians can? That's also hypocritical. Either oral sex is allowed for both lesbian and heterosexual couples or it's not allowed for both lesbian and heterosexual couples.
Praying that the Lord might open your eyes to see the truth, God bless!
I appreciate your willingness to discuss this topic. I do have a question about something you highlighted. Monogamous marriages versus polygamous marriages, because this topic addresses what adultery is biblically. I believe this is an important topic in todays culture especially reading of the polygamous marriages in Scripture and contemplating the requirement for leaders in the church to be the husband of 1 wife. These can raise some questions for laypersons in the church.
Thank you so much for sharing this video with us .. 🙏🏾
Definitely enjoyed this topic. It would be great to speak about it more.
Great explanation, The most high says to enjoy it, and songs of solomon gets creative, the overly religious and pharisee like believers try to condemn people probably because their living a stale life
No, Satan has deceived you. The Song of Solomon makes no mention of oral sex at all. Only those with perverted minds can think such things. Their minds have been preprogrammed through porn.
Thanks God for you and what you explained about the scriptures ❤😂
Great Job karolyne,talking a bout everything. The bible says he who preaches everything including marriage is a good shephared great Job.
7:33 And all the people said AMEN! 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
There are a lot of misconceptions on this topic amoung believers, thank you fr this wisdom, I like that you say base your opinion on the WORD!
This was a great and informative post! Thank you
Very Well explained!!! God Bless you my sister 🙌🏾🙏🏾🕊❣!!!
Thank you so much sis for discussing this topic and using key scriptures to do so. Most importantly, you said it best, we should always do our own research also. This was very helpful. God bless you.
Thank you Karolyne for sharing the truth of God's word. Saw you for the first time this a.m. on Jen mallan 's program. Your hubby is truly blessed! If only women like Jada Pinkett & Gabriele Union & million of others could see the TRUTH clearly.. keep up the great messages..
Do whatever makes you and your spouse happy.
What about what makes God happy?
@@heavenonearth1933exactly!!!!
Well, you can do whatever you want and what makes you happy. Go ahead. It can land you in hell but go ahead.
@@melmel3703 Everybody doesn't believe in heaven or hell and nobody even knows if heaven or hell really exist.
@@airtight03 oh, yes, some of us do know that heaven and hell exist. That’s the one. Number two fire is hot and it burns whether you believe it or not. Water is wet whether you believe it or not. So what you believe doesn’t make it not true - bye
Amazing advice to go to God’s Word and be led by the Holy Spirit. Would you be able to get a mic to record next videos because you sound far and with an echo sometimes. God bless you and your marriage.
I don’t know why the church demonizes sex. Cause people were definitely getting it popping in the bible
If the couples are married I don't see the problem now I don't believe in anal or having sex why a woman on her period or trying to force her to have sex with you I don't believe in that that's supposed to be natural between couples
The church does not demonize sex. Your own parents are not comfortable enough to talk about it openly with you yet you demonize the church. Double standards
All I got is a name big sis and I honestly refuse to lay down with anyone and cause another soul tie I've been celibate for about four years now
Anyways God bless you sis Karylone and you're beautiful family 👨👩👦👦 keep up the great work that you're doing for the kingdom of God ✝️🕊️
Amen and thank you for this great topic
I enjoyed what U said about sex in the confines of marriage. Keep the talks coming. I’m not married but plan on getting married soon
This was exceptionally well done 👏, great job !!
Thank you for sharing, and this is true….read and take it to the LORD. Also, for those in a healthy marriage on this topic pray for those…because they are many, that are not because sometimes you pay for the evils done to your spouse before you arrived and this is unjust to say the least. Its a difficult topic to discuss.
Interesting vid. I don't disagree with what you are saying as it makes a lot of sense. However, you were very broad and general (other than being specific about the marriage bed). I was hoping you would speak more clearly about such things as fantasizing (which I believe would defile the marriage bed), maturation, toys and other sexual activity between consenting married couples. Also, I am cautious about the idea of withholding sex. Too many men have abused this and either forced or coerced their wife into intercourse under the guise that God says she can't withhold . . . There may be legitimate physical and psychological reasons why one partner is "witholding" sex and the other partner needs to be understanding and loving in the Lord as the issues are worked through (which could take a very long time!).
Thank you so much for sharing and going back into scriptures about sex withing Mariage.
This was my first time in this channel and I can't wait for more.
God bless you
Sex is a form of worship unto the Lord??! Where can I find this verse in the Bible? Who's god? Sex is sacred for couple but it's NOT a form of worship. Pls. provide a verse that sex is a firm of worship
What if no one wants you and you are not married and will never experience this? How should people like that feel while other people have been chosen. Men are not out here choosing women like me. They go for the slimmer women and this stereotypical ways. It seems unfair sometimes that some find love find easier than others. I just pray that I get s man who truly is for me and is all the things I have prayed for. I’m getting older and it’s just sad. Everyone deserves companionship. Yes you can read the Bible and pray, but a physical person doing life with you is what people need. People are not meant to be alone.
Sex IS NOT a form of worship unto the Lord. You are blaspheming and making God seem like a pervert saying "when we enjoy sex, God enjoys it."
For sure that did not sound right
I think I'm safe. I don't have an intimate life anymore. LoL!!
Very nice topic but just to ambiguous. I thought you'd clearly tell what and what not to do in sex
How can she if the Bible is not that specific.
@@wendymtzc Correct. Not very helpful to some people though who ate asking questions about what they can and cannot do during sex as believers. Believe me I've faced a few in marriage conferences for young people today.
There are no sex instructions in Scripture. Every couple is unique with their particular issues and limitations. We are not God's robots, therefore this is a matter that is left solely unto the couple in their private discussion. "Be kind one to another" That's the guideline. Bless you...
Great job! So helpful. I am blessed through this message!
Sis. Karolyne, great job. Proverbs 5:18-19 seems to set an assumption that everyone you marry in church will desire the same peaceful life. The reality though is that after marriage, you realise that some women want to use sex as a weapon and it is impossible to convince them otherwise. How do you get satisfied with something that's not available?
That's the problem. Our people are in these lying churches and have WHITE JESUS CHRIST or the cross hanging up. Christianity and al these other man made religions have destroyed our people. Just look up who started and the time frame in which they was started .
If they are believers...they may need to be reminded that we are not yo kerp ourselves from each other u less we both agree for a time. Sex is for bringing couple together not for keeping them separated.
@@velettadavis-williams5458 But that’s the thing. How do you marry in church and still be grappling with the question of “if they are believers…” as you put it. But that’s the reality of our day. “Not everyone that says to me Lord, Lord…”. You can quote Proverbs 5 and Ephesians 5 until the cows come home. That doesn’t change the vengeful woman who thinks she holds the key to sex unfortunately. And our dear brother was wired to have sex, period! No sugar-coating anything hypocritically.
Whether you are a church member or not, you have been wired as a man to have some great sanity restored to you when you’ve had a great sex. That’s where it becomes a weapon in the hands (or within the legs) of a devious woman pretending to be a Christian sister.
The truth of the matter is some women are not intentionally using sex as a weapon, they are just emotionally disconnected and the husband is not doing anything to improve that aspect of the marriage so it is incredibly difficult to desire sex or even reach an orgasm.
@@naty1012 There was a vow exchanged before God. Why is it that the response to a man’s shortcoming is to withhold sex, when the Bible already said that a man should marry so that he can have sex? Or have some Christian women not read their Bibles at all? I can’t see it anywhere in the Bible that instead of communicating your frustration to your husband with respect, you should go ahead and withdraw sex from him. And when the guy looks for sex from the many other women who are ready and waiting, those same church women would be the first to shout “adultery!”.
You don't want to be in front of God on judgment trying to explain the song of Solomon to God himself just because you read in the book that it says taste. Narrow is the way most people choose the Broadway.
Great post! I agree.
Thank you Karolyn. God Bless You.
Just let people do what they want and live how they want!! Easiest thing
You nailed it. I'm so sick of hearing you can and ca t do this or that. 2Nevertheless, because of sexual immorality, let each man have his own wife, and let each woman have her own husband. 3Let the husband render to his wife the affection due her, and likewise also the wife to her husband. 4The wife does not have authority over her own body, but the husband does. And likewise the husband does not have authority over his own body, but the wife does. 5Do not deprive one another except with consent for a time, that you may give yourselves to fasting and prayer; and come together again so that Satan does not tempt you because of your lack of self-control
Guess my ex-wife should have taken that verse to heart. Then there's the ones against lying, cheating, stealing, coveting, etc. Don't marry a narcissist folks!
@@matjj676 If you later find out you married a narcissist who refuses to repent in sackcloth and ashes, then nothing stops you catching the next flight off that island so s/he can live in her own world happily ever after.
I enjoyed your show I learn something blessings keep up the good work
Very well said! Thank you!
Thanks this video was very spiritually enlightening.
1 Corinthians 7:3-5
Let the husband render unto the wife👉 due benevolence👈: and likewise also the wife unto the husband.
[4]The wife hath 👉not power of her own body👈, 👉but👈👉 the husband👈: and👉 likewise👈 also 👉the husband hath not power of his own body, but the wife.👈
[5]👉Defraud ye not one the other,👈 except it be with 👉consent for a time👈, that ye may give yourselves to👉 fasting and prayer👈; and👉 come together again👈, that Satan tempt you not for your incontinency.
Hey korolyn I quote Solomon 2v3 and Solomon 4vs 16 to all the critics enjoy your spouse explore his /her body
Hey my sister, what you are saying here, there is nothing to disagree with, nevertheless the book of the song of Solomon, should not be taken as a Romantic novel, Solomon is a picture of Christ, and the woman is a picture of the Church, or the body of Christ, and it demonstrated the very close relationship between the Bride and the groom.
I enjoyed this topic. I shared it with my spouse as well
Amen sister i did enjoy this video I will definitely go into the word for myself❤
Hi, I want to say with honesty that this is in error sadly. Certain things are not okay, it took me praying and approaching it without any personal bias to understand. We always have to delve into a topic without any personal bias or fleshly-mindedness. Always willing to give things up. Many things come from the kingdom of darkness and we shouldn't partake of. I want to say something else if you see this message. God bless
@@naturalprinciples8520 What are the things that come from the kingdom of darkness? Do you have evidence? If you don’t, then stop speculating but if you do have evidence, bring it on.
@@Kantz1 Just your approach honestly, do you think that's facilitating good conversation? Seek the Lord and find out. Be unbiased in your approach. I have my own evidence that I've gathered on the topic.There are many revelations about this and if you seek God you will know the things that are defiled in your spirit when you seek earnestly. You're asking for evidence to spiritual questions. Many things invented in this world come from them, there isn't a scientific study quantifying such a thing, this is not something that can be quantified, it's about discernment and seeking God.
@@naturalprinciples8520 I’ve heard and read a lot about the so-called “spiritual” kingdom of darkness. About 80% of the things written glorify this “kingdom” of darkness, giving no scientific evidence. They even tell you that computers are designed in hell. I’ve heard all of it. None of them give any glory to the Great Creator of heaven and earth. Now I am done with such speculations. You know what? If it glorifies Satan more than God, has no foundation in the Bible, then I need a proof. I will not tie my spirit down to that nonsense. You said you have collected many evidences, I’d love to have all of your evidence please!
@@Kantz1Nearly everything about sex has been polluted by the kingdom of darkness don't be blinded by Satan and his devices I will tell you everything that is not permissable by God
Abortion 🙅♂️
Anal sex 🙅♂️
Oral Sex 🙅♂️
Masterbation 🙅♂️
Animal/Carnal sex positions 🙅♂️ e.g doggy or cow girl
The only sex position permissable is the missionary position anything else does defile the marriage bed
Any form of contraception 🙅♂️ this is not God's will for you to stop yourself from having to kids contraception is just as bad as having a abortion
Sex items 🙅♂️ such as vibrators 🙅♀️ or any other sex toys or other abominations
Porn 🙅♂️
Thanks, yes I would like if you added another segment.
So I'm a born again Christian and I'm having a tough time with sex because everything I know about it came from sin
Keep praying and asking God for help....he will deliver you.
Pray more, fast more, and read your Bible more. Faith comes by hearing the Word of God.
It's sad that churches don't teach that once you are born again and God delivers you, if you go back into sin those same spirits will come right back and take possession of you and bring other spirits with him. Mathew 12: 43-45
I think one thing many need coming out of the world is how to communicate while making love as a follower of Christ. In the world curse woods and really obscene things are said during this course of actions.
Yes me and my wife gave up sex for 5 days for our fasting to God
Thank you, my sister needed some clarification on a lot of these things. 💯💯💯❤️❤️👍👍👍🙏🙏🙏✝️✝️✝️✝️✝️⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐
If you like everything she said then please consider this:Oral sex is mentioned in the Bible it falls under sodomy. Webster's dictionary defines sodomy as anal, oral sex and bestiality. It could also mean any unnatural/ non reproductive sexual act as defined by other dictionaries so that would include toys, manual sex, using the pull out method ect. The Bible says no sodomite will enter the kingdom of heaven "Do you not know that the unrighteous will not inherit the kingdom of God? 'Do not be deceived. Neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor [a]homosexuals, nor [b]SODOMITES, 10 nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor extortioners will inherit the kingdom of God. " - 1 Corinthians 6:9-11 Notice how homosexuals and sodomites are used separately meaning they are two different things. Oral sex falls under the sin of Onan as well. In Genesis 38:8-10 Onan spilled his seed on the ground and God struck him dead on the spot. Oral sex is fruitless to God's kingdom and it directly goes against His command to "be fruitful and multiply"- Genesis 1:28. Also from a logical point of view anal sex is wrong because it would be hypocritical of us Christians to try and stop the homosexuals from having sex but then we go do the exact same thing in our marriage beds. However lesbians can not have anal sex... They only have oral sex (as well as other unnatural sexual acts but for the sake of the discussion I'll just stick to oral sex) So if oral sex is okay then what exactly is wrong with lesbianism? Nothing! Why can't two lesbians who are married to each other have oral sex but we Christians can? That's also hypocritical. Either oral sex is allowed for both lesbian and heterosexual couples or it's not allowed for both lesbian and heterosexual couples.
Praying that the Lord might open your eyes to see the truth, God bless!
Jesus didn't talk about sexuality because it does not matter. Get the Holy Spirit in your couple, and it will lead you. Sex is about procreation and pleasure. Do what you enjoy, and let the Spirit leads you. The Christian life is not complicated.
Hi Karolyne, nice to meet you!
….I believe she did a great job…. Thank You
What I don't understand is that it's apparently a sin to use any kind of birth control and to even pull out. But how are married couples supposed to consistently have sex without getting pregnant? And apparently sex can't be only for pleasure, obviously God designed it to be very pleasurable, but he doesn't want that to be the only reason you engage in intercourse. I really don't understand this.