Our Flag Means Death | 1x09 THE KISS™

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  • čas přidán 21. 08. 2024
  • look i have no words. i've seen so many not-really-canon ship that have only been hinted from the creators. there's only ever been subtext always open up to interpretation but this time NO. there's a damn kiss. they kiss is canon. the show is totally, 100%, GAY!
    i'm so happy! I'm ecstatic! this time love wins
    hbo you better renew this show for a new season !!
    #ourflagmeansdeath #ofmd #gentlebeard #stedebonnet #blackbeard #thekiss #gay #lgbt+

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  • @throughthepieandflames3321
    @throughthepieandflames3321 Před 2 lety +300

    Does anyone know the song in the background that starts at 1:19 ?

    • @throughthepieandflames3321
      @throughthepieandflames3321 Před 2 lety +92

      Nvm I found it it’s gnossiennes no. 5 by erik satie

    • @JarOfHeat100
      @JarOfHeat100  Před 2 lety +48

      Good job!! I didn't even had the time to read the question 🤣🤣

    • @throughthepieandflames3321
      @throughthepieandflames3321 Před 2 lety +10

      @@JarOfHeat100 thank you lol

    • @aceofbranches
      @aceofbranches Před rokem +3

      @@throughthepieandflames3321 I HAVE LOOKED FOR THIS SINCE IT CAME OUT THANK YOU

    • @iggyreilly2463
      @iggyreilly2463 Před rokem +9

      It begins as Schumann's Traumerei from 'Kinderszenen' op. 15 and riffs into Satie and film music.

  • @Dead-or-Alive1985
    @Dead-or-Alive1985 Před 2 lety +4518

    I can't believe Taika Waititi, David Jenkins, and Rhys Darby singlehandedly destroyed queerbaiting

    • @operasingingveggietales59
      @operasingingveggietales59 Před 2 lety +34

      YES

    • @operasingingveggietales59
      @operasingingveggietales59 Před 2 lety +85

      MAYBE WITH A LITTLE HELP FROM DANA TERRACE

    • @sam_597
      @sam_597 Před 2 lety +114

      ikrr! i was in denial about the ship for a long time cause i thought there's no waaaay we'll get another gay couple..... it's just gonna be like queer baiting and I'll have to hear bs from people who think we turn everything gay 😭😭😭😅😅😅😅 (idk why I'm ranting.....the finale broke me. I'm so pissed off and sad 😅😅😅😭)

    • @_EchoSilverWolf_
      @_EchoSilverWolf_ Před 2 lety +119

      I was internally screaming. SCREAMING. This was so beautiful.
      And they didn't make it one of those desperate, 'crash into each other' type kisses. They made it really innocent and soft. Something new to both of them, even though they're older, this is still NEW.
      Not that rough, heavy kissing is ever BAD, because I'd watch the hell out of them kissing that way...but this moment, their first kiss, it made it so much more real for it to be just really sweet and gentle and innocent.
      I love them so damn much...my heart is so full of fucking rainbows rn...🌈😭💗

    • @priyachoudhary9896
      @priyachoudhary9896 Před 2 lety +65

      You can expect guaranteed fruitiness with waititi. No matter what.

  • @delbrooke7655
    @delbrooke7655 Před 2 lety +8913

    Im so glad that this was totally the last scene and that everything goes as planned and they start their new lives in china and absolutely nothing else happens
    (Edit: WHO ELSE IS EXCITED FOR SEASON 2??!!! WHOOO LETS GO!!!)

    • @popcrimezzz
      @popcrimezzz Před 2 lety +299

      yeah right, happy ever after!

    • @valeweathers
      @valeweathers Před 2 lety +223

      Ugh if only! I watched EVERYTHING after this. wrecked with anxiety and now I'm so scared for the future

    • @whambamwhoshotsam6844
      @whambamwhoshotsam6844 Před 2 lety +117

      HAHA yeah absolutely nothing else happens after this scene but that 🤏

    • @TROQUE4
      @TROQUE4 Před 2 lety +231

      If there is no season 2, this is the official last scene.

    • @ace-pergerssyndrome1643
      @ace-pergerssyndrome1643 Před 2 lety +82

      Yeah! I'm so glad everything went perfectly and I'm not in agony!

  • @sarina_friendlie
    @sarina_friendlie Před 2 lety +8586

    the entire show i was convinced that ed and stede‘s relationship is and was gonna be written as something platonic. why was i convinced? because we already had lucius and pete. i was so brainwashed by years and years of films and tv series not daring to bring the gay subtext of two main characters to the surface and rather checking off lgbtq+ rep through side characters that never in a million years world it have crossed my mind that there can be a gay main love story when there’s already gay side characters. isn’t that sick??

    • @frogfish1567
      @frogfish1567 Před 2 lety +733

      And the fact that the crew started using they/them pronouns for Jim barely any questions asked.,,, it just makes me so happy

    • @thebuilder5271
      @thebuilder5271 Před 2 lety +276

      Me too!!!! Damn entertainment industry’s got me gaslighting myself haha

    • @TROQUE4
      @TROQUE4 Před 2 lety +317

      Sherlock and Supernatural hurt us all

    • @Jessi-jl5sg
      @Jessi-jl5sg Před 2 lety +97

      Do you know of the show Hannibal?

    • @madelineanahi8530
      @madelineanahi8530 Před 2 lety +173

      I felt the same, there's no subtle romance everything is so pure and natural that I was practically in shock when I saw the kiss. This show made me so happy

  • @loreleis7482
    @loreleis7482 Před 2 lety +687

    Only show where I’ve said “now kiss” and they actually did.

  • @cobaltcerezo
    @cobaltcerezo Před 2 lety +5426

    the absolute happiness that I felt when this scene happened and I realized it was actually real, and not another queerbait! still not processing it tbh

    • @showandtell1313
      @showandtell1313 Před 2 lety +99

      i saw a gif of the kiss on tumblr so i just binged watch the entire series waiting for this moment and damn i like screamed when it happened !

    • @XxPhanieEmoxX
      @XxPhanieEmoxX Před 2 lety +64

      I’m so glad that they didnt pull a destiel.

    • @MJ_0019
      @MJ_0019 Před 2 lety +22

      I haven't recovered from this scene, and I don't think I ever will

    • @jessicabudin
      @jessicabudin Před 2 lety +27

      I was the same, I sat there whenever they had their flirtatious moments and was like “if they queer bait us right now I swear to GOD” but this scene finally happened and I genuinely screamed with joy 😅

    • @ZR_HR-fz2cg
      @ZR_HR-fz2cg Před 2 lety +13

      And then you did you receive psychological damage from the rest of the episodes or was it just me?

  • @elizabethzelaya6710
    @elizabethzelaya6710 Před 2 lety +3986

    Wow I can’t believe the season ended here and NOTHING BAD HAPPENED AFTERWARDS

    • @user-nv9vn8fm1d
      @user-nv9vn8fm1d Před 2 lety +87

      Yeah. Depends on your perspective. This was clearly the ending being the last minutes of the season.
      But I think in a deleted scene, I saw the crew killed Izzy quickly without any interference. So technically something bad happened to him.

    • @juliannaagoncillo6090
      @juliannaagoncillo6090 Před 2 lety +42

      *laughs in episode 10*

    • @blackberry8615
      @blackberry8615 Před 2 lety +13

      YAAAY(i've never seen this show)

    • @cassiefromooo
      @cassiefromooo Před 2 lety +8

      @@blackberry8615 oh..............

    • @gerardbutnotway1258
      @gerardbutnotway1258 Před 2 lety +14

      My sister in christ you are absolutely correct

  • @ciaraslattery4894
    @ciaraslattery4894 Před 2 lety +2010

    Crying, throwing up, sobbing, wailing, hyperventilating, sobbing

  • @pplrgross
    @pplrgross Před 2 lety +801

    I DIDN'T GET THE SARCASM AND LITERALLY BELIEVED ALL OF YOU IT WAS THE END, MY HEART IS BROKEN NOW

  • @eleanorgloria
    @eleanorgloria Před 2 lety +3744

    I have so many emotions! First that fact that a queer ship that I loved became Canon.The fact that it is two middle aged men. I cried. But then as you watch it you see Ed's vulnerability, his gentleness, his over eagerness, he is so excited , uncool about his love for this man. Stede on the other hand is clumsy, and trepidatious. Like he never really felt/experienced true romantic feelings so he didn't recognize them until Ed kissed him. Mixed into that is deep guilt. For the family he left, for Ed giving everything up for him. Like he can't bare to be seen the way Ed sees him. Omg this silly pirate show has got me gal

    • @vampirelove75
      @vampirelove75 Před 2 lety +11

      Same!

    • @satya4234
      @satya4234 Před 2 lety +61

      You worded their dynamic so perfectly. They (also) got me gal!

    • @avcbisu
      @avcbisu Před 2 lety +122

      Yes! I do love also that it's two middled aged men. Sure, Taika is hot as f*ck, but there's something about two relatively normal looking blokes falling in love that really emphasizes love is love. This is normal.

    • @meredythwithay5187
      @meredythwithay5187 Před 2 lety +8

      THEY GOT ME GAL

    • @smiley_face2872
      @smiley_face2872 Před 2 lety +14

      fun fact, if we look at Stede’s birth year on the gravestone in episode 4 it would make him 27 when the first episode takes place

  • @yourpalfred
    @yourpalfred Před 2 lety +192

    I never in my lifetime thought I would see two middle aged men confessing their love for each other in such a sweet, tender way on my tv like what the fuck. I'm vibrating, I'm truly alive. Taika and Rhys are real ones for being secure enough in their real life friendship to deliver these adorable pirate boyfriends to us

  • @pancarialice
    @pancarialice Před 2 lety +2338

    god. how fucking sad, how fucking enraging is it that us queer folks have been so conditioned to read subtext, to hang onto small nods in our direction and to interpret every interaction, to always be baited into believing that all those small “wink-wink-nudge-nudge” moments in shows we like will reach an actual conclusion and aren’t just baiting us for the sake of ratings, that when a show ACTUALLY is incredibly diverse, inclusive and cares about well-representing so many different people we just… cry? because it’s so good, because we can’t believe it’s actually happening to us?
    what i’m trying to say is, man. we shouldn’t feel like this. and shows like this are hopefully a big step in the right direction.

    • @trashboat204
      @trashboat204 Před 2 lety +70

      No because seriously. After watching shows like Good Omens and Hannibal and stuff I actually thought that this was gonna be one of those shows where the only reason you know the characters are gay is because the creator said it once at a convention or something. I literally screamed when I saw this scene like I was so happy and I'm still not completely over it.

    • @starjamberry
      @starjamberry Před 2 lety +17

      I just screenshotted your comment, literally you said it so well

    • @spookyho5994
      @spookyho5994 Před 2 lety +5

      literally this qwq

    • @facelessdrone
      @facelessdrone Před 2 lety +1

      People of the future are going to be disgusted at the way our society treats people like us, they're going to make monuments for our moments and shroud homophobia in shame.

    • @lilycheese4
      @lilycheese4 Před 2 lety +14

      I watched this show start to finish with my dad and I literally did cry when they kissed. My dad is extremely supportive and open-minded and he loved the show too, but I know he doesn't understand why I cried. This explains it perfectly.

  • @givemetimeandacrayon
    @givemetimeandacrayon Před 2 lety +694

    not to be dramatic but this was one of the best days of my life

  • @paroxysys
    @paroxysys Před 2 lety +206

    stede had to leave. you can see in this exact scene that while ed is ready to let go of his old life willingly without doubts, stede can't. he's still riddled with guilt and self doubt, and their relationship would never work if he didn't go back to his old life to find out he's not welcome anymore. he had to say a proper goodbye, leave a piece of his heart with his daughter. now he's truly ready to meet ed halfway.

    • @selinachurchill8067
      @selinachurchill8067 Před 2 lety +19

      Yes! Ed's overjoyed and Stede is ... not. Ed started the show ready to try being dead, but Stede's only ready to try it by ep 10. And then he kills his old life three times in five minutes lol. Great writing.

  • @TROQUE4
    @TROQUE4 Před 2 lety +475

    😭 still mad that they tricked me with a funny gay pirate show and then broke my bloody heart. I need season 2

  • @IoneMacaroninCheese
    @IoneMacaroninCheese Před 2 lety +2450

    I cant stop watching this scene over and over and over its like a drug....the feeling I get knowing this is real and we were right and this is a love story, totally and unambiguously....nothing is ever gonna make me feel like this again. I could bend steel right now this show has healed all of my wounds and made me so immensely powerful

    • @jessmt4464
      @jessmt4464 Před 2 lety +46

      You are not alone. I can’t stop either 😭 i immediately started rewatching the show when I finished episode 10 (and after bawling my eyes out for An hour)

    • @emiliemae2676
      @emiliemae2676 Před 2 lety +35

      @@jessmt4464 so did i. I was like, what do i do now?? I'll rewatch it and imbed it further into my soul

    • @elkpapa
      @elkpapa Před 2 lety +5

      SAME 😭😭😭

    • @abee948
      @abee948 Před 2 lety +6

      Ok I guess I should rewatch it lol

    • @flintfoster8010
      @flintfoster8010 Před 2 lety +7

      I feel this on a personal level

  • @clown-cult96
    @clown-cult96 Před 2 lety +755

    A biracial queer relationship played by two kiwi stars. Can’t stress how important this kind of representation is for queer pakeha and Maori folks alike. Best of all? IT’S NOT BAIT!

    • @HK23783
      @HK23783 Před 2 lety +52

      Is it weird that I only now realized that it is biracial relationship?😅
      Like, it honestly didn't register until now

    • @abbykaiherau7539
      @abbykaiherau7539 Před 2 lety +3

      makes me so happy aaaa

    • @CaptNondescript
      @CaptNondescript Před 2 lety +16

      @@HK23783 we don't see different races or genders anymore, just people in love

  • @marogmartz
    @marogmartz Před 2 lety +888

    I truly love Taika Watiti, he fought so hard for this and its an absolute delight to finally watch such a goodly written queer series like this. Witty jokes, amazing storyline, complex characters, developed relationship. A must see. 10/10
    I have watched it twice so far, in English and my main language Spanish, each time being as good as the first.

    • @carrmx0
      @carrmx0 Před 2 lety +1

      was there network pushback??

    • @hinasakukimi
      @hinasakukimi Před 2 lety +12

      @@carrmx0 there always is

    • @hannahc178
      @hannahc178 Před 2 lety +40

      Love Taika and he definitely had a big role in this, played a fantastic Edward, and gave star power behind it which helped get it made, but also wanna say give David Jenkins his credit as showrunner and lead writer! This was his vision and I'm so grateful he shared it with us :)

    • @yoyoyoyo-lq4jb
      @yoyoyoyo-lq4jb Před 2 lety +12

      Don't forget the amazing David Jenkins as well :))

  • @harriepie
    @harriepie Před 2 lety +88

    Ed saying 'shut up' to Stede with so much care gets to me so much

  • @marionchua7543
    @marionchua7543 Před 2 lety +710

    I know people are angry at Stede for leaving Ed to come back to his family, but imo, he needed to see them happier without him to realize that his own happiness lies with Ed now and that he's finally found true love with him.

    • @yourpalfred
      @yourpalfred Před 2 lety +125

      I also think we got so much of Stede being a fun character, it was so important to see him royally fuck up and be honestly kinda awful. Being home again brought out the worst in him!

    • @hinasakukimi
      @hinasakukimi Před 2 lety +90

      stede is also really traumatised, people need to understand that :(

    • @someonemaybe7937
      @someonemaybe7937 Před 2 lety +5

      yes, exactly!

    • @ponkuno4280
      @ponkuno4280 Před 2 lety +58

      Also he needed to go back home for closure. Without going back, it would've been unspoken for his past live

    • @dragon_toad
      @dragon_toad Před 2 lety +22

      Just such a shame he couldn't realize it a TAD FASTER

  • @hanako_senpai6310
    @hanako_senpai6310 Před 2 lety +824

    I'm willing to bet 100 dollars that this show will become one of the biggest fandoms

    • @sagejennings4342
      @sagejennings4342 Před 2 lety +140

      They revolutionized by doing this. People are already rioting for season 2 and it finished like 3 days ago. Definitely.

    • @sagejennings4342
      @sagejennings4342 Před 2 lety +87

      the creator said ideally they'll close the story in three season, though (I love the integrity to end it when it's done), so definitely a multirewatching fandom

    • @Maria95Silver
      @Maria95Silver Před 2 lety +58

      The AO3 category is one fanfic away from reaching 1k. You’re quite right HAHAHha

    • @soapeating_simulator
      @soapeating_simulator Před 2 lety +18

      @@Maria95Silver i’m not gonna lie it surprised me how many fics there were when i looked lol

    • @wpaunan
      @wpaunan Před 2 lety +9

      @@sagejennings4342 Maybe the success will mean spin-offs? Maybe a movie?!

  • @carolinnielss
    @carolinnielss Před 2 lety +347

    I'm glad to living in the same time as this scene was released. The future generations may not understand or feel how important this kiss really is.

    • @insignificantramblings
      @insignificantramblings Před 2 lety +62

      I hope they don't have to feel how important it is though. I hope it's so common that it seems silly that this was so meaningful

    • @nutbastard
      @nutbastard Před 2 lety +7

      @@insignificantramblings Agreed. I'm straight and this didn't seem like a gay romance. It's just romance. Between two people. It's love, and it's beautiful.
      We're getting there. Where what folks are packing below decks doesn't matter at all. That's equality. When what race or gender someone is no longer matters.

    • @selinachurchill8067
      @selinachurchill8067 Před 2 lety +6

      @@nutbastard Yes. I love the genuine romance of this show. Too many shows, especially in comedy, make their "romance" all about lust and this one made it about love. In every relationship not just the main one. For me that's why it is so powerful.

  • @78kokka
    @78kokka Před 2 lety +437

    "You make Stede happy" will be my next tattoo.

    • @spookyho5994
      @spookyho5994 Před 2 lety +5

      i’m with you, omg

    • @averyeml
      @averyeml Před 2 lety +4

      Okay but for real “I want to do what makes Ed happy” was one I was thinking about. Idk, I feel like that’s a solid philosophy to live by

    • @spookyho5994
      @spookyho5994 Před 2 lety +4

      @@averyeml definitely, I also really love “you wear fine things well”, like that one just gfsfsfs

    • @len0l216
      @len0l216 Před 2 lety

      YAAAA

  • @koguma8823
    @koguma8823 Před 11 měsíci +18

    whenever i watch this clip i find myself mesmerized by rhys darby's acting. you can see stede slowly starting to panic so clearly. his eyes shift around, his breathing gets heavy, he starts giving ed short and nervous responses as things get more and more real. the kiss is beautiful but it was a lot for stede to handle-- so much was happening at the same time. rhys portrayed it all really, really well, in a way that's impressive if you pay attention but easy to miss, like how ed does

  • @m3rrys0ngstr3ss
    @m3rrys0ngstr3ss Před 2 lety +241

    God, the pure LIGHT in Ed's eyes after the kiss goes well!

  • @luizasabbaga592
    @luizasabbaga592 Před 2 lety +460

    Um just SO HAPPY about how casual and clean the kiss is, just devoid of drama and exaggerated movements and “passion”. This is the most heartwarming demonstration of love I’ve ever seen because they know it’s reciprocated, they just needed to put together enough courage to admit it (particularly Ed)

    • @flintfoster8010
      @flintfoster8010 Před 2 lety +35

      Its just so loving and tender and real 🥺😭

    • @crow-t-robot
      @crow-t-robot Před 2 lety +40

      They're just two old dudes who have never experienced true love until this moment 😭 It couldn't have been better honestly. It's incredibly tender and real.

    • @leoneljaramillo6710
      @leoneljaramillo6710 Před 2 lety

      ......................

    • @JL-rt9mi
      @JL-rt9mi Před rokem +8

      Yeah, I mean, these are two people who are pretty unfamiliar and inexperienced with tenderness and affection, and it's impulsive and unexpected and so realistically awkward and tentative since Ed has no idea at first how it'll be received, and then they relax into it. Just could not have been more truthful or swoony [sigh].

  • @thebuilder5271
    @thebuilder5271 Před 2 lety +716

    Historians will say they were just friends

  • @chiaraderrico8783
    @chiaraderrico8783 Před 2 lety +46

    I love how intimate the "oh, shut up" by Ed is

  • @k4eru20
    @k4eru20 Před 2 lety +444

    this into ep10 you really feel the difference between Ed's emphatic yesses and Stede's "I think so" and "m-hm!" oh it hurts and then the scene right after this wrenches his answer through your heart

    • @k4eru20
      @k4eru20 Před 2 lety +4

      not gonna edit but i did write this while severely sleep deprived so have mercy shdjf

    • @pptonto
      @pptonto Před 2 lety +21

      ​@Pixis Princess [SPOILERS!]
      After this, Ed comes up with a plan for them to escape in the middle of the night. However instead of meeting Ed at the dock as planned, Stede gets overwhelmed by guilt and goes home to his family, leaving Ed to escape on his own. During this separation, Stede confronts his guilt, makes amends with his family, and realizes his love for Ed. He conspires with his family to fake his death and then leaves to return to the ship on a small boat. While this is happening, Ed is on the ship depressed and heartbroken. After being provoked by Izzy, Ed decides to become Blackbeard again and throws Stede's crew out of the ship, officially taking over the Revenge.
      The season ends with Stede reuniting with his stranded crew members. Blackbeard added a bleeding heart to his flag, and his last scene is of him crying to himself.

    • @pinkflower2601
      @pinkflower2601 Před 2 lety +11

      Omg i know! And I really wanted to enjoy this scene more but from start to finish I was just like "oh no oh no" BC it just has the vibes that things are gonna hit the fan and honestly that makes it perfect for a season 1 kiss bc they're not giving us a fully feel good moment where we can relax with these two but they gave us the kiss that proves that the characters both want that. I think they knew that they would have to give us a kiss bc of all the shit the community has been through but man does it kill me that stede wasn't even ready for it, didn't even know he loved the man yet!

    • @k4eru20
      @k4eru20 Před 2 lety

      @Pixis Princess SPOILERS FOR EP 9!
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      -
      Ed comes up with a really loose plan to sail to China, just the two of them, and Stede gives this response.. then Stede is woken in the middle of the night by Chauncey Badminton (the twin with short hair) who is drunk and lays into him about Nigel's death and basically calls Stede a monster and says he ruins everyone he gets his hands on and Stede says "I think you're right.. In fact, I completely agree" and then Chauncey, as he's about to murder Stede, trips and shoots himself through the same eye that Nigel's sword went through. Stede panics a whole bunch, and he's left in the wild just screaming and in distress. The story cuts over to Ed left waiting at the docks.. to him Stede's just decided to bail because he didn't mean it or something. He waits until sunrise then sails off on his own and it's obvious his heart's been broken. The episode ends with Stede returning to his home where his wife and kids are.

  • @Iamjustherek
    @Iamjustherek Před 2 lety +866

    It would've been soooooeasy for them to keep these two at a jokey "oh they're just like a married couple! But STRAIGHT!" Like they did in the We Gull Way Back Episode. Oh haha they act like a married couple and they "broke up" but you would be silly to read anything deeper into that! But for them to have this completely real, tender confirmation of what would be an obvious conclusion to their relationship if they were straight was just so breathtaking. Like, hopefully in years to come this will just be basic representation but right now it feels like vindication.

    • @OctopusOwl
      @OctopusOwl Před 2 lety +15

      Like triumph

    • @karly.asshhh
      @karly.asshhh Před 2 lety +56

      Exactly !! I honestly didn't know this series was a romantic comedy because the friend that recommended it didn't tell me (she wanted it to be a surprise). I noticed the subtle hints of romance and the episode of they separating was the typical "we are acting like a DIVORCED COUPLE but it's funny cause we are STRAIGHT" but then they kissed for real and it was so natural and I couldn't believe it 😭😭 the queerbaiting industry really has messed me up.

    • @ConfusedRambutan
      @ConfusedRambutan Před 2 lety +8

      @@brain_apostrophe_t yeah me too i already *knew* the hype about the show being gay so i wasn't expecting anything else, so the breakup felt like a real breakup to me, just onw where neither party is properly together in the first place

  • @MsNERFGUN
    @MsNERFGUN Před 2 lety +722

    Does anyone else think that Taika should grow his hair long

  • @ENnbY
    @ENnbY Před 2 lety +87

    2:46 he’s still holding stede’s hand 🥺❤️

  • @1.21gigawatts2
    @1.21gigawatts2 Před 2 lety +1151

    If I were to be honest, this is a series where I had to reprogram my Christian upbringing. Every romantic relationship in the first ten episodes is LGBTQ+ related which I was not expecting coming into the show. I had a ton of belly laughs and if I am honest, more than enough moments where I had to question how open minded I truly am. I felt quite uncomfortable, especially with the non-binary relationship in this show. It's strange feeling seeing this kind of representation so prominent in a Hollywood production and It is certainly the first time I've seen someone referred to as the they/them pronouns. This show for sure helped a man in rural Australia with a religious upbringing better understand non-straight folk and I can honestly say I am excited for future episodes. As silly as it sounds, I came away from this show with a better understanding of the LGBTQ+ community.

    • @king-wenskiii2511
      @king-wenskiii2511 Před 2 lety +211

      wait hold up a second hold up a second this comment got me emotional its so sweet. thats so powerful god bless you from the philippines.

    • @mofthemoth5755
      @mofthemoth5755 Před 2 lety +81

      Awww, that's sweet. I'm glad the show could do that for you

    • @flintfoster8010
      @flintfoster8010 Před 2 lety +150

      This is one reason why representation is important. Even if it can help just a few people.

    • @kazzoey9164
      @kazzoey9164 Před 2 lety +22

      ❤️

    • @hahachickem8675
      @hahachickem8675 Před 2 lety +102

      This means a lot, and is proof of why lgbt+ representation isn't just important for queer people like me, but straight/cis people, too! This is a wonderful thing to hear. Hope you are having a wonderful day.

  • @ArtsyHumanbean
    @ArtsyHumanbean Před 2 lety +196

    Stede said the toe thing was icky and that’s why Ed did it, pass it on.

    • @yourpalfred
      @yourpalfred Před 2 lety +23

      I'm thoroughly convinced Stede saying Blackbeard is a bloodthirsty killer (in that bar after this) is gonna come back to bite him, all these little details are so good

  • @zeechops401
    @zeechops401 Před 2 lety +877

    I've been replaying this for like a fucking hour. I CANT STOP LOOKING. THEY FUCKING DID IT. THEY DID WHAT SO MANY OTHER MEDIA HAVE TEASED BUT NEVER HAD THE BALLS TO DO.

    • @stephrides5765
      @stephrides5765 Před 2 lety +13

      I'm pretty sure there's really only like 20 of us who have watched this and we've each just watched it thousands of times 😂 🏴‍☠️ 💕

  • @AdaSoto
    @AdaSoto Před 2 lety +58

    I like that they didn't put a big swell of music under the kiss. Just the ocean and a little piano.

  • @legallyrequired
    @legallyrequired Před 2 lety +111

    This is honestly the best gay relationship I’ve ever seen in any media. It perfectly captures growing up gay, being gay, coming to terms with your identity and trying to accept yourself. It just has everything. Commentary on every important aspect of being LGBT+ tied in with comedy and romance. I’m in love with these gay pirates

    • @zomystar
      @zomystar Před 2 lety +12

      Me too!! And I love that the fact they’re gay isn’t the conflict. Showing homophobia on screen is very important, but I just wish I could watch a queer movie/show without having to see them being beaten up or bullied purely just for being queer. Why do we have to be hated to be interesting? You can have a GREAT gay love story without including homophobia, and this show is proof.
      Sorry if my message has poor grammar, just woke up and immediately wanted to rewatch this scene haha

    • @calpurniabruchi5742
      @calpurniabruchi5742 Před rokem +1

      Schitts Creek also did a good job with the gay relationship.

  • @PistachioBandit
    @PistachioBandit Před 2 lety +461

    ;_; I normally avoid romance shows, but this one snuck it in under the veil of comedy and I guess thats how I like romance. More shows like this please.

    • @niftythegoblin
      @niftythegoblin Před 2 lety +12

      Plenty of comedies sneak in really sweet romances, Ted Lasso and Parks and Recreation come to mind - unfortunately none of them have been queer relationships. This show does that really well. The best so far, tbh.

    • @priyachoudhary9896
      @priyachoudhary9896 Před 2 lety +2

      I heard about this after it's popularity clashed with moon knight and with Waititi, Darby and other GOT actors, I HAD to see it ( also the queer representation)

    • @leoneljaramillo6710
      @leoneljaramillo6710 Před 2 lety

      .........................

  • @olliebrolly2744
    @olliebrolly2744 Před 2 lety +164

    Taika really did give the gays everything we wanted holy SHIT

  • @labesify
    @labesify Před 2 lety +539

    I finished the last two episodes the day they came out, and I have NOT been okay since. The insane happiness and heart melting that I felt watching this scene.. and then... Well, I have been crying for three days straight.
    Anyway, the joy of not being queerbaited. I'm absolutely ecstatic about that bit.

    • @charlie2.048
      @charlie2.048 Před 2 lety +16

      I am not going to be Emotionally Okay until S2.

    • @MJ_0019
      @MJ_0019 Před 2 lety +6

      I've been an emotional wreck since I finished the last episode.

    • @dansp7042
      @dansp7042 Před 2 lety +8

      Yes!!!! Soo happy they didn’t pull the best friends parent their acquired child(ren) and function like a romantic married couple but remain ambiguously platonic for plausible deniability card. After decades of shows pulling that shit, I almost can’t believe what I just watched!

    • @sophialore7958
      @sophialore7958 Před 2 lety +5

      Glad I'm not the only one who straight up sobbed when this scene happened. The reaction, the RELIEF AND JOY, it was so visceral. Years of hoping and wishing someone would finally have the guts to do this, to show this. As something lovely and precious

  • @lunamoon5858
    @lunamoon5858 Před 2 lety +151

    I just love the musical theme that plays whenever they have soft moments together. it’s so beautiful and gentle, this show really is the best thing that’s happened this year

    • @Rozilla
      @Rozilla Před 2 lety +14

      It's Erik Satie's Gnossienne number 5 in case you're interested! It's a gorgeous piece of music

    • @bluestarthestar
      @bluestarthestar Před 2 lety +2

      @@Rozilla oooh thank you!!

    • @leoneljaramillo6710
      @leoneljaramillo6710 Před 2 lety

      ......................

  • @flintfoster8010
    @flintfoster8010 Před 2 lety +45

    Big strong fearsome blackbeard the best pirate looking at this man with so much love, kissing him so tenderly, cupping his hand, and wanting to run away together. Melts my dang heart. Now i know that not all scary people are actually that scary 😌

  • @SkyGodKazuha
    @SkyGodKazuha Před 2 lety +189

    Disney, take note. This is what real LGBTQ+ representation is. Not what ever "first gay character/couple" you make for the 77th time and always get edited out/censored in certain countries.

  • @Olive_O_Sudden
    @Olive_O_Sudden Před 2 lety +106

    I loved the use of Satie's Gnoissienes #5 (a long-time favourite) as the romantic leitmotif throughout the series, and there it is again, at 1:27, when Ed says that it's Stede that makes him happy.

    • @falseorchid6962
      @falseorchid6962 Před 2 lety +9

      Oh my gosh I’ve been looking for what the song is called thank you 😭

    • @Olive_O_Sudden
      @Olive_O_Sudden Před 2 lety +2

      @@falseorchid6962 😊

    • @zoestarbuck9892
      @zoestarbuck9892 Před 2 lety +8

      It actually starts out with Schumann’s Träumerei but after the first line it switches to Satie’s Gnossiennes. I didn’t know it was Satie, I thought it was the shows take on Schumann, that’s so clever! Both songs have almost the same beginning and sound so good together. (It also sounds like they are both originally in the same key) My music major mind is blown (and very happy)

    • @maggiemcfly5267
      @maggiemcfly5267 Před 2 lety +3

      @@zoestarbuck9892 Fellow music major here, I also caught that it starts with the Träumerei and I thought it was so beautiful because the name literally transaltes to "dreaming" and I think it adds sweetness to the scene with Ed and Stede's childlike innocence in love, given that the piece(the loveliest of the cycle and my favorite) belongs to the Kinderszenen. I don't know it that's what they were going with, but I choose to believe it.
      Edit: there's also another "dreaming" piece used for the soundtrack, Debussy's Reviere when Mary is explaining what it's like to be in love. I love this show so much!!

  • @tabithajohnson3222
    @tabithajohnson3222 Před 2 lety +125

    I love that everyone is struggling to process this moment together 😭

  • @MedusaPurple
    @MedusaPurple Před 2 lety +158

    They're so fucking cute I can't believe this show really did it, I'm so happy.

  • @jacobpierce9747
    @jacobpierce9747 Před 2 lety +713

    I’m not gay, but I like how they did this scene. It wasn’t the “token queer couple” approach that always shows up when a show’s ratings are steadily dropping.
    They took their time with it, and I was very fond of their budding friendship. And while I suspected this might happen, I can easily say that “if they kept it at just them being great friends, I would’ve been good with that, and if they push the relationship, I can ship it.”
    It was a sweet, tender moment, and I hope they don’t ruin it in Season 2.

    • @tefim.g.5881
      @tefim.g.5881 Před 2 lety +93

      That's exactly what I thought, it wasn't forced, it didn't feel the show wanted to show and enphasize they are a gay couple, so for that reason it was genuine and soooo romantic for everybody.

    • @jessi2077
      @jessi2077 Před 2 lety +157

      just fyi, you can ship gay men without being a gay man yourself

    • @delbrooke7655
      @delbrooke7655 Před 2 lety +13

      @@jessi2077 i was just gonna say this!

    • @sagejennings4342
      @sagejennings4342 Před 2 lety +39

      (as a queer person) they didn't do it to fill a quota and that really shows

    • @marwoodbizarro1093
      @marwoodbizarro1093 Před 2 lety +14

      You know you don't have to be gay to enjoy a same sex relationship. No need to say that you are not just to give a sincere and honest opinion about a ship :)

  • @theladynim2
    @theladynim2 Před 2 lety +15

    Tbf if Rhys Darby looked at me with that cute lil lopsided smile I would kiss him too

  • @estrelarl2698
    @estrelarl2698 Před 2 lety +213

    I started watching OFMD already knowing about this moment, but when it happened I still gasped and couldn't believe it...what a great fucking show

    • @JC-dm9un
      @JC-dm9un Před 2 lety +33

      Ikr I was spoiled before I started it and honestly it didn't ruin it for me. The build-up of the relationship across the episodes really made the kiss pay off and feel VALUABLE, unlike when I first saw it and didn't think much of it

    • @pazd8151
      @pazd8151 Před 2 lety +8

      I also watched being spoiled, I heard these two were in love so I deduced to watch it. I’ve never thought they would be so direct about it… it’s so beautiful to see, can wait for the rest of the story.❤

    • @leoneljaramillo6710
      @leoneljaramillo6710 Před 2 lety

      ...........................

    • @Thesmithsfan82
      @Thesmithsfan82 Před rokem +3

      same here! i mostly forgot this scene even happened when i got to it anyway 😂

  • @ZS-gd9zh
    @ZS-gd9zh Před 10 měsíci +9

    David we're in your walls. RELEASE THE SECOND BEACH KISS WHY WAS IT CUT AHHHHHHHH

  • @clovercard22
    @clovercard22 Před 2 lety +29

    Stede makes the tiniest sound by the end of the kiss and I think that's adorable, ok, bye.

  • @wpaunan
    @wpaunan Před 2 lety +83

    The streaming numbers don't lie, HBO has a hit with this show. I wonder what's taking them so long to decide to make season 2.

  • @arose2586
    @arose2586 Před 2 lety +26

    here for my daily 39 rewatches of this clip

    • @sofiaplv
      @sofiaplv Před 2 lety +2

      Dude, same. It's like we can't believe it.

  • @sandrarivera1262
    @sandrarivera1262 Před 2 lety +1972

    This show did what Sherlock, Supernatural, Marvel, Star Wars, Hannibal and Merlin couldn't do.
    I'm so happy for them!! (Edit: y'all are right with the good omens. I do like them as an asexual husbands)

    • @futureiswoke5034
      @futureiswoke5034 Před 2 lety +271

      Hannibal was less queerbaity in the sense that the main characters said in no uncertain terms that they were in love with each other but agree on all the others

    • @rainlily2539
      @rainlily2539 Před 2 lety +172

      This is exactly what I hope Season 2 of Good Omens will do. But until then, at least I have this show :D

    • @mhlib7569
      @mhlib7569 Před 2 lety +152

      Brah we can’t put Hannibal in that group because Bryan would have gone there

    • @emmajochum8682
      @emmajochum8682 Před 2 lety +62

      I'm with you, Hannah. There's still a chance for good omens, *fingers crossed*

    • @trashboat204
      @trashboat204 Před 2 lety +126

      Hannibal doesn't really count because Bryan didn't want their love to be expressed physically and it was supposed to be more emotional or something. He kind of regrets it though because the show ended up getting cancelled and stuff.

  • @livelife9680
    @livelife9680 Před 2 lety +42

    I don’t know if anyone’s already pointed this out but I went crazy trying to find out that the song in this scene is Erik Satie's Gnossienne no.5, which you can hear play during various scenes in other episodes relating to Ed and Stede’s relationship.

    • @msbonsaihuman
      @msbonsaihuman Před 2 lety +3

      THANK YOU! It makes me want to pick up flute again.

  • @kaelstjean2738
    @kaelstjean2738 Před 2 lety +22

    I love the fact that before, Ed told Stede that there was no escape, that they were trapped there, but once he realized that Stede felt the same way about him as he did about Stede, he no longer believed they were trapped. Stede showing that he loved him too made him realize he would do anything to be with him, even if it meant doing the stupidest, most dangerous thing they could possibly do.

    • @liol3409
      @liol3409 Před 9 měsíci

      honestly, I think Ed was happy to be there. It wasn't the ideal situation, but he was with Stede, which is why he was able to adapt so quickly and reacted angrily to Stede's request to escape. He felt that Stede was focused on the life he had left behind. Seeing that Stede was also attracted to him, Ed no longer cared about running away, because running away at that moment did not imply a separation.

  • @TChoiProductions
    @TChoiProductions Před 2 lety +41

    When I watched this scene for the first time I felt like I'd unlocked a part of myself. I think my whole life I'd been aware of queerbaiting but it wasn't until I watched this scene between these two men who look and act and fall in love so differently from any other gay couple I'd seen on screen, and felt for maybe the first time in my life the same emotions I feel from a depiction of a straight romance, that I really understood what was missing from everything else I was watching. I can't believe I went into this silly little show about pirates and came out feeling like I just watched something revolutionary

  • @kelly2D
    @kelly2D Před 2 lety +177

    This made me so happy I’ve never had a teased gay relationship actually happen especially in a comedic series like this. I watched enough 2010s comedy to not get my hopes up but finally it’s real. My teen self feels heard and my bisexual adult self is happy to see this progress.

  • @KS-po9sx
    @KS-po9sx Před rokem +7

    Did anyone else noticed how tone of Edward’s voice has changed when he got rid of his beard or is it just me? 😂

    • @ZS-gd9zh
      @ZS-gd9zh Před rokem +4

      Yess! I noticed that his voice became less deep and growly after he shaved it off 😂
      I thought I was imagining things, then went and rewatched the show and I was right

  • @AngstyRat
    @AngstyRat Před 2 lety +160

    It's so bittersweet seeing all our reactions to this, like it's so heartwarming seeing everyone crying over them and being so happy we actually got this in canon.... but the surprise and like strangeness of not being queerbaited for once is just sad.
    Time and time again shows come so close to canon queer rep and then throw it all away, rush it at the end or just check off the lgbtq+ rep box with side characters.
    But this time it was different.
    It's so hard to express in words how impactful this is, how important showing relationships like this on screen is. The fact that everyone (myself included) is still struggling to wrap our heads around the fact that this ship is ACTUALLY CANON just reminds me of all the times we have been cheated out of representation in the past.
    I hope this show can set a precedent for other series to follow in future. This in my opinion is the very best queer representation I have ever seen on screen, including the non-binary rep too. Just so well handled I cry every time I think about it.
    In conclusion, give us season 2 right now, and it better have a happy ending or I will simply not recover

  • @aidashahirasuhadi9809
    @aidashahirasuhadi9809 Před 2 lety +67

    I was so happy this kiss happened it's slowly healing the traumas of being queerbaited all these years

  • @doomsdayoption
    @doomsdayoption Před 2 lety +82

    This might very well be one of the first scenes on TV where no matter how many times I play it, every time it apparently seems like I've never seen it before because I just feel the urge to bury my face into a pillow and scream since I'm hardly convinced that YES, THIS IS REAL.
    Also, Stede's puppy expression at 1:12 is absolutely adorable. He truly is a golden retriever.

  • @m1randa638
    @m1randa638 Před 2 lety +68

    this scene is like a fucking drug, i still can't believe it's real everytime i watch it i get so happy

  • @somedudev4622
    @somedudev4622 Před 2 lety +17

    The classical piece in the background is 'Gnossienne, 5. modéré' so you can listen to it and cry your eyes out

  • @zahraha538
    @zahraha538 Před 2 lety +27

    ok but the little noise Stede makes at 1:44 😭 brb sobbing at this perfection

  • @47strangelyliteral
    @47strangelyliteral Před 2 lety +66

    I can't even express how much of a relief it is to be reading all these comments. I finished the show a few nights ago, and it took me two hours to fall asleep because my mind was racing. I just didn't know what to do with myself. I still don't, and I'm feeling so many emotions it physically hurts. As a queer person still trying to figure things out, I didn't realize how much I was waiting for something like this to happen on TV, until it did, and part of me still can't believe it's real. Is this what representation is? I was legit wondering if this show broke my brain until I read everyone else's comments and saw that a lot of us are reacting this way. This show has wrecked me, lol

    • @luftballonzz
      @luftballonzz Před 2 lety +3

      I'm going through the exact same thing, I feel like I cant do anything else BUT think about this show and how much the ending hurt!! writing this right now at 3 am with no chance of falling back asleep because of this lmao. I genuinely hope this show gets a season 2, and more importantly that these two eventually make amends and start all over :')

  • @cifolotto
    @cifolotto Před 2 lety +63

    This series went from making me laugh hysterically to feeling the realest, warmest emotions I felt in a while.

  • @showandtell1313
    @showandtell1313 Před 2 lety +46

    i watch this daily like just thinking about the kiss makes me giggle madly

  • @pazvega5895
    @pazvega5895 Před 2 lety +21

    The little sound stede makes in 1:45 will live rent free in my head for the rest of my life! 😩🥺😭

  • @Cscope1717
    @Cscope1717 Před 2 lety +85

    🥺😭😭😭 putting this on loop I’m so normal about the pirate show

    • @niftythegoblin
      @niftythegoblin Před 2 lety +6

      Me too bestie, we’re so normal about these pirates 🥲

  • @planclops
    @planclops Před 2 lety +23

    That awkward moment when you’re a gay man sobbing at this scene while your boyfriend has to provide tissues😅

  • @SavitriRose
    @SavitriRose Před 2 lety +330

    I was SO happy when I first watched this, I was also worried it would just be up to interpretation!! Such a beautiful moment! 🥰 They have crazy good chemistry and I'm glad the creators made it canon!!! AAHHHH!

  • @elektraaida3049
    @elektraaida3049 Před 2 lety +178

    going to get this tattooed on my body

  • @zeed4535
    @zeed4535 Před 2 lety +23

    God I was so excited when I realized they were canon, I spent the whole time just going “yeah but that could be friendly stuff, there’s already 2 lgbt couples, there’s no way they’ll make the main dudes gay” and then they did?!?! Anyway this show is amazing and this scene is beautiful

  • @serpentgoat6875
    @serpentgoat6875 Před 2 lety +36

    I hope people see now how BIG and how VAST the support for this show is, BECAUSE it is supporting queer folks. For decades it was always assumed lgbtq characters would make media less popular, or looked down upon. And many people still shun content featuring "the gays". But the support and love for this show has been so fucking severe, I hope it got the message across.

    • @nutbastard
      @nutbastard Před 2 lety

      To be fair, this was done tastefully as opposed to gratuitously, which a lot of "representation" has missed the mark on. I can see a lot of people being grossed out by gratuitous depictions of intimacy regardless of whether it's straight or gay or queer relations being portrayed.
      But they didn't do that here. They didn't make it about sex. They made it about love.

  • @katelynchester6690
    @katelynchester6690 Před 2 lety +61

    We have always existed and we are not side characters in our own lives! You will never silence us!

  • @JL-rt9mi
    @JL-rt9mi Před rokem +7

    I think maybe my favorite (or ok, second favorite) thing about this completely glorious scene is how they've both been stripped of all their protective armor (finery, leather, weapons, facial hair) and are in these neutral colors against a neutral (but gauzy-pretty) background. It's just them, with each other, in a little capsule outside of everything. Which they also were while flat on the deck of the Revenge while chaos churned around them in Ep 8. So many lovely little details in this dang show.

  • @MsSarahJosephine
    @MsSarahJosephine Před 2 lety +15

    I have watched this scene an unhealthy number of times.

  • @fangirl27862
    @fangirl27862 Před 2 lety +30

    It was sad how they end separated,but stede really needed an emotional closure whit his family,to know they were gonna be okey whiout him,only in that way he could trully be happy and free to love somebody else whitout feeling guilty🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺

  • @doomsdayoption
    @doomsdayoption Před rokem +24

    Just curious: has anyone else seen this scene so many times they can quote it by heart?

  • @Sharpe1502
    @Sharpe1502 Před 2 lety +21

    When Stede looked panicked and was like, 😐 “Mm-hm.” I literally shouted at my screen, “You better not!….”

  • @zoemontbroussous325
    @zoemontbroussous325 Před 2 lety +12

    I just noticed this, and it's really not that important but now I love it and I can't unsee it. The first 4 little face reactions after ed says "...you" are right on time with the music. Like it goes "...you..." Then Ed's eye blink/beat/Ed's head turn/beat/Stede's eyebrows/beat/Stede smiles/beat. It's so small but I want to believe it's not a coincidence and someone really took the time to plan this.

  • @BackAlleyTANGO
    @BackAlleyTANGO Před 2 lety +18

    Sweetest kiss in tv history, as far as I'm concerned. They're both too cute for words. ;;

  • @hazzayols
    @hazzayols Před 2 lety +16

    new challenge, try not to smile while watching this

  • @beesalittlenerdbird5949
    @beesalittlenerdbird5949 Před 2 lety +10

    One of my many many favorite things about this scene is the music. There’s no great swelling of strings as they kiss, just some quaint and gentle piano as if then kissing is the simplest thing in the world. Cause it is.

  • @unaesthetic.mp4499
    @unaesthetic.mp4499 Před 2 lety +21

    i could write a book about how well written their relationship and this scene is ngl

  • @x-astrixia-x9164
    @x-astrixia-x9164 Před 2 lety +119

    talented, brilliant, incredible, amazing, showstopping, spectacular
    seriously i'm like sobbing this is so wonderful

  • @sandrarivera1262
    @sandrarivera1262 Před 2 lety +24

    Ed's little run when he gets up😭

  • @ST0P_.G0_.1
    @ST0P_.G0_.1 Před 2 lety +10

    who else is here for the 194649100281656388th time?

  • @tas5686
    @tas5686 Před 2 lety +22

    Rhys Darby's smile at 1:30 is just so heart-warming

  • @lorrainecc99
    @lorrainecc99 Před 2 lety +17

    I want them to have a happy kiss in season 2. 😭 Stede is so sad/confused/guilty here.

  • @twodudesonmars6708
    @twodudesonmars6708 Před rokem +9

    It’s crazy that after that kiss the show ended and they escaped and went to china like that’s crazy

  • @charlie2.048
    @charlie2.048 Před 2 lety +72

    This show made me feel All Of The Emotions.
    I need Season 2.
    Immedietaly.

  • @Lexipop398
    @Lexipop398 Před 2 lety +28

    1:18 The butterflies in my tummy fluttered faster and faster from this point on

    • @lord_ozymandias
      @lord_ozymandias Před 2 lety +5

      that was around the point in the show i caught on that this was The Scene™️ so i was right along with ya there lol

  • @MoonMusicOwl
    @MoonMusicOwl Před 2 lety +28

    People really are saying this kiss was bad ?? This literally perfectly displays shot by shot true love's first nervous kiss where both parties are dazed, have fireworks going off in their head and their hearts are beating out of their chests. Kisses don't have to be grand to be passionate. Shush.

    • @AidanK_ART
      @AidanK_ART Před 2 lety +3

      who said it was a bad kiss?? Show me those jerks! It's a super cute FIRST kiss! It is a little awkward, it is cautious, it is full of tenderness and love! What else should be the first kiss?
      I remember my first kiss with my boyfriend, it's such a shame that I still feel uncomfortable after five years together lmao
      These men have the perfect kiss compared to us...

    • @MoonMusicOwl
      @MoonMusicOwl Před 2 lety +3

      @@AidanK_ART I saw some people saying that it was bad because it wasn't passionate enough or too awkward or something, I don't think that they understood that that's literally kind of the point of it. This stuff is new for them.

    • @MoonMusicOwl
      @MoonMusicOwl Před 2 lety +1

      @@AidanK_ART yeah same my first kiss was.... Ugh yeah not going there

  • @sebastianv.sdavis5806
    @sebastianv.sdavis5806 Před 2 lety +10

    You can see the moment that Steade thinks “I just agreed to run away to china to lead a secret homosexual life”

  • @vanillacream2797
    @vanillacream2797 Před 2 lety +26

    I swear to fucking god I am fucking glad I am alive to see this moment

  • @nutbastard
    @nutbastard Před 2 lety +17

    So uh, old straight man here.
    To me, this scene has nothing to do with being gay or being queer or any other label.
    This is love, and you don't get to pick who you fall in love with. I've found that sex and love are two very different things. I could fall in love with someone and not ever want it to be sexual, and I could want to have sex with someone and not have love have anything to do with it.
    It's a great series and this scene had me leaking because it is so tender. Two humans found a spark. That's beautiful.

    • @adrienne-ukulelecraftsandm559
      @adrienne-ukulelecraftsandm559 Před 2 lety +1

      As a straight asexual , I couldn’t agree with you more, on all your statements . This scene was and still is beautiful and leaves me grinning like a madwoman any time I see it !

    • @nutbastard
      @nutbastard Před 2 lety +3

      ​@@adrienne-ukulelecraftsandm559 Glad to hear that I'm not completely off base with at least one person of a different orientation.
      Goes to show that we're not all that different. The only real difference is between those who have hangups and those who don't.
      And honestly I don't fault people with hangups. It's not their fault. But it is their loss if beautiful depictions of love like this are lost on them. Especially given all that leads up to it.
      Two people disillusioned with their previous lives finding harmony with each other. A harmony that they couldn't even articulate before they discovered it. The hesitance to even admit to themselves, let alone each other, that this made them happy. The growth along the way.
      Utter beauty, and it has nothing to do with what's between their legs. You don't get to pick who you love or who loves you. And that's kind of the magic of love, isn't it?

  • @stinegregersen6553
    @stinegregersen6553 Před 2 lety +25

    I keep coming back to this just to remind myself that it wasn’t just a dream and it actually happened

  • @hkwa_
    @hkwa_ Před 2 lety +20

    Don’t lie this ain’t your first time here