I Was Trafficked from Vietnam To Marry a Chinese Man

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  • čas přidán 28. 08. 2022
  • Ly San was born in a small village in the northern mountainous area of Vietnam. In 2010, she left home for dental treatment in a town 60 km away, but there she met a woman who tricked her into travelling across the border to China. She was sold as a bride to a Chinese husband and wasn’t able to escape and return to her children and family for four years.
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  • @txl43n
    @txl43n Před rokem +493

    Wow this is scary as hell. And the fact she was in prison for 5 months for reporting herself as being trafficked. It's safer for her to be there anyways than be with the fake husband

    • @buildingdreams2279
      @buildingdreams2279 Před rokem

      🧞🧞EHSHUA IS YOUR MESSIAH EHSHUA IS MASHIACH PRAY TO EHSHUA EHSHUA HAMELECH YUHOODAH YOU KNOW YOU KNOW YOU KNOW🧞🧞

    • @rodrozil6544
      @rodrozil6544 Před rokem

      Southeast Asian girls have always been sold to foreign men. Before to westerners now to Chinese and Koreans.

    • @condorX2
      @condorX2 Před rokem

      Quick summary
      She got betrayed by her own people twice.
      The only people who treat her nice were the Chinese people. She get to eat chicken for dinner and a husband that never lay hand on her.
      She learned to use WeChat.
      Once she's back home, the police abandoned her like the husband abandoned her daughter.
      Her adventure to China is very popular in her village and she become very knowledgeable about the world.
      🤓

    • @txl43n
      @txl43n Před rokem +15

      @@condorX2 they still scam her and sold her without her consent tho. She's a strong person to raise her kids by herself and learn to be independent. Some would probably develop Stockholm syndrome and stay with the fake husband even have his kids. She chose to leave and call the cops.

    • @condorX2
      @condorX2 Před rokem +2

      @@txl43n good point.
      I would start over lol
      As I grow older, I realize having kids is guaranteed you'll be working multiple jobs and the cycle never end.

  • @titititi1765
    @titititi1765 Před rokem +366

    This is really heart breaking. No one deserves to be treated like that.
    Luckily she managed to escape ... I wish her all the best and happiness in the world.

    • @buildingdreams2279
      @buildingdreams2279 Před rokem

      🧞🧞EHSHUA IS YOUR MESSIAH EHSHUA IS MASHIACH PRAY TO EHSHUA EHSHUA HAMELECH YUHOODAH YOU KNOW YOU KNOW YOU KNOW🧞🧞

    • @K.N.H.
      @K.N.H. Před rokem

      It happening every single days for centuries, noone ever care and China is superpower country and everybody just forget about it again.

  • @KneeJerk
    @KneeJerk Před rokem +340

    This happens everyday here in Vietnam. Check out what charities like Blue Dragon do here to help girls escape back to Vietnam, sometimes it takes them decades and they have no family left to come back to. This lady was relatively lucky to escape after only 3 years, very sad.

    • @Nostalgia_Addict
      @Nostalgia_Addict Před rokem +18

      Every day? Holy shit

    • @buildingdreams2279
      @buildingdreams2279 Před rokem

      🧞🧞EHSHUA IS YOUR MESSIAH EHSHUA IS MASHIACH PRAY TO EHSHUA EHSHUA HAMELECH YUHOODAH YOU KNOW YOU KNOW YOU KNOW🧞🧞

    • @williamisraelgomararias5737
      @williamisraelgomararias5737 Před rokem +2

      Is the goverment doing something or they just let it be

    • @saosaqii5807
      @saosaqii5807 Před rokem +1

      @@Nostalgia_Addict ofc
      It's not like there's set time where you can traffic and do crime.

    • @talkingbushrandom4230
      @talkingbushrandom4230 Před rokem +14

      @@williamisraelgomararias5737 both NGOs and the gov r trying their best, but yeah, it's difficult

  • @marcd2726
    @marcd2726 Před rokem +182

    Yeah, my friend here once hired a nanny from the Philippines and found out she was trafficked. They helped her get out. It's a really big problem. The first time she got to communicate with her family was when they let her do it through their phone

    • @davidyasss3484
      @davidyasss3484 Před rokem +5

      Poor woman! What country is this?

    • @marcd2726
      @marcd2726 Před rokem +19

      @@davidyasss3484 China as well

    • @cathearts09
      @cathearts09 Před rokem +5

      Happens every day in the slums of Manila. But but but...chchchynahhhhh

  • @catherinesaephanh5611
    @catherinesaephanh5611 Před rokem +83

    it breaks my heart how often tribal villagers get taken advantage. I am happy she survived and returned back home.

  • @user-lv4su2uv5x
    @user-lv4su2uv5x Před rokem +229

    People really need to talk more about human trafficking in China It’s insanely common and it’s so harmful

    • @cathearts09
      @cathearts09 Před rokem

      People need to stop racism and tackle the real problem of human trafficking. Most victims from Asia and East Europe and South America end up in Nátø countries. But but but chhhhynahhhh

    • @mistrace
      @mistrace Před rokem +12

      This is not a China issue, this is an issue with humanity and unfortunately It's happening all over the world. It's definitely not as bad as it used to be with the improvements of technology, surveillance, social media, etc, but in order to really stop this from happening, demand needs to be cut.

    • @beetafly2
      @beetafly2 Před rokem +6

      This affects us all Asian even if we don't have direct relatives still living in East and Southeast Asia, it hits home when it happens to someone of your ethnicity. This is very scary. Imagine all the dead bodies the Chinese government will one day dug up because a lot of those traffick girls get beaten to death and buried on countryside farms and ditches for stupid things because they don't do exactly as told due to a lack of understanding mandarin. Something has got to be done and soon or else more girls will meet this demise.

    • @cathearts09
      @cathearts09 Před rokem +1

      @@beetafly2 Wotcha mean trafficked to China, there's plenty enuf trafficking across SE Asia,.this isn't the place to push racism and propaganda

    • @noazucar519
      @noazucar519 Před rokem +2

      Soo true! My mom used to say she'd leave us on the street for someone to kidnap us when we got on her nerves. But it didn't register in my mind that trafficking was THAT common in China until I was older.

  • @pewe357
    @pewe357 Před rokem +169

    This has been going on with many indigenous Iu-Mien (like this woman) and Hmong women for years in Vietnam and Laos. Glad there’s coverage on this.

    • @sakurakou2009
      @sakurakou2009 Před rokem +3

      no offense but where is the men in their tribe why do they allow their women to be in danger like this 😐

    • @kmm7059
      @kmm7059 Před rokem

      @@sakurakou2009 In China, there are more Chinese men than women. So, this became an industry in China where they kidnapped women from Laos and Vietnam and they are usually sold as wives, but sometimes they are sold as prostitutes. According to these victims themselves, sometimes it's their own friends and families that sold them to China too. Very sad and scary world to live in. North Korean women who escaped from North Korea, but whom are unlucky also face the same fate like these women. They are usually sold as wives, or as prostitutes.

    • @dededoi
      @dededoi Před rokem +34

      @@sakurakou2009 she went to the dentist and got kidnapped it wasn't like they thought anything bad was gonna happen. many indigenous people in the hills aren't overly prospective of their women because they're farmers. they are used to going to their farms and markets, usually nothing scary happens. the men are probably also doing the same, going to the farmlands, hunting, and going to the markets, life is hard they gotta be self sufficient, men will do their own thing same as women.

    • @sakurakou2009
      @sakurakou2009 Před rokem

      @@kmm7059 why dont the men just go to the women family and pay dowry and ask for the girl hand in marriage why kidnap ?

    • @sakurakou2009
      @sakurakou2009 Před rokem

      @@dededoi time to introduce self defense and guns to those women , no way would I tolerate my daughter being sold or kidnaped I would follow her 24/7😔

  • @nflscarlzyy
    @nflscarlzyy Před rokem +144

    There is a notorious tradition of favoring boys over girls in rural China, which ultimately leads to a significant imbalance of sex ratio. Thus there exists a market for trafficking women (and children), either from other areas of China or from abroad.
    You can find more in the "Chained Woman" story.

    • @buildingdreams2279
      @buildingdreams2279 Před rokem

      🧞🧞EHSHUA IS YOUR MESSIAH EHSHUA IS MASHIACH PRAY TO EHSHUA EHSHUA HAMELECH YUHOODAH YOU KNOW YOU KNOW YOU KNOW🧞🧞

    • @organizedchaos4559
      @organizedchaos4559 Před rokem

      I do t think this is it. If that was it then they would target you get woman not someone in their 40-50 with 2 adult children

    • @condorX2
      @condorX2 Před rokem +1

      I don't think that's the case.
      If you watch the video, her first husband in China is a 60 years old.
      This tell me they're just looking for a companion hence the old man offer her chicken dinner.
      Her fate is better than those who got traffic in a hot truck and died.

    • @isarainie4ever
      @isarainie4ever Před rokem +7

      @@condorX2 still traffic. The comparison is like normal toxic kill you but not cruetly as pesticides.

    • @condorX2
      @condorX2 Před rokem

      @@isarainie4ever what's the root of the problem?

  • @Dreygonfleye
    @Dreygonfleye Před rokem +81

    I wonder what happened to her sister? The lack of empathy from literally everyone she met isn't surprising but just frustrating. How did so many people become so cold?

    • @jowind777
      @jowind777 Před rokem +6

      It's what the Bible call the "Critical last days" where the hearts of so many are wicked and cold (2 Timothy 3:1-5)

    • @ishastrega6851
      @ishastrega6851 Před rokem +1

      It's the world we live in these days.

    • @bloodndestroy
      @bloodndestroy Před rokem +12

      Third world countries tend to have much higher psychopathy rates, something that is kind of pushed under the rug due to it easily being seen as a racist view. If you grew up in either North America (USA/CAD) or the down under (AUS/NZ) and a few other places, then you’re lucky to have grown up around normal people for the most part, but it will be a shocker as to how different people are if you go to places like Vietnam, Nigeria, Mexico, etc. It’s almost as if the entire nation has a mental disorder.

    • @tiffanym8494
      @tiffanym8494 Před rokem +3

      @@bloodndestroy I believe this. I wonder why, could it be the generations of problematic childhoods and harsh society?

    • @bloodndestroy
      @bloodndestroy Před rokem +2

      @@tiffanym8494 My theories are overpopulation and “Old Word BS.” Overpopulation because that makes people feel less empathy for others as there are so many people, so why does it matter if a few of them dies? So other human lives has less value to them. It’s a general principle of loosing appreciation for something when you have so many of it.
      By Old World BS, I mean stuff like casteism (seeing someone as less than an animal because of their last name), religious beliefs that makes no sense and creates more divisions, old ethnic tensions (Tutsi vs Hutu in Rwanda is just one of many examples), dumb national pride that makes people think they are the superior group because of the actions of people who happened to have lived in the same place thousands of years ago, holding grudges from events that happened long before they were even born, etc. And all the problems that we still have in western countries like racism, sexism, etc, are amplified like a hundred fold in these places.
      I’d agree with harsh environments and problematic childhoods too. It’s kind of like a repeating cycle. I’d know, I grew up in that world until the age of 9 when I moved to the US. What’s the best way to break the cycle? If the next generation grows up in the west. Otherwise, there’s really no hope.

  • @hyuuganatsume2621
    @hyuuganatsume2621 Před rokem +202

    This is such an open story for Vietnam and I remember my lecturer told us about this issue. It all started when Chinese mainland men (especially from the village side) are facing the issue of lack of women to marry.
    I blamed it on the China patriachy culture of favoring the male and the 1 child policies.

    • @beetafly2
      @beetafly2 Před rokem

      I blame the CCP period! If you're going to dictate a one child policy at least reward those who have baby girls to offset the gender balance but of course those idiots handle the situation poorly like how they handle the COVID outbreak in the very beginning. 👎

    • @Eclipse503
      @Eclipse503 Před rokem +17

      It happens to people of Laos and Myanmar as well. Sickening!

    • @nungdickinson431
      @nungdickinson431 Před rokem

      @@Eclipse503 true and Cambodia is known for child sexual trafficking, really hate powerful people taking advantage of poor village women

    • @cudanmang_theog
      @cudanmang_theog Před rokem

      Most of the victims are ethnic minorities. Well, we know that because racism is obvious in Vietnam, Laos, and Myanmar.

    • @beetafly2
      @beetafly2 Před rokem

      I agree. I've heard stories of Hmong girls being kidnapped sometimes it was negotiated by the men in their family because of poverty. This is very sad. Manufacturing jobs need to go to SEA so that ppl would stop going to China period!

  • @marienelson.
    @marienelson. Před rokem +38

    An absolute horror story. My heart dropped when she thought she found safety in a woman who used to live in her village, only to be sold and trafficked again :(

  • @yenxion6516
    @yenxion6516 Před rokem +42

    I remember a story like this, a couple years back where a Hmong girl was walking home from school and was kidnapped and taken to China to be married. It was really big news in the Hmong community back then but luckily she was let go after a couple of days.

    • @buildingdreams2279
      @buildingdreams2279 Před rokem

      🧞🧞EHSHUA IS YOUR MESSIAH EHSHUA IS MASHIACH PRAY TO EHSHUA EHSHUA HAMELECH YUHOODAH YOU KNOW YOU KNOW YOU KNOW🧞🧞

    • @uzbekistansiberia8546
      @uzbekistansiberia8546 Před rokem

      at least theyre tricked. because in central asia its out in the open to do bride kidnapping and rampant . its out of control and open secret. its not called human trafficking but bride kidnapping.

  • @KirillyCosmicSpacePriestess

    What an amazing lady! Great reporting style to just let her tell her story- an allegory for her village. Such great stuff VICE, Thank you.

    • @NyanyiC
      @NyanyiC Před rokem +5

      I love her smile even after telling that horrific story that got worse and worse

  • @phamsumi8867
    @phamsumi8867 Před rokem +53

    There is a ton of human trafficking cases in Vietnam that I grow up hearing . There are cases that some girls are drugged and become sex slave for the whole family in Chinese rural area, where she is chained and raped by 6-7 old men everyday ( they are so poor and too old to have wife). Some survivor was forced to take pill that erase all their memory or even being victim of viscera trading. This is totally heart rending to listen.

  • @quanduipro204
    @quanduipro204 Před rokem +26

    the translation is decent enough. though the timing is way off at times. and at 9:12 I think she meant 'miss', not 'remember'. They are the same word in Vietnamese but 'miss' makes more sense in this context. I don't hate him, but I don't miss him either.

  • @jerrypie
    @jerrypie Před rokem +31

    9:20 it translates her as saying “I don’t hate him but I don’t remember him”. That’s not what she’s saying, she’s saying she doesn’t miss him. In Vietnamese remember and miss are the same word.

  • @ellenation2294
    @ellenation2294 Před rokem +33

    Wow for someone who has gone through so much I can’t help but admire her

  • @tranvinhnhat1289
    @tranvinhnhat1289 Před rokem +15

    Human trafficking is still huge issue around the world. Vietnam, India, America, Europe and the list go on. This need to address and taken very seriously.

  • @baogia4580
    @baogia4580 Před rokem +63

    As a Vietnamese from Saigon, tha a true document many year there's many case of human trafficking to Cambodia & China most of victims is Vietnamese man-woman, adult & child from countryside

    • @txl43n
      @txl43n Před rokem +3

      I always wanted to visit Vietnam I am viet-American but I've never been there. I don't have family left over there. I was told by someone if I go there I better go with 5 to 10 people and stay in a large group. I was told I'm too light and they can tell I'm a tourist, they will watch how i speak and act. they will try to kidnap me and sell me to prostitution. That's why I never went.

    • @cum5681
      @cum5681 Před rokem

      @@txl43n Việt-kiều ( American-Vietnamese) like you are among the vulnerable groip when traveling in vietnam , it's highly recommended to travel in group to avoid scamming , thief , etc . Just try to avoid going into slum area , avoid confrontation with people who you think are bad people , sexual assualt , thieves, gang violence , human trafficking here in Vietmam are rampaging and showing no sign of ceasing , vietnamese won't hesitant to harm their own fellow countryman , they will overcharge you their petty 25000 đồng ( roughly 1$) worth of merchandise up to 100000 ( 4$) đồng . Overall just travel at your own risk ( travel in group , tour if it's your first time traveling) you should try coming back to Việt Nam if you are a Việt kiều , it would be a wonderful and memorable experience ( just disragard of the current corrupted rulling system ofc )

    • @txl43n
      @txl43n Před rokem

      @@cum5681 that's why I never went. I don't even trust tourist agencies they will probably sell me to trafficking after watching this video. I know asian models and food travelers that go there, they have body guards and travel in large groups. I only know 2 people that might go with me. It's not enough to visit.

    • @monat_son
      @monat_son Před rokem +2

      @@txl43n Well, Iam Viet born and raised in Czechia and have been in Vietnam many times. Of course there is crime but i dont think its that hot that you should be afraid to visit.

    • @linlin7683
      @linlin7683 Před rokem +3

      ​@@txl43n I'm Vietnamese, born and raised here. I think it's not that scary. You can go to famous tourist places which are safer, some staffs in hotels are very nice and they even warn you about scams, pickpocketing,... I did travel alone here so I would say you don't need to go with a big group to be safe. Vietnamese people are friendly, don't mind asking anyone randomly on the street if you need help.

  • @Nostalgia_Addict
    @Nostalgia_Addict Před rokem +32

    I wonder how many such innocent souls have fallen prey and are still trapped to this day. Human Trafficking is an issue that needs to actively, aggressively pursued by all governments and organisations alike, with increased cooperation and coordination with each other. Else the issue will never go away.

  • @LVXMagick
    @LVXMagick Před rokem +9

    You can see the beauty of her soul shinning through despite all she's been through. I hope she's doing well now and safe at home with all she needs.

  • @mmsw.9255
    @mmsw.9255 Před rokem +16

    A chinese landlord... tried to sell me off to a Pakistan for a green card even though i was engaged already with my true love... i tried to call the cops but they said " it he said she said" and because i actually didnt do it...the cops didnt want to do anything about it. I never felt so unsafe and still do.... it so disgusting the world we live in...

  • @WelfareChrist
    @WelfareChrist Před rokem +7

    they put her in jail for five months?! Absolutely shameful.

  • @kuroazrem5376
    @kuroazrem5376 Před rokem +27

    Lesson of the story: Never listen to strangers.

    • @NyanyiC
      @NyanyiC Před rokem +1

      Pineapples are dangerous 😁

    • @tadah5319
      @tadah5319 Před rokem +10

      Nah, the saddest part is that the vietnamese woman she knew also sold her off, so you can't even trust people that you do know. I remember another kidnapping video in South Asia(might be Vice don't remember) but the girl was from Nepal and kidnapped to India, and a girl she knew gaved her a laced candy

    • @kuroazrem5376
      @kuroazrem5376 Před rokem

      @@tadah5319 also true. I correct my statement: The lesson of the story is to trust nobody but yourself.

  • @danarzechula3769
    @danarzechula3769 Před rokem +4

    Wow she has such a natural grace and beauty. Bless her heart and may God protect these women

  • @shashankgiregol
    @shashankgiregol Před rokem +17

    What happened to Tan, the other woman 😭

  • @sweetsweet3753
    @sweetsweet3753 Před rokem +3

    Very sad - she was presented as a beautiful strong lady who has had it very tough. nicely presented Vice. ( I was at Lai Cai earlier this year scootering Vietnam - its a beautiful area).

  • @letsTAKObout_it
    @letsTAKObout_it Před rokem +7

    What a heart-wrenching story. But wow, what an incredible person.

  • @othang7210
    @othang7210 Před rokem +19

    Criminals who hold Trafficking humans should be sentenced as criminal murder. In other words, they should be jailed for a life sentence or even a death sentence

  • @nobody-mq6qi
    @nobody-mq6qi Před rokem +14

    What happened to her friend Tan?

  • @Cosmic_Sunrise
    @Cosmic_Sunrise Před rokem +1

    Incredible stuff. What a beautiful and strong lady - Even after it looked as if there was no hope, time and time again, she kept moving forward and kept a positive spirit. Thanks for the eye opening story, per usual, VICE!!

  • @jyaj007
    @jyaj007 Před rokem +7

    This happens more then you notice... Human trafficking is a huge thing in the SEA

  • @tandysaysyoucandoanything6758

    What a strong women. I hope to be that strong when I’m her age. What a story. I’m just so glad she made it back home

  • @littlebubbly8909
    @littlebubbly8909 Před rokem

    you're such a brave woman. thank you for sharing your story.. bless you more ❤

  • @kanealoha
    @kanealoha Před rokem

    An amazing story. What a strong and brave woman she is!!!

  • @Sarahyangtoronto
    @Sarahyangtoronto Před rokem +15

    It also happens within China's borders in poor areas. This is truly tragic.

  • @kmm7059
    @kmm7059 Před rokem +18

    This is nothing new unfortunately. In China, there are more men than women to the point where there are so many unmarried Chinese men. Chinese women themselves also get kidnapped into marriages just like these ethnic minority women from Laos and Vietnam. Let's not to forget to include North Korean women who escaped from North Korea, but who are unlucky, meets the same fate like these women.

  • @glorialisashop
    @glorialisashop Před rokem +3

    I was in china 🇨🇳 and this is true story so sad 😭 treat everyone the way you wanted to be treated

  • @koalatheworld
    @koalatheworld Před rokem +88

    Thank you for posting. It's not surprising that human trafficking, particularly women trafficking exists in this day and age. Unfortunately, many cases are disguised as consensual marriages between 3rd world Asian women and men from affluent Asian countries, where those Asian men would pay a huge sum of money to the marriage agency to buy a wife from neighbouring poor countries to ''serve the husband like a maid in the day and offer sex services at night'' as promoted by one of a marriage agencies in Singapore.

    • @kdamprae4236
      @kdamprae4236 Před rokem +11

      Gross , though I have never heard of those information.

    • @user-gb4oo2to4w
      @user-gb4oo2to4w Před rokem +58

      I didn't find it surprising either. I once got a job in Bangladesh. Chinese people working there were mostly males. I saw one of them bragging about how he bought a 15-year-old Bengali girl from her family with other Chinese men. These people have no shame. I remember there was even one time I saw the Chinese Embassy in Pakistan posted an article to educate Chinese men about how it is not Okay to buy woman from local human trafficker. They are treating women from other countries in the same way how we were treated by the European colonizers. This is what most men would do once he gets economically superior than other people. Maybe it's just biology, maybe it's about immorality, maybe it's human nature. I don't know.

    • @cherrytomato4430
      @cherrytomato4430 Před rokem

      p

    • @zerohours.
      @zerohours. Před rokem

      Not to mention all the Western men that use those countries for their crimes as well

    • @RedDragon-yq7ro
      @RedDragon-yq7ro Před rokem +4

      @@user-gb4oo2to4w sad to hear that

  • @Pixelasi
    @Pixelasi Před rokem +3

    She experienced this has meaning, she gained knowledge and know how sht humanity is

  • @meandtheithrees3898
    @meandtheithrees3898 Před rokem +6

    My whole heart for this woman and her family this world is cold as ice man

  • @karolinarios8914
    @karolinarios8914 Před rokem +12

    That's terrible 😥😞

  • @sctttrn
    @sctttrn Před rokem +5

    The Vietnamese government needs to do more to prevent human trafficking. Perhaps educate villagers to not follow random strangers anywhere.

  • @Stargazer207
    @Stargazer207 Před rokem +6

    Any updates on her friend TAN????

  • @jackmermigas9465
    @jackmermigas9465 Před 7 měsíci

    What an absolute warrior I can't even imagine what she went through having kids left at home.

  • @nerd26373
    @nerd26373 Před rokem +4

    Human trafficking victims are or were not silent, but as a matter of fact, they are or were being silenced. They may have attempted to report this type of crime to authorities, but they were unsuccessful. Human trafficking is a widespread issue all over the world. What’s more disturbing is that there may be a lack of initiative to actually prevent crimes like trafficking from ever reoccurring. I hope these victim(s) continue to fight for their own good. They deserve justice no matter at what cost.

  • @chemonather7459
    @chemonather7459 Před rokem +4

    It is happeing in Bangladesh also. Young chinese man will marry young girl, take her to him home in China, than same Story.

  • @T50N6
    @T50N6 Před rokem +51

    Go to Thailand, Vietnam and Laos, remote areas, small towns, small villages where Chinese workers also live nearby. Countless of stories of kidnapped daughters and sisters to go marry Chinese in China. The family will have to pay a ransom and broker to get the daughter back.

    • @sakurakou2009
      @sakurakou2009 Před rokem

      the fk is wrong with them , so those men have money to pay human traffickers for money but wouldn't go and just ask for the daughters hand in marriage like decent humans , this make me look at chinese men in different way , no wonder they get called left over men , disgusting

    • @Xhin229
      @Xhin229 Před rokem

      There are also reports like this in the Philippines. But rather than kidnapping "brides", they kidnap their fellow Chinese and ask the victim's family for ransom.
      If the families fail to give the requested amount of ransom, they will send pictures and videos of them torturing the victims.

    • @tratrann8051
      @tratrann8051 Před rokem

      Careful what you write u can get alot of folks hurt

    • @PureVikingPowers
      @PureVikingPowers Před rokem +5

      @@tratrann8051 Prostitution is a significant issue in China with the business contributing 8% to China’s GDP.
      Cybersex trafficking (“the recruitment and transportation of victims and their live-streamed rape, sexual abuse, and sexual exploitation by traffickers, some of whom are tortured to death”) is becoming more prevalent in China. Its victims are often girls as young as 9 years of age who are “forced to perform graphic sex acts and are sexually assaulted in front of webcams which are live-streamed to a paying audience.
      Xiang Xiang came to China three years ago to seek a decent life, only to find that her destination was a brothel in Dongxing. She has been working as a prostitute in Dongxing, since being trafficked and sold by her *older female cousin,* who is married to a Chinese man and living in the city.
      Xiang Xiang started considering a move to China after her cousin returned home to visit relatives, flaunting her own “affluent and easy” life in China in front of the then-17-year-old village girl.
      “She kept talking about her life - a life I had always dreamed of - and persuaded me to go with her. Her account sounded credible to me at the time, since she was dressed in Chinese top brands from head to foot and wore dazzling gold jewellery,” Xiang Xiang recalled.

    • @buildingdreams2279
      @buildingdreams2279 Před rokem

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  • @VegasElement
    @VegasElement Před rokem +13

    God Bless Ly san, what a beautiful & sweet soul. Damn the bastards that did this to her. I cannot stand when people take advantage of trusting & naive poor people. God please restore her!

  • @firstname__lastname
    @firstname__lastname Před rokem +8

    I don't understand how in some marriage customs all over Asia, it's "ok" to just kidnap girls (allot of the time when they're still in their teens) and it be totally ok and not considered kidnap or human trafficking!!

  • @Yo_Kelz
    @Yo_Kelz Před 8 měsíci +1

    Really tho, TRUST NO ONE. There's literally nothing a stranger can provide you that you can't provide yourself or that's not available on the internet. I'm so glad she made it home. Her smile in the end was everything.
    Prayers for the victims of human trafficking.

  • @fakeaccount4092
    @fakeaccount4092 Před rokem +5

    She a beast to still smile after it all!!!

  • @letmethinkaboutit8982
    @letmethinkaboutit8982 Před rokem +13

    It is terrible all the crap that humans do to others due to greed. There is a shortage of women in China due to their one child policy. So with the Chinese wanting their family names to be carried on, they wanted boys. And also, when men get married, they usually stay with their parents so when a woman marries, she leaves to her husbands home and in doing so leaves her own aging parents without family to care for them. It’s a sad harsh truth. But tragic nonetheless. I feel so bad for the victims since many aren’t so lucky to return home.

    • @jennybeanSMC
      @jennybeanSMC Před rokem

      It's stupid rules they made up to ensure that boys/men have more value than girls and women

    • @letmethinkaboutit8982
      @letmethinkaboutit8982 Před rokem

      @@jennybeanSMC actually, it was the government’s way to deal with population control, but their people decided they wanted to keep the boys. Because girls are not seen to be as valuable as boys. And now they are kidnapping and trafficking girls and women.

  • @pearlie_ette
    @pearlie_ette Před rokem +13

    My parents always told me not to trust any Chinese. I guess they were right

  • @buianh1257
    @buianh1257 Před rokem +4

    Trafficking in my country isn't as common as it used to be, but it's taking on a different form. is not human trafficking by kidnapping. It is a sad fact that in my country. Many young women in the countryside find a chance to change their lives by marrying Taiwanese and Korean men. I even know a youtube channel that deals with Vietnamese women, they market themselves to be chosen by Korean men.

  • @xwrtk
    @xwrtk Před rokem +1

    My uncle in law, before he died, worked as a border guard. The Mekong delta side of China/Vietnam. They’ve apprehended trafficked people and Chinese people trying to traffic Vietnamese people. The majority of them only know some form of Chinese, so no Vietnamese or English. Women were given harsh orders in a language they didn’t know. When the majority of the world was on Covid lockdown, Chinese people still came into Vietnam to participate in human trafficking. It’s hard to communicate to these traffickers, as his sector only speaks English and Vietnamese.

  • @m.tine2246
    @m.tine2246 Před rokem +2

    It sickens me to the core to hear her story. Horrible horrible ppl out there. May they get the karma that they deserve. Such a brave soul she is! So sad for her but I'm so glad she made it back home. wat happened to her friend tan?

  • @FriedChocobo
    @FriedChocobo Před rokem +3

    What about her friend?

  • @Nonyah123
    @Nonyah123 Před rokem +2

    I want her story in a book

  • @FransceneJK98
    @FransceneJK98 Před rokem

    Damn she went through such traumatic experiences and yet she talks about it like she was telling us what she made for dinner last night. Crazy. The resilience in people.

  • @moira4784
    @moira4784 Před rokem +7

    I hope her friend Tan also made it out and is living a healthy life with loved ones.

  • @TigerUppercut.00
    @TigerUppercut.00 Před rokem +2

    I want to know if her friend ever made it back, too..

  • @BryanJL
    @BryanJL Před rokem +4

    wow crazy story this woman went through so much. I can't believe slavery is still a thing nowadays. Disgusting

  • @henrytep8884
    @henrytep8884 Před rokem +2

    Didn’t know learning about growing pineapples could be such a dangerous life path. Glad she was able to make it back home.

  • @CoconutIsle
    @CoconutIsle Před rokem

    God bless her❤

  • @BladeMasterz916
    @BladeMasterz916 Před rokem +11

    This is a huge problem. Glad somebody is shining the light on it. The shortage of women in china has resorted to this in order for men to find brides in china. Luckily most people are sincere and just looking for a bride not a slave.

    • @jeanneann3545
      @jeanneann3545 Před rokem +6

      so its women fault again as if we can control that? 'luckily they are sincere and just want a bride?'
      try get kidnapped from your family against your will and sold as sx service and a maid to random man that have no qualms to do these kind of thing.

    • @PokeTwilight
      @PokeTwilight Před rokem +4

      @@jeanneann3545 ?? What you're saying isn't even related to what Doomsday is saying. If you want to project your misandrist views, at least make your own comment instead of hijacking an unrelated comment and expressing your views and then use "women's fault" when the original commenter didn't even mention anything about blaming women.

  • @suimanlau
    @suimanlau Před rokem +3

    Did they find out what happened to Tan ?

  • @arronsong3913
    @arronsong3913 Před rokem +2

    Many minority women such as Miao, Yao, ..etc in Vietnam and Laos were kidnapped or tricked and sold to China hoping for a better life and some are lucky to make it back alive and told their stories to the villagers but others got beaten to death or killed.

  • @alghazalimy
    @alghazalimy Před rokem +7

    Money makes people losing their humanity. She's a strong woman.

  • @angel1895
    @angel1895 Před rokem +7

    I'm curious about her friend... What happened to her?

    • @heroes8844
      @heroes8844 Před rokem +1

      My guess somewhere in china still. From what happened to her where she got locked up even after all that really stomp down any idea of real help. Eveb from people in china who know she got trafficked

  • @SADISION41
    @SADISION41 Před rokem +8

    Its really a scary world huh

  • @overprice7802
    @overprice7802 Před rokem +7

    chinese population 1.402 billion
    and you can't find 1 girl to marry in your own country?

  • @Evangelion543
    @Evangelion543 Před rokem +6

    Doesn't Kazakstan does a similar thing, except it's daylight bride kidnapping?

    • @tonkinthehanoian1843
      @tonkinthehanoian1843 Před rokem +2

      It's an old tradition in a lot of cultures including Mong people but human trafficking is a certified crime.

  • @yingzhao8505
    @yingzhao8505 Před 3 měsíci

    As a Chinese and grown up in China now living in us I agree it’s happening almost every day (actually every day) here it’s a big problem and the annoying thing is that government won’t just do anything about it.

  • @niamtxiv
    @niamtxiv Před rokem

    Glad she made home.

  • @Rezilium
    @Rezilium Před rokem

    What an amazing woman

  • @andrewstankhais8244
    @andrewstankhais8244 Před rokem +1

    What happen to her cousin ?

  • @najatulshima1540
    @najatulshima1540 Před rokem +12

    All race are equal to each other, no one superior than other race, only God is superior. Marriage is cannot be a 'transaction' like buy or selling. If the woman who will get married, do not agree with the marriage, the marriage are not permissible. It is prohibited to force that women to marry in that kind of situation. The marriage also will not be acknowledged as a 'MARRIAGE'.
    This kind of things is not human's nature. But, devil's that wearing human mask nature.
    The people who take advantage of women are not human. That's for sure.

  • @millbean13
    @millbean13 Před rokem +1

    Why Am I not surprised this happened in China

  • @auv461
    @auv461 Před rokem +5

    What happened to Tan?

    • @tainanking
      @tainanking Před rokem +5

      I assume that she may still be somewhere in China… I mean it’s gonna be fairly hard to help someone once they get split up like that. She got lucky to escape.

  • @hafizhaminullah6172
    @hafizhaminullah6172 Před rokem +2

    The one child policy backfiring China really hard. Affected by such policy, most families in China prioritize male over female babies, cuz they thought man will have more opportunities to get job and take care of them in their old days. Then obviously male to female ratio became imbalanced and had to take drastic measures, and that is "import" women from outside China. There are actually many legal ones college or work related relationships or something like that, and some barely legal that close to this video's tragedy through a matcmaking agent.

  • @user-hv7nv5rc6c
    @user-hv7nv5rc6c Před rokem

    Good to see her having escaped and living happpily now. Human trafficking has always been a serious problem across and within the Chinese border for various reasons such as forced marriage, organ harvesting and child abduction.

  • @poornaharjani7962
    @poornaharjani7962 Před rokem

    This is one of the saddest things I’ve ever watched

  • @sozbdulrhmanli3300
    @sozbdulrhmanli3300 Před rokem

    what about her friend tan

  • @harriet2114
    @harriet2114 Před rokem +2

    I wonder if the friend was able to escape

    • @MAADAMIAN
      @MAADAMIAN Před rokem +2

      @Azur ii you're messed up brother

  • @navenrim9621
    @navenrim9621 Před rokem +1

    Very appropriate her

  • @kangkinkang
    @kangkinkang Před rokem +5

    I'm a Chinese myself & have little respect for the Chinese

    • @kangkinkang
      @kangkinkang Před rokem

      @Azur ii what're u saying man? For a Chinese, I don't understand Mandarin

  • @pitherra
    @pitherra Před 3 měsíci

    It's happening right now to my Hmong people in Laos, other minority tribes and poor villages. 😢

  • @TheDudee
    @TheDudee Před rokem

    I wonder with whom is she chatting with on Wechat

  • @chunkygoodness
    @chunkygoodness Před rokem +3

    Eyy serpentza talked about this year's ago, shit terrible

  • @marsdoria189
    @marsdoria189 Před rokem +1

    It's absolutely disgusting what the Chinese government is doing to the Vietnamese people.

  • @cindy_le1106
    @cindy_le1106 Před rokem

    It's been happening for a long time :/

  • @heroes8844
    @heroes8844 Před rokem +1

    What happen to the guy who bought her??? Are u telling me he is free and kicking?

  • @Diana-iq3lu
    @Diana-iq3lu Před rokem

    😱😭😭😭

  • @trang-thihanguyen6827
    @trang-thihanguyen6827 Před rokem +5

    She ends with words about the lesson she learnt, smiled a little, and the guy (probably someone in the ekip) jumped in commenting "chuẩn" as a Viet man (Việt is the majority of Vietnamese population) and laughed. Honestly, I found that guy's attitude really apathetic and arrogant.

  • @TheRexLuc
    @TheRexLuc Před rokem +13

    Is it hard to find women in China?

    • @markmcdonald6039
      @markmcdonald6039 Před rokem +1

      It’s because of the backwards CCP’s one child policy there wasn’t enough women for every man for many decades. Even though recently they changed it now to 3 children they are still a lot of men without wives for a large percentage of the populace.

    • @deanxzayn1408
      @deanxzayn1408 Před rokem +17

      Yes the ratio of men to women is very high. There’s so many documentaries about unmarried men in china

    • @KirillyCosmicSpacePriestess
      @KirillyCosmicSpacePriestess Před rokem +10

      They had a one child policy for many years. Most families practiced a form of 'selective breeding' so that they only had sons.

    • @rafaeldecember6527
      @rafaeldecember6527 Před rokem +3

      @@KirillyCosmicSpacePriestess but one child policy now already abolish by chinese gov

    • @user-gb4oo2to4w
      @user-gb4oo2to4w Před rokem +15

      @@rafaeldecember6527 It was abolished less than ten years ago. The men that are seeking to get married right now are born in the 90s

  • @sakurakou2009
    @sakurakou2009 Před rokem +7

    how does the children feel knowing their dad kidnaped their mom 💀

    • @tonkinthehanoian1843
      @tonkinthehanoian1843 Před rokem +1

      They probably didn't even know the rights and wrongs with a family background like that.

    • @vivt6421
      @vivt6421 Před rokem +1

      Don't think she had any kids with the Chinese man

  • @user-yt6id6sj1h
    @user-yt6id6sj1h Před 2 měsíci

    Thật đáng sợ
    Mình ở Lạng Sơn, may mà không bị bắt cóc

  • @yuliazni3389
    @yuliazni3389 Před rokem

    I hope her and the buffalos healthy , so it can support her family

  • @amberstale2628
    @amberstale2628 Před rokem +21

    This world is getting darker and darker.

    • @jokuvaan5175
      @jokuvaan5175 Před rokem

      This has been happening for long. Nowadays the internet and ever interconnecting world just makes it super easy to get information and news about bad things from all around the World

    • @traaotuong6107
      @traaotuong6107 Před rokem +5

      The world has always been like that.